Chapter 5
Chapter 5
STUDY DISCUSSION
5.0 INTRODUCTION
objectives and research questions. The discussion also relates the study findings
traditional.
4) The role of the parents and the family to adolescent sexual behaviour.
5) The function of the peers and the mass media to adolescent sexual
behaviour.
6) The Akamba Community and community leaders (Church, School and civil
behaviour.
machakos District.
The study findings in this research indicated that 51.2 percent of the Akamba
adolescents (boys and girls) in the age category 12-19 were sexually
experienced at the time the study was carried out. This figure of sexual
experimentation among the adolescents of Machakos District is more or less the
same as the findings of other previous studies on adolescent sexuality among
other cultures. Indeed, the studies on adolescent sexuality in the United States,
Canada, Latin America, India, China, Sub-Saharan Africa and Europe
demonstrate that over half of the adolescents experiment on sex before the age
of 19 (BBC radio, 2006; CDC, 2000; TOI, 6th Januaray,2007; Warren et al.,
1998).
For example, several surveys in Latin America found out that by age 19, more
than 90 percent of males have had sexual intercourse compared to 45 – 60
percent of females. Walf and Singh, 1990. In other developing countries namely
the sub Saharan Africa, Gage-Brandon and Meekers (1993) in their analysis of
data from seven countries found out that over 50 percent of women aged 15-19
years were sexually active. The CDC (2005) states that 80 percent of men and
75 percent of women in the United States are sexually experienced before age
19. In China, the percentage of boys and girls involved in pre-marital sex was
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between 60 – 70 percent in 2004, while in India, 42 percent of girls and over 60%
of males in the age 15-19 years have had sex before age 19 (Dutex, 2005).
These findings can be extrapolated to other developing and developed societies
except the Arab world and other Islamic societies, where according to IPPF
(1994), data is minuscule on adolescent sexuality. Certainly, Demographic and
Health Surveys (DHS) so far undertaken in these countries interview only
married women. Sex discussions are strictly outlawed, especially amongst or
targeting the young people, women and the unmarried (IPPF, 1994).
(Data has also been difficult to be availed from Muslim Societies simply because
of the stringent rules and regulations, Prohibiting reporting rape and abuse cases
of women. For instance in Pakistan, the rule has for a long time been that for
any rape case being reported four male witnesses have to be availed (Murunga,
2006). To Murunga (2006), Pakistan has had arguably the most hostile justice
system for victims of rape and other offence against morality. The country’s such
law is called Hudood Ordinances automatically deburres one from
reporting a rape case since it is difficult to get strictly four male witness unless
they are accomplices to that act. According to Murunga (2006)under the Hudood
Ordinances, any woman who claims to have been raped must produce the four
witnesses and all must be males, and Muslims by Faith. If the required number
and composition of witnesses is not met, the woman must face the charge of
fornication if unmarried or adultery when married, punishable by death. A
captivating case demonstrating the difficulties placed in the female gender to
report a sexual defilement case was captured in the TOI, 23rd Nov, 2006 when in
Saudi Arabia, a teenager girl went to report to the Police that she had been gang
raped by seven men. According to the report, She never imagined the judge
would punish her and that she would be sentenced to more lashes that any one
of her alleged rapists received. In this case, the girl was sentenced to 90(ninety)
lashes for, “being alone with men whom none she was married to”.
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Similar to other cultures, Akamba adolescents of Machakos District were
found to be initiating sex at very tender age. In this present study, boys initiated
sex at 6 years while for girls it was 7 years, with 6.6 percent being sexually
engaged in sex before age 10. In related study by chege (1999) 6 percent of
sexually active school girls have had sex by the age of 10 in Kisumu District,
Kenya, while another 36% have had sex before the age 14.The scenario of
young people initiating sex at a very tender age in Kenya was corroborated by
Peter, a proprietor of a school that upholds high moral standards and says he
was shocked to learn that some standard two pupils (6-8 years) in this school
were experimenting on sexual relations (Daily Nation, June 21, 2006). The
children seemed to know more than expected of their age and sexual play had
(2006) ,Observes that children have more exposure to sexual activities and
behaviour like kissing, “simple sex play” and exploration of each others’ bodies to
notorious with “raping” girls of his age or younger during child play times. The
mother to the boy (single mother) had been told and heard about it but had
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brushed it aside arguing it as a fabricated and mere slander to malaign and ruin
her son. As a consequence, most parents within that compound had warned as
well as withdrawn their children (boys and girls) from playing with the said boy!
under the Hudood ordinances, a woman who claims to have been raped must
produce at least four witnesses, and all must be males and Muslims by faith. If
the required number and composition of witnesses is not met, the woman must
gender to report a sexual defilment case was captured in the TOI, 23rd Nov, 2006
when in Sandi-Arabia, a teenager girl went to report to the police that she had
been gang raped by seven men. According to the report, she never imagined the
judge would punish her-and that she would be sentenced to more lashes than
any one of her alleged rapists received. In this case, the girl was sentenced to
go lashes for “being alone with men whom none she was married to”.
pointing out that nursery school children (4-6 years) have vague and somewhat
magical notions about sex. They are apt to confront many situations with sexual
where two children named Billy and Peter, each four years old, have to be told
repeatedly that it is not appropriate to kiss each other while they are playing. In
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the same nursery school, Gerry amuses himself by sneaking up behind a girl and
pulling up her skirt (“So I can see her underpants,” he explains with a lot of
giggling ( Masters et al. 1988: 127). The authors further observe that at this age,
children begin to form ideas about sex based on their observations of physical
and Daddy hugging and kissing, and obviously enjoying it, is a pretty good
advertisement for the pleasures of physical and emotional intimacy. On the other
hand, seeing parents constantly fighting or hearing one tell the other “don’t touch
me” can have just the opposite effect on the child’s view of intimacy (Masters et
al., 1988).
initiated sexual intercourse before age 13, while in Britain, according to BBC
radio (2006), nearly a third of the adolescents (30%) lose their virginity before the
age of consent with 4 percent having lost Virginity before 14 years. Evidence
from a variety of other countries suggest that the age at which young people
become sexually active may be falling (Fee and Yousef, 1993). Certainly, young
men than girls become sexually active at an early age in many cultures. In
Uganda for example, almost 50 percent of young men and nearly 40 per cent of
young women surveyed reported having had sex by age of fifteen years (Konde
– Lule et al. 1997). In Dares Salaam, Tanzania, 60 per cent of 14 years old
boys and 35 percent of girls reported that they were sexually active (Fuglesang,
reported having had intercourse by the age of 13 (Weiss, Whelan and Gupta,
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1996). In other parts of the world such as some Asian countries and middle east
where there is sparse evidence about sexual activity among young people and it
is widely assumed that sexual initiation takes place within the context of
marriage, recent studies show that approximately one in four adolescent boys
Cairo, Egypt, it has in the past been reported that girls who are sexually
husbands of their purity while others are provided with a pill to insert and use in
their “first sex” with their husbands which when pressed produces blood like
(2007) it is increasingly popular among Muslim women in North Africa and those
performs three Gymenoplasties each week, and most of his clients are between
18 and 45 years old, Muslims born both in France and North Africa. According to
him, “Many of the patients are caught between two worlds”. They have had sex
low young people are found in a dilemma to choose between the orthodoxy and
the modern in some culture – what anthropologists world refer to as culture lag.
The reasons for boys initiating sex at early age in many cultures can be
attributed to the society they grow in. In most cultures, boys are socialized to be
adventurous and to be explore while according to Masters et al. (1988), girls are
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often strongly cautioned against sexual play, especially with boys in most global
cultures. Boys on the other hand, tend to get mixed messages from their parents;
they may be warned or even punished for such activity, but there is a hint of
resignation or even pride in the attitude that “boys will be boys”. One father
described the sexual escapades of his seven year old son and his female
classmate by saying, “Good for him, he is getting an early start.” (Masters et al.
(1988: 130).
tendency to experiment sex with women older than them. This was
demonstrated in this research where adolescent boys indicated they have sex
the United States (US), before and about 1950, a typical finding in Sex Surveys
was that most young men were sexually active before marriage while most
women were not (Kinsey, Pomorey, & Martin, 1948; Kinsey et al. 1953). This
gender difference was possible because young men had sex with women who
prostitutes.
Kenya and is thus difficult to relate these findings to other Kenyan cultures. But,
research in some western cultures namely Britain, Canada and USA indicate the
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(Baron and Burne, 2001; CDC, 2001 and The Kaiser Family Foundation Report,
In the same version, Mckenna (1996) contend that male to male and
female to female sex exists in majority of global cultures but the activities
More likely than not, they will not be widely talked about, or named only within
1998). It is also reported that in many countries of the world, a not insubstantial
number of young men have their sexual experience with other men, and for some
this may be the beginning of a longer lasting bisexual, repertoire. For example,
first sexual experience had been with another man (Silva at al. 1997). There are
as diverse as Canada whose parliament upheld a law in 2005 allowing same sex
marriages (Toi, 12th June 2006), Britain, with emblematic examples of the popular
marriage of Rock Musician Sir Elton John to his male partners in 2005 among
others ( TOI, 9th Dec. 2006), while in India (Khan, 1998, Brazil (Pancer, 1996),
and the South Africa (TOI, 16.9.07), among other nations, report that cases of
bisexual unions are quite prevalent – even among the young. Homosexuality
adolescents included incest, homosexuality, rape, oral sex, orgies (group sex)
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and prostitution. Reports of sexual abuse including forced sex and rape were in
Homosexuality between boys was reported to happen during child play (in
childhood) and some sporadic cases were said to occur while in school but all go
unnoticed in the Akamba culture. Oral sex was reported to occur, mostly in urban
schools between urban boys and girls anxious about the consequences of
penetrative sex, while orgies occur during games, drama festivals and music:
This was further reinforced by reports of group sex after attending disco and
(1993), who point out that deviant sexual behaviour among the adolescents are
prevalent but unreported by victims, actors and caretakers due to certain legal,
press with the most daunting case of a 17 year old boy in a Nairobi secondary
school who was sodomised by a group of boys in one night that he had to be
hospitalised (Daily Nation, may 16, 2006). The fellow students meted out the
several institutions as well as several case studies from Kenya. The Drum issue
(23rd April 2007) reports that statistics obtained from the Nairobi women and
children’s hospital show that 74 boys aged between 9 and 14 years received
Recovery Centre in 2006 due to sodomy. Most victims had suffered physical
injuries such as bruises in the anal region and other parts of the body as well as
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STDS including HIV/AIDS. A self confession by a retired school head teacher
in a Kenyan high school further confirms the intensity of the malady in boarding
schools. Sam Odendo according to the Drum (April, 2007) confesses that,
him, the vice thrives because of the conspiracy of silence between teachers,
cradle Kenya (an NGO) recently indicated that teachers make up 6% of those
who defile pupils in Kenya(Drum, April 2007). A recent case in point was
reported in the E.A standard, (24th July 2007) when the Principal of a high school
in Nakuru District ,Kenya, was arraigned in court for sodomising oneof his
students.
