MEAT: Everything You Need to Know
By Pat LaFrieda and Carolynn Carreno
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For true meat lovers, a beautifully prepared cut of beef, pork, lamb, veal, or poultry is not just the center of the meal, it is the reason for eating. No one understands meat’s seductive hold on our palates better than America’s premier butcher, Pat LaFrieda. In Meat: Everything You Need to Know, he passionately explains the best and most flavorful cuts to purchase (some of them surprisingly inexpensive or unknown) and shares delicious recipes and meticulous techniques, all with the knowledge that comes from a fourth generation butcher. If you have ever wondered what makes the meat in America’s finest restaurants so delectable, LaFrieda—the butcher to the country’s greatest chefs—has the answers, and the philosophy behind it.
In seventy-five recipes—some of them decades-old LaFrieda family favorites, some from New York City’s best restaurateurs, including Lidia Bastianich, Josh Capon, Mike Toscano, and Jimmy Bradley—the special characteristics of each type of meat comes into exquisite focus. Pat’s signature meat selections have inspired famous chefs, and now Meat brings home cooks the opportunity to make similar mouthwatering recipes including multiple LaFrieda Custom Burger Blends, Whole Shank Osso Bucco, Tuscan Fried Chicken with Lemon, Crown Pork Roast with Pineapple Bread Stuffing, Frenched Chop with Red Onion Soubise, Beef Wellington with Mushroom Cream Sauce, and Chipotle-Braised Tomahawk Short Ribs, along with many more.
Step-by-step photographs make tricky operations like butterflying a veal chop or tying a crown roast easy even for beginners; beautiful double-page photographic diagrams show more clearly than any previous book where different cuts come from on the animal; and advice on necessary equipment, butcher’s notes, and glorious full-color photographs of the dishes complete this magnificent and comprehensive feast for the senses.
Throughout the pages of Meat, Pat LaFrieda’s interwoven tales of life in the meatpacking business and heartwarming personal reminiscences celebrate his family’s century of devotion to their calling and are a tribute to a veritable New York City institution. Pat’s reverence and passion for his subject both teach and inspire.
Pat LaFrieda
Pat LaFrieda is a fourth-generation butcher, a third-generation meat purveyor, and the owner of America’s premier meatpacking business, Pat LaFrieda Meat Purveyors, which supplies restaurants in New York City; Philadelphia; Washington, DC; Las Vegas; Miami; Chicago; and more, as well as retail locations at CitiField in Queens. LaFrieda is the author of the cookbook Meat: Everything You Need to Know.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I received this book as a Christmas present and I have really enjoyed it. Meat: Everything You Need to Know is equal parts coffee table book and cookbook. On the coffee table side this book includes descriptions of each type of meat followed by anecdotes about the Author's experiences with them in his families Butcher Shop. This is followed by pictures of the whole animal showing where the cuts come from and then pictures of the common cuts of that particular meat.On the cookbook side there are nicely illustrated sections showing how to prepare some of the more complicated cuts such as crown roasts followed by a selection of recipes for the meat in that section.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Great Book , Highly recommended to all foodies and chefs
