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The Man He Is
Mar 26, 2019
5 minutes
BY NYON SMITH, Cincinnati, Ohio
WHEN I GOT MARRIED, I thought I was ready to be a husband and father. My wife, Soroya, and I were in our twenties then, enjoying life together and starting our careers. She was a kindergarten teacher. I was a supervisor at a call center.
Four years into our marriage, we found ourselves with two boys. Marriage and fatherhood felt as natural as breathing.
Then I lost my job.
The experience rattled me to the core. All of a sudden, I wasn’t sure being a dad would be so easy. My father had held a job for 20 years, and here I was unemployed after a mere seven.
Eventually I found new work, but by then we had had two more kids and life had become a blur
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