Jewish Standard, October 26, 2018
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U.S., Israel stamp together for Chanukah
● Israel Post and the U.S. Postal Service of letters and packages, throughout Amer-
have issued a joint stamp for Chanukah. ica and around the world.”
The stamp also is meant to celebrate The stamp art features a Chanukah
70 years since the establishment of menorah created using the technique of
diplomatic relations between Israel and papercutting, a Jewish folk art, by art-
the United States, Israel Post said in a ist Tamar Fishman. Behind the menorah
statement. is a shape that resembles an ancient oil
The new stamp design was launched jug. It represents the miracle of the oil
simultaneously in the Touro Synagogue that burned in the candelabra in the Holy
in Newport, Rhode Island, the oldest Temple in Jerusalem from the time it was
recaptured until the next oil delivery ar-
PAGE 6: Seven seniors
synagogue in the United States, and at
the American Center in Jerusalem. rived. Additional design elements include from the Jewish Home
“Today’s joint stamp issue is a symbol dreidels and a pomegranate plant with
of the shared values and the cultural af- fruit and flowers. in Rockleigh explore Israel
finity between the United States and Israel,” U.S. Am- The stamp is being issued in the United States as a
bassador to Israel David Friedman said at the Jerusa- Forever stamp, which will always be equal in value to NOSHES ..................................................................... 4
lem ceremony. the current first class mail one-ounce price. It will sell in BRIEFLY LOCAL ..................................................... 12
Postal Service Judicial Officer Gary Shapiro said in Israel for 8.30 shekels, the cost of a regular first-class ROCKLAND ............................................................. 15
Rhode Island: “Starting today, this work of art celebrat- stamp. Chanukah begins at sundown on Dec. 2. COVER STORY ........................................................18
ing the Jewish Festival of Lights will travel on millions JTA WIRE SERVICE JEWISH WORLD ................................................... 25
OPINION .................................................................. 38
THE FRAZZLED HOUSEWIFE ..........................44
CROSSWORD PUZZLE .......................................44
CALENDAR .............................................................45
OBITUARIES ...........................................................49
CLASSIFIEDS .........................................................50
TICKET “Mid90s” film, they said, often has steamy six-episode BBC
TICK
ET marks the a slick, superficial feel. series that began stream-
directing Quite a few, however, ing on Netflix on Octo-
debut of praised Chalamet, includ- ber 19. Joy, a therapist
JONAH HILL, 34, and he ing the Chicago Tribune (Toni Collette), and Alan,
also wrote the film. While reviewer: “Chalamet’s a teacher, find that their
it is billed as a comedy/ terrific throughout, ac- marriage is in a rut, sexu-
drama, the reviews I’ve cessing and deploying ally and otherwise, and
read describe it as a every kind of emotion in consider openly seeing
pretty gritty film with unpredictable combina- other people. British ac-
just a chuckle now and tions. It’s an ideal follow- tress SOPHIE OKONEDO,
again. It follows Stevie, a up for him, coming after 50, plays Angela, Joy’s
13-year-old with a tough his Oscar-nominated turn therapist. Okonedo, who
home life — his working- in the languidly beautiful Jonah Hill Timothée Chalamet Josh Rosen was Oscar nominated
class mother has a romance ‘Call Me By for her performance in
parade of guys coming Your Name.’” “Hotel Rwanda” (2004),
through, and his much was raised Jewish by her
older brother beats him The Tribe white Jewish mother. Her
up. Stevie finds an on the gridiron father is Nigerian. She
alternate family among a TICKET
Here are the told a British TV sta-
TICK
group of rowdy new ET Jewish tion: “I feel as proud to
friends who hang out at players on be Jewish as I feel to
a local skate shop and an NFL be black.”
often get into trouble. roster as of October 15: “Tell Me a Story” be-
Likewise, “Beauti- NATE EBNER, 29, gins streaming on CBS
ful Boy” isn’t exactly a defensive back, New All-Access on October 31.
Disney film. It’s based England; ALI MARPET, Its publicity release says:
on memoirs by journalist 25, center, Tampa Bay; “Set in modern day New
DAVID SHEFF, 62, and MITCHELL SCHWARTZ, Sophie Okonedo James Wolk Alex Karpovsky York…the world’s most
his son NIC, 36, about 29, offensive tackle, beloved fairy tales are re-
Nic’s battle with meth Kansas City; MICHAEL has a real affection for that was written and boundaries? (Reviews of imagined as a dark and
addiction. Nic was raised DUNN, 22, linebacker, his Jewish roots. How- directed by NADAV this remake are almost twisted psychological
by his father and step- Jacksonville (practice ever, I don’t count him as LAPID, 43. In this all positive). thriller.” The handsome
mother in an affluent San squad); ANTHONY Jewish for the purpose remake, MAGGIE A 30-minute docu- JAMES WOLK, 33 (“Mad
Francisco suburb. He FIRKSER, 22, tight end, of this column. I leave it GYLLENHAAL, 40, stars mentary, “Long Shot,” Men”), is a series regular.
was a golden boy (wrote, Tennessee; and JOSH you to decide how you as Lisa, the teacher. Lisa streaming on Netflix, tells “Homecoming,” based
painted, surfed) until ROSEN, 21, quarterback, count him. is bored with her work the true but unlikely sto- on a well-received fic-
he got hooked. The film Arizona. Rosen, a rookie, and her family life isn’t ry of how evidence was tional podcast of the
focuses on the efforts of began starting with his More TV/streaming fulfilling. Then a boy in found that validated the same name, starts on
his parents (including his team’s fourth game. catch-ups and her class spouts a alibi of an innocent man November 2 on Netflix.
mother) to understand What about Julian premieres brilliant short poem, accused of murder. With- Heidi Bergman (Julia
why he got addicted and Edelman, the star New The original seemingly out of the air. out spoiling things, let Roberts) is a caseworker
TICKET
TICK
why he backslid after England receiver? Well, ET film “The Lisa is convinced he is a me just say that come- assigned to a young
several rehab stays. in common parlance, he Kindergarten genius and actively dian LARRY DAVID, 71, veteran at a secret gov-
Steve Carell plays David is one-eighth Jewish (a Teacher” is mentors him. But is she improbably had a hand ernment facility. ALEX
and TIMOTHÉE CHAL- Jewish great-grandfa- now streaming on doing it only to make in this. David is charming KARPOVSKY (“Girls”),
AMET, 22, plays Nic. Most ther) and he was raised Netflix. It is based on the herself feel special? Is and funny in his inter- 43, a series regular, plays
critics noted that many Christian. Yes, he’s a critically acclaimed Israeli she crossing the appro- view segments. Craig, another employee
scenes are good, but the friend of Israel and he film of the same name priate teacher-student “Wanderlust” is a at the facility. –N.B.
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The group from Jewish Home Family facilities tours the Roman ruins at Beit She’an.
It’s never
too late
Seven seniors
from the Jewish Home
in Rockleigh explore Israel
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN
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xploring Israel’s iconic tourist sites requires rigor-
ous footwork, what with the uneven cobblestones
and stone stairways of Jerusalem’s Old City, the
rocky-sandy beaches of the Dead, Med, and Gali-
lee seas, the cliffs of Masada, and the archaeological ruins of Jewish Home mission participants float in the Dead Sea.
Beit She’an and Caesarea.
Exploring these and many other areas with the aid of a “We walked her down and into the water and then our ever One of the group’s stops that day had been the Shrine
wheelchair or walker is dauntingly difficult. resourceful director of nursing, Eric Riguerra, found a way to of the Book on the campus of the Israel Museum in Jerusa-
But a combination of meticulous logistical planning and use a plastic chair to help position her. Many hands helped tip lem. The building, which houses the oldest extant biblical
a can-do attitude ensured that seven travelers from Jewish her back into the water and then the chair was removed and manuscripts discovered in caves in the Judean Desert, has
Home Family facilities — two from the Jewish Home at Rock- she was floating. Words cannot come close to describing how a unique white dome evoking the lid of the clay jar in which
leigh and five from the Jewish Home Assisted Living Kaplen thrilled she was and how free she felt.” the first scrolls were found.
