The Hardest Sermons You'll Ever Have to Preach: Help from Trusted Preachers for Tragic Times
3.5/5
()
About this ebook
Cancer. Suicide. The death of a child. As much as we wish we could avoid tragedies like these, eventually they will strike your church community. When they do, pastors must be ready to offer help by communicating the life-changing message of the gospel in a way that offers hope, truth, and encouragement during these difficult circumstances. Those asked to preach in the midst of tragedy know the anxiety of trying to say appropriate things from God’s Word that will comfort and strengthen God’s people when emotions and faith are stretched thin.
This indispensable resource helps pastors prepare sermons in the face of tragedies by providing suggestions for how to approach different kinds of tragedy, as well as insight into how to handle the theological challenges of human suffering. Each topic provides a specific description of the context of the tragedy, the key concerns that need to be addressed in the message, and an outline of the approach taken in the sample sermon that follows. Topics addressed include: abortion; abuse; responding to national and community tragedies; the death of a child; death due to cancer and prolonged sickness; death due to drunk driving; drug abuse; and suicide.
Bryan Chapell, author of Christ-Centered Preaching, has gathered together messages from some of today’s most trusted Christian leaders including: John Piper, Tim Keller, Michael Horton, Jack Collins, Dan Doriani, Jerram Barrs, Mike Khandjian, Robert Rayburn, Wilson Benton, Bob Flayhart, and George Robertson. Each chapter provides you with the resources you need to communicate the life-giving hope of the gospel in the midst of tragedy. In addition, the appendices provide further suggestions of biblical texts for addressing various subjects as well as guidance for conducting funerals.
Bryan Chapell
Bryan Chapell is a bestselling author of many books, including Christ-Centered Preaching and Holiness by Grace. He is pastor emeritus of the historic Grace Presbyterian Church in Peoria, Illinois; president emeritus of Covenant Theological Seminary; and president of Unlimited Grace Media (unlimitedgrace.com), which broadcasts daily messages of gospel hope in many nations.
Read more from Bryan Chapell
ESV Gospel Transformation Study Bible: Christ in All of Scripture, Grace for All of Life (Ebook): Christ in All of Scripture, Grace for All of Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Daily Strength: A Devotional for Men Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings1–2 Timothy and Titus (ESV Edition): To Guard the Deposit Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Daily Joy: A Devotional for Women Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhat Is the Gospel? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Using Illustrations to Preach with Power (Revised Edition) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Christ-Centered Preaching: Redeeming the Expository Sermon Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Faithful Endurance: The Joy of Shepherding People for a Lifetime Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Preaching to a Post-Everything World: Crafting Biblical Sermons That Connect with Our Culture Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Praying Backwards: Transform Your Prayer Life by Beginning in Jesus' Name Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Each for the Other: Marriage as It's Meant to Be Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Gospel according to Daniel: A Christ-Centered Approach Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Gospel as Center: Renewing Our Faith and Reforming Our Ministry Practices Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Why We Belong: Evangelical Unity and Denominational Diversity Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Promises of Grace: Living in the Grip of God's Love Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Unlimited Grace: The Heart Chemistry That Frees from Sin and Fuels the Christian Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Holiness by Grace: Delighting in the Joy That Is Our Strength Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Christ-Centered Sermons: Models of Redemptive Preaching Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Christ-Centered Worship: Letting the Gospel Shape Our Practice Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Grace at Work: Redeeming the Grind and the Glory of Your Job Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDaily Grace: 365 Daily Devotions Reflecting God's Unlimited Grace Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Worlds of the Preacher: Navigating Biblical, Cultural, and Personal Contexts Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5What Happens After I Die? Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Related to The Hardest Sermons You'll Ever Have to Preach
Related ebooks
Visit the Sick: Ministering God’s Grace in Times of Illness Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Preaching to a Post-Everything World: Crafting Biblical Sermons That Connect with Our Culture Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Christ-Centered Preaching: Redeeming the Expository Sermon Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Preaching the Whole Counsel of God: Design and Deliver Gospel-Centered Sermons Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Pastor's Book: A Comprehensive and Practical Guide to Pastoral Ministry Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Expositional Preaching: How We Speak God's Word Today Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Conduct Gospel-Centered Funerals: Applying the Gospel at the Unique Challenges of Death Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/58 Hours or Less: Writing faithful sermons faster Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Using Illustrations to Preach with Power (Revised Edition) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Effective First-Person Biblical Preaching: The Steps from Text to Narrative Sermon Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Preaching That Connects: Using Techniques of Journalists to Add Impact Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Handbook of Contemporary Preaching: A Wealth of Counsel for Creative and Effective