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MEAT, by Pat LaFrieda and Carolynn Carreño, AtriaCONTENTS
PROLOGUE
INTRODUCTION
TOOLS
MEAT QUALITY AND SAFETY
COOKING FROM THIS BOOK
VEAL GOING TO THE SOURCE
ALL ABOUT VEAL
VEAL CUTS
BUTCHERING TECHNIQUES
VEAL RECIPES
Grandma LaFrieda’s Braised Stuffed Veal Breast
Utica Greens
Veal Rib Chops Valdostana with Foie Gras Mousse
Veal Milanese
Pat’s Whole Shank Osso Buco
Mom’s Stuffed Veal Porterhouse with Marsala and Fennel
Lidia Bastianich’s Seared Calf’s Liver with Caramelized Onions and Balsamic
Brown Veal Stock
Veal Sweetbreads with Lemon-Caper Sauce
Roasted Calf’s Head alla Perla
Mike Toscano’s Whipped Brain Puree
Grilled Calf’s Tongue
LAMB CORNERING THE LAMB MARKET
ALL ABOUT LAMB
LAMB CUTS
BUTCHERING TECHNIQUES
LAMB RECIPES
LaFrieda Family Stuffed Lamb Crown Roast
Plum and Sesame Glazed Lamb Denver Ribs
Roasted Leg of Lamb with Garlic
Pat’s Favorite Lamb Condiments
Mint Chimichurri
Tangy Yogurt Sauce
Salsa Verde
Spicy Red Pepper Walnut Pesto
Honey Mustard
Garlic Confit
Braised Lamb Neck Moroccan Style
CHOPPED MEAT BRANDING OUR MEAT
MARKETING LAFRIEDA MEATS
ALL ABOUT CHOPPED MEAT
TYPES OF CHOPPED MEAT
LAFRIEDA SIGNATURE SAUSAGES
SAUSAGE RECIPES
Grandpa’s Italian-Style Pork Sausage
Chicken Apple Sausage
Chorizo
Provolone and Parsley Sausage
Breakfast Sausage
Cotechino
Merguez
Sausage and Pepper Heroes
Crescent Breakfast Sausage with Panettone French Toast
CHOPPED MEAT RECIPES
Four-Meat Meatloaf
Tomato Sauce
Bill’s Burgers’ Double Beef Sliders
Macaroni Pie
Chophouse Turkey Provolone Burgers with Fennel-Shallot Marmalade
Pork Meatballs with Toasted Pignoli and Golden Raisins
POULTRY BUYING MY COUSIN MARK
ALL ABOUT POULTRY
CHICKEN AND OTHER BIRDS
CHICKEN CUTS
BUTCHERING TECHNIQUES
POULTRY RECIPES
Josh Capon’s Chicken Lollipops with Ancho Chile BBQ Sauce
Tuscan Fried Chicken with Lemon
Christopher’s Deep-Fried Turkey with Giblet Gravy
Foie Gras Mousse
Mom’s Duck à l’Orange
PORK THE PLIGHT OF PIGS
ALL ABOUT PORK
PORK CUTS
BUTCHERING TECHNIQUES
PORK RECIPES
Pork Braciole
Sunday Sauce: Pasta with Meat Sauce
Fresh Holiday Ham with Tangerine and Cloves
Crown Roast of Pork with Pineapple Bread Stuffing
Pineapple Bread Stuffing
Jimmy Bradley’s Frenched Chop with Red Onion Soubise
Biscotti-Stuffed Boneless Loin
Anisette Biscotti
Eataly’s Porchetta
BEEF WHAT THE BUTCHER HAS TO SAY
ALL ABOUT BEEF
BEEF CUTS
BUTCHERING TECHNIQUES
BEEF RECIPES
Roasted Bone Marrow with Shallot Confit
Tripe in Red Sauce
Korean-Style Sticky Short Rib
Sandwiches with Ginger-Sesame Aïoli
Jewish Deli-Style Brisket
Beef Wellington with Mushroom Cream Sauce
Five-Minute Marinated Skirt Steak
Five-Minute Marinade
Skirt Steak Pinwheels
Braised Beef Shank Bourguignon
Chipotle-Braised Tomahawk Short Ribs
The Perfect Steak
Steak Condiments
Raoul’s Au Poivre Sauce
Aged-Beef Lard with Rosemary and Garlic
Foolproof Béarnaise
Port Wine Reduction
Maytag Blue Butter
Standing Rib Roast with Dried Porcini Rub and Port Wine Reduction
Dried Porcini Rub
Pat LaFrieda’s Original Filet Mignon Steak Sandwich
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
ABOUT PAT LAFRIEDA AND CAROLYNN CARREÑO
INDEX
This book is dedicated to our restaurant customers and their patrons who eat our meat and allow us to do what we love to do.
