Handbook for a New Military

Spouse
Army Community Service Relocation Program
622 Swift Road, West Point, NY 10996
(845) 938-3487
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A Warm Welcome to the New Military Spouse!



Congratulations on becoming a military spouse. We hope
this handbook will make it easier for you to integrate into
the larger Military Family. Life with the military will bring
many changes and challenges, but with a smile and a
positive attitude, it can be the adventure of a lifetime.





This handbook covers general information concerning the
military. After you arrive at your first military duty location,
you and your Soldier should acquaint yourselves with the
area and the post/base facilities. You are also
encouraged to attend a newcomers briefing or orientation.
Each post/base has its own way of welcoming
newcomers. The facilities and services that are available
will vary depending on the size of the post/base.
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First Things First (ID card) 6

Services 6

Shopping Facilities 11

Recreation 12

Deployments 13

Military Customs, Traditions and Protocol 14

What To Wear? 16

Social Functions 18

Other Military Functions and Courtesies 22

Personal Affairs 23

When Its Time to Move 24

Housing 26

Employment 28

Words of Wisdom 29

Useful Websites 30

What Does It Mean? (acronyms) 31

Military Time 35

Army Ranks 36

Command Structure 38

Military Phonetic Alphabet 39

Table of Contents
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As a new military spouse, you will need a military Identification Card (ID card). Your
military ID card is necessary in order to gain access to the valuable services your
Soldiers service entitles you to. This ID card will enable you to use The Exchange
(sometimes referred to as the PX), the Commissary, and to receive medical care. ID
cards are issued to all Family members who are 10 years or older. Due to its
importance, you should always carry your ID card with you and guard it carefully. If the
ID card is lost, the loss must be reported to the Military Police as soon as possible. To
obtain your ID card, you will need the original or certified copy of both your marriage
and birth certificates. You will also need your original Social Security card and a
government issued photo ID. The Service Member MUST accompany the Family
member in order to authorize the issuance of the military ID card.

All Soldiers must ensure that their Family members are enrolled in DEERS (Defense
Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System) to receive non-emergency medical care. You
may call 1-800-538-9552 to verify your enrollment in DEERS. Information is also
available at www.tricare.mil/DEERS.





Army Community Service

Army Community Service (ACS) is a Soldier and Family support center that is usually
centrally located on the post. Larger posts may even have satellite locations positioned
closer to military Family housing. ACS provides Army Families with information,
guidance, assistance, or problem solving in personal or Family matters that are beyond
the Familys own resources. Many ACS facilities offer fax and photocopy services as
well. All services provided by ACS are free of charge to ID cardholders. Some of the
programs run by ACS include, but are not limited to:

Army Emergency Relief Program (AER) provides financial assistance in the
form of 0% interest loans and grants to active duty and retired Army personnel
and their Families in times of distress. AER services are also available to
activated Guard and Reserve Soldiers and their Families, as well as, Survivors.

Army Family Action Plan (AFAP) is an Army-wide initiative to identify issues of
concern to improve the overall Quality of Life for Soldiers and their Families. This
process is used to identify the most critical well-being issues facing the Army
today and provide suggestions about how things can be improved. Senior Army
leadership places a great deal of emphasis on issues raised through the AFAP
process and work to ensure that, wherever possible, they are resolved.

First Things First
Services
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Army Family Team Building (AFTB) provides three levels of training: Army
101 type classes for the new Army Family member, as well as, personal and
professional development. Classes may be delivered in a classroom setting or
accessed online. Topics covered include: acronyms, rank structure, time and
stress management, Department of Defense structure and Family Readiness
Groups (FRGs) to name a few. All new military spouses are encouraged to take
these classes in order to gain a better understanding of the military lifestyle.
Soldiers are encouraged to take the classes as well.

Army Volunteer Corps (AVC) provides placement opportunities for volunteers
based on interest and agency needs. AVC assists organizations with volunteer
recruitment, training and guidance for volunteer recognition. Volunteering is a
great way to make friends, discover more about your new area and to gain
valuable work experience. Although volunteer jobs do not offer pay, they do offer
a wealth of skills, training, experience and networking opportunities.

Employment Readiness Program (ERP) assists Active duty military, DA civilian
employees, spouses, retirees, surviving spouses, and Family members with
identifying immediate and long range career goals while teaching the client how
to write a successful resume. ERP can provide training and assistance with
writing both Federal and a civilian resumes, two completely different types of
documents. Classes on networking, professional dress and mock interviews are
also offered.

Exceptional Family Member Program (EFMP) is a mandatory enrollment
program for Soldiers and their Family members that are identified with special
needs. The EFMP works with other military and civilian agencies to provide
comprehensive and coordinated community support, housing, educational,
medical, personnel, and respite care services to Families with special needs
members. For those military Families with identified special needs members, the
EFMP can be an invaluable tool.

Family Advocacy Program (FAP) supports Army Soldier readiness by
enhancing Family self-sufficiency, community cohesion, safety, and personal
preparedness. The goal of FAP is to prevent Family violence by providing a
variety of services designed to strengthen Army Families. Family Advocacy may
offer educational classes and other learning experiences on topics such as
Stress & Anger Management or Coping Skills to name a few.

Financial Readiness Program (FRP) strives to create informed consumers by
offering consumer education classes and individual budgeting counseling. FRP
focuses on improving a military Family's financial status and consumer
knowledge. FRP can assist with setting up a budget, reducing/eliminating credit
card debt and balancing bank statements among other services.

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Information, Referral & Follow Up Program (I&R) provides information about
Army Community Service (ACS) programs as well as numerous installation and
community resources. I&R offers information counseling to determine customer
needs and then refers them to the appropriate ACS program or other resources.
I&R may follow-up after the referral to ensure that the client received the
assistance, information or quality services they expected. I&R also prepares and
maintains a comprehensive Information and Resource databank to assist with
your integration into your new community. I&R should be your first stop upon
arriving at your new duty station.

Mobilization & Deployment Readiness Program (Mob/Dep) helps to better
prepare Soldiers and Families for pending deployment. Deployment can be a
highly emotional and stressful event. Mob/Dep helps educates the Soldier and
Family member on what to expect and the best ways to prepare for all three
stages of the deployment cycle...Pre-deployment, Deployment, and
Reintegration. Mob/Dep educates, trains and prepares FRGs to be combat
multipliers is support of the commander and unit.

New Parent Support Program (NPSP) was developed to help military Families
with young children to adapt to parenthood and to thrive as healthy Families no
matter where their service may take them. The first three years of life are critical
in a child's physical, emotional, and intellectual development. Military life
presents some unique parenting challenges that civilian Families may not face,
such as frequent deployments, long duty hours, moves to unfamiliar locations,
and separation from extended Families and friends. This program is a must for
all new parents.

Outreach Services provides programs to foster a sense of belonging to the
military community, to promote positive attitudes toward military life and enhance
retention and readiness. This is done by linking Family support programs to
Soldiers and Family members and encouraging utilization of on and off post
services. The result will be to reduce isolation, stress and frustration frequently
experienced by young military Families.

