I'm in This for You: The Truth in Becoming a Great Leader

I’m in This for You

The ruth in Becoming a Great Leader

Dr. Roger Kingston

Command Sergeant Major, U.S. Army (Retired)

ISBN 978-1-63844-391-9 (paperback)

ISBN 978-1-63844-392-6 (digital)

Copyright © 2021 by Dr. Roger Kingston

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This book references over nine hundred verses from forty-seven different Books in the Bible. All Biblical scripture in this book is from the New Living Translation (NLT).

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Table of Contents

The Leader’s Prayer

Introduction

Leadership God’s Way

Nonnegotiable Needs

Starting Out or Finishing Strong

Finishing Strong

Relationships Role in Leadership, It’s More Than a Theory

Why Relationships?

Relationships Are Essential

Trust: The Cornerstone of Relationships

Methods for Building Trust in Leadership

Let Them Know Your Method to the Madness

Communication Is a Two-Way Street

Speak According to God’s Word

Listen According to God’s Word

Know Those You Serve and Lead

Love Those You Serve and Lead

Encouragement

Compassion

Selflessness Over Selfishness

The Right Way: Selflessness Revealed in Scripture

The Wrong Way: Selfishness Revealed in Scripture

Surround Yourself with Great People and Let Them Soar

Seek and Take Advice/Wise Counsel

Empower and Delegate Authority to Others

Celebrate Their Successes and Bring Along Those Who Are Lost

Celebrating Accomplishments

Making Everyone Important, Especially the Lost

Be Approachable

Make Yourself Available

The Dangers from Not Being Approachable

Humility

God Honors the Humble

God Opposes the Proud

Hypocrisy (Say No)

Lead by Example

Being on Time

Being Honest in Word and Deed

Adhering to All Standards

Do Not Take Shortcuts

Do Not Bad-Mouth Others

Do Things Properly and Keep Things in Order

Loyalty to Others

Being Selfless

Be Kind to Everyone

Always Have Time for Others Needs

Have Faithful Integrity

Work Intently Without Grumbling

Use Good and Proper Language

Respectful of Everyone

Nonjudgmental of Others’ Personalities

Refrain from Gossiping

Accountable for Our Actions

Always Faithful in Word and Deed

Always Present and Participating in the Hard Work

Meet Work Requirements with Joy

Always Encouraging Others

Contribute Generously to Others in Need

Take Care of Your Family

Show Compassion and Concern for Others

Walk Your Leadership, Don’t Talk It

Be a Good Listener

Always Self-Improving

Adhere to Clothing/Equipment Standards

Who You Are as a Person Is Who You Are as a Leader!

Being Ethical

Understanding Ethics

Leading Ethically

The Importance of Ethical Leadership

Character Matters

Integrity in Leadership is Vital to Trust

Integrity’s Role in Ethical Leadership

The Results of Integrity in Leadership

Challenges to Leading Ethically

The Look of Unethical Leadership

What Leads to Unethical Leadership Behaviors?

Damages from Unethical Leadership

Unethical Consequences: The Seen Effects

Unethical Consequences: The Unseen Effects

Unethical Leadership’s Self-Imposed Torment

Leading Is Assuming Responsibility, Not Receiving Privileges

Examples of Assuming Responsibility in Leadership from God’s Word

The Challenge (Achieving a Balance between the Organization’s Mission and the Needs of the Those You Serve and Lead)

Disciplining Those We Serve and Lead (Never Personal, Always Professional)

Leading Is Also Being the Disciplinarian

God’s Word on Discipline and Practical Application

Why Discipline Is Required

Leaders Discipline Others Today for Tomorrows Opportunities

Disciplining Others Comes from the Heart, Not the Tongue

Disciplinary Measures Should Match the Severity of the Offense

Leaders Discipline Others Based on the Organization’s Standards

Disciplinary Actions Apply to Everyone Equally

Discipline Promotes Peace and Harmony

Justice in the Workplace

Disciplining Others Is Not Our Goal in Leading

Learn Both Sides of the Story Before Passing Judgment

Newsflash! You Work for Them

Basic Needs

Who Do You See in the Mirror?

