Overcoming The Fear of Man

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Craig Cabaniss
OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF MAN
I. Introduction
A. My first experience leading corporate worship
B. The stage: a platform for the fear of man. Why this topic is so relevant at this
conference.
II. The Nature of the Fear of Man
“The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe.” Prov. 29:25
A. The language of “fear”
“‘Fear’ in the biblical sense is a much broader word. It includes being afraid of
someone, but it extends to holding someone in awe, being controlled or
mastered by people, worshipping other people, putting your trust in people, or
needing people…However you put it, the fear of man can be summarized this
way: We replace God with people. Instead of a biblically guided fear of the
Lord, we fear others.” (Ed Welch, When People are Big and God is Small, p.
14)
“Such fear becomes a snare when it gets to the point of letting others control
your life- their opinions and attitudes put subtle pressure on you, even
hindering you from speaking the truth or doing what is right.” (Tremper
Longman, EBC- Proverbs, p. 232, quoting Whybray)
B. Fear of man is idolatry
1. Prov. 29:25 contrasts trusting God with fearing man.
2. At a basic level, the “fear of man” is replacing God with people. It is a

worship problem.
C. People-pleasing is another way of understanding the fear of man.
1. Desire for approval (see also Matthew 6:1-6, 16-17)
“They do all their deeds to be seen by others. For they make their
phylacteries broad and their fringes long, and they love the place of
honor at feasts and the best seats in the synagogues and greetings in
the marketplaces and being called rabbi by others.” Matthew 23:5-7
Overcoming the Fear of Man – Craig Cabaniss

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2. Fear of rejection
“Nevertheless, many even of the authorities believed in him, but for

fear of the Pharisees they did not confess it, so that they would not be
put out of the synagogue; for they loved the glory that comes from
man more than the glory that comes from God.” John 12:42-43
(NIV: “they loved praise from men more than praise from God.”)
III. Temptations to the fear of man for the worship team member
A. Preparing for corporate worship
1. What/who am I thinking about as I prepare for Sunday? How I will

sound? How I will look? My clothing or appearance?
2. How do I prepare my heart for corporate worship? Am I more
concerned about what God alone sees or what everyone else sees?
3. What is motivating my desire for musical excellence?
4. Leaders: Am I indecisive because I want others to approve of me?
5. How do I respond when my ideas are not implemented in rehearsal?
B. Evaluating corporate worship
1. How do I define a successful time of corporate worship? A poor time?

2. How is my heart after things don’t go as I desired or planned?
3. Do I find myself regularly feeling unappreciated for my service?
C. Giving and receiving critique/correction/encouragement
1. Do I ask questions about my performance hoping for praise? Do I ask

for evaluation too frequently? Do I in any way fish for compliments?
2. Am I overly self-critical hoping others will disagree with my
assessment?
3. Leaders- Do I avoid correcting others because I crave their approval?
“The ‘fear of man’ describes any situation in which one is anxious

about not offending another person.” (Duane Garrett, The New
American Commentary- Proverbs, p. 233)
4. Do I ever encourage others with a hope of something in return?

(flattery)
5. Do I compare myself with other team members?
6. When critiqued do I make excuses or blame shift?

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D. Desiring the praise of those you respect or want to impress.
1. Whose encouragement matters most to me? Why?
2. What am I thinking before or during corporate worship when I know

________ is in the congregation?
E. Using your musical and leaderships abilities for personal glory.
“For who sees anything different in you? What do you have that you did not
receive? If then you received it, why do you boast as if you did not receive it?”
1 Cor. 4:7
F. Fear of man is a gateway temptation.
“The inordinate desire for approval makes the people-pleaser susceptible to

many other sinful temptations.” (Priolo, p. 72)
“Whom did you dread and fear, so that you lied, and did not remember me,
did not lay it to heart? Have I not held my peace, even for a long time, and
you do not fear me?” Isaiah 57:11
IV. Getting out of the “fear of man” trap
A. Realize that the fear of man is deceptive (“a snare”)
“This [the fear of man] ‘brings a snare’ in that it promises one thing and
delivers another. It appears expedient to curb our convictions to the opinions
of those around us… This is always a deception. This ‘snare’ is a trap set by
oneself when he chooses to fear man more than honor God. ‘He who trusts
in his own heart is a fool’ (Prov. 28:26a). (John A. Kitchen, Proverbs, p. 672)
B. Growing in the fear of the Lord
“The most radical treatment for the fear of man is the fear of the Lord. God
must be bigger to you than people are. This antidote takes years to grasp; in
fact, it will take all of our lives.” (Ed Welch, p.19)
“Come, O children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD.” (Psalm
34:12)

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C. Living (and worshiping) in the good of the gospel.
“As you come to him, a living stone rejected by men but in the sight of God
chosen and precious, you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a
spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable
to God through Jesus Christ. For it stands in Scripture: "Behold, I am laying
in Zion a stone, a cornerstone chosen and precious, and whoever believes in
him will not be put to shame." (1 Peter 2:4-6)
D. Maturing with a heart to please God
1. Paul’s description of his ministry to the Thessalonians: “…so we speak,

not to please man, but to please God who tests our hearts.” (I Thess.
2:3-8)
2. Pleasing God is our goal in service. “So whether we are home or

away, we make it our aim to please him.” (2 Cor. 5:9)
E. Loving others rather than craving their approval.
1. “Regarding other people, our problem is that we need them (for

ourselves) more than we love them (for the glory of God). (Ed Welch,
p.19)
2. Balancing the two great commandments.
F. Cultivating godly ambition
“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of
God's varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God;
whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in
order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him
belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.” 1 Peter 4:10-11


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A. My first experience leading corporate worship

II. The Nature of the Fear of Man

A. The language of “fear”

B. Fear of man is idolatry

1. Prov. 29:25 contrasts trusting God with fearing man.

2. At a basic level, the “fear of man” is replacing God with people. It is a

C. People-pleasing is another way of understanding the fear of man.

1. Desire for approval (see also Matthew 6:1-6, 16-17)

Overcoming the Fear of Man – Craig Cabaniss

“Nevertheless, many even of the authorities believed in him, but for

A. Preparing for corporate worship

1. What/who am I thinking about as I prepare for Sunday? How I will

B. Evaluating corporate worship

1. How do I define a successful time of corporate worship? A poor time?

C. Giving and receiving critique/correction/encouragement

1. Do I ask questions about my performance hoping for praise? Do I ask

“The ‘fear of man’ describes any situation in which one is anxious

4. Do I ever encourage others with a hope of something in return?

Overcoming the Fear of Man – Craig Cabaniss

D. Desiring the praise of those you respect or want to impress.

1. Whose encouragement matters most to me? Why?

2. What am I thinking before or during corporate worship when I know

E. Using your musical and leaderships abilities for personal glory.

F. Fear of man is a gateway temptation.

“The inordinate desire for approval makes the people-pleaser susceptible to

IV. Getting out of the “fear of man” trap

A. Realize that the fear of man is deceptive (“a snare”)

B. Growing in the fear of the Lord

Overcoming the Fear of Man – Craig Cabaniss

C. Living (and worshiping) in the good of the gospel.

D. Maturing with a heart to please God

1. Paul’s description of his ministry to the Thessalonians: “…so we speak,

2. Pleasing God is our goal in service. “So whether we are home or

E. Loving others rather than craving their approval.

1. “Regarding other people, our problem is that we need them (for

2. Balancing the two great commandments.

F. Cultivating godly ambition

Overcoming the Fear of Man – Craig Cabaniss

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