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May, 2006: A 17 year old boy is sexually brutalised by five men in
Womens’ hospital after a sodomy ordeal in Ngong forest, Nairobi, (Daily nation,*8
May. 2007).
years for abducting and defiling a 13 year old boy (DN, 6th June 2007).
The above cases of sodomy and many other which go unreported due to
embarassment are porgnant pointers to the extent of the malaise in the Kenyan
schools and society at large, but quite incognito. A classic case of lesbianism in
Kenyan schools was well highlighted by the self confession of a 20 year old
University of Nairobi law student during the World Social Forum held in Nairobi,
2007. The student blatantly indicated she realised she was a lesbian at age 10
and in standard three. She says “I had a crash on a girl. I liked girls and not
boys”. I did not just sit and decide that I am a lesbian, some people think one
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just decides to be a lesbian. It is how we are born, either heterosexual or
bisexual. “(Daily Nation, January 2007) She said she had her first “girlfriend”
when she was 16 years old and in form two. She now had a 28 year old girl
adolescent boys during the FGDs in this study though it happens under high
secretive circumstances and thus goes unreported. Indeed, most boys reported
bullying, especially to the new comers. An Hiv and Aids educator with PATH
out that boys and girls boarding schools have been the hotbeds of gay behaviour
for a while in Kenya though the issue has all along been pushed under the social
carpet.
deviant sexual behaviours were getting entrenched into the Akamba peoples way
contend that any form of these behaviours consequently would lead to ostracism
have coition with a woman from behind. If a man did this, even with his wife, it
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was a must to slaughter a goat for purification. By this act, he had lowered and
premarital sex (Kyalo 1990), it occurred within the ambit of strict societal rules,
western cultural assimilation and sooner or later will become part of what Ortner
COMMUNITY
adolescents (66 percent) disapproved of sex before marriage but this was not the
case on the ground. On the other hand, more boys than girls approved of sex
culture condoned sex before marriage, but the young peoples sex activity,
preferences and desires outside the society organized social institutions were
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highly inhibited. Sex before marriage was a socio-cultural affair. Sex occurred
during the community social dances (Ndeti, 1972), and only among those
initiated into the second circumcision and mature as well as ready for marriage.
This view has changed over time and so has the way sex is perceived among the
modern Akamba adolescents. Early sexual relations are generally free and much
value is not set on society control nor perspective. Thus, attitudes on premarital
sex and actual practices are more permissive than in traditional period.
adult community around them. According to Coleman and Hendry (1990: 141),
in the adult world today ,extra – martial sex has become widely accepted ,
divorce and separation have become common place, there is much greater
with sexual information. Further, as part and parcel of all this, widely available
contraception has had the effect of making possible a distinction between sex
and procreation. The authors contend that, these shifts in attitudes which are in
some respects almost revolutionary, cannot fail to have had an effect on young
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Baron and Burne (2001), argue that although nature of sexual attitude
among adolescents vary from culture to culture, it is evident that sexual attitude
among the youth in the United States, Western Europe, Australia and Canada,
expression earlier (sexual revolution of 1950’s and 60’s) than India, China, and
Africa. In China for instance, changes in sexual expression similar to the west
did not occur until 1988 (Huang and Uba, 1992). The authors point out that
earlier on, the nation’s response had been to ban all written, audio, and visual
material describing sexual behaviour, to arrest those who produce it; and to
execute those who sell it. In India, accelerated reforms and open society initiated
in the 1990’s have had also observed a concomitant shift in sexual behaviour
and attitudes especially for the young people (BBC Radio 2006). In Africa, shifts
in sexual behaviour attitude among the youth can be traced to growth in urban
education and values mid 20th century,in the 1970’s and 1080’s gaining
leaders and social workers) participating in the study berated and valiantly
detested early adolescent sex experimentation, yet all the evidence pointed into
the opposite direction in a typically brazen manner. Some of the key informants
immoral behaviour .Coleman and Hendry (1990) avers that research evidence
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available from societies in the globe, indicates that contemporary young people
are changing in their attitudes to sexual behaviour in ways which are similar to
adults. This was in total contrast to the traditional Akamba culturewhere the adult
very revered position (Kimilu, 1962). Sex between the young and the adults was
when a girl was to be married as a subsequent wife while the sexual behaviour of
AND CONTRACEPTIVES
concurs with studies done in other societies which demonstrate a near universal
(Alexander and Hickner, 1997; CDC, 2001; KDHS, 2003; and Mulama, 2006). In
spite of the near universal knowledge about HIV/AIDS transmission and its
The knowledge about other STDs among the Akamba adolescents apart
from Gonorrhea 70.8 percent and Syphillis 70.4 percent, was abysmally low and
to others quite obscure. This study concurs with Leukefeld and Haverkos (1993),
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that STDs present a formidable challenge to global society among the youth
since a majority are ignorant of the of the many STD’s in existence. Although the
number of actual cases of STD patients was difficult to avail in Machakos District
such cases, several medical doctors intimated that the incidence and prevalence
exhibited naivety, ignorance and total lack of knowledge about STDs. Indeed,
this kind of scenario predisposes them to being classified amongst high risk
category of population as pertains to STDs/ HIV/AIDs and they are also likely to
those who reported to be sexually experienced, almost half (52 %) had used the
condom with 48 percent absconding. This finding was in tandem with studies
among the adolescents in other societies (AGI, 1994; Elizabeth, et al. 1999;
KDHS, 2003; Moore et al. 1998). As reported by the adolescents in this study,
the reasons for non usage of condoms among the sexually experienced
cost, fear and timidity as well as ignorance and naivety. According to this study,
(73.4%) condom use during intercourse amongst them was very low (48 percent
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other forms of contraceptives. A small number of adolescents girls near the
urban centres of Machakos district knew about the Depopropellor and the
morning after pill- (4.9 %) but the use of these family planning methods was quite
that among sexually active girls, the first intercourse of some 58% was
unplanned and hence unprotected. More than a third of the remaining 42% who
had their first sexual encounter did not use contraceptives, exposing themselves
1999 only 58 % of sexually active high school students in the United States,
reported that they or their partner used a condom during their most recent sexual
intercourse, and 16.2 % reported that they or their partner had used birth control
contraceptive use among the adolescents was 39%, indicating that more than
half of them do not use any method of family planning. This in essence inclines
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The adolescent girl is in a more precarious condition in relation to
STD/HIV infection and the use of any form of contraception due to certain
the total number of adolescents (15-19) who had visited voluntary Testing
Centres’ (VCTs) in Machakos District, 2.2 percent and 3.8 percent of adolescent
boys and girls had tested positive, respectively. In Kenya, KDHS, (2003) points
out that HIV prevalence in women ages 15-24 was nearly 9%, while for men of
the same age bracket it was under 5percent, while the same report indicates in
the age category 20-24 years, HIV prevalence among women is over three times
that of men in the same age group (9% and 2% respectively). In a recent
age between 15 and 24 years are at high risk of HIV infection compared to boys
in their age category. AIDS prevalence in this age category according to NACC
The above HIV infection disparity between boys and girls can be
Central America where young girls living in them share a number of experiences
education and information is often limited, levels of literacy are lower and due to
poverty, girls are particularly vulnerable to sexual exploitation through the need to
trade or forced into sex inorder to survive (WHO, 1998). Other reasons adduced
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opinion leaders included the fact that young girls have become prey for sex by
elderly men paranoid and anxious about HIV infection. Sex with young girls was
(2007), found out that the rapes of young, virgin girls is quite common due to the
myth that the blood of virgins cures AIDS. Zimbabwe in Africa has one of the
highest HIV infections in the world with one in five adults having AIDS.
Makoni(2007) observes that inb some aregions of the country, particularly near
Mozambique border, the myth remains strong. Men either collect the blood after
breaking girl’s hymens or after cutting their breasts-wounds that end up. Killing
the victim-and use it themselves or sell it for men who have AIDS (Makoni,2007)
The other factor is attributed to the rape and sexual abuse (molestation) of young
girls by adult members of the community who could be HIV positive. Moreover,
the biological anatomy of the female gender, especially the very young may
predispose them to greater risk of HIV infection if they engage in sex early
compared to boys. Girls during sex may experience tear and raptures in their
private parts which consequently gives room to the HIV inlet to the body. Lastly,
factor. Girls were indeed viewed as being in a weaker position to negotiate safer
sex through use of protection, especially condom, putting in mind that the female
condom is non available in the market, and even if available , there would
young girls. Moreover,Just like in many other patrilinear societies, the female
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gender is in the receiving end on sex issues in Machakos District, aswell as in
BEHAVIOUR
sexual behaviour of the adolescents (Blum, 2002; Miller and Jorgensen, 1988;
communication and modelling are associated with the sexual behaviour of their
children. The findings of this study portrayed very minimal interaction between
parents/ family members and their children on sexuality matters. A paltry 18.2
This was emblematic of the fact that contemporary Akamba parents and family
members seemed to have abdicated on the role of guiding and enriching the
busy in the money market to afford quality time to be with their children and
supervise their activities. The sibilings, aunts, uncles and grandparents were
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periods when these categories of family members used to be available to
supervise and instruct the youth on sexual matters. For instance, according to
husband wife relationships and sexual behaviour, as well as the larger societal
roles, values and traditions. They relied largely on stroy telling,. Proverbs and
were more closely involved with female grandchildren and grandfathers with
male grandchildren.