Proclamation Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Prepare Them to Shepherd: Test, Train, Affirm, and Send the Next Generation of Pastors Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLetters to My Students: Volume 1: On Preaching Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Art and Craft of Biblical Preaching: A Comprehensive Resource for Today's Communicators Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Power in the Pulpit: How to Prepare and Deliver Expository Sermons Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Spirit-Led Preaching: The Holy Spirit’s Role in Sermon Preparation and Delivery Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Choosing to Preach: A Comprehensive Introduction to Sermon Options and Structures Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Preaching for God's Glory (Repackaged Edition) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5On Preaching: Personal & Pastoral Insights for the Preparation & Practice of Preaching Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Christ-Centered Sermons: Models of Redemptive Preaching Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Deep Preaching: Creating Sermons that Go Beyond the Superficial Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Gospel-Driven Ministry: An Introduction to the Calling and Work of a Pastor Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Pastoring Small Towns: Help and Hope for Those Ministering in Smaller Places Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsNelson's Annual Preacher's Sourcebook, Volume 3 Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Membership Matters: Insights from Effective Churches on New Member Classes and Assimilation Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Preaching on Your Feet: Connecting God and The Audience in the Preachable Moment Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Preaching and Preachers Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Unbelievable Gospel: Say Something Worth Believing Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Moment of Truth: A Guide to Effective Sermon Delivery Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Christianity For You
The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Decluttering at the Speed of Life: Winning Your Never-Ending Battle with Stuff Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Screwtape Letters Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Law of Connection: Lesson 10 from The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Anxious for Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Mere Christianity Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: Creating a Marriage That's Both Holy and Hot Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Wild at Heart Expanded Edition: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries Workbook: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Book of Enoch Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Habits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Winning the War in Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Story: The Bible as One Continuing Story of God and His People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better (updated with two new chapters) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5It's Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Grief Observed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Bible Recap: A One-Year Guide to Reading and Understanding the Entire Bible Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5NIV, Holy Bible Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for The Hardest Sermons You'll Ever Have to Preach
3 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
The Hardest Sermons You'll Ever Have to Preach - Bryan Chapell
ZONDERVAN
The Hardest Sermons You’ll Ever Have to Preach
Copyright © 2011 by Bryan Chapell
All rights reserved under International and Pan-American Copyright Conventions. By payment of the required fees, you have been granted the non-exclusive, non-transferable right to access and read the text of this e-book on-screen. No part of this text may be reproduced, transmitted, down-loaded, decompiled, reverse engineered, or stored in or introduced into any information storage and retrieval system, in any form or by any means, whether electronic or mechanical, now known or hereinafter invented, without the express written permission of Zondervan.
EPub Edition © JULY 2011 ISBN: 978-0-310-41674-6
This title is also available as a Zondervan ebook. Visit www.zondervan.com/ebooks.
Requests for information should be addressed to:
Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Michigan 49530
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Chapell, Bryan.
The hardest sermons you’ll ever have to preach: help from trusted preachers for tragic times / [compiled by] Bryan Chapell.
p. cm.
ISBN 978-0-310-331216 (softcover)
1. Suffering—Religious aspects—Christianity—Sermons. 2. Consolation—Sermons. 3.
Sermons, American. I. Chapell, Bryan.
BV4909.H364 2011
252’.56-dc22 2011001500
All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from The Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide.
Scripture quotations marked ESV are taken from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version. Copyright © 2000, 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations marked NKJV are taken from the New King James Version. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations marked KJV are taken from the King James Version of the Bible. Scripture quotations marked NASB are taken from the New American Standard Bible. Copyright © 1960, 1962, 1903, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. Scripture quotations marked NRSV are taken from the New Revised Standard Version of the Bible. Copyright © 1989 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the USA. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations marked RSV are taken from the Revised Standard Version of the Bible. Copyright © 1940, 1952, 1971 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the USA. Used by permission.
Any Internet addresses (websites, blogs, etc.) and telephone numbers in this book are offered as a resource. They are not intended in any way to be or imply an endorsement by Zondervan, nor does Zondervan vouch for the content of these sites and numbers for the life of this book.
