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Sex toys for men and the best male sex toys for people with penises and prostates

They'll thank you... hard

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Sex toys designed for vulvas seem to be going from strength to strength: whether its clit suckers or eco-friendly gadgets. On the other hand, sex toys for men and for people with penises and P-spots have a long way to go before they are normalised in wider society or seen as an acceptable bedside table accessor. Well, we believe in being the change we want to see in the world: which is why we're championing the male sex toy agenda. Sex toys for men and other people with penises can be an amazing gift or investment and work a treat for solo time and also during partnered play. So, without further ado, here are the best male sex toys and toys for men and people with penises and prostates.

1
Best for hand jobs

Tenga Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup

Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup
Pros
  • Pre-lubricated
Cons
  • It's single-use

You've probably heard of Fleshlights - the most well known brand of masturbation sleeves. But TENGA is the fancy, modern version from Japan. Inside the Onacup are super soft textures, that can be used to give your partner the best hand job of their lives. Plus, you can come inside the tube and then wash it out. Mess free.

2
Best for a really posh wank

Hotoctopuss PULSE SOLO ESSENTIAL Vibrating Male Masturbator

PULSE SOLO ESSENTIAL Vibrating Male Masturbator
Pros
  • Waterproof
  • Can be used either erect or flaccid
  • Expands/contracts to fit different girths
Cons
  • It's a little loud

Hot Octopuss' Pulse iii is a super cool new toy for penises. Instead of vibrating, it it delivers "high amplitude oscillations", which are a medical technology. I know right, that's some sci-fi sh*t right there. With a splash of lube, you can slip the penis inside and then control the oscillations. The penis doesn't even need to be erect to use (and enjoy) the toy, so it's great for people with erectile dysfunction too.

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Best gifts for him

TENGA Egg Lovers Heart Textured Male Masturbator

Egg Lovers Heart Textured Male Masturbator
Pros
  • Low price point
Cons
  • Single use

The TENGA egg is one of our fave sex toys out there, so much so that we wrote a whole article about it. Long story short, it's a super-stretchy masturbator for men and anyone with a penis and has lots of amazing inner textures for extra stimulation. The most luxury wank ever...

4
Best oral sex toy for men

Blowmotion Warming Rechargeable Male Masturbator

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Warming Rechargeable Male Masturbator
Pros
  • Blowjobs on demand
  • Target pleasure
  • Rechargeable
  • Travel-friendly
Cons
  • Some users found it to be a bit tight

If you and your partner loves the feeling of being blown, a masturbator that mimics oral sex is a really good shout. This Blowmotion sex toy has a 3-inch interior canal that you slip the shaft into and that warms to 40°C, so it feels like an IRL mouth. You can choose from 6 vibration patterns and 3 intensities.

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5
Bougie-est cock ring

LELO Tor 2

Tor 2
Pros
  • Waterproof
  • Fully flexible
  • Couple-friendly
Cons
  • High price point

If you're looking for a luxury, super powerful cock rings, this is one of the best. LELO's Tor 2 is made from super nice silicone and has 6 vibration speeds and patterns to enjoy. It's perfect for solo wanking or for partnered sex as it doesn't just vibrate against the shaft but also against your partner's body while you're having sex.

6
Best anal vibrator for beginners

Rocks Off Petite Sensations Bubbles 7 Function Vibrating Anal Beads

Petite Sensations Bubbles 7 Function Vibrating Anal Beads
Pros
  • Waterproof
  • Beginner-friendly
Cons
  • Battery powered

This adorable beginners butt plug from Rocks Off is a great first vibrating anal toy for anyone wanting to explore anal play. It's quite small so easy to insert (with lots of lube), has 7 vibration and pattern settings, and is waterproof so you can use it in the bath or shower.

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Best for prostate orgasms

LELO Hugo Prostate Massager

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Hugo Prostate Massager
Pros
  • App controlled
  • Waterproof
Cons
  • High price point

This is the Queen of anal vibrators, seriously, it's worth spending a little more if you're into prostate orgasms. It's mid-sized, so you don't have to be an absolute pro to use it AND it responds to your movements, with movement-activated vibrations. How cool is that?!

8
Best basic toy

Lovehoney BASICS Clear Textured Stroker

Clear Textured Stroker
Pros
  • Textured sleeve for more sensation
  • Latex and Phthalate free
Cons
  • May not fit all bodies

If this is the first time you've considered using a masturbator or stroker, this Lovehoney BASICS textured stoker is a good option as it's easy to use and very affordable. You simply pop some water based lube on and slip the penis inside this. Once in, you stoke away as if you were wanking or giving a hand job, and the shaft will be stimulated by all the lovely textures inside. You can also tighten or loosen your grip depending on how you like it.

