Seva: Sikh wisdom for living well by doing good
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'Demystifies the Sikh way of living a good life in seven simple steps' Vogue India
Think of any scene of disaster and you'll find Sikh volunteers rallying to the site to perform seva - pronounced 'say-va', meaning selfless service - feeding migrant workers, helping riot victims, and cleaning up after earthquakes and floods. Why has this 30 million strong community become the world's Good Samaritan? What is it about their values that makes so many of them do so much good? And how is it that they're also able to channel so much joy and laughter while serving others?
Through science-based studies, interviews with Sikhs and a look at history and fables, Seva unlocks seven Sikh-inspired rules to help anyone become kinder, happier and lead a more meaningful life. A secular handbook for the modern world, Seva is a beautiful, inspiring and moving book that will change you from the inside out.
Jasreen Mayal Khanna
Jasreen Mayal Khanna is a travel and lifestyle journalist who contributes to publications including Conde Nast Traveller and Vogue India. She is based in Mumbai and was inspired to write Seva, a secular ode to Sikh ideals, after the birth of her first child.
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Seva - Jasreen Mayal Khanna
Rule # 1
Help Someone Every Day
I must have been seven or eight years old the first time I did seva. It was at Dhan Pothohar, my local gurdwara in Mumbai, and I was ushered into the behind-the-scenes langar kitchen where the sevadars (volunteers) were cooking. My jaw dropped at the scale of the food being prepared. Huge vats of dal (lentils) and kheer (rice pudding) were simmering on industrial stoves, and trampoline-sized pans had 50 rotis toasting on them simultaneously.
I was given a basket of rotis and walked into the langar hall feeling rather shy and small. But within the first hour, I was gaily offering rotis to the congregation with loud calls of ‘Parshada ji (Bread anyone)?’ Rich, poor, young, old, all the devotees, including my proud parents, sat together on the floor and ate from plates made of dried leaves.
During my teen years, our family moved to Singapore and even there, every Sunday, we visited the Katong gurdwara where I did seva in the form of washing utensils. Sometimes this took hours and my shoulders ached from hunching forward. After one exhausting session, I loudly announced, ‘I washed plates for five hours today.’ My mother immediately corrected me saying seva was a privilege and not a chore, and I realized that boasting about the seva I’d done defeated the very purpose of doing it.
Only in 2010 did I get an outsider’s perspective on this tradition. I was back at Dhan Pothohar gurdwara with my mother, and my then boyfriend (now husband) Aditya called me to make plans for the evening. ‘I’m doing seva at the gurdwara with my mom, I’ll call you when I get home,’ I muttered.
My hands were clammy from peeling vegetables for dilkhush, a fresh, tangy salad that is served as part of langar. ‘Oh wow, you’re doing seva,’ he said. ‘I didn’t know you were planning to do that today…or even that you do it.’ I promised to call him later, and we hung up. Doing seva had been part of my life growing up, so I found it strange that he seemed so impressed with me.
Sikh families living around gurdwaras invariably find a way to make it part of their lives. My father visited ours every Monday morning to start his week right, while my mom was friendly with women in the community who routinely did seva. My brother excitedly woke up at 4 a.m. to go burst firecrackers during prabhatpheris (early morning processions) which happened on important occasions like gurpurabs (Sikh gurus’ birthdays).
While daily prayers do happen in the gurdwara, seva is an equally big part of Sikhi. My father donated money to host langars on the death anniversaries of his parents. My mom took me and my brother along to help with langar seva routinely. I’d often get so immersed in my task that I’d forget about polite conversation. All of us would work in a steady, meditative rhythm, and when the tasks were completed, we returned to go on with our lives. It tickled me that the gurdwara managed to serve a ‘snack langar’ even for the people doing seva, usually tea and samosas. Even the sevadars have seva done for them. Such are the Sikhs.
Why do Sikhs do seva?
It’s hard to be selfless. To be thoughtful, empathetic and generous. It’s easy to write about these qualities, to preach them. Try to practise them on a daily basis and you’ll realize it’s harder than taking part in the Ironman triathlon, becoming a millionaire or looking like a pin-up model at 60. There’s a reason why so many of us struggle to be good.
Five hundred years ago, Guru Nanak, the founder of Sikhi, understood this truth. And he created a radical religion that helped humans become better people in their everyday lives. He did it using a transformative idea called seva. Nanak identified our ego as the barrier that keeps us from an authentic existence and called it hu main (I am). Seeing the world from the perspective of ‘I’ keeps us from being