One Simple Change
One Simple Change
One Simple Change
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CO N T E N TS
INTRODUCTION
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Stop Dieting
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Let It Go
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Cook More
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Drink Healthy
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Be in the Moment
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Be Eco-Friendly at Home
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Plant a Garden
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Start Composting
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Slow Down
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Be Kind to Yourself
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Practice Gratitude
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Be Wary of Wheat
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Embrace Eggs
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
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Reconsider Meat
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SELECTED BIBLIOGRAPHY
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SELECTED REFERENCES
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INDEX 175
I N T RO D U CT I O N
WHEN I WAS SIXTEEN, I decided to lose 5 lb/2.3 kg. I was an active teen on
the thin side of normal, but all my friends were dieting, so I figured I might
as well join them. It was the eighties and the low-fat dieting craze was in full
swing. I jumped on the bandwagon and waited for the weight to melt away.
It didnt, but I kept dieting anyway. Id grown up on the fabulous
butter- and cream-laden fare my dad prepared in the kitchen of my
familys four-star restaurant The Quilted Giraffe, but magazine articles on
weight loss and health said these delicacies could no longer pass through
my lips. I became convinced that if low fat was good, then no fat must be
better; I also proclaimed myself a vegetarian.
The list of things I would eat got smaller and smaller. I subsisted mainly
on salads and cooked vegetables doused with vinegar, cottage cheese, and
bagelsand I was constantly hungry. I thought about sweets nearly all the
time, and I drank diet sodas and downed large servings of frozen yogurt to
quell the cravings.
I told myself the diet was only temporary; Id go off it as soon as I
morphed into superskinny Winnie. But when the needle on my scale finally
began to move, it went in the wrong direction. I was horrified that I was
gaining weight, but I never once questioned the diet; in fact, I went away
to college and kept on dieting for another four years.
Despite rigidly controlling my calorie intake and running or taking
aerobics classes nearly every day, I weighed about 15 lb/6.8 kg more than
I wanted to (10 lb/4.5 kg more than when I had first started dieting) by
the time graduation rolled around. At that point, I was also tired all day
long and extremely depressed; my face was covered with pimples; and
my menstrual cycle had all but disappeared. I felt perfectly awful, yet I still
stubbornly believed my diet was perfect.
I visited one doctor after another in the hopes that someone would discover what was wrong with me. I was referred to counselors to talk about the
depression, and I was given prescriptions for antibiotics to make the acne go
away. I was given no explanation for why I was always so exhausted.
When an endocrinologist diagnosed me with a scary-sounding
condition called polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) to explain why I so rarely
menstruated, my mom suggested we go to a different type of health practitioner for a second opiniona holistic one. This was the first time in my life
that I had heard that term.
Appointments with my new doctor were vastly different from what I
was accustomed to: She seemed genuinely interested in getting to the bottom of what was going on with me; she did not look at (or try to provide
solutions for) my health issues in isolation; and she did not think I had PCOS.
She asked a lot of questions that no doctor had ever asked me before, and
she gave me a diet diary, a way for me to log what I ate for a week. I proudly
filled it in, smug in my belief that no one had a better diet than I.
After a slew of blood tests, the nutritionist from my doctors office called
and asked me to come in so we could go over the results. It turned out I had
really messed up my body on my so-called healthy diet: I had nutritional
deficiencies and numerous food sensitivities. Plus my adrenal glands and my
thyroid werent functioning correctly. The nutritionist impressed upon me the
importance of eating very differently from then on if I wanted to get better.
I definitely wanted to get better, but I was very confused. I had been led
to believe that a low-fat, vegetarian diet was good. Had I taken that advice
too far? Or was it possible that advice was wrong for me (or maybe just plain
wrong)? I was skeptical about my nutritionists recommendations: Avoid
wheat, dairy, and white sugar. Load up on whole foods high in vitamins,
minerals, and healthy fats. And start eating protein from animal foods again.
But I decided to trust her.
What happened over the next few weeks was nothing short of a miracle
as far as I was concerned: The weight Id obsessed over for all those years literally fell away. But maybe even more exciting than the weight loss was how
at peace with food I began to feel. I never thought about eating when I wasnt
INTRODUCTION
planned the book with the hope that readers would do the whole thing. There
are fifty changes in the book, and I encourage you to make one change per
week over the course of a year, with two weeks off whenever you decide to
take them; this is why the book is called One Simple Change.
