Homecoming Qabeelat Wasat UPDATED NOTES
Homecoming Qabeelat Wasat UPDATED NOTES
Homecoming Qabeelat Wasat UPDATED NOTES
All praise is due to Allah the Lord of the universe. And peace and blessings be upon His
beloved Messenger Muhammad , his family, and his pious followers who follow his
guidance.
By the grace and mercy of Allah , we have compiled notes for Shaykh Abdulbary
Yahya’s class “Homecoming: The Madinan Seerah.” These notes are student notes, and they
have not been approved by AlMaghrib Institute or Shaykh Abdulbary Yahya.
Any benefit you obtain from these notes are from Allah while any shortcomings are
from ourselves. Please be aware that these notes have Arabic verses of Qur’an. If you are to
print these and then dispose of them, we ask that you please do so appropriately.
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Table of Contents
Part Chapter Page
Introduction 4
I Factors Affecting Unity and Disunity 19
II Consultation, Leadership, and the Help of Allah 41
III Success and Failure, the Lessons of Life 57
IV Success in Da’wah 64
V The Principles for Successfully Working Together 68
VI The True Purpose of Jihad in Islam: Lessons in Peace 78
and War
VII Change, How Islam Brought About Justice for all Lives of 81
all Colors
VIII The Classes of Society in Madinah Revealed 84
IX Complete Way of Life for All Times and Place 87
X The Choice and the Decision 89
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Introduction
DEATH OF THE PROPHET
The Prophet Muhammad fell ill, and Abu Bakr had been with him for the past three
days. That morning, the Prophet‘s fever subsided somewhat, so Abu Bakr sought
permission to take care of some family affairs. It was then that the Prophet Muhammad
passed away - when Abu Bakr was not there. Word of the death of Prophet reached the
outskirts of Madinah.
When news of the Prophet’s death spread, some of the people could not say a single
word. Some couldn’t stand up. They sat where they were. Others were in disbelief; in fact,
they were in denial. They refused to accept the fact that the Prophet had passed away. It
was too hard for them to handle, and they did not want to believe it. Umar stood up in
the masjid, and he said, “Whoever has said that the Prophet has passed away, I will chop off
his head. Nay he hasn’t passed away; he has only gone to meet Allah just like Musa did for
forty days, and when he returns I hope he cuts of the hands and the tongues of the
hypocrites who have said that he has passed away.”
And so Abu Bakr rushed back into the masjid and went into the room of Aisha . He
saw that the Prophet had passed away, so he kissed him and said, “You are pleasant
dead or alive, O Messenger of Allah.”
There was great tension in the masjid. Of course, there was an extreme amount of sorrow
and sadness because this was the greatest calamity that had ever afflicted the Companions.
Umar was standing up ready to use his sword, ready to strike anyone who would dare say
ill words. Abu Bakr stood at the mimbar and said, “He who used to worship Muhammad,
Muhammad has passed away. And whoever worshipped Allah, then Allah is alive and
everlasting.”
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“Muhammad is not but a messenger. [Other] messengers have passed on before him. So if he
was to die or be killed, would you turn back on your heels [to unbelief]? And he who turns
back on his heels will never harm Allah at all; but Allah will reward the grateful.” Surah Ale-
Imran, 3:144
It was as though the Companions were hearing this verse for the very first time.
Umar’s knees started to buckle, and he collapsed to the floor because he could no longer
withhold the weight of his body. He had one last slither of hope that maybe the Prophet
was still alive. He asked Abu Bakr, “Is that in the Book of Allah?” He had heard this
verse many times before, but he almost didn’t want to accept it. Abu Bakr said, “Yes, it is in
the Book of Allah.” Reality then seeped into his body, and Umar realized that the Prophet
had indeed passed away. He broke down, and he cried.
It was very difficult for the Companions to handle this situation. If Allah did not give
them the likes of Abu Bakr , the Companions most likely would not have been able to
endure with such patience. Even though they lost the Prophet , they did not lose his
character. His character was still found in Abu Bakr as he too embodied kindness,
gentleness, courage, strength, sincerity, zeal, and concern for the ummah.
Whenever the Companions would face a calamity, they would reflect on the life of the
Prophet . It would give them strength to carry on, to be the best that they could be. It
also helped them realize that there wouldn’t be any greater calamity than the one they just
endured: they had just lost the one whom they loved more than they loved themselves.
They would always concern themselves with the life of the Prophet as they yearned to
be with him and emulate his example. They would follow in his blessed footsteps as they
applied his teachings in their daily lives and increased in their acts of worship. His example
strengthened and motivated them as they continued his mission of spreading Islam, so
much so, that his message has reached us here in Chicago.
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As Muslims living in the west during these times, there will of course be challenges and
struggles, but we must also realize that even more challenges await us in the future. Every
year, it seems more difficult to hold onto la ilaha illa Allah, Muhammadur Rasullullah.
In Sahih Muslim, Prophet said, “There will come a time, in which people will love me so
much, [talking about the end of time, not during his time], they have never seen me, yet
they will want and have a desire to see me. Their desire will be so much that they would
trade all of their wealth and family just to be able to see me.” They would be willing
sacrifice so much because they love him so much.
When we study the Seerah, we realize that the Prophet endured so many more
difficulties than we will ever have to endure. His example is one of patience. As a child, he
was an orphan – being born without a father and losing his mother just a few years later
was undoubtedly difficult. His years of youth in Makkah were also challenging; he did not
grow up in a wealthy family, but rather his poor uncle Abu Taleb raised him. In today’s
society, we may look down upon certain jobs such as a grocery store worker. This is akin to
a shepherd in Makkah as he took care of another person’s flock of sheep. Every prophet
was a shepherd, and Prophet Muhammad was a shepherd. We realize his humble roots
and what he was willing to do in order to help his family financially.
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Sa’d bin Abi Waqqas also said, “I found a piece of leather and I boiled it. I was so hungry
that I boiled it to soften it up to [eat it]. I was able to have enough energy for 3 days.” This
was a pair of shoes he was eating!
Khadijah passed away immediately after the end of sanctions. Some scholars say that
both Abu Taleb and Khadijah passed away due to the difficulties of such sanctions in which
people did not have proper food to eat. People in Makkah heard the Muslims crying, but
they were not allowed to visit them or witness their suffering. Such a strategy was part of
the Makkan propaganda. History repeats itself, as we don’t see the suffering of Muslims in
the media.
“There has certainly been for you in the Messenger of Allah an excellent pattern for anyone
whose hope is in Allah and the Last Day and [who] remembers Allah often.”
Surah Al-Ahzab, 33:21
One must realize that the Seerah is a miracle in and of itself. The Qur’an was revealed over
1400 years ago; it was practical during the time of revelation, it is just as practical today,
and it will continue to be just as practical until the end of time. Likewise, the lessons of
Seerah transcend time and are miracles that strengthen our faith. We extract benefits from
the Seerah in our current times; it’s as if the Seerah was meant for us now in the 21st
century. The more you study the Seerah of the Prophet , the greater your Iman
becomes. You become more capable of dealing with the problems and difficulties you face
in life.
We hear about Muslims being tortured and oppressed, and women and children having no
place to live. We sometimes wonder, “Isn’t Allah merciful? Why are these things
happening?” You might not understand why such events happen, but there is wisdom
behind everything. As Allah says:
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“And [mention, O Muhammad], when your Lord said to the angels, "Indeed, I will make upon
the earth a successive authority." They said, "Will You place upon it one who causes
corruption therein and sheds blood, while we declare Your praise and sanctify You?" Allah
said, "Indeed, I know that which you do not know." Surah al-Baqarah, 2:30
Allah knows what we do not know. We might wonder why such atrocities, hurricanes, and
earthquakes are happening. Why are the people in Syria suffering? Wasn’t Haiti just
recently hit with an earthquake? And now a hurricane? Remember, Allah is All-Wise. There
is also another side to humanity: the Muslims. We are from the ummah of Muhammad .
“You are the best nation produced [as an example] for mankind. You enjoin what is right and
forbid what is wrong and believe in Allah.” Surah Ale-Imran, 3:110
When calamities and oppression are rampant, and politicians lie and deceive, there is a
group of people who are the best of humanity. Allah created mankind - they will stand up
for the worship of Allah. They are the most honest and most helpful. When people in Syria
and Haiti are suffering, who are the ones that will be best of humanity? It should be us. We
are the best. And if we do not embody the teachings of the Prophet in our daily lives,
then we will continue to be in the current state we find ourselves in. When we start
following the example of the Prophet and the teachings of the Qur’an, there will be no
one better on the face of this earth than us.
“Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in
themselves.” Surah Ar-Ra’d, 13:11
We need a la ilaha illa Allah change that will help us establish peace, justice, love, unity, and
kindness. The change needs to start with us, here and now. And that change will start with
this class because we will be speaking about the best of humanity: how he dealt with
people, how compassionate he was, how honest and trustworthy he was, and how patient
he was.
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If we want to embody the teachings of the Prophet in our daily lives, it will not matter
what the media says. They can say anything they want, but our neighbors, coworkers,
professors, and friends will know the true teachings of Islam based on our character. When
they hear bias comments on TV, they will say, “Fox you are lying. I know a Muslim. He is the
best person I’ve ever met. He is the most honest person. He is the most helpful neighbor. I
live close to the masjid and Muslims are the friendliest people.”
There are two cities, one in the US, one in UK – in these two cities, there are many Muslims,
more than 50%. The insurance rates in those two cities are higher than anywhere else in
the whole country because that is where the majority of the insurance frauds occur.
Muslims are always lying and stealing, thus, setting a bad example. All of that needs to
change; but that change starts with us individually, and we can’t start blaming other
people. Imam Ash-Shafi’i said, “We blame the times that we are living in, but there is
nothing wrong with the times we are living in. The only thing that is wrong with the time
we are living in is us.”
Allah will reward us even if terms of bathroom etiquette. When a Muslim leaves the
bathroom, he or she should leave with a cleaner body in addition to a cleaner bathroom.
Shaykh Abdulbary Yahya was in Florida giving a lecture, and he saw the janitor standing at
the door, watching the Muslims and listening to the lecture. Upon finishing the lecture, he
headed towards the bathroom and found the janitor inside. The janitor said, “I hate
Muslims.” Shaykh Abdulbary turned around, and asked him why. The janitor said, “Do you
see this bathroom here? There is water all over the place. Look at the toilet area, what are
all these bottles doing here? We rent this place out to all kinds of groups from all kinds of
denominations, religion, and race. No one leaves it as dirty as you Muslims!” The Shaykh
talks about cleanliness in Islam, saying, “Please excuse us, we clean ourselves but we
sometimes forget to clean what is around us.” Take home point: don’t leave a mess of water
everywhere in the bathroom, but rather, clean up after yourself!
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The above-mentioned story manifests the lack of knowledge we have at times. We may
have lots of information, but where is the implementation of such information? Where is
the true practice of Islam and character of Muslims? We teach our children high morals and
standards, but it is very difficult for them to follow that example when they see the
opposite in their lives. How many times have we quoted our parents? All the time: my dad
used to do this, my mom used to do this. But when we were younger, we didn’t listen to
them. We have a great influence over other people. Therefore, we have to be the best. And
this requires us to learn from the best.
“If the Hour starts to happen and in the hand of one of you is a palm shoot or seedling; then if
he's able to plant it before the Hour happens, then let him plant it.”
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When you study Seerah, you realize that battles were the last resort. Means were taken to
avoid confrontation. In the battles of the Prophet , from the beginning to end of Seerah,
the amount of people killed on both sides was less than many of the battles that came
afterwards. The whole Seerah had fewer casualties than almost all the major battles in the
world. Even when Allah sent down angels, He could have ordered them to kill the
whole army, but He did not send down such a decree. Just enough people were killed to
spare lives. This was to make an example - so that the battle would not continue. It also
allowed more lives to be saved since peace was the objective.
When people take a hadith out of context, they go astray. When people take part of the deen
and equate it with the entire deen, they go astray. Even though that one aspect of the deen is
very important, they ignore the other aspects, thus falling into misguidance.
For example, some people may be very passionate about da’wah, but they belittle other
aspects of the deen. They look down on upon those who do not act like them, and this can
lead to their misguidance. Other people may be very adamant about discussing the
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establishment of the khilafa and jihad, but they mock scholars who discuss important
aspects of tahara such as wudu and menses. They will mock them by saying, “They are the
scholars of hayd and nifas!”
Some people may focus too much on spirituality whether through dancing or spinning.
However, they may ignore the principles of Islam based on Qur’an and Sunnah in addition
to the concept of bid’ah. Thus, the go astray. Some may focus on Tawheed, but when
speaking to them, you realize they have the worst manners and character. They backbite
other people and speak to you in a rude manner, saying that such things are from the
Sunnah, when in reality they’re not. Overall, people can go astray when they may have
information but not knowledge.
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Allah says in Surah Al-Ahzab, “There has certainly been for you in the Messenger of
Allah an excellent pattern for anyone whose hope is in Allah and the Last Day and [who]
remembers Allah often.” (33:21) Part of studying the Seerah is considered remembrance of
Allah; there will be peace amongst you when studying it. Allah has testified that it is the
perfect example! Everyone has a dark past; when studying someone’s life, we may be
impressed with some aspects but disappointed in others. Every pious person has a past,
and every sinner has a future. Even before revelation, Allah protected the Prophet
from doing things that would be deemed unacceptable.
2.) His example is the middle path, the best path, the Straight Path.
The closer you are to the Sunnah, the more moderate you will become
because ease is built into the Sunnah.
When you don’t follow the Sunnah, it makes your life difficult.
3.) It will help you understand the criterion between right and wrong.
You are able to differentiate between that which is good and that which is
bad. You will not be influenced by society in an evil manner. In today’s times,
there are certain beliefs that people deem as acceptable, but are they really?
People may not have accepted such beliefs 15 years ago, but if you say
anything against it now, then you are wrong. You don’t even have the right to
say it is unacceptable.
In this country, people have the right to live any way they want as long as
they are not harming other people. So, if a woman wants to marry another
woman, or if a man wants to marry another man, that is their right. And they
have a right to believe that is also correct. But don’t I have a right to say that
is not correct? Don’t I have that right in the Constitution? It seems like we
don’t anymore. Where does it stop? Five years from now, will we say it is ok
for a man to marry a dog? Some European countries are getting there. They
have places where a person can spend time with an animal - brothels for
animals. Even according to their logic of right and wrong, don’t you at least
need consent? That is rape!! Who is getting the money? The owners. Is that
not oppression? Where does it stop?
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Learning the criteria of right and wrong helps you stay on the natural state of
fitrah.
This is why Aisha said that the Prophet’s character was the Qur’an.
“Say O Muhammad, "He is Allah, [who is] One, Allah-us-Samad (The Self-Sufficient Master,
Whom all creatures need, He neither eats nor drinks). He begets not, nor was He begotten.
And there is none co-equal or comparable unto Him."
