10 Keys To Success
10 Keys To Success
10 Keys To Success
Success
1. You are responsible for your
happiness
Most people think that the path to finding happiness and success is
influenced by the external world and that you are never fully in control of
how your future turns out. Canfield breaks this notion down by saying that
you are 100% responsible for your failure or success.
People who tend to blame everyone around them for their failings are often
those who find it hard to find real success in life.
Finding your purpose is one step, but deciding to steer your life in that
direction can be a major step for most people. People tend to prefer the
place where they are comfortable. The decision to leap and make that
drastic career change can be scary. However, wasting your life on careers
that do not make you happy will only leave you drained and disillusioned
and nowhere near to accomplishing your lifes purpose.
6. Be flexible
Problems will clutter the road to success. The most successful people today
faced problems head on and were flexible enough to bend and change
when this was needed.
7. Be persistent
Jack Canfield persisted despite the hundred publishers who thought that
his book was no good. Rejections may number in the hundreds but it only
takes one positive step to take a new idea or a passion to greater heights.
According to Jack, the longer you hang in there, the greater the chances of
something positive happening for you.
3. Use Mints
If, at any point in the day, your mouth has been open and if youve
consumed food, chances are that your breath stinks. Do yourself a favor
and freshen up your face.
4. Dont Name-Drop
Its transparent and obnoxious. When I met George Lucas, even though at
heart I was a starstruck fan boy, I would never say, I saw Harrison Ford
last week! or I just played golf with Steven Spielberg! Lame. If you do
want to slip in a name, its better to use a name thats more mundane, more
grounded, like the celebritys lawyer or dentist that you might happen to
know.
7. Drink Water
This is work, its not a party.
Motivation is the ultimate force that causes you to take action. Not only
does it initiate and drive goal-oriented behaviour, but it also sustains it. The
actions can be as simple as eating healthy, or as complex as winning a
Nobel Prize; every action has a certain motivation behind it. The driving
forces behind human motivation can be biological, emotional, social, or
personal in nature.
2. Self-protection
Once the physiological needs have been met, an individual craves for
safety and security; this is borne out of a desire for self-protection. While
early humans had a completely different idea of staying protected; today,
security needs can include safe neighbourhood, access to healthcare,
steady employment, and protection from environmental forces. Fulfilling
these needs can be a great motivation factor.
4. Status/Esteem
Every human has a need to command respect and status in society; this
also includes self-esteem. It is an important driving factor behind what
people do, as they want to feel valued and respected by others. Social
recognition, personal worth, and other accomplishments are some of the
factors behind driving you to fulfil your self-esteem needs.
A low self-esteem or an inferiority complex can also drive one to stay away
from the things they want to do; it is a form of negative motivation. However,
just being accepted by others isnt enough; one has to accept his or her
worth internally to have a high self-esteem.
5. Mate Acquisition
One of the main driving factors behind human behaviour, or any other
animal behaviour for that matter, is the need to satisfy ones sexual urges.
While sex can be classified under physiological needs, a mate is someone
who you want to have an offspring with; one who will help you take your
genes forward to the next generation.
A male will try everything in his power to attract a female, while a female
would do the same to attract a suitable male. This is one of the main driving
factors behind the cosmetics industry, driving the consumers motivation to
purchase through the need of a higher status and esteem.
6. Mate Retention
While it is very easy to attract a mate, it is very hard to retain him or her. We
present ourselves as an ideal person for our partner to realize that they are
worth staying with. In earlier times, a male was expected to provide for his
family, while a female used to take care of the family at home. However, this
doesnt apply for all partners in this current age, nowadays you can even
expect to see a role-reversal. Nevertheless, mate retention is still one of the
driving factors behind human motivation.
7. Physiological Needs
Physiological needs are the most basic needs that are extremely vital for
human survival. These include food, water, air, shelter and sleep. As long
as a human hasnt satisfied their most needs, they wont be motivated
enough to seek the others. Hence, these basic needs are the most
crucial driving forces behind human motivation.