sexuality matters was also reported to be very minimal in this study. This also is
unlike the traditional Akamba periods when older sibilings were very heavily
sometimes had authority equivalent to the authority of their parents over the
young children (Kayongo – Male and Onyango, 1984). Further, the authors
contend that the elder siblings were highly respected by their younger brothers
and sisters, and were expected to sacrifice for the younger ones as if they were
their own children. All that kind of expectation has dissipated over time and the
role of siblings in socialization among the Akamba society very circumscribed just
as for other categories of family members. This apparent vacuum may propel the
ignorance and liberty. Moore et al. (1986), observes that daughters of traditional
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parents who had communicated about sex were found to be less likely to have
had sex than daughters of more liberal parents or conservative parents who had
supervisionon the young ones is cited as a key factor associated with early onset
by one adolescent, “our parents do not want to face issues to do with sex head
on”. This concurs with report by Kithaka (2006), about an adolescent girl who
narrated how one of her parents proceeded to paint the male gender in a very
grim picture. “She told us that a man is like a snake and when he raises his head,
we should run for cover lest he spits on us”. The girl who owned up to having
interacted with boys sexually was left wondering whether this parent was
speculating literally or figuratively, but was too afraid to ask. Another adolescent
girl who was late coming home from school one evening narrated having been
confronted by the mother scornfully in her mother tongue, “so you have come
from being licked in the mouth?!” The mother could not literally mention the word
The modern day reluctance to talk to young people about sex is reported
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varied as Nigeria, the Philippines, Egypt and Mexico has shown that fear of
fear and shame (Petchesky and Judd, 1998: 305). It is evident that for young
women, discussions about sex has often been limited to warnings about dangers
and the importance of preserving their honour and that of the family, and this
concurs with the situation among the modern Akamba of Machakos District. As
reported in this research, Akamba parents, more so the Mothers’ just warn about
sex and preach abstiuence but do not after alternatives. In other circumstances
Costa Rica, Chile, Cameroun, Zimbabwe, Cambodia, the Philippines and Papua
New Guinea it shows that while young women may expect to receive some sex
education within the family, albeit limited and centering on the technicalities of
almost solely acquired from the media and from peers and siblings, many of
pundits in guiding and socializing the young people on sexuality including social
were commonly utilized in the traditional periods, the community ensured the
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young people comprehended the gist of the learning processes through role
plays and being an active participant to the whole process of socialization. This
is in total contrast to the modern Akamba parent who appears to lack the
socialization .Moreover, The modern, child is no longer the asset of the Akamba
community but the conjugal family. Attitudes have totally changed and punishing
another persons child for wrong doing could lead to severe conflict and curiosity
between families. The “i” attitude appears to be the norm rather than “we” in
socialization and by extension this sis what the children seem to subscribe to.
Moreover, where some communication between the young and adult community
emerging culture between parents and their children, especially during the
weekends. The weekend being the only available time to be with their children,
the parents created outings with their young offsprings to places where alcoholic
drinks, dancing and merry making were being perpetuated. Children ventured
further to get into the dancing floors to imitate adult patrons and to synchronize
into the art of gyration. Parents respond by cheering, never mind that some of
the songs they are dancing to are laden with suggestive lyrics, some glorifying
sex, hard drinking and violence. Interestingly too, the children would be dancing
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and singing along oblivious to the fact that the Lyrics are raunchy and obscene.
adult behaviours and other hedonistic behavioural patterns at early age which
may later translate into sleaze, including sexual liaisons. This observation
concurs with Haffner (1999), whose findings indicated that the adolescents are
not the problem; adults are including bonafide parents. Adults do not model
sexual health and behaviour well for the young people, and teenagers will
Machakos district were cited in relation to the sexual abuse of children especially
girls under their care. This was confirmed by key informants as well as law
enforcers. This finding was reinforced by the media reports in the Kenyan press,
primary family members, some as young as 3 years (Daily Nation, 16, may,2006;
E.A Standard, 14,Dec, 2006). Such headlines as “man arrested for impregnating
daughter” (E.A. Standard, 21.12. 2006) and, “father defiles five year old
daughter” (E.A. Standard 30th Dec. 2006) are quite common. Amazingly, most of
the sexual abuse cases of the young people by the family members indict the
male relatives, with the bonafide fathers’ being major culprits. In a report by the
UN (2007) carried out in Kenya, 75 percent of incest in Kenya’s urban areas are
by the father, while uncles and other relative account for 23 %. The report said
83% of abuse occurred in the child’s home, and the girl child bears the brunt of
the social malady. The following cases have been highlighted in the Kenyan
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press and they augment the findings of this research about incest and child
Case 1: Girls HIV infection blamed on father (E.A. standard , 14th sep
2006). In this case, a girl who was allegedly infected with HIV by her father is
living at the Nyeri provincial general hospital Kenya, for fear of punishment. The
eight year old girl from Naromoru District, Kenya refused to go home after she
was discharged, saying her father who already had been arrested, had
Case II. 70 year old man commits suicide to escape wrath of mob for
incest(Dn, may 17th 2007). The report in the Nation said that a 70 year old man
committed suicide to escape the wrath of a mob that was baying for his blood for
impregnating his granddaughter. That he had also fathered the mother of the
child through an incestuous relationship with his own daughter, is to say the
Case III. Father rapes daughter, 9, burns her (E.A. standard, 9th June
2007). A school girl had been hospitalised after her father allegedly raped her.
And in a move aimed at erasing evidence , the suspect burnt the standard two
pupil all over her body-including her private parts-using a hot iron rod.
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Case IV. Father denies raping his teenage daughter (Sunday Nation, 10th
June 2007). This case involves a man who had been charged in an Eldoret
district court, Kenya, with raping his teenage daughter. According to the paper,
the court heard that on may 13th 2007, the man raped his daughter, 17, at their
girl who had allegedly been defiled and impregnated by her father.
Case VI “I saw father in bed with my sister” says woman (E.,A. standard,
30th January, 2007). In this particular case, a father at the centre of incest trial
tried to bribe hisr daughter with ksh.500 after she caught him in bed with her
cultures hardly report of its existence. This is because incest has been a taboo
to most global cultures and the perception of what is incest in one culture may
not be viewed as incest in the other. Further, there are existing socio-cultural
from reporting such a case. More over, the stigma and embarrassment in most
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cultures associated with incest may act as a deterrent to bring the issue in the
public domain.
prohibition on incest was very effective in the past (traditional) simply because
sex between close family members was viewed to jeopardise the existence of
further observes that without it (incest taboo), “Social evolution could have gone
no further on the human level than among the athropoids” (Demause, 1991).
would result to production ofvery weak human beings (with very weak
consequence has in the past been witnessed within the royal kingdom in Europe,
resorting to urgent need for exogamy inorder to sustain the kingdoms. Other
factors according to Demause (1991), would include the utility of social alliances,
the collapse of the family if sexual rivalry is allowed and even boredom with
family members.
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Demause (1991) identifies two types of incest: direct incest, that is, overt
sexual activity between family members other than spouses; and indirect incest,
the providing of children by their parents to others in order for them to be sexually
molested. Demause avers that arranging for children to have sex with other
of the parent; and in any case, it is usually perceived by the child to be similar to
contemporary incest and abuse among the young abuse usually involves a
guardian or parent, who, if not the direct perpetrator ( as was mostly the case in
Machakos district and Kenya by extension), covertly or indirectly brings about the
America, in cincinnati of parents jailed for “raping “ their kids (TOI, 1 st August
2006). According to the report the mother (26 years) was jailed to 40 years for
molesting , atleast, one of her five children and prompting the other four to have
sex with each other. The lady and her husband,32, had,sexually abused their
four sons and one daughter, ages 1 to 6, in 2004. In march (2006), the husband
received five life sentences on five rape charges and 96 additional years on 12
agent in March 2006 in an internet chat room called “Baby and Pre-teen Sex”.
He had offered to rape his 3- year old daughter live on the internet if another
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Studies indicate that young people who have been sexually abused tend to
exhibit abnormal sexual tendencies early, have more sexual partners than other
HIV/AIDS victims have been victims of sexual abuse some by very close family
members (Luster and Small, 1997; Males, 1996). This study also unearthed
sibling especially early child play and by extension when in certain circumstances
culture (Gehman, 1989;; Kimilu, 1962). The range of physical contact between
children and their parents was very well defined as well as sexual relations
most African cultures forbid endogamous sexual relations as well as all forms of
“if a man had intercourse with his sister or daughter or mother, he would in
former times have been beaten or tortured by his clan. He would also be
required to pay a goat and bull for purification ceremonies. In these traditional
periods, intercourse with a sister she could not be married until after purification;
and if with a daughter, he must leave his wife until purification had taken place.
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There was no legal penalty for the woman in these cases, save the reproach of
It is worth noting that the Akamba family (Musyi) that traditionally formed a
closely knit community has totally collapsed. By extension too, the clan system
which for a long time provided codes and means of social control among its
members (appertaing incest and sexual impropriety) are not as strong as they
were in the traditional periods. As observed in this research, young people are
no longer conscious nor aware of the existence of the clan groups and their
Lastly, the entry of the house workers, helpers or maids in the modern family
confounded the whole process of socialization- of the young ones in their family.
common with the educated, urban and employed (money market) parents to act
as proxies in the absence of the parents in care taking and nurturance of the
young ones. Through observation and personal communication, it was very clear
that children of urban Akamba parents as well as the educated in rural areas
spent more time with the housemaids than the parents, and may at sometimes
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view especially the mother as a disciplinarian. According to Kayongo-Male and
Onyango (1984), the child may systematically start confiding his/her secrets to
the house maid than the mother, eventually the mother getting fully alienated
from the child’s social life. Further, most house workers have such a lower
and early pregnancies, while their home background is quite different that she
literally introduce boys to premarital sex( mind you most house girls are at the
age of the children they are meant to nurse) while young girls learn about some
nitty-gritties of sex and contraceptives from the house girls. This nexus of house
observe that housemaids are key intiators, and influence the sex life of the
young people under their care while in turn, their employers especially men have
been found out to be sex predators’ to the house helpers. Finally, Kayongo-male
and Onyango(1984) point out that parents or employers have less control over
such servants in sense that the househelps are often strangers with no moral
obligation to the parents. If they are poorly paid they may revenge themselves
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5.5.1 THE MASS MEDIA
informants in this research. Studies indicate that modern mass media is beset
with sexual contents and connotations targeting the youth, and this affects the
young peoples sexual activity and beliefs about sex (FOCUSAS, 2005; Kabatesi,
children are bombarded with sexual content and messages in the media in that;
intercourse.
• 43% of the secular music in 1999 contained sexual content- 19% included
oral sex.