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—electronic, mechanical, photocopy, recording, or any other—except for brief quotations in printed reviews, without the prior permission of the publisher.
Cover design: Jeff Gifford
Interior design: Ben Fetterley & Matthew Van Zomeren
23 22 21 20 19 18 17 16 15 14 13 12 11 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
Information about External Hyperlinks in this ebook
Please note that footnotes in this ebook may contain hyperlinks to external websites as part of bibliographic citations. These hyperlinks have not been activated by the publisher, who cannot verify the accuracy of these links beyond the date of publication.
To
faithful pastors
I have had the privilege of teaching
and encouraging for more than three decades.
By your lives and ministries
God’s people have known
the love, comfort, and strength of Jesus Christ
in times of tragedy.
Your ministry as Christ’s ambassadors
amidst affliction and pain
is victory beyond words, treasure beyond measure,
and grace most precious.
Hope still blooms in darkness
because you were there with the light of the gospel.
I thank God upon every remembrance of you.
Though the world despises your office or discounts your care,
your loyalty to your calling and devotion to your Savior
is recorded in heaven and honored by all who dwell there.
You have made an eternal difference
by anchoring souls to unshakable truth in their worst storms.
No word of Scripture you have spoken
has been without God’s intended effect.
No loving deed has been too obscure to escape his notice.
No grief you have borne has been futile.
Your labor is not in vain.
He who began a good work in you
will carry it on to completion
until the day
of Christ Jesus.
Contents
Editor’s Note
Introduction: The Message of the Cross for the Mystery of Tragedy
Part One
Preaching in Response to Tragedy
Chapter One: ABORTION
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Two: CHILD ABUSE
Dan Doriani
Chapter Three: COMMUNITY TRAGEDY
Tim Keller
Chapter Four: NATIONAL TRAGEDY
Bryan Chapell
Part Two
Preaching after the Loss of a Child
Chapter Five: SPECIAL NEEDS CHILD
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Six: MISCARRIAGE OF AN EARLY-TERM INFANT
Dan Doriani
Chapter Seven: MISCARRIAGE OF A LATE-TERM INFANT
George Robertson
Chapter Eight: NEWBORN LOSS
John Piper
Chapter Nine: CRIB DEATH
Wilson Benton
Chapter Ten: YOUNG CHILD
Robert S. Rayburn
Chapter Eleven: CONJOINED TWINS
Bob Flayhart
Part Three
Preaching Funerals with Especially Difficult Causes or Circumstances
Chapter Twelve: LIFESTYLE
CONSEQUENCES
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Thirteen: DRUNKEN DRIVER
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Fourteen: CANCER: LONG-SUFFERING
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Fifteen: MURDER
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Sixteen: ACCIDENTAL DEATH
Robert S. Rayburn
Chapter Seventeen: NEW PARENT
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Eighteen: SPECIAL NEEDS ADULT
C. John Jack
Collins
Part Four
PREACHING FUNERALS FOR PUBLIC FIGURES
Chapter Nineteen: NATIONAL BUSINESS LEADER: CANCER
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Twenty: CELEBRITY: UNEXPLAINED CAUSES
Mike Khandjian
Part Five
Preaching after Suicide
Chapter Twenty-One: SUICIDE OF A PASTOR
Bryan Chapell
Chapter Twenty-Two: SUICIDE OF A CHRISTIAN LEADER
Wilson Benton
Chapter Twenty-Three: SUICIDE OF A FRIEND
Michael Norton
Chapter Twenty-Four: SUICIDE AFTER PASTORAL SCANDAL
Jerram Barrs
Chapter Twenty-Five: SUICIDE OF A TEEN
George Robertson
Appendixes
HELPS FOR HANDLING TRAGEDIES
Appendix One: Texts for Tragedies
Appendix Two: Helps for Conducting Funerals
Scripture Index
About the Author
About the Publisher
EDITOR’S NOTE
NAMES OF INDIVIDUALS and occasional specifics of time or circumstance are changed in some personal accounts appearing in this book to respect the concerns and wishes of those involved. My debt is great to the pastors and people who shared the realities of Christ’s love by the testimony of their lives in times of tragedy.
