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seduction
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HOW TO INSTANTLY
ATTRACT ANY WOMAN
IN LESS THAN A MINUTE
By Ben Baker
2016, All Rights Reserved
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table of contents
1. Introduction 12
1.1. Who am I and how this book will give you superpowers with women? 12
1.2. This stuff actually works! 12
1.3. How to read this book? 20
1.4. Its an intimate war 21
1.5. Its tough, get used to it! 22
1.6. Why do you have to learn this? 24
1.7. This is a hybrid method 26
1.8. Techniques sit on top of your beliefs 28
1.9. Drop your logics and what should make sense to you 28
1.10. Women already know this 31
1.11. Is this manipulative? 32
1.12. On seduction 34
1.13. Is it too late or too soon for you to date? 37
1.14. The truth about women and dating 37
1.15. How money affects your results 39
1.16. You will have to go against your emotions. 40
1.17. No ones above the process. 41
1.18. Your looks will not save the day 42
1.19. You dont need to impress her to fuck her 43
1.20. What do women want? 44
1.21. Stay away from your friends women 46
1.22. How long does it take till you get results? 47
1.23. Every interaction finds balance in a matter of seconds! 48
1.24. Kick her off the pedestal! You cant be intimated by her looks 50
1.25. 90% of your communication with her will be indirect 53
1.26. Filters filters filters 55
1.27. Your attitude: 57
1.28. Unapproachable, sad, bitter and angry ones 58
1.29. There is no formula that works on every woman! 59
1.30. Know your story well. Make it an adventure 60
1.31. Its a numbers game 61
1.32. The results are dynamic! 62
1.33. No masturbation diet 63
Ben!
1. introduction
This book and the videos that are in front of you, are
what made all the difference in my relationships with
women! This content has made thousands of guys like you
and I change and become successful with women.
My Background
didnt get into trouble! Women even had to cover their hair
and body in public!
And its exactly the same for women too. If shes not
attracted to you, if you dont pull the attraction triggers
1.12. on seduction
Would you still settle down if you knew you had the
power to meet anyone you wanted and youd never be
alone? If you could get anyones attention anytime and
anywhere?
The thing is, it wont happen that way and your best
shot would be to do what I did! Go against your emotions!
Your default emotions wont get you laid! They keep you at
home on the coach! They make you fat and fail!
Same thing with your looks! Your looks get your foot
in the door but it wont save the day! You can look like
Johnny Depp and still be a virgin till you get old and your
penis shrinks to the size of a dried grape! Ive had
countless attractive students who couldnt get women until
they went through the program!
You get the first round! Ill get the next. Or, Ill get
the first round you get the next!
Fun
Carefree
Emotionally expressive
An authority
Entitled
2 words
Stay away!
about it! Why not? Why dont you get nervous talking to
them but attractive women intimidate you?
It really is all about how you make her feel and when
you think about it you realize: getting her to feel a
certain way through logic and reasoning would be
very difficult!
Jealousy
Arguments
Neediness
Sadness, depression
fill the gaps in your life! Even if she is, you dont mention
it!
Its not that these women are bad people, its just
theyve had bad experiences with men. Its a shame for
them! Because these women are usually the ones that one
that specific style of woman that you like, youll have all
the tools to bed her and get her to fall for you!
Then come back and read about it, watch the related
videos and try again! You can always contact me and
discuss!
I want you to try it. Get your calendar out and mark
3-weeks from today and dont touch yourself till that date!
Youll be amazed by how much your energy changes!
before you get to know her! There is always the next one
waiting for you! Be outcome detached and enjoy the
process!
You dont owe her anything just because you had sex.
The pleasure is mutual and more hers! Every time you
have sex, she owes you a big thank you.
Example:
1.39. be congruent
The faster you fail, the faster you learn what works
and what doesnt work for you! As a result, you can change
your approach and get results faster!
See The moment she sees you for the first time, a
flow begins. Think about it like a river. A river has a
direction! It has a flow. It either goes north, south, east,
west or...those other directions!
If she sucks you into her reality, if she can easily get
you to react to her emotionally and you just stand there
and watch her run the show, youre done! Game over! See
you later!
have a better time hanging out with you than without you
or with any other guy!