Relocation Readiness Program (RRP) provides information and resources for
today's mobile Army Family. RRP provides information, guidance and assistance
to Soldiers and their Families during, before and after moves. Welcome Packets,
classes for foreign born spouses, assistance during emergencies, and the
lending closet are a few of the services offered. New Soldiers and Family
members are encouraged to attend classes offering instruction on how to
prepare for moves to include instruction on how to pack up your household
goods, how to prepare your children for frequent moves and how to keep up with
your students educational records and transcripts.

Soldier and Family Assistance Center (SFAC) assists Soldiers and
Commanders in identifying and resolving emerging health related, personal, and
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social issues affecting wounded Soldiers, civilians, and their Families, as well as
supports the Warriors in Transition (WT) community through the development,
coordination, and provision of varied services designed to address complex
physical, personal, Family, social, and economic needs.

Survivor Outreach Services (SOS) is an Army program developed to serve
Surviving Families of the Fallen. SOS provides long-term support, resources and
emotional connections by maintaining a continual relationship between Survivors
and the Army. SOS is available to all Survivors: spouses, children, parents,
siblings and friends who are grieving the loss of a Soldier regardless of how they
died. SOS coordinates with Military, Non-Governmental Organizations and the
local community to create a support network. All Army, Army National Guard and
Army Reserve component Survivors are eligible to participate.
Victims Advocacy Program provides immediate response for victims of
domestic violence and/or sexual assault. Information and referral on services
available on and off post are provided to victims and survivors. If you or
someone you know is or has experienced domestic violence or sexual assault,
contact your local ACS or Military OneSource at 1-800-342-9647 for assistance.


American Red Cross (ARC)
The ARC provides rapid communication and reporting of personal and Family
emergencies, financial assistance for emergency leave and disaster assistance. Many
volunteer opportunities are available through the ARC. Red Cross volunteers work in
libraries, schools and hospital clinics as nurses, social workers and instructors. Red
Cross courses are available to both service members and Family members.
Child, Youth & School Services (CYSS)
Child Development Services consist of a network of programs which provide quality
care for children of military personnel and eligible DOD civilian personnel. The
programs are designed to provide a safe, healthy and stimulating environment while
providing developmental activities. Full time and hourly care may be offered depending
on the facilities and staffing of your new location.
Staff Judge Advocate General (JAG)
This office offers free legal assistance to ID card holders on topics such as powers of
attorney, wills, trusts, estates, taxes, adoptions and name changes. The JAG office
also has a Criminal Law Division which deals with military justice and a Claims Division.


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Medical Services
The Military Health System provides medical care via military treatment facilities (MTF)
located on military bases and in regional TRICARE Networks of civilian providers.
Every MTF offers information and assistance through the Patient Advocate and the
Beneficiary Counseling and Assistance Coordinator (BCAC). The Patient Advocate
helps the beneficiary resolve problems or issues that arise at the MTF. The BCAC
answers questions about the TRICARE medical benefit and assists with problems that
arise when civilian healthcare is used. Both provide accurate information on how to
access military or civilian health care.

Upon receiving a military ID card, spouses are automatically entitled to TRICARE
Standard with medical coverage retroactive to the marriage date entered in DEERS.
This fee-for-service plan allows the non-Active Duty beneficiary to direct his/her own
health care, but it also brings expensive deductibles and cost shares when TRICARE-
authorized civilian providers are used. Active Duty Family members can choose to
enroll in the HMO plans called TRICARE Prime or TRICARE Prime Remote. An
enrollment form must be submitted to the regional managed care support contractor and
a Primary Care Manager (PCM) is assigned. The PCM directs all health care via
referrals and authorizations and the beneficiary generally uses TRICARE Network
providers; there is no cost for most authorized civilian medical services.
The most comprehensive source for MTF or TRICARE information is the TRICARE
Management Activity site at http://www.tricare.mil/.
Dental Services
For a low monthly payroll deduction, the sponsor purchases Family dental coverage
through the TRICARE Dental Program. Coverage begins the month after the first
deduction appears on the leave and earnings statement. However, calling United
Concordia (current administrator) to verify coverage before getting dental care is
strongly advised. For more information visit:
http://www.tricaredentalprogram.com/tdptws/home.jsp\
By law, military dental facilities are authorized to treat Active Duty Service Members
only. The military health benefit is very complex and beneficiaries can avoid mistakes
that can cost thousands of dollars by using the resources mentioned above to verify
coverage and benefits.
Veterinary Clinic
Some military installations offer a Veterinary Clinic which provides preventive veterinary
services such as immunizations and health certificates. Animals owned by those
residing on post must be micro-chipped and registered with the post veterinarian in
order to legally reside in on-post housing. Many installations have policies on how
many, what type and which breeds of animals you may have while living in on-post
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quarters. It is always a good idea to check with the Housing Services Office of a post
prior to moving with any pets in order to verify requirements and limitations.
Chapels
Posts may or may not have chapels/churches on post. If there are chapels on post they
may offer Protestant, Catholic, Jewish or other religious services, Sunday Schools,
Bible studies and various Family religious education classes. If there are no religious
services to your liking available on post, venture out into the local community and get to
know your neighbors.
Civilian Personnel Assistance Center (CPAC)
This office handles employment information and opportunities concerning civil service
jobs.
Education Center
Some posts may have an Education Center. The Ed Center provides the military
community with quality educational opportunities. Some colleges offer classes online
and occasionally on site. The Ed Center is not designed to take the place of a fully
accredited college but, it can get you started. Be sure to check into the educational
benefits that may be available to you such as myCAA and the GI Bill.



Commissary
The commissary provides high quality grocery products at the lowest possible prices.
Items are sold at cost, with only a 5% surcharge added. The surcharge is used for
commissary supplies and operating expenses. In general, 30-35 percent can be saved
by using the commissary over the local supermarkets. The commissary is a huge cost-
saving benefit.
The Exchange
The Exchange is the re-branded name for AAFES, the Army and Air Force department
store sometimes referred to as the PX or BX. Other facilities that may be a part of The
Exchange include: barber shop, beauty shop, flower shop, gas station, optical center,
alteration and dry cleaning, class six (aka the liquor store), and theater. Many
exchange complexes have concessions or vendors who are allowed to display and sell
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their wares and who pay a percentage of their sales to AAFES. The Clothing Sales
store sells official items of military clothing and equipment to ID card holders.


Bowling
Some posts offer a bowling center with a full line of modern equipment. Leagues and
open bowling may be available. If your post has a bowling center, this is a great place
to meet with friends, host social functions and enjoy some free time.
Library
Depending on the size of your post, you may or may not have an on-post library. If you
have a library, they may offer a wide array of materials such as books, magazines,
newspapers, cassettes, compact discs, videos and software. Most libraries have a coin
operated copy machine, childrens materials, microfilm/fiche readers, computers and
printers available for use by ID cardholders.
Leisure & Travel Services (LTS)
LTS provides an extensive schedule of trips and mini vacations to local and regional
attractions. Special interest tours may be arranged upon request. Other services
include travel information on military recreation areas, Space A air travel and military
travel lodging, as well as maps, brochures and train schedules for the local area.
Arts & Crafts
Some posts may have an Arts & Crafts Center. Arts & Crafts offers equipment for a
variety of projects such as framing, stained glass and photography to name a few.
Trained staff is on hand to offer individual and group instruction. This is another great
place to meet new friends, pick up a new hobby or skill and to host social functions.
Automotive Skills Center
Automotive Skills Centers usually have facilities for automotive repairs and maintenance
such as fluid changes, alignments and engine rebuilding. The Center may simply
provide a space for you to do your own repairs/maintenance or they may perform these
services for you for a fee. The Automotive Skills Center may even offer classes on
routine vehicle maintenance and repair. Some centers also offer state motor vehicle
inspections.
Fitness Center
Most fitness centers feature fully equipped weight rooms and aerobic exercise
programs. Some fitness centers at larger installations may offer basketball and
racquetball courts, saunas, tennis courts and even pools. ID cardholders may utilize the
fitness centers and sign up for classes. This is a great way to get out and make friends
while keeping healthy.
Youth Services
Youth Services provides a full range of social, cultural, instructional and athletic
programs for youths 3-18 years old.