Introduction
THE MESSAGE OF THE CROSS FOR THE MYSTERY OF TRAGEDY
WHILE STILL IN MY SEMINARY TRAINING, I had the privilege of being asked to pastor a small rural church. The opportunity to preach weekly, lead a congregation in worship, and learn the ropes
of being a minister excited me. I thought I was getting a leg up on my seminary peers by being able so readily to apply our theology lessons to real-life situations. But I had no idea how real my real-life experiences would soon become.
The Challenges of Tragedy
Within weeks of taking the pastorate, the senior elder of the congregation was suddenly and unexpectedly hospitalized for an aggressive cancer. I had rarely been inside a hospital and had no idea what it meant to visit the sick, counsel the dying, and comfort the family. Yet I was immediately called on to do all of these. Then, within only a few days, I also had the responsibility of conducting this dear man’s funeral.
Two days before the funeral, I phoned my homiletics professor, who also served as president of the seminary, and asked, Dr. Rayburn, can you tell me what I need to know to do a funeral? We haven’t covered funerals in class yet, and I have to do one the day after tomorrow.
I will be forever thankful that the esteemed Dr. Robert G. Rayburn did not put me off. Instead, he invited me to his home for breakfast the next morning and, across the kitchen table, gave me a funeral-conducting lesson whose outline I still include in my lectures to students a generation later.
In no small measure, I and the other contributors to this book have included our sermons delivered during times of tragedy in order to aid pastors who have not had the privilege of such an across-the-kitchen-table lesson from Dr. Rayburn. Each of us has needed to prepare sermons in the face of tragedies, and we know the anxiety of trying to say appropriate things from God’s Word that will comfort and strengthen God’s people when emotions and faith are stretched thin. We pray that these messages will provide ideas and approaches to help other pastors on their path of preparation for some of the hardest sermons they will ever preach.
A Theology for Tragedy
In addition to offering suggestions for approaching different kinds of tragedy, these sermons provide insight into how to handle the theological challenges of human suffering. Each of the pastors in this volume has a Reformed theological perspective, believing in the sovereign control of God over all things. We can recite with enthusiasm and conviction the Reformation principle that God watches over me in such a way that not a hair can fall from my head apart from his will (Heidelberg Catechism Answer 1). We also believe in God’s most holy, wise, and powerful preserving and governing all his creatures and all their actions
(Westminster Shorter Catechism Answer 11). We believe these declarations of God’s sovereign control of all things because Jesus declared the same: Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground outside your Father’s care. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered
(Matthew 10:29–30).
Our Lord created all things (Ephesians 3:9); in him all things hold together (Colossians 1:16–17); and he sustains all things by the word of his power (Hebrews 1:3). Nothing exists or occurs apart from his will. All of these affirmations of our heavenly Father’s control of all things comfort us until tragedy comes. Then the tragedy becomes the reason behind inescapable questions and—for some—faith-altering accusations: If God is in control, then why did this happen? How could a loving God allow such things, much less include them in his will for us?
A young pastor who had just welcomed a second severely disabled child into this world wept in my arms while objecting, I would not do such cruel things to my child; so why does my heavenly Father do them to me?
Theologians will try to answer such questions with distinctions between God’s decretive and permissive will. Still, the spiritual complexities and human consternation that accompany any explanation of God’s sovereignty in all things ultimately outstrip our theology. Our logic reaches a dead end beyond which our hearts cannot go, if the pain and suffering of this world are God’s doing. Yes, we can (and should) quickly retreat to the explanation that the tragedies we face are a product of the fallen world our human predecessors twisted into our present reality. But such an explanation does not easily withstand the blast of human objection from God’s own declaration: I bring prosperity and create disaster; I, the LORD, do all these things
(Isaiah 45:7). Whether God actively creates disasters or allows the forces of evil that he could stop, we expect something different from One who calls himself our Father. If God creates disasters, then his love is at best a mystery and at worst a charade. If he allows the evil he could stop, then he remains accountable for the damage in its wake. We might, of course, suggest that the only disasters that God creates or allows are those that befall his enemies. If this were true, we could excuse earth’s calamities as being a dimension of divine justice. Indeed, the Bible contends that God punishes his enemies with catastrophe (Isaiah 47:11). But the Bible also reminds us that bad things happen to good people (Ecclesiastes 9:1–3).
