The Notre Dame Book of Prayer
The Notre Dame Book of Prayer
The Notre Dame Book of Prayer
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B O O K of P R A YE R
Imprimatur: Most Reverend John M. DArcy Bishop of Fort WayneSouth Bend Nihil Obstat: Reverend Monsignor Michael Heintz, PhD Censor Librorum Given in Fort Wayne, Indiana, on 10 January 2010. Scripture quotations are from the New Revised Standard Version of the Bible, copyright 1993 and 1989 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the U.S.A. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Acknowledgments continue on page 277, which is a continuation of this copyright page. ____________________________________ 2010 by the University of Notre Dame Oce of Campus Ministry All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever, except in the case of reprints in the context of reviews, without written permission from Ave Maria Press, Inc., P.O. Box 428, Notre Dame, IN 46556. Founded in 1865, Ave Maria Press is a ministry of the Indiana Province of Holy Cross. www.avemariapress.com ISBN-10 1-59471-196-8 ISBN-13 978-1-59471-196-1
Interior images Matt Cashore. Cover and text design by John R. Carson. Printed and bound in the United States of America. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data The Notre Dame book of prayer / Oce of Campus Ministry ; edited by Heidi Schlumpf. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN-13: 978-1-59471-196-1 (hardcover : alk. paper) ISBN-10: 1-59471-196-8 (hardcover : alk. paper) 1. Universities and colleges--Prayers. 2. University of Notre Dame--Religion. 3. Prayers--Christianity. I. Schlumpf, Heidi. II. University of Notre Dame. Oce of Campus Ministry. BV283.C7N68 2010 242'.802--dc22 2010019402
CONTENTS
FOREWORD .........................................................................ix Theodore M. Hesburgh, C.S.C. INTRODUCTION ................................................................xi Richard V. Warner, C.S.C. BESTLOVED PRAYERS ....................................................xiv 1. IN THE BEGINNING ...................................................... 1 The Grotto ......................................................................... 3 Michael Garvey Beginning to Pray .............................................................. 4 Nicholas Ayo, C.S.C. Prayers for New Beginnings .............................................. 6 2. OF THE HOURS ............................................................ 19 The Dorms ....................................................................... 21 Cynthia Broderick, O.P. Keeping the Hours .......................................................... 22 David W. Fagerberg Prayers for Everyday ........................................................ 25 3. BLESS US, O LORD ....................................................... 41 South Dining Hall ........................................................... 43 Colleen Moore Father, Son, Spirit, Holy ................................................. 44 Brian Doyle Prayers for Meals and Family Experiences ..................... 47
4. GLORY AND PRAISE TO OUR GOD ......................... 65 The Log Chapel ............................................................... 67 John Dunne, C.S.C. Lord of the Dance ........................................................... 68 Carol Ann Mooney Prayers of Praise and Celebration.................................. 70 5. WORK OF HUMAN HANDS ....................................... 81 The Hesburgh Library.................................................... 83 Sonia Gernes Lord, Teach Us to Pray ................................................... 84 Lawrence S. Cunningham Prayers for Work and Study ........................................... 86 6. LORD, HEAR OUR PRAYER ...................................... 107 Notre Dame Stadium ................................................... 109 Lou Holtz Talking to God ............................................................. 110 Angela Sienko Prayers for Times of Struggle ....................................... 112 7. NOW THANK WE ALL OUR GOD ........................... 131 Touchdown Jesus Mosaic ............................................. 133 Kristin Shrader-Frechette God Bless You ............................................................... 135 Rene LaReau Prayers of Thanksgiving and Gratitude ....................... 138 8. TO EVERYTHING THERE IS A SEASON ................. 149 St. Marys and St. Josephs Lakes ................................. 151 Edward A. Monk Malloy, C.S.C. Prayer Directions.......................................................... 152 Kerry Temple Prayers for the Seasons ................................................. 155
