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195 pages, Hardcover
First published March 24, 2009
Because even though it is harder for me to talk than to listen, and even though it is also hard for me to listen, I think it is much harder for NTs to listen than it is to talk.This was a great example of the differences in communication and the difference between talking and listening, and how oftentimes people will think you're not listening when really you just don't have anything else to contribute.
Later Lara Mok told me her mother said I was dangerous and shouldn’t be in school with the normal kids. That I was disruptive and holding everyone back. That it was only going to get worse.
She didn’t mean for me.
For the NTs, she meant.
For the ones that threw the clay around the room and let me take the blame’
I knew I had these new letters—ADOS, LD, HFA, PDD–NOS—that would always be linked to my name, that I was not going to outgrow. And even if my mom didn’t know it, I only had one choice. I could keep my name with all its letters and sounds and all its meaning and all its nonmeaning. Or I could disappear.I have mixed feelings about Jason's parents, as although it was clear that they did care about Jason, they also didn't try all that hard to understand him, and there was a lot of external and internal ableism going on on their behalf. My heart breaks for Jason, thinking that they love Jeremy more than him and that Jeremy was his replacement. However, it was interesting to see Jason take them on his journey of acceptance, with the novel ending with them understanding Jason just a little bit more. I think this is an experience that many autistic children can relate to, and that many of us are still going through ourselves. Unfortunately, ableism is well and rampant in our society, and it's often a long journey to unravel the internalised prejudices held by many of our family members.