The Mystery of Tragedy
In order for the human heart to maintain love for a sovereign God, faith must affirm what it cannot prove: In all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose
(Romans 8:28). We must believe that God has a good purpose for the awful things that occur to us. Just as a straight line can be drawn with a crooked stick, biblical faith requires the confidence that wicked and tragic circumstances can be turned to loving purposes by God for his people. Such conclusions are drawn in the earliest pages of Scripture. Joseph says to his brothers about their sale of him into slavery (when they could not know that his presence in Egypt would ultimately result in their family’s rescue from famine), You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good
(Genesis 50:20; see 45:5, 8).
But why should we believe in good ultimate
purposes when the daily news about others and the regular experience of our own lives include so much inexplicable tragedy? How do we believe in the good purposes hidden behind bad experiences; and, how do we believe in a good God when bad things happen? Must our faith rest on an unproven heap of speculations, each ending with the surmise there must be a reason
?
When my senior elder died within weeks of this inexperienced minister assuming the pastorate, there was no clear good purpose. I needed his wisdom; the church needed his stabilizing presence; his wife needed his help in her challenges of age. Perhaps the Lord, knowing that I would have greater leadership responsibilities in the future, cast me into the deep end of the ecclesiastical pool so that I would have to learn how to swim the trust stroke early. Perhaps the elder would have resented my encroachment on his leadership and would have taken action to discourage me from continuing in ministry. Perhaps the Lord needed me to sit across the kitchen table to hear the lesson from Dr. Rayburn that I would teach to a generation of students and the readers of this book. Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps … Though all of these reasons are possible, none of them seems sufficient for taking a man’s life, grieving his family, and crippling his church. If I were to base my trust in God on my speculations about what good may have resulted from this tragedy, then my faith would quickly crumble.
The Message of the Cross
So if faith in the ultimate goodness of God does not come from guessing what his good purposes may be, from where does it come? The answer from believers through the ages, and from the authors of the messages in this book, is the cross. We trust our sovereign God because he has shown us his heart at the cross. There, where any one of us would have stood and cried out, This is wrong; God, you must stop this,
our Savior made heaven’s greatest good come out of earth’s worst tragedy. At the cross we learn that God is good and can be trusted, even when everything seems wrong to human sight.
As I was pasturing the rural church attended by farmers and coal miners — people accustomed to hard lives—I heard a story that taught me more about the nature and foundation of true faith than I had gained in much of my seminary education. The story tells of a miner who, though a stalwart believer, was injured at a young age. He became an invalid. Over the years he watched through a window near his bed as life passed him by. He watched fellow workers marry, raise families, and have grandchildren. He watched the company he had served thrive without attempting to make adequate provision for his loss. He watched as his body withered, his house crumbled, and hope for better things in this life died.
Then, one day when the bedridden miner was quite old, a younger man came to visit him. I hear that you believe in God and claim that he loves you,
said the young man. How can you believe such things after all that has happened to you?
The old man hesitated and then smiled. He said, Yes, there are days of doubt. Sometimes Satan comes calling on me in this fallen-down old house of mine. He sits right there by my bed, where you are sitting now. He points out my window to the men I once worked with whose bodies are still strong, and Satan asks, ‘Does Jesus love you?’ Then, Satan makes me look at my tattered room as he points to the fine homes of my friends and asks again, ‘Does Jesus love you?’ Finally, Satan points to the grandchild of a friend of mine — a man who has everything I do not—and Satan waits for the tear in my eye before he whispers in my ear, ‘Does Jesus really love you?’
Startled by the candor of the old man’s responses, the younger man asked, And what do you say when Satan speaks to you that way?
Said the old miner, I take Satan by the hand, and I lead him to a hill far away called Calvary. There I point to the nail-pierced hands, the thorn-torn brow, and the spear-pierced side. Then I say to Satan, ‘Doesn’t Jesus love me!’