Pat Sr., Pat Jr., and Mark
PROLOGUE
It’s Saturday around midnight and I’m dressed in a suit, sitting in the back of a Lincoln Town Car with my wife, Jennifer, coming home from a fund-raiser for our son’s school, when my cell phone rings. It’s the organizer of an enormous, meat-heavy food event that is taking place in Prospect Park in Brooklyn. It’s the first of the two-day event and the organizer is telling me that a good number of the vendors have run out of meat. There was such a shortage of food that earlier in the day riots broke out. Two people got stabbed in the hand with skewers over who would get the last chicken breast. So now the organizer is with the New York Police Department, who were brought in because of the fighting. The police are refusing to open the event the next day unless the event organizers can guarantee there will be enough food. Which is why they are calling me: I’m a butcher.
I run a business—along with my father (also Pat LaFrieda) and my cousin, Mark Pastore—that my great-grandfather put in motion almost one hundred years ago. Back then we were one of many small butchers in Greenwich Village, many Italian American like us, and all of them vying for their little piece of the pie. Twenty or thirty small restaurants in and around the neighborhood—that was our piece. Today, we supply more than 1,200 restaurants from New York to Las Vegas with the best meat in America: dry-aged steaks, milk-fed veal, Colorado lamb, and custom chopped meat blends.
My men and I have been busy all week getting meat ready for our customers participating in this event. But everyone ordered short. They braced for five thousand or ten thousand people over the course of the weekend, but instead, they got hit with thirty thousand on the first day. Now the NYPD is refusing to let the show go on unless LaFrieda Meats will guarantee that there will be food.
I’m a guy who likes to make the impossible happen. In fact, even though it’s interrupting my evening, there’s a part of me that loves a call like this. I look at it as a challenge. Can you help? Can you deliver? Can you and your company operate in case of emergency in ways that nobody else can? We supplied our customers when the blackout happened in 2003 and we did it again when Hurricane Sandy hit. The organizer has me on speakerphone so the police will know what my answer is, and if it’s no,
the event will be canceled. I tell them I can do it.
Our plant is open through the night six days a week. We are closed only from Saturday afternoon until Sunday evening, and that’s where I am now: right in the middle of that time. So after dropping my wife at home, on my way to the plant I call up a couple of my regular guys who meet me there, and together we work through the night cutting and packing beef ribs, St. Louis ribs, skirt steaks and hanger steaks, some chicken items, and all kinds of meats for burgers. In addition to supplying their vendors, I’m also serving a whole 875-pound steer—this was planned—and my guys have been at the festival cooking since early that morning, but the festival organizers have now asked me to open a burger stand for which I must make four thousand 8-ounce patties myself. By 8:00 a.m., I’ve packed my Escalade to the roof with meat and am headed to Brooklyn with another packed truck behind me.
My guys and I have barely set up in Prospect Park when the festival-goers start pouring in. We split our burgers in half and make eight thousand portions. The steer is another two thousand portions. Still, by 6:00 p.m. we don’t have a bite of food left. But the day is over and the crowd is happy.
At the end of the day, Mark and I are sitting back to back, leaning against each other on top of a picnic table. We’re both exhausted. He’s worked all day serving burgers, and I have blisters on my hands from slicing two thousand portions of steer as quickly as I did. We’re talking about the day, and how great the event turned out. He laughs that we’re the only ones who didn’t make any money, and it’s true. It costs a lot to get your guys to work on a Saturday night at the last minute. But that’s not what this day was about for me. It was about being needed and being able to come through against all odds. It was the perfect execution of a Doomsday plan and it was definitely one of the best days of work I’ve ever had.
I know. It’s only meat. I’m not saving the world. But people need to eat. And getting meat to people is my business. This is what I do. Being a butcher in New York City—this is who I am.
Top left to right: My grandfather Pat LaFrieda the first; my grandfather, my great-uncles Tom and Frank, my father; my great-uncle Lou; my great-uncle Lou, his wife, and two apprentice butchers; my father in the ’70s; Mark, my father, and me; my aunt Lisa; our delivery truck in the ’90s.
