Sy V CA
Sy V CA
Same; Same; Same; The law favors the mother if she is a fit
and proper person to have custody of her children so that they may
not only receive her attention, care, supervision but also have the
advantage and benefit of a mothers love and devotion for which
there is no substitute.In all controversies regarding the custody
of minors, the sole and foremost consideration is the physical,
educational, social and moral welfare of the child concerned,
taking into account the respective resources and social and moral
situations of the contending parents. However, the law favors the
mother if she is a fit and proper person to have custody of her
children so that they may not only receive her attention, care,
supervision but also have the advantage and benefit of a mothers
love and devotion for which there is no substitute. Generally, the
love, solicitude and devotion of a mother cannot be replaced by
another and are worth more to a
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child of tender years than all other things combined. The Civil
Code Commission, in recommending the preference for the
mother, explained, thus: The general rule is recommended in
order to avoid many a tragedy where a mother has seen her baby
torn away from her. No man can sound the deep sorrows of a
mother who is deprived of her child of tender age. The exception
allowed by the rule has to be for compelling reasons for the good
of the child: those cases must indeed be rare, if the mothers heart
is not to be unduly hurt. If she has erred, as in cases of adultery,
the penalty of imprisonment and the (relative) divorce decree will
ordinarily be sufficient punishment for her. Moreover, her moral
dereliction will not have any effect upon the baby who is as yet
unable to understand the situation.
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stated: There have been instances where the Court has held that
even without the necessary amendment, the amount proved at the
trial may be validly awarded, as in Tuazon v. Bolanos (95 Phil.
106), where we said that if the facts shown entitled plaintiff to
relief other than that asked for, no amendment to the complaint
was necessary, especially where defendant had himself raised the
point on which recovery was based. The appellate court could
treat the pleading as amended to conform to the evidence
although the pleadings were actually not amended. Amendment is
also unnecessary when only clerical error or non substantial
matters are involved, as we held in Bank of the Philippine Islands
vs. Laguna (48 Phil. 5). In Co Tiamco v. Diaz (75 Phil. 672), we
stressed that the rule on amendment need not be applied rigidly,
particularly where no surprise or prejudice is caused the objecting
party. And in the recent case of National Power Corporation v.
Court of Appeals (113 SCRA 556), we held that where there is a
variance in the defendants pleadings and the evidence adduced
by it at the trial, the Court may treat the pleading as amended to
conform with the evidence.
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4 Id., at p. 8.
5 Id., at pp. 910, 31.
6 Id., at p. 7; dispositive portion of the Decision dated 14 December
1994 penned by Hon. Demetrio M. Batario, Jr.
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7 Id., at p. 8.
8 Id., at pp. 1516.
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sons to have the care, custody, and control of the child, the court
may either designate the paternal or maternal grandparent of the
child, or his oldest brother or sister, or some reputable and
discreet person to take charge of such child, or commit it to any
suitable asylum, childrens home, or benevolent society. The court
may in conformity with the provisions of the Civil Code order
either or both parents to support or help support said child,
irrespective of who may be its custodian, and may make any order
that is just and reasonable permitting the parent who is deprived
of its care and custody to visit the child or have temporary
custody thereof. Either parent may appeal from an order made in
accordance with the provisions of this section. No child under
seven years of age shall be separated from its mother,
unless the court finds there are compelling reasons
therefor. (Emphasis supplied)
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Q: What else?
A: For education, for emergency expenses, for basically for
food.
Q: In your estimate, how much would these expenses be
per month?
A: Well, I think, perhaps P50,000.00, sir.
Q: Which the respondent should furnish?
A: Yes, sir.
ATTY. CORTEZ
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That is all for the witness, Your Honor.
WITNESS:
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WILSON SY: will be testifying under the same oath.
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ATTY. ALBON:
Q: In the hearing of July 23, 1994 as appearing on page 3,
Mercedes Sy testified that she would be needing
P50,000.00 a month expenses for her children, what can
you say about that?
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A: That is a dillusion [sic] on her part.
COURT:
I want to find out how much his income now for the
purposes of giving support to the children. Please
answer the question
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WITNESS:
A: Shares of stocks.
ATTY. CORTEZ:
Q: A shares [sic] of stock is the evidence of your
investment in the corporation. My question is: What
investment did you put in to enable you to get a share,
was it money or property?
A: There is no money but it was given by my father.
COURT:
Q: Upon the death of your father you just inherited it?
A: Before.
Q: After the death, did you not acquire some of the shares
of your father?
A: No, your Honor.
Q: What happened to the shares of your father?
A: It is with my mother.
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COURT:
Never mind the share of the mother. What is material
is his share.
ATTY. CORTEZ:
Q: How many shares do you have in the corporation?
A: Right now I have only ten (10) shares.
Q: What is the value of that [sic] shares?
A: I [do not] give any importance.
COURT
Q: For purposes of this case, the Court is asking you how
much is your share?
A: I [do not] how to appraise.
Q: More or less, how much? Use the word more or less, is
that one million more or less, 2 million, more or less, 10
million, more or less? Anyway, this is not a BIR
proceeding, this is a Court proceeding?
A: I want to speak the truth but I [do not] know. I did not
even see the account.
COURT:
Proceed.
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ATTY. CORTEZ
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Q: At that time of your fathers death[,] you were [sic]
already holding ten (10) shares or was it less?
A: More.
Q: More than ten (10) shares?
A: Yes, sir.
COURT
Q: What is the par value of that one (1) share?
A: I [do not] know, your Honor.
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COURT:
Let it remain that he owns ten (10) shares.
ATTY. CORTEZ:
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A: Yes, 10 shares. The other shares I already sold it.
Q: How many shares did you sell?
A: I only have 10 shares now. I dont know how many31
shares that I have left. I only know the 20 shares.
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Applying Section 5, Rule 10 of the 1997 Rules of Civil
Procedure, since the issue of support was tried with the
implied
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There have been instances where the Court has held that even
without the necessary amendment, the amount proved at the trial
may be validly awarded, as in Tuazon v. Bolanos (95 Phil. 106),
where we said that if the facts shown entitled plaintiff to relief
other than that asked for, no amendment to the complaint was
necessary, especially where defendant had himself raised the
point on which recovery was based. The appellate court could
treat the pleading as amended to conform to the evidence
although the pleadings were actually not amended. Amendment is
also unnecessary when only clerical error or non substantial
matters are involved, as we held in Bank of the Philippine Islands
vs. Laguna (48 Phil. 5). In Co Tiamco v. Diaz (75 Phil. 672), we
stressed that the rule on amendment need not be applied rigidly,
particularly where no surprise or prejudice is caused the objecting
party. And in the recent case of National Power Corporation v.
Court of Appeals (113 SCRA 556), we held that where there is a
variance in the defendants pleadings and the evidence adduced
by it at the trial, the Court may treat the pleading as amended to
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conform with the evidence.
The Court likewise affirms the award of P50,000.00 as
support for the minor children. As found by both courts,
petitioners representations regarding his familys wealth
and his capability to provide for his family more than
provided a fair indication of his financial standing even 36
though he proved to be less than forthright on the matter.
In any event, this award of support is merely provisional as
the amount may be
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37 Advincula v. Advincula, 119 Phil. 448, 451; 10 SCRA 189, 192 (1964).
38 Supra note 3.
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