While you could rush things and make one change each day for fifty days
straight, I dont recommend that. Permanent changes in your habits do not
happen overnight. Research shows that new habits are much more likely to
last if you take them slow and focus on only one change at a time. Dont feel
you have to start this book at the beginning of January, though! Sure, January
is a great time to start anew with healthy habits, but so is May. September
works, too. And you dont have to start a healthy habit on the first of the
month or on a Monday. Anytime you can make a change that will make your
life healthier is a good time.
You may be startled by the common-sense nature of some of my tips;
know that these are included here because sometimes we ignore the very
basics of personal care. I think everyone can benefit from being reminded to
pay attention to these. Also, the changes that seem the smallest can have the
biggest impact.
I am not necessarily going to be telling you only things you already know,
howeverthis is not a regurgitation of the types of health recommendations
that can be found in many other books. In fact, many of my suggestions may
surprise you; they will likely fly in the face of the information that youve heard
(and trusted) in the past. Be assured, however, that I have spent countless
hours sorting through all the confusing and often contradictory health recommendations that are out there in order to bring you the most up-to-date, factbased, reliable information. The things you will learn in One Simple Change
honor the wisdom of our ancestors while giving a generous nod to modern
science, so you can benefit from both.
I am well aware that many of us are very emotionally invested in our lifestyle patterns and get nervous when our ways are called into question. If thats
true for you, I ask that you keep an open mind, even when what I am telling you
initially makes you uncomfortable. In many ways One Simple Change is about
suspending preconceived notions, about accepting that what you thought you
knew about how to be healthy isnt necessarily correct. Change can be hard
theres no doubt about thatbut change is what this book is about.
You dont need a doctors approval to do anything in One Simple Change;
the focus is on lifestyle adjustment, dietary transformation, and attitude
INTRODUCTION
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STOP DIETING
ing. Sadly, I dont think my story is all that unusual; I know many people who
have similarly messed up their bodies by restricting their food intake in some
way. I also see many people out there who just cant seem to figure out how
to eat normally and feel comfortable about their weight, so theyre always on
one diet or another. They are always searching for the diet to end all diets, but
they never do seem to find it.
Most diets fail, but even those that seem to work at first do not help you
maintain your weight loss (and certainly not your health) over the long term.
Its not good for you, nor is it sustainable, to skip meals or drastically cut calories. According to Julia Ross, author of The Diet Cure (1999), you need to eat
at least 2,500 calories per day to be healthy.
But all calories are not created equal, and Id really prefer it if you
stopped counting calories altogether. Please stop fretting about fat grams,
too: Chances are youre not eating enough healthy fat! And while cutting back on carbohydrates can indeed be beneficial for weight loss and
health, a diet that eschews them completely isnt recommended (I explain
why, and help you figure out which types of carbohydrates to eat, later in
the book).
You may not even remember what it feels like to eat without dieting. If
thats true, its time to remind yourself! I dont believe that dieting is healthy
for your body or your mindand I am sure you could use your precious time
and energy in much more fun and productive ways. Instead of always worrying
about what you think youre not supposed to be eating, I want you to shift your
focus to eating without any agenda other than supporting your health.
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YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT I DONT BELIEVE IN DIETS. I also dont believe
theres a single way of eating thats going to work for everyone. Were all
differentfrom our biochemical makeups to our unique cultural backgrounds to our taste preferences.
That said, I do believe that an individualized diet consisting of real food
is what were all meant to put into our bodies. So whats real food? Think
about what our ancestors ate long ago, when sustenance could only be procured by hunting, fishing, and gathering. Though its infinitely easier for us
to get meals on the table these days, we would all do well to eat similarly
natural, unprocessed food.
Real foods include fruits and vegetables (preferably in season, organic,
and locally grown, prepared in all different ways); minimally processed dairy
products (organic and raw, if possible); fish thats wild (not farmed, and free
of mercury or other chemicals); land-animal foods, including eggs (ideally
free-range and pastured only); legumes, nuts, and seeds (preferably organic);
and fats that are traditional and unprocessed (from both plants and animals).