Senior Residences in River Vale, ranging from 68 to 87 years Talking to the Jewish Standard over dinner at Jerusalem’s “I was so excited about seeing the Dead Sea Scrolls that I
old — were able to participate fully in a 10-day Israel mission Orient Hotel, participants reported that the excitement didn’t even realize the building is in the shape of an urn until
whose itinerary rivaled that of a young-adult Birthright group. began even before taking off on October 9. our guide pointed it out,” Deborah Shrier said. She and her
This was the second such mission undertaken in the past Retired attorney Allan Horowitz said his heart swelled husband, Jerry, had been to Israel most recently 24 years ago.
three years at the initiative of Carol Silver Elliott, the presi- with pride upon seeing the Star of David on the El Al plane “The people are great and we’re getting an education,”
dent and chief executive officer of Jewish Home Family since at Newark Airport. “You cannot be anything but emotion- Eugene Landsman added. “It’s a beautiful country and the
November 2014. In her daily trip blog, Ms. Elliott related how ally impressed by everything,” said Mr. Horowitz. “I was not guide’s been very informative.”
the residents and their personal companions from the Jewish brought up religious but I can understand why people want The guide they referred to was Yaacov Sivek, a spry
Home staff gracefully conquered each challenge. to move here because they’re participating in something 77-year-old who specializes in guiding Jewish elders and also
“One of our resident travelers has much difficulty walking,” that’s living and growing. And being in Israel really enhances led the Jewish Home’s first mission in 2015.
she reported in her entry about the group’s Dead Sea visit. your sense of oneness with the Jewish people.” Mr. Sivek traveled with the group as far north as Metulla at
the Lebanese border and as far south as the Dead Sea. I planted my tree in honor of my mother. Putting my fingers
Among the more unusual places on the jam-packed itin- into the soil, I felt like I was bringing her on a spiritual jour-
erary were Kishorit, a cooperative farm and winery in the ney with me.”
Galilee employing resident special-needs adults; Yvel, a fine- Ms. Couliboly’s traveling companion, Barbara Levy, cel-
jewelry design house that runs a social enterprise where Ethi- ebrated her birthday during the mission. The two women
opian immigrants craft a line of contemporary jewelry based were not acquainted until they were paired for the trip.
on their traditional styles; and Yad LaKashish (Lifeline for the “We had a couple of meetings so we’d get oriented to one
Elderly), where Jerusalem seniors — many of them immigrants another, and we bonded prior to our first day in Israel,” Ms.
from the countries of the former Soviet Union — handcraft Couliboly said. “Barbara said to me on her birthday that now
Judaica items sold in an adjacent gift shop and online. we’re more than just friends, and every year we need to do
Jerusalem’s Western Wall — the Kotel — always is a spe- something to celebrate the moment we’re sharing today.”
cial highlight of a trip to Israel. The revered structure is a The seven residents on the mission had applied voluntarily
segment of an ancient retaining wall of the Second Temple and had to meet certain medical qualification requirements.
compound built by Herod the Great. It’s customary to place Those unable to pay their own way received assistance from
handwritten prayers into the cracks between its stones. A member of the Jewish Home mission puts a note the Jewish Home Foundation.
Ms. Silver arranged for Kotel replicas to be erected at the in a crack in the Western Wall. “When we came three years ago we weren’t sure what to
Rockleigh and River Vale campuses before the trip so that expect in taking the seniors,” the Jewish Home Foundation’s
residents and staff could tuck in notes, which were collected or not, seemed just as emotional about the experience as executive director, Melanie Cohen, said. “It’s very rewarding
and brought to the real site. were the seniors. to see Israel through their eyes, especially those for whom this
“The Western Wall was very emotional for me and for the Tracey Couliboly, the director of recreation at the Jewish was a bucket-list item their entire lives, and for one reason or
residents,” Julie Cochrane, the director of recreation at Jew- Home at Rockleigh, said she has worked in Jewish elder facil- another they didn’t make it. Now we’re making it possible for
ish Home Assisted Living, said. ities for 29 years. “I think the most rewarding thing I could them and it’s totally enjoyable for us as well.”
Ms. Cochrane had a typical Israeli small-world experience have done for myself and my residents was to go on this Board member Maggie Kaplen and her son and daughter-
when the group was touring the Golan Heights. They went to mission with them because I feel like they actually raised me in-law from Thailand also came along, and they helped par-
Mount Bental, an inactive volcano that became an Israel sur- into the person that I am today,” she said. ticipants with mobility issues, as did Ms. Cohen’s and Ms.
veillance position after 1967. There, they ran into Israeli troops Ms. Couliboly, who is Christian, related a moving experi- Elliott’s husbands.
hailing from 18 different countries. It turned out that one sol- ence that happened at Neot Kedumim Biblical Nature Reserve. Ms. Cohen said the Jewish Home has shared its Israel Mis-
dier was from Washington Township, and he graduated from “Three years go my mother passed away, and she always sion itinerary and professional contacts with other Jewish
high school last year with Ms. Cochrane’s nephew. told me to live life to the fullest,” she said. “One of the first elder-care facilities considering such a trip. “It is challeng-
The Jewish Home employees on the trip, whether Jewish things we did when we got to Israel was planting trees. And ing, but if you staff properly you just do it,” she said.
change.
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At the upcoming FEDTalk, Ms. Darshan-Leitner — the You just need one. And because it’s not secret where the
o, it’s not a typo. The Jewish Federation of mother of six children, including two pairs of twins — will terrorist leaders are — either in Gaza or sitting in a jail —
Northern New Jersey has introduced FED- speak about her book “Harpoon: Inside the Covert War it’s possible to serve at least one of them.
Talks, featuring speakers who are experts in Against Terrorism’s Money Masters,” co-written with Sam- Of course, she added, “Not everybody shows up in
their fields. And if the more well-known TED- uel M. Katz. court. Hamas, Hezbollah don’t show up. The PLO does
Talks cover a wider range of topics, the JFNNJ series tar- The book details the efforts of a Mossad task force to fol- show up. In any case, when you can convince the court
gets issues of vital importance to the Jewish community. low the money, stopping the flow of cash that nourishes that they have the authority to hear the case, then even
FedTalks:Israel is even more specific, and terror networks. Ms. Darshan-Leitner said if they don’t show up, you can collect.” She pointed to
self-explanatory, though the possibilities for she was recruited by Mossad to participate laws in the United States enabling American victims to
topics and points of view are vast. On Octo- in “lawfare,” in which private law firms sue file suit if a family member is killed or injured abroad
ber 29, Israeli attorney and human rights banks, individuals, and organizations on as long as the defendant is either present in the United
activist Nitsana Darshan-Leitner will offer behalf of victims of terror. So far, her firm — States or has done something here — “if you can estab-
one approach to combating terrorism. In she has six attorneys — has won more than lish some connection,” Ms. Darshan-Leitner said.
a talk called “Bankrupting Terrorism…One $2 billion in judgments on behalf of these She also can sue on behalf of her own organization,
Lawsuit at a Time,” Ms. Darshan-Leitner — victims. Collecting the money is another which is an NGO and has the right to go to the Interna-
the founder of the Tel-Aviv based Shurat matter, she said, although she has been able tional Criminal Court to demand that a trial be opened for
HaDin, the Israel Law Center — will describe to distribute some $300 million to terror war crimes. For example, she has undertaken a lawsuit
the work of her group, which has fought ter- victims. against the Hamas leadership, representing Israeli farmers
rorist groups successfully in court. Her work with these victims is a natural whose fields have been burned by Gazan rioters. The law-
Indeed, says the group’s website, Shu- Nitsana Darshan-Leitner suit specifically targets Hamas military wing leader Yahya
outgrowth of her previous legal efforts. “I
rat HaDin is using court systems around the world to go always wanted to help people,” she said, citing several Sinwar and political leader Ismail Haniyeh.