4. I forget the failures of the past and look at each new day
through fresh eyes
5. I invest in my own personal development
6. I am never afraid to discard a non-producing idea in order
to start afresh
7. I smile even when I dont feel like smiling
8. I laugh in the face of disaster
9. I speak positive words
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I delegate
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I never criticize
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Im a good listener
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I am a giver
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I create opportunity
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I am confident
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I am secure in my personality
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I am a goal setter
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I write my goals
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I am an initiator
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I keep my word
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I am punctual
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I am reliable
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I am trustworthy
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I am happy to help
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I am orderly
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I use a diary
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I am persistent
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I am compassionate
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I like people
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I swim upstream
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I am a non-conformist
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I have conviction
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I try
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I seize opportunity
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I lead by example
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I know that when the dream is big then thats all that
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I have a mentor
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I am well informed
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100. I know that I am a winner because I always compete
against my last performance.
In an ideal world every man, woman and child would be programmed for
Success, the truth of the matter is that Success is a lot harder than you
think. Success takes alot of Passion, Drive, Focus, Risk Taking etc to get
there and alot of people are just not up for that kind of work.
These are 10 of the most common reasons people end up failing, not just in
business, but what they want to be successful at in life also. Read on and
see how you can improve on your road to Success.
has a lot to do with it, capital, the person or entrepreneur, knowledge on the
subject and much more.
4. Because some of your Best Ideas are just Memory or Were Never
Brought to Life- I definitely think this is one of the biggest reasons most
are never successful. Many of our best ideas that would have spread virally
or been a necessity in life were never brought past the brainstorming
process or seemed like one of them unobtainable goals, because most of
the time the brilliant ideas are the hardest to accomplish or will have you
facing the most obstacles to see them come to life. I read an article about
how almost everyday people think of at least two million dollar ideas on
their way to work during a 5day workweek, but over 90% never put any of
them into action pass the the thought phase and without reasonable doubt I
agree.
5. Because youre not patient- Many of us fall into this category and I was
once a very impatient person (still am at times) when it came to seeing
results with a new venture or goal I wanted to attain. I think the above title is
why many of us fall victim to all of these get rich quick schemes we see in
our email inbox everyday or on late night TV infomercials. In reality there is
no quick-legal ways to get rich or becoming successful anything that is
worth attaining will take time to acquire. Many of us abandon a business
before we give it time to get over the first years slump or automatically mark
it as a failure before it has time to reach its full potential.
sleep or take off for a break or make time for anything other than the goal
you want to accomplish or the business you want to be number one there is
always another team of people or a person working toward the same goal. I
think every time you decide to tackle an objective or start a new business
that you want to succeed in that you should keep in mindthere is always
be somebody putting in harder work and longer hours than you. Remember
the number one spot or your accomplished goals wouldnt feel so good if
you were the only one going for it, because it wouldnt be worth attaining.
8. Because the odds are against you- In most cases people want to be
successful from starting a business whether it is online or offline. The reality
is over 50% of small businesses fail within the first five years and out of all
businesses started 85% fail within the first five years as you can see the
odds are not in your favor to succeed. Many people who have weight loss
goals will most likely not meet them considering that more than 65% of the
United States population is either overweight or obese and it was up more
than 16% from the year before. Your chances of being a millionaire are not
as bad when compared to the other odds, because the average American
has a 1 in 13 chance of becoming a millionaire and more than 741,666
become new millionaires every month. Will you be next months
millionaire??
9. Because life is too short- This reason basically takes into mind all of
the above reasons for reaching success, tried and failed and taking time for
granted for when opportunity is presented to you. You should take
advantage of every SOUND opportunity that is presented to you, make use
of every free second you have available, read up on any topic relevant to
any goals you want to accomplish, make no excuses for tasks or goals not
completed, and realise that you have nobody to blame, but yourself for any
failures that you have or goals that you didnt accomplish within your
lifetime.
10. Because you will NOT make a change today- Even though this
article stated in the beginning that you will never be successful unless you
make a change today most of us will read it in its entirety and actually
agree with its content, but will still go back to our same habits of
procrastinating, blaming what we lack, putting together half-thought out
ideas with poor execution, never bringing our greatest ideas pass the
brainstorming process, being impatient and not persistent, letting someone
work harder than you for that number one spot, waiting on our meal ticket,
still understanding the odds are against you, but not working harder to
overcome them, not taking advantage of all our time on this earth to see
our dreams and goals manifest into something greater than we could ever
imagine.
It is still in your hands whether or not you will become successful and
defeat these odds. Just dont become a victim to one of these common
mistakes and reasons for not being successful within your lifetime.