9. THY KINGDOM COME ............................................. 175 The Peace Memorial ..................................................... 177 Nicholas Ayo, C.S.C. The Voice of Prayer....................................................... 178 James B. King, C.S.C. Prayers for the World ................................................... 181 10. UPON THIS ROCK.................................................... 201 Basilica of the Sacred Heart ......................................... 203 Steven C. Warner The Gospel Made Prayer .............................................. 204 John Phalen, C.S.C. Prayers for Parish Life and Sacramental Moments ..... 206 11. PRAY FOR US ............................................................. 225 The Golden Dome ........................................................ 227 Heidi Schlumpf Our Lady of Guadalupe ............................................... 228 Timothy Matovina and Virgilio Elizondo Prayers to Mary and the Saints .................................... 231 12. IT IS FINISHED ......................................................... 247 Cedar Grove Cemetery ................................................. 249 Kenneth Woodward Say a Little Prayer for Me ............................................ 250 Gregory Ruehlmann Prayers for Endings and Transitions............................ 252 AFTERWORD ................................................................... 275 John I. Jenkins, C.S.C. ACKNOWLEDGMENTS.................................................. 277
ESSAY CONTRIBUTORS ................................................ 285 TITLES AND NAMES INDEX ........................................ 287 SUBJECT INDEX .............................................................. 295
FOREWORD
Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples. Luke 11:1 n the Notre Dame campus and throughout the world, I have found that young people have maintained the same deep yearning for a full and profoundly meaningful connection with God that the apostles displayed in their request to Jesus, Lord, teach us to pray. They, in deep communion with people of every place and age, express a hunger for prayer that is often coupled with feelings of dissatisfaction with their present prayer life. I can imagine that our young Notre Dame graduates, sent forth from the prayerful structure of campus, must often wonder how to be holy people confronted, in the midst of their incredibly busy and demanding lives, with such issues as injustice, racism, and discrimination. How do Notre Dame graduates create communion with God when they are confronted by a worldly emphasis on monetary gain and social status? When they see others being subjected to great poverty and their human rights disregarded? When they watch children struggle to learn in under-resourced or ineective schools? These obstacles confront all of us in our daily lives, often drawing us away from God and prayer when we are most in need of grace. This selection of prayers and devotions reminds us of the many and always-beautiful opportunities we have had for prayer at Notre Dame. Whether it be quiet, individual reection at the Grotto, small community Mass in the intimate friendship of the dorm, or the gathering of the entire Notre Dame family at the Basilica of the Sacred Heart, Notre Dame students have always strived to strengthen their relationship with God. We remember
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times spent in communion with othersengaging with the intellectual dilemmas of our day in the classroom, helping the marginalized through activities of service, enjoying the gift of leisure with one another at the dining hall or on our teams sport elds. In all these sacred places on the Notre Dame campus, we have felt Gods intimate presencewithin ourselves, our activities, our relationships with others. This Notre Dame Book of Prayer oers us a way to rediscover those sacred spaces, in the midst of our daily lives, wherever God has called us, where we can be lled with the knowledge of God in every minute, no matter how insignicant or momentous the time may appear to us. With memories of the sacred spaces of our beloved Notre Dame campus as a touchstone, our desire to pray is renewed, despite ever-present obstacles. We recall perhaps the greatest lesson that our time beneath Our Ladys Dome taught us, that the places and people of our everyday lives are lled with Gods response to our request, Lord, teach us to pray. May Notre Dame Our MotherMary, the Mother of Godalways nourish within each of us the deepest thirst to remain close to her Son Jesus through our lives of prayer. May this Notre Dame Book of Prayer keep us connected to Notre Dame and, through her, to her Son. Theodore M. Hesburgh, C.S.C. President Emeritus of the University of Notre Dame
INTRODUCTION
am delighted to oer The Notre Dame Book of Prayer, a joint eort between Ave Maria Press and Campus Ministry at Notre Dame. For over one hundred years, Campus Ministry has oered prayer books to incoming rst-year students. In recent years, these books have emphasized not only traditional and seasonal prayers, but also prayers written by members of the Notre Dame family, prayers for special moments and occasions, and prayers written to underscore a special place on campus that lifts ones heart and mind to God. The Notre Dame Book of Prayer is our attempt to extend this same opportunity to the broader Notre Dame community, as well as to our friends and the many people for whom Notre Dame is a special place, even a living symbol of our Catholic faiths deep aspirations. It is often true that in a world and society of shifting cultural values, Notre Dame is rare solid ground! I hope that this book of prayers will be a source of inspiration that brings together traditional and liturgical prayer with personal reections often based on the many places that for each of us represent the best of Notre Dame spirituality in the Holy Cross tradition. Blessed Basile Moreau, C.S.C., founder of the Congregation of Holy Cross, was inspired to found a religious community that included priests, brothers, and sisters, whose special and particular patrons mirrored the Holy Family itself. And he was favored with developing an educational vision that included both the mind and heart. One of his rst disciples, Father Edward Sorin, C.S.C., gave esh to this vision that, in the words of Professor Edward Fisher,
