My Brother's Shot: The Boy to Man Handbook for Navigating the Teen Years
By Y.R. Spence
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About this ebook
My Brother's Shot is a guidebook for teen boys filled with advice statements, short stories, and biblical quotes from a parent who wishes to share invaluable information with one of society's most vulnerable demographics, teens of color, who might not otherwise have the same advantages as others. My Brother's Shot offers direct, yet loving advice on a variety of topics, including:
- Family
- Romance
- Finance
- Education
- Travel
- Friends
- and much more
Author Y.R. Spence feels strongly about reaching these young men with lessons he's learned to assist them in becoming the best man they can be and achieve more in life than they thought possible. As young men transition from boys to men, this small handbook can help direct teenage boys through some of life's most challenging situations and give seasoned information to help them make more positive and healthy choices in all areas of their life.
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My Brother's Shot - Y.R. Spence
My Brother’s Shot
The Boy to Man Handbook for
Navigating the Teen Years
Y.R. Spence
My Brother’s Shot
The Boy to Man Handbook for Navigating the Teen Years
Copyright © 2021 Y.R. Spence
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law.
Y.R. Spence
Houston, TX
In association with
Elite Online Publishing
63 East 11400 South Suite #230
Sandy, UT 84070
EliteOnlinePublishing.com
Editor: Eileen Ansel Conery, APR
Printed in the United States of America
ISBN: 978-1513676999
Table of Contents
Introduction
Accountability of the Black Man
Advice Statements
Education / Employment
Family
Tommy at Breakfast
Friends
Character
Satan My Friend
Love and Romance
Finance
Loyalty
Food
Faith
Know This...
Government / World History
Success
Quotes from the Heart
Health & Hygiene
Home Life
I’m a Proud Black Man
Travel
Entertainment
Being a Man is Being a Dad
Bible Verses
My Brother’s Shot
About the Author
Introduction
As a father to young adult children, as well as a lifestyle and relationship coach, I’ve thought for years about creating a guidebook to help those most vulnerable within our community, mainly the young man of color who might not have the advantage of consistent, loving guidance in his life. My Brother’s Shot is a book geared towards bringing awareness to the challenges faced by African American men, as well as other men of color in our country. These challenges are found within all rooms: the board room, classroom, courtroom, and bedroom. There’s a destructive breakdown in society where the role of the black man has been, and continues to be, diminished. The word man
has become a noun only, the adjective man
is a mischaracterization of a chauvinistic pig that only wants women barefoot and pregnant, cooking in the kitchen for the ones who stick around. Our men often are seen as sagging pants, drug-dealing criminals. Does this sound familiar? I’m referring to that brother who is ready to abandon his family in pursuit of that rap career?
The rap career that takes him to late-night hangouts, drinking and smoking, but since it’s at a studio it’s considered work. The brothers claim they’re boss, because they sell drugs and belittle the men that wake up at 6 a.m. to go to work. Not realizing that the work money soon could be much-needed bail money. You know those brothers who make fun of the friend that went to college calling him Hey Joe College
not understanding that in the years to come they’ll want that same person to be their son’s Godfather, as well as the guy to whom they turn when their pockets are low in cash. Somehow, we need to dispel the belief that we don’t need education to be successful. Asking instead, what kind of education does one need in order to be successful? Education comes in many different forms and places: the classroom, traveling, life experiences. There are millions of people who went to some of the top law, medical, or engineering schools. There are even more who attended the School of Hard Knocks. Whether it’s an advanced degree or a fourth grade education, what separates one by the age of 40 is one’s drive, passion, and will to succeed. By finding one’s passion and developing the drive, anyone can succeed at any task. So, contemplate: what’s your passion