Build It Beyond: From a Dream to a Vision for Your Life
By Anita Willis
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The choice to move forward is always yours.
The will be times in your life when you find yourself unsatisfied with where you are. You feel like something's got to change, but you're unsure of where to begin. How do you rise up when your world turns sideways or when the results of your good decisions end up being huge mistakes? How do you b
Anita Willis
Anita Willis, at 65 years young, celebrates serving others as a speaker, author, trainer, and lifestyle/temperament coach. Anita is the force behind the IBH Group and IBH Sister Sound World recently formed a non-Profit. As a Leadership Values and Lifestyle Coach Anita encourages others to live with authenticity, transparency, faith, courage, beauty, and confidence. Self-acceptance is self-love and is the foundation of all value-based decisions fueled by one's personal core values. As the author of her flagship project: Build It Beyond, she "ignites the reader to overcome hardship with value-based decisions and actions. B.I.B. inspires the reader, or group to view themselves as the port in any storm where their insight toward change is guided by their core values and goals.She holds a Bachelor of Science in Interdisciplinary Studies, Master in Leadership Degree from Grand Canyon University in Phoenix Arizona. She is certified as an International Representative Temperament Trainer via NCCA., and a member of the National Association of Workforce Development, and Tenured Therapeutic Esthetician & Business Development coachAs an expert in self-leadership, Anita garners her counsel from academic success, and from the "School of Life's Abundant Experiences" which has taught her how to overcome hardships such as racial discrimination, illness, loss, and divorce. With faith and resilience, she embraces her vision and value toencourage others to be personally and professionally authentic, powerful, loving, and intentional in how they leave an imprint upon the lives of others. As the author of the quote: "change is hearing the advantages necessary for growth and excellence" ...Anita lives this daily fostering a continuum of personal and professional growth and development. Leadership & Talent Development, Speaker and CoachAnita is experienced in talent development and training as a leadership coach supporting individuals,programs, and enabling organizations to reach their goals through increased effectiveness and performance, thus transitioning from labor to a leadership mindset. As a workshop facilitator, Anitapromotes highly effective self-leadership skills, strengthens communication, and cooperative spherical change inspiring the individual, professional, or team to meet and exceed expectations through role clarity and sound interdisciplinary effectiveness.Anita has sponsored and facilitated customized professional & individual coaching, training, workshops,and keynote speeches to organizations including the following: RMPC Habilitative Services, Wisdom Real estate, Faith World Ministries, Hand, and Stone Massage & Spa, Empowerment Zone Coalition (NPO), Trinity Financial Services, Connecticut Workforce Development, and Beauty on Arrival.Anita has a proven record of effective leadership development, including effective monthly and quarterly reviews with a continuum of coaching and strategic progressive employee development.She has led strong team-building projects emphasizing organizational and communication skills that translate into a meeting and exceeding expectations emphasizing client-centered service within Health and Human Service Support Personnel, to include DCSP, Mid, and Case Management supportive staff. Anita's training in therapeutic aesthetics complements her style of coaching creating an atmosphere that is personalized for transformational and sustainable spherical change." I serve others by inspiring them to Know their value, know their values, know what they value, and value what they know."
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Build It Beyond - Anita Willis
Preface
By the grace of God, I’ve had some ups and downs in life and love. Haven’t we all? But with every challenge I’ve encountered, I’ve learned how to Build It Beyond. With every misstep I’ve tripped over, I’ve discovered the power within me to embrace a bold and beautiful life. And so can you.
What’s that even mean—Build It Beyond? As for me, it means recognizing where I am and what got me there to begin with, then acknowledging my truth for what it really is (and not manipulating it into my perception of what I think it is). Knowing this, I can make a plan to create change to live the life of my dreams with no apologies and no excuses.
I believe you can, too. You see, change can also be seen as a memorable acronym: Challenged to Hear the Advantages Necessary for Growth and Excellence. When you accept the challenge to hear your truth, you’re growing. Agile change often begins when you accept your truths, and when you truly listen and take to heart what’s being said. It’s more than listening. It’s hearing the deeper meaning of the message being sent. It’s called deep listening.