• Boys and girls who listen to lots of music with sexual tones were almost
twice as likely to start sexual activities and with multiple partners within the
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The Akamba adolescents with the access to mass media messages
demonstrated a penchant for soap operas, music and movies in the television
while a similar pattern was observed for cinema movies. A closer observation to
the soap opera’s or serial programmes running in the Kenya television networks
revealed that a majority of their episodes and main themes are pegged on sex,
drugs or violence. The most classic example was the ‘Bold and Beautiful”,
apparently running in the Kenyan media (KBC) for the past almost 20 years, and
romantic and incestuous affairs between family members whereby a leading lady
character, Brooke Logan, is first married by the patriach of the family (Eric
forester), after some time they break off, then she gets married by his first son,
(Ridge forrester), whom they also break off, then, overtime she is seen in a
Soap Opera Digest Magazine(2007), the Bold and Beautiful accounts for over
450 million daily viewers around the world and its influence on the sexual
behaviours of the fanatics cannot be gainsaid. Moreover, the soap’s small cast
apart from leading to incestuous love triangles among family members and in-
.In relation to music, Reggae and Hip hop were amongst the most
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(secondary teacher) participating in this study, whether its hip-hop, reggae, rap,
pop or rock, much of popular music aimed at teens contains sexual overtones. Its
Some songs depict men as “sex driven studs”, women as “sex objects” and with
explicit references to sex acts, they are more likely to trigger early and
irresponsible sexual behaviour than those where sexual references are more
degrading music gives them a specific message about sex. Boys learn that they
should be relentless in their pursuit of women and girls learn to view themselves
A case in point which exemplified the sexist view in modern music was in
the year 2004. when two famous American Pop Musicians Justin Timberlake
flash her breast at the 2004 music concert and the incident has topped a poll of
the 25 Biggest Celebrity Scandals since 1982 (Soap Opera Digest Magazine,
Hollywood was “Polluting Kids Minds”. There were over 90 million people
believed to have watched this episode, many of them children and adolescents
and thus, the incident became a flash point for family-value activists and
sexual behaviour in the modern times. Indeed, it it clear that the modern young
people (both urban and rural)base their identities on musicians and movie
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celebrities, thus, what they see, hear and conceptualise, will ultimately be
vehicles and even food stuffs, the aspect of “sex” has to feature somewhere,
services can only be described as indecent , vulgar and sexually suggestive. This
is symbolically expedited through presenting the very gorgeous girls and boys
adjacent to the products, skimpily and scantily dressed with a raunchy or racy
pose. The mass media marketing strategy is targeting the youth who happen to
leading alcoholic firm, Kenya, in a personal communication (pc) pointed out that
captures consumers’ moods, emotions and values, which trigger purchasing and
consumption capacity.
Oyuga Pala, a popular Kenyan Satirist succintly avers that, “Sex sells”,
and indeed, it is an advertising Mantra (Pala, 2007). Further more the notion of
on. Her washing actions were turning more suggestive as she pounded the
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underwear. In the other, a washer woman calls at an apartment to pick up
laundry and a man wearing a towel answers the door. As his towel drops,
leaving him only in his undiues, she eyes him flirtatiously! (TOI, July 27, 2007:6)
“From the sitting room to the entertainment spots, messages are posted
which scream Sex! Sex! and more Sex!. Scantily dressed men and women are
all over the television screens in the form of advertisements, music programmes
and soap opera, stocking the exuberance of young boys and girls. The lyrics are
not only better, “manyake all sizes” “Leo Niko Kwa Keja”, “nataka kukushika
more”, are among the messages coming to our teenagers. Even if such music is
banned in the house, the “matatu” your kid uses to and from school is loudly
playing such music, music that you would be mortified to the bone listening to.
The FM stations and a hoard of magazines have not been left behind in this
the most luscious and sexually appealing cabaret. The more revealing the
pictures, the hotter they are. And the messages “its your body, your life and your
pleasure”, “if it feels good why not”. One advert says, “kuwa mjanja kuwa na trust
mfukoni unapoenda missioni,” translated, “be shrewd and carry a pack of trust
Modern youth dancing styles are equally obscene and sexually cathartic.
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and college students in Machakos urban centres vindicates above statement in
the sense that dancing styles are quite suggestive and bumper to bumper hip
town, “boys and girls get their thrill out of a new version of dirty dancing, which is
quite titillating, with heavy gyrations, in a purely sexual portrayal way.” This was
This study found out that over 50 percent of the sexually experienced
listened to Hip-hop and reggae music and admired magazines articles classified
under family and sex life experiences. Another fundamental observation was that
all the four (4) students who reported in the study to have access to internet
This information confirms what Mitchell (1971) pointed out that apart from
sexual activity is itself sexually arousing. The most worrying aspect is that the
abundant sexual media messages reach the young ones before puberty and this
party confirms the pre-adolescent sexual involvement findings by this study. This
study further concurs with Coleman and Hendry (1990,) who argued that pre
young people, usually through the medium of television but also in films,
literature, internet and pop music. Sex in this context is usually portrayed with a
gratification. It is my contention that young people are thus almost bullied into
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sexual activity by the social environment(awash with sexuality explicit messages)
perpetuated by Western media started finding its root after the second world war
but became more pronounced between 1960 and today with the unabated
spread of capitalism and materialism. Before contact with colonialists in the 20th
century, the Akamba people lived a simple life without the television, radio,
internet and all other forms of modern telecommunication. In a nutshell then, the
traditional Akamba society was devoid of mass media influences to their social
life.
dances “Mbathi sya anake”, translated to mean song and dance for the youth.
Young men and women participated under the elderly guidance and Kimilu
(1962) points out that girls tied well knit animal skin or cloth around their waists to
ensure they did not expose their bodies during the process of dancing. This
ensured decency in dancing, which is in total contrast to the modern cloth pattern
in dancing.
clubs. As observed, girls and boys in their teenage or in early twenties prowl in
packs of two to four in these nightclubs, casting meaningful glances at any and
all passing young men and women. In Ngungani club, Boma club, Kyama Inn,
Ikuuni Hotel, Kisambalau Bar, among others, young women and men dance for
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hours, sing to their music lyrics with some appearing in very exposing and
skimpy dresses. Sexual scenes are quite explicit (in dance, posture, clothing and
gesture) and in indeed, this view demonstrates how young people in Machakos
town are exponentially getting exposed to the post modern culture of seeking
students from within and without Machakos town. An intriguing episode occurred
in May 2006, when over 20 school going adolescent boys were roughed up by
the police in a Machakos town bar (8th May 2006, Daily Nation). Some were
great deal of influence over each other (Billy and Udry, 1985; Njau 1993; Miller
and Moore 1990; SIECUS, 2005; Silva et al., 1998). Indeed, the role played by
intimate aspects of life including love and sex is quite significant in a study by
SIECUS (2005):
active are more than twenty (20) times as likely to have their first coital
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experience than those who believe that none of their friends are sexually
active.
Allport (1969) points out that adolescents who have friends who strongly
encourage sex experimentation or dwell more on the “sex talk” than other issues
are the ones more apt to provide justification for their aggressive sexual activity
and vice versa. Further, a number of retrospective studies indicate that the more
another or date, the earlier it is to feel or get obliged to indulge in sexual activity
This study agrees with above mentioned study findings since 71.2% of the
information on sexual behaviour was from their peers. There is evidence from
elsewhere in Africa to suggest that peers have become a more important sources
interviewed reported having learned about menstruation form friends not from
true case study was narrated by an adolescentboy about how his friend found
According to the story, the form two boys in one of the boarding schools in
Machakos District found that he had been infected with an STD during one of the
holidays. He discovered this while in school after holiday and the only thing that
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came to his mind first was to inform his closest friend (classmate) and seek his
subsequently, advising this infected boy to buy paraffin that evening, and pour
some drops to the affected area (urethra) with the belief that it will heal. The
loyal friend religiously did as he was told without giving it a second thought. That
evening, he bought a bottle of paraffin from the nearby shops locked himself in
the dormitory when others had gone for preps, and poured drops of this corrosive
substance to his urethra as earlier advised. It turned out that, it degenarated into
a big wound ,some parts of his genitalia had been burned and severed by the
corrosive substance and the boy could not walk in the third day. The school
management consequently came to know about it, but it was too late since the
boys reproductive system including critical ducts had been severed. This act put
emblematic of the kind of lay information as well as ignorance the young people
have about sexuality matters. It also indicates the loyalty and trust the young
their friends indulged in sexual activity. The study also revealed that a majority of
and 29.5% of adolescent girls in the study had intimate relations (heterosexual
relations) and over half of them were sexually experienced. The study thus
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confirms that the urgency with which an adolescent is likely to indulge in coital
Ericsson (1971), that adolescents are likely to behave at the behest of each other
and more so, in their endeavour to establish an identing, conform to the authority
Miller et al. (1993) assert that the earlier the dating experience begins for
through date rape (aquintance rape). In a similar study in the United States,
among girls whose first date took place at the age 14 or younger, Thornton(1990)
found out that two thirds of girls had gone steady before age 16 and the girls who
had begun to date between the age of 16 and 18, however, one third had not
gone steady by age 18. Acquintance rape or date rape, was also confirmed to be
an increasing problem in studies done in the United States among high school
acquintance rape was reported to be quite common among adolescent boys and
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The traditional Akamba society had its own institutionalized way of
relations. All the young people were introduced to similar informal education and
values and beliefs from which they would derive their self control and respect for
each other in their experiences as adapted members of the society. The peers
formed part of the community agents who provided guidance and counselling to
each other and this ensured smooth transition. Kenyatta (1962) observes that the
age group bound them together. Further, men and women circumcised at the
same time stood in the very closest relationship to each other. They were like
siblings and must not do any wrong to each other otherwise it would become a
Kenyatta (1962). The traditional Akamba youth peers buttressed the community
efforts in helping each other adjust to life properly. They were thus well informed
total contrast to the “riika” (age matters) of today whom this study indicate are ill
informed, they are endowed with lay knowledge and misadvise each other on
sexuality issues
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5.6 THE AKAMBA COMMUNITY AND COMMUNITY LEADERS ROLE IN
The findings of this study were quite revealing in many respects on the
role of the community around the adolescents and its leaders in terms of
accounting for adolescent sexual behaviour. The social and cultural context
under which the adolescent is placed determines his or her eventual behaviour
(Njau, 1993; Smolicz, 2004). The dichotomy between traditional (rural) and
modernity (urban) placement of the young ones explains variations in the sexual
is the norm while proximity and observation of young ones activities and their
The above sentiments echoes this study to some degree in the sense that
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to indulge in coital relations at an earlier age compared to the rural placed
adolescents in rural areas begin sex relatively at a later age but demonstrated a
greater degree or pattern of indulgence in later life of adolescence than the urban
based adolescents. This study further concurs with a similar study in Kenya by
Njau (1993), who reported that adolescents in Kiambu District (urban and
disparity. Across cities and towns, girls and boys are reaching puberty faster than
before. For instance, the age of attaining the sexual maturity for girls in urban
centres has dropped to below 11 years from the global average of thirteen years
(AGI, 1994; Rees, 1993). This will imply that girls may experiment on sex earlier
delivered at age ten years and three months implying she must have conceived
at age 9.5 years and most likely engaged in sexual intercourse even earlier.
