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BEYOND GROW: A NEW COACHING MODEL

The International Journal of Mentoring and Coaching Volume I Issue I
November 2003
by Dr. Sabine Dembkowski and Fiona Eldridge
Introduction
Which ideas, models and processes do executive coaches use? Are they the
best-kept trade secrets of people who prefer to produce results as if by magic?
Or are models and processes used in a manner that is transparent for clients
and shows them what coaches actually do and to involve them in the process?
Transparency increases trust. This is essential for any coaching relationship.
Without trust the client holds back and does not reap the full benefits of the
coaching relationship. It is our belief in the necessity of trust that led us to wish
to uncover what actually happens in a coaching session facilitated by an
excellent and effective coach. This article is the result of our quest to
understand what makes a great coach and describes a new model to guide the
coaching process.
We worked with and observed executive coaches in the US, England and
Germany during coaching sessions with executives. Our guiding questions
included:
1 How does the coach achieve results?
2 How does the coach have a positive impact on an executive's
performance?
3 What distinguishes an excellent coach from the average coach?
From our observations and modelling and study of coaching models we
developed the seven-step Achieve Coaching Model.
Our studies and training in the UK revealed that the model which has most
strongly influenced the process of coaching today is the GROW model. This
model was then used as the starting point for the development of ACHIEVE. -
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What is the GROW model?
Goal
Reality
Opportunity
What next
The GROW model developed by Sir John Whitmore is probably the best-
known coaching model in the UK. Many coach training programmes use this
model as the framework for developing the coaching relationship. A recent
study (2002) conducted by the Work Foundation and the School of Coaching
revealed that 34% of respondents stated that they used the GROW model, one
third cited they used a variety of models and the remaining third did not know
what model or process was used in their coaching activities.
So what is the new model? As we stated above, it is a logical progression from
GROW and follows the development of a coaching relationship in a systematic
manner.
The new seven-step model
Assess current situation

Creative brainstorming of alternatives to current situation
Hone goals
Initiate options
Evaluate options
Valid action programme design
Encourage momentum
How the new model works

In this section a description of each of the seven steps is provided together
with an overview of the skills and techniques which a coach can employ based
on our direct observations of the best coaches.
Step 1 Assess the current situation

In this first stage of assessment coaches include all areas of a client's life. As
one of the coaches we modelled in Germany explained, "... you cannot
separate the different areas of an executive's life or for that matter anyone's life
- they are an interlinked system". It is important to obtain an overview of the
client's current circumstances before focusing on the chosen area.
The most critical coaching skills at this stage are: rapport building, the use of
open-ended questions and active listening.
Great coaches establish rapport by employing three essential skills:
1 Matching
2 Summarising
3 Respecting
Of the three, matching is key and involves matching both physiology and
language:
1 Posture (key) - especially spine and head tilt
2 Gestures
3 Facial expression & blinking (key)
4 Breathing
5 Voice - tone, tempo, timbre and volume
6 Use of language - key words, common experiences and associations
The use of open-ended questions requires the client to answer with more than
a simple yes or no. The purpose of this is to help the client to begin to explore
his or her current situation which leads to different ways of thinking about it and
ultimately to the self-generation of solutions.
In active listening coaches applied three techniques: repeating what was said
word-by-word, reflective repetition (same sense) and interpretive repetition. In
the latter step some coaches went as far as testing hypotheses and
synthesising information from the client. All coaches observed their clients very
carefully at this stage and had developed a high degree of sensory acuity.
Sensory acuity includes observing such things as very small changes in skin
colour and tone, the tightness of the muscles around the mouth, blinking rate
and breathing rate. They showed genuine curiosity towards the client and their
stories and were demonstrably keen to learn more about them. Based on the
initial assessment the shaped the specific course of the coaching programme
together with the client.
Step 2 Creative brainstorming of alternative options to a client's current