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Deployments are a fact of military life. There is much written on coping with
deployments and reunions. Read as much as you can get your hands on. Talk with as
many people as you can that have been through at least one deployment. Talk with
other spouses and talk with other Soldiers. Keep in mind that you can learn as much
from what NOT to do as you can from what TO do. Crawl across the web and read and
digest as many websites, blogs, tutorials and trainings as you can cram into any given
day.

Once you have gathered as much information and data as you can stand, then you will
want to overlay all of that information over your own unique circumstances and Family.
That little plaque form grade school was right...you do put the U in unique. No one else
has your exact life experiences, preferences and expectations. No one else is married
to your spouse and no one else is living your marriage. It is up to you and your Soldier
to figure out what your new normal is going to look like and how it is going to function
best.

Once your Soldier is notified of an impending deployment, the two of you should
immediately begin formulating a plan of attack. In depth discussions and long range
planning will ensue. Serious questions need to be asked and answered.
Who is going to pay the bills?
Who is going to manage the bank accounts?
Where will the spouse live while the Soldier is deployed?
What will you do with the Soldiers vehicle?
How will you communicate?
What types of powers of attorney will you need while the Soldier is deployed?

Now, complicate things even further by throwing a child or two into the mix.
Who will be the backup to the parent that remains at home if the need should
arise?
Where will the children go to school?
How will the children communicate with the Soldier?
How will you keep the Soldier updated on the progress of their childs
development and achievements?
How will you celebrate holidays with the Soldier away?

These and many more questions will need to be considered. Most units will offer
training and preparation classes prior to deployment. You are strongly encouraged to
participate at every level and to take advantage of every resource you are offered along
the way. If your unit is not offering training, ask why. This is your unit and your
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deployment as well. Be an engaged and productive element and you will benefit not
just yourself but other spouses as well.



Protocol can be a very imposing word. In the strict sense, it is the formal rules of
conduct at high-level government ceremonies. For military spouses it can be defined as
etiquette and good manners blended with the rich heritage of tradition and courtesies of
military life. Protocol lets us know what to expect in a given situation and can help you
feel more comfortable and at ease. Social functions run the gamut from black tie to blue
jeans. With the knowledge of some general guidelines, you will be able to enjoy them
all.
Social Obligations
There are lots of social functions associated with military life. These social functions
allow you a wonderful opportunity to get to know your Soldiers co-workers and their
spouses on a more personal level. Military social life is one of our nicest traditions out
of which friendships and camaraderie grow. Military social life is characterized by the
exchange of visits, invitations and other courtesies. The thoughtful and conscientious
military couple realizes that when they accept an invitation to a dinner, party or any
social function, they have a responsibility to return the hospitality. Special occasions
are exceptions (weddings, receptions, unit parties). It is not necessary to reciprocate a
sit-down dinner with a sit-down dinner. Remember to be yourself, to do what is
comfortable for you and to keep it within your budget. In this way you will entertain
because you enjoy it and will soon find yourself building lasting friendships.
To Go or Not to Go?
Sometimes you may find a conflict of obligations and interests when it comes to
deciding which functions to attend. Of course, your Family is your top priority. Usually
your unit Hail and Farewells and spouses coffees or Family Readiness Group functions
will take precedence over other functions scheduled at the same time. These social
occasions are great opportunities to get to know the people with whom your Soldier
works and to discover new friendships. This leads to esprit de corps, or unit spirit,
which is a very special military tradition. As part of his/her job as a professional Soldier,
your spouse must be loyal to the unit and to its commander. Your Soldier will pull duty,
go to the field and may someday be called upon to defend our Nation and our Allies.
Your support of his/her career will be a great help in a tough job.
Invitations
There are a variety of invitations to choose from depending on the mood of the party
and the hostess e-vites, informal notes, boxed invitations or handmade creations. An
invitation will use only one of the following responses: RSVP or Regrets Only. We
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cannot stress enough the need to respond to all invitations. Whether your response is a
yes or a no, please be considerate and respond to your host/hostess and then follow
through.
Types of Responses
Most invitations indicate the type of response requested in a lower corner. RSVP is
French (respondez sl vous plait) which means respond please. Call to say Yes, I will
attend or No, I will not be able to attend. REGRETS ONLY means the hostess is
assuming you will attend and you should call your hostess when you are unable to
attend. Never assume that you will not be missed. When you receive an invitation,
remember your old-fashioned good manners and reply promptly, within forty-eight
hours. Consider the waste of time and money if the hostess prepares food for twenty
people and only eight guests show up. If, after receiving an invitation, you meet the
hostess somewhere, you may refer to the party; however, do not RSVP at that meeting.
You must still RSVP by phone, email or by written note. When you decline an invitation,
an explanation is not required and should never be requested. Once you accept an
invitation and an emergency arises, you may call the hostess and decline. However,
once you decline an invitation, you should not reverse your response.
Thank Yous
Thank-you notes for hospitality and courtesies received are a must and a sign of
gracious manners. If your hostess is a close friend, a phone call is sufficient. A
handwritten thank-you is appropriate for any occasion whether it is a meal, a gift
received or simply a kind deed. Thank-you notes should be sent within five days.
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There is always much discussion generated about what to wear to the many social
functions you will undoubtedly be invited to. A good rule of thumb to follow is that no
matter how friendly the workplace is or how chummy co-workers are, the Army and all
of its various functions is STILL your spouses place of work and business. Always
maintain a professional image and manner of dress. Assume that your spouses boss is
checking you out because they are. There are technically only three forms of attire
(Formal, Informal and Casual). However, you will see many things written on
invitations in terms of dress codes. The following is a guide to help you decide WHAT
to wear to a function.
Formal
Military Personnel: A Army Service Uniform (ASU)/bow tie (men) or neck tab (women)
Army white uniform/bow tie (men) or neck tab (women)
Army blue mess or white mess with bow tie (men) or neck tab
(women)

Civilians For a ball or dance: White or black tie (men); long or short formal (women)
For a formal dinner: Tuxedo/bow tie (men); long dress, blouse and skirt, or
evening slacks (women)

Informal
Military Personnel: ASU with four-in-hand tie (men)/black neck tab (women); when
not in uniform, dark-colored business suit preferred
Civilians Business suit (men); Dressy dress or suit (women)

Casual
Military Personnel: May include the Class B uniform or Army Combat Uniform
(ACU); Check with host/hostess
Civilians Open-neck shirt (no tie), slacks with sport coat or sweater (men)
Si Simple dress, skirt and blouse, or pant suit (women)
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Semi-Formal
Although not an official category of dress, the host or hostess that uses this description
most likely expects guests to wear a business suit (men) or a cocktail dress (women).

