What Is an Earlymoon? An Expert Explains This Pre-Wedding Travel Trend

In the whirlwind of wedding planning, it can be easy to lose focus on what truly matters—that being, your connection with your partner. Between securing vendors, selecting florals, and finding the dress, making time for the person you’re marrying sometimes falls by the wayside. Don't feel bad, though: It happens to the best of us, and there are ways to refocus your attention on your soon-to-be spouse before walking down the aisle. Chief among them? Earlymoons.

A growing trend where couples escape on a honeymoon-inspired getaway to unwind and recharge before the big day, earlymoons gained traction in 2017 when Pippa Middleton and James Matthews snuck off to St. Barts for an unconventional trip before their high-profile nuptials in London. Since then, more couples have prioritized travel as a way to reconnect in today's busy world, with earlymoons offering people a chance to rest, recharge, and savor quality time before the wedding events begin. “Think of an earlymoon as an opportunity to start the festivities before the actual festivities, and get a jump start on the celebrations as a couple,” says Laure Hitzig Clavette, a seasoned wedding planner and catering director.

Whether it’s lounging on a tropical beach, exploring a romantic European city, or cozying up in a countryside retreat, an earlymoon ensures you’re mentally and emotionally ready to say "I do." This short, rejuvenating trip will help you reconnect with your partner amidst the wedding planning chaos, making it a must-do for all couples. Ready to book your ticket? Here’s what you need to know.

What Is an Earlymoon?

Very simply, an earlymoon is an opportunity for couples to pause and reconnect before their wedding day. No matter how great of a support system you have, wedding planning can become all-consuming, and it’s easy for the focus to shift away from the relationship itself. According to Clavette, this pre-wedding getaway allows to-be-weds to spend quality time together and refocus their attention on being in love.

However, what the actual earlymoon will look like depends entirely on the couple—though the purpose will always be the same: To serve as a much-needed break from the intensity of wedding planning, giving individuals a chance to rekindle their connection and focus on what truly matters.

When to Plan and Go on an Earlymoon

Since you'll want your earlymoon to be as relaxing as possible, taking this trip after you've completed your major wedding tasks is ideal. Pick a week or weekend when you can step away from work and planning, and really use the time to slow down. “The [wedding planning] process typically intensifies during the last few months,” Clavette says. “All major decisions are typically made one year out or more; the venue, outfits, photographer, and décor. When all the shorter-lead details are finalized closer in, it’s a good time to take an escape.” Essentially, you should aim to take your trip two to three months before the big day.

If the idea of completely stepping away from wedding prep makes you anxious, though, Clavette has seen plenty of couples turn the planning itself into an earlymoon. “At Four Seasons Resort Orlando, we frequently host destination weddings, and often couples will come for their menu tasting and make a weekend out of it,” she says. “They get to enjoy the resort amenities ahead of the wedding weekend when they will be busy celebrating with all their guests.”

What to Know Before Planning an Earlymoon

When planning an earlymoon, the goal is for you and your partner to truly unwind and enjoy each other’s company. Meaning, couples should choose a relaxing location with experiences that don’t require extensive planning or added stress, advises Clavette. It’s also essential to pick a place that brings genuine joy and allows you to break away from the daily grind, with a deep focus on having a fun and meaningful time.

On a budget? Clavette suggests finding an earlymoon destination that will bring the most enjoyment without straining finances. So if long-distance travel isn’t feasible, an overnight staycation with a special dinner and romantic touches can be just as refreshing. “Staycations are so underrated. They are easy, stress-free little pleasures we could all use a little more of,” Clavette says. Plus, you can always save the more lavish plans for the honeymoon.

The Best Earlymoon Ideas to Consider

If you're interested in planning an earlymoon, always keep in mind that the experience should be tailored to your and your partner's shared interests and passions. Even small, thoughtful gestures—like a weekend getaway to a place you’ve always wanted to visit or a surprise evening filled with activities you both love—can be incredibly meaningful.

Still stuck on what to do? Here are some of our favorite ideas that ensure you make the most of your final months of engagement.

Luxury Resort Escape 

Spend a few days unwinding at a luxurious resort, whether it’s beachside, city-surrounded, or tucked away in wine country. Enjoy the amenities, indulge in spa treatments, and savor fine dining. This option is perfect for couples looking to relax in style and enjoy each other’s company without any distractions.

Quaint B&B Getaway 

Escape to a charming bed and breakfast. Think cozy rooms, leisurely breakfasts, and exploring nearby attractions. This setting allows you to slow down and enjoy some quality time together in a more intimate atmosphere.

Staycation 

For those who prefer to stay close to home, a staycation can be just as refreshing. Book a nice hotel, explore local attractions, or simply spend time together in a different setting. It’s an easy way to break from routine without the hassle of long-distance travel.

Wellness Retreat 

A wellness retreat is an excellent choice for couples looking to recharge physically and mentally. Enjoy yoga sessions, meditation, healthy cuisine, and holistic treatments. It’s the perfect way to prepare for the wedding with a clear mind and a healthy body.

Theme Park Adventure

For the fun-loving couple, a theme park adventure could be the perfect earlymoon. Spend a few days at a resort where you can enjoy thrilling rides, and plenty of nostalgic moments—while also getting your fill of luxury amenities. It’s a playful way to connect and let loose before the wedding day.

Ultimately, no matter where you choose to go, an earlymoon is all about taking a moment to cherish your partner before the whirlwind of the wedding day. So, take a deep breath, pick your perfect escape, and savor every moment together before saying "I do."