
As part of my current project of digging into the source texts of Hollywood Pre-Code movies of the early 1930s, I spent much of February exploring the rabbit-hole of the brief-lived phenomenon of books inspired by (or simply exploiting) the success and notoriety of Ursula Parrott’s 1929 novel, Ex-Wife. Recently reissued by Faber (UK) and McNally (US) and featured in the title of Marsha Gordon’s biography of Parrott, Becoming the Ex-Wife, Ex-Wife is no longer a neglected book. But what most readers don’t know — even Gordon mentions it only in passing — is the extent to which Ex-Wife led to a whole series of Ex-titled books, most of them drawing upon or taking off from Parrott’s book.
To set this overview in context, I have to take say a little bit about Parrott and her bestseller.
- • Ex-Wife, by Ursula Parrott
New York: Jonathan Cape & Harrison Smith, 1929 - When Ex-Wife first appeared, it was considered such a volatile mixture of sex, drink, and changing morals that its publishers kept its author’s name off the first five printings and initially marketed it as nonfiction. Even after Ursula Parrott, then a prolific writer of magazine short stories, was credited on the dust jacket, it was claimed to be her autobiography. By then, it had been declared unfit for circulation by the venerable Watch and Ward Society of Parrott’s hometown of Boston — which only speeded up the rate at which copies flew out of bookstores.
“My husband left me four years ago,” declares Pat, the narrator. “Why — I don’t precisely understand, and never did. Nor, I suspect, does he.” Though divorce was still considered something of a social embarrassment (I had a distant cousin who never told her husband of 60 years that her parents had divorced in 1915), what was most shocking to readers was this blasé attitude of the two parties involved. Decades before the term “open marriage” was coined, the practice of flexible fidelity had become so prevalent, or perceived to be, that publishers and Hollywood studios felt obliged to both cover and condemn it. (See Party Husband (book and movie) or Illicit (movie).)
Ex-Wife shows that flexible fidelity required a far more flexibility than many Americans were capable of. Pat and Peter marry, spend time in Europe, maintain busy work and social lives, and everything seems grand for a time. Well, aside from Pat’s pregnancy: “No baby, at least no baby for years and years,” Peter cautions her. “You are too young and nice-looking, and I don’t want you to be hurt.” Meaning he doesn’t want to have a wife who’s less than ideal arm candy. Or the financial and emotional responsibility for two other lives. When Peter has a casual affair, he expects Pats to take it, well, casually. When Pat responds in kind, though, Peter recoils: “I always thought you were the cleanest person in the world.” Open marriage quickly turns into open conflict. “I’ll teach you to go through my pockets for money or anything, you bitch,” says Peter, and strikes Pat across the mouth. Yet neither admits to feelings of jealousy because jealousy “was too outrageously old-fashioned.”
Although not strictly autobiographical, Ex-Wife has numerous parallels with Ursula Parrott’s own story and her first marriage to reporter Lindesay Parrott. Both Parrott and Pat cheated and were cheated on, lubricated their lives with too much Prohibition alcohol, enjoyed the financial independence of working, and resented the uneven distribution of practical and emotional responsibilities between wife and man. Pat echoes a sentiment frequently voiced by Parrott: “Freedom for women turned out to be God’s greatest gift to men.”
Though Pat soon adapts to life after marriage (her diary fills with entries like, “Dinner — Richard”; “C. L. C. — the Ritz — 7:15”; “Dominic — to dine at the Cecelia”), she never quite settles into the role of the gay divorcée. Indeed, Ex-Wife is as much an artifact of 17th century Boston Puritanism as of the Roaring Twenties. Adultery was then still the most common basis for divorce and though Pat doesn’t have to wear a red “A”, she still carries around a label of ostracism: “You’re an ex-wife,” her friend Lucia tells her, “because it is the most important thing to know about you … explains everything else, that you once were married to a man who left you.”
As Parrott portrays it, life as an ex-wife is less carefree than nihilistic. “While I was married,” Pat writes, “I saved money and made plans for the next fifty years and so on. Afterward, I did not make plans for the month after next. It seemed such a waste of time.” After years of socializing, brief affairs, and a cast of a thousand escorts, Pat surrenders her freedom for the security of marriage to Nathaniel, a dullish but reliable man who celebrates her “obvious wholesomeness.” It’s not a case so much of living happily ever after as living comfortably ever after. Pat has had her flings and Nathaniel is clearly too unimaginative to even contemplate one.