on the legal offensive against Israel’s enemies. The orga- past cases — for example, she represented a belly dancer
nization works with Western intelligence agencies, law raped by an Egyptian ambassador, and she has taken on a Who: Israeli attorney and human rights activist Nitsana
enforcement, and a network of volunteer lawyers across medical forensic institution for misconduct. “I was always Darshan-Leitner
the globe to file legal actions on behalf of terror victims. involved with cases on behalf of all sorts of victims. When What: Will deliver a FEDTalk on “Bankrupting
According to Ariella Noveck, the chair of the federa- the intifada broke out, I couldn’t sit idly by, so I tried to Terrorists… One Lawsuit at a Time”
tion’s community relations committee, who is organiz- represent victims of terror. No one sued the PLO at that When: On Oct. 29 at 7:30 p.m.
ing the coming FEDTalk, Ms. Darshan-Leitner “has been time. We took a chance and went to court.” Where: Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey,
leading the legal fight against terror financing, the anti- In the beginning, “Everyone thought it was insane. 50 Eisenhower Drive, Paramus
Israel boycott campaigns (BDS), and combating the mul- How can you sue? What’s the point? Where can you
Reservations: jfnnj.org/fedtalks
titude of lawfare tactics utilized against the Jewish State locate them? How can you collect?
Cost: $10
by its enemies.” “We believed we could win, but to do that was quite
In a telephone interview, Ms. Darshan-Leitner said she amazing. We knew we could prove it in court” — but they For more information: Email Ariella Noveck at
created Shurat HaDin in 2002. “After two years, we started needed the court to buy into it. The “trick,” she said, [email protected] or call her at (201) 820-3946.
winning cases,” she said. Her firm assisted in blocking the was in depicting her opponents not as a company but as And also: Shurat HaDin’s Rachel Weiser will talk about
Gaza flotilla and terminated efforts to indict IDF soldiers for a partnership. “You can serve any one of the partners,” the organization’s work on Wednesday, October 31, at
war crimes. Not surprisingly, its founder has been named she said; there is a legal difference between suing a com- 8 p.m., at Congregation Ahavath Torah, 240 Broad Ave.,
Englewood. Call (201) 568-1315 for information.
by Israeli Forbes magazine as one of the 50 most influential pany and suing a partnership, she explained. When you
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there were 1,423 yeshiva high school stu-
hey keep on growing. dents in the area’s schools; that compares
You drop your child off for to 1,175 a decade earlier, according to sta-
first grade, she’s barely able to tistics kept by the Jewish Federation of
read, and eight years later she’s Northern New Jersey.
discussing literature, factoring numbers, And Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High School A rendering of what an expanded Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High School for Girls will
and ready to enter high school. for Girls has shared in this bounty. It look like after a $10 million construction project.
Four years later she’s off to college, now has 350 students, and given that its
probably taller than you, and shockingly ninth grade has close to 100 students, it planned $10 million building project will be The school moved into its building in
independent. is headed toward 400. Its student body paid for down the road by the parents of the 1996, in what then was Teaneck’s indus-
And still they grow. keeps on growing. students who will be in the new spaces. trial zone but has now become a yeshiva
The same is true of the schools they So now it’s unveiling plans to grow its If all goes well, in both the fundraising zone (thanks to the neighboring Torah
attend, if the schools are successful, building, with an addition that will expand and the planning, Ma’ayanot leaders hope Academy of Bergen County, a boys’ high
well-run, and lucky enough in their it by 50 percent, or 30,000 square feet. to begin work on the expansion in the school, and Yeshivat He’atid, an elemen-
demographics. The school is launching a $5 million capi- spring and be able to move into the new tary school). Then, the building was too
Northern New Jersey has been fortu- tal campaign to pay for half of the costs spaces, and use the renovated old spaces, large, so Ma’ayanot sublet a portion, first
nate in its demographics when it comes of the expansion. The other half of the in fall 2019, next school year. SEE MA’AYANOT PAGE 51
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renching rain and floods on the on the outing’s original date because of state
original date did not stop golfers licensing regulations.
when they got together at the 38th Alex Fleysher of West Caldwell, Andrew
annual Daughters of Miriam Golf Kanter of Wayne, David Kessler of Franklin
Classic. Rescheduled from August 13 to Octo- Lakes, and Leslie Levine of Clifton were the
ber 3, the tournament took place on a beautiful golf co-chairs. Volunteers, headed by coordina-
fall day at Arcola Country Club in Paramus. The tors Linda Fishman and Anne Kanter of Wayne,
outing, in support of Alzheimer’s and dementia and Leslie Levine of Clifton, staffed the outing
care, brought business and community leaders and helped make it run smoothly.
together for a day of golf and socializing that The committee included Jeff Abrams, Paul
began with a buffet brunch, followed by a shot- Abrams, Michael Birnberg, Monica Cohen, Reid
gun tee-off, cocktails, and dinner. Fader, Jared Kanter, Robert Kantor, Randi Koch-
Eight players who were closest to the hole on man, Scott Norwalk, Jay Opper, Marc Rosen-
the four par 3s had the opportunity to participate krantz, Avi Safer, Joseph Silverman, Jeffrey Sil-
in the $500,000 Gutenstein Family Foundation vershein, Michael Sirota, Andrew Steiger, David
Shootout. At the end of the regulation round, two Topalian, and Morris Yamner.
additional spots in the $500,000 shootout con- The McCutchen Foundation was the Pre-
test were auctioned off, with 10 golfers compet- mier Flag sponsor ($25,000); the Gutenstein
ing for the half million dollars from a distance of Family Foundation was the Shootout spon-
165 yards. No winners walked off with the grand sor ($11,000); A.L. Levine Family Foundation,
prize, but one lucky player won a $2,500 cash Levco Shopping Centers, Sylvia and Avi Safer Golf Shootout sponsor Jeffrey Silvershein of the Gutenstein Family
prize for coming closest to the pin. of Safer Textiles, Carole and Joel J. Steiger, and Foundation, right, heads out with David Malat, left, Daughters of Miriam
The shotgun event also offered premium hole- Valley National Bank were Double Eagle Spon- CEO Frank DaSilva, and George Chookasian.
in-one prizes including cars, vacations, jewelry, sors ($10,000); Cole Schotz, P.C., Integra Hous-
and cash awards. Hole-in-one prizes were made ing Group and the Joined Management Team,
possible by Frank’s Truck Center of Lyndhurst, Leslie, Peter and Rachel Levine, Planned Com-
Route 23 Auto Mall of Butler, the Timepiece Col- panies were Eagle Sponsors ($7,500); Jay Hor-
lection of Englewood, and Yanina & Co. of Cedar witz, Partners were Pharmacy Gold Tee Spon-
Grove. All tournament participants received a sors ($5,000); Evco Mechanical, Anne and
variety of gifts when they registered. Andrew Kanter, Lisa and David Kessler, Nurs-
The 2018 event featured silent and live auc- ing Network, Dr. Dely Go, Stephen A. Plos-
tions with items including foursomes at exclu- cowe, and Fox Rothschild were Birdie Spon-
sive golf clubs, football, hockey, and basketball sors ($2,500); and Randi and Tedd Kochman,
tickets, entertainment memorabilia, vacation OptumCare, the Preferred Client Group, St.
packages, and exclusive house seats for Broad- Mary’s Hospital, and Wuhl Investment Group
way shows like “Dear Evan Hansen,” “Beautiful,” of Wells Fargo were Meal Sponsors ($1,500).