Very Casual
This usually means jeans, shorts or sundresses. There is no military dress for this
category.


Texas Casual, Beach Wear, etc.
These types of categories are usually defined by local custom and policy. It would be
best to ask the host or hostess if you are unsure.


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Courtesy Calls
This is one of the oldest of Army traditions. In earlier times, a newly arrived officer
would make a social call on his commanding officer. Today courtesy calling is rarely
used in the traditional sense. However, some units still have some form of a courtesy
call which enables the commanding officer or senior NCO to personally welcome new
Soldiers to the unit. In todays Army, the units Hail and Farewell serves as the
welcome to new officers and NCOs. Most units encourage their officers, NCOs and
their spouses to attend these functions.
Brunch
This function is usually held around 1100 and is a combination of breakfast and lunch.
A simple dress or skirt and blouse would be appropriate.
Coffees
Some units still hold coffees. Coffees are strictly social events. Traditionally, coffees
are usually held monthly and provide a wonderful opportunity to greet new arrivals, to
farewell departing spouses, to get acquainted with the other spouses in the unit, and to
find out what is happening in the unit and on post/base. Coffees are part of the support
network military spouses enjoy. The refreshments that are served are light and may be
plain or fancy, depending on the hostesss choice. If your unit holds coffees, try to
attend and wear something nice but casual.
Luncheons
Most Officer Spouses Clubs and NCO Spouses Clubs have a luncheon or similar
activity each month. There may be a social hour before and a program after the
luncheon. Reservations are almost always required. A nice dress or suit is appropriate.



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Teas
A tea is held in the afternoon and is the most formal of daytime functions. It is usually
given in honor of a person such as a departing or incoming commanders or senior
NCOs spouse. Coffee, tea, punch, cookies and finger sandwiches are served on one
main table. A suit or nice dress is appropriate.
Cocktail Party
Cocktail parties are usually held from 1700-1800 until 1900-2000 (about two hours).
Simple hors doeuvres or appetizers are served. It is appropriate to wear a dressier
dress and coat and tie or suit for men.
Open House
This literally means that the home is open to guests between set hours. Guests are free
to arrive and depart between those hours.
Buffet Supper
A buffet supper is a dinner party served buffet style. It is a convenient way to serve
guests, especially a large number of guests in a limited space. At a buffet supper, the
plates, silverware, napkins and platters of food are arranged on the dining table or buffet
table and guests serve themselves. Guests then find a comfortable place to sit down in
the living room or den. A variation of the buffet supper is the sit-down buffet. In this
case the tables are set and arranged around the room. Guests serve themselves and
then find a place to sit (place cards may designate the seating arrangements). For any
dinner invitation, it is important to arrive at the time specified on the invitation, never
early. Dress is informal.
Informal Sit Down Dinner
This is a seated dinner, with as many courses as the host/hostess wishes to serve. The
food can be served by the hostess and host or by hired help (teenagers may enjoy this
type of part time job). Seating may follow a specific format. The female guest of honor
is seated to the right of the host, and the male guest of honor to right of the hostess.
Place cards may be used for the seating arrangement. Coffee may be served at the
table with dessert or later in another room (living room). Dress should be indicated on
the invitation and will probably be informal.



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Promotion Party
The promotion party, a time-honored tradition, is usually given by an officer or NCO or a
group of officers or NCOs with similar dates of rank, shortly after being promoted. It
does not have to be a fancy affair but provides a chance to invite friends and their
spouses to share the good fortune.
Unit Parties
Although the unit is usually the host, unit members and guests share the cost and
planning of the party. The most popular unit party is the Hail and Farewell which
welcomes the incoming members and farewells the departing members. These parties
build the unit spirit and camaraderie and are successful only if everyone supports and
participates.
Dining In
The Dining In is an old military tradition that has been passed down from the British. As
the most formal event, a Dining In allows Officers and NCOs of a unit to celebrate its
successes and to enjoy its traditions and heritage. It is strictly an Officer/NCO affair, no
spouses are invited.
Dining Out
When spouses are invited to a Dining In, it becomes a Dining Out. This gives the
spouses an opportunity to see all the pomp and circumstance that goes with the
tradition. The spouses will enjoy the opportunity to dress in their dressiest dinner gowns
or tuxedos and spend a fun evening with their Soldier and his/her fellow Soldiers.
Receptions
A reception is usually held in honor of a special guest or after a change of command.
There may or may not be a receiving line. Guests mingle and visit with the other
guests. Conversations are usually light and of short duration. When you wish to move
on to greet other guests, a simple Excuse me will do and then leave. Before
departing, thank the hostess and host and bid good-bye to the guest of honor.
Parades and Reviews
Certain traditions and courtesies should be observed during these ceremonies.
Spectators stand for the playing of the national anthem and the anthems of other
countries represented. As troops pass in review, spectators stand as the national colors
approach and pass. Depending on post/base policy, spectators may be required to
stand for the playing of other songs such as the Army Song.
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A review is usually smaller than a parade. If the reviewing officer is a General Officer,
the spectators will stand at the beginning of the ceremony for the playing of Ruffles and
Flourishes and/or the sounding of the accompanying gun salute.
These events are an important part of the military. Parades can be held for many
reasons, but the following are some of the most frequent:
Change of Command: the outgoing commander officially passes the unit colors
to his/her successor.
Presentation of awards and medals: Soldiers are recognized and commended
publicly for their achievements or valor in the outstanding performance of duty.
Retirement: Every soldier who retires after 20 years or more of service is
honored by a parade to give tribute to his/her years of loyal service.
Reveille and Retreat
If you are on post in the morning for Reveille (flag being raised) or in the evening for
Retreat (flag is being lowered), stop and stand facing the flag or the sound of the music.
Soldiers will salute. Family members (to include children) may place their right hand
over their heart. Stand quietly until the music has stopped. If you are in a car, stop, get
out and follow the same procedure. If you have small children in the car, you may
remain in the car, however, please stop the vehicle until the music stops playing. On an
Air Force or Navy base, you are only required to stop the car and remain seated inside.