Similarly, in Bomet District, Kenya, a 10 year old standard three pupil dropped
Other factors, explaining this drop in sexual maturity could be better nutrition,
changes and upbringing. Furthermore, it has been documented that the stress of
earlier (Bellis, 2006). The author believes that prolonged stress may speed up
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puberty by altering the balance of growth hormones and other chemicals in the
body-and one of the causes could be the trauma of watching parents spilt-up. In
his article in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, Bellis (2006)
absenteesm, being one of the most effective stressors and levels of divorce as
well as single parent families which apparently have rapidly escalated in many
cultures”.
The impact of the adult community to the sex life of the adolescents has
Haffner, 1999; Laumann, 1996). The history of adolescent sexuality has largely
(Males, 1996). The younger the age of the first sexual intercourse, the more likely
it is coercive and, has severe future implications into the sex life of the
adolescent. Further, women and men who recall childhood genital contact with
adults are nearly three times as likely to report having had their first sexual
intercourse before age 15 compared to those who did not have such an
every four women aged between twelve and twenty four in Kenya lose their
virginity through force with men predators being the mal adult community. In a
similar study almost one in four children in Kenya aged thirteen years report
reports are evidence enough into the magnitude of the sexual malaise to the
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young, especially girls in Kenya. Girls are sexually molested as young as 3
years with the peak being 8 to 16 years, while, 16,482 rape cases were reported
in Kenya in 2005 (Odhiambo, 2006). Males (1996), observes that sixty percent or
more of all teen births in the globe are fathered by an adult male and nearly all
STDs and HIV/AIDS among teens – male and female – are contracted from adult
says 150 million girls and 73 million boys in the globe experienced forced sexual
(1994), seventy four percent of young women in America who had intercourse
before age 14, and 60 percent of young women who had sex before 15 reported
rapes are reported each year in the United States (Santrock, 2005). In India, the
media is invariably awash with reports and court cases of elderly (adults) defiling
minors, same as sad as involving rape and then murder inorder to conceal
evidence (TOI 28th July 07, TOI 6th August 2007). Statistics released from
Ministry of Women and Child development (MWCS) (2007)in New Delhi indicate
54.6% boys and 22.5% girls have faced severe for ms of abuse namely rape,
sodomy,and touching, fondling and being forced to exhibit private parts and
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report that 30% of adolescents aged 15 – 19 years have either experienced
physical or sexual abuse in Kenya, with one in every four girls and one in every
ten boys being sexually abused. The following rape and child molestation cases
Case: I : Man gets seven years for rape of minor (D.N. 14.2.06). In this case a
man was jailed for seven years by a Kenyan court for defiling a seven year old
girl.
Case: II : Girl, 6, in gang rape ordeal (D.N. 27.3.07). In this case, an outing by a
family ended on a sad note after a six-year-old daughter was defiled by a gang
Case: III : Varsity student raped and killed near campus (S.N. 17.6.07). In this
case, a third year student at the University of Nairobi was raped, killed and the
Case: IV : Watchman, 55, in court over rape of pupils (D.N. 3.5.07). This case
Kurinyanga District, Kenya and all girls were aged between seven and nine
years.
Case: V : Girl 11, defiled, abandoned in town (Citizen 30.4.07). This episode
involved an 11 year old orphaned girl, defiled overnight and dumped by the road
Case: VI : Two cases, first case, a child rapist gets 20 years Jail term in
Bungoma District, Kenya while in the second case, a man gets 32 years for
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raping a girl 12 years in Laikipia, Kenya and infecting her with an STD (DN, 5th
July 2007).
These afore mentioned cases and many more which may pass unreported
total travesty to the expected integrity and dignity of African culture. Interestingly,
inspite modernity and culture change and, another form of child abuse in
continuously being reported among several Kenya ethnic groups in the form of
within the Akamba culture as reported during research bbut it is being practised
standard three pupil was married off to a 45 year old man in West Pokot District.
The man had paid a bride price of 14 cows to the father to marry the 12 year old
girl (D.N, 10th Nov 2006). Intriguingly, the paper reported that about 10 men
whisked her to the groom who was waiting at a” manyatta”. Similarly, more than
300 pupils from a girls school in Kapenguria District, Kenya had staged a
demonstration protesting against the early marriage of five (5) girls from their
school who had been married off by their parents (D.N. 10th Nov 2006). Early
marriage is also reported among the Somali people of republic of Somaliland and
Garrisa, Kenya, where, a program officer with UNICEF avers,“ In one community,
I was told that huts for newly weds are situated 200 meters from the main house
because the grooms parents did not want to hear under age (already married)
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girls screams at night when her husband had sex with her. This is torture. I
know even the men here would not enjoy sex in such circumstances”. (D.N. 9th
May 2007:7). Further, in other parts of Africa, for instance parts of Zambia, girls
marry at the age of 10 years and it is not uncommon to find a girl aged 13 years
Child marriage has also been reported in some parts of Soth Asia (India
sexual interaction between adolescent boys and girls and adult community in
Machakos district was quite explicitin this study. Over eight percent of adolescent
boys and girls reported that their first sexual experience was as a result of force
(rape), inducement or manipulation while 17.1 percent adolescent boys and girls
had indicated to have had sex with elderly people (sugar Daddies & sugar
Mummies), prostitutes, house helps (maids) and also by people they could not
rapists, while other sexual predators were those under whom the adolescents
were under their custody namely teachers, drivers and family friends. Force, rape
and manipulated sex could be one of the culpable reasons to the early sex
indulgence by adolescent boys and girls, reported to be at 6.6 percent before age
ten years in Machakos district (Kenya) by the time of this study. Adolescents in
Machakos District also reported that many children both at home and school
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were suffering sexual abuse in the hands of their adult caretakers in silence.
Factors adduced for being silent included most sexual abuse being non-violent,
especially in the beginning thus ignorant about it. There is also feeling of shame
and guilt and lack of courage to expose abusers while others may not know
abuse by their own relatives. Further more, most young Akamba adolescents do
not know the exact Akamba word for rape thus just keep quiet. More Over some
parents connive with the abusers and get paid to keep quiet or just withdraw a
case.
According FGD’s held with both adolescents boys and girls, it is highly
perpetuated by boys and it mostly occurs when girls accompany or visit boys in
their cubes, in the bush or classroom. This finding is confirmed by studies done
in the United States of America which found out that acquaintance rape was an
found out that Men are the Main Culprits perpetuating rape as well as abuse
contends that Men commit 95 percent of all rapes in the globe. It is thus
important to question why men are major perpetrators and why rape is so
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pervasive in most global culture? First and foremost, the definition of what is
rape varies from culture to culture. For instance in Western cultures, forcing or
having sex with any acquaint (wife or girlfriend) against her consent can be
termed as rape while in most African Cultures, once in love or marriage, there is
nothing like rape (personal communication). The major plausible factor as to why
men are major perpetrators of rape is because of the way they are socialized.
aggressive, to regard females as inferior beings, and to view their own pleasure
enhances their sense of power control or masculinity they are angry at females
generally, they want to hurt their victims or revenge as well as desire to assert
one self.
certainly led to fighting between the families or clans concerned, and probably
with several deaths. If the act had aroused the indignation of the community, the
not yet past puberty, customary penalty was cleansing and fine payment through
out that rape was even considered to be a more serious crime in the traditional
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Akamba culture for it was believed that if somebody’s daughter was raped, all the
evils of the dead relatives would follow her. As a result of this belief, the
“Kingole”.
how the school and teachers engenders adolescent sexual behaviour, data
knowledge as subject matters in biology, social ethics and religious studies, but
covered in the syllabus, teachers are shy teaching the subject. Some teachers
just mention only well known points about the subject superficially, discourage
students not to have sex but do not cover well the nitty-gritty’s of sexuality. These
Teachers who participated in the FGOS during research confirmed that the time
alloated for a class session(40 minitues) could not allow them to cover sexuality
matters indepth. In adition, due to sensitivity and the taboo associated with sex
talk in the modern African cultures, teachers found themselves totally inhibited or
in awkward situations to discuss sex in class, some of whom are friends children,
relative or own.
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Paradoxically, as young people stay in schools longer, delay in securing a
career and also delay marriage, the more they are likely to engage in pre marital
sex (UN, 1989; WHO, 1989 a). Indeed, as the age at marriage increases, the
age of sexual debut remains the same. This means that there is a longer window
where young people are not in a stable relationship or marriage, increasing the
society, schools are not necessarily safe havens for girls as teachers and older
teacher cum student intimate affairs were quite prevalent but subtle. Moreover,
girls were reported to bein a position where they are subdued by teacher’s
position (fear and favours) into sex while others were known to have consensual
Kenyan Press and as well as from personal communication with several key
which are quire rampant, though discreet, while others are predicated on
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coercion, manipulation or favours, like the popular “Sex-for-Marks lecturers or
teachers”, affairs (E.A. Standard, 11th June 2007). The extent of teacher-student
sex / love relationships have succinctly been captured by the mass media in the
this particular case, a 29 year-old lady teacher at a Denver-area high school had
turned herself into authorities on a charge of having a sexual encounter with her
17-year-old student.
Case II: UK Deputy head teacher Jailed for an affair with a male student (D.N.
27th June, 2007). This case involved a male deputy heateacher in the UK who
had been jailed for a year for having an affair with a male student. The pupil was
15 years old. The boy intimated that their affair had started when he was 13
years old.
CaseIII: Four Kenyan teachers interdicted for gross misconduct (E.A. Standard,
6th July 2007). Four secondary school teachers from Taita Taveta District
Case IV: Rape:13 pupils give testimonies (DN 21st March 2007). Thirteen pupils
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Case V. Head teacher to face court over sex claim (D.N 19th Feb 2007). A
Case vI. Teachers caught sneaking pupils into lodging (E.A, Standard, 17th July,
two teachers who had allegedly taken their teenage pupils to a lodging in
Webuye town.
The above cases and many more not documented are embodiment of the
graving of the matter in the global society. The irony of a the sex scandals
between teachers and their students is that ideally teachers are meant to be the
role models of these young ones, guide and counsel them for a more productive
future life. Indeed such relations and illicit sex episodes between teachers and
their studentso exist naturally based on the position the teacher occupies in the
society.
that the time and syllabus did not actually allow them to cover sexuality matters
in depth. Moreover, due to the sensitivity and taboo associated with sex in
situations to discuss sex with the students some of them as young as their own
children.
