A Legacy of Love: The Soundtrack of My Mind
By Susan Berk and Tania Katan
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A Legacy of Love - Susan Berk
© 2018 Susan Berk with Tania Katan. All rights reserved.
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Published by AuthorHouse 08/17/2018
ISBN: 978-1-5462-3827-0 (sc)
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23499.pngCONTENTS
Dedication
Introduction
Chapter 1 September In The Rain
Chapter 2 If You Knew Susie
Chapter 3 Noni’s Jazz Improvisation
Chapter 4 Soundtrack of My Mind
Chapter 5 Jelly Roll and Ice Cream, Please
Chapter 6 Hair
Chapter 7 Musical Notes: 1
Chapter 8 Lead Sheet
Chapter 9 Noni’s B-sides
Chapter 10 All That Jazz
Chapter 11 Jazz Splits
Chapter 12 Jazz Hands
Chapter 13 Cool Cats
Chapter 14 Magical Musical Journey
Chapter 15 Musical Couples
Chapter 16 Lee Berk, Berk Lee…What’s in a Name
Chapter 17 International Jazz Day
Chapter 18 A Family of Presidents
Chapter 19 Home
Chapter 20 The S Word
Chapter 21 Little Known Music Trivia
Chapter 22 Birthdays
Chapter 23 Judaism
Chapter 24 Lee is More Than Fine
Chapter 25 Life’s Rhythms
Chapter 26 Got to Give It Up
Chapter 27 Beauty
Chapter 28 The Way We Are
Chapter 29 But Not The End
Photo Album I: Darling Husband Lee, Born February 17, 1942
Photo Album II: Daughter Nancy, Born August 15, 1976
Photo Album III: Daughter Lucy, Born October 7, 1979
Photo Album IV: The Family
Photo Album V: Susan, Born September 12, 1947
Photo Album VI: Susan Miller Ginsberg & Lee Eliot Berk, Married October 4, 1975
DEDICATION
To my loving husband, Lee Eliot Berk who, with his patience, deep listening, support and understanding, has guided us through years of courtship, friendship and marriage. Because our marriage is made up of music, musicians and life’s sweetest melodies, I’d like to dedicate these 3 songs to Lee:
1. Thank You for The Music
lyrics by Benny Anderson and Björn Ulvaeus of ABBA
2. Two for the Road" by Henry Mancini (Henry and his wife Ginny’s favorite song)
3. Our Love Is Here to Stay
by George Gershwin
There’s a little Gershwin story that relates to Lee’s life. Lee’s father, Lawrence Berk, who founded Berklee College of Music, was a student of Joseph Schillinger’s (1895 – 1943) in New York City as was George Gershwin. Also, our family has a portrait of George Gershwin by Andy Warhol, which was part of Warhol’s series, Portraits of Jews of the Twentieth Century.
This is for you, Lee, for a wonderful life that has literally brought music to my ears.
INTRODUCTION
Chapter%20Introduction.jpg"For many, pop songs that are deeply embedded in our consciousness become part of the soundtrack of our lives. An unforgettable melody or a lyric that expresses exactly what we’ve felt has the power to flood our mind with impressions of joyful moments long past, or to help us get through a rough patch in our lives. People all across the world feel the power of songs that make us want to dance, sing, or lean on them during hard times.
–Mark Small, Editor in Chief of Berklee Today
Influences at home, including classical music, were not all specifically jazz, but the family radio was always on…
—Anat Cohen
Music has the power to do many things. For me, music has been there when I needed to escape, to be present, to be loved, and to understand my purpose in life. Music saved my life—many times—and made it more meaningful. Music helped me to find the love of my life, gave me hope, and led me to you, my grandchildren.
I’d like to share this legacy of music with you while I’m still here, while we’re still sharing this earth together, in hopes that when I’m no longer here in body, the aura of music and musical memories I leave to you resonates beyond this lifetime. Music is your inheritance.
Even the process of creating this book is like a real-time Jazz improvisation! I meet with Tania (or send her recordings) and share stories about meeting your grandfather for the first time, meeting your parents for the first time, and meeting you for the first time. I share songs like, If You Knew Susie
and others that made me question my name and find my voice. We try to find the threads that weave in and out of the life I’ve created with your grandfather, your parents, you, and with music. My inheritance has been one of frizzy hair, bipolar disorder, deep love of music and you. There have been times in my life when I’ve been faced with the stigma of mental illness, times when I fought to stay afloat, putting on a brave face until my mind caught up with the plan. There have been times when I felt like the queen of jazz, meeting some of my favorite musicians in the world. Whether you’re feeling like the queen or king of something, or donning a mask until you feel comfortable enough to take it off, I want you to know that being different is what it means to be human. Being different is what makes a great jazz musician, great.
I have always been great at orchestrating events. All the pieces of an event, all the pieces in an orchestra are equally important; you have to know what they’ll sound like individually and together in order to create harmony. That’s why this book feels important to me; it’s my half of a conversation with you. Half of a dialogue. Me talking, you listening, and then we’ll switch. The talking and the listening are equally important. The listening allows us to be moved by the music and the music moves us through the stories that make up our lives.
I’ve set out to write a memoir that is like an album because music has created the foundation for my entire life. More specifically, jazz music. But you know this. You know that the home Papa and I have created is really the house that jazz built. You know this because you are our children and grandchildren. You know this because you grew up listening to Arturo, Chick and Herb. You know this because from the time you could walk you wandered the hallways of a school filled with music, a school named after Lee, Berklee.
This book uses grammar expansively. It’s less of a literary piece and more of a colloquial expression. So, if you see inconsistencies in punctuation, capitalization, proper names, or any other disruption in the structure of language…good! Sometimes it’s good to disrupt structures in order to create a space for everyone to speak their minds or to sing their truths.
This book is a gift to you, my children and grandchildren, so that you might learn a little more about Lee and me and maybe, in turn, learn a little more about you. This book is a gift to myself, too. Usually people give gifts like earrings or watches or flowers, but you’ll find that most of the gifts that Papa and I give are of a different nature. We give gifts that nurture people and places. We give gifts of art, education, music and stories.
Now, before we go any further I want to introduce you to Tania Katan, who has been working with me to extract and develop the stories in this book. Tania… take it away!
Hello, Rachel, Julia, Louisa and Ethan! Nice to meet all of you. And, if you don’t mind, I’ll be talking in italics under the heading Musical Notes
so you know that it’s me and not your Noni, ok? Great. It is such a treat to meet with your Noni once a month as well as listening to the stories she has recorded on her phone. We meet in the library at Sagewood. Sagewood is the name of the life care services senior complex where your grandparents live. The library has tall ceilings and in the center of the space is a strong, dark wood table. The table is surrounded by bookshelves with books that have been donated by