Surah Al-Ikhlas, 112:1-4
When it says, “Say of Muhammad!”, what does this refer to? Say what? To
whom? In what occasion? If we know the proper context, then we know how
to use it. This Surah is in reference to the Makkans asking the Prophet ,
“O Muhammad, describe your Lord to us.” So, Allah then revealed these ayat.
There is wisdom in the Qur’an, and knowing how to appropriately use the
ayat can help us in da’wah. So, when people say, “Describe your lord to us,”
we know how to respond! These are all verses telling us how to deal with
people in certain situations even in our modern times.
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The more we love him, the easier it will to follow his example.
It helps us have the greatest blessing of Iman, and Islam, and la ilaha illa
Allah. There is no greater blessing than that.
We learn about the sacrifice the Prophet and the Companions made
in order for us to have Iman in our lives.
In general, people will emulate those whom they love. Corporations pay so
much money to sports stars and celebrities to endorse their products.
o E.g. Michael Jordan - he worked with Air Jordan Nike shoes. He was
number 23 and 45. He ate Wheaties, and he wore Hanes underwear.
We know this because he is paid millions of dollars to endorse
products because people like him and want to be like him. When you
like people, you want to follow them, wear what they wear, speak and
play like them.
As Muslims, if we follow the Qur’an and Sunnah, we will be the best as Allah
says:
“Thus We have made you a Wasat (just and the best) nation…”
Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:143
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Allah made us the best ummah so that we can set an example for others to
follow. On the Day of Judgment, people will make excuses. However, we are
the example that is still strong on the teachings of Qur’an and Sunnah. When
they say that everyone is corrupt, we won’t be.
“Say, ‘This is my way; I invite to Allah with insight, I and those who follow me. And exalted is
Allah; and I am not of those who associate others with Him.’"
Surah Yusuf, 12:108
If we claim to love the Prophet while lacking the zeal to learn about him, we don’t truly
love him as he should be loved. If it is important to us, we will make time to learn. It’s not
that we don’t have time, it’s just not important enough for us to make time. Same with the
Qur’an. People say, I don’t have time to read Qur’an; but if it’s important to you, you will
make time for it.
Instead of focusing solely on events and information, we will focus on applying the Seerah
to our current times. In order to show people that Islam is the true religion, we must prove
that Islam is a practical religion in today’s time. And it is indeed the most practical religion,
the Straight Path.
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So, they knew of his arrival based on the Torah. They knew he was going to make his base
in a land with palm trees between two lava fields and stony tracks – this is the description
of Madinah. So, they lived in Madinah, waiting for the final Prophet to arrive. Every time
there was a confrontation/battle between the Arabs and Jews, the Jews would always say
to the Arabs (Aws and Khazraj), “The time is nearing of the arrival of the final Prophet, and
when he comes, we will fight along his side and destroy you pagans.”
It was from the Jews that the Arabs knew of a final Prophet to come. Twenty years before
the hijrah, the Khazraj went to Makkah for negotiations. When the Prophet met them,
he called them to Allah. This small group of 5 people looked at each other and discussed
how this is the man whom the Jews had been talking about for so many years, this is the
man whom they have been threatening us with. They knew that whoever would be with
him would be victorious. They said, “Let’s beat them to him!” They wanted to accept his
message because if they chose him as their leader, they would be victorious.
This was the day in which the majority of the elders were killed, and only the youngsters
remained. The young people in Madinah were tired of all the fighting, and they wanted a
new leader. So, they found that leader in the Prophet . When the Prophet left from
Makkah to Madinah, he was not escaping as a refugee, but rather he was invited to Madinah
to be their leader. That was the agreement in the Treaty of Aqabah, specifically the 2nd
bai’yah (pledge). The first agreement was that the people would agree to listen and obey
their new leader. They were excited and happy; it was the most joyous day in their lives.
Before his arrival, the Prophet sent the great Companion Mus’ab bin Umayr from
Makkah to Madinah. Mus’ab had called most of the people in Madinah to Islam. So, when
the Prophet arrived, by the help of Allah, most of the people were already Muslim.
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When the Prophet reached Madinah, the Jews saw all the signs of Prophethood in him,
but they did not accept his message. Let us analyze their though process: when people are
expecting something and bragging about it, they want to be the first to have it. When
someone else has it before them, they become mad and jealous, and they start disparaging
it instead of praising it. For example if an Apple fan eagerly waits for the latest iPhone 8,
but his friend gets it 2 days before the release date, the individual may say, “Oh well, I heard
the iPhone 8 isn’t that great.” He wanted to brag about being the first to have it, but when
someone else gets it before him, he becomes jealous and doesn’t want it anymore. Even if
you give him the iPhone 8, he will say, “It is childish!”
So, the Arabs beat the Jews to the Prophet even though the Jews bragged about him so
much. Amongst the Jews, Saffiyah said her uncle came, and he was very saddened after
seeing the Prophet. His brother said, “Is it him?” He said, “Yes.” He said, “I will fight him
until the day I die.” Weren’t they just waiting for him? The Prophethood was with the
Arabs, which was a big test for the Jews – a test that they failed with the exception of a few.
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The Prophet was able to unite them all, and that change would later reach the rest of
Arabia. But that change started in Madinah. A new nation was born which gave rise to a
major transition. But keep in mind that this new nation was weak at the beginning.
Al-Bara’ said, “The first ones who came to us of the Companions of the Prophet
were Mus’ab b. ‘Umayr and Ibn Umm Maktum. They started to teach us the Qur’an. Then
‘Ammar, Bilal, and Sa’d came, then ‘Umar b. al-Khattab came with twenty others. Then the
Prophet came, and I never saw the people of Madinah rejoice more than that. They
rejoiced so much that I saw the girls and boys saying, ‘This is the Messenger of Allah ;
he has come.’” [Bukhari]
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THE MOSQUE
What is the role of the Mosques, Community Centers, and Islamic Schools in the West?
When trying to unite the community, we must ensure that the masjid is welcoming to all:
men, women, children, new Muslims, and old Muslims. The masjid must have plenty of
activities and resources that should attract people to the masjid. Never expand the masjid
unless you don’t have enough space for Fajr.
You should spend any resources you have in order to bring people to the masjid. If half the
community makes up youth, or half the community makes up women, then resources
should be spent accordingly. Many of our masajid have activities and programs that are
geared towards men over 40 years of age, but that has to change. Even during the time of
the Prophet , the masjid had activities for those other than older men. In fact, he even
had specific days just for women, even though the women were free to come to any of those
programs/lectures/prayers that the men attended.
The Prophet taught us not to prevent the female servants of Allah from going to the
masajid even though their houses are better for them. The son of Umar prevented some
women from going to the masjid. When Umar heard him, he became so angry at his son
that he refused to speak to him until the day he died. He wanted to make sure no one would
do such a thing and to show people the importance of allowing women to attend the masjid.
We must first realize that everyone needs to support the masjid. Zakat money can even go
towards Islamic centers and Islamic schools as this falls within the scope of the eight zakat
recipients mentioned in the Qur’an. During the time of the Prophet , people would give
camels as sadaqah and zakah.
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In Muslim countries, the government would establish many of these Islamic institutions.
But in non-Muslim countries, the government does not support such causes. Thus, we must
take care of our own community before we send our wealth outside, especially zakat. The
majority of scholars say it is not permissible to send zakat overseas. In the Shafi’i’ madhab,
one is not allowed to send zakat past the limit of a traveler (i.e. distance for shortening
prayer). The Prophet sent Mu’adh bin Jabal to Yemen and said, “You are going to a
nation from the people of the Scripture, so let the first thing to which you will invite them,
be the la ilaha illa Allah. If they learn that, tell them that Allah has enjoined on them, five
prayers to be offered in one day and one night. And if they pray, tell them that Allah has
enjoined on them zakat of their properties and it is to be taken from the rich among them
and given to the poor.” The Prophet didn’t say he should take some of the money and
send it back to Madinah (even though there were poor people in Madinah).
There is an exception for relatives such as aunts and uncles in need. Supporting them is
also considered enjoining relations. If we send our zakat money to people we don’t know, it
does not have the same effect of strengthening the community. We can still send money
overseas, but we can use that sadaqah to help refugees. For example, we can send the
money to countries such as Palestine, Jordan, Turkey, Somalia, and other countries that
suffer from affliction. The money can be used to help orphans and build wells. We think
globally, but we work locally as we first take care of those around us. If you have yet to take
care of the people around you, then you cannot send your money overseas.
ARRIVAL IN QUBA’
A Mosque Founded on Righteousness
The hijrah of the Prophet took about 2 weeks (to go from Makkah to Madinah). When
he first arrived, the Companions were waiting; he entered a town south of Madinah called
Quba’, and he built a masjid for people to worship Allah . It also served as a gathering
place where people would meet one another and ask about each other’s situation, an
important concept in terms of establishing a community.
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The masjid of the Prophet and the masjid at Quba’ were both very simple. There were
no domes; in fact, there were no domes during the time of Prophet or the khulafaa’ ar-
rashideen. Domes came much later on. Many scholars say that it is not Sunnah, but you can
have a minaret. Even though the masjid of the Prophet was simple, it was very blessed.
The Prophet said that whoever perfects his wudu, then goes to the Mosque of Quba’
and prays there, he will have the reward of an ‘Umrah.
“…A mosque founded on righteousness from the first day is more worthy for you to stand in.
Within it are men who love to purify themselves; and Allah loves those who purify themselves.”
Surah at-Tawbah, 9:108
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Almost everyone in Madinah was Muslim, even though many people had not yet seen the
Prophet . He was the most famous, well-known person in all of Arabia; he was the
“crown prince”. On the day he was born, his lineage was the most noble: his father,
grandfather, and great grandfather were like the royal family. Abdul-Muttalib, his
grandfather, was very famous—many incidents occurred during his time, which raised his
status. He was almost legendary because of the well of ZamZam and the slaughtering of his
10th son; in fact, people would even tell these stories to their children. The Quraysh were
like the royal family. Allah protected the Ka’bah. He sent birds with stones that
destroyed the huge army from Yemen. The noblest of Quraysh was Banu Hashim, and the
noblest amongst them was the Prophet . They were known as the People of God and
were very respected. When the Prophet was born, he was the son of Abdullah, the most
famous son of Abdul-Muttalib.
Most people didn’t know what the Prophet looked like, so it was all word of mouth
based on stories. When he came from Makkah, Abu Bakr was actually more well-known
and recognized than the Prophet since he did not travel as much as Abu Bakr who was a
merchant (specifically, the best merchant of Makkah). On their journey to Madinah, they
passed by a caravan that was unaware of the bounty Quraysh had put on the Prophet
and Abu Bakr . They asked Abu Bakr, “Who is that person with you?” He responded, “He
is my guide, he shows me the way.” Abu Bakr was trying to protect the Prophet ,
making people think he was a hired guide.
The Prophet said to leave the camel alone because it is being commanded—wherever
it settles, then that is where I will settle. He ended up in the Khazraji neighborhood with
Zayd ibn Khalid, better known as Abu Ayyub al-Ansari , from the Najjari clan. They are
amongst the people who are directly related to the Prophet . Hashim who was the great
grandfather of the Prophet was married to the noblest woman of Madinah, Salma al-
Najjari. She gave birth to Abdul-Muttalib in Madinah, and he was known as Shayba.
Madinah was not a trading town because people didn’t go there for ‘Umrah and Hajj; the
major trading town in Arabia was Makkah. So, Al-Muttalib brought Shayba to Makkah to
help him establish his nobility in Arabia based on his lineage. When the two entered
Makkah, people did not know Shayba was the son of Hashim, so they thought Al-Muttalib
had bought a slave (i.e. Abdul Muttalib). The Prophet first asked to meet the leaders of
Banu Najjar because we have been ordered to enjoin relations and have strong family
bonds.
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Any time a child under the age of puberty becomes involved with a financial transaction, he
or she needs the approval of the guardian before buying or selling anything. In Islam, one
cannot take advantage of people who don’t completely understand the value of money. The
Prophet did not accept the charity because the two orphan boys did not have full
capacity over their wealth. For example, say a child inherits a BMW and a house, and his or
her parents have passed away. Someone may offer them 2 bags of candy in exchange for
the car keys—the child may give it away. So, because the child does not yet possess proper
judgment, he or she needs the guardian’s approval.
The Prophet’s masjid was very simple; it did not even have a roof. The area that was
open had palm fiber leaves from date trees. Whenever it would rain, the water would seep
through. If it rained on Friday, the Prophet would order the mu’adhin to say: pray in
your houses. So, if it there is a snowstorm, which makes it difficult and hazardous for us to
attend Jumu’ah, it is permissible for us to pray at home.
AHLU US-SUFFA
The masjid of the Prophet was a place where people gathered. It was not just for
worship; it was also a place where people lived if they had nowhere else to go. These
people became known as Ahl us-Suffa—they were the poor. In our times, they would be
considered university students living in a dormitory. They were also the standing army;
whenever the Prophet wanted to send someone on a mission to investigate an issue, he
would send Ahl us-Suffa. They were also students of knowledge.
The Prophet would share whatever he had with the people living in the masjid. Many
people coming from Makkah did not have anything except the clothing on their backs. The
Prophet allowed the youngsters, those not married, and those who didn’t have a family to
stay with him in the masjid. If food came as sadaqah (charity), the Prophet would not
eat from eat but rather give it to Ahl us-Suffa. If food came as a hadiya (gift), he would eat
from it too.
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Abdullah b. Salam narrated: “When the Messenger of Allah came to al-Madinah, the
people rushed towards him and it was said, ‘The Messenger of Allah has come!’ I came
along with the people to see him, and when I looked at the face of the Messenger of Allah ,
I realized that his face was not the face of a liar. The first thing he said was, ‘Oh people, spread
(the greeting of) salam, offer food to people, and pray at night when people are sleeping. You
will enter Paradise in peace.’” [Bukhari]
Abdullah b. Salam was one of the respected Jewish rabbis who was awaiting the final
messenger. When the Prophet spoke the above words, he was addressing everyone:
Muslims, non-Muslims, Arabs, and Jews. The words of the Prophet were very few, but
they were very powerful and encompassed vast meaning.
The Prophet said that amongst the signs of the Last Day is that the salam will only be
used for those whom you know or if you want to know something. For example, you may
say, “Assalamu Alaikum. Do you know where the closest halal restaurant is?”
The Prophet said, “You will not enter Paradise until you believe, and you will not
believe until you love each other. Shall I show you something that, if you did, you would
love each other? Spread salam between yourselves.” [Muslim]
ENJOIN RELATIONS
Make the effort to visit, as it is an act of worship. It will strengthen your family bonds when
you visit your siblings.
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During the time of the Prophet , the Muslims would sit and share stories after Fajr.
They would laugh in the masjid while speaking about the dunya! On one occasion, the
Companions ate watermelon and then started a food fight; they were throwing food at each
other in the masjid of the Prophet ! We need to make the masjid not only a place for
prayer, but also a meeting place where people meet each other and strengthen the
community. In some masajid, the board is in control even though they never come to the
masjid.
Some people will always like you. At least 10% will always hate you and criticize you. Do
not let the loud minority stop you from benefitting the other 90%.