Introduction
My father never wanted me to be a butcher.
When I was growing up, he had a restaurant supply butcher shop in a 1,500-square-foot space on the corner of Bleecker and West 10th Streets, in Greenwich Village. It was a business that he ran with his father, the first Pat LaFrieda. My grandfather Pat and his older brother Lou learned the trade from my great-grandfather Anthony LaFrieda, who had opened a retail butcher shop in Brooklyn in 1922, thirteen years after he and his son Lou landed on Ellis Island from Naples, Italy. During a meat workers’ strike that made it difficult for restaurants to get meat in New York City, the two boys opened their own shop, the original LaFrieda Meats, in a sawdust-covered space on 14th Street, in the 14th Street Meat Market (today’s Meatpacking District), a chaotic, congested congregation of over 250 meat purveyors in an oddly shaped, 44-acre corner on the far west side of lower Manhattan. The area was bordered by 14th Street to the north and extended seven blocks south, where guys split lambs heads in their shops on pretty cobblestoned streets right next to Village brownstones as far down as Jane Street.
Until those businesses started to dwindle and the area turned into one of fancy hotels, expensive boutiques, and trendy restaurants and nightclubs, the streets surrounding it were backed up for blocks, especially in the early morning hours, with trucks carrying every kind of meat that the people and restaurants of New York City wanted.
When my father came to work for his father and Uncle Lou, he was twelve years old and my grandfather had moved three blocks south to a second-floor space on Little West 12th Street, a wobbly, cobblestoned street near the entrance to the West Side Line, a branch of the New York Central Railroad line. Today, it’s the High Line park, but until 1980, it was a working train line that brought beef, veal, and lamb. Chickens came by truck in wooden crates—sometimes with the feathers still on them. As the trains came in, my dad, still a young kid, and not a very large one, would be sent to buy the meat. He’d climb the stairs and meet the train right where The Standard, High Line hotel is now located. He would pick out the meat, buy it, throw a quarter of a steer weighing close to two hundred pounds over his shoulder, haul it back up the flight of stairs to the shop, and then go back for more. Sometimes the guys in the market would swipe grocery carts from the A&P, he remembers. You used them to push the meat through the market. Even though it was cobblestones, it was easier than carrying it. Once you found a cart, you guarded it with your life because everyone else was looking to swipe it from you.
Today, because of how closely we are scrutinized by the USDA, we have to work their hours so their inspectors can be at our plant at all times. But back then, before Lyndon Johnson passed the Wholesome Meat Act in 1971, there were no regular inspections. This meant that guys in the meat business, like my father, grandfather, and Uncle Lou, worked as late as they had to. My father started work with his uncle at 3:30 a.m. and worked straight through until night. One time I got off work,
he says. My uncle told me, ‘Look, it’s a nice day. The sun is out. Go enjoy yourself.’ By the time I got to the train a few blocks away, it was dark. He’d tricked me into thinking we worked a half day but it was already night.
In the winter, when it was cold, the men would toss chicken crates, and the fat that they’d trimmed from meat they were cutting, into metal trash cans and light them on fire. Up until as recently as ten years ago, you’d see guys in long white butcher’s coats standing around those fires to stay warm.
Working with his father and uncle, my father learned how to buy meat, how to cut it, and everything there was to know about the business. And the one thing he definitely learned was that he didn’t want to be a butcher. I knew from the first day I went to work with my uncle that I was not going to do this,
he says. That was fifty years ago. I still know I’m not going to do it.
He laughs, but it’s no joke. Cars were his passion; he had some automotive innovations that he wanted to bring into being. But by now he knew the meat business inside and out. Of three siblings and thirty cousins, my father was the one chosen to take over his family’s business. He put his dreams aside and did what was expected of him. But when it came to his own kids, he wanted the opposite.