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Moreover, extra curricular activities in schools are key events in Kenyan
andecoming behaviour. First and foremost, the way most are executed; that is,
timing, places of holding them as well as attirs involved and body postures are
ballgames and drama festivals. Indeed the attires worn during these school fetes
are quite scanty, exposing the nudity of participants. It is worse that most
National Competition as well as District and Provincial events are held during
weekends or holidays when the participants and non participants will attend the
fetes in home clothes. It is in such occasions when boys and girls meet their boy
alcohol, smoking, taking other drugs and substances and sex. Likewise, songs
festivals is also associated with teachers and other adults caught or signeders
On the other hand thechurch and its leaders play a significant role in
reciprocal influences. Studies generally have shown that adolescents who value
religion and who frequently attend religious services have less permissive
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attitudes toward premarital sex and are less experienced sexually. The principal
asceticism amongst followers. It has also been shown that adolescents who have
permissive attitudes towards pre marital sex tend to have reduced attendance at
activity. A 1987 survey of 1,438 teenage members of eight “born again” Christian
denominations showed that by the age 18, 43 percent had sexual intercourse
and 65 percent had participated in some form of sex play (intercourse or the
Christian faith. In spite of the fact that the Christian religion deplores fornication
towards sex indulgence before marriage. Indeed, over 90 percent of the sexually
This confirmed the sentiment that proclamation and observance into a religion
admonishing on sexual morality as per the teachings of the Bible but does not
teaching than scientific. This study concurred with Balmer (2001) who pointed out
that Christian religion dictates much by giving youth abstract ideas, suggestions
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and rules in matters touching sexuality without providing an alternative during this
has been proven beyond doubt that when sex education is introduced to the
young people from lower classes they develop awareness about their sexuality
and subsequently devise strategies for responsible sex life. Certainly, sex
education helps delay starting sexual activity while for those sexually
experienced become conscious of safety in their sex episodes. This study found
amongst the adolescents was compounded by the fact that the Christian Church
too, especially the Catholic Church fervently oppose the distribution and use of
that the contraceptives would be against the Biblical teachings,and would foster
immoral and hedonistic life styles and behaviour, and thus contribute to spread of
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infections amongst certain global societies, Uganda in Africa being a typical
it was important to put the morals or sexual standards of the clergy or laymen of
the church in perspective. This is because, just like teachers, the clergy
people. Their behaviour can ultimately have influence, into the behaviours of the
observation and personal communication, it emerged some clergy men run illicit
relations with members of their flock, some very young to be their children. This
Akamba people of Machokas district was reinforced by media reports from Kenya
For instance, from the United States of America, it was reported how
lawyers for more than 500 people who said they were sexually abused by Roman
/catholic clergy members had settled their lawsuits against the diocese of Los
Angels for 660 million dollars (Associated Press 2007). If approved, according to
the story, it was going to be by far the larges payout made by any single diocese
since the clergy sexual abuse scandals first became public in Boston, USA. In a
parallel report the catholic Diocese of Sandiego in the United States paid 198.1
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The agreement capped more than four years of negotiations in state and federal
of the catholic clergy have as well been adduced. A classic example was when a
been assisting catholic Nuns to procure abortions (E.A. standard 30th June 2007).
The Catholic Nuns and Priests by virtue of their calling are supposed to practise
indicators of moral degradation in the church. More cases of the clergy and
June, 2007). In this case, a Catholic Bishop revealed that one of his priests was
CaseII: Anglican priest charged with rape of form 2 girls (DN, 26th June,
2007). This case involved an Anglican church priest charged with rape in
Case III. Parents and pupils call for clergyman’s arrest (Saturday nation,
19th may, 2007). Parents and pupils marched in protest against a church leader
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Case IV: In Zimbabwe Catholic Archbishop resigns over Adultery
Roman Catholic Church tendered his resignation letter to the Pope over a case
filed in a Zimbabwea court. He is being charged for running a sexual affair with
the media and also through casual observation of their behavioural tendencies
will inevitably have a negative implication to the sexual behaviour of the young
people.
highly appreciated across all the divisions featuring in this study. The information
sexuality were popular among the adolescents for their sincerity and expediency.
They seemed to have filled the void created by the silence of parents, teachers
The only handicap noted, and especially after discussion with several
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Machakos District, some civic organizations, (NGO’s) flush with foreign funds,
conduct out reach programs in schools on sexuality, drugs, interalia, but the
of these facilitators who are almost age of adolescents or young adults end up
giving the impression that sex is just that –cool. In one educational session in
this school the facilitator from a local NGO emphasized on use of condom
without offering other alternatives to the adolescents on how to deal with sexual
urge. The Head teacher and his teachers remained aghast through out the
lecture session!!
backgrounds (Machakos district has 66 percent poverty rate) and, this was
relations or fall prey to economic inducements for sexual reciprocation. This was
further reinforced and ascertained from FGDs with the adolescents as well as
affects young peoples sexual behaviour negatively. The German Foundation for
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World Population (DSW) (2007) point out that not only do young people
exchange sex for money, goods or favour due to poverty but also engage in wide
range of risky behaviours. In addition to the fact that being from a poorer
it also::
sex.
• Increases the likelihood of having multiple sex partners (both young men
and women)
• Lowers the average age at first sexual experience for boys and girls.
condom use with their sexual partners (DSW, 2007) Machakos District which is
woed or hooked into sexual intercourse through favours especially transport lifts,
shopping and outings. Interestingly adolescents agreed that “nothing is for free”,
such that, any doled outr offered has to be paid back in kind, through sex.
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Such pattern of sexual exploitation due to poverty is equally reported in other
cultures. In South Africa, young people living in the street reported having
exchanged sex for money, goods and protection, and several indicated that they
Indonesia, reported that being forced to have sex was one of the greatest
problems that they faced continuously (Black & Farrington, 1997). In Brazil,
where it was estimated that 7 million young people lived on the streets, between
1.5 to 7.5 % of those tested for HIV were infected (Filgueiras, 1993). This was a
activity, rape and coercion as well as high prevalence of injecting drug use on the
1993).
The issue of “Sugar Daddy” as well as “Sugar Mummy” relationships did arise
technical visits in schools or picking and dropping especially girls in the pretext of
being “uncles”while sugar mummy and sugar boy relations exist, but remotely.
adolescents, most of the elderly moneyed men befriending adolescents girls are
well known friends to their parents or close relatives. Similar situation has been
reported in Tanzania where young girls report having older men or “mishefas”
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5.8 OTHER EXTERIOR FACTORS
district is poorly endowed in terms of social facilities. For instance, most games
playing fields were institutionally owned thus adolescents when not in school
were not allowed to participate in any form of games. The society was also not
well developed in terms of technological facilities, playing fields for other games
as well as other forms of social clubs which would otherwise have made the
adolescents busy. This leaves the adolescents preferably free and idle. Owing to
the fact that this transition phase (adolescence) is associated with a lot of energy
due to hormonal growth, failure to find outlets to vent off this inbuilt energy,
adolescents are likely to expend it into sexual activity. Hajcak and Garwood
(1988), point out that adolescents may have sex to alleviate a sense of loneliness
and idleness.
or “Ghat” were sexually experienced by the time of this study. This study agrees
with AGI (1994), who posit that in the early teenage years, those who frequently
smoke, drink and abuse drugs are more likely than others to have sex. Further,
for both adolescent men and women, there is a strong association between
alcohol use and having multiple sexual partners. Indeed, cases of school going
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adolescents being involved in drug taking and abuse were reported to be rampart
(sharing sex partner) occurs mostly when they are inrebriated Several cases had
even been captured in the press of adolescents arrested pertaking into alcohol in
urban restaurants. This finding is further corroborated by the National Agency for
reported to be on bhang, miraa and inhalants was 34.9%. 55.1% and 22.5%,
television of high school students (boys and girls) found drunk in a bar (KTM, 25 th
may 2007). This episode can certainly be replicated to others towns in kenya. It
has been reported that over 75% of indiscriminate sex, rape and defilement in
quite tantalizing for the lower adolescents in this study. Further, the condition of
ignorance and lay knowledge about sexuality could not be overemphasized. The
fact that some adolescents were quite naive to sexuality matters meant that they
could easily be manipulated onto sex by those in the “know how”. Sex was also
reported to boost one’s macho and the conquering ego amongst the boys. During
FGDs, it was reported how boys who have had sex or have a variety of girlfriends
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boast to the others. Having had sex was perceived as an aspect of “maturity” for
both boys and girls. Moreover, to prove love to each other (boy and girl) and also
sexual behaviours were the policemen and security agents First and foremost
some policemen within Machakos District were reported to have sexual relations
with school going adolescents. This was reported during FGD’s as well as
like rape and sexual abuse agents the adolescents, it emerged that police
officers and law enforcing connive with sex abuses or rapists to conceal or let
free those accused of sexual abuse. There were several cases in point, a classic
one being of an incestuous father, known to defile his girls in Machakos, Central
division, but whenever arrested he eventually gets set free. It was also alleged
that the wife to the man died because of physical abuse and violence from the
said brutal character. His daughter had by the time of this research been taken
in by maternal relatives.
culprits in sexual abuseof the young people have been reported across global
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(2007) on sexual abuse of young and underage girls some as young as 11 years
young women emerge from Iraq and Guantanamo prison in Cuba perpetrated by
found guilty by a military Jury for rape and murder in the slaying of a 14-year-old
Iraq girl and her family (TOI, 5th August 2007). In Kenya, several episodes have
also been captured were the police and other low enforcers have been implicated
27th April, 07). This case was captured in BuruBuru police station, Nairobi, where
a 15 year old girl accused of manslaughter had blamed a senior policeman for
CaseII: Dodgy council of elders (E.A. standard, 2nd may, 07). This case
involved asenior police officer attached to Nyamira District, Kenya ,who had been
pupil.
CaseIII: Uproar over police officer who raped pupil (DN, 16th Feb. )7).
Teachers and parents protested against policemen who defiled a 14 year old
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CaseIV: Chief released after denying rape charges (DN, 30th may,07).
This case involved a chief in Kuna district, Kenya charged with defiling a minor.