PAUSEX!

Bibliography (For Further Reading)

The Leader’s Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank you for the honor and privilege of serving and leading others this day. Please grant me the wisdom of King Solomon, King David’s courage, and the heart of Jesus Christ as I serve and lead for Your glory.

In Jesus’s name, I pray, amen.

Introduction

Show me a great team of individuals or show me a great organization, and you can bet that they are led by a great leader or hierarchy of great leaders. Great leaders who understand the real motive required to maximize people’s abilities and efforts are their desire to serve those they lead. Leading others at any level of leadership requires technical and professional competencies. However, to achieve the status of being a great leader requires a leader motivated by something more significant than their success. Forming a group of random individuals, each with their unique talents, education, cultural backgrounds, beliefs, strengths, weaknesses, biases, and agenda into one cohesive and singularly oriented team or organization, requires a leader with the right motive.

So much is researched, written, and discussed about leadership styles as the answer to becoming an effective or great leader. Meanwhile, the singular motive for becoming a great leader is overlooked. Who are we leading for, ourselves or others? We lead for others. As a leader, our motive must always remain, I’m in this for you!

Before retiring from the military, people would ask me what I would like to do after the military. I would tell them that I would love to work again and in a place where I could be the link between the workforce and the organization’s leadership. Being in such a position would allow me to make sure the workforce’s needs were being heard and addressed by the leadership. I would also be able to make sure the workforce responded appropriately to the organization’s leadership needs. I want to make people’s lives better and more fulfilling in the workplace. Working for one organization would minimize the number of people affected by leading by the Truth. I sincerely believe every person deserves leaders who lead according to God’s Truth; therefore, this book was written.

I loved being a soldier. There was not one minute in thirty-two years that I ever hated my job. Even during multiple deployments of combat, I never woke up hating my career. I would wake up already tired but loving my profession as a soldier. I use the New Living Translation Version of the Holy Bible in my daily Scripture reading. Second Timothy chapter 2 is titled A Good Soldier for Christ Jesus. This introductory title caught my attention because I loved being a good soldier for this country. I thought to myself, I don’t have to stop being a good soldier. I need to change who I am soldiering for in life. And then I read 2 Timothy 2:2, You have heard me teach things that have been confirmed by many reliable witnesses. Now teach these truths to other trustworthy people who will be able to pass them on to others.

I pray that God will use this book to place His Truth in leading into the hearts, minds, tongues, and hands of leaders worldwide. If we lead as God’s Word teaches, we will be God’s hands and feet of love in this world and the lives of our fellow brothers and sisters. Life is so hard, and this world is dangerous right now because we have all forgotten how to be here for one another, not just ourselves. We need God’s help and protection. It all starts with God’s Truth. The Truth in becoming a great leader is God’s Word. Apply it and follow it, and greatness will come.

Part 1

Leadership God’s Way

All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

—2 Timothy 3:16–17

WARNING! This book will not introduce some new-fangled or radically secret way to become a great leader. Ecclesiastes 1:9–10 let’s all of us in on the truth, History merely repeats itself. It has all been done before. Nothing under the sun is truly new. Sometimes people say, Here is something new! But actually it is old; nothing is ever truly new. Sorry if that’s what you were expecting. However, this book will spotlight the tested under fire, verified, and validated through years of leadership application, the psychological and sociological leadership perspectives established by God to promote greatness in life and leadership. Everything begins with God’s Truth; His is the standard by which we serve and lead others. Truth is God’s view on any subject matter, including leadership!