I’m the oldest of four. I have two brothers, Joseph and Christopher, and a sister, Michele. We grew up in a three- bedroom, three-family home in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn, with a family above us and a family below. Bensonhurst was, and still is, a very tough neighborhood. When I was there, it was divided: mostly first- and second-generation Italian Americans, with a large African American population as well. Everyone was always beating up on everyone: Italians on Italians, Italians on blacks, blacks on blacks, blacks on Italians. The local public school was so violent that it had a police station right on campus. Because he’d been forced into the business, our father wanted to make sure my brothers, my sister, and I got out of it. He saved his money and sent all of us to private schools. We were reminded often that our dad’s money was going toward our educations and we were expected to take studying very seriously and to go to college. He made it very clear: Education was our way out of the meat business. It was how we would save ourselves, or how he would save us, from being butchers.
By the time I was born, my father and grandfather had moved from Little West 12th Street to a space on Bleecker Street, now the Village Apothecary, where my earliest memories are of sweeping the floors—I must have been eight or nine years old—and of the Playboy magazines that I would find in the bathroom that belonged to the guys that worked there. Today, that same stretch of Bleecker Street is lined with expensive boutiques, but back then, Greenwich Village really was a village. On Bleecker Street, there was Zito’s bakery, which sold nothing but long crusty loaves of bread and some canned tomatoes and other Italian canned goods that looked like they’d been on the shelves for a hundred years. Uncle Frankie, my dad’s older brother, used to go there at 3:30 or 4:00 in the morning when the bread was coming out of the oven; he’d pick up a few loaves and bring them to us still hot. We knew all the other shopkeepers, some of whom are still there: Ottomanelli & Sons, another Italian American–owned butcher shop on the opposite side of the street from us; Murray’s, an artisanal cheese store; and across from them, Faicco’s Pork Store, which specializes in fresh and cured pork products.
We’ve always been a wholesale butcher, meaning we supply meat to restaurants, not the general public. But, as the shop was on a street with a lot of foot traffic and mostly retail shops, occasionally customers would walk in wanting to buy from us. My father thought, We have the meat. Why not sell to them?
But it did not go well. Customers would often ask for two slices of a ten-pound calf’s liver leaving my father stuck with the rest, which he couldn’t sell; he would have to then bring it home to my mother. Then someone else would come in and want four chicken wings. I’m supposed to stop what I’m doing to get four chicken wings? And what am I gonna do with two chickens with no wings?
He soon went back to only supplying restaurants in and around the neighborhood.
In 2003, the stretch of Leroy Street where LaFrieda Meats was located was renamed Pat LaFrieda Lane. Here my Aunt Lisa receives the award for the renaming from councilmember Christine Quinn.
As the oldest son, my father often took me to work with him. He got to the shop at 3:30 in the morning—the same hour his father arrived to work and the same hour my dad had been coming to work since he was a boy—five days a week, to get the meat ready to deliver to his restaurant customers for that day’s lunch and dinner service. It would be dark out when we left the house, and I would sit in the front seat alongside him as we drove through the sleeping streets of our neighborhood listening to 1010 WINS, the AM radio station that was the only place to get information in those days, and talking. My father would tell me what we had to do that day. And we’d talk about if we got done early enough, how we would go fishing. Where did we want to fish that day? What did we want to fish for . . . ?
My father has had a boat his entire life. That was his favorite pastime. The boat was parked in the Marine Basin Marina in Bensonhurst, and my father’s lifelong best friend, and my godfather, Jerry Albers, had a boat parked a few down from ours, so it was a boys’ camaraderie kind of escape. My brothers and I grew up on that boat. In the summertime, we’d fish every day, or as often as we could. Over the course of my childhood, we fished the waters from the Verrazano-Narrows Bridge to the Rockaway jetty and across to the New Jersey Highlands and the waters of Jamaica Bay. We’d catch porgies or snappers and herring, then we’d use those as bait and clean up with striped bass, bluefish, and fluke. At the end of the day, we would take our catches home and get them ready to cook. (I was filleting fish long before I started cutting meat.) My dad didn’t care to eat fish, but he would grill it up for us while my mother and sister cooked inside and my brothers and our friends and I jumped in the aboveground pool. Before dinner, we would pull the cooler full of fish out in front of the house and the Italian ladies from the neighborhood would come over in their housecoats, ten or twelve of them lined up with their pots and pans in hand, and we’d take the fish out of the cooler and put it in their pans to take home. Sometimes, before there were regulations on how many you could keep, we’d catch so many fish, my father would drive back to Manhattan and sell it to restaurants.
