We're in America Now: A Survivor's Stories
By Fred Amram
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We're in America Now - Fred Amram
PROLOGUE
When I was younger, I could remember anything, whether it had happened or not; but my faculties are decaying now and soon I shall be so I cannot remember any but the things that never happened.
Mark Twain’s Autobiography
PAPA LIKED TO TELL how he met Mutti. In 1930, he and a friend each brought a girlfriend on a Sunday afternoon date to Café Kröpke in Hannover, Germany. Sometime before sunset, Papa and his friend traded dates. Papa claimed he took home the prettier girl—the woman who became my mother. One day when he wasn’t nearby, I asked Mutti how she met Papa. She told the same story—and allowed that Papa took home the prettier girl.
The story of how my parents met illustrates how I learned about many of the events in this book. For example, I write about my bris, my circumcision ceremony. Only eight days old at the time, clearly I don’t really remember the details. However, if Mutti and Papa separately told the same story and it was corroborated by my Uncle Max and my Aunt Beda, surely it must be true—or so I believe. And so, many events were told and retold around the dinner table until I can’t be sure what I remember and what I was told and only think I remember.
Do I tell the truth? Only as much as I am able. My favorite poet, Dylan Thomas, wrote in 1954, I can never remember whether it snowed for six days and six nights when I was twelve or whether it snowed for twelve days and twelve nights when I was six.
Memory, Thomas and I agree, is unreliable.
Elderly Fred Amram
In Memories of a Catholic Girlhood, American author Mary McCarthy writes, I remember we heard a nightingale together, on the boulevard near the Sacred Heart convent. But there are no nightingales in North America.
The memory
becomes part of McCarthy’s memoir and we believe it even if the memory
might have come from reading London-dwelling T.S. Eliot’s poem about the convent of the Sacred Heart. And so my perceptions are my perceptions. In a memoir one should not take liberties with the truth. This is my world as I believe it to be true—today.
I tell the truth as I remember events filtered through my feelings as a youngster and, again, filtered through the memory of a nostalgic old timer. Twice-baked potatoes. I have changed a few names to protect the innocent—or because my memory hit a blank.
And forgive me if I interrupt myself or become sidetracked. Isn’t that the way we tell a story? Ultimately the truth lies in the interruptions. Ask any psychiatrist.
As much as we like to generalize, each Holocaust survivor describes a unique experience. Each Auschwitz survivor tells a different story as does each survivor who spent the war in hiding or who, like me, was lucky enough to leave before the worst of times. This book tells my story and focuses, in part, on the events that led up to the worst of the genocide, led up to Auschwitz and the other death camps.
Every genocide creates displaced persons—refugees. All of us, no matter from which genocide we escaped, bring memories that shape our assimilation.
In this collection of stories—and it is a collection—I share my experiences and feelings as a child survivor. It is my truth of being an outsider, a Jew in Nazi Germany, and then a foreign Jew growing up in America, still an outsider—a stranger in a strange land.
My life in Germany is written in the past tense. As I step off the boat I enter the present tense. What’s past is past and…
I. TWO BUTCHERS
Throughout all generations, every male shall be circumcised when he is eight days old… This shall be my covenant in your flesh, an eternal covenant.
Genesis 17:1-14
HITLER BECAME C HANCELLOR OF G ERMANY on January 30, 1933. I was born September 19 of that year. I was born in a Catholic infants shelter. My birth certificate has the signature of a nun. Not just any run-of-the-mill nun. The illegible signature shows a clear title underneath: Mother Superior.
Why would a Jewish baby have his birth certificate certified by a nun? Because the Nazis, led by Adolf Hitler, had already closed Jewish hospitals and had prohibited Jews from using public hospitals. Juden Verboten. Jews Forbidden.
A few Catholic orders were prepared to stand up to Hitler. My Mother Superior allowed Mutti to use her facilities and encouraged her nurses to serve Jews. Surely they had taken a risk on my behalf.
Eight days later, as prescribed by Jewish law, I was circumcised. Two butchers attended my circumcision.
My family had scheduled the entire day as a celebration of this special event. Ashkenazi Jews call it a bris. Sephardic Jews call it a brit or more formally a brit milah, a ritual circumcision. Either way it’s a big deal and a party was planned in our fourth-floor apartment.
Nowadays circumcisions are commonplace and they’re usually performed in hospitals shortly after birth. However, for many Jews a special ceremony is involved and certainly, when I was a tad in Hannover, Germany, a bris involved relatives, dinner, drinking—a major celebration. After all, one is celebrating the birth of a male child.
