Relations To Gender2
Relations To Gender2
Relations To Gender2
Michelle Laney
Professor Ditch
English 114A
09 December 2014
Relations to Gender
There are many misconceptions of gender and sex, such as the two being confused with
one another. Sex is what an individual is born with, either being female or male. Gender is
femininity or masculinity that the individual performs. In Western society, being a feminine
male or masculine female is rather frowned upon. In the readings Night to His Day: The Social
Meanings of Gender by Judith Lorber and Rethinking Womens Biology by Ruth Hubbard,
the authors both share a common idea on how gender is constructed; they both share a common
theme of: parenting and pop culture. Being a female with nonconforming parents, and being
exposed to the negative sides of media everyday, I can relate strongly to these common ideas.
The controversy of gender construction is based on the perspective of conformists and
nonconformists. Conformists of the western society have an ideal theory that men are masculine
and women are feminine, this is problematic to nonconformists. Nonconformists are accepting to
masculine women and feminine men. ... our concept of ourselves is socially constructed and
political because our societys interpretation of what is what is not normal and naturally affects
what we do Thus norms are self-fulling prophecies that do not merely describe how we are
but prescribe how we should be (47). Ruth Hubbard uses this to explain how Western society
views nonconformity and how some people in society naturally adapt to this way of thinking.
Not knowing the differences of a masculine man versus a feminine woman and a masculine
women versus a feminine man, my views were very nonconformist. I never understood the
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Social media helps influence young adults to act outside their comfort zone. As a personal
experience, growing up I was not into barbies. I would ask for Legos for Christmas and my
cousins would always make fun of me calling me names such as boy. On television, I
remember watching a commercial of Barbies and little girls playing with them, and then I saw
only boys playing with legos. So instantly, I changed my whole pleasure of playing with legos
and started asking for barbies.
Parenting and pop culture can dictate gender construction but it is up to an individual to
determine if they want to be feminine or masculine. Growing up, you are not informed about
gender but as you grow older, gender is then socially constructed by your parents and pop
culture. Parents can have a negative outtake on teaching their children how to act, or they can be
nonconformists and teach their children equality. Pop culture can influence children to become
feminine or masculine by giving out the best advice or children can disobey their rules and be
their own individual. I have nonconformist parents and I am constantly watching television that
feeds me information about being feminine. I do not comply with their rules in order to feel
accepted in society.