The Grace of Beauty: Its Mystery, Power and Delight in Daily Life
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In a world beset by the ugliness of war, greed, and injustice, we all need to seek, find, and let our hearts rest in the experience of beauty. Not the beauty found in fashion magazines, but the true beauty, "ever ancient, ever new," sought by St. Augustine and countless philosophers, artists, musicians, poets, and holy people throughout the cent
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The Grace of Beauty - Melannie Svoboda
The Grace of Beauty
Its Mystery, Power, and Delight in Daily Life
Melannie Svoboda, SND
Reading Sister Melannie’s book is like stepping into the Shaker hymn ’Tis the Gift to Be Simple.
Her down-to-earth approach gently confirms things we already know while opening our eyes to things we may not know—like the beauty present in ordinary things, such as a swamp or a fire hydrant, and even in brokenness and grief. The book suggests that we, too, have the ability to see the world with the eyes of a poet and to pray with the vision of a prophet. So, prime the pump with a chapter or two from The Grace of Beauty and then put on your Noticing Glasses
and experience our world from a fresh new perspective. — Michael Harter, SJ, editor of Hearts on Fire—Praying with Jesuits
Reading this delightful book is like being led by Sister Melannie into an art gallery where each chapter is a painting of a special manifestation of beauty. She paints each one with an interplay of the colors of her stirring descriptions and examples, quotations from sources throughout the ages, practical applications, and moving questions for our consideration. As each chapter closed with prayer and recommended music, I was filled with joy in the Creator of beauty. — Patricia Livingston, wife, mother, grandmother; writer, speaker, retreat director
As I read The Grace of Beauty for the first time (it won’t be the last), I felt like I was on retreat. Melannie’s reflections called me back to the beauty of all life (which I can often take for granted). They urged me to reconnect with myself, others, creation, ordinary things, grief, and God. They challenged me to be a person of compassionate service.
The integration of Scripture; stories; theology; art; music; quotes from saints, philosophers, poets, prophets, and life’s ordinary people; prayer; and reflection/conversation questions touches our heads, our hearts, and our hands. The Grace of Beauty will enrich your spirit and all your experiences—over and over again. — Janet Schaeffler, OP, retreat and workshop presenter; author of Let This Be the Time: Spiritual Essentials for Life’s Second Act; Deepening Faith: Adult Faith Formation in the Parish; The Spirituality of the Catechist: Feeding Your Soul, Growing in Faith, Sharing with Others
A gem of a book woven from thoughts, ideas, and concepts of major thinkers, artists, and writers on spirituality. I suggest you read it with pen and pad in hand, for you will surely want to record some of these as you read. — Mary Ann Flannery, Sister of Charity of Cincinnati, retreat director and writer
Dedication
To the newly formed U.S. Province
of the Sisters of Notre Dame
Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: What Is Beauty?
Chapter 2: How Beauty Affects Us
Chapter 3: The Healing Power of Beauty
Chapter 4: Beauty’s Relationship to God
Chapter 5: The Holy Here and Now
Chapter 6: Useless Beauty
Chapter 7: The Beauty and Power of Metaphor
Chapter 8: Names of God
Chapter 9: Can Beauty Help Us to Be Good?
Chapter 10: Reverencing the Ordinary
Chapter 11: The Beauty of Movement
Chapter 12: The Beauty of Familiar Things
Chapter 13: Beautiful Jesus
Chapter 14: The Beauty of Me
Chapter 15: The Beauty of Prayer
Chapter 16: The Beauty of Friendship
Chapter 17: Say It with Beauty
Chapter 18: Beauty and Brokenness
Chapter 19: The Beauty of Service
Chapter 20: Beauty and Grief
Chapter 21: The Beauty of Humor
Chapter 22: Creating Beauty of Our Own
I did not have to ask my heart
what it wanted
because of all desires
I have ever known,
just one did I cling to,
for it was the essence of all desire:
to know beauty.
St. John of the Cross
Introduction
You are driving home one evening, and you catch sight of the setting sun, a bright orange disk amid swirls of pink and purple clouds.