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At all social functions, invited guests should try to speak to the guest (s) of honor
and always bid good-bye to the hostess and/or host.
Always be punctual for social functions, however, do not arrive early. You may
arrive early to meetings so that you can socialize before the meeting and the
meeting can start on time.
At a ball or dining out, the ladies stand for the posting and retiring of the colors.
They also stand and drink for all the toasts except the toast to the ladies. If you
do not drink alcoholic beverages, you may lift your glass for the toast as a token
or toast with your non-alcoholic beverage. Ladies may stand for a standing
ovation for a speaker.
When entering or leaving an installation with a guarded gate at night, dim your
headlights 50 feet before the gate so that you will not blind the guard.
Although the military has a defined rank structure, spouses have no rank. It is
still proper to address senior officers and their spouses by their last name, until
they ask you to do otherwise.
A chaplain may be addressed as chaplain, or if Catholic, by Father. A doctor is
addressed by military rank, although in a clinic setting you may find doctor more
comfortable.
You are welcome to attend a change of command ceremony without a specific
invitation. Attendance at the reception following should be by invitation.
The topic of children at events is a touchy subject. When children are invited, it
will be specified on the invitation. If an event is intended for adults only, please
be respectful of the host and other guests and leave your children at home with
adequate supervision or at a childcare facility. Children are welcome at parades
and reviews as long as they are quiet and well-behaved.
When the colors (Honor Guard containing the US flag) passes in review during
a parade, it is expected that all in attendance will stand and remain standing until
the honor guard passes by your location. It is also customary for civilians to
place their right hand over their heart in a show of respect and allegiance.
Soldiers (both active and retired) may salute whether in uniform or civilian attire.
Soldiers are not permitted to do a few things while wearing their uniform in order
to lend dignity and honor to the uniform and respect for all that it conveys. Some
of the unauthorized actions while in uniform are: chewing gum, showing public
displays of affections such as holding hands or kissing, wearing earphones,
talking on a cell phone or eating while walking or wearing a backpack or front
pouch for a baby to name a few.
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Powers of Attorney and Wills
Many military spouses may face both personal and financial problems during periods of
separation due to deployments or Temporary Duty (TDY). To handle these problems,
you need to be prepared. Many military couples use the power of attorney as their legal
instrument during geographic separations. There are two types of power of attorneys.
The general power of attorney enables the spouse to conduct all the Soldiers personal
affairs, while the special power of attorney is used for only one specific purpose, i.e., to
sell a car. Powers of attorney should be issued for only a limited period of time so that
the document can be reviewed and revised at certain intervals. The JAG office can
assist in drafting, notarizing and witnessing a power of attorney. JAG will also assist in
drawing up wills. Every Soldier and spouse should have a will.
Personal Papers
It is important that the following papers and documents be kept in a safe place and hand
carried, NOT packed when moving:
1. Current ID cards and/or passports for all Family members
2. Birth certificates
3. Marriage certificates
4. Checking and savings account numbers
5. Insurance policies (car, life, personal property)
6. Wills
7. Power of Attorney
8. Title and car registration
9. Complete household inventory
10. Letters of adoption
11. Alien registration card (green card)
12. Divorce papers
13. Naturalization papers
14. Immunization records
15. Medical records

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Living in a variety of places is exciting as well as challenging. Moving can be fun if you
are well prepared for the move and know what to expect. Every Soldier is given a
weight allowance according to his pay grade. This weight allowance is the maximum
weight authorized to be moved at government expense under the Joint Travel
Regulations (JTR). Your total JTR allowance includes the weight of personal property,
household goods you ship, things you place in storage and goods you send ahead to
your new duty station. The Soldier pays all charges connected with any excess weight
and this can be very costly. Therefore, it is important to stay within the weight
allowance. A split shipment means you can ship some household items early so they
will be at your new duty station when you arrive. Your second shipment may arrive after
you do.
Some transportation offices may provide transportation briefings. You may want to
attend one prior to each move. At the briefing, you may be given information about
pickup and drop-off scheduling, what items are excluded from shipping, the insurance
coverage limits the US government will reimburse for damage or loss along with lots of
other information. Additional coverage can be purchased from outside agencies. This
coverage must be purchased prior to the shipment.
The wave of the future is for the Soldier to make arrangements for the transportation of
household goods him/herself on www.move.mil . Use of this site should be self
explanatory. Transportation office personnel will assist Soldiers experiencing difficulty
only after the Soldier has made a concerted effort to complete the arrangements
him/herself online.
Some helpful moving hints:
1. Log into www.move.mil immediately upon receiving orders in order to initiate the
movement of your household goods.
2. Hand carry personal papers, expensive jewelry, coin or stamp collections or
other valuables. On packing day, make sure everything that is going with you in
the car is either already in the car or put in a room that does not need to be
packed BEFORE the packers arrive.
3. When something is dismantled by the movers such as a crib, put all small parts
in a small plastic bag and label it. Make sure the movers put all small plastic
bags together and mark the box or have the movers tape the plastic bag to the
piece of furniture. This will help the delivery company find your parts and put
your items back together.
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4. Ensure that the packers use the appropriate packing material to prevent
breakage.
5. Prevent packers from taking items from one room to be packed in another with
the other rooms contents.
6. Since light items may be left in dresser drawers from overseas moves, you may
want to put clothing that you are not taking with you, in the drawers before the
moving company arrives.
7. Put all cleaners and liquids in a place where they will not be packed. Be sure to
discard trash or it may be moved with you to your new home.
8. Save the original boxes and packaging from your high dollar items such as TVs,
stereo equipment, computers and other fragile items. You can have the packers
put the items back in these boxes and then seal the boxes.
9. Wash curtains and linens before you ship them since you will not have time to
wash them all at your new duty station before you use them. Simply pull them
out of the box at your new location, press and hang.
10. To prepare your refrigerator and/or freezer before shipment and/or storage, clean
it thoroughly. Place coffee grounds or charcoal in an old sock. Put the sock
along with crumpled newspapers inside the freezer and/or refrigerator to help
absorb moisture and deter the growth of mold and mildew.
11. When unpacking your household goods, make sure to shake out every piece of
packing paper. Small items can be inadvertently thrown out with the paper.
12. Compile a complete inventory of household goods and keep it up to date. It is
recommended that you take a photograph of all high value items.
13. Remember that ACS has a Lending Closet where you can borrow a multitude of
household items to hold you over until your own personal household items arrive.
Most Lending Closets will have inflatable mattresses, folding tables and chairs,
dishes, pots and pans, small appliances, and highchairs. Use of these items is
free.

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A primary Department of Defense (DoD) goal is to assist military members and their
Families in finding safe, affordable housing in the military community. Military housing
initiatives have taken many forms over the years ranging from government-funded,
owned, and operated housing to public-private partnerships. Today, DoD is taking a
comprehensive approach to a total housing solution that includes the Military
Privatization Housing Initiative (MPHI) and the Automated Housing Referral Network
(AHRN). Major initiatives are underway to improve housing and the quality of life for
service members and Families.
On December 1, 2010, Army Housing introduced the new Army Housing Online User
Services website. This is the official website for finding information on Family, Single
Soldier and Off-post housing options. This interactive site features installation welcome
videos, estimated off-post housing costs and allows you to check your position on the
on-post housing wait list. If you should ever need further assistance with your housing
needs, the Housing Services Office at your current and gaining installation will be able
to accommodate your needs. https://www.housing.army.mil/ah/

A Soldier assigned to permanent duty within the United States, who is not furnished
government housing, is eligible for Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) based on the
Soldiers dependency status at the permanent duty station zip code. Those stationed
overseas are eligible for an Overseas Housing Allowance (OHA) based on the
dependency status. BAH is intended to cover the costs of the current market rent,
average utilities, and renters insurance. BAH is based on rental data that reflects the
current rental market conditions not the historical circumstances surrounding various
mortgage loans. A homeowners monthly mortgage payment is not used in the
computation because the monthly cash outlay of a homeowner is not a good indicator of
the economic costs of home ownership. What this boils down to is that your BAH should
be the guide to how much you should spend on a place to live in any given location. If
you rent or purchase a home that exceeds your monthly BAH, then you will have to
assume the additional costs on your own. BAH will not vary based upon your choices
or preferences. BAH is a set amount across the board. You can look up the BAH rates
and learn more about BAH at: https://www.defensetravel.dod.mil/site/bahCalc.cfm

