Gracefully You: Finding Beauty and Balance in the Everyday
By Jenna Dewan
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The frustrations and challenges that come with modern living can leave us feeling stressed, overwhelmed, and disconnected. In Gracefully You, Jenna Dewan uses her own deeply personal journey to show you how to find your true voice, connect to your deeper self, and live with grace.
From demonstrating how movement is essential to feeling good (whether it’s by going on a nature hike or dancing with your friends) to providing mantras that will help you begin each day with good intentions, Jenna shares clear advice on how you can cultivate happiness in every aspect of your life.
Learn how to create a home sanctuary, connect with nature to restore balance, foster healthy relationships of all kinds by establishing physical and spiritual boundaries, and maintain space for your own identity through it all. Filled with stunning photos, Gracefully You is a beautiful, insightful, and powerful vision for anyone who wants to feel better, focus on what’s important, and maintain a sense of balance—all with strength and grace.
Jenna Dewan
Jenna Dewan began her dancing career touring alongside some of the music industry’s most highly successful entertainers, including Janet Jackson, Missy Elliott, and Ricky Martin. She first captivated audiences on-screen as a lead in the hit film Step Up, and appeared in other films such as Take the Lead and 10 Years. She also starred in several TV series, including Witches of East End and Supergirl. Dewan hosted NBC’s World of Dance for the first two seasons of the series. She recently appeared on Fox’s The Resident and also stars in an upcoming Netflix musical series with a yet-to-be announced title. Dewan currently resides in Los Angeles, where she is an ambassador for St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital.
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Gracefully You by Jenna Dewan, Gallery BooksTo my little fairy,
EVIE.
May you always know your magic.
it is not only
time
which heals the soul:
it is presence
and patience
and faith
and creativity
and silence
and solitude
and breathing
(just breathe)
it is reconnecting with the things
which feed your soul—
the things which bring you back to your soul.
for it was you who wandered…
but you are coming home now.
—APRIL GREEN
INTRODUCTION
from a very young age I felt mystified by and drawn to the idea of finding a connection to something bigger than myself. My parents were neither religious nor spiritual. They didn’t teach me to believe in a higher power or anything along those lines. Yet I still felt it was my calling to discover the magical presence in the universe I knew existed.
When I began dancing at age five I felt my first inkling of this powerful presence. I’d walk onto the stage and something behind my eyes would change—through dance I could throw myself into a foreign mind-set, channeling an energy that was beyond my own. I had a strength, confidence, and fierceness onstage that was different from how I felt in my day-to-day life. They used to call me Little Tornado! Dancing gave me an immediate link to something I could feel. It was my passion that showed me how it felt to be connected to something bigger than myself, and this magical feeling has stayed with me throughout my life. When I’m dancing for myself or performing for others is when I feel the most connected to the energy. I feel lit up from the inside, completely in control, and very much in the flow of life.
When I was twenty-one, dancing on tour for Janet Jackson, I developed a friendship with the on-tour masseuse. We spoke at length about spirituality, which I was interested in learning more about and which she was well versed in. At the end of the tour, the masseuse gave me a beginner’s book on chakras. It was my first introduction to the centers of energy that live inside us. I felt an immediate sense of déjà vu, as if I was remembering something I have always known. Learning about the seven chakras instilled in me an insatiable curiosity regarding all things spiritual. I spent years devouring book after book, visiting Reiki masters, energy healers, and angel workers. I would lie on crystal beds in Topanga Canyon, participate in ceremonies led by shamans, and experiment with traditional spiritual medicines. I was constantly exploring, in search of a way to experience the same magic I was able to feel when I was dancing, but in all aspects of my life.
My curiosities led me on a life-changing trip to Peru for a charity organization I had been working with. I spent time deep in the Amazon with a tribe, living as they did. I found myself in awe of and inspired by the way the group’s members connected to life, which was through nature. It was in stark contrast to what I was used to, even though I’ve always considered myself a nature lover. For most of us, we go on a hike and we pass by a tree or a flower and we think, Wow, that’s pretty. The members of this tribe stop and pay respects. They’ll say, This tree is special because it is used for this and that. And that flower over there has great healing properties. It can be used for this and that.
For them, there is no passing by anything in nature without acknowledging its relationship to us. This way of being opened my eyes and brought me to a spiritual turning point. I always considered myself someone who respects and appreciates the science and beauty of Mother Nature. But it wasn’t until I stepped out of my mind-set and spent time with this tribe that I understood that in order to achieve a deep connection with ourselves, we also have to connect deeply with nature.