Case V: Chief sacked after rape of high school student (DN, 16th may,
2007). This was a case of a Nandi South District chief who raped a secondary
include the politicians and political class in Kenya. As observed, their silence,
inter alia (Akong’a, 1988; CDC, 2005; KDHS, 2003; Njau, 1993). These
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implications to the adolescents which could be categorized into physical (Health),
activity. This study confirmed that the above mentioned maladies were quite
amongst the adolescents and the society at large due to indiscriminate sexual
about the maladies accompanying indiscriminate sex in the district (owing to poor
record keeping) cases of teenage pregnancies and school dropouts, and early
This finding about school drop out and early marriages as a result of early
the World Bank report (2007), which points out that more than 54 percent of girls
in sub-Saharan Africa do not complete primary school and that the transition rate
to secondary school for those who complete is very low. This has led to only 79
females out of every 100 males in secondary school and universities according to
the World Bank report, achieving universal education by 2015. Kenya has a drop
out rate of 13000 – 17000 teenagers every year due to pregnancy (CSA, 2000),
while 20 percent of adolescents begin child bearing before 17 years, 30% by age
18, and 50% by age 19 years (CBS, 2002). The multiplier effect of this high level
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dropout to the society has been accelerated dependency rate, unplanned
In the global arena,the United States still continues to have the highest rates of
adolescent pregnancies and child bearing in the world. (AGI, 2003a & CDC
2001a). In the US, over one million teen pregnancies occur every year and
indeed, has been described as an epidemic in the past by Hayes (1987) and
Jorgensen (1993). U.S. adolescent pregnancy rates are similar to those of
Russia and Several other former east European countries such as Bulgaria,
nearly twice those of Canada and UK and at least four times the rates in France,
Sweden, Germany & Japan. (Santrack 2005). Reason why U.S. adolescent
pregnancy are higher than any country have been based on cross cultural
studies (AGI, 2002), and are as follows : Childbearing not regarded as adult
activity: European countries, as well as Canada give a strong consensus that childbearing
belongs in adulthood when young people have completed their education, are
employed,and are living independently from their parents in stable relationships. In the
United States, this belief is not strong and varies across groups and areas of the country.
No clear messages about sexual behaviour: Compared to Europe, American adults are
less accepting of adolescents having sex. In France and Sweden, for example, adolescent
sexual expression is viewed as normal and positive but there are widespread expectations
that sex will take place within a committed relationship. Indeed, U.S. adolescents tend to
have more sporadic and short-lived sexual relationships than their counterparts in
European countries. The expectation that adolescents who are having sex will take
precautions to protect themselves and their partners from pregnancy and sexually
transmitted infections is also stronger in Europe than in the United Sates. In keeping with
this view, schools in Great Britian, France, Sweden, and most of Canada have sex
education programs that provide more comprehensive information about prevention than
U.S. schools. In addition, these countries use the media more often in Government –
sponsored campaigns of promoting responsible sexual behaviour. The United States is
reported as the only country with formal policies directing state and federal funds toward
educational programs that have as their sole purpose the promotion of abstinence. More
than one-third (35 percent) of all local U.S. school districts that have policies on sex
education require that abstinence be taught as the only appropriate option for unmarried
individuals, and that co9ntraception either be presented as ineffective inn preventing
pregnancy or not be covered at all.
Less access to family planning services: In countries with a more accepting attitude
toward adolescent sexual relationships, adolescents have easier access not only to
information and contraception, but also to reproductive health services. For instance, in
Canada, France, Great Britian, and Sweden, contraceptive services are integrated into
other types of primary health care and are available free or at a low cost for adolescents.
Generally, adolescents in these countries know where to obtain such services and are
confident that they will receive competent, confidential, nonjudgemental care. In the
United States, where attitudes about adolescents have a more difficult time obtaining
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contraceptive services. Many do not have health insurance and cannot get contraceptives
as part of their basic health care (AGI,2002).
The situation in the United states were sex education mostly dwells on abstinence,
adult community has not fully accepted early adolescents sex involvement and
contraceptives are difficult to access for the young people is a total replica to the situation
in Machakos District, and Kenya as a whole. As a result, Kenya is equally experiencing
high level adolescent pregnancies in same way as U>S.
The intensity and propensity of school girl pregnancies and dropout in
Case I : Two primary school pupils gave birth during exams (Daily Nation, 10 th
Nov, 2006). In these two cases, first one, the teenager girl gave birth while
sitting her last paper in2006 Kenya Certificate of Primary Education (KCPE) in a
primary school, Kericho District. The candidate developed labour pains as she
wrote the paper forcing supervisors to delay the exam by more than 20 minutes.
In the second case, the Kenya Certificate of primary education school girl
candidate(2006 National exam) gave birth while sitting the science paper. The
17 year old girl had to do the rest of the examination at the Kencho District
Hospital, Kenya.
2006). In this case, the Keiyo District commissioner ( D.C) had ordered
education officials to investigate how 18 girls in four primary schoold had become
pregnant. There were claims that three of the primary pupils and a secondary
school girl in one location were forced into sex by their parents who were
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Case III : Police holding boy, 16 over pregnant of 9 minor (Sunday Nation, April
8th, 2007). In this case, in Hola District, Kenya a 16 year old boy had been
arrested for making his standard four girlfriend pregnant. The 13 year old girl’s
father said he was angry that his efforts to educate his daughter had been
(E.A. Standard, January 9th, 2007). In this case, the Health Minister, , Kenya had
come face to face with the realities of grim poverty that was fueling teenage
pregnancies. This was at Kilifi District, Kenya, where she met a group of young
mothers, among them a 15 year old mother of two. The young mother had given
birth to her first born, four years, at the age of 11 while in Lower Primary school.
The girl said she was first raped by a person known to her. A few years later,
she said, a boy promised to marry her but took off after impregnating her.
Another young mother had been married to an 18 year old man, who was her
The agonising aspect about adolescent pregnancies and drop out is that the girls
may not get another chance to continue with education, and those who manage
face hostility and alieriation for being “Mothers” among babies. Further more, the
Kenyan society has very few institutions (informal and formal) which
accommodate such victims, while the existing ones like the village polytechnics
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Abortion and early maternal deaths were reported in Machakos District,
but actual figures were also missing due to the secretive and obscurity nature in
(2000) that estimate about 316,500 abortions occur is in the Country annually
and an estimated 20,893 women in Kenya are hospitalised with abortion related
complications. The report further suggest that about one percent of the women
admitted to Kenyan public hospitals die from abortion related complications. This
report is in addition augmented by the WHO (2007) which estimated that unsafe
abortions kill about 70,000 women annually around the world. In Africa, for
abortions are performed each year and many of those suffer mortally, or serious
abortions in Africa are under the age of 25. In Kenya, the incidence of unsafe
Rogo etal. (1999), the high rate of cases among this group is out of proportion to
District, Nyanza Province, Kenya, found that 80% of all unsafe abortion cases
occur among women below 20 years of age leading to high mortality and
morbidity rates within the age group (Rogo etal. 2003); while according to
Pregnancy Crisis Ministries in Kenya (an organisation that works with pregnant
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adolescents) girls as young as 15 years have been procuring abortions from both
2004).
The aforementioned reports are in agreement with the findings among the
well as key opinion leaders estimated that over 75 percent of unsafe abortions
occur among school & college going adolescent girls as well as young adults.
Most abortions occur during school holidays, with the peak period in April of
every year. In a personal account by a male parent in Machakos town who had
lost his daughter as she was attempting to procure an abortion, illustrates the
extend of the malady. According to this parent, the daughter, 17 years old had
had mixed “Kiluma” Alore vera, with “Muvangi” a local weed, JIK (a fabric bleach)
and Malaria tablets. The combination indeed turned toxic thus she ended up by
This was one case among many as confirmed later since cases of dead mothers,
District. It was also narrated how girls through back street doctors use knitting
turns out to be fatal or interfere with their long term reproductive as well as
general health.
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Illegal abortions also appear to be common in other parts of the world,
especially India and China where female foeticide is quite prevalent due to boy
child preference (TOI, 16th July 2007). In India for instance, Government
functionaries have had to sound the alarm of plummeting sex ratio in the country
caused by female infanticides and female foeticide deliberately carried out by the
victims and medical doctors. According to one report 10 million female foetuses
may have been aborted in India over the past 20 years (E.A. Standard, 18 th June
07). The Delhi Minister for Education in 2007, pointed out that, “People kill the
female foetuses because they fear that they may have to spend huge amounts
on dowry” while the Ministry of Health and Family Welfare along with centre for
female faeticide(TOI,16th July 2007). It is reported that in 2001 census, the sex
ratio in India stood at 927 girls per 1000 boys. The following media headlines
have exemplified the intensity of the Malaise in some parts of India: “25 foetuses
TOI). The physical, economic & social cost of this practice is quite immense.
school going adolescents in all divisions while the number of orphaned children
Machakos district but the Kenyan Society at large. HIV/AIDS infects and affects
the most productive age category; that is 15-49. The cost of maintaining and
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sustaining the infected and affected in Machakos District as well as other parts of
people living with HIV/AIDS with Kenya having over 2.2. million while a majority
do not know their status (WHO, 2007). According to CSA (2004), 90% of young
women & 93% of men in age 15 – 19 have never tested for HIV. In Kenya and
themselves for HIV testing in the year 2005. Several factors have been adduced
for the low visitations to VCT centres for HIV testing including lack of information,
confidentially, and stringent laws that require parental consent for testing (CSA,
2004).
as in other parts of the world where AIDS is prevalent and management poor is
orphaned children. Globally, more than 13 million children under 15 years of age
have lost one or both parents to AIDS; 11 million of them are from sub-Saharan
Africa (Kotts, 2003). Kenya has over 650,000 children orphaned due to
noted in Machakos District, must orphaned children faced neglect, shama and
rejection, faced malnutrition, left school to take care of young siblings or simply
get abuse sexually and in labour market. Three cases identified in Machakos
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Case 1 : Case of three orphaned children in Kattiani Division. The parents died
fend for the children. The first born (boy) in standard seven had to relinguish his
learning status to do menial jobs in the village to his young sister standard five
and a last born, 2 years boy who was apparently HIV positive. During the time of
any research, the young boy was accompanying the sister to school, who would
come out of class occasionally to “Mother” the young boy. As narrated by the
H/teacher of the school, they had allowed the girl to come with her young brother
for they understood the situation. The school had also taken the responsibility of
feeding the small boy (lunch time only). The sister (standard five) would
occasionally miss school when the boy fell sick, or when going to pick anti-
retroviral drugs for him. Her performance in school had drastically dropped,
while the elder brother who had dropped out of school was foiling day and night
Case TWO : Case in Central Division, Machakos District. The boy was fully
orphaned when the form three (17 years), happened to be the only child. The
father, who apparently had remained for a while when the wife died had his name
some distance from his parents, when he passed away, the boy was left alone,
though with some little investment. Fascinatingly, the only persons who would
have taken the boy into his custody (Grand father with a step grand mother
aspired to grab the wealth their son had left behind by isolating the beneficiary
(boy). Sensing eminent threat the boy had gone to find refuge in the name of the
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Case 3 : Case of a 14 year old girl, Machakos town, the first been of five
children. They were orphaned when she has 12 years and had to leave school
while the other siblings remained in the village with their grandmother. She
would sent money home to the grandmother to purchase basics for the other
siblings, alfeit the pay was quite erratic. The mamach (head or the household)
started physically abusing her while a young male relative to the lady started
abusing her sexually. She overtime decided to run away, and only safe haven
was the streets of Machakos town. Now 14 years by the time, met her, she
narrated how she had slept in the pavements, had been sexually abused but had
now graduated into prostitution, at least to survive and feed her young siblings
home. Apparently she had aborted once and had already been treated for an
The above case studies epitomize the horrendous and unfamiliar conditions
which children get subjected to when parents pass out. It is also quite
conditions, the multiplier effects of such conditions as well as long term effects
could be very disastrous not only to the lives of these orphaned children but the
Nation at large.
