The Prophet Muhammad as a Husband
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All of us wonder about the way the Messenger (PBUH) was with his wives. How he dealt with them? How he treated them equally?
How was the Prophet Treating his Wives?
What was the Prophet's way in treating his wives? How could he treat them equally?
The Prophet (PBUH) accomplished the happiness to every one of them; that is because he knew how to deal with women and he penetrated deeply into her sensitive soul and went on apostrophizing her with the warmth of passion and assisted her to work for her religion and her life.
And what about his wives-the Mothers of all believers -? If we searched to know about their lives, we will find that most of the books describe the Prophet's wives with a common quality; fasting a lot and spending their nights praying. So they were privileged with their nearness from Allah and in apostrophizing him all night , that's why they deserved this great honour ,they deserved to be the Mothers of all believers, wives of the beloved Prophet(PBUH) in this life and in the hereafter.
But what about us? I know that a lot of the readers are married, and if not, they can see what is going on in most of the marriages these days; noticing their parents, relatives, and friends. Why marital happiness is rare in our days? Is it our time's fault? No, it is our fault, both men and women.
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Table of Contents
How was the Prophet Treating his Wives?
Pampering his Wives and Treating them Kindly
The Prophet's Adornment for his Wives
The Prophet’s Good Companionship
The Patience of the Prophet (PBUH) with his Wives
The loyalty of the Prophet (PBUH) towards his Wives
The Prophet's Dealing Justly with his Wives
The Prophet Urged Men to Keep a Good Company with their Wives
The Prophet's Emotions toward his Wives
Finding Comfort in Love - The Prophet's First Marriage
Moments of Married Love-Prophet Muhammad & Lady Aishah
Lady Khadijah … The Unsung Heroine
What Lies Beneath... The Prophet's Marriages
The life of Aishah - a role model for all women
Ideals and Role Models for Women in Qur'an, Hadith and Sirah
The Prophet's Second Wife: Lady Sawdah
The Ideal Husband
More about Aishah
Unforgettable Love Story
A Happy Home
The Rights of the Wife upon her Husband
The Rights of the Husband upon the Wife
How was the Prophet Treating his Wives?
All of us wonder about the way the Messenger (PBUH) was with his wives. How he dealt with them? How he treated them equally?
How was the Prophet Treating his Wives?
What was the Prophet’s way in treating his wives? How could he treat them equally?
The Prophet (PBUH) accomplished the happiness to every one of them; that is because he knew how to deal with women and he penetrated deeply into her sensitive soul and went on apostrophizing her with the warmth of passion and assisted her to work for her religion and her life.
And what about his wives-the Mothers of all believers -? If we searched to know about their lives, we will find that most of the books describe the Prophet’s wives with a common quality; fasting a lot and spending their nights praying. So they were privileged with their nearness from Allah and in apostrophizing him all night , that’s why they deserved this great honour ,they deserved to be the Mothers of all believers, wives of the beloved Prophet(PBUH) in this life and in the hereafter.
But what about us? I know that a lot of the readers are married, and if not, they can see what is going on in most of the marriages these days; noticing their parents, relatives, and friends. Why marital happiness is rare in our days? Is it our time’s fault? No, it is our fault, both men and women.
The fact is that we ruined our lives by materialism, by forgetting our religion, our Islamic civilization, and the teachings of the Prophet (PBUH). We forgot our love to Allah and committed sins publicly; our eyes and hearts do not blink for a moment fearing Allah and thinking about the fact that Allah is watching us.
Then, what can we do now to let happiness come back to our marital lives?
There is only one way; the way of Allah and his Prophet (PBUH). This will make everyone happy with his partner in their marital life, and feel the meaning of the marital happiness that Almighty Allah created.
From here, dear brothers and sisters, I thought of this series The Prophet as a husband,
to let every husband and wife who became far from each other restore love again. I hope you will follow up this series.
All prayers, blessings, and peace of Allah be upon Muhammad, his family, and companions.
Pampering his Wives and Treating them Kindly
We all read about the life of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in the fields of education, faith, politics, war, or economy but seldom was written or published about his life (PBUH) inside his house and his relationship with his wives. A person well informed about the familial relationships of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) finds out that it included meanings that we desperately miss in our present time. These meanings would contribute to the stability of our homes and marriages. In this article we are giving some examples of Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) consideration to the feelings of his wives, his appreciation, and manifestation of love.
Calling one's wife with the name she loves most or with a nickname or a musical name is one of the forms of pampering and being kind to one's wife. This can be seen in the life of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) who, in a saying 'Hadith' that is agreed upon by scholars, used to say to his wife ‘A’isha: O ‘A’ish, this is Gabriel saying peace be upon you.
