Heavenly Minded Mom: A 90 Day Journey to Embrace What Matters Most
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The lives of moms are all too often consumed with wearisome, empty striving. We work to keep up appearances, meet worldly standards, and find satisfaction in the offerings of this life such as success, admiration, and ease. However, God has set eternity in a mother’s heart, and deep inside, we long for more.
In Heavenly Minded Mom, author and blogger Katie Bennett beckons us into a new way of viewing our present reality by rising above the ordinary and routine to see a bigger plan and purpose for motherhood.
This uplifting book offers moms the wisdom of Ecclesiastes, wrapped in the hope of the Gospel, and presented in bite-sized portions. The 90 compelling meditations, scripture readings, and invitations to journal and reflect, will encourage us to reevaluate how we envision our lives and to claim a heavenly mindset towards our mothering tasks. These inspirational readings will help us discover a new way of looking at our responsibilities as a mom through God’s eyes.
Embrace a simpler life filled with God’s promises and love as you reflect on God’s powerful work as it has woven through your past and present in anticipation of its impact in the future and your spiritual legacy.
Katie Bennett
Katie Bennett, author of Heavenly Minded Mom and the award-winning blog and podcast, Embracing a Simple Life, beckons mothers into a new way of seeing their present reality. An educator by trade, she stepped out of the career world and embraced a no-frills, no-extravagance lifestyle. Katie and her family live in rural Missouri where they practice clearing out the excess and making the most of what matters most. Follow her at embracingasimplerlife.com.
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Heavenly Minded Mom - Katie Bennett
Treasures in Heaven
Throughout this devotional book I reference the concept of storing up treasures in heaven. If you are like me, this notion might feel awkward. Shouldn’t we be loving and serving God for His sake, without a thought to what we will get out of it? Isn’t seeking eternal rewards self-focused instead of God-focused?
As much as we might be inclined to reason in this way, God says quite the opposite. In fact, He inspired the writer of Hebrews 11:6 to say it like this: without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.
God is pleased when we believe His promise to such a degree that the unquenchable outflow is confidence that our current, earnest seeking will lead to eternal reward. What a joyful, hope-filled journey He has called us to! We have incredible promises in Christ that guarantee our inheritance as His followers. When we live like this fulfillment is actually going to happen, we assign glory to God through faith. Our obedience will be radiant in light of this hope, even as we lay down our lives and take up our cross to follow Him. God is pleased to have it this way because He loves us!
How to Read
Heavenly Minded Mom
Heavenly Minded Mom is comprised of three sequential sections. The first section is designed to open your eyes to the meaninglessness of the things we too often wrongfully align our hearts with and devote our lives to. The purpose of the first thirty days is to till up the soil of your heart and prepare it for the seeds of eternal perspective God wants to plant. It is intended to crack the thin sheet of colorful glass that is right in front of your nose (the world as you perceive it) and dethrone idols in your life so that you will be able to see past this physical existence and into eternity.
The second section of Heavenly Minded Mom will further cultivate your eternal perspective by demonstrating how to think and interpret life with a mind and heart set on heaven.
The third and final section of the book is about the things that will endure. It is intended to pour meaning back into the stuff of your life. The tasks, pursuits, and endeavors that were stripped of meaning at the onset of this book will be reenlivened with a different, deepened, Christ-centered sense of possibility and lasting meaning. Together, we will examine the things that will endure—faith, hope, love—and look at how we can store up treasures in heaven during our brief lives on this earth.
As tempting as it might sound from these descriptions to skip ahead to the third section, I want to encourage you to be diligent and patient. Just as the bounty of any harvest is a direct result of the effort and time spent preparing the soil and nurturing the crop, so it is with the fruit of changed perspective. The power is in the process.