- • Ex-Husband, by Anonymous
New York: The Macaulay Company, 1929 - The first to follow was Ex-Husband, published anonymously but attributed in rumors to various authors, including Parrott’s real ex-husband and the poet and critic Joseph Auslander. Of all the Ex-titled books, it was not only the most clearly imitative of Parrott’s book but also by far the best. Although certainly written in haste, it operates at a level of originality far above that of mere parody.
“My wife left me four years ago, maybe five,” relates the narrator, Wilfred Mallard. Time is not the only thing Wilfred is a little vague on. Indeed, Wilfred often reminded me of another great comic autobiographer, Augustus Carp. Like Carp, he thinks so highly of himself that everyone else in his world is merely a passing shadow. Wilfred feels he has made not only the supreme but also the most logical sacrifice in allowing his able wife Roberta, to go out and work while he remains at home. He’s happy to be the weaker sex in their relationship:
I wanted to subordinate my life to hers, to devote myself utterly to her service, to be the one who would cry, “Upidee, Upida,” as she struggled up the hilly path, and “Excelsior!” as she reached the top.
Not that this means he takes on any domestic duties, unless these include showering frequently. Wilfred takes a lot of showers in this book, each followed by long sessions of admiring his “smooth bronzed skin, like a Greek god, long eyelashes, supple shapely calves, and silky hair” in front of a mirror. So consumed with himself is Wilfred that he struggles to comprehend when Roberta stands at the door, suitcases packed, ready to leave for the last time:
“Good-by and good luck!”
She could not possibly mean it. She must be joking.
“Don’t joke about that, Roberta dear,” I said. “It hurts me too much even to think about it. Will you be home early?”Like Parrott’s Pat, Wilfred finds refuge with a sympathetic friend. Ivan, however, wants to extend him more than just sympathy. Ivan comes in while Wilfred is bathing: “O, but I haven’t scrubbed your back yet.” Wilfred declines his offer (“I hate having my body touched unless by a woman, who touches it in holy passion,” he confides to the reader). Ivan is crushed. “He looked hurt, as though I had struck him with a whip.”
Having a narcissist as narrator gives the author of Ex-Husband the opportunity to play on some of Parrott’s worst tendencies. Pat in Ex-Wife is constantly giving the reader a fashion show:
The dress slipped on. Black marocain with a deep white collar and exaggerated cuffs, cut petalwise. Black satin opera pumps… I did not like satin shoes much, but these made my feet look so narrow. An almost brimless black milan hat, with a gold arrow embroidered athwart the front. Pearls — no, the flat gold necklace.
Wilfred is a peacock of the highest order:
I had dressed with especial care that morning. Suede shoes were topped with soft velvety mouse-colored spats covering pin striped silk socks in black and white like the shimmer of cobwebs against a dark sky. At the last minute I had decided against my soft, light gray suit vest, and had worn a silk brocade instead. Soft gray shirt, tie to match. Gray Borsolino hat. Gray gloves. I love grays. I looked in the long cheval glass and decided that I was not offensive, not offensive at all.
Like Parrott, Ex-Husband’s author plays “artfully” with music. Parrott has a chapter in which Pat’s thoughts are interwoven with lines from Gershwin’s “Rhapsody in Blue.” Wilfred and a friend debate the meaning of life while listening to the strains of “Andante Strenuosa” by that Viennese master, Meiselmenig. Where Parrott very occasionally drops a name, Wilfred spews them out:
We mingled with them informally. William Seabrook, red-faced and thumb-ringed; Theodore Dreiser, the American tragedy; George Jean Nathan, a choir boy at a prize fight; Joseph Auslander, Adolphe Menjou talking with Edgar Allan Poe on Fifth Avenue; … Rebecca West, looking Spanish, spoiled, and spent; Horace Liveright, a cut-steel shoe buckle; Edna Millay, looking as though she had lost a buck in the snow ; Ursula Parrott, the little girl reporter of the dementia Peacox case1…
1 Parrott reported on the June 1929 murder trial of Earl Peacox for the New York Evening Journal.
This goes on for another page and a half, and it’s just one of several name-dropping orgies.
As entertainment, Ex-Husband edges out Ex-Wife in my book. While Parrott’s book is undoubtedly an accurate representation of the quandary of women trying to balance the pulls of career, marriage, societal expectations, and (let’s face it) enjoying themselves, Pat (and Parrott herself) always seems haunted by the specter of Puritanical judgments. Wilfred, on the other hand, is too blissfully oblivious to worry about anything but finding another woman to take care of him. Which he does, in Harriet, who has the decided advantage over Roberta of being independently wealth and hence capable of supporting him without the distraction of a career. It certainly seems a happier match than that of Pat and Nathaniel, which Parrott never quite portrays as anything more than a compromise.