What about whole grains? These can be problematic for many individuals, so
I consider them an optional part of a real food diet. Ill discuss all aspects of a
real-food lifestyle in greater depth in the chapters that follow.
Real food is what your body has evolved to eat; your body recognizes
it and knows how to digest it. It contains the nutrients you need (unlike processed foods, which are nutrient-poor). Real food makes your taste buds sing
and satisfies you on a deep level (whereas processed foods foster cravings,
food addictions, and emotional eating).
Real food does not come from a box. It does not contain artificial
or refined ingredients, added sweeteners, excessive sodium, processed
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Now doesnt that sound a lot more appealing than diet food or fast food?
Real foods are incredibly satisfying, so I dont eat when I am not hungry.
Do you have to spend an exorbitant amount of time in the kitchen cooking in order to eat real food? No, not at all. Ill tell you some of my real-food
shortcuts and share some of my favorite (easy!) real-food recipes with you
later in the book. Eating real food does not have to be time-consuming; I can
honestly say that no matter how busy I am, I can still eat healthy, tasty, real
food at just about every meal. Know that I do like to eat out sometimes, and I
do grab a slice of pizza with my kids every now and then; if we eat real food
approximately 85 percent of the time, then the occasional nonreal food
splurge is just fine.
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DRINK WATER
FIRST THING
you get out of bed? Or maybe youre a tea person, like me? I am not suggesting you give up drinking caffeinated beverages (at least not right now);
I just want you to drink a tall glass of water within ten minutes of waking
upevery single day.
Why drink water first thing in the morning? Our bodies are more than
60 percent water and, unfortunately, this makes us quite prone to dehydration. I am actually pretty parched whenever I wake up, but you can be
dehydrated even if you dont feel thirsty. Having a glass of water first thing
and then drinking more throughout the day will help you avoid health issues
that may be related to dehydration. Eating foods that contain water (like raw
fruits and vegetables) and drinking additional healthy liquids will help as
well. Ill talk in more depth about what you should and should not be drinking elsewhere in the book, but water should always be your first priority.
If drinking water first thing in the morning sounds unappealing, consider that having just one glass of water is associated with a boost in your
metabolic rate. The benefits of drinking water in the morning go beyond the
physical, though: I find that having a glass of water right after I wake up
makes me feel as if Ive kicked off the day on the right foot. Since Ive done
something good for myself first thing, I am more likely to continue to make
healthy choices as the day goes on.
The water you drink (and cook, brush your teeth, and shower with) in the
morning and throughout the day should be as pure as possible. If you dont
have a well, tap water can contain chlorine as well as a variety of contaminants,
so you may want to consider investing in a water filter. Filters vary greatly
in terms of what they are able to remove; the National Resources Defense
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water intake. I suggest consuming lots of fruits, vegetables, and healthy drinks, and listening to your
The 2003 to 2004 National
body. Drink water when you are thirsty, and pay
Health and Nutrition Examination Survey, conducted by
special attention to drinking more when exercising
the Centers for Disease Control
vigorously or spending time outside in heat. It's also
and Prevention, found detecta good idea to keep an eye on your urine. When you
able levels of BPA in more than
are properly hydrated, it should be very light yellow
90 percent of Americans over
(though certain vitamin supplements and vegetaage six. It is used in food and
bles like beets do color your urine, rendering it an
drink packaging, including many
plastic water bottles and the
unreliable indicator).
lids of most food cans. You can
And what about sparkling water: bad or good? I
limit your exposure to BPA by
love the stuff, to be honest, but I only drink it in modchoosing alternatives to plastic
eration because carbonated beverages are acidic and
for food and drink storage (I use
can weaken your teeth and bones when consumed in
glass whenever possible) and
by not heating food in plastic
excess. I will discuss this issue further in chapter 34.
containers in the microwave.
Keep in mind that you can, indeed, drink too
Its also best to limit your use of
much water, and that doing so may be dangerous.
canned foods, unless the cans
When you drink far more water than your body needs
are labeled BPA-free.
over a short period of time, you can dilute the concentration of sodium in your blood. Sodium acts as
an electrolyte, carefully controlling the fluid balance in our cells. If excess fluid
enters our brain cells due to the presence of too little sodium, seizures, coma,
and eventually death can result.
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