Love Wins: For Teens
By Rob Bell
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If God were throwing a party, would everyone be invited?
Or does God invite some and not others?
And if so, how does God decide?
Is it what you say?
Is it what you do?
Is it what you're going to do?
Is it who your friends are?
Or what your friends do?
Or what religion you happened to be born into?
Or where you live, or what you look like, or what you believe?
What if the idea of heaven and hell that we have been taught is not, in fact, what the Bible teaches? What if Jesus meant something very different by the concepts of heaven, hell, and salvation from how we've come to understand them?
And what if the answer to life's meaning is much better than we ever imagined?
In his teen edition of the bestselling book love wins, Rob Bell tackles all these questions in a way that addresses the real challenges of growing up in today's world. This is not just a book of questions and this is not just a book of answers.
This is a book of exploration.
This is a book of discovery.
This is a book about why love wins.
Rob Bell
Rob Bell is the author of the Sunday Times bestselling books “Love Wins” and “What We Talk About When We Talk About God.”
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Love Wins - Rob Bell
INTRODUCTION:
BIKES AND BUTTS
I remember exactly how it felt: It felt like my butt cheek was on fire.
It felt like I wouldn’t be able to sit down for days.
Why did I choose to ride the bike and not to shoot the gun?
I have no idea. Seriously, to this day, I have no idea why I chose to ride the bike and not to shoot the gun—but when I was with Brad, I often found myself doing strange things.
Let me explain.
When I was a teenager, I had a crazy friend named Brad.
The crazy friend is the one who doesn’t know when to stop, who always takes things too far, who pushes and pushes until:
(a) something breaks
or
(b) somebody gets hurt
or
(c) someone calls the police.
(And everybody has a crazy friend, right? Maybe you even are that friend! Quick test: When you and your friends are out and you toilet-paper someone’s house really well and you’re hiding in the bushes across the street, admiring your work, is your first impulse afterward to go home and chill out or to go toilet-paper another house? If you answered go toilet-paper another house,
then you are, officially, the crazy friend.)
So one day Brad and I were out behind his house, shooting BB guns at targets and bottles and cans. (See, you can already tell this isn’t going to end well.) We did that until we got bored. So we invented a game. We were into BMX bikes at the time, and we invented a game to determine who was the fastest bike rider and who could cock the BB gun faster. The game went like this: We’d yell GO! and then one of us would jump on the bike and start riding as fast as he could away from the other person, who was furiously cocking the gun so that he could shoot the one on the bike.
I, of course, volunteered to ride the bike, assuming I could ride much faster than Brad could pump the gun and could easily get myself way out of range of his BB gun. Which didn’t happen.
As it turns out, he was not only fast but also incredibly accurate.
Getting shot stung like crazy and left a painful welt on my butt cheek. It really hurt. It made it hard to sit down. But it’s not like I could tell anybody. Because then I’d have to explain what I did—and that would almost certainly involve describing the game, and that would make me look . . . Well, it’d make me look like an idiot.
Why did Brad and I do things like this all the time?
I have no idea.
The best answer I can think of is: Because we could.
Do you know what I mean?
Do you find yourself doing something, and if someone asked you why, you wouldn’t be able to explain it other than to say something about how you just felt like it?
One night my friend Kris and I were driving around. We passed the local grocery store, and Kris said, Watch this.
She turned into the parking lot, parked the car, and waited for someone to come out with their groceries, load up their car, and drive away. Then she followed them: out of the parking lot, through the stoplight, down the street. When they turned, we turned. When they sped up, we sped up.
I sat there in the front seat, laughing so hard I could barely breathe, before freaking out a mile or so from the grocery store when it became clear that the other driver realized they were being followed.
Kris just kept driving.
When I asked her repeatedly why we were following this complete stranger home from the grocery store on a Friday night, she answered, Because I’ve always wanted to know what it was like to follow someone.
As if it was the most normal thing imaginable.
And that’s the thing about it—I remember countless times as a teenager when I did things simply because I wanted to find out what it was like.
Jump off the roof of the house? Did it.
Drive a boat full speed toward the beach and then turn the engine off at the last second so the entire boat went up on the sand? Did it.
Launch bottle rockets from my hand and try to hit my friends with them? Did it.
There’s this desire to find out what happens when you do certain things, to discover how people will respond and what it will feel like, and to learn whether or not it will hurt or be funny or be humiliating.
The reason I remember all these pranks and still laugh about them is because they were so different from the rest of life, which had so much pressure—pressure to get good grades and perform and work and achieve and measure up to the standards of the people around me. Pressure to figure life out. But the truth was, I was just trying to figure out who I was and what it meant to be comfortable in my own skin, and wondering whether I’d ever be something in the world.
And in that wonder, the only thing it seemed that l knew was that there was always somebody better than me.
There was sports. Which meant there was Steve Belloli. My locker at school was right next to Steve’s locker (Bell, Belloli . . .). Every day between classes I would see Steve, and we would talk about classes and sports and girls and all that. I’ll never forget the day he told me that he was going to be playing in the football game that Friday night.
What? Football?
Steve and I were on the soccer team. What was he doing kicking for the football team, let alone the varsity team that played on Friday night? We were freshmen. Freshmen didn’t play varsity. They just didn’t—except, it seemed, for Steve.
As it turns out, the kicker for the varsity team had been crap for the first few games. So the coach had held a tryout and Steve went, even though he’d never kicked field goals, and he beat out everybody for the position. And so that Friday night, as a freshman, he suited up and went out and kicked field goals and kickoffs as if it was the most normal thing ever. And even then, he did it better than anyone could have imagined. On one of his first kickoffs, the kick returner ran through our defense on the return. He only had to beat Steve to score a touchdown.
And what did Steve do?
He tackled the runner. Absolutely leveled the guy. Steve brought him down with such force that people in the stands gasped.
So why do I tell you about Steve Belloli? Because whatever I did, Steve Belloli could do it better. Soccer? Basketball? Football? Steve even went out for tennis, a sport he decided to try at the last minute. I tried out and didn’t make the team. Steve tried out on a whim, made it, and became one of the best players on the team.
And every day,
between every class,
there he was at his locker,
the one next to mine,
a living, breathing reminder that no matter how hard I worked and how many practices I went to, he would always be better than me at sports. And he’d do it effortlessly in the process. And he’d be nice about it.
But it wasn’t just sports.
My friend Nick was a musician. He’d been playing all sorts of instruments since he was young, and giving recitals, and studying classical music. One time I tried to impress him by playing a song on the piano that I’d been practicing for months. He listened for a moment and then asked me when I was going to be done doing scales. (You know what scales are? They’re what you play when you’re warming up to play an actual song.) Nick honestly thought that the song I had been working on for countless hours was just me warming up to play something else.
Ouch.
And then there were grades. My friend Yuko and I had a bunch of classes together, and so sometimes we’d study together. No matter how hard I studied and how much I read, she was always more prepared. It sometimes felt like there was a secret that all the smart