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When people are known for their generosity, they try to live up to that reputation. As
Muslims, we should always strive to have the highest standards and live up to the best
reputation.
The Ansar then agreed to totally support the muhajirun while they themselves work the
land. When the Ansar harvest their crops, they will give the muhajirun half of their profits.
But this method would make the muhajirun lazy!
The Prophet suggested that both the Ansar and the muhajirun work the lands together
and that the Ansar ask them for help (instead of giving them half the land). That way, the
muhajirun will start to learn farming. And when the profit comes, they would share it. The
Ansar adopted this method, and thus, they started to support and teach the muhajirun.
ESTABLISHING BROTHERHOOD
From this incident, we realize how willing the Ansar were to help their brothers for the
sake of Allah. These were people whom they did not even know, but they were still
prepared to give. Our deen teaches us the importance of having a strong community based
on compassion and generosity. We must learn to help the refugees in our communities;
they will work hard and then give back later. Companies even offer scholarships because
they know the students will naturally want to give back to the company in the future. We
help others for the sake of Allah based on sincerity, and this makes us the best.
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This mentality is in stark contrast to that of the Companions. The Companions helped one
another and were even willing to sacrifice half of their wealth for people from a completely
different tribe. Bilal himself had different colored skin. Muslims today need to help one
another. We often speak about empowerment and education that will help us become
experts in different fields. We cannot take interest-based loans, yet we don’t offer
scholarships for Muslim students. In terms of medical coverage, the Muslim community
should help people cover their medical bills. Instead of relying on insurance companies, we
can use the zakat money to cover these expenses.
There was a brother working in Saudi Arabia, and he was being paid very well. When he
accepted Islam, the company actually lowered his salary because it no longer needed to
force him to stay. Rather, the brother wanted to live in Saudi Arabia of his own accord.
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This was to be one under God. Even though people belonged to different groups and
tribes in addition to holding different beliefs, they were to form one county. This
ideology contrasts the custom of each tribe serving as its own country. Such a
diverse nation was not prevalent in those days.
2.) The Emigrants of Quraysh (according to their present custom) shall unite together
and pay blood money among themselves, and shall ransom honorably their prisoners.
Every tribe of the Helpers unite together, as they were at first, and every section among
them will pay a ransom for acquitting its relative prisoners.
The Helpers refers to the Ansar. Let us analyze the custom of Arabia at that time:
each tribe would take care of its own people. If someone from tribe X accidentally
kills someone from tribe Y, all of tribe X would collect money on behalf of the person
to pay the blood money. Blood money was very expensive during the time of the
Prophet . The one who kills by mistake must pay 100 camels to the family of the
deceased. In our times, regular cars such as Sedans would be like donkeys. Luxury
cars such as BMWs and SUVs would be like camels. Sports cars like Ferraris would
be like horses. So, how much would 100 SUVs cost? It would be in the millions! Most
families would not be able to afford it. So, the tribe comes together to help its own
people. This was a concept present during the time of Jahilliyah.
In Islam, the Prophet teaches us to continue this custom of helping one other. If
the custom did not contradict the teachings of Islam, it was affirmed in the
Constitution of Madinah.
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A student from Cambodia was driving, and he hit a pedestrian and killed him. He
was required to pay the blood money, which was hundreds of thousands of riyals,
but he came from a very poor family. His scholarship money was barely enough for
himself, and he was saving up money for his family. So, all of the teachers in
Madinah started to collect money and contribute to the cause. The university itself
wasn’t paying, but the teachers gave the student money to pay off the blood money.
Some even gave him their entire month’s salary. Even to this day, the people of
Madinah are very generous.
3.) Believers shall not leave anyone destitute among them by not paying his
redemption money or blood money in kind.
This clause stresses the importance of equality and justice regardless of social
status. When someone is in need of assistance, everyone should help.
4.) Whoever is rebellious or whoever seeks to spread enmity and sedition, the hand of
every God-fearing Muslims shall be against him, even if he be his son.
Everyone is equal in regards to the law. It does not matter who you are or whether
you are related to someone noble.
This clause was in contrast to the customs of Jahilliyah, which espoused the concept
of “help your brother (i.e. tribesman) whether he is oppressing or whether he is
being oppressed.” This means that you should always take the side of your tribe and
defend your tribesmen, even if they are wrong.
The Prophet repeated this statement one day as he said, “Help your brother
whether he is the oppressor or the oppressed.” The Companions were astonished as
they asked, “Oh Messenger of Allah, we help the one being oppressed but how do we
help an oppressor?” The Prophet gave this saying an Islamic meaning: if your
brother is an oppressor, help him by preventing him from oppressing. The slogan
was previously used in a negative manner to affirm tribalism, but the Prophet used
it to prevent injustice.
When the Prophet called the tribes of Arabia to Islam, he would ask them for
help in establishing a base for the religion. Almost all of the other tribes, with the
exception of Madinah, refused. It was customary in the times of Jahilliyah for your
own people to help you, even if you were wrong. So, the other tribes told the
Prophet, if your own tribe does not help you, why should we come forward to help
you? We can’t accept you.
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5.) A believer shall not kill another believer, nor shall support a disbeliever against a
believer.
6.) The protection of Allah is one (and is equally) extended to the humblest of the
believers.
8.) Whosoever of the Jews follows us shall have aid and succor; they shall not be
injured, nor any enemy be aided against them.
The Jews have freedom of religion. People say that the Shariah is not tolerant to
other religions and non-Muslims, but the Prophet gave Jews the right to
worship as they please, as long as they agreed to live at peace with the Muslims.
9.) The peace of the believers is indivisible. No separate peace shall be made when
believers are fighting in the way of Allah. Conditions must be fair and equitable to all.
10.) It shall not be lawful for a believer, who holds by what is in this document and
believes in Allah and the Day of Judgment, to help a criminal nor give him refuge. Those
who give him refuge and render him help shall have the curse and anger of Allah on
the Day of Resurrection. Their indemnity is not accepted.
11.) Whenever you differ about a matter, it must be referred to Allah and to
Muhammad.
12.) Killing a believer deliberately with no good reason entails killing the killer unless
the sponsor deems it otherwise.
Rights of Non-Muslims
2.) Non-Muslim members will have the same political and cultural rights as Muslims.
They will have autonomy and freedom of religion.
Many of the Jews were much more prosperous in Muslim lands than they were in
Christian lands. They had more freedom in Muslim countries.
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3.) Non-Muslims will take up arms against the enemy of the nation and share the cost
of war. There is to be no treachery between the two.
4.) Non-Muslims will not be obligated to take part in religious wars of the Muslims.
AWS KHAZRAJ
The Khazraj were the majority, and they also possessed the strongest fort from the Jews of
Madinah. Even though the Khazraj had alliances from two major Jewish tribes, they lost the
Battle of Bu’ath to the Aws. The Aws were known for their fighting and bravery, and this
would come into play in the battle of Badr. The history of Madinah affected the Muslim
wars to come.
In addition, there were three Jewish tribes that existed when the Prophet arrived in
Madinah:
Banu Qaynuqa’ was very wealthy and consisted of merchants who controlled the market
place. These Jews specialized in jewelry, and this tribe was closest to the masjid.
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These three tribes were not always united. In fact, when the people of Madinah would be at
war which each other, the Jewish tribes would ally themselves with certain groups. The
Jews of Banu Quraydhah would ally themselves with the Aws, while the Jews of Banu
Qaynuqa’ and Banu Natheer would ally themselves with the Khazraj.
DECLARATION OF WAR
When the muhajirun arrived in Madinah, the Makkans sent a letter to Abdullah bin Ubay
bin Salul, who was considered to be the most influential person in Madinah at that time. He
was chosen as the leader before the arrival of the Prophet . This letter ordered the
people of Madinah to expel the Muslims. If they don’t, they should consider themselves to
be at war with the Makkans. If you are not with us, then you are against us. The Makkans
were already at war with the Muslims; now they are taking it further by threatening any of
their supporters with war.
The Prophet heard of a caravan that was coming from Makkah that carried the wealth
of Quraysh. Most of this wealth was taken from the Muslims when they left Makkah. This
caravan possessed 100 camels and merchandise from Makkah. One may ask, where is the
merchandise of Makkah coming from? Most of its products came from Africa and India,
which was ultimately traced back to Yemen. Yemeni traders would travel by ocean to Sri
Lanka and India to obtain spices and produce. Makkans would travel to Yemen. In the
summers, they would travel north. In the winters, they would travel south. Allah praised
them and reminded them of the trading route to Yemen He blessed them with, ultimately
allowing the Makkans to become very wealthy.
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“For the accustomed security of the Quraysh -Their accustomed security [in] the caravan of
winter and summer -Let them worship the Lord of this House, Who has fed them, [saving
them] from hunger and made them safe, [saving them] from fear.”
Surah Al-Quraysh, 106:1-4
The Makkans would obtain their products from Yemen (these products ultimately came
from India, Sri Lanka, and Africa). The Abyssinian Empire controlled Yemen at this time,
and Abraha was the governor. There was much interaction between the Horn of Africa and
Yemen, and this interaction continues today as the culture is very similar.
The caravan that was leaving from Makkah was larger than usual because it contained the
wealth of the Muslims. When the Muslims left for Madinah, they were not allowed to take
anything with them. Some of them only had the clothes on their backs. The Makkans would
prevent the Muslims from leaving if they took their wealth with them.
A caravan of 100 camels would usually necessitate about 30 people protecting it. So, the
Muslims needed around 200 people to take the caravan while avoiding causalities (the
Muslims wanted a large number so the Makkans would not fight back). The Prophet
told his Companions to prepare themselves. The Muslims took a long time to get ready, and
by the time they arrived at the anticipated location of the caravan, it was 1 day ahead on its
way to Sham.
The Prophet used this opportunity to speak to the tribes in the area along the path in
an attempt to start diplomatic connections. He wanted the new Muslim nation in Madinah
to have a peace treaty with them. The Prophet taught us the importance of having good
neighbors since they can help you in many ways. In Makkah, the Prophet had the worst
neighbors including his uncle Abu Lahab in addition to Uqba ibn Abu Mu’ayt. Uqba hated
the Prophet so much that he poured camel intestines upon him during sujud. He also tried
to strangle him, but Allah sent Abu Bakr to save him. Uqba tried to kill the Prophet on
multiple occasions.
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The Prophet did not tell them immediately where to go. Rather, he sent them out with
a letter that contained written instructions (it was written by a scribe because the Prophet
did not know how to write). The Companions were very trustworthy, but certain matters
must be kept secret in dire circumstances.
Abdullah bin Jahsh went out with his group of 8 men, and they continued for 3 days. Most
of the people were from Ahl us-Suffa, which was similar to a standing army. They did not
have any families or children, and they were generally very strong and healthy. After 3
days, they opened the letter:
“When you have read this letter, proceed to the oasis of Nakhlah between Makkah and Ta’if.
Install your tents there to find out the movements of the Quraysh and send the information to
us.”
They were to investigate the movements of Quraysh and gather information about the
caravan going in and out of Makkah. The mission did not entail fighting, but rather
surveillance.
The Prophet sent Abdullah bin Jahsh and his men for surveillance on the last day of
Rajab. The men saw a caravan about to enter Makkah with only 4 individuals. Abdullah bin
Jahsh saw this as a perfect opportunity to overtake the caravan since he had 8 people.
However, it was the last day of Rajab, and fighting was not allowed. So, Abdullah consulted
with his companions: if they wait until tomorrow, the caravan would have entered Makkah,
so now would be the opportune moment to take the caravan. They deviated from the
instructions of the Prophet and fired the first shots. Ibn Hadrami was killed, and 2
captives were taken back to Madinah. One of the captives fled to Makkah and spread news
of the Muslims’ attack. Word spread that the Muslims no longer respected their way of life
in the month of Rajab (in reality, the Makkans wanted an excuse to attack). In our times,
this would be an excuse to call them terrorists.
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The drums of war were beating, and since Makkah was an economic and religious center,
everyone heard about the incident. The Makkans easily spread propaganda, telling people
to return to their tribe and explain what the Muslims have done. All of Arabia heard of the
incident at Nakhlah.
Word spread that “Muslims do not respect our way of life.” When Abdullah bin Jahsh
returned with the prisoners, the Prophet was so angry, his face was red. He refused to
accept the spoils from the caravan as he waited for revelation. He was angry because
Abdullah and his men went against his orders. Sometimes, Muslims make mistakes that the
religion does not condone. It is a mistake of the individual, not Islam itself. However, non-
Muslims will use such events to put Islam on trial. This happened during the time of the
Prophet , and it still occurs to this day.
“They ask you about the sacred month - about fighting therein. Say, "Fighting therein is great
[sin], but averting [people] from the way of Allah and disbelief in Him and [preventing access
to] al-Masjid al-Haram and the expulsion of its people therefrom are greater [evil] in the sight
of Allah. And fitnah is greater than killing." And they will continue to fight you until they turn
you back from your religion if they are able. And whoever of you reverts from his religion [to
disbelief] and dies while he is a disbeliever - for those, their deeds have become worthless in
this world and the Hereafter, and those are the companions of the Fire, they will abide therein
eternally.” Surah al-Baqarah, 2:217
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Allah says that fighting in the holy month is considered a big sin; we do not belittle the
situation. The Makkans had their own set of principles and rules; one of the rights that
everyone in Arabia had was the right to enter Makkah at any time to perform ‘Umrah (after
all, it was a sacred city). Additionally, anyone in Makkah was not to be oppressed.
HILF AL-FUDUL
When the Prophet was a teenager, a merchant was once oppressed in Makkah. The
merchant was from the Zubaydi tribe, and he sold his merchandise to one of the noble
aristocrats of Makkah. However, this aristocrat refused to offer payment for the goods. The
merchant was a stranger who had no help or support since Makkah was not his hometown.
During those times, in the Arabian culture, poetry was like the media; it was powerful,
influential, and had the ability to change people’s perception. If an individual were to
disrespect or insult a tribe through verses of poetry, the reputation of that tribe would be
affected, possibly even centuries to come, whether the poetry was accurate or not.
So, this merchant stands up on Safa and disparages the Quraysh through verses of poetry.
The Quraysh could not bear to have their reputation tarnished, so they agreed to establish
Hilf Al-Fudul. This oath was similar to the Bill of Rights as it empowered people with rights:
anyone who needs help in Makkah will be helped, and anyone who oppresses others will be
opposed. Fudul means extra (i.e. people will have extra rights in addition to their regular
rights).
The Prophet refused to accept the maneuver at Nakhlah. In the above-mentioned ayah,
Allah says that the Makkans are worse in their treatment of Muslims. They are the
worst perpetrators since they did not give Muslims their rights simply because they said la
ilaha illallah.
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Mut‘im ibn ‘Adi sponsored the Prophet and helped him return to Makkah. Mu’tim even
had his sons stand at the corners of the Ka’bah with their swords drawn out in order to
protect the Prophet. Abu Jahl came to the Ka’bah and asked Mu’tim if he has apostated (i.e.
become Muslim). Mu’tim said no. Abu Jahl said that in that case, they would recognize his
protection. So, if Mu’tim had accepted Islam, he would not have been given the right to offer
protection to the Prophet .