My father smoked back then, and he always had a pack of Marlboro reds on the seat between us. As we drove through the Brooklyn-Battery Tunnel into lower Manhattan, talking father to son about meat and work and fishing, I would pick up the pack, open it up, and inhale as deep as I could. I loved the smell of unlit tobacco, and still do. That to me is the smell of being a boy, being with my father.
There were no computers then, at least not in our business. A few hours after my father and I got to work, my mother would come in and the first thing she would do was listen to the customers’ orders that were left on our answering machine throughout the night. She would write them by hand in an order book—each customer had his own—with carbon paper behind the order slips, and the other guys and I would take a book to see what we needed to do for each customer. My father didn’t extend any preferential treatment to me. I was expected to do what all the other guys did, and I answered to them, not to him. Once we got an order, we went into the walk-in cooler, grabbed what we needed, cut what needed to be cut, wrapped everything in brown butcher paper, and boxed up each restaurant’s order. Each got labeled, which consisted of scribbling the restaurant’s name on the side of the box with a Magic Marker, and then loaded onto one of two vans we had back then. When the van was full, a driver jumped in and started making deliveries.
In the early days, my father took me to work just to spend time with me, and to show me what he did the way any father might do with his son. But by the time I was about twelve years old and I’d graduated from sweeping floors to cutting and tying top rounds of beef, he took me to work to show me how hard it was, to show me what I’d be doing, day in and day out, for the rest of my life if I didn’t do well in school. Don’t do what I do,
he told me on a regular basis. You’ll never make any money. You’ll be rubbing pennies together your whole life. You’ll work yourself to death and then in the end you’ll kick yourself in the ass for it.
But no matter how much my father tried to discourage me from being a butcher, I remember always thinking that it didn’t seem as bad as he made it out to be. And in fact, secretly I loved it. I loved the rides to work. I loved working with the other men. I loved the work itself. Sometimes, when making chopped meat, and nobody was looking, I would take it in my hands and smell it just like I did with my father’s cigarettes. I loved that smell and the only way I can explain it is to say it’s like it was a part of me; it was in my blood.
On every delivery van there were two guys: the driver and the helper, who rode in the passenger seat and jumped out when the driver made his stops. As often as I could, I was the helper. The drivers loved having me along because I didn’t mind getting in and out of the van and flying down steep, often slippery steps carrying boxes into restaurant basements while they sat listening to the radio and eating a sandwich or smoking a cigarette until I hopped back in and they drove to the next place. If a chef had a problem with something we were delivering to him, he’d explain to me what was wrong, or he might draw me a picture of what he wanted in the future. I loved being inside the mind of a chef.
While my dad did not succeed in convincing me to hate butchering, he did succeed in keeping me out of trouble. All during my teenage years, while my friends were out smoking cigarettes, drinking, and stealing cars, I was working. If I didn’t have school, I was at LaFrieda Meats, which meant all through Christmas and spring breaks, every summer, and any other school holiday from the time I was eleven until I graduated from high school. As a result of my dad’s insistence, I did pretty well in school, and after graduating I went to Albright, a private college in Reading, Pennsylvania.
By this time, my father had convinced me that I wasn’t going to be a butcher, so I started college with the mind-set of being premed. I did this for my father. For him, my becoming a doctor was the ultimate sign of success—not my success so much as his.
But as much as I wanted to please my father, I