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has been a long descending blessing for generations of Notre Dame students, faculty, sta, parents, and alumnias well as for countless friends. May Notre Dame continue to inspire and encourage many future generations to share such a challenging and realizable goal! Richard V. Warner, C.S.C. Director, Campus Ministry
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We Are ND
Lord, we thank you for the blessing of belonging to the Notre Dame family. Whether as students or alumni, faculty or sta, parents or friends of Our Ladys university, we are ND. What a gift this is! Help us to live the calling that comes with this gift: the call to excellence, the call to service, the call to faith, the call to integrity, the call to humility. Help us to be dierent and to make a dierence. Allow us to bravely meet the challenges we may face when we are caring for others. Give us the grace to be more like Mary, our Mother: tender, strong, and true. Increase in our hearts love for Notre Dame and the desire to be her faithful sons and daughters. Chuck Lennon, 61, 62 MA Executive Director, Notre Dame Alumni Association
BEST-LOVED PRAYERS
Our Father
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.
Hail Mary
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of death. Amen.
Glory Be
Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and will be for ever. Amen.
IN THE BEGINNING
Prayers for New Beginnings
THE GROTTO
ow naturally your campus surrounds this cove of trees and rock; how aectionately nonchalant your welcome is, and how reexive my response. When I kneel, or sit, or stand, or stroll by your quiet candled cave, the fractures of my life and self and soul become all the more acute. How peevish, whining, and selfish my prayer must sound to you, as I light a candle to mark the begging of some favor. But being here emboldens me, because I know whose mother you are; because I have a mother, too, and I know what it is to be a mothers son. In your kind company I am again and again reminded of how almost preposterous it is that he loves the likes of me; that even such meanness, cowardice, and arrogance as my own could not prevent him from wanting to take on the human esh I share with him, to be so much like me, like some guy, like some mothers son. How even more amazed you must be, to be his mother. To love him as my mother loves me, and to be loved by him as I love her. The distinctly domestic glow of your mutual love draws us here with all sorts of prayers, from paltry thanksgivings to anguished appeals. Here we can pause and share a bit of that love in which all your titlesMother of God, Queen of Heaven, Seat of Wisdom, Our Lady, Notre Damecoalesce, allowing us to address you as he himself does, Mother. Michael Garvey, 74 Oce of Public Aairs and Communication
BEGINNING TO PRAY
eginning to pray may well have something to do with how one was introduced to prayer. In grammar school, the Benedictine sisters taught me to say: Divine Infant of Bethlehem, come and take birth in my heart some six thousand times during Advent (that being the number of years since creation in the Garden of Eden). I still say that prayer to this day as I walk along the sidewalks of the Notre Dame campus. Walking time is prayer time. So are red lights, elevator waits, even three identical digits on the digital clock. I often make the Sign of the Cross whenever I become aware of one of the million ways our lives could be endangered, given all the things within us and around us that can go wrong and often do. In high school, Benedictine monks encouraged me to compose my own prayer. It was revelatory of the trials and fears of an adolescent young man: Saint Agnes, virgin martyr, who loved her purity above all else, help me preserve mine; who suered terrible tortures for the love of God, increase my love; and who suered martyrdom, strengthen me in time of persecution. I still say that prayer. On to Notre Dame in the early 1950s, where morning inspection in the residence hall was followed by Massunless you turned around and went back to bed, the resident priest watching you scorn the grace of God. I went to Mass. It was at Old College in my second semester that I was introduced to regular morning and evening prayer. Joining the Congregation of Holy Cross led me to a novitiate year in swampland around Jordan, Minnesota. I learned to write a prayer journal, and writing became a form of praying.