If Abu Taleb had embraced Islam, the Prophet would have been tortured and harmed
even more. But because Abu Taleb was a non-Muslim, the Quraysh recognized his right to
protect his nephew. If someone says la ilaha illa Allah, they would have lost certain rights.
The Geneva Conference established human rights, but we often see that people change the
terminology for Muslims. For example, they are not called prisoners of war, but rather,
enemy combatants. If a 12 year old is captured, you usually cannot keep him until he turns
25. However, because he is an enemy combatant, the universally accepted rules can no
longer be applied to him.
The disbelievers will be the worst perpetrators when it comes to violating human rights.
They bomb cities, kill people, and violate all UN resolutions. When the established rules
work in their favor, they use them. But when the rules work against them, they will change
the terminology.
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aware of the Prophet’s strategy, and he knew that the camels were from Madinah
based on the date seeds present in the dung (Madinah is full of dates).
The Arabs were very good at tracking, an important skill to possess when travelling in the
desert. They could tell whether a man or woman left a footprint in the sand. They could
even tell if the woman was pregnant and whether she was thirsty or not! In order to
survive in the desert, you must be able to find the wells. When the Arabs would see animal
footprints, they must know whether the animal has finished drinking or is looking for
water – and they knew this based on how the camel places its feet in the sand.
So, ThamTham rides his camel up a mountain that overlooks Makkah and cuts his camel’s
nose with his sword. The camel screams and ThamTham tears his shirt, crying out, “We
have a calamity! Abu Sufyan’s caravan is in danger, help!” At last, the leaders of Makkah pay
attention to ThamTham.
It was at that time that Abu Jahl was scolding Al-Abbas for all the problems that Banu
Hashim has caused. Abu Jahl said, “You already have a man amongst you playing the role of
a prophet, and now you have a woman claiming to be a prophetess amongst you as well?”
And it was at that moment that ThamTham made his announcement.
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When news arrived in Medinah that the caravan is headed their way, the Prophet
ordered the Companions to prepare themselves. He decided that they would not wait for
anyone. Any individual not ready at that moment would be left behind. The Prophet made
that decision because the previous delay made them miss the caravan earlier.
Abu Sufyan sent another messenger to Makkah to inform the people that they no longer
need to send an army. Because he had taken the coastal route, he and his caravan were
safe, so Abu Sufyan did not intend on fighting. However, Abu Jahl refused to return. 300 of
the men wanted to return to Makkah since the entire objective was to protect the caravan.
If the caravan was safe, then why continue? Abu Jahl insisted on marching forth even if
there was no danger; he wanted to spend 3 days and 3 nights in Badr as the slave-girls and
women sang to them. He wanted to send a message to all of the people of Arabia: the
Quraysh do not tolerate attacks on their caravans. They had the resources and the
willingness to fight.
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The Muslims did not intend to fight since they intended to merely take the caravan by
surprise. However, they did not know the caravan had taken another route. So, they were
on an unexpected collision course.
The army in Madinah was already coming out. The first time they came out, they had
about 200 people. The second time they came out, they had about 313 or 317 fighters
total:
82 or 86 from the muhajirun
61 from the Aws
170 from the Khazraj
The smallest group was the Aws because they were further away from the Prophet in
terms of physical distance. The Prophet’s mosque was in the Khazraj neighborhood, and
thus the Khazraj were ready to leave sooner. Since the Prophet insisted on leaving at the
moment while leaving behind people who were not ready, many of the Aws were unable to
make it in time. The majority of the people who joined the expedition were from the
Khazraj and the muhajirun who lived closer to the masjid.
The Prophet left with 70 camels and only 2 horses. The Makkans had over 100 horses
and many more camels than the Muslims. Neither group is expecting a battle. When the
Muslims set out, they would take turns riding the camels. When the Prophet came down
from the camel to give Ali bin Abi Taleb and Abu Lubaba their turn, they would refuse. They
said, “We will walk while you continue to ride.” The Prophet said, “Neither one of you
is stronger then me, and I am just as in need of reward as both of you.” We recognize the
humility, kindness, and true leadership the Prophet possessed.
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And then Al-Miqdad bin ‘Amr stood up and spoke: “O Messenger of Allah! Proceed
where Allah directs you to, for we are with you. We will not say as the Children of Israel
said to Moses: ‘Go you and your Lord and fight and we will stay here’. Rather we shall say,
go you and your Lord and fight and we will fight along with you! By Allah! If you were to
take us to the coast, we will still fight resolutely with you against its defenders until you
gained it." Theses words could be written in gold!
The Prophet was very pleased with the response of Al-Miqdad, but he wanted to
ensure that there were no misunderstandings. He kept on saying to the Companions, “Oh
people, advise me.” The Companions were wondering, what else is there to say after those
beautiful words of Al-Miqdad? Sa’ad bin Mu’adh , one of the leaders of the Ansar,
realized what the Prophet wanted. He said, "By Allah, I feel you want us (the Helpers)
to speak." The Prophet replied, “Yes, of course!”
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The Prophet did not want to point a finger at the Ansar, but he still wanted to hear
from them. At the Treaty of ‘Aqabah, the people agreed to protect, defend, and obey the
Prophet; they were to protect him just like they would protect their own family members.
When the Prophet arrived in Madinah, the Companions took out their swords and
donned their armor to show their readiness to protect him. This act became tradition; even
today, when a person of nobility or a great leader visits Arabia, the people welcome him
with their swords.
The Muslims are now outside of Madinah, and the Treaty of ‘Aqabah did not bind the
Muslims to fight beyond their territories. The Prophet wanted to ensure that there was
no misunderstanding (i.e. people would not say: we agreed to protect you inside of
Madinah, not outside of Madinah). When consulting with others, one should not assume
everyone agrees just because the decision is obvious. For example, if you choose to sit in
the emergency row on an airplane, the crew will ask if you are willing to help in case of an
emergency. They ask for a verbal confirmation, not just a nod of the head. In South East
Asian culture, one may think a person’s smile indicates agreement while in reality it is
simply a way to avoid offending you. This person may not agree with you at all. In
important decisions, you never assume. Make sure you hear it from people’s mouths!
Forget about the coast! He is saying that they will tread into the ocean itself! The Arabs in
general were afraid of the oceans; Muslims did not have any ships for battle until the time
of Uthman , and even then, he was very reluctant. Sa’d bin Mu’adh is saying that even if
they were to enter the water, not a single one of them would hold the Prophet back.
Rather, they will be firm and truthful when they meet the enemy, and it may be that Allah
will show the Prophet what is pleasing to him. Whatever you decide, we are with you
all the way.
ONWARDS TO BADR
The Prophet was very happy with the response, so he continued towards Badr. The
Makkans also continued towards Badr, unaware that the Prophet was headed there as well.
The Prophet sent out more spies to check the routes; he himself went on one occasion
and met someone at a well in Badr. The Prophet asked the man if he had heard about an
army that left from Makkah, agreeing to disclose his identity if the man spoke. The man
responded that based on his calculations, the army should be right behind the mountains.
The Prophet thanked him and left.
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The man asked, “Who are you? The agreement was that you would tell me who you are.” So,
the Prophet responded, “We are from liquid/water (nahnu min maa).” The man asked,
“From the waters of Iraq (i.e. the water of Tigris and Euphrates)?” The Prophet
continued walking away because did not want to disclose his position to Abu Sufyan. So, he
spoke in an ambiguous manner to conceal his identity while giving an honest response
(water is referring to sperm in this context).
We learn that Muslims need to treat their prisoners very well. Most of the prisoners
captured at the Battle of Badr eventually became Muslim.
A Companion by the name of Al-Hubab bin Al-Mundhir said, “Has Allah inspired you to
choose this very spot or is it stratagem of war and the product of consultation?” If Allah
told you to take this position, then I will not say anything. But if this decision is just
your personal opinion and strategy of war, I would like to say that this is not the right
place. Rather, go a bit further where we will have the wells at our backs instead of having
them in front of us. If the wells are in front of us, both the Muslims and the non-Muslims
can benefit from them. But if the wells are at our backs, we can take our share of water and
the non-Muslims will not have enough for their army of 1000 soldiers.
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The Prophet heeded the advice of the Companion. When it comes to issues pertaining
to halal and haram, he does not say anything of his own desire. Allah says:
“Nor does he speak of (his own) desire. It is not but a revelation revealed.”
Surah An-Najm, 53:3-4
But in issues not pertaining to halal and haram, the Prophet has his own opinions since
he is a human being. In these matters, he can heed the advice of his Companions. The
Prophet followed Al-Hubab’s advice and put the wells of Badr behind them.
The Prophet once saw a Companion pollinating his date tree, and he asked him why he
does that. The Companion descended from the tree and walked away, thinking that the
Prophet was saying his actions are unnecessary and that he needs to put his trust in Allah
instead. He thought the Prophet was scolding him with a rhetorical question. When the
time for harvest came, the Companion did not have as many dates as others. He addressed
the issue with the Prophet who explained that he was merely asking a question because he
himself was not a farmer. The Prophet was a merchant from Makkah, so the
Companion would have more knowledge in farming. The Prophet was asking the
Companion about an affair of dunya. In other issues pertaining to guidance, Allah sends
direct revelation to him.
“The Arabs will hear how we marched forth and of our mighty gatherings, and they will stand
in awe of us forever.” Abu Jahl
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“[Remember] when He overwhelmed you with drowsiness [giving] security from Him and sent
down upon you from the sky, rain by which to purify you and remove from you the evil
[suggestions] of Satan and to make steadfast your hearts and plant firmly thereby your feet.”
Surah Al-Anfal, 8:11
Imagine how one would sleep the night before a great a battle. He would probably have
troubles falling asleep because of fear and stress, knowing that the next day may possibly
be his last. He mind will be racing with thoughts about his family and the legacy he will
leave behind. One needs to sleep well before battle in order to have strength and energy.
So, Allah covered the Muslims with slumber. While the Muslims were sleeping safe and
sound, the non-Muslims were unable to sleep because their camp had become so muddy.
Sleep is a kind of minor death, and thus we say when we wake up:
“All praise is for Allah who gave us life after having taken it from us and unto Him is the
Resurrection.” [Al-Bukhari]
The earth beneath the Muslims was firm from the water, but it was not muddy because the
water had rolled down the mountain. The Prophet stretched forth his hand and
supplicated to Allah until his cloak fell off his shoulders. Abu Bakr came up to him,
picked his cloak, and put it back on his shoulders and said, “Oh Prophet of Allah! You have
cried out enough to your Lord. He will surely fulfill what He has promised you.” [Al-
Bukhari] The Prophet was promised victory.
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So, Abu Bakr is telling the Prophet , didn’t Allah already promise you victory?
“[Remember, O believers], when Allah promised you one of the two groups - that it would be
yours - and you wished that the unarmed one would be yours. But Allah intended to establish
the truth by His words and to eliminate the disbelievers.”
Surah Al-Anfal, 8:7
This ayah refers to the promise that Allah made to the Prophet in the Sunnah: he would
either be given the caravan or victory over the disbelievers. Allah says that they wanted the
one with no shawka (strength). In other words, they did not want to fight. Earlier, Ali kept
torturing the prisoners because he didn’t want to hear that they were from the Makkan
army. Rather, he wanted them to be from the caravan.
The Prophet taught us to ask Allah for ‘afiya (i.e. to be saved from trials,
tribulations, hardship, difficulties, etc.). So, we should not desire to meet the enemy. But if
we must, we need to be firm. Allah wanted to establish the truth and cut off the
disbelievers. The Muslims were much fewer in numbers and resources, but with the help of
Allah, they were able to literally outnumber the disbelievers and crush the Makkans. If
Allah and the Prophet had desired, not a single person amongst the disbelievers would
have lived. However, only enough disbelievers were killed so that they would turn back and
flee.
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SAWAD IBN GHAZIYA – LOVING THE PROPHET WITH ALL HIS HEART
One Companion by the name of Sawad ibn Ghaziya was standing out of line in front of
everybody. The Prophet took his stick and poked him in the belly to put him back in
place. Sawad said, “Oh Messenger of Allah, you have hurt me. I want to retaliate.” If this had
occurred with any other general in the world, the soldier would have been done for!
The Prophet lifted up his garment to expose his stomach, and he said, “Go ahead and
retaliate.” Sawad embraced him and kissed his belly. When the Prophet asked him why he
did such a thing, Sawad responded, “O Messenger of Allah, you see what is before us and I
may not survive the battle, and as this is my last time with you, I want my skin to touch
yours.” His action was one of true love for the Prophet . The Companions loved their
leader because he was kind, compassionate, loving, and sincere.
“And you did not kill them, but it was Allah who killed them. And you threw not, [O
Muhammad], when you threw, but it was Allah who threw that He might test the believers
with a good test. Indeed, Allah is Hearing and Knowing.”
Surah Al-Anfal, 8:17
Allah sent the particles of sand into the eyes of the disbelievers. So, by the help of Allah, not
only were they slipping in the mud, but their eyes were also irritated by sand. They could
not see clearly even though they were running forward. The Makkans were also surprised
by the Muslims’ tactic; they were expecting the Muslims to come forward as one group and
fight, but rather they saw rows of Muslims!
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The Prophet invoked Allah for help: “Oh Allah, here comes the Quraysh full of vanity and
pride, who oppose You and call Your Messenger a liar. Oh Allah, if this little band (of Muslims)
perishes today, there will be none left on Earth to worship You.”
The first row of Muslims came down on its knees. The second row was comprised of
archers. While the Makkans ran towards the Muslims, arrows started raining down upon
them! They were slipping! Their eyes were irritated! The Muslims came forward for hand-
to-hand combat, but the Makkans started to flee in confusion. And then the Muslims started
to hear horses.
“[Remember] when you asked help of your Lord, and He answered you, ‘Indeed, I will reinforce
you with a thousand from the angels, following one another.’ And Allah made it not but good
tidings and so that your hearts would be assured thereby. And victory is not but from Allah.
Indeed, Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise.”
Surah Al-Anfal, 8:9-10
The Messenger of Allah , in his tent, dozed off a little and then raised his head joyfully
crying and said, “Oh Abu Bakr! Glad tidings are there for you. Allah’s victory has approached.
By Allah, I can see Jibril on his mare in the thick of a dust of sand.” Then he came out of his
tent and sad, “Their multitude will be put to flight, and they will show their backs (al-Qamar,
54:45).”
Umar said, “When this verse was first revealed, I asked the Messenger of Allah about its
meaning. What multitude? What defeat? And the Messenger of Allah didn’t answer me.
But when I saw him recite it on that occasion, I then understood.
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For every disbeliever there was an angel. The Muslims would witness the heads of the
disbelievers being cut off even though no one was hitting them. The Companions continued
to fight, and many of the disbelievers were captured. Just a little over 20 of the Muslims
were killed.