On the other hand, one major degenerative effects of high level adolescent
pregnancies, school drop out, orphaned cases and hence poverty in Machokas
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district as well as other societies has been prostitution and commercial sex by
the young people, mostly girls. In the major urban centres of Machakos district,
over 75% of the noted prositutes were young women between age 15-25.
even minors get involved. In Kenya, a new kind of prostitution has emerged in
the form of child sex tourism or child sex trade. Although Child sex trade can be
categorised under the global malady of paedophile, they differ in that while
desire to peddle sex using children to satisfy basic needs. In the Sub -sahara
Africa and South Asia where poverty levels are very high, child sex trade , has
opened room for paedophile and more so, since existing socio-economic & legal
structures may aggravate the situation (UNICEF, 2006). Indeed, much of child
sex trade in the Door Nations perpetrated by foreign tourists especially from
Europe according to the report because of the strict laws in their home countries
In Kenya for instance, UNICEF (2006). Point out that there are over 30,000
child sex workers although it is difficult to come with exact figures since child
exploitation of children in Kenya has reached very high levels with up to 30% of
young girls in some districts especially Kenyan coast engaging the sex trade,
which is mostly tourism related. Forty five (45% of girls in the survey reported to
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have begin selling sex for cash, goods or favours at tender age of 12 or below,
involved in sex work and is initiated before reaching puberty (unicef, 2006). Of
the men who engage in sex for cash with children in Kenya as per the report,
38% were Kenyans while Italians comprised 18%, Germans 14%, Swiss 12%
while the rest was shared out between tourists from other parts of the world.
Two momentous cases of child sex trade as reported in the press illustrate the
situation in Kenya:
In the first case, in April, 2005, an American National (50 years) and a
convicted paedophile was jailed for 25 years by an Oregon Court in the US for
whom he had married earlier (Dn, 8 th March, 2006). In the second case, reported
in Dn, 3rd May, 2006, a mother used to force his daughter s to have sex with men
for cash. The two girls, aged 8 and 10 years had escaped from their Thika
District home and told the Nation of their harrowing experiences at the hands of
drunken men who were also their mothers clients, all this ** out a living!!
These cases and many others indicate failure in the part of the society and
law enforces to provide protection to children and to deal appropriately with child
offence under Kenya’s Penal Code, there is extremely high level of involvement,
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silence and a more or less acceptance of children getting involved in commercial
sex. After all, it is the adult who constitute the clientele. It is important to note
that the involvement into sexual intercourse of underage girls and mature men
may result to severe physical, social and emotional complications. Indeed, their
bodies are not well developed to endure sex with mature men thus, may terribly
lead to raptures and tear, which consequently has severe multiplier effects to
their future life. Chances of such children becoming abusers of others in the
future as well falling into hard drugs and being infected with STDs/Hiv are quite
phenomenal.
sex indulgences were felt across the district and quite innumerable.
It is quite evident from the study that the contemporary Akamba adolescents
adolescents. Their cultural manifestation is also equally distinct from the adult
generation ( apart from a few suffering from cultural regression,) while the young
culture is a total replica of the western cultural lifestyle and in tune with an
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observed global adolescent culture (universal and pervasive) indeed an
rituals & customs, language and other lite capabilities). On the other hand in
western culture, which had become very pervasive in the contemporary Akamba
language, religion and values ideally identified with western nations (North
Akamba adolescent has been gradually accultured towards the western lifestyle
the mass media goods ( clothes, technology, food) as well as Modern education,
from region to region with urban adolescents being more susceptible to adopting
western cultural patterns compared to rural adolescents, though the former also
appears to catch up with their urban counterparts, gradually. The rural areas are
customary practices but the rural adolescents in machakos district just like in
many parts of Kenya appear to ape their urban counterparts, and they are
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couscious to change in line with the urban mode. Mind you, the rural and urban
adolescents meet in boarding schools and market centres, the urban adolescents
visit rural comes with their parents during holidays and appear to appeal to their
counterparts in their life styles, rural adolescents watch western movies in the
adolescents visit relatives in urban centres while the desire to appear “modern” is
western oriented, which distinguish them as a socially defined age set. Indeed,
they have the trappings of the western culture which is identified in music and
dance, clothes and hairstyles, languages, body posture and aesthetics as well as
Popular western music (hip-hop rap rock and reggae) which also ostensibly
appeal most to the modern Akamba adolescents. The modern music equally
appeals to their wishes, values, fantasies and attitudes for it deals with love and
sex, violence, freedom and hedonism. Moreover, most music boosts male
adolescent girls. It is in a myriad of words and lyrics in these songs which depict
the males as “sex studs” and the female as “sex objects” – and this is also
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typified in the dancing styles. Many wonder why in most songs and dance styles
in the mass media and movies, the man is well clothed while the woman is semi-
nude!! Such music and dance are not devoid among Akamba adolescents, in
and out of school-and their influence towards sexual behaviour quite immense.
attires, body postures and hairstyles during holidays and Sundays, suffice.
centres than rural, some so low enough to show underwears or bear buttocks!
This behaviour is common for boys and girls, with boys more oriented than girls
has ir origin in the United Statesin the 1990’s. It is a fashion started in the US
prisons and spread through the US cities and among young pop musicians. It
has been banned in Louisiana city and the proposal to ban saggy pants are
starting to ride up in many US places (AP, September,2007). While jail term for
it is gaining root. Girls will appear in very tight trousers and simply skirts as well
as “see through “tops. This is common in both rural and urban centres.
pastimes. In Machakos District urban centres, the craze and fixation for
European football is quite overt with little concern for local football tournaments.
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European football players and clubs but demonstrate total ignorance to any local
Kenyan football player or club. All traditional adolescent Akamba games namely
hunting, riddles, hide and seek, swimming and many others have paved way to
more so, money. This has made modern Akamba adolescents resort to deceit,
peddling drugs prostitution and petty crime, simply to be in tune with these socio-
cultural dynamics.
strong evidence of a steady and consistent shift toward more permissive sexual
expression. The western culture now quite embedded to Akamba culture tends
eloping, rape, aberrant sexual liaisons, prostitution and early and indiscriminate
sexual liaisons are quite rampant among the contemporary Akamba adolescents.
the United States in the 1960’s. In a similar version as to the “flower children” of
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level of repercurssions associated with irresponsible sexual liaisons. As
unwise pregnancies, school drop out, STD’s/HIV/AIDS among the youth. The
exhibit a “don’t care” attitude while lack of parental and community control fuels
including parents felt that adolescents make decisions quite mechanically, with
some decisions having severe ramifications not only to the adolescents but the
purpoted Lover, without informing parents for a long time then reappear without
remorse or anxiety are common. Cases of girls involved in this trend especially
during school holidays or when they finish standard eight or form four are quite
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The contemporary Akamba adolescent is as well largely oriented toward one
culture, young people were more in contact with the adult community. They
learned their roles and responsibilities through working along side parents or
adults for much of the day (boys with their fathers’ and grandfathers’ and uncles
knew they were judged and assessed as adapted members of the Akamba
community they would be in the future. In this way, adolescence was not the
self contained stage that it has become today and a great many adolescents
have infrequent contacts with adults outside the household except for a few
authority figures like teachers, and church leaders. Involvement with adult
modern adolescents are out of sight and out of mind much of time. This leaves
them at the mercy of fellow peers who blatantly misadvise and influence each
and exchanging items and ideas is the norm. Incidentally, if not with peers, the
intimated how his son could spent a whole day alone lying in his bed, listening to
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music or watching movies. Laison (1990) posited two reasons for adolescent
solitude behaviour. First, is the need for adolescents to take breaks from new
conscious of the effect they have on those around them. Adolescents report
feeling much less self-conscious and much more like their true selves when they
are alone. The second reason, drawn from Erikson (1968) is the desire for
solitude to question and develop personal identity. This implies that there is a
need for private reflection. That implication, however, is called into question
music to pass time, to relieve boredom, tension and loneliness (Christenson &
The adolescence period among the Akamba people has been elongated due
many adolescents are not making serious preparations for marriage. They thus
take recourse into what one adolescent boy during FGDs referred to, “
highschool husbands and wifes”, implying romantic and sexual partners for
“Hollywood romance” are quite public and overt, unlike the traditional periods.
African culture were never open or overt in nature. The situation now is quite
antithetical.
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Kenya in the same way as other developing nationsis undergoing social,
political, economic and cultural changes. All these changes are occurring
All in all, the new Akamba adolescent culture can be technically classified into
both Subculture and Counter culture. It is a subculture in that it coexists with the
main Akamba way of life, accepted and adapting as a distinct culture. Cultural
schooling, watching movies, music, dance, “sheng or slang” language are getting
co-opted into the overall culture. Other cultural patterns can be said to be
counter culture for they run contrary to the overall Akamba cultural expectations.
Such cultural expressions among the adolescents are perceived as revolt and
rebelling against the adult community norms and values surrounding the Akamba
Kyanguli secondary school, Machakos District (26th March 2001), 68 boys died in
in St.Kizito girls school in Meru District, Kenya, in the 1990’s as they scampered
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and trampled on each other running away from mass rape by their nearby
artistically or intellectually lives and acts with disregard for conventional rules of
behaviour. Such characters are as well not missing within Akamba adolescent
culture. In the recent times, behaviours have emerged of young people who
keep long and unkempt hairs, some never bath nor take showers while others
especially boys have earings in both ears or one, quite uncommon in traditional
Akamba culture. Traditional Akamba men and women pierced their ears and
wore slings, but these had been sanctioned by the Akamba traditions unlike
today where young people put on rings in their ears, aping western celebrities
and do not understand the symbolic meaning of such a ring. In addition, some
Akamba culture.
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