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In the Beginning
Amidst lifes competing demands, I now nd early morning is my best prayer time. I love rocking on Sorin Halls porch waiting for sunrise, with a cup of coee sweetened with awe and delight in my Creator. I have by now become well aware of my need for and happiness with contemplative prayerprayer greatly assisted by the right place and the right time. I ask for my next breath, that I know I cannot draw without Gods constant assistance. I know what matters is not what I do, but what God is doing. Why anything? Why me? I can sit with that every morning and never grow weary of the wonder of it all. I wish evening prayer would go better than it does. I nd myself tired out at the end of the day and prayer is more dicult. I want to be thankful, and I know gratitude is the secret of any happy life. I believe God knows what we need and loves us, so our evening prayer need not inform God of what is going on in the world or plead with God to take care of us. Evening prayer can be simple. Thank you for taking care of all this. I know you are. Goodnight! Prayer is never my initiative. It is always a response to a prior invitation that turns my mind and heart to God. We must receive before we can give. We must breathe in before we breathe out. Prayer is an exchange with God. Prayer is attending to what God is doing within us and in the world. Prayer is the recognition that we are but a speck of stardust upon a speck of a planet in a galaxy, itself but a speck in an expanding universe. Our prayer is silent in the big scheme of things, but remains close to the heart of God. The God who wanted nothing so much as to be one of us in the esh and to love us even unto death. Prayer is listening to the silence in our hearts, and beginning to pray is a willingness to take our next breath in exchange with God, who is more part of us than we are part of ourselves. Beginning to pray is the beginning of the greatest adventure on earth. Nicholas Ayo, C.S.C. Professor Emeritus of Liberal Studies
e are always beginning again: new relationships, new homes, new experiences. The crux of our Christian faith the resurrectionteaches us that new life always follows death. Whether literal or gurative, new life also calls for blessing. These prayers express gratitude for all the newness of life and ask for Gods presence as we undertake new ventures, make new commitments, and begin new journeys.
In the Beginning
in my time of beginnings, when the air is rain-washed, the bloom is on the bush, and the world seems fresh and full of possibilities, and I feel ready and full. I tremble on the edge of a maybe, a rst time, a new thing, a tentative start, and the wonder of it lays its ngers on my lips. In silence, Lord, I share now my eagerness and my uneasiness about this something dierent I would be or do; and I listen for your leading to help me separate the light from the darkness in the change I seek to shape and which is shaping me. Ted Loder
May we oer a welcome to all, especially our neighbor in need. And at the end of our sojourn, as we cross the border of death, lead us to our true homeland, where we hope to know at last your eternal embrace and be united as one body in Christ. Daniel G. Groody, C.S.C. Center for Latino Spirituality and Culture
In the Beginning
We resolve to live in sympathy and in gentleness, that we may bring comfort to the sorrowing and understanding to those who are confused. We resolve to live in serenity and in self-control, that no anger or passion may disturb our own peace nor the peace of others. We resolve to show our love for God by keeping his Commandments and ask Jesus to bless us with his peace and joy for doing this. O God, our Loving Father, you have given us the grace to make our own resolutions, grant us also the strength to keep them through the coming year. St. Peter, Prince of the Apostles Catholic Church Corpus Christi, Texas
A college degree is not a sign that one is a nished product, but an indication a person is prepared for life. Edward A. Monk Malloy, C.S.C.
