My Faith Journey: From Ritual to Relationship
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My Faith Journey - Margaret A. Kobier
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CONTENTS
Preface
CHURCH and family intertwined
MY PARENTS
LOVE
Our Father Who Art in heaven (and who helps us here on earth)
CHURCh and school intertwined
PRAYERS and Rituals
WHAT is Purgatory?
WHAT is blasphemy, this sin that will not be forgiven?
MORTAL and venial sins
A Story
WHAT are Indulgences?
PRAYING for the Dead
NOT only did we pray for the dead, we prayed to the dead
FIRST Confession and First Communion
FIRST COMMUNION
CHURCH Service and Responsibility
CHURCH helper duties
SACRIFICE - as in an altar sacrifice
WORSHIP
IS there a difference between worship and idolatry?
THE POPE, the successor to Peter
BACK TO THE ROCK …
VATICAN II
A Big Question
SCHOOL days are over - learning continues
WEEKDAY Mass
MARIAN devotion
PRAYER
VOCATIONS
LIFE in the Church after Marriage
Family
MIRACLES continue to happen
HOUSING experiences with a growing family
A New Parish
A Story
LIFE Continued and then came a light bulb moment
Adding / Subtracting
MARY
FATIMA Apparitions
THE Rosary
TRADITIONAL stories
GROWING family
LIFE Changes
TWO years on and another pregnancy
OTHER God Moments
FORGIVENESS of Sins
ONGOING Parish and School Involvement
SCHOOL Board
CHILDREN’S First Sacraments Preparation
MINISTRY Training or lack of
IDOLATRY
ACTION Taken
PARENTAL Responsibility
TIME Moved On
OUR Parish Situation
BAPTISM
THE Biggest Challenge - Communion
JEWISH connection
THE empty Grave
SCRIPTURE Teaching
IT is now nearing the end of 2020 …
GRATITIUDE
References
Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a
light unto my path. (Psalm 119.105)
* * *
These (the people from Berea) were more noble than
those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word
with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures
daily, whether those things were so. (Acts 17:11)
Preface
AS WE GET older, many of us take a journey back through our lives looking at the highs and lows, rediscovering childhood stamping grounds and facing more openly the questions of life, religion and even politics. While many questions may not be answered clearly in this life, we can gain new perspectives and even respond to situations in a different and more confident way as we continue to learn and grow in maturity and hopefully, wisdom.
My story is not intended to disparage the Catholic Church or anyone who shares this faith. My conclusions to date may not be theologically sound according to many. However, this is the sharing of my personal journey through what I saw were conflicting and unsubstantiated beliefs that stood out as I moved through my life. There is a saying that ‘God has no grandchildren’. Each one of us has this journey to undertake to find Him for ourselves.
My questioning may be helpful or even encouraging to others who have questions of their own and are hesitant to look for answers.
MY JOURNEY TO and with God our amazing Creator began in a Catholic family in a small country town in Australia
WE LIVED IN a small country town where I went through my schooling and education until after finishing Year 3 high school (roughy equivalent to Yr 10 now) and then moved to a bigger town with more opportunities.
This small country town was like many others in the 1950’s. The townsfolk provided the support and services required by the farmers producing wheat and sheep in the surrounding area. The ‘country’ kids travelled to school by bus and had the amazing privilege of eating sandwiches for lunch while the ‘town’ kids, like me, mostly had to go home at lunchtime (if you lived reasonably close to the schools) for lunch which was, for us, the main meal of the day. If my Dad was working locally, he would come home for lunch and then go back to work as we went back to school.
CHURCH and family intertwined
RELIGION PLAYED AN important part in our childhood. Most folks were either Catholic or Protestant or Church of England though the latter two seemed to be interchangeable as to my child’s mind a person was either Catholic or Protestant.
Belonging to the Catholic Church was far more than being part of a religion. It gave one a sense of community and of belonging and no matter in which town one went to Mass, there was that connection with others through the same sequence of prayer, scripture readings, homily, the Offertory, Consecration, Communion and Final Blessing. In later years I found this same continuity overseas even if the language was not my own. It was familiar no matter where we went. This provided community and connection.
There were two schools in the town, the Catholic School and the Public School with many a childhood dirt clod/rock throwing ‘war’ between the ‘Cathos’ and the ‘Prodos’. That was about as divisive as I ever remember it.
Businesses worked throughout the week with shops closing at 1pm on Saturdays til Monday morning. Sundays were classed as days of rest though the football players got a work out on the footy field on Sunday afternoons.
MY PARENTS
MY MUM WAS Catholic and my Dad was from an Anglican background. He converted to Catholicism to marry mum. At that time, marrying a non Catholic was a big ‘No. No’ and whether it was that or something else, I, around the age of 10, became aware that he had been reluctantly accepted into the family.
Mum’s family would be classed Irish Catholic with strict religious boundaries governing all areas of life yet I saw contradictions. There were several occasions when actions did not match the religiosity. I didn’t dare question and I had a hard enough time interpreting what I was been taught and how to apply the contradictions to my good, or more often, bad behaviour.
MY FAVOURITE AND precious memory of my Dad was his morning prayer. He would stand near the water heater, close his eyes, clasp his hands and quietly talk to God. One could tug on his trouser leg to try to get his attention but when he was saying his morning prayers, nothing interrupted those few minutes. Mum told me of an occasion when Dad had gone out with his army mates and was brought home drunk. Before going to bed, he knelt down and said his prayers.
MY MUM WAS very much into attending all Church happenings and the daily family Rosary. Both Mum and Dad taught me different aspects of God and His Son Jesus. For this I am very very thankful.
The dispenser of discipline in our home was our mum. This was partly because she was mainly in the home while Dad went out to work and occasionally, when there was no local work, away to live and work. So Mum set the rules and obedience was the key. I didn’t like being disciplined, usually by the strap, and like many a child would say I ‘copped it’ when it was someone else’s fault. I remember Pop’s razor strop hanging near the door. I think my uncle’s felt that from time to time.
DAD’S HEALTH WASN’T the best from about his late 50’s due to the various types of work he undertook and the smoking. He was now unable to