The study of leadership may leave a person with more questions than answers when attempting to find an agreed-upon leadership definition. After conducting an extensive search designed to identify the published variances of the definitions of leadership, leadership scholars concluded, We reviewed 160 articles and books that contained a definition, a scale, or a construct of leadership.¹ Determining a one size fits all definition of leadership seems almost impossible, as leadership is defined differently throughout society. The study of leadership must move past defining it and shift its focus to identifying the elements found in good leadership, which will produce great leadership when cultivated with God’s truth. The ultimate question in leadership studies is not What is the definition of leadership? The ultimate point of studying leadership is "What is good leadership?" The use of the word good here has two senses, morally good and technically good."²

This book will present the essential elements of morally good, along with the central and significantly important motives and methods for great leadership. When applied correctly, these motives and methods will metamorphize into great leadership according to God’s Truth. You may be asking yourself, Where did this guy find these not so secret ingredients to becoming a great leader? It all starts with the Seed of Truth! In Revelation 3:14, Jesus says, This is the message from the one who is the Amen—the faithful and true witness, the beginning of God’s new creation. Amen means "It is so; so be it." God is the final authority on everything that was, is, and will be.

The Seed is the Word of God. In the Seed is life. A seed by itself sitting in a jar is just a little seed; it can remain only a seed for hundreds of years if left in the jar. But place that single seed into the soil, feed it water, and surround it with a warm temperature. Now, that same single dead-looking seed will burst open and begin creeping up through the dark, moist soil searching for sunlight. That little seemingly dead seed burst into a new and grander creation of life. For an abundant and meaningful experience as a person, God’s Word is our seed. Jesus told His disciples in Matthew 13:12, To those who listen to my teaching, more understanding will be given, and they will have an abundance of knowledge. By studying the Word and applying the Word to our lives, we will burst into more abundant lives. We will burst forth into leading our lives and leading others with the greatness God created us to achieve.

The Seed of God is Truth; in other words, God’s Word is Truth—it has always been true, is true, and will always be true. We are to base our lives and how we lead others on God’s Truth. Jesus Christ came to reveal the Truth. In John 18:37, Jesus, when asked if he was a king, answered, saying, I was born and came into the world to testify to the truth. All who love the truth recognize that what I say is true. Just before Jesus is to be betrayed and crucified, He speaks to the Father about His disciples and those that believe in him in John 17:16–17, They do not belong to this world any more than I do. Make them holy by your truth; teach them your word, which is truth. Throughout the Bible, the Truth in God’s Word has been validated time and time again:

Every word of God proves true. (Proverbs 30:5)

This truth gives them confidence that they have eternal life, which God—who does not lie—promised them before the world began. (Titus 1:2)

So God has given both his promise and his oath. These two things are unchangeable because it is impossible for God to lie. (Hebrews 6:18)

God is not man, so he does not lie. He is not human, so he does not change his mind. (Numbers 23:19)

"I, the LORD, speak only what is true and declare only what is right." (Isaiah 45:19)

The LORD says, I have sworn by my own name; I have spoken the truth, and I will never go back on my word. (Isaiah 45:23)

All who invoke a blessing or take an oath will do so by the God of truth. (Isaiah 65:16)

God, who is Truth, and what He says is Truth, tells us as a person and as a leader how important it is that we follow the Words of His Truth. God told Joshua as he became the leader of millions of people.

Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the instructions Moses gave you. Do not deviate from them, turning either to the right or left. Then you will be successful in everything you do. Study this Book of Instruction continually. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do. This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go. (Joshua 1:7–9)

Leaders are people leading other people, but we cannot humanize how we lead others. We cannot allow this world’s culture of man knows best to minimize or override how God tells us to lead others. This logic of thought falls under the philosophy of secular humanism. Secular humanism follows the thought process that other people’s ideas should tell a person how to live life. In other words, use man’s self-taught ways of living life over how God’s Word tells us to live our lives. How can man, created by God, overrule or claim to know better ways to lead other people than the creator himself? Technology has made drastic changes throughout the span of humanity’s existence. Still, man himself is the same beast, with the same moral challenges encountered from the time of our creation. And leadership is all about how an individual, given the honor of leading others, addresses those same moral and ethical challenges today.

God’s Word leaves no challenge of leadership without guidance and an example. Throughout God’s Word, any use of the word shepherd represents calling the person a leader. God’s Word teaches leaders their role of serving and caring for people the way shepherds tended their sheep. Man has not created any new humanistic moral challenges within the leadership arena that was not present and addressed by God’s Word. God’s Word represents The Truth. Man’s word represents my Truth, and my Truth is anything we want it to be, while God’s Truth is always what he says it is, The Truth.

