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Philip Larkin: Letters to Monica Paperback – 1 Sept. 2011
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Philip Larkin met Monica Jones at University College Leicester in autumn 1946, when they were both twenty-four; he was the newly-appointed assistant librarian and she was an English lecturer. In 1950 Larkin moved to Belfast, and thence to Hull, while Monica remained in Leicester, becoming by turns his correspondent, lover and closest confidante, in a relationship which lasted over forty years until the poet's death in 1985.
This remarkable unpublished correspondence only came to light after Monica Jones's death in 2001, and consists of nearly two thousand letters, postcards and telegrams, which chronicle - day by day, sometimes hour by hour - every aspect of Larkin's life and the convolutions of their relationship.
- Print length496 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherFaber & Faber
- Publication date1 Sept. 2011
- Dimensions15.24 x 3.61 x 23.37 cm
- ISBN-100571239102
- ISBN-13978-0571239108
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'Not only are they funny, sad and true; they are also charmingly replete with 1950s detail, evoking a world of curry-powder concoctions, rasping gas fires, and long but civilised train journeys.' --Observer
'To lovers of the poetry, this selection of correspondence that lasted forty years is completely fascinating - not just for the inadvertent light it shines on the poetry but also for the elucidation of Larkin's own taste and his opinion of his own work and worth. The length and intimate nature of Larkin's relationship with Monica Jones gives the letters and the opinions they express a compelling authenticity and almost vunerable honesty.' --William Boyd, TLS
'His low-key but oddly forceful personality is one of the things that comes out most vividly in the work - the letters are part of the poetry in that sense - and is a sort of poetic statement in itself.' --Derek Mahon, Literary Review
'These are the most intimate letters of a major poet ... Throughout, you can see the poems coming, poems you know by heart.' -- David Sexton, Evening Standard
'Philip Larkin is the best-loved poet of the last 100 years, and these irresistibly readable letters reveal the life and personality more intimately than ever before . . . He is constantly and inventively funny, concocting parodies and spoofs with loving care . . . the total effect is exhilarating. You feel sorry when you turn the last page. He said of Mansfield's journal that it made readers "more sensitive, more receptive, happier than before". These letters do the same.' --John Carey, Sunday Times
'As an editor, Thwaite treads softly. His unobtrusive cuts give a shape to the letters, bringing Larkin's clear-eyed observations of love, work and his surroundings to the fore. Fans will find the drafts of his poems particularly thrilling.' --Emma Hughes, Country Life
'Larkin's letters are affectionate, flirting, playful, even whimsical. There is something of Mass Observation about them - reflections on life, literature, domestic chores and personal feelings . . . one warms to the pair in their decent (if distanced) domesticity.' --Iain Finlayson, The Times
'Not only are they funny, sad and true; they are also charmingly replete with 1950s detail, evoking a world of curry-powder concoctions, rasping gas fires, and long but civilised train journeys.' --Rachel Cooke, Observer Books of the Year
'Unfailingly exhilarating.' --The Times
'Irresistibly readable ... exhilarating, and you feel sorry when you turn the last page.' --Sunday Times 'Our Choice'
'This superbly edited selection opens a fascinating window into the mind and spirit of Larkin ... I'd defy anyone to read this and not be impressed by his honesty, judgement and emotional intelligence.' --Mail on Sunday
'Peppered with wry humour and biting critiques, these letters are as much a social and cultural history as a reflection of his tenderness towards [Jones] ... exceptional.' --Irish Times
'I don't ordinarily like reading people's letters. Usually, too many punches get knowingly, smirkingly pulled. Larkin, of course, is different: hilarious, pathetic, niggardly, mischievous, baiting, amusingly domestic, insincere, placating and occasionally loving, and brilliant, incisive and true; he's us, in our best and worst selves written better than we could write it. Why else would a critic argue that he's the 'best-loved poet of the past 100 years'? In these letters, no less than in his poems, he stands rather nakedly before us only this time with a damp dish towel over his wrist, the room gone a bit too cold, thinking about listening to the radio from bed.' --Richard Ford, Guardian Books of the Year
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Philip Larkin, poet, novelist and librarian, was born in Coventry in 1922. He published four volumes of poetry - The North Ship (1945), The Less Deceived (1955), The Whitsun Weddings (1964) and High Windows (1974) - for which he received innumerable honours including the Queen's Gold Medal for Poetry and the WH Smith Award. He also wrote two novels, Jill (1946) and A Girl in Winter (1947), and his journalism is collected in two volumes, All What Jazz: A Record Diary and Required Writing: Miscellaneous Prose. He worked as librarian at the University of Hull from 1955 until his death in 1985.
In 2003, he was chosen as Britain's best-loved poet of the previous fifty years by the Poetry Book Society; in 2008, The Times named him Britain's greatest post-war writer; and in 2016, a memorial stone in his name was unveiled in Poets' Corner in Westminster Abbey.