The Companions would know if a disbeliever was killed by an angel or by a Muslim. If there
were burn marks and very clean cuts on the disbeliever, the soldier was killed by an angel.
In fact, the angels’ swords inspired George Lucas with the idea of Lightsabers!
The Battle of Badr was the only battle in which the angels actively participated, and they
achieved a very high status. This battle was a major victory that marked a revolution in the
Arabian Peninsula. The Muslims were there to stay as they had just defeated the strongest
tribe in Arabia.
Narrated ‘AbdulRahman bin ‘Awf: “While I was standing in the row on the day (of the battle)
of Badr, I looked to my right and my left and saw two young Ansari boys, and I wished I had
been stronger than they. One of them called my attention saying, ‘Oh Uncle! Do you know Abu
Jahl?’
He said, ‘I have been informed that he abuses Allah’s Apostle. By Him in Whose Hands my life
is, if I should see him, then my body will not leave his body till either of us meet his fate.’
I was astonished at that talk. Then the other boy called my attention saying the same as the
other had said. After a while I saw Abu Jahl walking amongst the people. I said (to the boys),
‘Look! This is the man you asked me about.’ So, both of them attacked him with their swords
and struck him to death and returned to Allah’s Apostle to inform him of that.
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He then looked at their swords and said, ‘No doubt, you both have killed him and the spoils of
the deceased will be given to Mu’adh b. ‘Amr b. al-Jamuh.’
The two boys were Mu’awwidh b. ‘Afra and Mu’adh b. ‘Amr b. al-Jamuh.” [Bukhari]
One of the boys struck Abu Jahl in his upper body, while the other struck him in his lower
body. The Prophet wanted to verify that Abu Jahl had indeed been killed, so he asks for
his body to be brought forth. Abdullah ibn Mas’ud sets out to find him. This was a very
short Companion, so much so, that when the taller Companions would be sitting down and
ibn Mas’ud would be standing up, they would be the same height. His lineage was not very
well known, and he did not have the protection of a very strong family. Nevertheless, he
was incredibly brave. He openly recited the Qur’an for the first time in front of a large
crowd at the Ka’bah. Ibn Mas’ud was one of the most well versed Companions of the Qur’an
as he memorized 70 surahs directly from the Prophet .
As ibn Mas’ud continues to recite from Surah Ar-Rahman, Abu Jahl comes and asks, “Who is
that reciting?” People explained that the recitation is gibberish that Muhammad is teaching
his followers. Abu Jahl slaps ibn Mas’ud so hard that his ears start to bleed, and he sits on
him. Keep in mind that ibn Mas’ud is a young boy. He goes to the Prophet who felt very
sad from him as he was crying and injured. Jibril then comes with a big smile on his
face. The Prophet asked him, “Why are you smiling?” He responded, “An ear for an ear, and
the head is extra.”
We understand these words form the Battle of Badr. Ibn Mas’ud finds Abu Jahl on the
ground injured, breathing his last breath. He sits on his chest, and Abu Jahl says, “That is a
very high position for a little shepherd like you.” Ibn Mas’ud slaps him, takes off his head,
and brings the head to the Prophet who proclaimed “Allahu Akbar! Every ummah has a
fir’aun, and the fir’aun of this ummah is Abu Jahl.”
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An Ansari Companion brought him to the Prophet . Al-Abbas told the Prophet that it
was not the Companion who had captured him, but rather a very big and strong man with a
turban. It was actually an angel who captured him, and this angel was ordered not kill Al-
Abbas.
Truly Muslim?
The Muslims had captured 70 prisoners from Quraysh. The Prophet decided to ransom
the prisoners, Al-Abbas being one amongst them. When Al-Abbas was ordered to pay the
ransom, he said that he is Muslim. The Prophet, however, told him that if he were truly
Muslim, then Allah would pay him back. Why didn’t the Prophet accept Al-Abbass’
words that he was Muslim? People can say that they are Muslim but if their actions totally
contradict their words, we deal with those people based on their actions, not based on
what is in their heart or on their tongue.
All three components of Iman are vital. For example, the Prophet’s uncle Abu Taleb
helped the Prophet and the Muslims more than anyone else in Makkah, protected the
Prophet, defended the Muslims, and was always on the side of the Muslims. He, however,
never said la ilaha illa Allah, though deep down in his heart he had truly believed that the
Prophet was a messenger. His actions of the limbs were upright, but the speech with
his tongue was missing. On his deathbed, he was planning on saying the testament of faith,
but Abu Jahl knew that there was one person that Abu Taleb loved more than the Prophet
, and that was Abdul Muttalib. Abu Jahl asked Abu Taleb, “Are you going to abandon the
way of Abdul Muttalib?” So Abu Taleb died without saying the shahada. Therefore, he was
not Muslim.
Al-Abbas said that he was Muslim and that he helped the Muslims, but he contradicted such
a claim when he fought against the Muslims in the Battle of Badr. Anyone with one ounce of
faith in their heart would not fight against the Muslims. The Prophet thus dealt with
him based on his actions and ordered Al-Abbas to pay ransom.
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PRISONERS OF WAR
When the battle was over, most of the leaders of Quraysh were killed. The Prophet
returned to Madinah and even the Muslims were shocked to hear that they defeated the
Quraysh. It sent a message to all of Arabia that Muslims were here to stay.
If you captured fighters from the other side, there were a couple of options:
1. Execute all of them
2. Free them
3. Enslave them (especially women and children because they were not
allowed to be killed)
Slavery in Islam was a way of taking care of the prisoners and teaching them Islam. In those
days, the slaves of the Companions became scholars of the next generation, being the best
students of the best teachers. The prisoners were treated very kindly and the slave was not
financially responsible for anything. When you have a slave in Islam, you are ordered to
give them whatever you eat and dress them with whatever you wear. If they become
Muslim, it is recommended that you free them.
Abu Hurayrah said if it were not for jihad fisibillilah, Hajj, and being kind to one’s
parents, he would have wanted to be a slave. The Prophet said the slave gets 2
rewards: a reward for obedience to Allah and a reward for obedience to his master.
Umar believed the Muslims had to set an example and make a statement by executing
every single one of them. Furthermore, the prisoners’ relatives amongst the people of
Madinah should be the ones to do so. Therefore, people would think twice before attacking
the Muslims.
The Muslims began taking ransom for the prisoners. For those who could not pay the
ransom, they were offered the chance to teach ten of the Ansar how to read and write
proficiently in exchange for their freedom. These prisoners would then become the
teachers of the youngsters in Madinah. While most of the Makkans knew how to read and
write in order to deal with customers, the people of Madinah were farmers and less
educated. So, teaching young people to read and write revolutionized the culture of
Madinah. And of course, prisoners wanted to teach their students very quickly, since the
faster they learned, the faster the prisoners could return home.
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“It is not for a prophet to have captives [of war] until he inflicts a massacre [upon Allah 's
enemies] in the land. Some Muslims desire the commodities of this world, but Allah desires [for
you] the Hereafter. And Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise.” Surah Al-Anfal, 8:67
When this verse was revealed, both the Prophet and Abu Bakr sat down and cried
on the side of the road, knowing that Umar was indeed correct. They could not retract
their decision because they had to fulfill their promises of accepting ransom.
Taking a ransom would cause more problems and more causalities. A new nation must
assert its authority, and if these prisoners were killed, people would not dare to fight or
oppose you. They will think twice before fighting you. However, once a nation’s authority is
established, it is okay to take prisoners.
One such hypocrite was Abdullah Bin Ubay. Every Friday before the khutbah, Abdullah bin
Ubay would stand up and announce that the Prophet was about to come out and that
the people should obey him. He pretended to be Muslim, though he hated Islam.
Though the people of Madinah agreed to fight a common enemy, this tribe was showing
enmity towards the Muslims by trying to instigate another fight with the Makkans. This is
treachery. The Prophet overlooked it and continued to call them to Islam, but they
were still free to practice their religion.
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There was great tension following this incident. The Prophet asked only that they pay
blood money and that they come forward with the person responsible for the death of the
Muslim man. One of the agreements in the Constitution of Madinah was to bring a criminal
to justice; however, all the Jews refused to come forward. Instead they said, “O Muhammad,
do you think we will tell on our own people?” They knew who did it, but they refused to
cooperate and bring forth the man. So, the Prophet was given no option except to
implement the last clause in the treaty: appropriate measures can be taken against anyone
who refuses to abide or breaches the conditions of the agreement.
Anytime there is a siege and a side surrenders, that side is deemed to be a prisoner. They
can either take ransom or be executed, except if they are women (unless they joined the
fight), below the age of puberty, or elderly.
The Prophet started to consult with the Companions, but Abdullah bin Ubay came
running towards him. He feared that the Prophet was going to execute them based on the
ayah in Surah al-Anfal. Abdullah bin Ubay was from Khazraj who was allied with Banu
Qaynuqa’ and Banu Natheer. He said, “O Muhammad, I won’t let you do it. I fear the
changing of the tides. These were a people of 400 men, and I protected them when you
were not here. I am not going to let you wipe them out in one day.”
The Prophet told him to go away and let them consult. Abdullah then grabs the
Prophet by the upper garment until his neck was red. The Prophet again says to get away,
but Abdullah puts his hand in the pocket of the Prophet. Umar offers to kill Abdullah,
but the Prophet says no. Abdullah again insists. So, the Prophet then decides that Abdullah
can choose the Jewish tribe’s fate. Even after their disobedience, they were let free by
Abdullah. Some say that the Jews of Banu Qaynuqa’ were exiled. However, Ibn Qayyim says
the correct opinion is that they were not exiled because 300 of them came to offer help in
battle of Uhud, but the Prophet sent them back.
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At the beginning of Islam, when the Muslims were still in Makkah, Allah ordered the
Companions to pray towards Jerusalem. However, in Medinah, Allah sent down revelation,
changing the Qiblah from Jerusalem towards Makkah.
“We have certainly seen the turning of your face, [O Muhammad], toward the heaven, and We
will surely turn you to a qiblah with which you will be pleased. So turn your face toward al-
Masjid al-Haram. And wherever you [believers] are, turn your faces toward it [in prayer].
Indeed, those who have been given the Scripture well know that it is the truth from their Lord.
And Allah is not unaware of what they do.” Surah Al- Baqarah 2:144
When the Prophet came, the Jews did not accept him as a messenger and thus did not
accept the rituals of Islam. When they saw the Muslims now praying toward Makkah, it
made them angry even though it was such a small detail of a ritual that is not even theirs.
The foolish among the people will say, "What has turned them away from their qiblah, which
they used to face?" Say, "To Allah belongs the east and the west. He guides whom He wills to a
straight path.” Surah al-Baqarah 2:144
Jews objected because switching the capital of the religion from Jerusalem to Makkah
meant that Allah favored another people. Though they were given the chance to be the
chosen people, they dropped the ball and did not fulfill their duties. Allah gave the Israelites
prophet after prophet to guide them and lead them. Now things have changed; now the
capital is no longer Jerusalem, it is Makkah! This is the new state. This is the new nation.
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The Makkans were so angry after Badr that they collected all the profits from Abu Sufyan’s
caravan to fund a return trip to Madinah. They wanted to wipe out the Muslims once and
for all. They also wanted to gain back their reputation among the Arabs.
The Muslims heard about a large army coming their way, not 1000 but over 3000! And it
was not only the Makkans who were coming; some of the Arabs in the surrounding area
who were allied with the Quraysh were also coming to wipe out the Muslims.
The Prophet described a dream to them, in which cows were being slaughtered. He
also saw that the blade of his sword was cracked but his hand was safe, protected and
covered by his armor. The Prophet said that he interpreted the armor to be Madinah. If
they stayed in Madinah, the Muslims will be safe if the enemy entered the city, and they
would have fighters on the streets and the rooftops. Dreams of Prophets and Messengers
are always truthful. His opinion was to stay in the city and defend it from within its
borders.
The Prophet also saw the zeal of youngsters who wanted to shows their courage and
skills, especially the Aws, since they did not have the opportunity to participate in the Battle
of Badr. The Prophet did not make it obligatory on the Muslims to come. In the Battle of
Badr, most fighters were from Khazraj and the status of those who fought in Badr was very
high. Even the Prophet said, maybe Allah is looking down upon the battle of Badr: do what
you please- a blanket statement that whatever sin they committed, they will be forgiven.
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When the Prophet said they would defend Madinah from within its borders, the
youngsters objected and believed it was a weak position. Abdullah bin Ubay wanted the
Prophet to stay in Madinah so that the hypocrites could hide and avoid fighting.
The elders also agreed with the Prophet.
The Prophet recognized the zeal of the youth and their readiness to fight. He said, if
that is what you want, we will go out and fight the enemy. He then went home and put on
his armor. While he was in his house, Abdullah bin Ubay and the elders scolded the
youngsters and tried to convince them that fighting from within Madinah was of the
sounder opinion. But the youngsters feared that the enemy wouldn’t come into the city, and
they would not have the chance to prove their courage.
A CHANGE IN OPINION
When the Prophet came out of his home, the people were not ready because they were
still discussing the issue. The Companions told him they wanted to follow the original plan
of staying in Madinah; they wanted to fight from the streets and rooftops of Madinah.
However, he said that it is not appropriate for a Prophet to take off his armor after he has
put it on until Allah decrees.
Why did the Prophet not change his mind? There is an important lesson in leadership
to be learned from this incident: once you make a decision, do not waver. There will be
those who object to that decision and try to change your mind, but if you are not firm and
allow yourself to waver back and forth, that is a sign of weakness in leadership. If you
change your mind and the variables in the decision did not change, you can lose control of
the situation. If variables change, then you can change your mind.
Since no variables changed, the Prophet stayed firm in his decision and would go out to
meet the enemy. After shura (consultation) and once the decision is made, stay firm.
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“What is [the matter] with you [that you are] two groups concerning the hypocrites, while
Allah has made them fall back [into error and disbelief] for what they earned. Do you wish to
guide those whom Allah has sent astray? And he whom Allah sends astray - never will you find
for him a way [of guidance].” Surah An-Nisa 4:88
When the Prophet marched out to Uhud, a rowdy group of 300 people came to join the
battle. They were very disorganized, and they were the Jews of Banu Qaynuqa’. The Prophet
sent them back, saying they don’t need help from the disbelievers.
While the Muslims were initially 1000, the non-Muslims were over 3000 in addition to 200
horses headed by Khalid bin Walid and Ikrimah bin Abi Jahl. A camel was like a tank while a
horse was like an airplane. The Prophet chose to have the mountain of Uhud at their
backs so they wouldn’t be attacked from that direction. The Muslims would use their
archers to take down the horses; otherwise, the cavalry would split up the ranks of the
Muslims.
In any battlefield, you can gain a quick victory if you cut off communication. The flag-
bearers were the communicators in those times, and they must be surrounded by people
protecting them. Every battalion had its own flag, so the Ansar, muhajirun, Aws, and Khazraj
all had their own flag. The Muslims kept taking down the flag-bearer among the
disbelievers. 8 flag-bearers were killed in a row. No one wanted to be the 9 th!