“Aladdin,” and “Mean Girls.” Daughters of Miriam’s mission is to provide
A 50/50 drawing with a $5,000 jackpot quality health care and housing for seniors in Closest to the Pin Shootout winner Adam Cutler, center, receives a
capped the evening; Steven Klein of Edgewater an environment that enhances individual tradi- $2,500 check from Golf Committee co-chairs Andrew Kanter, left,
won it. The annual car raffle drawing was held tions and lifestyles. Alex Fleysher, Leslie Levine, and David Kessler.
Golf Committee co-chair David Kessler thanks golfers for their partici-
Pausing between holes, Eagle Sponsor Peter Levine, left, Larry Levine, Jerry DeWaters, and pation. With him are fellow co-chairs Alex Fleysher, Leslie Levine, and
John Delutis display the Premier Flag Sponsor McCutchen Foundation’s tee flag. Andrew Kanter.
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LARRY YUDELSON Mr. Ostwald’s first musical love was the
classical tuba. When he was in sixth grade,
erome Chazen of Nyack doesn’t his mother had taken him to see Rudolf
remember precisely how he first Nureyev in Sergei Prokofiev’s ballet of
discovered the genius of Louis Arm- Romeo and Juliet.
strong, only that it was in college, at “There was a number, ‘The March of
the University of Wisconsin at Madison, the Capulets,’ that had this tremendous
sometime around 1944. tuba part that overwhelmed me,” Mr. Ost-
But he does remember the first time that wald recalled. A few months later, during
he heard Louis Armstrong play. recess, he saw a tuba in the band room,
It was in Madison, not all that long after. picked it up, and played.
Mr. Chazen had graduated from jazz nov- “The band leader could have been
ice to jazz aficionado, scouring the second- angry,” he said. “Instead he gave me my
hand stores for old 78 records to build his first lesson on the spot. There weren’t a lot
growing record collections from the detri- of kids who were dying to play the tuba.”
tus of the Great Depression. He had begun A few years later, he went to Sam
writing a column about jazz for the student Goody’s Record Store to buy a new clas-
newspaper. And when Louis Armstrong sical recording of Bach’s double violin
came to town with his band, young Mr. concerto. Checking out the cut-out bin of
Chazen arranged to interview him. remaindered discount records, he found a
Nearly 75 years later, Mr. Chazen Louis Armstrong record. He bought it. “I
remembers that conversation with Mr. went home and listened to it,” he said. “I
Armstrong, and what he learned about Louis Armstrong flashes his trademark smile in a 1955 photo. had my epiphany and became a huge Arm-
the performer and composer. Mr. Chazen strong fan on the spot.”
had a particular question. His collection of Armstrong replied. “I love that cat!” in tune with the audiences he was dealing Mr. Ostwald didn’t become an actual
Armstrong records was happenstance and The trumpeter told the college student with. Louis believed in playing for an audi- jazz musician until he was a 21-year-old
eclectic. “If I saw a record by a musician I how he had stayed in a hotel in Chicago ence. If the audience liked it and loved it, college student at the University of Chi-
knew or appreciated, I would buy it,” he in the 1920s, while he was performing in that was his job.” cago, and friends asked him to join in a
said. “Especially if it was Louis Armstrong. a nearby club. One night, walking from Mr. Chazen next saw Mr. Armstrong per- jazz band. “I can’t,” he said. “I need to be
I wouldn’t care what he was playing — I just the hotel to the club, he saw many people form in 1947. Mr. Armstrong was playing able to read the music. I can’t improvise.”
wanted the record.” standing in line. “A big long line of people in a Chicago night club — only 150 miles or So they prepared some sheet music.
Listening to one of those records, Mr. stretching around the block,” Mr. Chazen so away from Madison. Mr. Chazen drove After he became familiar enough with
Chazen thought the music sounded like recalled. “He followed the line and saw there with a group of friends. “That was a jazz to be comfortable playing without the
that of Guy Lombardo, “a certain kind of they were standing in line to get into a the- lot of fun,” he said. written score, he began to wean himself
swishy dance music. ater where Guy Lombardo was playing. Later, after Mr. Chazen graduated and off them and learned to improvise. He also
“I couldn’t make sense of it. Why “If all these people are waiting to get in moved back to New York, he would hear learned that the tuba in a jazz ensemble
would Louis Armstrong sound like Guy to hear this guy, they must be on to some- Mr. Armstrong several times at concerts plays the role of the bass instrument, a
Lombardo?” thing,” Mr. Armstrong said. and clubs. Mr. Chazen still has a picture constant presence in the sound.
So Mr. Chazen asked Mr. Armstrong Mr. Chazen said that Mr. Armstrong of the two of them, snapped by a cigarette “That was very attractive to me,” he
that question. “Guy Lombardo?” Mr. “was an appreciator. He was very much girl who worked the floor of the club Mr. said. “I could play instead of just count-
Armstrong was playing. ing the measures in the orchestra. In the
In recent years, Mr. Chazen has worked orchestra, you play one or two notes on
to bring jazz to Rockland, sponsoring a the tuba, then you lay out for 10 minutes
series of concerts through the JCC. (See and then you come in again.”
box.) This year’s concert will feature the Besides Mr. Ostwald on the tuba, the
music of Louis Armstrong performed by Louis Armstrong Eternity Band includes a
David Ostwald and his Louis Armstrong trumpet, a clarinet, a trombone, a banjo,
Eternity Band, and an audiovisual pre- and a drummer.
sentation by Ricky Riccardi, director of “We don’t copy Armstrong’s perfor-
research collections for the Louis Arm- mances,” Mr. Ostwald said. “We play tunes
strong House Museum and author of that he wrote and that are associated with
“What a Wonderful World: The Magic him. We don’t make an attempt to recreate
of Louis Armstrong’s Later Years.” Mr. the recordings. We play them our own way.”
Riccardi will tell stories of Mr. Armstrong’s
life, including the important role a Jewish
What: Chazen Jazz Concert
family played in his childhood. His talk will
be accompanied by rare photographs and When: Saturday, November 10, 8 p.m.
videos from the museum. Where: Pearl River High School
David Ostwald is a tuba player. His 275 East Central Ave., Pearl River
band, originally the Gully Low Jazz Band, Who: David Ostwald’s Louis
has been playing the famed Birdland jazz Armstrong Eternity Band and Louis
club in Manhattan as an Armstrong salute Armstrong historian Ricky Riccardi
Tuba player David Ostwald and his Louis Armstrong Eternity Band will entertain since the centennial of Mr. Armstrong’s How much: $25
at a concert November 10 in Pearl River. birth in 2000.
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attorney general. He is the first Sikh in opportunity. (Although Mr. Grewal speaks his parents went there because “it prob- where he went to high school. Next came
the country to become a state attorney eloquently about his own experiences, he ably was the only place they knew about.” college; Mr. Grewal decided to try some-
general. does not offer much information about The community soon grew, though. “I thing different, so he went to Bates College,
His main office is in Trenton, but his family. He is a public person but they grew up around people who looked like in rural Maine. “I thought I needed a small
recently he met with the Jewish Standard are not, he says, and he chooses to respect me.” (Most Sikhs can trace their families liberal arts college,” he said. “I wanted to
at his office in Newark. their privacy.) back to the Punjab; they are Indian, but be a writer. But then I took one interna-
Mr. Grewal’s parents moved to Jer- “They faced a lot of discrimination in they are neither Hindu nor Muslim. Sikh tional relations course, and I was hooked.”