The frequent moves of Families from one installation to another, from low-cost rural
areas with limited off-post housing availability to high-cost urban areas and back again,
is a major source of stress for Army Families. Our Housing Services Offices are tasked
with the mission to locate, secure and deliver community housing to approximately 70
percent of Soldiers with Families that will reside in local community housing. To ease
the stress of moving, a Joint Services housing referral solution sponsored by the
Department of Defense, directly connects service members and their Families to
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available housing in the community they are relocating to through an internet solution:
Automated Housing Referral Network (AHRN). AHRN (www.ahrn.com) is a web-based
service that allows relocating military Families to find available housing in their new
location before they move. It is an internet based solution in a Soldiers permanent
change-of-station (PCS) process. AHRN facilitates home finding at any time of day from
anywhere in the world, removing inefficiencies, cost and stress from the PCS process.
For the military member, functional features such as detailed descriptions of properties
and local areas, current BAH calculations, rental partnership properties and military only
For Sale By Owner (FSBO) listings, provide immediate results to our savvy customer in
todays online world. AHRN is unique in that it targets only military personnel and their
Families and limits its access to military only. Unlike other rental web sites, AHRN does
not charge fees for rental listings, which helps ensure a robust selection of listings. In a
nutshell, this a FREE service dedicated to you! AHRN is deployed at 68 Army locations,
as well as at Air Force, Navy, and Marine Corps bases. The Army alone has over
200,000 of the half million registered military members.



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The Department of Defense (DoD) has created programs to help address the
challenges faced by military spouses. The three main resources are the Employment
Readiness Program at ACS, the Military Spouse Career Center, and Military
OneSource. These resources are designed to offer military spouses assistance in
reaching their employment and career goals. These programs also provide tools to help
address the unique challenges military spouses face when beginning a job search.
Because military spouses are invaluable to the health and welfare of military Families
and to the retention of those serving, DoD provides many employment and career
services to military members and they continuously strive to adapt and improve on
these programs as the needs of military spouses change.

The Employment Readiness Program is a resource offered by each of the military
branches. These programs provide training and information to military spouses in order
to help them to reach their employment and career development goals. Although the
programs do not guarantee employment, they provide spouses with the tools and skills
necessary to identify and actively pursue employment that matches well with their
needs and skills. Some of the services provided include:

* personalized job skill assessment and career counseling
* resume and cover letter preparation
* internet and printer access
* information on local employment opportunities
* career seminars
* assistance with identifying career goals and job searches
* information on the impact of relocation on employment and coping strategies
* support and encouragement

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Getting married and switching gears from being an individual to part of a couple can be difficult
all by itself. Add the circumstances of marrying a Soldier to the mix and the issues, concerns
and stressors ramp up the complexity tenfold. No one will ever tell you that being married to a
Soldier is easy but, it is certainly doable and definitely worthwhile. You are about to embark on
the adventure of a lifetime. Hold on tight and enjoy the ride.

Be supportive of your Soldier's job: understand that it is difficult for him/her just as it is
difficult for you.

Be strong for your spouse and children. Understand that it is just as hard for your spouse
to be away from the Family as it is for you to take on everything by yourself.

Take time for yourself. Find a sitter to get some time away from the kids, go to the gym,
plan a night with your friends, or anything you enjoy that you do not normally have time
to do. Find a healthy outlet so you do not get overwhelmed. If you get overwhelmed,
allow yourself to cry and then pick up and move on.

Be patient when your spouse is away. Understand and remind yourself that this is part of
being a military spouse, and you are strong enough to get through it.

ALWAYS communicate with your spouse. Understand what each of you are going
through and support each other. This will not only keep your relationship strong while
being away from each other but also help you each through it.

Always be a part of the FRG. Some FRGs are amazing and go out of their way to be
helpful, supportive and fun. Other FRGs just havent gotten it right...yet. If you find that
your FRG isnt quite what you would like it to be, then get in there and change it.
Volunteer for various jobs and be the change you want to see.

Be sure to start your military education off properly by taking all of the Army Family
Team Building (AFTB) classes. The classes start off with basic Army 101 kind of
information and build up to honing your leadership skills. This is where you get your MS
degree...military spouse degree.

Make a friend, explore and enjoy your new "home". When your Soldier has some free
time, you'll know just where to take him/her.

Make sure you educate yourself about the resources that are available to you and your
Family!

Make all your plans in pencil and don't buy a house until you've arrived at your new duty
station.

Keep a running list of every address you have ever used AND the dates of when you
used that address. This will come in VER HANDY when it comes time for you or your
Soldier to apply for or renew your security clearances.

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www.myarmyonesource.com
This website will give you the inside scoop on all things Army. This should be one of your
favorites on your browser.

www.militatryonesource.com
This website gives you the lowdown on all branches of service...Army, Air Force, Navy and
Marines.

www.militaryhomefront.dod.mil
This website will give you the latest and greatest information on duty locations for all military
services. Be sure to check out your new post online here.

http://apps.mhf.dod.mil/pls/psgprod/f?p=MHF:RELO:0
Plan My Move is a very helpful tool to use when planning your next PCS move. The site has a
very useful calendar tool that can help you organize your move down to the smallest detail.

http://www.move.mil/home.htm
Move.mil is an internet-based system that allows you to manage DoD household goods moves.
Move.mil allows you to self-counsel and submit your application online, instead of traveling to a
Transportation Office (TO). You are also offered the option to file a claim online, and to settle
directly with your moving company, called a Transportation Service Provider or TSP. You will
be afforded Full Replacement Value (FRV) of lost and damaged goods, as opposed to
depreciated value offered in the past. Using Move.mil also offers you the opportunity to make
sure only quality, reputable companies handle and ship your personal belongings, and those of
your fellow service members and DoD civilians, by completing the Customer Satisfaction Survey
(CSS).

http://www.myarmyonesource.com/FamilyProgramsandServices/FamilyPrograms/ArmyFamilyT
eamBuilding/default.aspx
Army Family Team Building empowers individuals, maximizing their personal growth and
professional development through specialized training, transforming our community into a
resilient and strong foundation meeting today's military mission.

http://csf.army.mil/
Comprehensive Soldier Fitness website is a structured, long term assessment and development
program to build the resilience and enhance the performance of every Soldier, Family member
and DA civilian.

https://www.myarmyonesource.com/familyprogramsandservices/familyprograms/armyfamilytea
mbuilding/default.aspx
Army Family Teambuilding Classes available online.


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A new military spouse will quickly discover that the military has its own language, which
consists of acronyms. Once you understand that these acronyms stand for a phrase or
words, you will easily learn to speak military jargon. You may at least attempt to guess
what they represent. Following is a list of common terms and acronyms.