- • Ex-Mistress, by Anonymous (Dora Macy)
New York: Brentano’s, 1930 - With Ex-Mistress, the direct influence of Parrott’s book begins quickly to fade. The shadow of The Scarlet Letter, on the other hand, falls starkly across this novel’s opening chapter. “I am not a bad woman. I am not a prostitute,” she announces at the start. Dora Macy (one of the mysteries of this book is the author’s decision to name her narrator after one of her pseudonyms) is a virginal sixteen-year-old in a small Southern town seduced by the handsome son of the town’s banker. Things go too far on a Sunday picnic. Dora finds herself with child; the banker’s son and her family reject her, so she hops a train to New York.
Dora proves a proficient survivor. She gets a job, finds a trustworthy friend and guide to the ways of the big city, and even manages to gain admission to a benign home for unwed mothers when her time comes. Giving up the child for adoption, she emerges with a single overriding goal: security. Security, that is, within the constraint that her history makes her unfit for marriage in the eyes of “decent people.” So she has to rely on the one commodity of value on the market: “My body belonged to myself…. It was mine — the only thing I had. The only thing in the world that belonged to me.”
Dora pursues two paths to security. While slowly ascending the career ladder through retail jobs from shopgirl to manager to shop owner and eventually, a chain of cosmetics salons, she acquires a sequence of sugar daddies. Restaurant dinners, clothes, and occasional items of jewelry at first, then an apartment, and finally, a penthouse complete with grand piano and gym. A Chinese businessman is followed by an author, a doctor, and a banker. Abortion as birth control is dealt with casually. Dora’s friend Marion, a Broadway star, has one done after a show on Saturday night and is back and dancing in the spotlight on Monday.
As an author, Dora Macy is more craftswoman than artist. Her prose carries the story along in coach class and most of her characters are equally functional. Occasionally, though, an observation slips out that suggests far closer study of people. A sister who counsels her after she gives up her child has a mind “like a room that never had the windows opened.” A landlady is “The kind of a woman who put on her glasses to answer the phone.”
And she understands well the skills required to attract and keep a man interested in maintaining a long-term mistress. On a first evening out, Dora wears:
White satin (which is always good for a first impression), and a huge white ostrich fan. But not a single piece of jewelry. Never wear jewelry when you first consider a new love; it leaves him nothing to adorn. Later, of course, you wear his jewelry, and nothing else but.
A mistress has to manage a delicate and ever-evolving balance between tantalizing and satisfying the man keeping her. He has no legal constraint preventing him from abandoning his mistress and at most the risk of of blackmail if he does. Men, Dora decides, need three women: a mother, a wife, and a mistress, and the successful mistress must juggle all three roles over the course of a relationship. When her sugariest daddy, a banker, dies and she considers her situation at the age of 37, however, Dora opts for marriage to Earl, a middle-aged bachelor with deep pockets and a shallow mind: “He took an enormously long time to say anything, and when it was said it really didn’t amount to much.”
Dora Macy was the pen name of Grace Perkins, a one-time Broadway actress who married the writer and editor Fulton Oursler in 1925 and became a successful writer herself. Ex-Mistress was her third novel, and like Parrott’s, it was picked up by by Hollywood (Warner Brothers) and made into My Past (1931), starring Bebe Daniels. Both the novel and the movie were followed in short order: Macy’s Night Nurse, which drew upon dozens of interviews with registered nurses in New York, was also filmed by Warner Brothers, retaining the book’s title. Night Nurse is considered a classic Pre-Code film, with a stellar performance by Barbara Stanwyck and unveiled references to adultery, child abuse, bootlegging, kidnapping, and drug addiction.
- • Ex-“It”, by Anonymous (Edward Dean Sullivan)
New York: Grosset and Dunlap, 1930 - One assumes that Grosset and Dunlap approached Edward Dean Sullivan (or vice-versa) about whipping out a quick parody of Ex-Wife. Instead of going the route of Ex-Husband, though, he reached way back to 1927 and another then-hot commodity, It, which made both author Elinor Glyn and star of the film adaptation, “It” (with quotation marks), Clara Bow, household names.
Ex-“It” is the somewhat amusing autobiography of Fanny Hill, a girl who “works” (wink-wink, nudge-nudge) her way up to wealth and fame. At the time Ex-“It” was published, John Cleland’s Fanny Hill was very much considered obscene and unsaleable over the counter any place in America, so it’s doubtful that many readers saw the parallels between Cleland’s character and Sullivan’s.
Somewhat amusing in part because, like most published jokes, it goes on too long, but mostly because of the howling sexism: “At four years of age I could say ‘Pees dimmy dat,’ which is all any gal with good teeth and a shape need say up to thirty.” On the other hand, there are a few apt observations. I’m sure we’ve all encountered a little dog that’s “just a nervous breakdown with a leg at each corner.” Overall, though, file this one under “Forgettable.”