sey City from the Indian state of Punjab those early years,” Mr. Grewal said. “There men are identifiable by their turbans and He soon ran through all of Bates’s
in 1971, he said, and Gurbir was born in were hardly any Sikhs in the country then. beards.) international relations curriculum, so it
1973. His mother has a master’s degree in It must have taken a huge leap of faith for Soon, the family moved to Bergen made sense to transfer, and by that time
political science and his father is an elec- them to cross the ocean to come here. We County — first Washington Township and he realized that the deep country wasn’t
trical engineer. They moved here, as most had no relatives here then.” There already then Westwood, where Gurbir went to ele- for him, so he finished college at George-
immigrants do, in search of economic was a small Sikh community in Jersey City; mentary school, and then to Essex County, town, working through its foreign service
curriculum. He wanted to be a diplomat, but to law school.” And it seemed appealing also to make enough money to live comfort- To be clear, people were staring at him
timing was against him. “I graduated in ’95, “because I was a big ‘Law and Order’ fan.” ably. (To be clear, it is not as if it is not because they assumed he was Muslim,
and there was a hiring freeze in the State So he applied and ended up enrolling in law possible to live comfortably on a civil ser- and they assumed that if he were Mus-
Department then,” he said. “They were not school at William and Mary, the lovely Jef- vant’s salary, and equally it is possible to lim, then if he were not actively respon-
offering the foreign service exam,” the first fersonian campus in Williamsburg, Virginia. do socially compelling work in a big law sible for the hijacking and murders, at
step to a diplomatic career. “I got hooked on law,” he said. firm. It’s just harder.) During law school, least he was somehow complicit in it. He
What to do next? Like many fledgling lawyers, Mr. Grewal he spent one summer in the Essex County must be in favor of it.
“Then law school seemed like an option,” was torn between the desire to do public ser- public defender’s office, and another at a To continue being clear, Mr. Grewal
Mr. Grewal said. “I had a lot of friends going vice and the often equally compelling desire then big, now gone D.C. law firm, Howrey is not Muslim. Overwhelmingly most
& Simon. He worked on litigation in both Muslims were horrified by the attacks of
places; he knew that no matter which September 11, but that was irrelevant to
side of the public/private divide he went Mr. Grewal, who is no more Muslim than
to, it would be as a litigator. Jews are.
From his law school graduation in “What really drove it home to me was
1999 to 2004, Mr. Grewal worked at that I would walk out of my building at
Howrey & Simon. He got married during work, and a group of homeless guys who
that time; his wife is a physician, and she would hang out there would start yell-
went to Columbia for her fellowship in ing at me. Yelling things like ‘Here’s Bin
2004. That meant that “I knew we had Laden! We got Bin Laden!’
to move, and it seemed as good a time as “They would trail me. It was embar-
any for my passion for criminal justice” rassing, and it also was frightening.”
to come to the fore. Remember, he said, that the first vic-
There was something else, beyond tim of mob violence killed because of
an intellectual love for litigation and an an invented connection to September 11
emotional pull toward social justice, pro- was a Sikh; that was Balbir Singh Sodhi
pelling Mr. Grewal toward public service. of Mesa, Arizona, killed on September
He had a message to share. A message 15. “You have to be a bit more careful
he embodies. A message about hope about where you walk,” Mr. Grewal said.
and diversity and difference and shared “About where you park. About where
values. you buy groceries. I would pick the door
A message that he knew he had to of my building it was safest to walk out of.
share throughout most of his life, but “ The whi spers and comments
that came into painfully sharp relief on prompted me to think about my own
the days following September 11, 2001. experience, and about the Sikh immi-
“On September 11, I worked at the law grant experience,” he said. “You are
firm in Washington,” he said. “It was a born here, but you maintain your own
normal Tuesday. A beautiful morning. A religious identity, and so you look
perfect fall day. When I drove in, I started different.
hearing about what was happening. “You can check every box — play-
“When I got in, my colleagues and ing Little League, playing soccer, doing
I came together and went up on the every normal American thing — and
roof.” They could see the Pentagon burn- then one day you wake up and everyone
ing; one of the planes hit it. “Everyone looks at you like you don’t belong.”
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tion in West Orange during ceremonies last September 11. Right, the attorney gen-
eral speaks at the Jewish Federation’s annual meeting in Paramus on June 7, 2018.
security cases, terrorism cases, financial Grewal and his wife lived in Hoboken, and took a short break, working at Howey’s he took a job in the U.S Attorney’s office
fraud cases,” he said. “We were bringing then they moved to Glen Rock. They’re New York office, “but it was just a tem- in Newark. He worked for Paul Fishman,
justice to the community. It was inspiring close to Glen Rock Gurudwara, the Sikh porary detour,” he said. “I didn’t find it “who is an amazing mentor,” he said.
and rewarding work.” temple there, and they’re active in it. It rewarding.” “Just incredible.
When he worked in Brooklyn, Mr. was not a good commute, and Mr. Grewal Mr. Grewal returned to public service; “I started at the bottom there, even
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and I worked my way up to heading the economic and he was able to use his position and that knowledge to tal accountability when they violate the rules, norms, and our
computer crime units, and I handled all major white- help resolve the situation. The town could not use racial sense of decency.
collar federal crimes, from security fraud to computer profiling to keep charedi Jews from its public parks, he “When we first got here, almost daily we were racing to
fraud to Russian hacking. I headed a team of 24, 25 said, and he enforced that finding. something, from working against the travel ban to attacks on
people. In January 2018, the new governor-elect, Phil Mur- women’s reproductive rights to attacks on the immigrants to
“I was there from 2010 to 2016,” Mr. Grewal said. “It phy, appointed Mr. Grewal to the position he holds now. the census question to the attacks on the LGBT community.”
was a great ride.” “The opportunity was not anything I ever sought out,” But the office does much more than that, he said. “I believe
In 2013, then Governor Chris Christie, whom Mr. Gre- Mr. Grewal said. “But we did a lot of work on the opiate that this is one of the most powerful attorney general offices
wal had not met and did not know, nominated him to crisis and police-community relations and the eruv, and in the country. I am not aware of any other one that has com-
be Bergen County prosecutor. Something happened, I think we handled it all professionally. That got me on plete authority over criminal jurisdictions the way that we do.
though; he never got a state Senate confirmation hearing. Murphy’s list, and he nominated me. On January 16, I We have complete oversight over law enforcement. Through
Mr. Christie nominated him again in 2016, he assumed was sworn in, and so was he.” our department of criminal justice, we can bring our own
the office as acting prosecutor, and then got the job for- Many of President Donald J. Trump’s initiatives are cases. We also have broad civil authority, because we are the
mally later that year. “It was a wonderful, incredible job,” very unpopular in the Northeast, and he’s particularly lawyers to the state. We represent every state agency. The col-
Mr. Grewal said. “It allowed me to continue to be in pub- at odds with attorneys general in the states where he onel of the state police reports to the state’s attorney general.
lic service, and also to continue the public relations mis- has done business and left a trail of angry creditors There’s gaming and athletics.
sion. It allowed me to continue to promote understand- behind him. That includes New Jersey and New York.
ing, this time in the county where I live. Attorneys general are best positioned to push against
“I took advantage of it to be out in the community some federal regulations that conflict with their own
more than ever, to be at events and council meetings. states’ laws. But, Mr. Grewal said, “I think that a lot of
I took advantage of every opportunity to be out and folks just sort of look at newspaper headlines and think
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“We also house the division of consumer affairs, which general. His friend Ravi Bhalla is the first Sikh to be mayor
oversees broad consumer protections, from games of of a town in New Jersey. And their friend Amardeep
chance to security. In total, we are 73,000 folks and 13 Singh was the founder of the Sikh Coalition and now is
divisions.” a senior program officer for George Soros’s Open Society
He paused for a breath. Foundation.
“I am appointed, not elected, and my term is co-termi- “We have a deep understanding of what it means to be
nus with the governor’s,” he said. “That is good. We don’t marginalized,” Mr. Grewal said. “Of being on the receiv-
have to campaign. We don’t have to fund-raise. We are not ing end of hateful comments and bigotry. That helps you
indebted to anyone. understand what other people are going through.”