AAFES
ACAP
ACES
ACS
AD
ADJ
AER
AFAP
AFN
AFRTS
AFTB
AG
AGR
AIT
AMC
AMMO
ANCOC
ANG
AO
APC
APF
APFT
APO
AR

ARC
ARCOM

ARNG
ARPERCEN
ASAP
ASG
AT
AVC
AVCC
AVN
AWOL

BAH
BAS
A
AA
Army/Air Force Exchange Service
Army Career and Alumni Program
Army Continuing Education System
Army Community Service
Active duty
Adjutant
Army Emergency Relief
Army Family Action Plan
American Forces Network
American Forces Radio/TV Network
Army Family Team Building
Adjutant General
Active Guard Reserve
Advanced Individual Training
Army Materiel Command
Ammunition
Advanced NCO Course
Air National Guard
Area of operations
Armored personnel carrier
Appropriated funds
Army Physical Fitness Test
Army post office
A Army Reserve/Army Regulation/
Armor
American Red Cross
Army Reserve Command/
Army Commendation Medal
Army National Guard
Army Reserve Personnel Center
As soon as possible
Area Support Group (OCONUS)
Annual training
Army Volunteer Corps
Army Volunteer Corps Coordinator
Aviation
Absent without leave
B
BB
Basic allowance for Housing
Basic allowance for subsistence
BC

BCT
BDE
BDU
BN
BNCOC
BSB

CAR
CASCOM
CDR
CDS
CG
CGSC
CID
CINC
CNGB
CO
COB
COLA
CONUS
CP
CPO
CPX
CQ
CSC
CS/C of S
CSA
CSAR
CVC
CY
CYS

DA
DAG
DDRP
DECA
DEERS

DEH
Battery/Brigade/Battalion
Commander
Basic combat training
Brigade
Battle dress uniform
Battalion
Basic NCO Course
Base Support Battalion (OCONUS)
C
CC
Chief of Army Reserve
Combined Arms Support Command
Commander
Child Development Services
Commanding General
Command and General Staff College
Criminal Investigation Division
Commander in Chief
Chief, National Guard Bureau
Commanding officer/company
Close of business
Cost of living allowance
Continental United States
Command post
Civilian Personnel Office
Command Post Exercise
Charge of quarters
Community Spouses Club
Chief of Staff
Chief of Staff, Army
Chief of Staff - Army NG
Community Volunteer Center
Calendar year
Child and Youth Services
D
DD
Department of Army
Deputy Adjutant General
Drug Demand Reduction Program
Defense Commissary Agency
D Defense Enrollment Eligibility
Reporting System
Director of Engineering & Housing
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DEROS

DFAS

DI
DO
DOB
DOD
DOIM

DOR
DPCA

DCA
DPP
DSN

DZ

EAP
EDRE

EE
EER/OER
EFMP

EM
EMC-C

EN
ER
ESGR
ETS

ESC/ECSC


FAC
FAP
FCP
FDU
FLO
FM
FOUO
FP
FPC
FPCON
Date of estimated return from
overseas
Defense Finance and Accounting
System
Drill instructor
Duty officer
Date of Birth
Department of Defense
Director of Information
Management
Date of Rank
Director of Personnel and
Community Activities
Director of Community
Deferred Payment Plan
Defense Switched Network (current
term for Autovon)
Drop Zone
E
EE
Employment Assistance Program
Emergency Deployment Readiness
Exercise
Emergency Essential
Enlisted/Officer Evaluation Report
Exceptional Family Member
Program
Enlisted Member
Equipment Maintenance Center
CONUS
Enlisted
Employment Readiness
Employer support of the Guard and
Reserve
Expiration of Term of Service
Enlisted Spouses Club/Enlisted and
Civilian Spouses Club
F
FF
Family Assistance Center
Family Advocacy Program
Family Care Plan
Full Dress Uniform
Family Liaison Office
Family Member/Field Manual
For Official Use Only
Family Program
Family Program (Guard)
Force Protection Condition
DPW
DENTAC

FRC

FRG
FRO
FRL
FSA
FSSA

FTX
FY
FYI
G
GED
GO
GS
GSA

HHC/HHD

HOR
HQ
HQDA

HRC
HRO
HS

IADT
IDT
IE
IET
IG
IMA

ING
IO
IRF
IRR
ITO

ITT

JAG
JR EN
JR NCO

JUMPS
Director of Public Works
United States Army Dental Activity
F
FF
Family Readiness Coordinator
(Reserve)
Family Readiness Group
Family Readiness Officer
Family Readiness Liaison
Family Separation Allowance
Family Supplemental Subsistence
Assistance
Field Training Exercise
Fiscal Year
For Your Information
General Equivalency Diploma
General Officer
General Schedule (Government
civilian employee pay grades)
General Services Administration
H
HH
Headquarters & Headquarters
Company/Detachment
Home of Record
Headquarters
Headquarters, Department of the
Army
Human Resources Command
Human Resource Office
Home Station
I
II
Initial Active Duty Training
Inactive Duty Training
Initial Entry
Initial Entry Training
Inspector General
Installation Management Agency /
Individual Mobilization Augmentee
Inactive National Guard
Information Officer
Immediate Reaction Force
Individual Ready Reserve
Information Travel Office/
Invitational Travel Order
Information, Tours, and Travel
J
JJ
Judge Advocate General
Junior grade enlisted personnel
Junior grade Noncommissioned
Officer
Joint Uniform Military Pay System
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KIA
KP

LES
LN
LOD
LOG
LP
LZ

MACOM
MAINT
MCCW
MEDDAC
MEDEVAC
METL
MFO
MI
MIA
MILPO
MOBEX
MOS
MP
MRE
MSC
MSO
MUTA
MWR

NA
NAF

NATO
NCO
NCOER

NCOIC

NCOSC
NEO

NG
NLT
K
KK
Killed in Action
Kitchen Patrol
L
LL
Leave and Earnings Statement
Local National
Line Of Duty
Logistics
Listening Post
Landing Zone
M
MM
Major Army Command
Maintenance
Military Council of Catholic Women
Medical Department Activity
Medical Evacuation
Mission Essential Task List
Multinational Forces and Observer
Military Intelligence
Missing In Action
Military Personnel Office
Mobilization Exercise
Military Occupational Specialty
Military Police
Meals Ready to Eat
Major Subordinate Command
Morale Support Officer
Multiple Unit Training Assembly
Morale, Welfare, and Recreation
N
NN
Not Applicable
Non-Appropriated Funds (generated
locally)
North Atlantic Treaty Organization
Noncommissioned Officer
Noncommissioned Officer
Evaluation Report
Noncommissioned Officer in Charge
Noncommissioned Officers
Spouses Club
Noncombatant Evacuation
Operation
National Guard
Not Later Than

OBC/OAC
OCAR
OCONUS
OCS
OD
OHA
OIC
OJT
OPSEC
ORE
OSC/OCSC


PAC
PAM
PAO
PCS
PDA
PERSCOM
PLT
PM
PMO
PMOS

POA
POC
POE
POI
POV
POTO
PT
PWOC
PX
PZ

QOL
QM
QTRS

RA
RAC
RC
RCI
RD
RDC
RDF
O
OO
Officer Basic/Advanced Course
Office of the Chief, Army Reserve
Outside Continental United States
Officer Candidate School
Officer of the Day
Overseas Housing Allowance
Officer-In-Charge
On the Job Training
Operational Security
Operational Readiness Exercise
Officers Spouses Club/Officers and
Civilian Spouses Club
P
PP
Personnel Administration Center
Pamphlet
Public Affairs Officer
Permanent Change of Station
Public Display of Affection
Total Army Personnel Command
Platoon/primary level training
Provost Marshal (police chief)
Provost Marshal Office
Primary Military Occupational
Specialty
Power of Attorney
Point of Contact
Port of Embarkation
Program of Instruction
Privately Owned Vehicle
Plans, Operations and Training Office
Physical Training
Protestant Women of Chapel
Post Exchange
Primary Zone/Pickup Zone
Q
QQ
Quality of Life
Quartermaster
Quarters (living area)
R
RR
Regular Army
Religious Activity Center
Reserve Component
Residential Community Initiative
Rear Detachment
Rear Detachment Commander
Rapid Deployment Force


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R&D
R&R
RFO
RIF
RO
ROTC
RRM
RRC
RSG
RST
R.S.V.P.