- • Ex-Judge, by Anonymous
New York: Brentano’s, 1930 - Ex-Judge has no relationship with Ex-Wife aside from its title. Unlike the rest of Ex-Wife’s ilk, it’s a third-person narrative and clearly a novel submitted to Brentano’s with a different title. In the context of the Seabury investigations of New York City police and judicial corruption, Ex-Judge is an overlooked artifact, a fictionalized account (Tammany Hall becomes Tammanela) of a mediocre political machine functionary elevated to the bench with the task of acquitting friends and convicting enemies. It does give an convincing insider’s view of how the gears of Tammany’s machine fit together, but as a novel, it’s a bit too much like a building that’s never had its scaffolding removed.
- • Ex-Racketeer, by Anonymous
New York: Rudolph Field, 1930 - Ex-Racketeer is a gangster’s soliloquy of just 83 pages, an express journey through American organized crime from 1918 to 1930. Eugene Caxton is a mob soldier hiding out from Turk, a boss he’s ripped off. While counting time, he picks up the pen and courtesy paper in his hotel room’s desk and begins to write a memoir.
Like James Cagney’s character, Tom Powers, in The Public Enemy, Eugene gets started doing petty jobs as a teenager and works his way up through the ranks. With the start of Prohibition, his mob adds bootlegging to its existing menu of “Narcotics, White Slavery, Robbery, and Strike-Breaking,” and Eugene offers his opinion of the risks and benefits of each. He regrets, though, that Hollywood has “spoiled” most mobsters: “Made them too self-conscious… They all try to live like the subject of a Ben Hecht scenario.” And he offers a prediction we sadly can see being realized in America today: “What this nation needs is not a good five cent cigar, but a definite, exclusive, authoritative, and formally acknowledged aristocracy … we’ll come to it yet.”
Not to spoil the plot, such as it is, but it should be no surprise that things do not end well for Eugene.
- • Ex-Baby, by Anonymous (Aben Kandel)
New York: Covici-Friede, 1930 - Anyone who paid good money for a copy of Ex-Baby (as I did) got robbed. Just 55 pages long with 18-plus point type, it’s an average humor column packaged like a novella. And the joke is paper-thin. This is the narrative of a four-year-old boy (an ex-baby, get it?) with the voice and sensibility of a twenty-something wiseguy: “On a good night, I’d have pa, ma, grandma, Uncle Timiny, the neighbor, the maid, and maybe a cousin or two all doing little tricks to get me to eat my spinach. Gee, it was great.” Ha-ha, hee-hee.
- • Ex-Book, by William Henry Hanemann
New York: Farrar & Rinehart, 1930 - Ex-Book is the slightest of the lot, just 14 pages, really just a brochure included with copies of Hanemann’s The Facts of Life, a collection of comic pieces also published by Farrar & Rinehart. On the other hand, its one joke is carried off far better than Ex-Baby’s. “I am lying, face down, in a strange wire basket,” the narrator relates. It’s a manuscript, dropped off with an editor by its author. “I’m sick and tired of you,” declares the author. “I know every comma, every paragraph, every turn and twist and clever phase … and God, Cookie, how you bore me.” An amusing slalom though the publication process.

It’s hard to imagine anyone getting much of an illicit thrill from reading Ex-Wife, but it was, if briefly, considered the hottest book one could buy over the counter. Ex-Wife was scooped up by MGM and filmed with MGM executive Irving Thalberg’s wife, Norma Shearer, in the lead. Though it won Shearer a Best Actress Oscar, The Divorcee resembles Ex-Wife only in the sense that the shards on the floor resemble a vase before it was knocked off a table. We’re 57 minutes into an 84-minute film before Jerry (Pat) tells Ted (Peter) about her infidelity. And unlike Ex-Wife, the two remarry and live happily ever after.
The success of book and film led to a predictable response from publishers: “Can we have another one like it?” Parrott herself quickly spun off Strangers May Kiss (1930), another story about years of a sophisticated and loose relationship that culminates in traditional marriage. It, too, was instantly transformed into a vehicle for Norma Shearer (under the same title and with slightly more fidelity to the original). But in New York, the call for “More!” rang out and was soon answered.







Though Ursula Parrott cranked out 18 more books before her life and career crashed and burned in the mid-1940s, none of them inspired a wave of imitators like Ex-Wife’s. I highly recommend anyone interested in Parrott’s rackety life read Marsha Gordon’s biography.