She replied: and may peace and Allah’s Mercy and Blessings be upon him. You see what I don’t
(She meant the messenger of Allah (PBUH)
He also used to call ‘A’isha: (Homayraa') a short form of (Hamraa’) which, according to Ibn Kathir in 'An Nehaya’, means the white skinned woman. Adh-dhahabi also said that
Hamraa'" in the language of the people of 'Hejaz' means white and blushing-a rare feature among them. So Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) used to treat ‘A’isha kindly and call her with lovely names.
From the prophetic traditions ‘A’isha narrated about fasting; Imam Muslim reported that she said: ‘The messenger of Allah (PBUH) used to kiss one of his wives while fasting, and then she laughs, may Allah be pleased with her.
In another prophetic tradition narrated by ‘A’isha, she said that Muhammad (PBUH) said that the best of the believers is the one who is best in manners and kindest to his own wife.
These sayings 'Hadiths' demonstrate how Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) cared for his wives and how well he treated ‘A’isha, May Allah be pleased with her.
One of the forms of cuddling and well treating one's wife is feeding her with one's own hands. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: Whatever you spend is considered charity even the mouthful that you put in your wife's mouth.
Even the food that one feeds his wife with his hands is considered an act of charity that is rewarded by Allah the Almighty and not only an action that guarantees her love and cooperation.
Cuddling and being kind to one's wife has a tremendous emotional effect on her. This action of following the example of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) costs a man nothing and grants him Allah's reward, his wife's love and cooperation. Therefore a man is commanded to cuddle and treat his wife kindly.
A man's nature dictates him a certain way of expressing his feelings that is different from a woman's. A woman expresses her love with words like; I love you, I miss you, I need you, etc. On the other hand, a man expresses love in actions and production and seldom with words. If a man wants to tell his wife that he loves her he buys her something she wants or brings some food and drinks or furniture for their house. According to a man, this is a form of love expression.
The generous Prophet has indeed overcome this negative trait in the nature of men. He used to express his love and passion verbally for Lady ‘A’isha, may Allah be pleased with her, treated her kindly, pampered her, and let his wives hear what they wished from their beloved husband and this is a significant aspect in a man - wife relationship. Ibn Assaker narrated- on the authority of Lady ‘A’isha, May Allah be pleased with her- that she said that the Prophet (PBUH) told her: Won’t you be pleased to be my wife in this life and in the Hereafter?, I said:
Yes, he said:
You are my wife in this life and the Hereafter."
Imagine Lady ‘A’isha’s emotions having heard the words that guaranteed her security, love, and peace in this life and in the Hereafter.
Al ‘Aas Ibn Ar Rabee'- the husband of Zainab the daughter of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)- leaves Makkah escaping from Islam. She sends to him to return and embrace Islam. So He sends her a letter, an extract of which is: By Allah, I don't see your father as an offender and I love nothing more than following the same rout with you dear beloved. However, I hate being said that your husband has let his people down. Would you consider this and pardon me?
The letter demonstrates that Al ‘Aas loved Zainab and wanted to be with her in whatever road. Moreover he hated that people would talk in a way that displeases her. At the end he asks her to consider and pardon him, for the sake of that love Zainab managed to go to him and return with him a Muslim.
Some writers demonstrate the respect of the West to women by giving examples like a husband opening a car’s door to his wife. Although this apparently is respect, yet, a mature person can see many aspects in which a woman is being offended and disrespected in the West. Muslims do not have the issue of man/woman conflict because they believe each one completes the other and that mutual respect is a must.
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) is our example in this. One time during his stay alone in adoration of Allah in the last ten days of Ramadan (observing I’tikaf), his wife Lady Safeya came to visit him and spoke with him for some time, then went to the door. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) led her to the door to say goodbye. In another narration, he told her: Do not hurry to leave till I come with you.
Her house was at Ussama's and he (PBUH) left with her. Respect is the source of continual love and stability in a family. Therefore we wish that it prevails between a man and his wife.
If spouses treated each other in such way, a marriage would definitely be beautiful. We desperately need to leaf through the life of the Prophet (PBUH) and the Islamic history to discover the most beautiful theories in the art of marriage.
The Prophet's Adornment for his Wives
To apply love between couples you need to be an inventor, a creative woman like Lady ‘A’isha. Lady Safeya (May Allah be pleased with her) asked ‘A’isha one day to try to let the Prophet excuse her because he was angry with her because of some matter and she will give ‘A’isha her day. Lady ‘A’isha wore a long saffron colored veil after and spread water on it to make it smell well. She went to the Prophet and sat beside him but he said: ‘A’isha , go now it is not your day.
She said: It's the favour of Allah being given to whom he want
and she told him the story.
A woman asked Lady ‘A’isha about henna. She replied: My beloved (PBUH) loved its colour and hated its smell.
Notice how she used the love