Returning home from Peru, I felt a strange combination of conflicting emotions. On one hand I felt extreme culture shock at being back in the hustle and bustle of my regular life. On the other I felt protected by a buffer, having been cocooned by the soothing sounds of the birds and a peace that only exists in a secluded jungle. The very next day after my trip, I had to present at the American Music Awards in Los Angeles—pretty much the antithesis of where I’d been. After my glam team put the final touches on my hair and makeup, I stepped into a glittering dress and turned to face a mirror. I gasped, taken aback by the shock of my transformation. I hadn’t even taken a shower three days prior to arriving back home. Just when I had adjusted to living the sweaty green plant life, boom—there I was in a dress with a plunging neckline, about to hit the red carpet. And that’s the balance that works for me. I don’t want to live forever in the jungles of Peru, nor do I want a sparkling Hollywood life all the time either. I believe you don’t have to be 100 percent this or that. You can be in touch with nature and connect to a spiritual presence while also shopping for manufactured moisturizer—instead of rubbing saffron on your cheeks. It’s all about balance.
When it comes to living in that flow of energy we all love and strive for, to achieve the feeling of I’m so grateful and joyful and life is supporting me, I’ve learned that ultimately it all comes down to a few simple things: the personal bond you have with yourself, the relationship you have with nature, and your connection to a greater presence. With this realization I stopped questing outside of myself for what would make me feel connected and started going inward. I now know that when you stop searching outwardly and start looking and working within is when you learn who you truly are and understand what it is you need and want in order to live your best life. I fully understand not everyone has the ability to pack up for Peru in search of self-expansion (or interest in doing so). Knowing this is what inspired me to write this book. I’ve been fortunate to have access to people and places that have encouraged me to open up and have taught me a great deal. In the chapters ahead I look forward to sharing this with you. Moving forward, you’ll find a collection of rituals, meditations, recipes, mantras, and more that I use to connect to myself, to loved ones, and to the energy shared by us all. My hope is that each page will make you feel lighter and brighter, ready to take on anything that comes your way with positivity and grace.
Attachment
I can tell you that your soul will shatter into a million pieces (which may take years to put back together) if you keep holding on to cold hearts in the hope that they will eventually become warm in your hands.
—APRIL GREEN
CHAPTER ONE
live awake
The most important part of my everyday begins with setting my intentions. This practice honors the desires I have for myself. Addressing these goals daily keeps me accountable and on track. For example, I might tell myself, Today I intend to see the silver lining of every situation. Am I able to control how the day will go? No. But I can establish early on how I plan to approach anything that comes my way. Chances are I’ll face a disappointing reality, whether it’s something major, like not landing a role I really wanted, or something small, such as a restaurant being out of what I planned on ordering. Since I made the commitment that day to see the silver lining, I will honor myself by finding the positive in every scenario. Living with this type of intention puts you in the driver’s seat rather than leaving you at the mercy of life. It gives you the power to create not how the day will affect you but rather how you will effect the day. When I began living with this mind-set, my life completely changed for the better. I’ve come to accept that we are never in control of what happens around us; however, we can always take the reins on how we choose to feel about, react to, and move forward from events. Once you can harness and claim that power, I’m telling you, everything changes!
I decide first thing in the morning what I want my day to feel like. There’s a difference between setting the expectation for how I want the day to go and deciding how I want to feel. It’s important to focus on how you want to feel and not on what you want to happen. A lot of times people focus on things like I intend to get that job or I intend to win that race. At the end of the day, you can’t control things like that, and you’re only setting yourself up for potential disappointment. What you can control is the feeling you’ll have going into it. For example, I intend to feel confident or I intend to feel strong. If I decide my intention for the day is to feel accomplished, it’s going to affect the course of my day, no matter what. Say, for example, I get an enticing last-minute invitation to happy hour. I know the new plan will prevent me from going to my last meeting of the day. I’ll stop to ask myself, What will make me feel more accomplished: meeting up with my friend or making sure I meet that person for a potential work opportunity? And the choice is simple, because I will immediately see what aligns with my intention for the day. If life happens and I have to pick up my daughter early from school, preventing me from taking my meeting, I’ll still feel accomplished, but in a different way. I will have accomplished my duty of being a dependable mom.
Setting your intention for each day is a small, easy thing to do, and it will make a huge difference in how you face each day. It made a huge difference in my life, and I have no doubt it will do the same for you!
In this chapter, you’ll explore the practices and rituals I do every day that help me set an intention, feel a connection to the present moment, and connect to myself. Both the brain and the body respond positively to a sense of ritual. These little moments when I make time for myself have a big impact on my well-being, not only on a daily basis but in my life as a whole.
RISE AND SHINE
light shower
Taking even just five minutes to meditate first thing in the morning doesn’t always seem possible when you’ve got kids wanting waffles, school drop-offs are imminent, or there’s work waiting for your attention. But