The cross of Christ is the warrant for confidence in God’s promises of ultimate good, despite great heartache. Jesus’ agony did not indicate that God failed, or that the faith of the one who died was weak. The suffering caused and inflicted by evil (Psalm 22:16) still was within God’s will (Acts 2:23) and served a purpose so loving, so powerful, and so good that our eternity changed as a result (Isaiah 53:4, 10; Matthew 26:31; Revelation 13:8). Through Jesus’ resurrection, we learn that our God has power over evil, but through the cross he gains power over our hearts. Though the human mind will reach its frayed end trying to reconcile earth’s tragedies with God’s goodness, the heart remains bound to God, knowing that the provider of the cross can mean no ill. Making much of the blood is neither maudlin nor manipulative; rather, the sacrifice of Christ is the heart’s ultimate solace in times of greatest pain.
When we remember the cross, our faith in God’s sovereign purposes strengthens and comforts our hearts, though tragedy comes and human answers fail. No less a faith stalwart than John Stott acknowledges the import: I could never myself believe in God, if it were not for the cross.
¹ The pastors who have written the messages in this book embrace these truths, acknowledging often the mysteries of the sovereignty of God in the face of tragedy, but affirming with greater frequency the necessity of confidence that his eye does not blink and his hand does not fail.
If our God has lost control or never possessed it, then we are at the mercy of the cosmic dice of fate. The Bible tells a different story, insisting that the Lord rides on the storms to deliver his people from this present evil world and to secure us for the next (Psalm 68:4, 33). We trust him, not because we can explain our circumstances, but because our God has revealed his character at the cross. The One who shed his blood for us can be trusted to love us; the One who gave his life for us can be trusted to provide what is best for us; and the One who purposed all this before the foundations of the earth were laid can be trusted to direct our paths to glory.
Sheep trust the shepherd whom they have learned is good, and we trust our Good Shepherd because he has laid down his life for us. The skillful shepherds of this volume further this trust by taking us often to the place where the Good Shepherd saved us, so that we will trust him to carry us when the darkness is too great to see our way or discern his.
NOTES
1. John R.W. Stott, The Cross of Christ (Downers Grove, Ill.: InterVarsity, 2006), 326.
Part One
PREACHING
IN RESPONSE TO
TRAGEDY
Chapter One
ABORTION
SITUATION
The following message was originally delivered to a coalition of religious, volunteer, and political organizations in a regional gathering on the thirty-fifth anniversary of the 1973 Roe v. Wade Supreme Court decision that allowed abortion on demand in the United States.
CONCERNS
My church is one of many evangelical bodies that have sought to inform its members and our community of the Bible’s defense of the sanctity of human life at all its stages. The gathering for which this message was prepared included people of various religious backgrounds, political affiliations, and volunteer organizations who identified themselves with the pro-life movement. I wanted to say clearly what my biblical convictions were, but at the same time to differentiate those convictions from political agendas or secular priorities. For almost a generation the voice of the political right has often coalesced with evangelical priorities, making it difficult for many to separate religious conviction from political agendas — and difficult for some to stand for the sanctity of life without the sense of having to align with political entities. To encourage all to take a fresh stand for life on the basis of transcendent principles, I wanted to demonstrate that my convictions are biblical and more reflect obligations to God than to any political party or person.
Since the gathering included those who were very active in pro-life religious and political causes — persons weary from lack of success after more than three decades of endeavor—I felt the dual obligation of reinspiring them in the cause of defending the unborn and tempering the frustration that often led to demonizing opponents or others who are less zealous. In particular, I wanted to make sure that anti-abortion zeal did not obscure the grace of the gospel for those guilty of promoting or participating in abortion. This was not simply to honor the old maxim about hating a sin but loving the sinner, but also to maintain the credibility of the pro-life cause. When voices become so shrill in a righteous cause that they are indistinguishable from the sounds of hatred, then the righteousness advocated gets lost in the din of rhetoric. The gospel has the power to persuade when our message and manner proclaim its truth. My concerns were to make the Bible’s objection to abortion clear and to make the gospel of Jesus Christ equally clear.
APPROACH
To emphasize that my intention was to be a representative of the gospel, I chose to base my words on a biblical text and to state that I was doing so because I was speaking primarily as a Christian and as a representative of the church. In this approach I was reflecting lessons learned by watching Billy Graham as he often addressed secular gatherings by introducing himself as a Christian who needed to speak to the Christians present while hoping that others would not mind listening in. By identifying both his position and his audience, Graham was able to speak with great freedom and without offense to very diverse audiences.