situation
Clients who have either hired an executive coach themselves or where the
organisation suggest one often experience a "stuck state". This is a situation
where the client feels trapped as if there are no alternatives or keeps circling
around the same issue without being able to generate new options for
behaving differently. Top coaches ask open questions at this stage that allow
the client to open up and/or view the problem from an entirely different
perspective. A simple question such as "What would you do if money would not
be an issue?" or "What would you do if you knew you could not fail?' really
stimulate the client to think in a very different way. Questions like these have
the power to invite very open brainstorming at this stage. It also was important
for the coach to pace then lead the client. That is to continue the rapport
building and gradually ease into a new approach once the client is following the
movements and language of the coach.
Throughout this stage the coach observes the client very closely as even small
facial changes or other shifts in physiology can be indicators that the client is
beginning to change.
Step 3 Hone goals

At some point during the first few coaching sessions the coach and client begin
to work on goals. Sometimes clients know exactly what they want however
others require more help in formulating the goal. Whatever the starting point,
all great coaches spend significant time to work with the client to hone the goal
they wish to achieve from the coaching. In the numerous sessions we
observed it became clear that it is not a strictly linear process as the coach and
client work back and forth until the goal is clearly formulated. In addition, we
noticed that great coaches made sure that goals formulated in the right way we
recognised that they conform to the principles of SMART goal setting. SMART
as an acronym has been quoted many times and there are several different
translations for the acronym especially for the A and the R. All are good:
Achievable, Attainable, Actionable, Reachable, Relevant, Realistic.The best
coaches we observed asked penetrating questions about the goal to ensure
that it had real relevance to the client rather than just being a restatement of
organisational goals or a socially expected goal.
To be achieved a goal needs to become real to the client. As one US coach
explained, "The more it matters to the client the more it acts as a magnet it will
draw in the person rather than the person having to push for it." In fact for her
this was the most critical issue in the process. Only those goals that have
personal relevance and meaning are ones that are likely to be achieved and
bring fulfilment in the longer term.
Further to this we observed that great coaches made additional efforts to help
the client to build a complete projection of the goal by exploring how it will look,
sound and feel when they have achieved the goal. A US coach stressed that
the "aim of a small series of questions at this stage is to build a very real
picture of how the goal will appear. This has the effect of making the goal seem
achievable and helps the client have a much clearer idea of what they are
endeavouring to achieve. By giving the client the experience of really sensing
the goal the coach is giving the client the opportunity of testing that this is what
they want and also gives them a benchmark to measure their progress against
as they work towards the goal."
Step 4 Initiate options for goal achievement

They then move on to helping the client to initiate a wide range of options for
behaving to achieve the desired goal. This is an important stage where we
noticed that novice coaches are inclined to rush ahead and begin to make
suggestions to the client rather than taking it slowly and allowing the client to
generate his or her own options. One key skill here is according to a British
coach "to know when to be silent and provide space". Long pauses are
perhaps embarrassing in everyday conversation but they are a vital part of the
coach/client relationship. A period of silent reflection may in fact be the most
productive for generating fresh ideas and new ways of thinking about an issue.
If the client generates options he/she also becomes more constructive in the
face of other challenges that may appear in the future which currently appear to
be unrelated to the subject of the current coaching sessions.
Having produced a range of options they establish criteria with the client for
evaluating the different options.
Step 5 Evaluate options

For this to be successful requires the coach to understand the world of the
executive and to be skilful in asking questions to help the client to weigh up the
different options. We observed a German coach who used a matrix where he
asked the client to evaluate the options in terms of short and long-term costs
and benefits. Other top coaches asked clients to write things down as a list
and then come back to them several days later with a fresh eye before
determining which option was most appropriate. The coach also needs to be
able to synthesise the different options so that a more comprehensive
approach may be formed. The less experienced coaches we observed easily
became impatient and rushed into the action plan design. Again a critical skill
here is the development of patience to allow the clients to come to their own
decisions.
Step 6 Valid Action Plan Design