During the Battle of Uhud, the Muslims were initially winning and the disbelievers started
to flee. However, when the archers left their post to collect the spoils of war, Khalid bin
Walid went around the back of the mountain to attack the Muslims. So, the Muslims became
sandwiched between the cavalry of Khalid and Ikrimah as mass chaos ensued.
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Narrated al-Bara’ b. Azib: “The Messenger of Allah said, ‘Man your post, and don’t leave it
until I send for you, even if you see birds snatching us, don’t abandon your post; and if you see
that we have defeated the enemy and made them flee, even then you should not leave your
post until I send for you.’
When the disbelievers were defeated, by Allah, I saw the women fleeing lifting up their clothes
revealing their bangles and legs. So the companions of Abdullah b. Jubayr said, ‘The spoils! Oh
people, the spoils! Your companions have achieved victory, what are you waiting for?’
They replied, ‘By Allah! We will go to the people (i.e. the enemy) and collect our share from the
war booty.’
But when they went to them, they were forced to turn back defeated. At that time, Allah’s
Apostle in their rear was calling them back. Only twelve men remained with the Prophet and
the infidels martyred seventy men from us.”
The Muslims were scattered all over the place. The Prophet got up, and some of the
Companions like Abu Bakr and Umar came to protect him. A woman from the Ansar
named Umm Ammarah also protected him with a sword. The Prophet said that when
he looked to his right, he would see her defending him. And when he looked to the left, she
was there again to defend him. She herself was struck on the shoulder and wounded. The
Prophet was struck in so many places; his helmet was crushed, his teeth broken, and
his face cut. He and the Companions retreated to the mountain. When he lead salah, he had
to sit because of his injuries.
When Aisha saw him, she asked if the Battle of Uhud was the most difficult day in his
life. He replied, no. It was the day your people rejected the message at Tai’f and stoned me.
The Companions who returned to Madinah started to spread rumors that the Prophet
had been killed. One Sahabiyya came forward and asked if the Prophet was ok. They
responded by saying that her husband was martyred. She again asked about the Prophet.
They responded by saying that the Prophet was ok, and that it was just a rumor. They then
explained that her father, uncle, son, and brother had all been martyred. But the only words
that came out of her mouth were, “How is the Prophet?” When she saw him with her own
eyes, she said, “Every calamity is minute as long as your still alive, oh Messenger of Allah.”
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“So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been
rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon
them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have
decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him].” Surah Ale-
Imran 3:109
The ayat of Qur’an revealed after Uhud had a very kind and gentle tone. It reminded the
Muslims that they should still consult with one another even if there were mistakes and to
avoid blaming people. The ayat of Qur’an revealed after Badr had a tone reminding people
to be grateful and humble.
The Messenger of Allah said, “She (Madinah) is Taybah, and she expels filth, just as the
billow expels rust from iron.”
WHO WON?
When the battle was over and the Prophet was on the mountain of Uhud with the
Companions, a conversation took place between him and Abu Sufyan.
Abu Sufyan yelled, “Is Muhammad still alive?” There was silence because the
Messenger of Allah asked the Companions not to respond.
Abu Sufyan then asked, “Is the son of Abu Quhafa (Abu Bakr ) alive? Is Umar ibn
al-Khattab alive?” There was silence yet again. He then said, “It looks like they
have been killed!”
Umar ibn al-Khattab couldn’t restrain himself and said, “No, oh enemy of Allah!
Allah has kept us alive for your torture and your destruction!”
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Abu Sufyan then said, “Glory be to Hubal!” (Hubal was the first idol that was put in
the Ka’bah).
The Messenger of Allah said, “Why don’t you respond, Umar?” Umar said,
“What should I say?” He told him, “Say: Allah is the greatest and Allah is our
protector!”
Finally, Abu Sufyan said, “Today we are even. This day for the Battle of Badr.”
Umar ibn al-Khattab then said, “We are not even! Those who have died amongst us
are in Paradise and those who have been killed amongst you are in Hellfire!”
While Abu Sufyan did leave with consolation, the battle was actually not a defeat from the
Muslims’ point of view. The objective of the Makkans was to wipe out the Muslims and to
wipe out the city of Madinah, but they did not achieve that goal. The Muslims were able to
protect themselves and Madinah. Allah chose 70 Companions and gave them martyrdom.
To avenge the death of her father, Hind had the body of Hamzah mutilated. His ears,
lips and nose were removed and his liver cut off. Hind made jewelry from the parts of
Hamzah which she wore back to Makkah and she tried to eat the liver, but couldn’t.
When the Prophet heard what she tried to do, he said the Hellfire would not have been
able to touch her if she were able to put the liver in her body. When he saw the body
mutilated this way, he said if he were to get his hands on them again, he would mutilate
them the way they mutilated the body of Hamzah. However, Allah forbade mutilation of
bodies, and so the Prophet said not to mutilate the bodies. The Messenger of Allah was
very emotional. He said, “I would have called Safiyyah (the aunt of the Prophet) to see her
brother, but I did not want her to see her brother in this state.”
Later on when Wahshi accepted Islam, he would sometimes walk towards the Prophet
while he was talking to the Companions. Then the Prophet would be silent as tears ran
down his cheeks as he remembered the death of his beloved uncle. So, the Prophet told
Wahshi to come from behind, not from the front. The Prophet forgave Wahshi, but he still
felt pain about the memory. Wahshi wanted to redeem himself, so later on, he killed
Musaylamah the liar.
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Every time the Prophet asked how much Qur’an a Companion memorized, the
Companions knew how much that person had memorized. How did the Companions know
how much Qur’an each person had memorized? Because they used to recite to each other,
they would learn from each other, and they would teach each other the Qur’an. This is a
Sunnah that has been abandoned. Scholars have said that seeking knowledge is a bond that
connects all of us together. We should try to find a partner to recite Qur’an with.
“Among you are some that desire this world and some that desire the Hereafter.”
Surah Ali-Imran, 3:152
The Quraysh were split. There were the elders who insisted their way of life was correct,
but there were also the youngsters who were calling to the Oneness of God. The Arabs did
not know who was on the right path and were waiting to see who would be victorious. The
Quraysh wanted to come back with a victory over the Muslims to retain their position as
the chosen people of Arabia. When the Quraysh were victorious at Uhud, many of the tribes
felt motivated because now they knew that the Muslims could be defeated.
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Chapter Four
Success in Da’wah
EVENTS FOLLOWING UHUD 4 A.H. - MASSACRE AT THE WELL OF MA’UNA
The people of Najd were now motivated to wipe out the Muslims and what they did next
was a greater calamity for the Muslims than what happened at the Battle of Uhud. They sent
a representative, Abu Bara’, to the Prophet .
Abu Bara’ said, “Muhammad, this matter of yours to which you call me is good and beautiful.
If you were to send some of your Companions to the people of Najd to call them to your
religion, I would hope that they would respond to you.” The Messenger of Allah said, “I fear
that the people of Najd would do them some harm.” Abu Bara’ replied, “I will guarantee their
protection, so send them to call people to your religion.”
The Messenger of Allah did not trust the people of Najd; however, he did choose 70
Companions known as al-Qurra’ (those who memorized the Qur’an and were the teachers
and students of knowledge) on a mission of da’wah to Najd. The people of Najd were
waiting at the well of Ma’una to ambush al-Qurra’. All 70 of them were killed except for two.
One Companion was let go because his mother owed a debt to the mother of the Najdi who
was about to kill him. And the other Companion was saved because he was simply lagging
behind.
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The two Companions who were free to return to Madinah were traumatized by the
slaughter they had just witnessed at Ma’una. They were approached by people from Banu
Kilab (who happened to be allies of the Muslims). The two Companions mistook them as
Najdi and they killed two of them by mistake. The Muslims now owed 200 camels to Banu
Kilab as blood money.
Removing danger from society is important, because Islam prospers in peace, not in war.
Da’wah prospers in peace, not in war. When the Prophet received the opportunity for a
peace treaty (Treaty of Hudaybiyya), he immediately took it even though it had some
clauses that were not favorable for the Muslims.
Making da’wah can be dangerous today as well. However, we have the truth, so we should
not be afraid. Those who lie are the ones who are afraid. So we stand up to pray when it is
time to pray. When you practice your deen and go outside with your hijab on, there is a
possibility that someone may harm you. But if the possibility is not high, then it should not
hold you back from practicing Islam. Fear Allah as much as you can and Allah will protect
you! If anything does happen to you along the way, then you die as a shaheed (which is a
blessing and not a tragedy).
QUNUT AN-NAWAZIL
Anas ibn Malik reported that the Messenger of Allah invoked curse in the morning
(prayer) for thirty days upon those who killed the Companions (of the Holy Prophet) at Bi’r
Ma‘unah. He cursed (the tribes) of Ri’l, Dhakwan, Lihyan, and Usayya, who had disobeyed
Allah and His Messenger.
At the end, Allah guided the people of Najd and they eventually accepted Islam. The
practice of this dua is known as Qunut an-Nawazil and it needs to be revived in our ummah.
We make this dua during times of calamity, which affect a group of people in the ummah.
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Anas said, “Allah the Exalted and Great revealed (a verse) regarding those who were
killed at Bi’r Ma‘unah, and we recited it, till it was abrogated later on (and the verse was like
this): convey to it our people the tidings that we have met our Lord, and He was pleased with
us and we were pleased with Him.”
During the Battle of Uhud, when the Prophet was struck and injured, he said, “How can
a people who strike their prophet be successful when all he is doing is calling them to
Allah?” Allah at that moment revealed:
“It is not up to you, oh Muhammad, whether Allah guides them or punishes them, for indeed,
they are wrongdoers.” Surah Aal-e-Imran, 3:128
After having been scolded by Allah in this position, the Messenger of Allah then made
dua for his people saying, “Oh Allah, guide my people for they do not know.” The Prophet
was human and Allah corrected him immediately whenever he said or did anything that
was considered unacceptable, so that we Muslims know what to do and what not to do.
When we see someone committing a sin, we must not belittle him or her. First, we must
thank Allah that He did not test us with that sin. Second, we should make dua that Allah
keeps us guided and firm. Third, we should make dua for that person’s guidance and
forgiveness.
Qunut an-Nawazil keeps the Muslims aware and concerned about the suffering of Muslims
in different parts of the world. Also, we Muslims are brothers and sisters, and we cannot
claim to love people if we don’t make dua for them.
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Banu Nadir tried to assassinate the Prophet . They planned to have a debate and they
told him to send 30 Companions. They planned on sending 30 people from their tribe as
well. The Muslims had already lost 70 people of knowledge at the massacre at Ma’una, so
they asked for 30 Companions just to instigate the Muslims. In reality, Banu Nadir were not
planning to debate the Prophet , but they were planning to kill him. There was a
Companion among Banu Nadir who was secretly Muslim, and he informed the Messenger of
Allah what the Jews were planning, so he cancelled the meeting.
Part of the Constitution of Madinah stated that every group should take care of its own
group in terms of paying blood money, but asking for help was still permissible. The
Prophet wanted to give Banu Nadir one more chance and ask them for help again. The
Prophet went to discuss with them the blood money the Muslims owed to Banu Kilab and
to see how many camels they would be able to contribute. Banu Nadir tried to take
advantage of the situation. They prepared the area where the meeting was to take place
and they placed a boulder on the roof near the place where he was going to sit. They
planned to drop the boulder on him.
“Never would we get such a golden chance. If one of us drops a rock on him from the top of the
house, we shall all get rid of him.”
The Messenger of Allah came and sat down, but then he immediately stood up and
went to the masjid because Jibril came to him and told him what Banu Nadir was
planning. The Prophet gathered the Companions and laid siege to the fortresses of Banu
Nadir. The tribe surrendered after two weeks.
Even expulsion did not prevent Banu Nadir from doing more harm. Because of their hatred
of the Muslims, they went to the Quraysh and other tribes around the Arabian Peninsula to
gather a force to surround and attack Madinah. They convinced the tribes to come together
by saying, “Muhammad and his men are threatening your way of life, and you must gather
your resources against the Muslims and destroy them before they destroy you.” This is how
Al-Ahzab (The Allied Forces) was formed.
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Chapter Five:
The Principles for Successfully Working
Together
PRINCIPLES OF TEAM WORK
Participation of Leaders
Delegating and Dividing Work
Leniency and Seriousness in Administration
Keeping Aspirations High and Determination Strong
Salman al-Farisi stood up and said, “Oh Messenger of Allah, whenever we were greatly
outnumbered in Persia, we used to dig trenches around our towns and this would help us
keep our enemies away from us.” The Prophet heard this idea and immediately
implemented it. He ordered all of the men in Madinah to help dig the trench, because a
force of 10,000 from all over Arabia was coming to destroy the Muslims once and for all.
The trench had to be deep and wide enough that horses couldn’t jump over it, so it was nine
feet deep and seven feet wide in most areas with archers stationed in strategic positions.
The trench didn’t need to be all around Madinah. The city was protected from the South by
date trees through which an army couldn’t penetrate, but individuals could come through.
The city was also protected from both East and West because of the solidified lava, which
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prevented horses and camels from riding over. The North was the only portion that needed
a trench. Such a large area required much manpower, but it was feasible.
DELEGATION
The Prophet participated in the digging of the trench and he divided the work among
the Companions. When working together as a team, we have to learn how to delegate. A
leader needs to help out, but shouldn’t burn himself of herself out. When delegating tasks
to others, it is important to keep in mind that the Shaytan doesn’t like people to work
together. The Shaytan wants people to forget about their responsibilities so that people
lose trust in each other and avoid working together. We find the solution to this challenge
in the story of Prophet Musa when Yusha bin Noon said:
“Nobody made me forget except for the Shaytan.” Surah Al-Kahf, 18:63
It’s a good practice to remind others. It might seem like nagging, but that is better than
losing trust in each other. People want to help out and get the reward from Allah , so
we should give them that opportunity. So go ahead and delegate tasks to them, but make
sure to remind them well ahead of the deadline, so that someone else can fulfill the duties if
that individual isn’t able to. For example, if flyers need to be printed out before Friday, give
the task to someone on Monday and call them on Wednesday and ask them about it. This
would leave enough time to find someone else to print the flyers in case the first person
isn’t able to do so.
GLAD TIDINGS
When the Prophet and the Companions were working on the trench, they didn’t have
much food to eat because everything came to a standstill. People stopped doing business
and they were running out of food. They dug the trench for weeks and were trying to do it
as fast as possible. There were times when the Prophet was being called to break huge
boulders that they couldn’t dig through. He was the strongest of them all, and he would
strike the boulders with an axe, and each time he would say “Allahu akbar!” and there
would be a flash under the axe.
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When working in da’wah, the realization that this deen will eventually be successful will
keep us motivated. Know that your efforts will make a difference. The end result in the
future will be a great success, and you can still be a part of it by contributing: teach Islam to
other people and be the best Muslim you can be. There will come a time that the adhaan
will be called in Chicago, New York City, and Paris, and people will stop and everyone will
pray, in sha Allah. Islam is the only religion that will truly be successful.
