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My Faith Journey: From Ritual to Relationship
My Faith Journey: From Ritual to Relationship
My Faith Journey: From Ritual to Relationship
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It doesn't matter what religion be it Catholicism , Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam or even what Christian denomination one grew up in, all belief systems should be able to stand the test of questioning. This book takes the reader through one person's life journey on a quest to know the truth and establish a firm foundation for living.
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    My Faith Journey - Margaret A. Kobier

    Copyright © 2020 Margaret A. Kobier.

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    Scripture taken from the King James Version of the Bible.

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    Balboa Press rev. date: 12/11/2020

    CONTENTS

    Preface

    CHURCH and family intertwined

    MY PARENTS

    LOVE

    Our Father Who Art in heaven (and who helps us here on earth)

    CHURCh and school intertwined

    PRAYERS and Rituals

    WHAT is Purgatory?

    WHAT is blasphemy, this sin that will not be forgiven?

    MORTAL and venial sins

    A Story

    WHAT are Indulgences?

    PRAYING for the Dead

    NOT only did we pray for the dead, we prayed to the dead

    FIRST Confession and First Communion

    FIRST COMMUNION

    CHURCH Service and Responsibility

    CHURCH helper duties

    SACRIFICE - as in an altar sacrifice

    WORSHIP

    IS there a difference between worship and idolatry?

    THE POPE, the successor to Peter

    BACK TO THE ROCK …

    VATICAN II

    A Big Question

    SCHOOL days are over - learning continues

    WEEKDAY Mass

    MARIAN devotion

    PRAYER

    VOCATIONS

    LIFE in the Church after Marriage

    Family

    MIRACLES continue to happen

    HOUSING experiences with a growing family

    A New Parish

    A Story

    LIFE Continued and then came a light bulb moment

    Adding / Subtracting

    MARY

    FATIMA Apparitions

    THE Rosary

    TRADITIONAL stories

    GROWING family

    LIFE Changes

    TWO years on and another pregnancy

    OTHER God Moments

    FORGIVENESS of Sins

    ONGOING Parish and School Involvement

    SCHOOL Board

    CHILDREN’S First Sacraments Preparation

    MINISTRY Training or lack of

    IDOLATRY

    ACTION Taken

    PARENTAL Responsibility

    TIME Moved On

    OUR Parish Situation

    BAPTISM

    THE Biggest Challenge - Communion

    JEWISH connection

    THE empty Grave

    SCRIPTURE Teaching

    IT is now nearing the end of 2020 …

    GRATITIUDE

    References

    Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a

    light unto my path. (Psalm 119.105)

    * * *

    These (the people from Berea) were more noble than

    those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word

    with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures

    daily, whether those things were so. (Acts 17:11)

    Preface

    AS WE GET older, many of us take a journey back through our lives looking at the highs and lows, rediscovering childhood stamping grounds and facing more openly the questions of life, religion and even politics. While many questions may not be answered clearly in this life, we can gain new perspectives and even respond to situations in a different and more confident way as we continue to learn and grow in maturity and hopefully, wisdom.

    My story is not intended to disparage the Catholic Church or anyone who shares this faith. My conclusions to date may not be theologically sound according to many. However, this is the sharing of my personal journey through what I saw were conflicting and unsubstantiated beliefs that stood out as I moved through my life. There is a saying that ‘God has no grandchildren’. Each one of us has this journey to undertake to find Him for ourselves.

    My questioning may be helpful or even encouraging to others who have questions of their own and are hesitant to look for answers.

    MY JOURNEY TO and with God our amazing Creator began in a Catholic family in a small country town in Australia

    WE LIVED IN a small country town where I went through my schooling and education until after finishing Year 3 high school (roughy equivalent to Yr 10 now) and then moved to a bigger town with more opportunities.

    This small country town was like many others in the 1950’s. The townsfolk provided the support and services required by the farmers producing wheat and sheep in the surrounding area. The ‘country’ kids travelled to school by bus and had the amazing privilege of eating sandwiches for lunch while the ‘town’ kids, like me, mostly had to go home at lunchtime (if you lived reasonably close to the schools) for lunch which was, for us, the main meal of the day. If my Dad was working locally, he would come home for lunch and then go back to work as we went back to school.

    CHURCH and family intertwined

    RELIGION PLAYED AN important part in our childhood. Most folks were either Catholic or Protestant or Church of England though the latter two seemed to be interchangeable as to my child’s mind a person was either Catholic or Protestant.

    Belonging to the Catholic Church was far more than being part of a religion. It gave one a sense of community and of belonging and no matter in which town one went to Mass, there was that connection with others through the same sequence of prayer, scripture readings, homily, the Offertory, Consecration, Communion and Final Blessing. In later years I found this same continuity overseas even if the language was not my own. It was familiar no matter where we went. This provided community and connection.

    There were two schools in the town, the Catholic School and the Public School with many a childhood dirt clod/rock throwing ‘war’ between the ‘Cathos’ and the ‘Prodos’. That was about as divisive as I ever remember it.

    Businesses worked throughout the week with shops closing at 1pm on Saturdays til Monday morning. Sundays were classed as days of rest though the football players got a work out on the footy field on Sunday afternoons.

    MY PARENTS

    MY MUM WAS Catholic and my Dad was from an Anglican background. He converted to Catholicism to marry mum. At that time, marrying a non Catholic was a big ‘No. No’ and whether it was that or something else, I, around the age of 10, became aware that he had been reluctantly accepted into the family.

    Mum’s family would be classed Irish Catholic with strict religious boundaries governing all areas of life yet I saw contradictions. There were several occasions when actions did not match the religiosity. I didn’t dare question and I had a hard enough time interpreting what I was been taught and how to apply the contradictions to my good, or more often, bad behaviour.

    MY FAVOURITE AND precious memory of my Dad was his morning prayer. He would stand near the water heater, close his eyes, clasp his hands and quietly talk to God. One could tug on his trouser leg to try to get his attention but when he was saying his morning prayers, nothing interrupted those few minutes. Mum told me of an occasion when Dad had gone out with his army mates and was brought home drunk. Before going to bed, he knelt down and said his prayers.

    MY MUM WAS very much into attending all Church happenings and the daily family Rosary. Both Mum and Dad taught me different aspects of God and His Son Jesus. For this I am very very thankful.

    The dispenser of discipline in our home was our mum. This was partly because she was mainly in the home while Dad went out to work and occasionally, when there was no local work, away to live and work. So Mum set the rules and obedience was the key. I didn’t like being disciplined, usually by the strap, and like many a child would say I ‘copped it’ when it was someone else’s fault. I remember Pop’s razor strop hanging near the door. I think my uncle’s felt that from time to time.

    DAD’S HEALTH WASN’T the best from about his late 50’s due to the various types of work he undertook and the smoking. He was now unable to

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