When you meet total strangers, you buy time for that
interaction by saying and doing specific things! Youve
probably noticed it. If you have a weak reality, if youre not
sure about who you are or what you want, if you
subconsciously put her on a pedestal, if you dont have the
right beliefs about sex, women and social dynamics or if
you want to excuse yourself, youll be unable to take the
interaction to a place you want! You keep getting rejected
aka: you will be sucked to her bubble!
2.2.2. vision
2.2.7. confidence
3. on tests
Classic test
The better you game her and the more she senses
youre the potential to be her man (fuck buddy, future-
husband, anything), the faster and stronger shell test you.
4. cold approach
Whats next?
5.1. attention
She could jump shit scared and say what the fuck!
So make sure she notices you before you
approach!
5.3. approach
This is not about what you say (just yet)! This is just about
how you physically wipe the physical distance between you
and initiate contact!
for coffee! You would have talked to anyone, its just she
happened to be there, at that time!
5.4. open
1. Hey!
7. American?
2. Your eyes!
Where are you looking when you say hi? Away?
Are you breaking the eye contact or are you
doing the parallelogram formula (Its in The
Eye Contact section)? Women see through
your eyes! She can literally read your mind just
by looking at your eyes and she does it in a few
short seconds!
3. Your body!
Are you facing her fully! Are you investing all
your body in the interaction? Its almost always
a great idea to not face her 100% unless she
does it! Face her on at least a 45 degree angle.
A great way to do this right is to mirror her
body! Is shes facing you fully, you do it too! If
shes not moving her body and only turns her
neck, you do the same!
*Note
5.6. bridge
Right after the FTC youll use a bridge and make the
transition! A bridge links 2 sections of your integration
together! Here are some nice working bridges:
Ah that reminds me of
5.7. transition
3. Situational transition
6. attraction
A couple reminders:
for us guys. You may tell her 1 line that makes her fall for
you. You may tell her 1 wrong thing and kill all the
attraction! Below I show you with graph how attraction
fluctuates!
But since you say the right things, you show youre
willingness to walk away, youre not needy and you show
the behavioral cues she craves: you create attraction!
6.4.1. fun
It may not look like its this simple, but if you are
fun; if you can get her away from her reality for a few
hours (even for half an hour); if you can get her to come
out of her everyday bubble: she will feel the attraction for
you, no matter how old or unattractive you are.
Look at kids! They are care free and they dont give a
shit what anyone thinks about them, and guess what! That
creates attraction! Women LOVE to see a carefree guy
who doesnt filter his emotions! So dont filter your
positive emotions: express them!
When youre out, do you let others (or her) cut you
off when you talk; laugh at you; break the way youre
leading the interaction and turn you into just a listener
without it being your choice? When you walk, do they
follow you, or do you follow them?
Talk about it and let her see and feel that youre not
just a nobody! You have a purpose, you have a goal and
you are moving towards it!
6.4.5. confidence
6.4.6. presence
2. Fashion
4. Cooking
5. Travelling
6. Pets
7. Movies
The more she reacts to you, the more she gets an idea
of who you are. You set the frame of the interaction and
you hold on to it. You dont need her permission. Lead,
physically and verbally!
6.4.10. authority
6.4.13. humor
Example 1:
Her: Thanks?
Example 2:
Her: Really?
You: No
OR
6.4.14. entitlement
If youre 30+:
You know, I really, like the way you see the world,
but to be 100% honest, its a deal breaker for me! We see
things totally differently! Let me tell you what I mean! Ah
All right, lets get into some techniques you can use
and trigger the attraction! The How-To part.
7.2. disqualification
Notes:
And when she asks you: Why? You give her a reason!
Yes! Just a reason!
Remember to be playful!
She wont! You see in the next section that you mix
this with a pull and use push n pull rocket to glue her!
Example:
Example:
Look, the fact is, when you rich to a point that you
realize you have options and you can actually choose who
you hang out with, you genuinely have to start
filtering! Getting rid of those you dont truly want!
7.3. qualification
An Important Note:
1. On being spontaneous
2. On being open-minded
3. On being adventurous
And once she said yes, then you change the subjects
and continue with your normal conversation.
Lights on or off?
Examples:
Possible reactions:
#1
Her: I dont know
You: Oh no(make sure you pause). Youre
#2
Her: Of course I am
You: How do you know? Have you kissed
yourself before? Jeez, some people! Are you a
princess as well? You know what? I hate you!