Or you are walking in a favorite park when suddenly a doe and her two fawns bound across the path in front of you.
Or you bite into a plump yellow pear and instantly you are transported to a cherished pear tree in your grandparents’ back yard.
Or you turn on the car radio and hear the opening strains of a favorite song.
Or you step out onto the back porch in May and catch the faint scent of lilacs.
How do you respond to beauty breaking into your ordinary day? If you are anything like me, you may find yourself whispering a soft Wow!
or even a heartfelt Thank you, God!
Yes, we experience beauty at every turn in life. And the experience of beauty can affect us in many ways. It can stop us in our tracks, lighten our heart, calm our anxiety, ease our pain, move us to tears, or awaken in us the sense that we are part of something much larger than ourselves. Beauty even has the power to draw us to the ultimate source of all beauty, our Creator God or, more accurately, our Creating God.
Yet we live in a world also beset with ugliness—the ugliness of hatred, division, war, greed, injustices of all kinds, and even violence to this beautiful planet we call home. On a regular basis, then, we must be reminded of our intrinsic need for beauty in our lives. This book is such a reminder. It explores the mystery, power, charm, and illusiveness of beauty. It delves into the relationship of beauty first to God and then to other aspects of our lives, such as love, creation, healing, friendship, morality, service, brokenness, humor, and even grief.
Each chapter in this book consists of an introductory quote, a reflection, and questions for personal or communal sharing. Each chapter concludes with a prayer, poem, or short meditation related to the theme of that chapter. Firmly believing that music can enrich our pondering and prayer, I have also suggested a music video from YouTube for each chapter.
Over sixteen centuries ago, St. Augustine of Hippo, at the time of his conversion, penned those famous words to God, Late have I loved Thee, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new.
His experience of God as Beauty radically altered the trajectory of his life. Our experience of beauty can have a similar impact on us. For the grace of beauty has the power to realign our mind and heart toward the Source of all Beauty, our Beloved God.
Prayer
Beautiful God,
be with me as I ponder beauty
in my everyday life.
Help me to grow in my awareness
of the beauty all around me:
in creation, in other people, in myself,
and in human-made beauty expressed in color, line, texture,
word, symbol, sound, gesture, and movement.
Help me to grow in my appreciation of beauty’s mystery,
power, delight, and absolute necessity for my life.
Give me the grace to contribute my own
particular beauty to this world—
especially through beauty’s highest expression: selfless loving.
I ask these things of you,
O Beauty ever ancient, ever new.
Amen.
Chapter 1
What Is Beauty?
"I am never more aware of the limitations of language
than when I try to describe beauty."
Scott Russell Sanders
Beauty has been defined in many ways. The Greek philosopher Plato saw beauty as the harmony and proportion of parts. His compatriot Aristotle described beauty’s chief characteristics as order, symmetry, and definiteness. More recently, the writer Chet Raymo added something to that understanding of beauty. He said that beauty resides in the balance between order and disorder. He was implying, I think, that too much order and symmetry might be more boring than beautiful. So the woman with the updo is made more beautiful by the strand of hair cascading from her otherwise perfectly ordered hairdo.
St. Thomas Aquinas added another dimension to the understanding of beauty when he wrote pulchra dicuntur quae visa placent. This means things that give pleasure when perceived are called beautiful.
We perceive beauty through our eyes, yes, but also through our ears, our nose, our touch, our taste. Rachmaninoff’s Piano Concerto in B-flat minor is beautiful to hear, while the scent of honeysuckle is beautiful to smell. Many of us find a clean fluffy towel pleasurable to the touch, while a ripe red strawberry is pleasing to the taste. Beauty, then, is that which pleases any of the senses, often more than one at the same time.
Many poets have spoken of beauty’s appeal to the senses. In his poem Each and All,
Ralph Waldo Emerson describes several experiences of beauty. One day he was walking near a river when he heard a sparrow singing in a tree. He brought the sparrow home (it takes poetic license