My advice—start where you are. Every time in my life when I’ve had to start over—and it’s not a one-time occurrence—I’ve had to think about the choices I made that got me there in the first place. Let’s face it, everybody makes mistakes. Some decisions are winners and keep you on the right path. Those are the easy ones.
Sometimes the results of good decisions end up being huge mistakes. And some hurt more than others. Way more. Only by being honest with myself and facing the hard truths, disappointment, misjudging others’ character, shame, humiliation, frustration, or heartbreak did I recognize that some mistakes and all consequences were mine to address, and mine alone. Admitting mistakes requires self-honesty, self-awareness, and self-forgiveness. And for some of us, being absolutely honest with ourselves is a pretty big hill to climb. But I learned early on when I saw my truths for what they were could I embrace them and start rebuilding from there. The question I learned to ask myself was this: how do I walk from here? That’s a lesson for us all. To achieve better results for every moment, you must chunk it down to your basics, and listen for the path and look for the light you need to walk your journey.
Change of any kind can be intimidating at first. But just like climbing a mountain, eating the frog, starting a journey, or whatever cliché you prefer, you take it one step at a time. I began by breaking it down to the core of who I am—taking a deep dive into what makes me tick. Among my core values is my faith. I am blessed by a strong faith that carries me through hard times and keeps me up during good times. I trust that I’ll know what to do because I believe God guides me with the wisdom I need to believe in myself and in my purpose and endeavors. When things are dark and trying, it’s difficult to listen for answers when looking for answers seems easier. However, leaning into my faith helps me quiet myself so I can hear. No matter what situation I find myself in, I’ve learned it is through prayer and meditation that I lean into my faith, quiet my mind, and silence my doubts. My faith toward God helps me to listen, receive, and accept so I can live my truth. Only with honesty and clarity, could I achieve my life and career goals in the face of sometimes overwhelming adversities.
I didn’t write this book to tell you how to live your life. That’s not what I’m about. I am, however, about encouraging, inspiring, and uplifting you to a prosperous soulful and spiritual level. Here is where you might learn some things from how I have navigated through my own challenges and mistakes. Adapt my lessons into ones you can use to Build It Beyond for yourself and then expand those lessons for ongoing and continuous personal and professional development. I’ve got your back.
I believe this book will help you to discover your inner honesty, clarity, passion, and purpose. I promise to give it to you straight—no chaser.
Introduction
We are living in unprecedented times, having experienced global pandemic, economic unrest, and long overdue recognition of racial inequality and inequities in the United States where I live, as well as worldwide. We are one human race and these realities touch us all. People everywhere are experiencing drastic, insurmountable changes and challenges thrust upon them, and I’ll tell you, it’s hard to manage life when you have a million burdens on your shoulders at once. How do you rise up and recalibrate when the cards are stacked against you?
Inside each of us resides a solid core of strength. After life knocks you down, you can use the strength you already have in yourself to propel you toward your personal and professional goals. You’ve just got to find—then tap into—that strength to hit those goals. Every time I’ve faced adversity in my life, I discovered my own strength I’d forgotten I’d had all along. Of course, it is an incontestable fact that there’s value in experiential knowledge. I had to quit listening to the voice of reasoning inside my head and steel my resolve to do better in order to be the best person that I could be in that moment. When the birthing or memory of a time in your life becomes a barrier and better than the baby, something’s got to change. And that something is your mindset—how you perceive your own strength despite your circumstances. The decision becomes do you lay in this misery or make it a purpose-filled memory? This becomes that moment where the lesson is not taught, but rather it’s caught.
I remember the moment I thought of Build It Beyond: From a Dream to a Vision for Your Life. Inspired by my mother, I could hear her words in my ear: You are bigger than your troubles. I’ve never seen anyone who refuses to quit even when down, you always come back no matter what. That was all the reminder I ever