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Optimistic Aging - Henderson Cox Margit
Table of Contents
Title Page
Dedication
Copyright
Preface
Chapter 1: Optimistic Aging
Chapter 2: Your Can-Do Spirit
Chapter 3: A Vision for Your Vibrant Future
Chapter 4: Getting There—One Step at a Time, For a Lifetime
Chapter 5: Physical Health
Chapter 6: Mental Functioning
Chapter 7: Emotional Health
Chapter 8: Social Health
Chapter 9: Putting It All Together
Recommended Reading
Notes
Acknowledgements
About the Author
FOR GRETL COX AND BILL COX,
MY AGING-WELL INSPIRATIONS
Optimistic Aging: from Midlife to the Good Life – an Action Plan
by Margit Cox Henderson, Ph.D.
Copyright © 2014 Margit Cox Henderson
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any written, electronic, recording or photocopying form without written permission of the author, Margit Cox Henderson, or publisher.
Books may be purchased in quantity and/or special sales by contacting the author or publisher at Resilient Publications
P.O. Box 461295
Denver, Colorado 80246
Cover and Interior Design: Nick Zelinger (NZ Graphics) Editing: All in the Proof and BTDT Enterprises
Library of Congress Control Number: 2014910917 ISBN: 978-0-9905189-0-7 (soft cover) ISBN: 978-0-9905189-1-4 (e-book)
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Preface
It is probably not a coincidence that the first words written in this book were while wearing my first pair of trifocal eyeglasses. I began this research project in my mid-40s. Feeling the impact of aging upon my own body and mind, I wanted to know how best to take care of myself going forward. Watching older loved ones age and die, witnessing their vulnerability and resilience, left me wondering what is in store for me.
This led me to read, read, and read some more. When discussing these findings with friends, all of them said they wanted to hear more about what I was learning. This prompted me to consider sharing these discoveries more formally.
I am not a gerontologist or a specialist on aging. My doctorate is in clinical psychology, and my strengths include literature review and synthesis as well as extensive knowledge about emotional and social health from over 20 years as a psychologist. I have no affiliation with the studies cited here, just a ravenous curiosity about what is known about aging well. As a researcher and teacher of research methods, I enjoy reading the detailed accounts of studies on aging. But most people don’t have the time or interest to read at that depth. So I decided to write a succinct and user-friendly summary of the most robust findings in the literature on successful aging. I hope you will find this crash course on optimal aging helpful.
Research about aging has revealed an optimistic picture: the majority of older people feel well and live active, enjoyable lives. Furthermore, studies have shown that 70% of what is thought of as normal aging is preventable.¹ You read that right—70%! Lifestyle choices have much more of an impact on aging than most people realize.
The apparently inevitable effects of aging are actually a 30-year accumulation of unhealthy choices. Midlife is the ideal time to build healthy habits that will improve life now and set you up to be at your best with age. Even more promising are the findings that it’s never too late to make healthy lifestyle choices to improve wellness.² Start taking better care of yourself now, no matter how many candles will be on next year’s cake.
This book offers a concise summary of the research findings about aging well to inspire investment in your physical, mental, emotional, and social health. You will be able to have a vibrant life now, and for the duration.
When people think about growing old, they often focus on saving money for retirement. And while it is crucial to make sure that you have enough funds to support your lifestyle and medical needs, it is just as important to invest in all dimensions of health to age optimally and enjoy life fully.
70% of what is thought of as normal
aging is preventable.
Financial planners urge us to start saving early so that our investments grow exponentially over time. Similarly, the sooner you invest in well-being, the more benefits you will enjoy. There is much to be done in your 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond to remain vibrant in your 70s, 80s, and 90s. And unlike most retirement planning, wherein you must sock away money for it to grow into a nest egg for future use, wellness investments pay out right away. Nurture your physical, mental, emotional, and social health now to enrich your life in all those areas right away, as well as down the line.
Crash Course
This book provides a crash course about how to invest your time and energy wisely to have a healthier present and long-term future.
If you love to read and are interested in reading research summaries, this book may seem too sparse. You might want to read this as a primer or just skip to the recommended reading and notes sections for books and articles on the subject.
But for those of you who don’t have the time or interest in reading in-depth research descriptions, this book is written with you in mind. I have studied the research and offer here a short and user-friendly summary of the key findings and recommendations.
This book can be read straight through, or by jumping to specific areas of concern. The first four chapters establish the mindset for change, developing your confidence, positive future vision, and action plan. The next four chapters address each of the four main focal areas of wellness: physical, mental, emotional, and social. The book closes with a discussion of how to put your plan into action.
It may inspire you to read this book cover to cover and see how many ways there are to make the future better. If you are likely to get overwhelmed, simply skim it to find something attainable and start there. Take as long as you need to solidify a new habit so it becomes automatic, then pick up the book again and choose a next step. Customize your path.
Interestingly, all four areas of health are heavily interrelated. For example, being physically active supports the maintenance of mental functioning, and vice versa. Any actions you take will likely support several areas of wellness.
Some action steps appear in more than one health area (for example, exercise is relevant to all four). I have written these sections with extra care to minimize redundancy, to keep you engaged, and to encourage further appreciation of each action step. Keep reading, even if it feels familiar.
Because of misinformation about aging, most people think they’re on an inevitable downhill trajectory. However, much of what we fear about getting older is preventable.
To age optimally, you will need:
Knowledge about the right investments of your time and energy
A mindset about change
An effective plan to take action and stick with it
This book aims to help you in all of these areas.
The Choice Is Yours
Your choices now will affect your quantity and quality of life later. Your actions will impact your life in a healthy way, or in a way that leads to illness; therefore, it is important to have accurate information about how to promote current and future well-being. The health choices outlined in this book