“When we go to national meetings, there are Demo- That’s why, despite the many far-reaching powers his
cratic and Republican attorneys general associations, and office gives him, the one that perhaps speaks most deeply
we can’t get involved with either of them.” to him is the chance to give disaffected young people rea-
This first year, Mr. Grewal said, his work largely has son to hope.
been reactive, but next year it will be more proactive. “We “When I am going to talk to a ninth grade class in
will push forward an affirmative agenda next year. Glen Rock about heroin and opioids and I see a Sikh kid
“We also have the division of civil rights; we now have slouched in his chair, clearly not part of the cliques — I
the time to consider how we can use our authority to build am there as much to help that kid as I am to talk about
something. To put forward rules so that the protections opioids,” he said.
that are being stripped away federally can be built up here. Attorney General Gurbir Grewal speaks at the And make no mistake about it — he also very much is
“We can be a model for the rest of the country.” American Constitution Society in Washington, D.C., there to talk about opioids. Those are not mutually exclu-
He plans to start an honors program that will bring in top on June 9, 2018. sive things.
law students; in return for a two-year commitment they will “I always have done that, and now I have a much bigger
be exposed to high-level work and have a rare opportunity When he moved to Essex County in high school, “no platform for it,” he said.
to learn and grow rather than to wait their turns. one knew me, and no one looked like me, and that was “I talked to someone, a Sikh, who told me that for the
Mr. Grewal thinks back to his childhood as he considers where the hate started to manifest. There was a lot of star- longest time he didn’t wear a turban. But when he saw
the future, his chance to affect young people, and his abil- ing, and even some grabbing. Some physical attacks. my picture in the paper, he told me, he said ‘I will wear
ity to effect change. “But you develop a resilience, and you deepen it by mine now.’”
When he was a child, “It didn’t matter where you came finding other folks from your community.” There are many ways to effect change. There are many
from or what you looked like. We just knew each other, Mr. Grewal is one third of an extraordinary trio of child- levers to pull. Mr. Grewal has access to them, and he is
and we just were friends.” hood friends. He is the first Sikh to be a state attorney pulling them.
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Nitsana Darshan-Leitner is an Israeli attorney, human rights activist and at a Time
the founder of Shurat HaDin Israeli Law Center. She has been leading the
legal fight against terror financing, the anti-Israel boycott campaigns (BDS)
and combating the multitude of lawfare tactics utilized against the Jewish
State by its enemies. Ms. Darshan-Leitner assisted
in blocking the Gaza Flotilla and terminated efforts
to indict IDF soldiers for war crimes.
Vets beginning to happen is when someone from our community second guest, in 2003, was injured when infiltrating into
FROM PAGE 8 — whether a host or a buddy family — goes to Israel and says, Lebanon. “He had a traumatic head injury and needed to
the line of duty. Beit Halochem centers in Israel pro- ‘Join me for coffee or beer at a restaurant,’ people show up. relearn how to walk and talk.”
vide a place where disabled people can participate in They’re getting to know each other, support each other. It’s During his stay in Bergen County, she said, “he began to
sports and related activities suited to their individual such a nice thing for them to continue to have the social life feel empowered. He insisted that we speak in Hebrew and
situation. Each center also offers a wide choice of with the American community and now with each other. It’s said frappucinos were the best thing ever.” After the visit, “he
social and creative activities for members. “They go fascinating to see who Steve is bringing together.” became employed again, doing private detective work. He
to Beit Halochem to do their rehabilitation, using the In 1999, Ms. Rosen and her husband, Michael, hosted a also started to have a plot in Ramat Gan community garden.”
facility’s pools, massage areas, and physical therapy,” soldier who had been a POW during the Yom Kippur War. For more information about Zahal Shalom, go to www.
Mr. Kornblit said. “There’s a center in all four cities “He and my husband bonded over billiards,” she said. Her zahalshalom.org.
we’re visiting.”
In fact, he said, while the October 25 Tel Aviv
reunion still would include a food tour, the second get-
together will be held not in a veteran’s home but at
Beit Halochem. “It’s got a different feel,” he said. “It’s
their place. A large contingent said they will cook and
bring the food there.”
Susan Kornblit said she already knew several people
at the Beersheba reunion. “I knew Yoni, who hosted us
for dinner.” She also knew Orly, who came to Bergen
County in 2011, bringing a newspaper article describ-
ing how her unit had been bombed. “She was hurt
badly. She didn’t think she would make it. But now,
she seems very stable and happy. It’s nice to see her in
her element. She’s working, and she has a nice job.”
Johanna Rosen of Ridgewood has been on the execu-
tive committee of Zahal Shalom for a long time, “15 to
20 years,” she said. “I haven’t hosted since 2006, but
I spend time leading groups in New York and Wash-
ington, D.C.”
Ms. Rosen clearly is excited by Mr. Kornblit’s reunion
project. “Wherever he is, people from different years
are coming together to be with him,” she said. “What is
EYAL WARSHAVSKY/JFNA
Rivlin invited a select group of about 100 by American Jewish liberals and never-
COURTESY OF JFNA
American Jews to his official residence in Trump Republicans, gets high marks
Jerusalem. While he sat in the center of the among Israelis.
room, in a cushioned chair, three leaders Israelis, meanwhile, have chafed at anti-
of the diaspora’s largest Jewish commu- Israel activism among some corners of
nity explained their issues with the Jew- American Jewry, as well as criticism from
ish state. Left, Jerry Silverman, CEO of the Jewish Federations of North America, speaks its leaders. Government representatives
“The Jewish identity of many young at its General Assembly in Tel Aviv, October 23. Right, Isaac Herzog, head of say they make policies according to their
American Jews is reflected through the the Jewish Agency for Israel, speaks at the conference, October 23. He said the security and political realities, and con-
lens of tikkun olam, social justice values,” Israeli and American Jewish communities need to talk, echoing the theme of the sider the will of the voters who actually
said Eric Goldstein, the CEO of New York’s General Assembly. live in their country.
UJA-Federation. “And they experience a “Over the last few years, North Ameri-
mental discomfort when they use that lens This year’s conference, which brings percent of Israeli Jews. Half of American can Jewry and Israel have defined their
to look at many current Israeli government together the leaders of the American Jewish Jews are liberal. Israeli Jews? Eight percent. relationship by the things we don’t have
policies: settlement policy, nation-state establishment for a mixture of sentimental And the past couple of years, Israel- in common,” Jerry Silverman, CEO of the
law, treatment of asylum seekers, mar- speeches, panel discussions on pressing wise, have been especially rough for Jewish Federations of North America,
riage equality, and marriage rights — more issues, and lots of schmoozing over weak American Jews with liberal proclivities. said, noting “varying issues of how Israelis
broadly, the monopoly that the Orthodox coffee, was titled “We Need to Talk.” The American Jewish leaders had negotiated perceive American Jewry or are just com-
have over religion and state in Israel.” explicit message is that American and for years to expand a non-Orthodox prayer pletely apathetic to American Jewry. And
That laundry list of grievances — every- Israeli Jews have grown further apart and section at the Western Wall. Last year, the I think you have an American Jewry that
thing from how Israel treats the Palestin- need some relationship counseling. Israeli government scrapped the compro- is growing up and is focused, especially in
ians to whose marriages it recognizes — is Around the conference hall in North Tel mise. The government also has moved to the younger generation, on social action,
what lies behind the theme of this year’s Aviv, signs displaying a series of statistics give the charedi Orthodox chief rabbinate social justice issues and who aren’t really
General Assembly, the annual conference showed that the world’s two largest Jew- more power over Jewish conversion. This looking through an Israeli lens.”
of the Jewish Federations of North Amer- ish populations don’t think alike: Sixty year, Israeli police detained a Conservative If the two sides “need to talk,” though,
ica, which is taking place here from Mon- percent of American Jews believe in the rabbi for the crime of performing a non- it would be far from the first conversation.