As one of Philip Larkin's chosen literary executors, Anthony Thwaite edited the Collected Poems, Selected Letters and Further Requirements. His own Collected Poems, drawing on fifty years work, was published in 2007.
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- Publisher : Faber & Faber; Main edition (1 Sept. 2011)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 496 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0571239102
- ISBN-13 : 978-0571239108
- Dimensions : 15.24 x 3.61 x 23.37 cm
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Customers find the book compelling from start to finish. They find the insights into Larkin's everyday world fascinating and mind-changing. Readers appreciate the poetry, describing it as detached and entertaining. The gentle humor is also appreciated.
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Customers find the book compelling and engaging from start to finish. They appreciate the insightful and humorous writing style that provides a glimpse into Larkin's everyday life. The collection is described as a valuable resource for studying Larkin and a lovely read overall.
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"...I found it incredibly poignant. Overall, a lovely, funny book, a satisfying completion of our picture of Larkin...." Read more
"Fascinating insight into the private life of a public poet and an appropriate gift for my wife Monica." Read more
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Customers enjoy the poetry in the book. They find the poems entertaining and well-written, with brilliant turns of phrase and emotional depth. The letters are touching and humorous, though some self-obsessed aspects are mentioned.
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- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 7 July 2013... are just some comments I can make about this. This is the domestic Larkin, sitting with a G & T, record player or "wireless" on, writing to his long-term, and often long-suffering, friend, girlfriend, lover, partner... I don't know what the correct term is for Monica, and I'm not sure she knew either! Larkin was a wonderful letter-writer, and, as the "Seleceted Letters" demonstrated, had a different voice for different listeners (compare his letters to Barbara Pym with those to Kingsley Amis, or notoriously, Colin Gunner) but here we get, if not THE Larkin, the biggest part of Larkin.
We also get an insight into the writing of, or gestation of, some of his poems, including An Arundel Tomb, This Be The Verse, and The Card Players, as well as comments on other poets. A goldmine for Larkin studies, and a jolly good read.
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 12 February 2012These letters apparently came to light after the Selected Letters were published. Taken along with the latter, and the Andrew Motion biography, this makes for a rounded picture of Larkin.
Larkin was a chameleon in correspondence, in that he adapted the style and subject matter of his letters to the addressee. compare the letters to Kingsley Amis, for instance, to those to Barbara Pym - one laddish and irascible (like Amis), the other old-maidish (prim like Pym). In contrast, those to Monica Jones, his long-term partner, are intimate and affectionate, and seem, to me at least, to be the closest to the 'real' Larkin.
He must have been an infuriating person. What struck me is the self-absorption of his letters - endless trivial detail of the food he eats, the records he listens to, the books he reads, his groans of despair at having to work, his gripes over money, his constant feeling of being put-upon by the presence of others (which to Larkin amounts to theft of his time and energy), and, most of all, the horror of other peoples' noise. Very rarely does he refer to anything of Monica's life.
But despite all that, you can understand why women found him attractive. He's emotionally sensitive, expressive and funny. He is also affectionate, albeit in a slightly distant way. He refers to Jones throughout as a rabbit ('Dearest Bun') which paradoxically also seems a way of distancing her from him.
There is a lot of intentional humour here, which also emerges in some of the poems, but there's a lot that's unintentionally comic, too. Larkin's resentment of others is particularly funny. He grinds his teeth with fury at the unfairness of having to work; he is appalled and disgusted by his fellow-lodgers; their radios drive him mad (while ironically his letters are also full of the radio programmes he he inflicts on them - cricket, jazz, Handel, The Archers); his mother and sister seem to be a grave disappointment to him. 'Selfish' doesn't begin to cover this. Larkin also struggles to keep Jones at arm's length; he constantly apologises for not being ready or willing to marry. He also apologises several times for his sexual apathy towards her. So Larkin was no bedroom beast then; but he used the distance he kept between himself and Jones to provide him with the freedom to work his way steadily through the female staff at Belfast and Hull.
But this selfishness was the price to pay for his brilliant, detached poetry. One of the joys of this book is to see some of the best known poems emerge. We see him wrestling with early drafts, with appeals to Jones for advice and support. This is a fascinating part of the book.
One nice thing about the paperback is the photograph on the cover, of Larkin and Jones on holiday in Sark in 1960. They face each other, about 10 yards apart, Larkin standing, Jones sitting. It's one of the happiest times of their lives, on a sunny, breezy day. This photo holds these two now-deceased people like a heaven. I found it incredibly poignant.
Overall, a lovely, funny book, a satisfying completion of our picture of Larkin. You have to warm to anyone who, while discussing the Archers, expresses a desire to drive a tractor over Walter Gabriel's face. Highly recommended for fans, but I do think that even non-fans would be charmed by it.
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 9 April 2021Fascinating insight into the private life of a public poet and an appropriate gift for my wife Monica.
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 5 August 2017I'm not a poetry ready, I knew who Larkin was but nothing of his life and happened to hear the Hugh Bonneville audio reading of this enchanting book and was hooked. The gentle humour, the day to day, really a lovely read.