I have never been mistakenly identified as being the brightest or smartest person you might meet. But even I understand that if everything God says is true, God’s Word is Truth, and God’s Word tells us repeatedly how we are to lead and serve others; this might be something worth exploring deeper.

Nonnegotiable Needs

Physically: Air

Water:  To Sustain the Flesh

Food

Spiritually: God’s Word  For Life More Abundantly

For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires. Nothing in all creation is hidden from God. Everything is naked and exposed before his eyes, and he is the one to whom we are accountable. (Hebrews 4:12–13)

God’s Word presents the most truthful and absolute best way to lead. God’s Word is filled with pinpoint instruction and beautiful examples of leadership. Let’s look at an example of God telling us how to lead others:

Care for the flock that God has entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not grudgingly—not for what you will get out of it, but because you are eager to serve God. Don’t lord it over the people assigned to your care but lead them by your own good example. (1 Peter 5:2–3)

(In other words, leader, keep watch over those you lead because you genuinely care about them, lead ethically, lead selflessly, empower and encourage others, and lead by example.) Great stuff indeed!

Now you are thinking, Okay, God’s Word is true, but why learn to lead based on what God says and not on some secular leadership guru’s latest bestseller? A bestseller is most likely written by some person that thinks they know how to lead because other scholars" tell them they know what they are talking about. The LORD has given me a strong warning not to think like everyone else does (Isaiah 8:11). We are to think and act like God’s Word so clearly and precisely tells us to.

The world is full of self-promoting, opinionated, and secularly (a way of thinking that God is not necessary, or we have this figured out on our own) educated leadership experts/scholars. Still, they are not teaching leadership from the foundational Word of God. Those people belong to this world, so they speak from the world’s viewpoint, and the world listens to them (1 John 4:5). This viewpoint equates to the blind leading the blind. Jesus addressed the absurdity of following someone that is not teaching leadership aligned with His truth in Luke 6:39–40, Then Jesus gave the following illustration: Can one blind person lead another? Won’t they both fall into a ditch? Students are not greater than their teacher. But the student who is fully trained will become like the teacher.

God tells us to avoid the secular world’s thoughts and ways in Colossians 2:8, Don’t let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ. Trusting in man’s theories and mere speculations of how we lead others lend to following flawed advice and instruction from man’s perspective. God’s Word warns against following those who are wise in their own opinion or insight and not God’s. These wise teachers will fall into the trap of their own foolishness, for they have rejected the word of the LORD. Are they so wise after all? (Jeremiah 8:9). God’s Word warns us again in 1 Corinthians 3:18–19, Stop deceiving yourselves. If you think you are wise by this world’s standards, you need to become a fool to be truly wise. For the wisdom of this world is foolishness to God. Instead, we are to follow God’s instruction, who warns us in Isaiah 2:22, Don’t put your trust in mere humans. They are as frail as breath. What good are they? Some may argue that we must lead as society tells us with a particular leadership style. But God’s Word tells us to avoid entertaining their desire to teach others down the wrong path in their leadership development. Guard what God has entrusted to you. Avoid godless, foolish discussions with those who oppose you with their so-called knowledge (1 Timothy 6:20). God’s Word even tells us to listen to him, and His way in Hebrews 12:25, Be careful that you do not refuse to listen to the One who is speaking.

I am certainly no one to say that man has no good motives and suggestions in their leadership teaching; many do. We are all seeking to find ways to better ourselves. Even God’s Word asks us why wouldn’t we want to learn how to lead from God? But shouldn’t people ask God for guidance? (Isaiah 8:19). Scripture then instructs us in Isaiah 8:20, Look to God’s instructions and teachings! People who contradict his word are completely in the dark. Yes, there is plenty to learn in becoming a great leader; we are clay being formed by the potter. And yet, O LORD, you are our Father. We are the clay, and you are the potter. We are all formed by your hand (Isaiah 64:8). The main point here is we should learn to lead as God instructs, for His ways are perfect. The instructions of the LORD are perfect, reviving the soul (Psalm 19:7). There is plenty to learn to become a great leader. God’s Word should be the foundational basis of how we lead. Still, there is plenty to learn from people God has appointed to teach and strengthen our leadership abilities. We should seek leadership development founded on leadership principles reflecting God’s Truth in leading others.