RTS
REG
REGT

SBP
SD
SDNCO

SDO
SES

SFPC

SGLI
SIDPERS

SJA
SLO
SMI
SOCOM
SOP
SQD
SQT
SRB
SSS
SSN
SZ
Research and Development
Rest and Relaxation
Request For Orders
Reduction In Force
Round Out
Reserve Officer Training Corps
Recruiting and Retention Manager
Regional Readiness Command
Regional Support Groups
Re-Scheduled Training
R Reply whether or not you can
attend (respondez sil vous plait)
Regional Training Site
Regiment
Regulation
S
SS
Survivor Benefit Plan
Staff Duty
Staff Duty Noncommissioned
Officer
Staff Duty Officer
Senior Executive Service (senior
civilian employee grades)
State Family Program Director
(NG)
Servicemens Group Life Insurance
Standard Installation/Division
Personnel Reporting System
Staff Judge Advocate
School Liaison Officer
Supplemental Medical Insurance
Special Operations Command
Standing Operating Procedure(s)
Squad, a unit within a platoon
Skills Qualification Test
Selective Reenlistment Bonus
Selective Service System
Social Security Number
Secondary Zone

TAG
TASC
TDY
TIG

TLA
TMP
TPU
TRADOC
TTAD

UCMJ
USAR
USARC

USARF

USO
USPFO

UTA

VA

VHA
VOLAR

WB
WG
WO
WOAC
WOC
WOSC


XO
T
TT
The Adjutant General
Training and Support Center
Temporary Duty
Time In Grade / The Inspector
General
Temporary Living Allowance
Transportation Motor Pool
Troop Program Unit
Training and Doctrine Command
Temporary Tour Active Duty
U
UU
Uniform Code of Military Justice
United States Army Reserve
United States Army Reserve
Command
United States Army Reserve Forces
(Schools)
United Services Organization
United States Property & Fiscal
Office
Unit Training Assembly
V
VV
Department of Veterans Affairs
(formerly Veterans Administration)
Variable Housing Allowance
Volunteer Army
W
WW
Well-being
Wage Grade
Warrant Officer
Warrant Officer Advanced Course
Warrant Officer Candidate Course
Warrant Officer Senior Course

X
XX
Executive officer











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Telling military time may also confuse the new Army spouse. Just remember that the
time up to 1200 is the same as civilian time without the colon (:). After 1200 hours, the
time is in the afternoon or evening. You will subtract 1200 from the military time (i.e.
1400 minus 1200 is 2:00p.m.). Once you master this, you will be able to go back and
forth between military time and civilian time.
















Regular
Time
Military
Time
Regular
Time
Military
Time
Midnight 0000 Noon 1200
1:00 a.m. 0100 1:00 p.m. 1300
2:00 a.m. 0200 2:00 p.m. 1400
3:00 a.m. 0300 3:00 p.m. 1500
4:00 a.m. 0400 4:00 p.m. 1600
5:00 a.m. 0500 5:00 p.m. 1700
6:00 a.m. 0600 6:00 p.m. 1800
7:00 a.m. 0700 7:00 p.m. 1900
8:00 a.m. 0800 8:00 p.m. 2000
9:00 a.m. 0900 9:00 p.m. 2100
10:00 a.m. 1000 10:00
p.m.
2200
11:00 a.m. 1100 11:00
p.m.
2300
Military Time
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Army Ranks

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Enlisted Ranks
Junior Enlisted Personnel (E1-E4) enter the military as Recruits, and once they
complete their Basic Military Training, they generally attain rank. Some enter as
Privates, but depending on education level can immediately attain the rank of PV2 or
PFC, and upon completion of basic training, some may attain the rank of Specialist.
Enlisted personnel form the foundation of the Armys manpower.
Non-Commissioned Officers (NCO) are expert Soldiers who have undergone
professional military training courses and have proven themselves to be capable and
responsible. They serve s the link between the officers and the junior enlisted Soldiers
and are referred to as the backbone of the Army. There are Junior NCOs (E4-E6) and
Senior NCOs (E7-E9).

Officer Ranks
Warrant Officers are referred to as Mr. or Ms. when being formally addressed
verbally. Warrant Officers are generally educated technicians on their specified fields.
They are considered experts in certain military technologies or capabilities.
Commissioned Officers serve leadership and staff roles in a variety of different
branches of the Army.
Junior Officers are also known as Company Grade Officers. The
Company Grade Officers are Second Lieutenants (2LT), First Lieutenants (1LT) and
Captains (CPT). They will command platoons or companies of Soldiers. They oversee
the execution of orders and ensure the welfare of the Soldiers in their command. They
are most important in small-unit combat and earn the respect of their Soldiers by
leading by example.
Field Grade Officers are the mid-level officers within organizations from
battalion up. They are the staff officers of every senior level Headquarters (HQ) from
the Pentagon to the combatant commands. Majors (MAJ), Lieutenant Colonels (LTC)
and Colonels (COL) make up the Field Grade Officer ranks. They may serve as staff
officers and/or commanders. Many have successfully commanded at the company
level and, in the ranks of Lieutenant Colonel and Colonel may command battalions and
brigades respectively. Field Grade Officers orchestrate the day-to-day activities on
most staffs.
General Officers (GOs) are the Soldiers with the highest ranks in the
Army. They are responsible for the planning of policies which affect the entire Army.
They will command Divisions, Corps, and Armies. Presently, the five levels of General
Officers are Brigadier General (BG), Major General (MG), Lieutenant General (LTG),
General (GEN) and General of the Army.

Army Ranks (continued)

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This chart depicts a brigade (BDE), battalion (BN), and a company (CO) organization
generally representative of what you may find in a military unit. There may be more or
fewer battalions or companies in the unit with different staff positions.






Command Structure
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A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
Alpha
Bravo
Charlie
Delta
Echo
Foxtrot
Golf
Hotel
India
Juliet
Kilo
Lima
Mike
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
X
Y
Z
November
Oscar
Papa
Quebec
Romeo
Sierra
Tango
Uniform
Victor
Whiskey
X-ray
Yankee
Zebra




This booklet was put together with the gracious assistance of volunteers. Several people
contributed ideas and labor to this project. Thank you to all volunteers and military
spouses who offered their assistance, advice and knowledge in the creation of this
booklet.
This booklet is meant to be a continuously evolving and improving project. As you learn
and grow as military spouses, please let us know what we should be sharing with the
next generation. Contact the West Point Army Community Service Relocation Readiness
Program Manager (845-938-3487) to share any corrections, improvements or additions
you feel are needed. It is now your turn to pave the way for the next generation of
Military Spouses.



Military Phonetic Alphabet
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