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Best high-tech masturbator

LELO F1S™ V2

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F1S™ V2
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Pros
  • Waterproof
  • App controlled
  • Premium silicone that feels warm to the touch
Cons
  • High price point

This masturbation sleeve from Lelo is seriously hi-tech, with four pleasure programs which each have seven different patterns, as well as responsive sensors that offer performance feedback on your speed and stamina. It’s made from super soft silicone for a luxe feel and it’s totally waterproof, making it ideal for experimenting with in the shower or bath.

10
Best butt plug & cock ring combo

Black Hole Galactic Silicone Remote Control Cock Ring Butt Plug

Black Hole Galactic Silicone Remote Control Cock Ring Butt Plug
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Pros
  • Waterproof
  • Rechargeable
Cons
  • Run time of only 50 minutes

Promising “out-of-this-world stimulation”, this toy combines a silicone cock ring with a textured butt plug, giving you two-for-one when it comes to pleasure. With four speeds and six patterns of vibration, you can play around and find what works for you. There’s also a remote, which you can use yourself if you’re having a solo sesh, or hand over to a partner and let them take the reins.

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Best for partnered sex

Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring

Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring
Pros
  • Textured clitoral stimulator
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof
Cons
  • May not fit all bodies

Another really great staple item to have in the bedside drawer - except this cock ring is ridged on top, so it stimulates your clitoris while your partner's wearing it. It's also USB re-chargeable, and waterproof so can be used in the bath or shower.

12
Best for the bougie-est wank imaginable

Bondara Arcwave Ion Rechargeable Air Masturbator

Arcwave Ion Rechargeable Air Masturbator
Pros
  • Unique design & technology
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
Cons
  • High price point

Okay, this toy makes a *big* claim; "experience the closest thing to the female orgasm with the World's first Pleasure AirTM stroker for men". We're not sure if we can guarantee that (or how you'd even tell), but it does use pulsing airwaves similar to some of our fav clit sucker vibes. It also uses Smart SilenceTM which means it's super quiet and automatically starts/stops when it comes into contact with skin.

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13
Best vibrator for penises

Bondara Hat-Trick 7 Function Vibrating Masturbator

Hat-Trick 7 Function Vibrating Masturbator
Pros
  • Waterproof
Cons
  • Battery powered (included)

Who said vibrators were just for people with vulvas? This Bondara Hat-Trick 7 Function Vibrating Masturbator sits on the head of the penis and provides rumbly vibrations, while 'brushes' (their word), adds extra stimulation. Can be used on its own or during hand jobs for an extra buzz!

14
Best prostate dildo

Ann Summers Hard Drive Vibrating Prostate Massager

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Hard Drive Vibrating Prostate Massager
Pros
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Waterproof
Cons
  • Battery powered

If you or your partner are into P-spot stimulation, this is a great option for both partnered sex and solo sessions. Featuring ten vibration settings and specially designed curved head, it brushes against your prostate in a kind of 'come-hither' motion. It's great for beginners who want to dip a toe into the wide waters of anal vibrators, but can also be enjoyed by experts.

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15
Most innovative design

Ricky Original MAN.WAND Rechargeable Sex Vibrator

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Original MAN.WAND Rechargeable Sex Vibrator
Pros
  • Rechargeable
  • Streaks inside the silky-smooth silicone flaps optimise the vibrations and your climax
Cons
  • Not fully waterproof

The Man Wand may look a bit like pincer, but it's actually a powerful vibrator designed for penises. The Man Wand has five speeds and 20 vibration modes, and a flexible head and neck to get the best motion for you. To use, simply it lube it up, wrap it around the penis, and give the most high-tech hand job possible.

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Paisley Gilmour
Former Sex & Relationships Editor

 Paisley is the former Sex and Relationships editor at Cosmopolitan UK. She covers everything from sex toys, how to masturbate and sex positions, to all things LGBTQ. She definitely reveals too much about her personal life on the Internet.   

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Lois Shearing
Senior Sex and Relationship Writer

Lois Shearing is Cosmoplitan's Senior Sex and Relationship Writer. They have been writing about sex, sexuality, gender, politics, and relationships for almost ten years. Their writing on these topics has appeared in Mashable, The Independent, Metro, The Advocate, and Byline Times, among others. In 2021, they published their first book, Bi the Way with JKP. They are currently working on two other books, set to be published in 2024. 

In a previous life, they worked as a content marketer and content writer for various tech start-ups. They continue to be interested in the tech sector and its impact on our lives, relationships, and work, with particular regard to the ways AI will shape our relationships in the future. 

Outside of work, they are deeply passionate about queer community organising, and run the only support resource for bisexual survivors of sexual violence in the UK: the Bi Survivors Network.  You can find them on Instagram and X

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