Much of the things we attempt to do in life flows from the process of trial and error. We stumble around in the dark of naivety, hoping to get things right. We do not have to lead in the dark, we can lead in the light provided by God’s Word. John 8:12 Jesus said, I am the light of the world. If you follow me, you won’t have to walk in darkness, because you will have the light that leads to life. We try to think our way through life’s challenges, hoping we’re correct. God has already figured it all out for us. There has never been an instance of something surprising God. He has never said, Whoa, where did that come from? I didn’t see that one coming. Instead, God’s Word tells us that if we listen to Him, and live and lead according to His Word, we will significantly benefit from it.

My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts, says the LORD. And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts. The rain and the snow come down from the heavens and stay on the ground to water the earth. They cause the grain to grow, producing seed for the farmer and bread for the hungry. It is the same with my word. I send it out, and it always produces fruit. It will accomplish all I want it to, and it will prosper everywhere I send it. (Isaiah 55:8–11)

The Apostle James tells us to do more than to listen to God’s Word in James 1:22–25:

But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves. For if you listen to the word and don’t obey, it is like glancing at your face in a mirror. You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like. But if you look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.

The Apostle Paul reminds us that what Jesus said over two thousand years ago applied to man then, now, and forever. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. So do not be attracted by strange new ideas (Hebrews 13:8–9). In the Book of Galatians, Paul reveals why we are to lead others as God’s Word instructs us. Obviously, I’m not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ’s servant (Galatians 1:10).

These statements present themselves as simple enough to understand, and simple is my middle name! Following thirty-two years as a leader in the US Army, a Doctorate in Strategic Leadership from Regent University (Christian Leadership to Change the World), and several years in the private sector as a leader and college professor I decided to identify and apply God’s Word to the situations I have encountered as a leader. This book is founded on God’s Truth and God’s way we are to lead. Jesus tells us to listen to Him; in Matthew 7:24, Jesus says, "Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock." We have the assurance that everything Jesus taught on how to serve and lead others is the absolute truth. Jesus tells us in John 8:26, For I say only what I have heard from the one who sent me, and he is completely truthful. Jesus said this a while ago, but it remains valid forever, The grass withers and the flowers fade, but the word of God stands forever (Isaiah 40:8).

While I do/did not always hit the mark as a leader, my foundation is built on my family’s Christian values instilled in me as a young person. I know I did not and still do not have it all down. I am always telling my beautiful wife Jenny, there is so much to learn. The best way to work toward becoming the best leader you can be is to remember and practice:

Leadership is activated by a spirit of humility,

Leadership is saturated by increased knowledge, and

Leadership is dedicated to serving others.

Humility, increased knowledge, and selfless service will open the door to becoming a great leader in your personal and professional life. Let’s move forward and get into it.

We will set the stage for everything discussed with God’s Word (Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people [Colossians 3:23]), supportive writings, and real-world narratives that will provide practical application (in other words, experiences and observations from leaders that follow God.) At the end of each chapter are several Reflection Questions for you to spend time contemplating what was discussed before moving on to the next chapter. Don’t measure yourself as a leader against what others say or how others around you lead. Measure yourself as a leader against God’s Truth in leading, His is the approval we seek, not man’s. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes (Ephesians 4:23).

Oh yeah, just in case you need another reason why understanding that leading others as God would have us to is ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL, remember what King David stated.