day to Wednesday. possibility of a Palestinian state, versus 40 Orthodox wedding. Silverman and fellow American Jewish
F
The organization behind them claims support his message, according to the Anti- The groups are relatively small and chap-
liers blaming Jews for the sex- also to have put up the posters in seven Defamation League. But it wasn’t until the ters usually are made up of only two to 10
ual assault allegations against more states. next year that the groups took off, when people, said Carla Hill, a senior investi-
Supreme Court Justice Brett Daily Stormer contributor Robert Warren gative researcher at the ADL’s Center on
Kavanaugh appeared in appar- How did the fliers turn up in Ray took charge and started organizing the Extremism. Based on the latest campaign,
ently random locations around the coun- such a wide array of places network of groups. she estimates that the group has only about
try last week. and who put them up? The chapters are made up of young white 50 members across the country. “They
“Every time some Anti-White, Anti- The Anti-Defamation League and the men. No women can join. Members are not struggled a bit to get going, but now it looks
American, Anti-freedom event takes Southern Poverty Law Center, two civil allowed to use their real names in person or like they’re picking up some chapters and
place, you look at it, and it’s Jews behind rights organizations that do research online and they must wear a uniform of red we expect more of this type of campaign,”
it,” the fliers read. on anti-Semitic and white supremacist New Balance sneakers, jeans, a white T-shirt she said.
They showed an image of the judge groups, have some insight.
surrounded by caricatures of Jewish
senators with stars of David drawn on What are Stormer
their foreheads, as well as the Jewish bil- Book Clubs?
lionaire George Soros, a frequent target Though the name implies a literature
of anti-Semitic conspiracy theories.
The fliers say they are “Brought to you
discussion group, that’s not exactly what
the clubs are about. Organized by the
November
by your local Stormer Book Club.”
The Anti-Defamation League has con-
Daily Stormer, a neo-Nazi site founded
by white supremacist Andrew Anglin,
Events at
firmed that the posters appeared on col-
lege campuses and at organizations in
they promote spreading anti-Semitic
propaganda and other bigoted messages. Congregation
six states: California, Iowa, New York, Anglin proposed creating the groups
Beth Sholom
All events are open to the public.
The Stormer Book Clubs took credit for anti-Semitic fliers that appeared
across the country last week. ANTI-DEFAMATION LEAGUE/JTA COLLAGE
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Jewish World
AMOS BEN-GERSHOM
who has served in the U.S. House of Rep-
resentatives since 1989, met with Prime
Minister Benjamin Netanyahu on Mon-
day. A day earlier, at a Jewish National
Fund ceremony, she planted a tree in her
honor outside Jerusalem. Rep. Ileana Ros-Lehtinen meets
“I have said and I’ll say it again, we have with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin
never had a better defender of Israel and a Netanyahu in Jerusalem, Oct. 22.
better defender of the truth,” Netanyahu
told Ros-Lehtinen. by Ros-Lehtinen, insisted on naming
She replied: “Mr. Prime Minister, it has one of the last Israel-related bills they co-
been the joy of my professional life to sponsored the Ileana Ros-Lehtinen United
be the advocate for a strong U.S.-Israel States-Israel Security Assistance Authori-
relationship.” zation Act of 2018. The measure codifies
Ros-Lehtinen, 66, was raised Roman into law the $38 billion defense assistance
Catholic and now is Episcopalian, but her package to Israel.
maternal grandparents were Turkish Jews “My friend Ileana Ros-Lehtinen has been
who had immigrated to Cuba. Her father, a stalwart friend of Israel throughout her
who opposed the communist takeover of time in Congress, and it is a fitting honor
the country, fled to the United States in that this bill to strengthen the U.S.-Israel
1960 when Ros-Lehtinen was 8, in 1960. relationship bears her name,” Deutch said
Elected to the Florida House from her on the House floor last month.
Miami-area district in 1982, and then to Her moderation, and her representa-
the state Senate in 1986, she earned a rep- tion of a diverse district, led Ros-Lehtinen
utation as a moderate Republican who to become one of Trump’s most outspo-
fiercely opposed the Cuban regime. ken Republican critics, particularly after
In the Congress, Ros-Lehtinen added he equivocated in assigning blame for a
leadership on Israel issues to her portfolio. deadly neo-Nazi march in Charlottesville,
Her passion was foreign affairs, and many Virginia, in August 2017.
of the Israel-related positions she intro- “Blaming ‘both sides’ for #Charlottes-
duced later became orthodoxy not just for ville?!” she tweeted. “No. Back to relativ-
Republicans but also for many Democrats. ism when dealing with KKK, Nazi sympa-
She was the lead Republican advanc- thizers, white supremacists? Just no.”
ing the Syria Accountability Act in 2003, Part of her calculus in not seeking re-
which set up the architecture for the U.S.- election was the likelihood that antipathy
led isolation of the country after the Assad to Trump in her district would lead to her
regime’s bloody repression of a civilian own ouster — and indeed, the Democratic
uprising in 2011. nominee in her 27th District is seen as likely
The George W. Bush administration gut- winning the seat. She joins others whose
ted the Iran sanctions she hoped to pass departure this year was spurred in part by
in 2006, but her legislation anticipated the difficulties of being a moderate Republi-
the sanctions that would pass in 2010 can under Trump, including Rep. Ed Royce
and were used as leverage by the Obama of California and Sen. Bob Corker of Ten-
administration to get Iran to the negotiat- nessee. Royce is the Foreign Affairs Com-
ing table to roll back its nuclear program. mittee chair and Corker leads the Foreign
In the mid-2000s, Ros-Lehtinen intro- Relations Committee in the Senate.
duced multiple bills to choke off fund- Ros-Lehtinen’s son, Rodrigo, is trans-
ing to the Palestinians unless their lead- gender, and he is among those leading
ers renounced terrorism. Ignored by the charge against a Trump administra-
the Bush and then the Obama admin- tion proposal that would recognize only
istration, her recommendations have one’s birth gender.
become Republican orthodoxy under “Despite the cruel efforts of the Trump
President Donald Trump. administration, trans people #WontBeEr-
In 2011, Ros-Lehtinen became the first ased,” Rodrigo Ros-Lehtinen tweeted
woman to chair the House Foreign Affairs Monday.
Committee. She worked closely with an Bursting with parental pride, Ileana
array of Jewish pro-Israel Democrats, Ros-Lehtinen, tweeting from Israel, made
including the late Tom Lantos of California, clear whose side she championed.
Howard Berman of California, Eliot Engel “I am so proud of my son, @TransRigo!”
of New York and Ted Deutch of Florida. she said. “Your activism is an inspiration
Deutch, the ranking member of the to folks all over our country to live as their
House Middle East subcommittee chaired true selves.” JTA WIRE SERVICE
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Farrakhan deserves
a shul community total ostracism
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hat makes someone a nastiness, from both sides. We have
member of a synagogue no idea what happened, and we don’t man last week got up on a stage be noted. Under the leadership of Louis
community? think it’s relevant; it’s hard to maintain in the United States of America, Farrakhan, however, the Nation of Islam
Is it the time you equilibrium, on either side, in a situa- called the Jews termites, and unfortunately has devolved and deterio-
spend being there? In the building? tion like that. received a standing ovation. rated into one of our country’s leading
Going to services? The time that you But what of the situation? What That man was Louis Farrakhan. spring of hatred against not only whites,
put into volunteer work there? Is it makes a community? The civil-rights activist turned religious but against homosexuals, and of course,
the friends you make who also belong For one thing, a synagogue has a very leader turned racist, sexist, homophobic, the world’s most common recipient of
there, go there, work there? real need for money. It needs member- anti-Semitic incendiary is the official leader baseless hatred, the Jews.
