Keep Watch with Me: An Advent Reader for Peacemakers
By Michael T. McRay and Claire Brown
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Michael T. McRay
Michael T. McRay is a writer, facilitator, and storyteller, and the author of two previous books: Where the River Bends and Letters from Apartheid Street. He is the Southeast regional manager for the global story nonprofit Narrative 4. He founded and hosts the public storytelling night Tenx9 Nashville, and occasionally lectures at Lipscomb University. McRay has a master’s degree in conflict resolution and reconciliation from Trinity College Dublin’s Belfast campus. He has spoken in New York City, Seattle, Fort Worth, Malibu, Nashville, Belfast, and more, and he leads narrative retreats and speaks on story, conflict, reconciliation, and forgiveness. McRay lives in Nashville with his wife, Brittany, and their two terriers, Charlie and Lily. Connect with him @michaeltmcray or at MichaelMcRay.com.
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Keep Watch with Me - Michael T. McRay
DECEMBER 1
Michael T. McRay
Text for the Day
Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come.
Matthew 24:42 (NIV)
Reflection
When I worked with Christian Peacemaker Teams in Hebron, the largest Palestinian city in the West Bank, one of our primary responsibilities was being present for confrontations between Israeli soldiers and Palestinian civilians. We needed to film and document all acts of aggression, hoping the scrutiny of international eyes might deter violence.
We needed to keep watch.
For those of us in the United States, the last few years have particularly highlighted the deep divisions scarring our country. Many of us yearn for a better world, and we wonder how long we can wait.
Advent is all about waiting. It is about patience, expectation, and longing. We wait in hope for the arrival of something better than what we have now. This is a joyful hope.
But Advent is about ache too, because longing and waiting are also painful experiences. For our exiled friends in prison longing for freedom, for our oppressed brothers and sisters waiting for justice, for our loved ones on the streets dreaming of a warm home, waiting is agony.
Both Advent and peacemaking are experiences of hope, and hope is the stuff of survival. It’s little wonder people who live in places of suffering are often filled with great hope and joy. As one Palestinian friend said to me, What choice do we have but to hope? The alternative is death.
We hope that something more beautiful is coming because we must, because the alternative is unbearable. This work of hope is a muscular work, filled with sorrow, faith, perseverance, and resilience.
In my study, teaching, and practice of peace building, I’ve learned that the work of peace is the work of preparation. We wait, yes, but we have much to do while we wait. My best friend, Jeannie Alexander, is waiting for her beloved to be freed from the cage of prison. Year after year, she waits. But part of her waiting is working to make better laws so he can return home sooner. The waiting of Advent, like the waiting of peacemaking, is an active waiting. As the African proverb says, When you pray, move your feet.
We watch, we wait, we work.
Part of the truth of our world is that it is broken and breaking more every day. But that is only part of the truth. Our world is also a place of beauty, love, and unfathomable generosity. There is kindness; there is laughter; there is healing. In a conversation with Bill Moyers, Thomas Cahill once said, I have come to the conclusion that there are really only two movements in the world: one is kindness and the other is cruelty.
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I want to be part of the movement toward kindness, one where we might begin speaking to and about one another with something like love. I do believe that a kinder world is on the way. I believe it because I must, and I will watch for it, with eyes open and feet moving.
Will you keep watch with me?
Prayer
Jesus of the vigil,
you told us to keep watch,
to stay alert for what is coming.
Bless us with the strength
to watch,
to wait, and
to work
this Advent season,
so that your kingdom which is here
and is still to come
may be realized in its fullness.
Because if we do not keep watch,
we may miss it.
Amen.
Practice
As you begin this Advent journey, take a moment and consider what has drawn you to greater intentionality in this season. What questions and concerns burden you? What hopes draw you? What are you called to keep watch over in yourself and the world? Write or sketch some thoughts, setting your intention for this inner work of keeping watch with and for God among us this Advent. Keep this reflection as a reminder through the coming weeks.
Bio
Michael T. McRay is a writer, facilitator, and story-practitioner living in Nashville, Tennessee. He’s the author of multiple books, including the forthcoming I Am Not Your Enemy: Stories to Transform a Divided World (Herald Press, 2020). Michael is the Southeast regional manager for the global story nonprofit Narrative 4, and he also hosts Tenx9 Nashville Storytelling. He holds a graduate degree in conflict resolution and reconciliation from Trinity College Dublin at Belfast. He leads narrative retreats and speaks on story, conflict, reconciliation, and forgiveness. You can follow him @michaeltmcray on social media and through his blog at www.michaelmcray.com.
1.For the video of this interview, see http://billmoyers.com/segment/thomas-cahill-on-the-peoples-pope/.
DECEMBER 2
Claire Brown
Text for the Day
Restore us, God!,
Make your face shine so that we can be saved!
LORD God of heavenly forces,
how long will you fume against your people’s prayer?
Psalm 80:3-4
Reflection
As a mom, I’m actively engaged in the nonprofessional peacemaking of raising a toddler. Our child has unbounded curiosity and unbounded feelings. Massive dramas of disappointment, frustration, failure, and grief play out each day, and I must practice presence and compassion. Sitting with those big toddler feelings has been shown to better develop resilience, empathy, peace and calm in children over the long haul.
Practicing this with my child takes time, slows me down. It reminds me to practice it with myself. I feel disappointment, frustration, failure, and grief: with national politics and inequitable development, with the church’s anxious idolatry of institution, with my own inner struggles as the days shorten and demands of writing, ministry, and parenthood feel endless, with the backdrop of our 24-hour news cycle of suffering.
Psalm 80 is the prayer of a suffering people who look at their lives and see only God’s absence: How long will you be angry? Restore us! They are abandoned, shamed, alone, hopeless. They are carrying more than anyone can bear.
But we know that the tantrum, the prayer of a moment, a song of emotion, are never the whole picture.
Year after year, we go through the season of Advent, a liturgical season of penitence and preparation, as we anticipate Christmas, the celebration that God always intervenes. We sit with the already and not-yet of Jesus’ coming. We read lamentations and prophecies of judgment with knowledge of peace. For Christians, silence, waiting, and death are not the end of the story, but we must sit with them.
Our sorrows are here and now. Our worries are life and death for ourselves and for the people we love. They need holy attention. And they are not the whole picture.
This Advent, we keep watch together so that we might grow a gritty, holy hope. We encourage one another to active peace building. We are choosing to do the hard inner work of being still, grieving, hoping, noticing, and becoming a little more peaceful within so that, as the apostle writes, we would be strengthened and faithful, in fellowship with Christ’s work of peace incarnate (1 Corinthians