No, I love you! (Say it playfully as youre
teasing her)
#3
Her: Its too personal
You: Ah its ok? I guess its a culture difference
thing (I use this since I am international you
find your own reason). Hey tell me about the
restaurant you were talking about. (Change
the subject fast)
Her: Brown?
8. rapport
Tonality (10%)
Words (10%)
8. Shes at ease
When you talk about these, make sure you show your
emotions! Let her experience you and see, that you are
9.1.1. whisper
Whispering is great.
9.1.3. flirtease
You can use this to gauge and see how she feels. If
she moves away, it means you have more work to do. If she
doesnt move back when you get closer, it means shes ok
with you going for the kiss!
9.2.4. porn
There are a few ways you can initiate the touch! Here
is a list of some of the ways I like to do it!
10.2.1. tattoos
This is nice, when did you get it?, or, where did
you get it from?
10.2.2. earrings
10.2.3. scars
Real?
Hand made?
From India/Italy?
you! Why not drop the bullshit and do what you both
wanna do?
Your eyes and how you hold the eye contact, is the
fastest way for her to literally read your mind and find out
whats going on inside your head (plus what kind of guy
you are)! Yes, even what kind of guy you are! Women come
with this wuss detection system installed in them that
enables them to see through you! Us guy dont have it
built in!
This way she sees that you are listening to her and
more importantly she sees that you are present!
10.7. smell
See, she cares a great deal about both your, and her
smell! Its a fantastic tool which creates sexual tension
while letting her know you like her more than just a friend!
Fortunately, most men find it uncomfortable and dont
know how to take advantage of this!
Here are some other scents Ive field tested and had
good results with:
Dark Obsession
Fahrenheit
Mont Blanc
Contradiction CK
Bvulgari Aqua
her head that she has no choice but to think about and
eventually consider! Make sure you say these playfully!
11. sex
IMPORTANT NOTE:
11.2. foreplay
When she notices the book; you talk about how some
of those moves feel great. Especially the ones around the
neck area! This is the open sesame phrase:
As you say it, guide her to sit in front of you and you
slowly give her very soft neck massage! Remember:
11.2.4. kiss
When you kiss her make sure you keep your tongue
in your mouth for the first minute! Just softly move your
chin down to place her upper lip in between your lips, very
softly, let the tip of your tongue touch her upper lip and
from here, let her do the job!
When kissing gets hot and she moans, walk her very,
very slowly to the bedroom or the coach without stopping
the kissing! Her walking backward and as you hold both
her arms, softly and slowly guiding her.
Remember:
There are bad ass guys who do that and if you dont,
shell find someone else! I want you to be perfect and
check all the boxes!
Its easy! Here are some ninja tricks Yoda used to use
on Princes Leia in Star Wars:
11.4. intercourse
Condoms on
Music is set
2. Prepare!
I am not too crazy about lines but THE MOST
EFFECTIVE LINES are created when youre
out talking to women improvising! Remember
how much I emphasize on being in the
moment?
13. dating
and scan your face to make sure you dont have anything
stuck in your nose. Check both holes.
13.4. to do + not to do
13.4.4. smile
When youre out there sitting with her you only have
1 job! Have good time with her! You dont worry about
what happens next, if you guys are gonna have sex or not
or what could happen! Look! Youve already won! You
have a beautiful woman in front of you! If you enjoy your
time with her and focus on making that interaction as fun
as possible, the rest will happen automatically (as long as
you escalate)!
Even when you walk to the venue and you see that
the chairs are set in front of each other, just move it next to
her. These 5 seconds discomfort make the entire date go
smoother and end with better results!
14.1.2. abundance
Dont wait too long before meeting her! Ill tell you about
the online escalation ladder a bit later on in this chapter.
14.2.9. photos
14.3.2. occupation
I have friends that live all over the world and just love
spending my time with people who have the same care
and concern for making the world a little better than they
found it.
14.3.7. faith
2. Texting on phone
5. Sex
Tinder example:
You: Swedish?
Her: Yes
You: This means youre either super boring or super fun!
Her: Excuse me?
You: My ex was Swedish! She was super fun but her sister
was so so boring : )
Her: I am fun.
Next, tell her a bit about about yourself and ask her
about her life! Avoid getting into the interview mode!
Exchange 5-10 messages here.
14.4.3. cut it
15.8.3. smile
Is insecure as well
Is not approachable
15.8.8. handshake
17. lines:
Casual disqualifiers
something else!
Example: