
Review by Kevin Brown
On one level, the title of Pico Iyer’s latest book, Aflame, refers to the wildfires in California that have taken at least one of his family’s homes and threatens the Hermitage, a monastery he visits quite often for solitude. On another, though, it describes the monks and other seekers of solitude he meets at the Hermitage over the more than three decades he’s been visiting, as they are alive in a way he doesn’t see in many people.
Iyer’s work is not concerned with chronology, as he doesn’t provide the readers with specific dates or times of his visits. Instead, as one might expect from a meditation on silence and solitude, he isn’t concerned with the way the world moves outside of the Hermitage. In fact, he says little about his life when he’s traveling for work or home with his wife and children, referencing them from time to time, but centering his thoughts on the monastery and the interactions he has there.
He presents the monks and other seekers as human, not saints, all wanting only to learn from a retreat from the concerns of the world. Iyer himself spends much of his time reflecting on what he’s reading, but, also, somewhat ironically, talking with the other people who are there. He develops deep friendships, intimacy that develops from sharing the solitude as much from those conversations.
The Hermitage is always in danger of being destroyed or even lacking the funds to continue, but the monks don’t seem that concerned. They know, and Iyer learns, that the lessons they’ve all learned will follow them elsewhere, should they have to leave. Iyer ultimately understands that, while he needs solitude, he can see the world differently no matter where he is, if he only continues to pay attention.
Aflame: Learning from Silence by Pico Iyer. Riverhead Books, January 2025.
Reviewer bio: Kevin Brown has published three books of poetry: Liturgical Calendar: Poems (Wipf and Stock); A Lexicon of Lost Words (winner of the Violet Reed Haas Prize for Poetry, Snake Nation Press); and Exit Lines (Plain View Press). He also has a memoir, Another Way: Finding Faith, Then Finding It Again, and a book of scholarship, They Love to Tell the Stories: Five Contemporary Novelists Take on the Gospels. IG, Threads, and BlueSky: @kevinbrownwrites