My desire is to help you understand the implications of God’s Word in your life and to open your eyes to eternal truth. However, my ultimate hope is that you would experience God’s Word for yourself. Let me encourage you to use this devotional book as a jumping-off point for your time in God’s Word and not as a replacement for it. The Scripture references at the bottom of each day’s reading are an invitation for you to do just that. These verses directly correspond with the italicized words found throughout the entry with Scriptures for additional reference listed last. They provide important support, context, and opportunity for study to each devotion. Scripture references are listed in the order of their appearance as italicized phrases within the devotion. If one of these verses stirs you, I would encourage you to read the passages before and after it and to spend time carefully praying and meditating on what you have read.
Because I referenced many verses from the Book of Ecclesiastes throughout Heavenly Minded Mom, I have included a simple framework for understanding the Book of Ecclesiastes as an appendix to this devotional. I hope it will become one of your favorite books to read.
God’s Word is living and active. It is sharper than a double-edged sword that divides even soul and spirit (Hebrews 4:12). It does not return empty, but it will accomplish what God desires (Isaiah 55:11). Exposing and submitting ourselves to this divinely inspired and empowered revelation is the ultimate avenue for a new perspective and changed life. Let us not neglect this profound gift!
As you work your way through Heavenly Minded Mom, you will notice a handful of themes and Scriptures that rise to the surface repeatedly in a variety of contexts. Don’t be surprised by this repetition; it is intentional. I believe that the morphing of one’s perspective takes time. It will require multiple opportunities to reflect along with diligent study, deep meditation (the pondering of God’s Word in one’s heart and mind), and real application. This devotional is not a series of disjointed thoughts but rather a journey. It is what I like to think of as perspective therapy.
My hope is that by journey’s end, you not only will gain understanding of the many key passages of Scripture anchoring the message of this devotional but also will come to hold them dearly in sweet familiarity, as I do.
Day by day, you will dive down deep into this new way of seeing and then come up for air as you spend the next twenty-four hours processing and applying what you’ve read. There is a cyclical nature to reading and thinking. In the same way, verses, themes, and concepts will be called back in turn. Over the course of ninety days, the imminent reality of eternity will be gently massaged into your soul, and if you allow God to work in your life, your eyes will be opened to its profound earthly implications.
I have also created a collection of supplemental resources to encourage you on this journey, along with an e-mail list designed to nurture perspective in your life. Come join in! I would love to get to know you more. Find it all at www.embracingasimplerlife.com/heavenlymindedmom.
Heavenly Minded Mom in a Group Setting
Some of my favorite group discussions have been centered around devotional books. There’s something uniquely gentle and nurturing about the devotion format for considering, personalizing, and applying God’s truth, and there’s also something indescribably sweet and intimate about coming together with other women to share the deep things God is stirring in our hearts. One member’s revelation will edify the whole body of believers, and one member’s pain belongs to everyone. When we encourage one another, share burdens, pray together, and apprehend God in a community, we are fulfilling God’s grand design for His church.
If you would like to use this devotional to facilitate a mother’s group or simply go through it with a friend, I suggest working through a set number of daily devotions individually at home throughout the week, reading the additional Scriptures listed, and making notes in the margins or in a separate journal. When you come together, simply share your personal reflections throughout the week. Use the daily questions to prompt specific discussion.
When done seven days a week, Heavenly Minded Mom will take approximately thirteen weeks to complete. If, for the purposes of your group, you need to fit it into a shorter time span, this devotional has been designed so you can use the first ten devotions from each of its three sections for a balanced overview of content. This will result in either a thirty-day study or a six-week study if done at the pace of five devotions per week.
A Journey Worth Taking
In ninety different ways, allow me to stand at the street corner of your life and cry out the message I believe God has entrusted to me. As Isaiah wrote,
A voice says, Cry out.
And I said, What shall I cry?
"All people are like grass,
and all their faithfulness is like the flowers of the field.
The grass withers and the flowers fall,
because the breath of the Lord blows on them.
Surely the people are grass.
The grass withers and the flowers fall,
but the word of our God endures forever."
(Isaiah 40:6-8)
Your life is short, and it does not hold the significance you think it does. The truth is it holds far more. Allow me to plead with you in so many ways to lay down your life, take up your cross, and follow Jesus more completely than ever before.