When the hypocrites heard the Prophet was given glad tidings to conquer the empires,
they started making a mockery of him. They thought him delusional, because they weren’t
sure that they would even survive that week.
After the Prophet finished the digging of the trench, he placed Companions at strategic
locations to defend Madinah. When the disbelievers came, they were surprised to see a
trench, which prevented them from just entering and ransacking Madinah. In addition to
the trench, there were also arrows coming from the other side.
Some of the attacks were so intense that one day, the Prophet said he was approached
by Umar ibn al-Khattab who said, “Oh Messenger of Allah, I barely prayed Asr on time.”
It was Maghrib time, and the Prophet replied, “I haven’t even prayed Asr. May Allah fill their
graves with fire; they made me miss the Asr prayer!” The Muslims were tired, hungry, and
they didn’t have enough manpower, but the trench kept the disbelievers from attacking all
at once.
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“Oh Messenger of Allah, I have become Muslim and my people do not know that I have become
Muslim; instruct me as you wish.” The Messenger of Allah said, “You are just one man among
us; try to stir up division among them so as to weaken their resolve if you can, for war is
deceit.”
Nu’aym went to his people and because he was the leader of an-Najd, he was able to stop
the attacks coming from his tribe. This somewhat eased the situation for the Muslims.
There were still the Quraysh with the largest force and Banu Quraydhah who were already
inside Madinah and very dangerous.
Nu’aym went to Banu Quraydhah and told them, “I hear that the Quraysh are planning to
abandon us. If they abandon us, we will not win because they have the greatest force and
resources. They must not leave, so you go to them and ask for 30 men as collateral to make
sure they don’t leave.” The Makkans were not planning to go back, but Nu’aym still said so
in an effort to divide the groups.
Nu’aym then goes to the Makkans and tells their leaders, “Banu Quraydhah are regretting
their decision to switch sides. They will come and ask for 30 men from you and then kill
them to show Muhammad that they are sincere in wanting to come back together.” The
Quraysh thought that Nu’aym was still on their side and believed him.
Banu Quraydhah then went to the Quraysh and asked for 30 men. When the Quraysh
declined, there was a split and mistrust between the groups and all the attacks subsided
because no one trusted each other anymore.
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“O you who have believed, remember the favor of Allah upon you when armies came to
[attack] you and We sent upon them a wind and armies [of angels] you did not see. And ever is
Allah, of what you do, Seeing.” Surah Al-Ahzab, 33:9
The disbelievers’ tents were blown – the Muslims had their houses, but the disbelievers did
not. After the storm died down, and the sun rose and became bright again, the Prophet
sent Hudhayfah to go out and see what happened to the Quraysh. It was so silent that even
a whisper could not be heard. Their forces had gone home; no one stayed. The Prophet
went out and did not see anyone. The attitude changed: from now on, we will no longer be
on the defensive, but rather the offensive.
When the Prophet returned from the battle of the Trench, and laid down his weapon and
performed ghusl, Jibril came to him and said, “Have you laid down your arms? For by
Allah, we (angles) have not laid down ours; go out to them.”
He said, “Over there” - and he pointed in the direction of Banu Quraydhah. [Bukhari]
They broke off from the Muslims, and they needed to be dealt with. It was not okay to let
them join enemy forces and then be at peace with them.
The Prophet ordered the Companions to hurry to Banu Quraydhah. As they were
leaving, he said, “No one among you should pray Asr except at Banu Quraydhah.” It was
almost Maghrib, but they had not reached the area yet. Some of them said that they should
not pray until they reach Banu Quraydhah; others disagreed with this, and said that the
Prophet only meant for them to hurry – he did not know it would take this long.
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Half of the Companions prayed Asr before reaching Banu Quraydhah, and the other half
prayed Asr when they reached the area after Maghrib time. Which group was right? Both
had their own interpretations, and both were following the Qur’an and Sunnah. They
interpreted the same saying differently, proving that there can be a difference of opinion at
times. As long as there is legitimate proof, differences of opinion are acceptable, and should
not divide us. The Companions always respected each other, even when they had different
opinions.
THE ARRIVAL
When they arrived, they laid siege to Banu Quraydhah for about two weeks. During the
siege, the Prophet called them to Islam, but they rejected his call. He called them to the
Qur’an, but they said, “We will live by the Torah and we will die by the Torah.” They refused
to surrender until they ran out of supplies. Approximately two weeks later, they eventually
surrendered. The Prophet asked them, “How should we deal with you?” He consulted
with the Jews themselves! The Jews said, “We want an arbitrator (someone to give a
judgment) just like Banu Qaynuqa’ had.” The Prophet asked them, “Who do you want?”
Banu Quraydhah was allied with the Aws, whose leader was Sa’d bin Mu’adh . They call
for Sa’d. He was injured during the Battle of the Trench, so he did not join the Muslims
during the siege.
In this situation with Sa’d bin Mu’adh , the Prophet told the Companions to stand
up for their leader. Doesn’t this seem contradictory? He told them to stand up to greet him
because he had not been with them for a very long time.
If someone is in court, for example, they might get into trouble or be asked to leave if they
do not stand up at the appropriate time. If sitting upon someone’s arrival is going to cause a
problem, it is okay to stand out of necessity. After salah, people usually make dhikr. If
someone who was sick and absent for a long time comes to the masjid to pray, one should
stand up and greet him instead of making dhikr at that time. Prophet Yusuf did not wait
for his family to come to him. Instead, he went to greet them and receive them.
So, it is permissible to stand up and greet someone. “If you want others to stand up for you,
prepare for yourself a place in Hell-fire.” Do not stand up FOR people, but stand up to
GREET people.
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If after the Battle of Badr, the prisoners were executed, the Jews probably would not have
the audacity to commit treason. Lives can be saved by setting an example from the very
beginning.
“And there is for you in legal retribution [saving of] life, O you [people] of understanding, that
you may become righteous.” Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:179
When punishment is laid upon a person, it discourages people from committing that same
crime in the future.
The Prophet ordered the males of fighting age to be executed. Some people were given
the opportunity to accept Islam, but very few of them did. The Prophet did not give this
judgment; the judgment was from an arbitrator that the Jews asked for. The Prophet said:
“You have judged according to the ruling of Allah from above the seven heavens.”
The Prophet was not innately violent. He was compassionate. Sa’d bin Mu’adh laid
down this judgment, which was befitting of the crime. When the Prophet dealt with the
Jews, he dealt with them kindly. He even visited Jews, and he had Jewish neighbors until the
end of his lifetime. When he passed away, he had an armor that was collateral of a Jew. This
shows that by the end of his life, he was still dealing with them. He treated them according
to the agreement, which was to live in peace. He gave them so many opportunities to live in
peace. He did not make them leave. That is why the Jews prospered when they lived with
the Muslims, and the Jews in Andalus prospered under the Muslims as well.
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JUWAYRIYAH
The Prophet was approached by one of the daughters of the leaders. The daughter was
distributed to one of the Companions. It was not appropriate for someone like her to be a
slave. Her name was Juwayriyah. The Prophet freed her, and then he married her. When he
married her, the people of Madinah questioned whether this was appropriate or not.
It was not permissible to free a slave who was not Muslim. So, all of the slaves accepted
Islam, and they were free to go home or stay in Madinah. Juwayriyah’s father came and told
her that he wanted her to come back. The Prophet said, “You are free to go back if you
want. If you want to stay my wife, you can.” She said, “Of course I want to be your wife.” Her
father saw how much she loved the Prophet. She continued to be his wife, and from her
came great blessings: all of her people became Muslim.
The hypocrites started spreading rumors about this (i.e. Abdullah bin Ubay).
“Verily! Those who brought forth the slander are a group among you…”
Surah An-Nur, 24:11
Aisha became sick after the long trip. She went with one of the Sahabiyya, who said, “Aisha,
do you hear what people are saying? My son is saying things that are untrue about you.”
She told her what the people were saying. When Aisha heard the news, she fainted. She was
in so much shock that she had to be carried back. This was a very difficult test for Aisha,
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and she was hoping that Allah would show the Prophet a dream proving her
innocence.
The Prophet believed her, but what could he have said as evidence? He believed and
trusted his wife. This was very harmful for the wife of the Prophet, the Prophet’s family, the
family of Abu Bakr, and the family of Safwan. Aisha said that there comes a time when you
have no one else except Allah . This was also proof that the Prophet was indeed a
true Prophet because he did not recite any verses to the people.
Umm Ayyub said to Abu Ayyub, “Did you hear what people are saying about Aisha?” He
said, “Umm Ayyub, if you were in the situation that Aisha was in, would you have done such
a thing?” She said, “No, of course not!” Abu Ayyub said, “You know, Aisha is better than you.
So don’t talk about her like that.” Believers always defended Aisha. It was the hypocrites
and those with weak Iman who slandered her.
“Why then, did not the believers, men and women, when you heard it (the slander) think good
of their own people and say: ‘This (charge) is an obvious lie?’ Why did they [who slandered]
not produce for it four witnesses? And when they do not produce the witnesses, then it is they,
in the sight of Allah who are the liars.”
Surah An-Nur, 24:12-13
After one month, Allah revealed ayat declaring the innocence of Aisha. Those who spread
the slander were whipped. Abdullah sowed the seeds, but he never said anything directly.
We learn from this incident the importance of being patient; know that the Prophet
faced more difficulties than we will ever go through.
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Chapter Six:
The True Purpose of Jihad in Islam:
Lessons in Peace and War
HOMECOMING? THE CLEAR VICTORY?
The Companions missed home. The Prophet had a dream that he was making Umrah –
making Tawaf around the Ka’bah, making Sa’ee, having his head shaved. He invited his
Companions to go for Umrah. They were planning to return home.
The Prophet asked the people in Madinah to join, and many did. The hypocrites and
those around the outskirts of Madinah did not join because Allah did not want to give them
this blessing. 1400 Companions joined the Prophet for the Homecoming journey to make
Umrah. In terms of tradition, they had the right to make Umrah. The Quraysh were not
allowed, by law, to prevent anyone from making Umrah – even if there was a war going on.
The Prophet headed south with 1400 Companions. The Makkans were furious! The
elders said that they were not going to let Muhammad humiliate them in such a way,
coming and leaving whenever he wants. Technically, they were not supposed to prevent
them – the Muslims had the right to go. The Muslims were headed south, and they wanted
to show the Makkans that they were coming in peace. The Prophet was sending
messages to them, saying that they were coming for Umrah.
The Makkans sent Khalid bin Waleed with his cavalry to meet the Muslims and prevent
them from entering Makkah. The Prophet heard about their plans, and he consulted
with the Companions. He said, “If they prevent us from making Umrah, then we will
continue on our way; if they want to fight, we will fight.” Abu Bakr said, “Oh Messenger of
Allah, we came up intending to make Umrah. Let us continue with that intention, and let us
try our best to avoid confrontation. Let us swerve from the path.” They took a path towards
the wells of Hudaybiyah.
They settled in Hudaybiyah because the camel of the Prophet refused to move, and
when he tried to prod it, the camel still refused. The Prophet said that the same force that
prevented the Elephant from moving is preventing Qaswa from moving.
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THE PLEDGE
The Prophet sent Uthman bin Affan as a negotiator to explain their intentions to the
Makkans. He was gone for a very long time because people were inviting him to visit them.
Rumors started to spread that Uthman had been killed. The Prophet also heard about
it, and if they did that, then they were asking for war. So he took a bay’ah (bay’ah ar-
Ridhwan). They took a pledge to fight to the death. The Prophet asked all of the
Companions to make a pledge. Allah says:
“Certainly was Allah pleased with the believers when they pledged allegiance to you, [O
Muhammad], under the tree, and He knew what was in their hearts, so He sent down
tranquility upon them and rewarded them with an imminent conquest.”
Surah Al-Fath, 48:18
The Prophet said that anyone who gave the pledge under the tree would never be
touched by the Hell Fire. So, there are not just 10 people who were promised Paradise. On
this day, 1400 people were guaranteed Paradise. The hypocrites were not given this
promise. After they finished the pledge, Uthman came back smiling. But they just took the
pledge! Allah was testing them. Allah saved them from fighting, but gave them Jannah
because they passed the test. Obedience to Allah and His Messenger is requisite for success
in this life and the hereafter.
Sometimes, Allah will test you with a calamity, and you will have two options – one haram
and one halal. If you choose the halal, Allah will bless you. Whoever has taqwa, Allah will
always make a way for him to get out from every difficulty.
CHANGES IN MAKKAH
The conditions of Makkah had changed drastically. Their economy was very weak. The
Prophet said, “If only they had allowed me to call people to Islam freely, they would
have benefited so much. But because they opposed me, now they are suffering.” When you
oppose Islam, your economy falls apart. Any time you oppose the Muslims and Allah and
His Messenger, Allah will destroy your economy because there is no blessing in spending
your money to destroy Islam.
Their economy was also in shambles because they did not have a free trade route. They
sent a negotiator, Suhayb ibn Amr. He was sent to the Prophet to negotiate, so the
Prophet negotiated with the Makkans. The Makkans were tired of war; they wanted to
recover from all that was happening so they agreed to an armistice.
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Treaty of Hudaybiyah
In your name, Oh God! This is the treaty of peace between Muhammad b. Abdullah and
Suhayl b. Amr
1.) They have agreed to allow their arms to rest for ten years. During this time, each
party shall be secure, and neither shall injure the other; no secret damage shall be
inflicted, but honesty and honor shall prevail between them.
The Muslims wanted peace because da’wah in the Arabian Peninsula was very
dangerous. No war would mean that they were free to call people to Islam.
2.) Whoever in Arabia wishes to enter into a treaty or covenant with Muhammad can
do so, and whoever wishes to enter into a treaty or covenant with the Quraysh can do
so.
The Quraysh in return will accept that the Muslims are a nation.
3.) And if a Qurayshite comes without the permission of his guardian to Muhammad, he
shall be delivered up to the Quraysh, but if, on the other hand, one of Muhammad’s
people comes to the Quraysh, he shall not be delivered up to Muhammad.
4.) This year, Muhammad, with his Companions, must withdraw from Makkah, but next
year, he may come to Makkah and remain for three days, yet without their weapons
except those of a traveler, the swords remaining in their sheaths.
When the Muslims heard about this agreement, it seemed very unfair and lopsided. Why
could a person go back to Makkah without consequences but not from Makkah to Madinah?
They though it would prevent people from accepting Islam. The Muslims were very angry.
Even Umar did not understand, and he questioned why they were taking such a lowly
position. Allah then revealed a verse in Surah Fat’h: “Verily we have opened for you a clear
victory” – a victory of peace!
Abu Jandar, the son of Suhayl b. Amr, left Makkah and came to the Muslims. He gave the
shahada, and accepted Islam in front of his father. His father said, this is the first person
that will be taken back, I am his guardian, I am taking him back, so he drags his son back
and his son is screaming. He asks the Muslims, are you going to let this happen? The
Prophet said that we can make him an exception. But the father said no.