Mutti with babyMutti with baby
My parents told and retold the story of my circumcision a hundred times. The relatives arrived for the party. Uncle Max came from Hamburg. Aunt Beda, whose hugs I adored during my adolescence because of her substantial bosom, came from Berlin with her husband, Uncle Ernst. My widowed grandmothers, of course. My mother’s sister Karola and her husband Kurt, who never had children of their own and doted on me, drove all the way from Kassel. Friends from the synagogue were there. And then entered our local kosher butcher, Herr Mandelbaum.
Theological regulations circumscribe
the ritual for circumcisions. A professional is hired. In Hebrew he’s called a mohel, in Yiddish a moyl. Although the butcher Mandelbaum was not a rabbi, he had the special training of a moyl. He knew the ritual, the prayers, the cutting technique and he had a sharp knife.
Moyl Mandelbaum, a small, heavily bearded man in his mid-forties, began by blessing the wine. Almost all Jewish ceremonies begin by sanctifying wine. It’s a marvel that we’re sober most of the time. Papa placed a few drops on my lips, presumably as an anesthetic. I was expected to join in blessing the wine. I gurgled my best imitation of a Hebrew prayer. When the moyl became serious I let out a bellow.
I’ve been asked by friends to provide more details about the event. Unfortunately, three factors interfere with my memory. First, expert as old Mandelbaum was, the pain was excruciating. Second, in some Jungian flashback, I was reliving Everyman’s fear of losing his manhood. And third, I was drunk.
I’ve been told that Mandelbaum washed his hands in a special bowl and said the blessing for washing the hands. Jews have a blessing for everything. After more prayers and blessings, he cut.
Papa paid Herr Mandelbaum who then returned to his kosher butcher shop.
Next the dinner. Mutti was ushering the guests to a fine buffet when we heard music. A marching band. Uncle Max, the family tease, announced that there was to be a parade in honor of my manhood. Several guests believed Uncle Max could pull off such a trick. Imagine, celebrating a Jewish babe in Nazi Germany with a parade.
As the music became louder, everyone rushed to the windows. Our apartment had a small balcony and Papa carried me outside to see my first parade. We could see men, women and children gathering on the sidewalks.
There were soldiers in khaki uniforms and shining leather boots. There were drums and clarinets and all the wonderful brass instruments one expects in a marching band. And between platoons of more soldiers we could see a long black open car. The man standing near the back of the car had dark hair and a mustache. Just as he drew even with our balcony he saluted with an outstretched arm at a 45-degree angle. At that sign the spectators raised their arms and, with one voice, shouted, "Heil Hitler. The platoons of German military might echoed in unison,
Heil Hitler." Mutti pulled us inside. Adolph Hitler was not a welcome guest at my bris. He was, however, the second butcher to attend.
Is there a blessing for two butchers at a bris?
II. THE CHANUKAH MAN
UNCLE M AX ALWAYS spent the first night of Chanukah with us. Our large apartment in Hannover had space for overnight guests. Uncle Max, Papa’s brother, was a bachelor living in Hamburg. He visited often. Like most bachelor uncles, he doted on his nephew—in this case his only nephew, an only child. Uncle Max was short like papa. However, unlike Papa who was thin and fit, even a little muscular, Uncle Max was round. After the Chanukah dinner and the lighting of the first candle and the singing of songs, Uncle Max lay on the couch, lit a cigar and relaxed. His round belly created a mountain on which my few lead soldiers could climb. Just when Uncle Max lit his cigar, my father announced that he had to go to the post office for business—weekday or weekend.
Even before Kristallnacht, Crystal Night, the night of broken glass, the Gestapo came to search Jewish homes. Sometimes they took the men with them. The men never returned. Later they came for the families, but in 1937 it was mostly men who disappeared. Papa was never home when the gruff uniformed men, with their Heil Hitlers
and their pistols knocked on our door. He was out on business
—perhaps he had gone to the post office—just as he was out each year on the first night of Chanukah.
And on the first evening of every Chanukah—every Chanukah before Kristallnacht—after the first candle was lit, the electric lights turned low and round Uncle Max on the couch blowing huge round clouds of cigar smoke, Papa announced that he needed to go to the post office for business. After a short while, a man with a deep voice would ring the doorbell. Mutti would let him in and announce with great surprise that the Chanukah man had come. He was wearing a hooded green Mackinaw which he never opened. I sat on this stranger’s lap, almost as frightened as when the Gestapo came to our house.
Papa’s childhood ChanukiahPapa’s childhood Chanukiah
Have you been a good boy during the past year?
I assured the Chanukah man that I had been as good as I could be—allowing some room for error. Uncle Max laughing aloud on the couch, with his jelly belly rocking, assured me that I was safe.
Do you deserve coal for Chanukah?
No,
I whimpered. I was too well-behaved for that. In the end, the Chanukah man produced a small toy—once a lead ambulance that would ride on my uncle’s belly when we played together or on my blanketed legs when I was sick. And then the stranger was gone.
