Finding Connection Within
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Mee-Gaik Lim Ph.D.
Mee-Gaik Lim is a marriage and family therapist, professor, professional speaker, and clinical supervisor. She has been teaching in the field for over thirty years and has an active clinical practice. Her YouTube channel, Authentic Expressions, focuses on helping individuals construct healthy, functional scripts to enjoy attunement, contentment, and fulfillment in life. The channel focuses on challenging individuals to embrace self-honoring and self-respecting practices to build authentic interactions. She received her doctorate in marriage and family therapy from Texas Woman’s University in 1991. Dr. Mee-Gaik Lim has authored numerous articles in professional journals, and she has presented internationally and nationally on topics related to strengthening family relationships.
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Finding Connection Within - Mee-Gaik Lim Ph.D.
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Balboa Press rev. date: 07/14/2022
Acknowledgments
To my nieces and nephews who have enriched my life
with lessons of patience and acceptance.
Contents
1 Successful Ways to Ask for What We Want
2 How to Handle Reactive and Explosive Behaviors
3 Words That Can Implement Change in Your Life
4 Practical Steps to Increase Happiness in Your Life
5 My Personal Bill of Rights
6 Constraints of Self-Limiting Thoughts
7 Healing of Self-Abandonment
8 Keys to Strengthen Personal Authenticity
9 The Dance of Self-Sabotaging Relationships
10 The Importance of Being Present for Yourself
11 The Value of Self-Reflection
12 Chatter of Inadequacy and Insufficiency
13 Living Life with Courage
14 The Pitfalls of Self-Judgment
15 How to Overcome Inadequacy and Insufficiency Self-Talk
1
Successful Ways to Ask for What We Want
People generally don’t assert themselves because they are not familiar with asking for what they want. Asking for what you want is uncomfortable for most people. It may have led to arguments or rejection in the past; hence, it’s easier for people to take the path of least resistance and avoid making waves in their relationships.
Since it takes courageous effort to voice our needs, we may fall into the habit of putting our feelings, thoughts, and interests on hold for fear of being turned down or rejected. Not expressing ourselves openly and honestly may eventually lead to resentment and may also hinder our ability to be transparent and voice ourselves freely in relationships.
Our inability to openly ask for