The Prophet told the Companions to end their ihram, but they wouldn’t do it. The
Companions were so emotional that they couldn’t act upon the commandment. So, the
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Prophet went to his tent, asked his wife Maimoona for advice. She told him, why don’t you
do it first and they will follow you.
On a dark moonless night, Banu Bakr attacked a group of people and massacred over 20
people from Banu Khuzaa’a. Some of those who survived fled to Makkah where the
Makkans and Banu Bakr killed them so no one would find out.
In the night, some people escaped. The leaders of the Khuzaa’a tribe, Budayl bin Warqa and
‘Amr bin Salim approached the Prophet who agreed to help them. He sent a message to
the Makkans and Banu Bakr: we know what you did. The Prophet wanted to give them a
chance. If you are willing to just pay blood money, we will forgive you and continue with
peace treaty. The Makkans refused, breaking the peace treaty.
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The Makkans, allied with Banu Bakr, regretted their initial response to the Prophet , so
they sent Abu Sufyan to negotiate with him. When Abu Sufyan saw the Muslim society in
Madinah for the first time, he was amazed. He even saw his daughter Umm Habiba , who
had married the Prophet , and how much she loved her husband. When her father, Abu
Sufyan, came and sat on the bed of the Prophet, which was just a skin they would lay on the
ground, she said, “Get off, this is the bed of the Prophet , and I don’t want you on it.”
Seeing the amount of love she had for the Prophet and the beautiful the society of Madinah,
Islam entered Abu Sufyan’s heart.
But, Abu Sufyan had come to Madinah for a purpose. Arabs don’t ever want to say they did
not fulfill their promise or that they were not truthful. Abu Sufyan’s responsibility upon
coming to Madinah was to negotiate, and he did not want the Quraysh to say that he went
to accept Islam. That is not trust or honesty. Abu Sufyan had to go back to Makkah first and
make a special trip to Madinah just for the sake of Allah and to accept Islam.
As the Prophet and his army headed towards Makkah, they happened to meet 2 people
who had left Makkah: Abu Sufyan and Al-Abbas ibn Abdul Muttalib. When Abu Sufyan
returned from Madinah, he went to Al-Abbas and asked him, “Don’t you think it’s time for
us to accept Islam? We both know the truth.” So both of them left Makkah to make Hijra to
Madinah to accept Islam. On their way, they found the Muslim army on the path to Makkah,
and ended up joining the Muslims in the Conquest of Makkah. The most respected leaders
of the most respected tribe, the Quraysh, were now Muslims, so who was going to stop the
Muslims from entering Makkah? Therefore, when the Prophet and his army entered
Makkah, there were just a few minor skirmishes, but they entered in peace.
But, the Makkans were terrified, because they were the first people to be conquered after
the incident in Banu Quraydhah and they feared the same punishment would be given to
them. The Prophet had overtaken Makkah and now the Makkans were under the
authority of the Muslims. Al-Abbas came to the Prophet and said, “Oh Messenger of
Allah, Abu Sufyan loves honor, so would you please give him some special honor?” So the
Prophet ordered for an announcement to be made: “He who enters the Sacred Mosque
will be safe, he who enters the house of Abu Sufyan will be safe, and he who shuts his doors
upon himself will be safe.” If one could stay at home and be safe by shutting his doors, why
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would he want to go to Abu Sufyan’s house? Just to give him some praise, the Prophet
mentioned his house to show that Abu Sufyan still has status after accepting Islam.
The Makkans were shivering and were afraid. It would only take one word from the
Prophet and all of the men of fighting age would be executed. And he had that
authority, but he could also free them or ransom them. The Prophet stood up in front of the
Quraysh and said, “Oh Quraysh. What do you think I am going to do to you?” They said, “We
hope for the best. You are a noble brother, and the son of a noble brother.” They knew the
Prophet came from a very noble lineage and were alluding to him being very generous
and kind. Then, the Prophet said, “I say unto you, just like Prophet Yusuf said unto his
brothers, ‘There shall be no blame on you today, go your way for you are all free.’” The
Makkans were free to leave or stay. He didn’t force anything upon them.
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“When the victory of Allah has come and the conquest, and you see the people entering into
the religion of Allah in multitudes, then exalt Him with the praise of your Lord and ask
forgiveness of Him. Indeed, He is ever accepting of repentance.”
Surah An-Nasr, 110:1-3
Groups and tribes started coming to Islam. The 8 th year of Hijra was known as the “Year of
Delegation” because delegations from different parts of Arabia were flocking to accept
Islam. All of Arabia now knew that the Prophet had come with the truth, so they
started accepting Islam in groups, one after another. There were 10,000 Muslims during
the conquest of Makkah, but when the Prophet made Hajj, there were 140,000 Muslims
with him. All of Arabia had accepted Islam.
Chapter Eight:
The Classes of Society in Madinah
Revealed
THE LAST MAJOR EXPEDITION OF TABUK: 9 A.H.
People all over the world were hearing about this new force in Arabia, including the
Persian and Roman Empires. The Roman Empire in Sham, a superpower, was planning on
sending an army to Makkah to destroy the Muslims. But the Prophet did not want to
give the Romans a chance to come towards the Arabian peninsula. He was going to go out
and meet them, not wait until the Romans came to Makkah. The Prophet wanted to show
the Romans that Muslims were on the offensive and a force to be reckoned with.
So, the Prophet ordered all of the Companions to gather all forces and resources to
defend themselves against the Romans. This was not just Arabia against the Muslims
anymore. A global empire was trying to defeat the Muslims.
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During this time, the dates were becoming ripened and it was a time of harvest in Madinah.
Imagine you spent months preparing for the harvest of dates, your source of income, and
then you leave them. They will start to go bad, and you will lose a lot of money. This was a
big test for the believers. Allah was testing them with the dunya, wealth, effort, and
time. But, the Companions knew that the ummah’s survival was much more important than
their harvest, and all of them gathered their resources, giving what they could.
The Muslims were tested. The hypocrites made excuses and remained behind:
“Those who were left behind rejoiced in tarrying behind the Messenger of Allah and were
averse to struggling with their possessions and themselves in the way of Allah. They said, “Go
not forth in the heat.” Say, “The fire of Jahannam is hotter did they but understand!””
Surah Al-Tawbah, 9:81
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When the Muslims left, the army that was supposed to come and attack them didn’t come.
The journey there and back was difficult for the Muslims. Allah tested them in terms of
their dunya. Sometimes Allah tests us, but it was also a message to the Roman and Persian
Empires that the Muslims had strength and were a force to be reckoned with.
There were no major battles after Banu Quraydhah because the Muslims put their foot
down. Allah said from the beginning to be firm and set your boundaries. This doesn’t
mean you can’t be nice. Be kind to the people. The people accepted Islam because the
Prophet was kind to them.
After the conquest of Makkah, the leaders of different tribes were given hundreds of
camels, goats, and many other livestock. They said, “Follow Muhammad, he gives without
fear of poverty.” Some of the youth from the Ansar were astonished. Why would the
Prophet give a people who were already rich while they were the ones who did all the
work? They told the Prophet, “The blood is still wet on our swords and these people are
given hundreds and hundreds of camel while we are given nothing.” The Prophet said,
“Sometimes I give people wealth, but it’s not because I love them. Whatever Allah has given
us, take what you need and be thankful for it. Are you not pleased that they return home
with livestock, while you return with the Prophet Muhammad?” The youth from the Ansar
broke down and cried. The Prophet said, “If the Ansar were to take a path and the rest
of the humanity were to take a path, I would take the path of the Ansar.”
Dunya is a test for us. But the kindness of the Prophet and his character attracted
people to Islam. We must also show people our generosity. Spend in the path of Allah, and
help others whether they are Muslim or not. We are the representatives of the Prophet.
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Out of all these 87 battles, forays, and expeditions, only 1018 lives were lost from the
Muslims and non-Muslims.
The Prophet had many opportunities where he could have killed the disbelievers. For
example, when the angels came down during the Battle of Badr, he could have had all the
1000 disbelievers killed. But, he averted casualties as much as possible. Capture your
enemies, instead of killing them. Islam, as a religion of peace, always preserves life.
Sometimes, you’re forced to fight, but only resort to violence if you can save more lives.
When you analyze the Seerah, the Prophet averted killings. No conqueror in human
history has achieved so much success in so many battles, with such little loss of life.
He gathered the Muslims during the most integral part of Hajj, Arafat. When the Prophet
was at Arafah, almost 140,000 Muslims came to make Hajj with him.
During the farewell pilgrimage, the Prophet gave a summary of his message: the harms
of riba (interest), being kind to women, being kind to the weak, and maintaining blood
relations. Justice, kindness, and generosity are an integral part of Islam.
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Behold! Everything pertaining to the Days of Ignorance is, under my feet, completely
abolished. Abolished are also the blood-revenges of the Days of Ignorance. The first claim of
ours on blood-revenge which I abolish is that of the son of Rabi’ah b. al-Harith, who was
nursed among the tribe of Sa’d and killed by Hudhayl. And the usury of the pre-Islamic period
is abolished, and the first of our usury I abolish is that of ‘Abbas b. ‘Abdul-Muttalib, for it is all
abolished.
Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and
intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah. You too have right
over them, and that they should not allow anyone to sit on your bed whom you do not like. But
if they do that, you can chastise them but not severely. Their rights upon you are that you
should provide them with food and clothing in a fitting manner.
I have left among you the Book of Allah, and if you hold fast to it, you would never go astray.
And you would be asked about me (on the Day of Resurrection), (now tell me) what would you
say? They (the audience) said, We will bear witness that you have conveyed (the message),
discharged (the ministry of Prophethood) and given wise (sincere) counsel. He (the narrator)
said he (the Holy Prophet) then raised his forefinger towards the sky and pointing it at the
people (said), “Oh Allah, be witness. Oh Allah, be witness,” saying it thrice. [Muslim]
Narrated from Abi Nadrah: Someone who heard the sermon of the Messenger of Allah in
the middle of the days of al-tashriq narrated to me that he said, “Oh people! Indeed, your Lord
is one and your father is one. Indeed, there is no superiority of an Arab over a non-Arab, nor of
a non-Arab over an Arab, nor of a white over a black, nor a black over a white, except by
taqwa. Have I conveyed the message?”
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He said, “Allah has made your blood and your property (the narrator said, ‘I don’t know if he
said “and your honor” or not) as sacred as this day of yours, in this month of yours, in this city
of yours. Have I conveyed the message?”
“…This day I have perfected for you your religion and completed My favor upon you and have
approved for you Islam as your religion…” Surah Al-Mai’dah, 5:3
The Jews in Madinah said, “If this verse was revealed to us, we would have made this day
an Eid.” Umar said, “I know when it was revealed, the day of Arafah, one of the greatest
days of the year”. After this verse was revealed, no more verses dealing with halal or haram
were revealed thereafter. Islam, as a religion, was complete and perfected. Verses that were
to come were only about the akhirah. Allah chose this religion for us.
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The Prophet started having such high fevers that some of the Companions would not
be able to leave their hands on his skin. A few days later, on a Thursday, after prayer, he
stood up on the mimbar and declared, “Whomever I have lashed, here is my back for you to
avenge. And to whomever I owe anything, let him speak up, and I will still love him.” One
Companion said “Me, Oh Messenger of Allah.” The Prophet asked, “How much do I owe
you?” and the man said, “3 dirhams.” The Prophet did not have 3 dirhams at the time and
asked his cousin Fadhl ibn Abbas , “Oh Fadhl, do you have 3 dirhams to give him?” and
Fadhl ibn Abbas gave that man his 3 dirhams. Later on, the Companions asked the man if
the Prophet really owed him 3 dirhams. The man said, “No he doesn’t owe me
anything, but I just wanted the Prophet to love me. He said ‘If I owe anything, I will still love
him’, and I just wanted him to love me.”
THE DECISION
The Prophet said, “Allah has given a slave the choice between immortality in this world
for as long as Allah wills, or meeting his Lord, and he has chosen to meet his Lord.” Abu
Bakr broke down in tears upon hearing this. The other Companions didn’t understand.
But, Abu Bakr understood that ‘the servant’ was Prophet Muhammad because he knew
the Prophet had chosen to meet his Lord.
Eventually, the Prophet became so sick that he was unable to go to the masjid.
Whenever he would make wudu, he would faint. Even though it was extremely difficult for
him to go to the masjid, he still did, until the very end when he was no longer able to do so.
When the Prophet teaches something, he is the first to apply it.
He told his Companions, “If one of you were to know the reward for praying Fajr or Isha
prayer at the masjid, you would go to it even if you had to crawl to it”.
He ordered Abu Bakr to lead the people in prayer. Aisha said, “Oh Messenger of
Allah, my father is softhearted. Whenever he recites the Qur’an, he cries so much that the
people cannot understand the recitation. Order someone else to lead the prayer.” But, the
Prophet told her again, “Tell your father to lead the prayer.” This was a sign that Abu
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Bakr would be the next leader. Aisha didn’t want hardship for her father; she didn’t want
him to become the Khalifah. She didn’t want to say this directly to the Prophet, so she said
that her father is softhearted. But, the Prophet understood Aisha’s implied meaning
and told her, “You are just like the women of Prophet Yusuf .” Some women, when they
want to say something, they don’t say it directly. The Prophet knew that Aisha did not want
her father to become the Khalifah because she did not want him to be burdened, not
because he was not softhearted.
But Abu Bakr had to be the next Khalifah because he was the one who was most
qualified. One day, he was leading the people in prayer, and the Prophet was carried in
by his cousins Fadhl ibn Abbas and Ali bin Abu Talib . Abu Bakr had already started
prayer. Part of etiquette of salah is that you respect the Imam who is leading the salah, and
that you back up and follow him. That is the ruling, and that is what Abu Bakr did. He
continued praying standing up, while the Prophet Muhammad prayed sitting down.
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Next time, Rabi’a had water for the Prophet again, and the Prophet again asked him,
“Why don’t you get married?” Rabi’a said, “Even if I were to get married, I don’t have any
money or wealth.” He was from Ahl us-Suffa (the lower class). But Rabi’a told himself, “O
Rabi’a, you know the Prophet knows what’s best for us. Maybe if he says that again, I
will say, ‘Yes, maybe you can help me get married.’”
The third time Rabi’a brought water, the Prophet said, “Oh Rabi’a, ask”. He was telling
Rabi’a to ask for anything he wanted. Rabi’a said, “Oh Messenger of Allah, I ask for your
companionship in Paradise!” The Prophet said, “Anything else?” And Rabi’a said, “No. Just
that.” The Companions loved the Prophet so much that his companionship in Jannah
was all that was on their minds.
The Prophet Muhammad said, “Oh Rabi’a, help me in that matter by increasing your
sujud, by praying your Sunnah prayers, and guarding your Fard prayers. The more you
make sujud, the higher your level in Jannah.” This is advice that will benefit us. If we love
the Prophet , we should apply his teachings and Sunnah to please Allah. Even if our
deeds are not much, if we have that love for the Prophet, we will be with him in Jannah,
in sha Allah.
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