Joyful are people of integrity, who follow the instructions of the LORD. Joyful are those who obey his laws and search for him with all their hearts. They do not compromise with evil, and they walk only in his paths. You have charged us to keep your commandments carefully. Oh, that my actions would consistently reflect your decrees! Then I will not be ashamed when I compare my life with your commands. As I learn your righteous regulations, I will thank you by living as I should! I will obey your decrees. Please don’t give up on me! (Psalm 119:1–8)

Oh, how I love your instructions! I think about them all day long. Your commands make me wiser than my enemies, for they are my constant guide. Yes, I have more insight than my teachers, for I am always thinking of your laws. I am even wiser than my elders, for I have kept your commandments. I have refused to walk on any evil path, so that I may remain obedient to your word. I haven’t turned away from your regulations, for you have taught me well. How sweet your words taste to me; they are sweeter than honey. Your commandments give me understanding; no wonder I hate every false way of life. (Psalm 119:97–104)

If God’s Words of wisdom and methods for leading others were good enough for David, the Great Warrior and Anointed King, whom God said in Acts 13:22, "I have found David son of Jesse, a man after my own heart. He will do everything I want him to do," well then, count me in. We will develop our leadership into greatness, keeping God’s Word as our foundation for all motives and actions. Remembering that God’s Word is a light revealing how we are to live and lead.

You must pay close attention to what they wrote, for their words are like a lamp shining in a dark place. Above all, you must realize that no prophecy in Scripture ever came from the prophet’s own understanding, or from human initiative. No, those prophets were moved by the Holy Spirit, and they spoke from God. (2 Peter 1:19–20)

Come with me as we discover God’s Truth in Leadership and apply His Truth to today’s leadership environment and its multiple challenges. Come with me as we discover The Truth in becoming a great leader! Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path (Psalm 119:105).

All the good from the Savior of the world is communicated through this book. All things desirable to man are contained in the Bible. (US President Abraham Lincoln)

Reflection Time

Have you ever contemplated applying how God tells us to live our lives as a way to serve and lead others? Why?

Do you lead with your head, or do you lead with your heart? Do you lead with both your head and your heart?

Which did Jesus lead with? If it worked for Him, will it work for you?

When challenged in leading, have you ever sought God’s answer for how to handle the challenge?

1 Bruce Winston and Kathleen Patterson, An Integrative Definition of Leadership, International Journal of Leadership Studies, 1, no. 2 (2006): 6-66.

2 Joanne B. Ciulla, ed., Ethics, the Heart of Leadership (Santa Barbara: ABC-CLIO, LLC, 2014), 16.

1 Bob Goff, Live in Grace, Walk in Love, A 365-Day Journey (Nashville: Nelson Books, 2019), 238.

2 Harold Myra and Marshall Shelley, The Leadership Secrets of Billy Graham (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2005), 58.

1 Tom Holladay, The Relationship Principles of Jesus (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2008), 29.

1 Tom Holladay, The Relationship Principles of Jesus (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2008), 145.

2 Harold Myra and Marshall Shelley, The Leadership Secrets of Billy Graham (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2005), 257.

1 Bob Goff, Live in Grace, Walk in Love, A 365-Day Journey (Nashville: Nelson Books, 2019), 266.

1 Harold Myra and Marshall Shelley, The Leadership Secrets of Billy Graham (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2005), 134.

2 Bob Goff, Live in Grace, Walk in Love, A 365-Day Journey (Nashville: Nelson Books, 2019), 190.

3 Ibid., 87.

1 Bob Goff, Live in Grace, Walk in Love, A 365-Day Journey (Nashville: Nelson Books, 2019), 270.

2 Tony Evans, Time to Get Serious: Daily Devotions to Keep You Close to God (Wheaton: Crossway, 1995), 309.

1 Adrian Rogers, Mastering Your Emotions (Memphis: Love Worth Finding Ministries, 2012), 56.

2 Harold Myra and Marshall Shelley, The Leadership Secrets of Billy Graham (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2005), 131.

3 Ibid., 130.

1 Tony Evans, Your Comeback: Your Past Doesn’t Have To Determine Your Future (Eugene: Harvest House, 2018), 18-19.

2 Harold Myra and Marshall Shelley, The Leadership Secrets of Billy Graham (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2005),