Child Abuse Essay
Child Abuse Essay
Child Abuse Essay
Abuse appears in families for many different reasons. One reason for abuse and neglect by
parents is that they do not understand the needs of their children. For example, a mother might
think that her son is crying because he is hungry while he is feeling pain. She tries to feed him
but he cries more. If this misunderstanding happens a lot, the mother becomes frustrated and the
parent will lose her temper. She might start hitting or pushing the baby. She might even stop
caring at all.
Another cause for abuse and neglect is poverty. It is noticed that in poor families, parents tend to
care less for their children and even to show more abuse. This might be the result of frustration
which the parents feel as they are unable to make a good living. Cases of child abuse increase a
lot in case the parent, especially the father, loses a job. In such cases, children become the way
through which the parent releases the angry feelings inside himself.
Although poverty might be an important factor for child abuse, studies show that abuse occurs in
all kinds of families in all social backgrounds. Even in rich families where the parents fight a lot,
the stress forces the parents to abuse and neglect their children.
Besides, if parents are addictive to drugs or alcohol, the chances for child abuse and neglect
become very high. Also, if the family as a whole does not communicate with the neighborhood
and remains isolated all the time, then there are more chances that the children will become
victims of child abuse and neglect.
Some psychologists have found out that about 20% of abusive and neglecting parents were
themselves victims of child abuse and neglect when they were young children. Professionals
were able to prove that there is a cycle of violence which passes from parent to child, making the
chances for an abused child to become an abusive parents very high. However, it is not
necessarily true that abused children will become abusive parents in the end.
VI. Solutions
Countries in which child abuse has a long history such as the US have already come out with
many solutions. In Lebanon, however, child abuse has only lately been recognized as a major
problem. Consequently, little collective or organized action has been done in order to protect the
rights of the child.
The first step required to prevent child abuse is to activate legal intervention. In Lebanon, the law
does not intervene in family problems such as child abuse. What we need is a decisive set of laws
which protect the rights of the child inside the family, and against the possible aggression of the
parents or elderly brothers. Moreover, the law must be decisive about the rights of the child at
home. Abusive parents must be punished, even to the extent of depriving them the right to
custody of the child if they are incapable of raising their children in the proper manner.
The second step for intervention is to provide for a hotline for reporting. When abused children
become aware that there is a hotline to receive their complaints seriously, they will take the
initiative and report to protect themselves. If no such line exists, children will be abused in
silence, and all the laws to prevent child abuse will not have any value. The hotline should not
only be used by abused children, but also by teachers, neighbors and every member of the
society who thinks that a child next door or in the community is being abused by an adult. After
all, children are minor citizens who are unable to protect themselves against the aggression of
adults.
Public awareness is also very important to prevent the problem of child abuse. People who think
that it is none of their business to report on abusive neighbors are in fact participating in making
the problem worse. It is their obligation in fact to report, because a violation of human rights is
taking place. Public awareness is not an easy thing to attain. The only way to do so is to establish
specialized agencies for the protection of child rights, and to educate the public about their
obligations towards these agencies and the children of the community.
Finally, one of the most important steps needed to prevent child abuse is to educate parents. This
education must take place in two phases. In the first phase, awareness programs targeted at
parents in the media and in social agencies should educate parents on the concepts of child
abuse, its causes, consequences and ways of dealing with it. However, the second phase which is
more radical and consequently more influential is to start education on child abuse in school
programs, especially for those who will become parents in the future. In other words, notions of
child abuse must be included in the national education programs.
Child abuse has always existed in our society. It is now that we are becoming aware of it. It is
true that there are no statistics to prove that the problem exists, but we know it does, from the
ways we see other parents treat their children, or the cases we see in hospitals. These symptoms
exist all the time, and cannot be simply overlooked by society. Solutions are available. They just
need support from child-rights agencies and from the government.
Bibliography
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