I chose to speak on a passage of Scripture that specifies the value of life in the womb. I sought to be honest about the frustrations and disagreements experienced by those in the pro-life movement and to use the authority of Scripture to say what the church must nonetheless teach about the value of all life. By underscoring the value of all
life, I created a bridge to the responsibility that those in the pro-life movement have to value those who are guilty of abortion. Just as not fully formed
life is valuable to God, so also are the hearts of those not fully righteous before him. My hope was to reinspire concern for the unborn with hearts that were committed to the full scope of gospel priorities.
THE MESSAGE
GOD’S KNITTING
An Address to the Missouri Pro-Life Community in Behalf of the Pregnancy Resource Center
Bryan Chapell
¹¹If I say, "Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,"
¹²even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.
¹³For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
¹⁴I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
¹⁵My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place,
when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
¹⁶Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
—Psalm 139:11–16
Preliminary Remarks
I want to thank our local Pregnancy Resource Center for the opportunity to speak to you in behalf of the pro-life concerns that motivate so many of us to be here. When we unite around the cause of the unborn, we come from many different churches, organizations, and perspectives — and with varying contributions to make toward this vital cause. Tonight I want to come to you as what I am, a representative of the church, and to talk to you about the role of the church in this cause. In doing so, I do not want to minimize or diminish the importance of the roles that others have, but rather to acknowledge my inadequacy in telling you what should happen in your organizations or political structures or individual efforts to combat abortion. I am concerned to say what the church should say and do, because that is the arena in which I serve and for which I am responsible to determine if my actions are as diligent, responsible, and caring as my God requires. For those of you whose pro-life concerns even partially involve church ministry, and I would guess that is most of us, I would invite you to listen to see if what I believe God requires is being reflected in me, in your church, and in you.
In the church our pro-life concern must be based on a higher authority than personal preference or even principled concern for others. For this reason we look to Scripture such as Psalm 139:11–16, and ask God to give us understanding by praying together. Please pray with me now. [After a brief prayer, the message began as indicated below.]
Introduction
Knit one, purl two. Knit one, purl two …
This is the traditional chant of expectant motherhood. In our culture it is yet a caricature that when a mother is preparing for a new baby, she takes up knitting. There is a picture in this psalm that is wonderfully related. For while the mother may be knitting for the child in the womb, the Bible says that God is actually knitting the child in the womb. The image of such tender—dare I say, maternal—care being expressed by God for the child in the womb says much about our understanding of the innate value and personhood of the unborn child. But as beautiful as this image is, the subject that I must address today remains difficult.
There are a number of reasons for the difficulty. First is the apparent complexity of the issue of abortion as it has been argued for the last several decades. I have been preaching for more than thirty years, and as I reviewed the right-to-life sermons I have preached over this period, I was astounded at the range of issues we have had to consider in the abortion wars of this nation. Battles have raged over such things as:
what Medicare will or will not provide; what the military will or will not provide; what foreign aid should or should not provide.
what schools can or cannot say; what counseling clinics can or cannot say; what parents can or cannot know.
at what term an abortion can be performed; what techniques can be used; what research can be allowed; what tissue can be used.
what notification may be allowed; what information may be required; what delay may be required; what pictures can be shown.
what degree of danger to a mother’s health warrants abortion; what degree of damage to an infant’s wholeness justifies abortion.
what protest strategy to use; what picket distance to keep; what signs to hold; what language to use; what marches to join.
whether to allow civil disobedience; whether to go to prison for our convictions; whether to kill others for our convictions.
what legislation to support; what agencies to aid; what co-belligerents to join; what amendments to advocate; what candidates to elect; what commercials to air.
which mothers to shelter; how, in an ethical way, to invite them to such shelter or to counsel.
what infants to adopt; where to get them; how to advertise
their availability.
whether to lobby for what is winnable with a long-term plan for incremental progress; whether never to compromise and accept only a total ban on abortion.
whether to secede from the political process or a particular party; how to vote or whether to revolt.
Some of these battles have been fought between Christians and the secular world; some have been fought between Christians and other Christians of varying perspectives. Yet, despite all the battles, abortion continues, and I fear our concern regarding it is flagging. I may be wrong, but my sense is that the pro-life forces in the church are nearly spent. Maybe you sense some of the reason for this exhaustion as you examine your own reaction to the list I just read. My guess is that while you were initially attentive, you eventually got bored with the list of all the issues