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 17 April 2020There's no harm at all in buying this if reasonably priced (my copy was 50 pence), but I'd put it on the shelf until I'd absorbed the other collection of letters then at least tried Motion's biography. You'll at least have some inkling of what's going on, what's passing between them, and just how horrible Larkin often sounds. You'll also - perhaps more importantly - know what MJ looked like (attractive if somewhat intense). She appears to have been - at least in the early days - more solidly right wing than old Phil (who was still taking the 'Observer' in the mid-50s; was she, I wonder?) Old Kingsley doesn't come out of this too well - but then old Kingsley doesn't come too well out of anything, by cracky, does he? I'm not sure that PL really liked him.
Perhaps be good to add Barbara Pym's letters and diaries to the Thwaite/Motion productions...
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 3 December 2010A mind changing collection that challenges any preconceived notions about the misogynistic poet. These are disarmingly frank and revelatory. As an insight into the poems the letters are of limited interest, but if you simply want to know how this cool genius lived this is essential.
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- Charles PhillipsReviewed in Germany on 19 March 2022
4.0 out of 5 stars As advertised
The book is second hand. It was classed as been in good condition. It was in very good condition.
- Amazon CustomerReviewed in the United States on 21 September 2016
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
On time and as described.
- R. M. PetersonReviewed in the United States on 2 December 2014
4.0 out of 5 stars Letters from a great poet to his frustrated lover
I have long enjoyed dipping into books of letters, but only two or three times before have I managed to read one cover to cover. Although it took me about two months to make my way through Philip Larkin's LETTERS TO MONICA, it never really became a chore -- for three reasons, I think. First, I am intrigued by Larkin's perspective on life (much of which is of course presented in his poetry). Second, his letters are often witty or even slapstick funny. Third, the letters adumbrate thirty years of a poignant relationship between two dissatisfied souls who, if they had not been quite so individuated, might have married, possibly happily.
Larkin was bedeviled by women, beginning with his mother (indeed, she may have been the principal reason he never married). While a librarian at the University of Leicester in the late 1940's, he became friends with Monica Jones, a lecturer in English at Leicester. Larkin moved on to Belfast and then, later, to Hull. Aside from periodic holidays together, he and Monica maintained a long-distance relationship by mail. On several occasions they considered marriage, but always one of them (Philip, it appears) ultimately balked. Meanwhile, he had at least two affairs that caused Monica emotional distress but did not squelch her own affair with Philip. In 1983, Monica, at the time rather ill, finally moved in with Philip so that he could care for her. He died a little more than two years later.
More than 1400 letters and 500 postcards from Larkin to Jones survive. The letters of this volume date from December 1946 to April 1984, with the bulk of them from October 1950 to January 1973. Anthony Thwaite, a friend and literary executor of Larkin's, selected the letters included in the book and made many internal cuts. He also contributes helpful footnotes, including occasional explanations to provide context to things Larkin is writing about and even a few excerpts from letters of Monica to which Philip is responding. The editing and presentation are exceedingly well done. (I did not notice any typographical errors, which is extraordinary for such a detailed book published in 2010; on a related note, I cannot conceive the book being successfully converted to an e-book.) There are two useful appendices, an index, and reproductions of some of the cartoons with which Larkin decorated some of his letters (Monica appearing as a rabbit and Philip as a seal).
The themes of Larkin's letters include the burden of work; fears of commitment, including fear of marriage; jazz; cricket; sex; Larkin's strained relationship with his mother; his own poetry as well as poetry in general; and various notables of English literature, especially Thomas Hardy and D.H. Lawrence.
A few excerpts: * "Life IS hard: disease, disappointment & the big snuffer of death hold all the cards: but what I rail against is my sense that for want of -- what? courage? initiative? love? -- I am losing the few chances of happiness it does offer."
* "I never got the hang of sex, anyway. If it were announced that all sex wd cease as from midnight on 31 December, my way of life wouldn't change at all."
* "I've no friends. Really I feel like a plant in a pot that nobody waters."
* "I feel the only thing you can do about life is to preserve it, by art if you're an artist, by children if you're not."
* [Regarding whether he should make a will:] "I suppose you & mother & my sister are the only people I need consider, unless I want to leave funds to provide a bottle of Guinness on my birthday for anyone who calls at Hardy's birthplace."
What is the audience for this book? Obviously, it includes those who are intensely interested in Philip Larkin and/or his poetry. Beyond them, I think LETTERS TO MONICA should also be of interest to students and connoisseurs of the soon-to-be-extinct art of letter writing. Larkin's letters to Monica Jones are not scintillating, and frequently they are not especially literary, but I daresay that the future will bring us precious few other books of letters at all comparable to them.
- HwellReviewed in the United States on 15 May 2012
3.0 out of 5 stars not as interesting as indicated
I expected this to be a real page turner but I found it to be rather slow and plodding. I suppose if you were already familiar with the author of the letters it might be more interesting.