This is a journey worth taking, and I believe it will change your life. However, I must also give you fair warning: this journey is not for the faint of heart.
This is my prayer for you as you embark on this ninety-day journey.
•I pray that you would glorify God through complete surrender of your life to Him.
•I pray that you would experience the enduring peace that comes from total faith and trust.
•I pray that you would find real—eternal—meaning and fulfillment in your life.
•I pray that you would store up increased rewards in heaven as you learn to invest yourself where it matters most.
Are you ready? Let’s begin!
Section One
Tilling Up the Soil
An Assault on the Idols of Your Heart
Meaningless! Meaningless!
says the Teacher.
"Utterly meaningless!
Everything is meaningless."
—Ecclesiastes 1:2
In Everything, There Is Futility
For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God.
—Romans 8:20-21
In everything that is done in this world, there is great futility. Mothers know this well. The laundry, the dishes, the cleaning—all of these things are constantly undoing themselves. We feed our families, but they will be hungry again. We fix a problem, but our solution creates another problem. Things naturally move from organization to chaos, and we must work diligently and persistently to keep it at bay. Each day’s tasks will reoccur, and in all this work there is great frustration.
Even in our childbearing there is grievance and struggle: the unpredictability of conception, the pain of pregnancy and labor, and the tear-soaked path we walk by bringing little hearts who are bent toward sin into a dark and dangerous world.
All of this futility and strife was set into motion in one fateful moment. Because of the sin of Adam and Eve, creation was subjected to frustration
(Romans 8:20). This curse blanketed creation, and we feel it every day. As men strive to provide, they are faced with toil, thorns, and ultimately death. As women seek to be wives and mothers, we are met with pain and subjection. Each of us is destined to return to the dust from which we came. Our situation is not good, but God’s mercy is evident even here. You see, creation was frustrated so that it might be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God
(8:21).
If we did not lack, how could we long for restoration and new life? If the world were whole, how could we hope in Christ? No, we cannot hope for what we already have. And so, we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies
(8:23).
Futility leads us to blessed disillusionment with the world so that we might see God as He is in contrast and put our hope in Him: And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us
(5:5).
Embrace God’s Word
For further insight, read Genesis 3:14-19 and Romans 8:18-30.
Journal Your Thoughts
What stood out to you from today’s reading?
How do you see frustration and futility manifesting themselves in your own life?
God’s Priorities for You
But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: Be holy, because I am holy.
—1 Peter 1:15-16
What are God’s priorities for you? Have you ever thought about that? Are His goals for you characterized by wealth, comfort, and ease? Is His chief hope that you would have a smooth existence on this earth? Is that the driving aim behind His work in your life?
No, of course not! God sees a far greater picture than this. He knows that your life is brief and fleeting. He knows that it will pass away in a flicker of time, and you will reign with Him in eternity forever. His priorities for you are not summed up by a sugar-coated, trial-free existence. Rather, He longs for you to become like Christ. He loves you, and He knows that this is far better for you.
Through very intentional work, God lovingly molds us according to His priorities. From His lofty vantage point, He sees clearly what is needed in our lives, and thus He leads us toward a place of greater maturity, depth, surrender, and dependence as we allow Him. These are the things that hold lasting value. This value utterly eclipses any and all momentary gain we might think we prefer in the present moment.
Because we cannot fully understand the scope of what God is doing in our lives or in the world—in this span of time or throughout eternity—we must trust Him. Rather than consuming our prayer lives with nothing more than requests for safety, blessing, material possessions, and success, may we also learn what it means to pray kingdom-minded prayers. May we align ourselves with the heart of God and choose to see the bigger picture that He sees.
God’s priorities for our lives are deeply spiritual and eternal. Let’s stop holding tightly to the things that God does not hold tightly to, and let’s stop running after the things that God does not run after. Let’s be holy as He is holy. Let’s strive to be perfect as He is perfect. Let’s be spiritually minded as He is spiritually minded, and let’s be wise as He is wise.