When Papa arrived home, I complained that he was always at the post office when the Chanukah man visited. Surely, I must have been the only Jewish boy in history who had a personal Chanukah man.
We arrived in New York City just before Chanukah of 1939, too poor to have a Chanukah that first year. Too poor even for a Chanukah man.
III. NUR FÜR JUDEN
MUTTI AND I PEEKED INTO the ice cream shop window as we did each time we passed on our way to Goethe Platz, an island of trees and flowers at the end of Goethe Strasse—our busy commercial street. We lived on Goethe Strasse, shopped on Goethe Strasse and caught the trolley right in front of our house on Goethe Strasse.
Will we stop in for ice cream on the way home?
I asked. We almost always did.
If you’re a good boy,
was Mutti’s answer. That meant I had to hold her hand all the way to the park and all the way home.
I held Mutti’s hand tight and we walked to a corner, watched for traffic, crossed the street and walked another block and then another. Mutti liked to window shop and so did I. We checked for new displays.
Look. There’s a new black hat we could get for Papa to wear to the synagogue.
Would your father like that striped tie for his birthday?
But we never bought anything.
There were a few dress shops with manikins. Once we saw a bright red dress that I promised to buy Mutti with my first earnings. She said she hated the color. She wanted the burgundy colored one to wear to the opera.
We always stopped at WMF, an elegant cutlery shop. When we had company for dinner we used knives and forks and spoons from the WMF store. We also owned one of the store’s silver butter dishes and a candy dish. These only came out for visitors.
Can you read the letters on the sign,
Mutti asked, pointing at three big letters over the shop.
W—M—F.
And they stand for…,
Mutti began.
I interrupted. "F is for Fabrik. M is for Metallwaren. W is for…" I made some funny sounds and Mutti laughed. I couldn’t pronounce the six-syllable word so I faked it.
Good boy,
she kvelled. "Can you say Wurtemburgische?"
I couldn’t and we walked on.
A few stores had the letter J painted on them. Others spelled out JUDE. People were supposed to boycott those stores. I didn’t know why and Mutti always evaded my questions about the J. She just walked faster.
Manfred (Freddy) at Goethe PlatzManfred (Freddy) at Goethe Platz
We crossed the last street and just as we stepped into Goethe Platz I let go of Mutti’s hand and ran. I hid behind a fat bush twice my size and watched Mutti walk by. She was supposed to look for me as she did on most of our outings. But this time she pretended to ignore me. I knew she was only pretending to ignore me because she always whistled songs when we played Find Me.
Her whistling said, I’m looking for you
so I knew she really was. Mutti was a really good whistler. She could whistle a whole song and then sing it in French or in German.
When Mutti was a few steps past my hiding place I jumped out behind her and hollered, Boo.
Oh, you frightened me. I may faint.
Mutti fainted sometimes but this time I knew she was teasing.
I ran ahead to my favorite bench. It was hidden in an alcove surrounded by tall trees. I liked it because it was shady and lots of birds lived in the trees. Mutti sometimes pointed to the nests and identified many types of birds. I gave them individual names like Suzie or Hannelore. There was one bird that came often and Mutti identified it as a boy bird. I named it Little Manfred because it was smaller than me and I really liked it. Sometimes Mutti called and Little Manfred came and tilted his little yellow head.
Sitta (Mutti) at Goethe PlatzSitta (Mutti) at Goethe Platz
The birds whistled songs and Mutti whistled back at them. I think they liked Mutti’s whistles.
On this day I ran ahead and when I reached my bench I jumped up and sat as if I’d been waiting there for hours. Oh, you’re here, finally.
Thank you for waiting for me,
Mutti said with a big smile. Then her face changed. Her mouth opened and her eyes darted around nervously. We have to go now.
She emphasized now.
Why? We just arrived. I want to play with the birds.
We must go.
I caught her looking past my head so I turned around to see some letters printed on the top board of the bench. Words that had not been there before.
I had never been to school because Jewish children weren’t allowed to attend school. Nevertheless, I could read pretty well unless the words were too big—and some German words have many syllables. When the words were too long, I’d forget the beginning before I reached the end, like the W word in WMF.
I sounded out the short words printed on the bench. N-u-r f-ü-r J-u-d-e-n,
I said slowly. Then I put the words together in a sentence. "Nur für Juden." Only for Jews.
Wow! Boy! A bench just for me.
I was so excited that I jumped up and down on the bench. Mutti looked to see if we were being observed. No. No one was near. I loved the bench and the new sign.
Are we so special that we can have our own bench? Are the Nazis apologizing for telling people to boycott stores with the J mark? Whoopie! My own bench. They can’t use it.
