Raising a Great Student: From Cradle to College
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discussions with clients and other practitioners concerning educational development.
Dr. David Heller begins with some of the foundational and fun learning activities a parent can introduce to a young child, and then guides the reader through the early school and middle school years, always emphasizing the paramount importance of
not being overbearing and turning learning into a game. The author then provides detailed advice for the high school years, guided by a keen understanding of adolescence, identity formation and the building of a college plan and initial career
explorations. Ultimately, Dr. Heller tackles the controversial college admissions labyrinth, its many peaks and pitfalls, and addresses how a family and a student can best navigate this tricky and sometimes turbulent process.
Throughout this book, you will find encouragement and support for high parental involvement and an emphasis on parental praise as a vital source of motivation. You will also receive recommendations that will teach you a strategic outlook, while at the same time using learning to strengthen and deepen the intimate bond between parent and child.
David Heller Ph.D.
David Heller, PhD, is the author of twenty-six previous books, including “The Soul of a Relationship” and “The 200 Most Important Things Kids Need to Know about Life (And a Parent Needs to Teach Them).” Earlier in his writing career, he authored “Talking to Your Child about God” and “The Soul of Man.” Dr. Heller is a summa cum laude graduate of Harvard and received his doctorate in clinical psychology from the University of Michigan. He has a private practice in Boston.
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Raising a Great Student - David Heller Ph.D.
Copyright © 2020 by David Heller, Ph.D.
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DEDICATION
In Honor of My Son, Jared Heller, And His Selection As A 2019
US Lacrosse Academic All-American, And In Honor Of Brimmer
And May School, Which Jared Attended for Eight Years And
Which Thoughtfully Nurtured His Growth
CONTENTS
Dedication
Introduction
Chapter 1 The Ten Commandments For Parents
Chapter 2 Twelve Important Positive Steps Every Parent Should Take
Chapter 3 Childhood: The Building Blocks
Chapter 4 The Middle Years and Middle School: Creating Momentum That Lasts
Chapter 5 High School: Getting Started in the Big Leagues
Chapter 6 High School Classes: The Main Course
Chapter 7 Extracurriculars: Rounding Out Education and Adolescence
Chapter 8 Standardized Tests: Don’t Be Daunted or Haunted by Them
Chapter 9 Planning College Visits: Road Trips with Mom and Dad
Chapter 10 The College Application: Much Ado About You
Chapter 11 The Interview: It’s Just a Conversation
Chapter 12 The Early Decision Roulette Game
Chapter 13 Choosing a College: The Fit, The Fit, The Fit
INTRODUCTION
Do not train children to learning by force and harshness,
wrote the great philosopher and teacher Plato, but direct them to it by what amuses their minds, so you may better able to discover with accuracy the peculiar bent of the genius of each.
I believe this is a lovely, profound and even spiritual thought, and I see this as a guide and ethos for every parent in the socialization of their child. Yet I am also a pragmatist, so I similarly concur with the words of a great American forefather when Mr. Franklin quipped: An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.
This is equally meaningful guidance, and well worth adhering to. It is the spirit of these two maxims, offered centuries apart, that moves me to offer this book, a compilation of advice about the intellectual raising of children and about helping those children navigate the challenging and long-winding educational process all the way into higher education.
This book is based on my experiences since my son, now eighteen years old, (Jared)