F.O.C.U.S.: Living the Lord's Prayer
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Beginning with his own testimony, Pastor Tyrone D. Gordon invites pastors and churches to F.O.C.U.S. by living the Lord's Prayer. Living and studying the prayer Jesus taught leads us to be faithful to Jesus, open to opportunities, centered on commitment, united in the power and ministry of reconciliation, and solid in the struggle toward power, justice, and love that come from God.
"A focused prayer-filled life points to God, depends on God, and looks to God for its fulfillment. Everything in it, around it, and in between it is designed to glorify God. Our whole life is a doxology because we know what ultimate reality is. This is God's thing, God's doing, and ultimately, God is in control." from the book
Each chapter includes questions for reflection.
Tyrone Gordon
Tyrone Gordon is Pastor of the 5,500-plus-member St. Luke “Community” United Methodist Church in Dallas, Texas. He received his Bachelor of Arts degree from Bishop College, graduating with honors, and his Master of Divinity Degree from Perkins School of Theology at Southern Methodist University. He also received an honorary Doctor of Divinity Degree in 2002 from Baker University, Baldwin City, Kansas. He is an Ordained Elder in the United Methodist Church and a member of the North Texas Conference of the United Methodist Church. He is a proud member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. and the NAACP. He and his wife, Marsha, have two daughters.
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F.O.C.U.S. - Tyrone Gordon
CHAPTER 1
F.O.C.U.S.—LIVING A LIFE OF PRAYER
Lord, teach us to pray. —Luke 11:1
It all hit me one morning in the spring of 1992 in Wichita, Kansas. While serving the Saint Mark United Methodist Church, I had given all I had to give but I had drained myself in the process. That alone was part of the problem—I thought I needed to replenish myself. After five years in a fast-growing congregation and being touted as a successful
pastor, I was running on spiritual fumes. On the outside, everything looked fine; but on the inside, I was sinking in a pit of despair, sinking fast! My tank was empty, and little did I know that morning, I was about to run completely out of spiritual gas. In spite of doing all the right things in moving that ministry forward and experiencing phenomenal growth in the process, I was doing all the wrong things to keep myself spiritually fed and nourished. I was trying to ride on the fumes of success, the fumes of church growth, the fumes of conference leadership, even the fumes of the applause of peers; but I soon discovered that those things won’t keep you running for long. I was like a dehydrated marathon runner; I was about to crash and burn.
Sometimes life drives home lessons that we can never forget as well as things we should never forget. But more important, these hard times can help us grow into focused and committed disciples the Lord is calling for today. Some things will drive us to our knees, but being driven to our knees can be a good thing, because it is there that God will teach us to pray.
As I entered my office that Tuesday morning, I was completely overwhelmed by a spirit of frustration, emptiness, and depression. As I sat down at my desk I literally broke down in uncontrollable tears. I cried like a baby! I had given so much and there was nothing more left to give. While basking in the glow of success, I felt like a failure. As I look back on it today, I must have been on the edge of a breakdown. My secretary at the time, Rita, heard me; and I still don’t know what prompted her to do this, but instead of coming to me, she quickly called my wife, Marsha. Marsha in turn called my dear friend and brother in ministry, the Reverend Henry Hank
Wilkins, who at the time was serving a local church in Dallas. Within the hour, he jumped in a car and drove the six hours from Dallas to Wichita, Kansas, to get me! Thank God for friends and family who see you in a crisis and intervene before it is too late.
When Hank arrived, Marsha had a bag packed for me. Hank told me to get in the car, and then he took me to Dallas to reflect, retool, and refocus! I am so glad they and God stepped in right on time! That time away changed my life. I began to see the importance of pastors retooling and refilling themselves on a continual basis.
Prayer took on a new role in my life, my ministry, and in the church. I had always heard my mentor and predecessor, Dr. Zan Wesley Holmes, Jr., tell us in seminary that we preachers need to be in the Word to hear a word from the Lord for ourselves and not just to preach a word to others! Preachers need to hear God speak through the Bible and we should not just open it to find a sermon.
YOU CAN’T GIVE WHAT YOU DON’T HAVE
During that time of relaxation, reflection, and revival, it became clear that was exactly what I was doing! Here I had been trying to feed others while not allowing God to feed me. I was suffering from spiritual anorexia. Even now, I remember an old gospel song I used to hear the choir sing at the Mount Moriah Baptist Church in Los Angeles: Fill my cup, fill it up and make me whole!
¹ I needed filling and I needed it fast.
Something had to be done! A refocus and retooling had to take place! A reexamination of my life, my heart, my faith, and my mind had to happen! I had to get back on track. So I resolved, then and there, that prayer had to be at the center of everything, including my ministry—yes, even my ministry! Funny that a preacher had to make that decision, but that was where I was in a dark and dramatic time of my life. It was during that time of prayer that God did what God does—God helps us see who we are in relation to God and reminds us that we are not all alone. All of our help comes from the Lord.
PRAYER ALLOWS GOD TO DO SOMETHING WITH YOU
After spending several days with my friend and brother, the Lord began to restore my life and renew my spirit for ministry. It was as if the Twenty-third Psalm came alive for me once again. You have bedded me down in lush meadows, / you find me quiet pools to drink from. / True to your word, / you let me catch my breath / and send me in the right direction
(Psalm 23:2-3 Message). It was at this point that I discovered prayer is not God doing something for us; prayer is not God becoming a spiritual, cosmic bellhop to entertain our whims and desires; prayer is not rubbing on a magic lamp or bottle and out pops a miracle at our request; but prayer is allowing God to do something with me, my life, and my ministry, and the church, God’s church! Prayer causes us to look up to God, who is seen and who then becomes the source of our strength for abundant life and ministry.
God gave me a new lease on life and ministry through the power of prayer. Developing a personal time of prayer and devotion became a pressing priority; but it also became more. Prayer became a lifestyle, essential to my spiritual survival. The power of prayer began to teach that this is not petty, human business—this is God’s business! It is not dependent upon us, but it is dependent upon God. Prayer, then, takes a load off of our shoulders because we now know that we are not carrying this load alone. Jesus bears the yoke; we simply walk beside him obediently. It makes us, as Dr. Zan Holmes would preach, Check our egos at the door!
Once again, the vernacular of the elderly members of the church while I was growing up came to mind and reminded me that, Prayer is the key to the kingdom and faith unlocks the door.
Wow! That experience taught me something about prayer that I had long overlooked. Prayer is a lifestyle and not just a certain moment in the day or evening. We breathe prayer. We live prayer. We move in the power of prayer. We operate through prayer. Our ministries should be the product of prayer. Our lives should be a reflection of prayer!
The importance of prayer, fasting, Scripture reading, and other spiritual disciplines once again became a part of my spiritual diet. They had to, if I wanted to continue to grow as a spiritual leader of God’s people. They have to be, if you want to be a spiritual leader of God’s people. We must all learn that we cannot give what we don’t have. We cannot put out what we have not taken in.