This is the action planning stage where coach and client work together in
developing a concrete plan to bridge the gap between where the clients are at
present and where they desire to be. In our studies this step was revealed as
critical to a successful outcome of the coaching partnership. A real difference
emerged between coaches that were very successful and those that merely
went through the motions. Good coaches are very rigorous and gain
commitment from the client for action with concrete time lines and a clear
statement of if and what support they need. The experienced coaches work
with simple tables where they integrate all action items. They also ask for very
precise questions about how the client will know when they have achieved
each action - this provides key performance indicators which are again self-
generated.
It also appears to be important that the client summarises the action plan in
writing, often in an email, and commits to follow-up contact with the coach after
each session.
Step 7 Encourage momentum

The final step in the process is ongoing. The coach encourages momentum
and helps the client to keep on track. As a German coach explained, "however
it is done (in person, by phone or email), it is vital that the coach should
maintain contact with the client to maintain motivation and demonstrate belief in
the client. The coach continues to encourage action that leads to the desired
outcomes, motivates the client when the going gets tough, challenges when
complacency sets in and demonstrates belief in the client. In this way the
relationship is ongoing and the client knows that they have a partner who is
solely dedicated to helping them achieve their goals".
Concluding remarks
The aim of this article has been to describe and provide insights into the
practices of great coaches. The result of the observation and analysis of
coaching models is the Achieve Coaching Model. The model provides a clear
and transparent process. Coaches can use the model to structure their
coaching sessions and coaching programmes without it being a straightjacket
which does not allow for flexibility and individuality. For those thinking about
hiring a coach it provides transparency of what actually happens in a coaching
session and coaching programme and can help with evaluating coaches when
choosing with whom to work.
In an exclusive European training event that will take place on 6 weekends in

2004 in London we will provide participants with the processes, methods and
techniques that we identified in our international Best Practice Study and are
now applying in organisations like Procter & Gamble, GM and Deutsche
Telekom.
At the end of the training participants will
be able to identify and apply a proven highly transparent coaching
process that sets you apart with organisations and potential clients
be able to master the 5 core competencies of executive coaching

used by highly successful international executive coaches
have identified a coaching style that is authentic for you
have the processes, methods, techniques and the marketing plan to

promote your reputation inside an organisation or launch into
creating your own coaching organisation and/or practice
tap into the energy and resources of like minded executive coaches
and thrive in a strong international community
As a certified Achieve Coaching Model Executive Coach, you will be equipped

and licensed for a lifetime to apply the Achieve Coaching Model. For more
information about the training event please contact:
[email protected]
Trademark accepted
Acknowledgements:
We wish to thank all of our coaching partners in the US, UK and Germany for
so willingly giving of their time and expertise.
About the authors

Sabine Dembkowski PhD is based in Cologne, Germany. She is Director of the
Coaching Centre, a certified coach with the Lore Institute, a Master Practitioner
of NLP and co-author of two Financial Times management Reports. She has
experience working in the USA and across Europe in Germany, England,
Sweden, Switzerland, Italy, France and Spain. Sabine can be contacted
through- [email protected]
Fiona Eldridge is Director of Coaching and Communication Centre, a Master

Practitioner and a Certified Trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming. She is
also a member of EMCC. Fiona has appeared on television and radio and is a
frequent contributor to newspapers and journals in the sphere of education.
She can be contacted through: [email protected]

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What are the steps of the new Achieve Coaching Model?

w w w. c o a c h i n g - m a g a z i n .

BEYOND GROW: A NEW COACHING MODEL

by Dr. Sabine Dembkowski and Fiona Eldridge

The new seven-step model

Assess current situation

How the new model works

Step 1 Assess the current situation

Step 2 Creative brainstorming of alternative options to a client's current

Step 3 Hone goals

Step 4 Initiate options for goal achievement

Step 5 Evaluate options

Step 6 Valid Action Plan Design

Step 7 Encourage momentum

In an exclusive European training event that will take place on 6 weekends in

be able to master the 5 core competencies of executive coaching

have identified a coaching style that is authentic for you

have the processes, methods, techniques and the marketing plan to

As a certified Achieve Coaching Model Executive Coach, you will be equipped

About the authors

Fiona Eldridge is Director of Coaching and Communication Centre, a Master

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