President Emeritus of the University of Notre Dame
Lord God of heaven and earth, you revealed your only begotten Son to every nation by the guidance of a star. Bless this house and all who inhabit it. May we be blessed with health, goodness of heart, gentleness, and the keeping of your law. Fill us with the light of Christ, that our love for each other may go out to all. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Roman Ritual
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In the Beginning
Grant us the strength and wisdom to overcome fear that limits the action of your Spirit. And may your Spirit impel us to act justly in all that we do. Judith R. Fean, 84 MA Campus Ministry, Saint Marys College
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Engagement Blessing
May God be with you and bless you. May you see your childrens children. May you be poor in misfortune, rich in blessings. May you know nothing but happiness from this day forward. Traditional Irish Blessing
Holy Cross will grow like a mighty tree and constantly shoot forth new limbs and new branches which will be nourished by the same sap and endowed with the same life. Blessed Basile Moreau, C.S.C.
Founder of the Congregation of Holy Cross
In the Beginning
May we try to build a solid foundation of openness and trust based upon similar values. May we celebrate our coming vows and put the stress on our relationship building, not on the wedding day details that will soon pale in importance. May we treat each other with a sacred trust that seeks to build up. Help us believe that God sends us forth as a couple to become an ever clearer channel of his love. Dont let us neglect to give each other a kiss of peace often! May we go in peace to love and serve the Lord. Kathy and Kevin Misiewicz Mendoza College of Business
Together: Thank you for blessing us with this pregnancy. We know it is a gift. But as our babys birth approaches, it seems more dicult to feel the excitement, joy, love, and gratitude we felt when we rst learned we would become parents; when we rst heard our babys heartbeat; when we rst saw our baby move and turn in grainy ultrasound images. Mother: I feel exhausted from waking up so often at night. Give me strength to handle the chores and demands that still face me each day.
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Father: I feel bothered because my wife cannot do the tasks and chores she usually does. Give me patience to handle my added responsibilities without complaint or resentment. Mother: I feel uncomfortable and in pain from the additional weight and strain of pregnancy. Grant me the resolve to endure the continuing changes in my body as our baby grows inside me. Father: I feel helpless to relieve my wifes discomfort and pain. Grant me empathy so I can better understand how I can help her endure the nal weeks and days of her pregnancy. Mother: I feel worried my relationship with my husband [and my other child(ren)] may change after our baby is born. Allow me to savor each of my relationships as the birth approaches. Father: I feel concerned that my wife and I will not be as close after our baby is born. Allow me to cherish the time we spend together now as the birth approaches. Mother: I feel afraid that our baby will not be healthy and that I will suer complications during delivery. Guide those who will deliver our baby and care for me and help me to trust their skills, knowledge, and compassion. Father: I feel afraid that my wife or our baby will be injured during delivery. Guide those who will deliver our baby and care for my wife and help me to trust their skills, knowledge, and compassion. Together: Please help us move past these feelings of fear, worry, sadness, helplessness, discomfort, bother, and exhaustion. Help us to focus instead on our excitement and joy for the new life that will join our family soon; on our love for one another, [for our other child(ren),] and for our growing baby; and on our gratitude for this gift of becoming parents. Brian 94, 99 and Kristi 93 Kubicki
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In the Beginning
we feel so deeply for her, and let this love be a strength to confront the opportunities of life. Vienna Cobb Anderson
In the Beginning
so that they may be happy also. Help us always to take care of them so that they will be healthy. [Name of pet], may you be blessed in the name of God who created you, and may you and [name of owner] enjoy life together with our God. Thomas Simons Adapted by Robert Morrison and Richard J. Fairchild
in a world that can seem at times covered in darkness. My talents are not my own, all I am belongs to you. May I never forget that all I have is on loan; I am to use what I am given to accomplish your will on earth. Allow me Lord to use my talents to be a sign of hope in the world. May the road rise up to meet me, may the wind always be at my back, and may the sun shine warmly upon my face. Come Holy Spirit, be the force behind my stride. I pray this in Christs name always and through the intercession of Notre Dame, Our Mother. Michael S. Suso Alliance for Catholic Education
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