I said all these things to Mutti and to the birds. I wasn’t sure who they were, the people who couldn’t use my bench, but I was too happy to care.
Mutti wasn’t happy at all. She was even paler than usual and she was leaning against a tree. Perhaps she would faint. Tears were coming from her eyes and she was dabbing at her face with the little lace hankie she always carried around. It had her initials: SA.
Perhaps I should take Mutti home after all,
I thought. I took her hand and we started walking away from my bench. I picked a few yellow flowers that smelled especially sweet even from a distance of several feet. I gave them to Mutti. She started crying harder and sat on a bench that didn’t say, Nur fur Juden.
It didn’t have any words printed on it. Only my bench had that sign.
Suddenly she jumped up as if she remembered something. She pulled me off the bench even hurting my arm a little. She started walking toward home really fast and we didn’t stop at the ice cream store even though I’d been a very good boy. But Mutti was not herself that day.
When we arrived home, Mutti went to her bedroom and closed the door. I went to my room to play with my lead soldiers. I didn’t know what had come over my mommy, but I knew that I needed to be especially well behaved until Papa came home to fix what was broken.
Papa finally arrived several hours later, I told him about Mutti’s crying. He went to the bedroom and ten minutes later, Mutti came out saying that she would cook supper while Papa washed up. While eating, they discussed the day’s events but no one could or would explain to me why we Jews were allowed to have our very own bench.
Papa and Mutti argued about leaving the country. Mutti wanted to leave as soon as possible. She said this often, especially after reading a newspaper or hearing a radio news program.
Bad things are happening in the country. I saw more broken store windows today. The Jewish paint store, for example.
Everything will be better soon. This can’t last,
Papa reassured.
Today the milkman said he had to give his Jewish customers less milk because there is a shortage. The boy needs his milk. And each week we have fewer ration stamps. Even fewer than they get. We’ll starve. Manfred is a growing boy and needs good food.
All this will change at the next election. I still have my business and it’s going very well. I can always trade fabric for food if we need to.
Truly Papa’s textile business was going well. His storeroom, which was also my playroom, was filled with many beautiful fabrics. His daily sales trips to the farms and suburbs around Hannover made him happy and each evening he counted out a bundle of money.
But Mutti wasn’t satisfied. Perhaps we could go to Holland for a while to visit my sister. Perhaps we could even go to America.
Papa, as usual, assured us that everything would be fine. This too will pass,
he said.
A week later, Mutti and I were both tired of being cooped up in our apartment. I finally persuaded her that it was time to return to the park. I wanted to play on my bench. At several dinners during the week, Papa had joined me in arguing that we should go back to Goethe Platz to visit the bench that welcomed me. So one morning Mutti and I dressed for the park and off we went. Papa went to his business.
On the way we looked into the shop windows, just like always. Mutti promised ice cream if I were a good boy. Everyone had to limit their shopping and Jews received fewer stamps than others. I asked why, but no one gave me an answer. On the radio an official delivered a speech that explained that the food shortage was the fault of the Jews. Papa said, Nonsense!
Ice cream certainly would make me feel better.
When we arrived at the park I ran directly to my bench. It still had its sign, Nur für Juden.
It was the only bench in the park reserved for me. But then I noticed that today all the other benches had words printed on them too. I walked close to one bench and sounded out the words. "Nur für Arier." Only for Arians. When Mutti reached our bench I saw that her fists were clenched, her lips were tight and she looked angry—the way she looked when I broke a favorite vase.
What’s Arier?
I asked.
The Nazis,
she answered brusquely. Why do we have only one bench and they have all the rest?
I can’t understand it either. They hate us.
On the way home we saw a trolley stopped on busy Goethe Strasse. The conductor was letting off passengers at the back door and the driver was helping an old man on at the front door. Proud of my recent reading successes, I slowly sounded out a sign I had never before seen on the trolley, "Für Juden Verboten. I read it aloud to Mutti.
Für Juden Verboten." To Jews Forbidden.
I loved trolley rides to the countryside on Sunday with Papa or with one of my grandmothers. I had been such an extraordinarily good boy and I was being punished. No more trolley rides. Why? I put my face into Mutti’s skirt and sobbed. I could hear Mutti crying too. We watched a few more trolleys. They all had the same lettering.
We need a treat,
Mutti announced.
Holding hands, we stepped into the ice cream store and sat at one of the little tables. Ice cream was served in a little glass dish with a wafer standing in its middle. Mutti said she would order coffee-flavored ice cream. I wanted chocolate.
The owner, a tall, fat, jolly man knew us from our many previous visits. He tried to make all the children believe that he was Kris Kringle. No one believed him but we all called him Herr Kringle. He