Is it the money you pay to belong ship dues to pay for clergy, staff, and of the Nation of Islam. Both religion and While the movement always maintained
there? Do you have to pay to belong? overhead. None of us live on air and social movement, the Nation was born from themes of black-supremacism, Farrakhan
Are you a community member if you promises, not even shul employees, a combination of elements of traditional mutated those ideas into the most viru-
don’t pay but show up often? What if and entities like power and water com- Islam with black nationalism; a lent hatred. He then took that
you do pay but don’t show up, except panies tend to become appropriately healthy infusion of race-based hatred and made it a sport.
maybe twice a year, late for holiday unhappy when they are not paid. That theology was added to the mix. About white people, Farra-
services? is not an easily dismissable truth. For example, official teachings khan insists that they have only
How many years do you have to put For another thing, a synagogue, like of the group claim that up until the “potential” to be human
in before you truly are a community any other institution, has to be able to just a few thousand years ago, since they “haven’t evolved
member? Before you are able to say make rules, and to expect to enforce there were no white people. It yet.” “Murder and lying come
“we” instead of “they”? How long do them. A synagogue’s members belong took an evil black scientist to easy for white people,” he said
you have to stay to maintain the mem- voluntarily, and always can chose to develop such beings in a lab on another occasion, eventu-
bership? Does it end when you move leave. They can deal with rules they before setting them loose and ally topping off the accusation
away? When you no longer can pay? dislike by going elsewhere. allowing them to take over Rabbi with the judgment that “white
When you no longer do pay? When you But still. the world — a development Shmuley people deserve to die.” (He
no longer show up? When you no lon- But still. But still. that they believe needs to be Boteach actually said these words with a
ger can show up? This woman’s funeral was bereft of corrected. massive banner directly behind
These questions have been nagging most mourners; the elegies echoed The Nation of Islam also is him reading the name of his
at us since we heard a sad story last in the empty space. Her friends have one of the most powerful black organiza- sponsor: the “Conflict Resolution Center.”)
week. An elderly woman, a widow, been finding out about her death little tions in the United States, with up to 50,000 In 1984, he referred to the world’s only
who had put about 40 years, give or by little, one at a time, and they’ve members and a formidable list of powerful Jewish state as one “structured on injustice,
take (because no one is around any- been upset. They would have gone had allies and celebrity patrons. thievery, lying and deceit.” He accused the
more who remembers exactly) into they known, they say. And the family, The group, as you might imagine, has not Jews therein of “using the name of God to
her synagogue, volunteering, showing instead of being supported by the com- gone without controversy. shield [their] dirty religion…”
up, always being there, died. Before her munity, felt abandoned, just when they As a proponent of non-violence and equal- Like all haters of Israel, Farrakhan’s anti-
death, she had faded. She was home- needed to feel held, understood, and ity, Martin Luther King Jr. famously called Semitism has nothing to do with a belief
bound, with full-time care, no longer loved. the Nation of Islam a hate group. The South- in Palestinian rights. On the contrary, it’s
able to go to shul, no longer much car- We know it’s hard. Our imaginations ern Poverty Law Center, one of the world’s because Israel is filled with Jews.
ing, no longer really able to care. quickly put us among the mourning most renowned organizations for civil-rights And Louis Farrakhan hates Jews, pure and
The shul asked her to maintain her family rather than with the rigid, cold- and legal advocacy, did the same, adding on simple.
membership, but she did not. hearted administrators. That might not its website that the Nation has earned itself Most often, Farrakhan parrots the old-
Then she died. be fair, although certainly it is natural. a “prominent position in the ranks of orga- est anti-Semitic tropes. Taking verbiage
The family asked the shul to send an There no doubt is more to the story that nized hate.” right out of the Nazi playbook, Farrakhan
email announcing her death. Most of we do not know. During the years of the civil rights move- has on a number of occasions referred to
her friends — at least the ones still alive So, we ask again, what is commu- ment, the religious sect brought pride Jews as “bloodsuckers” for having worked
— belonged to the shul, and the family nity? What is our responsibility to an and meaning into the lives of many young as landlords in black communities.
wanted them to know. organization? To each other? To com- African-Americans fighting for their God He’s also taken time to point out the
The shul refused. Notifications of munity builders? To mourners? given rights, which is why its hate speech severely unoriginal idea that the Jews
death are a perk of membership, its We know one thing, that we wish that was overlooked. That contribution must control Hollywood. He added to the
leaders said. everyone who grieves in our commu-
There are allegations of poor behav- nity finds comfort among the mourn- Rabbi Shmuley Boteach is the founder of the World Values Network and the author of “Hating Women:
ior, of meanness, of shouting, of ers of Zion and Jerusalem. —JP America’s Hostile Campaign Against the Fairer Sex.” Follow him on Twitter @RabbiShmuley.
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conspiracy the even older idea that Jews use their influence to
bring people all over the world “down in moral strength” by Should Noah have argued
spreading “filth and degenerative behavior.” In this particular
instance, he was referring to Hollywood’s belief that it’s OK to with God? And should we?
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be gay. “It’s the wicked Jews, the false Jews, that are promoting
lesbianism [and] homosexuality.” He didn’t say this decades ago. e’ve just passed the time in the Jew- self-blame. The question is why. Are we afraid that if
These quotes all come from speeches given in 2006 and 2018. ish calendar when we read about we challenge God, we’ll get no answer? Or worse, —
Where he went further than almost any of his Jew-hating peers, Noah and the flood, and once we’ll be punished?
however, was in his accusation that the Jews “have been conclu- again I glanced at a myriad of Torah If so — and if we celebrate our acceptance and we
sively linked to the greatest criminal endeavor ever undertaken thoughts about Noah, many of which revel in criticiz- never argue with God, whose plan is beyond our
against an entire race of people … the black African Holocaust.” ing his lack of intervention on behalf of humanity. understanding — then why blame Noah for accept-
Unlike the earlier examples, these words were not spoken in the Thus, he is compared unfavorably with Abraham, ing God’s orders without arguing? Is it because he
heat of a speech or in the casual environment of a radio inter- who argued with God over the destruction of Sodom lived before the Temple’s destruction? Probably
view. These words came right out Farrakhan’s book, “The Secret and Gomorrah, trying to mitigate their fate and elicit not. Still, the question troubles me.
Relationship Between Blacks and Jews.” God’s forgiveness. It reminds me of a story of Jews in a ghetto dur-
Last week, though, Farrakhan managed to surmount every I’ve tried to grasp this dilemma for years, and I’ve ing the Second World War who decided to prosecute
one of those poisonous words, tweeting out a clip of a recent often wondered what Noah should have done and if God for his cruelty and for the pain He allowed to be
speech in which he declared “I’m not an anti-Semite. I’m anti- he could have acted differently. It’s not as if God asked inflicted on millions of innocent people. They spent
Termite.” In Farrakhan’s universe, Jews no longer were just bad him for his opinion or sealed a covenant with Noah. hours putting God on trial, they found him guilty and
people. Now, there were no people at all. They were vermin. Yet the criticism mounts, and though he is labeled a then they proceeded to pray Mincha. The idea is that
Cockroaches. Termites. tzadik — a righteous person — it is miti- we can argue with God and still be part-
And we all know what you do with termites. You extermi- gated by the phrase “in his generation,” ners with Him in ordaining the world
nate them. suggesting that had he lived in Abra- with His kedusha — His holy spirit. This
Throughout history, anti-Semites of all stripes have sought ham’s time, he might not have been con- story portrays a religious life where chal-
to cast the Jews as something utterly worthless yet massively sidered as such. lenging and arguing with God is permit-
destructive. It was a way of making the act of killing a Jew not I thought a lot about this recently, ted and where it doesn’t diminish our
only necessary but meaningless. Hitler’s SS troops, therefore, after attending a funeral for a 19-year- faith and observance.
were able to exterminate tens of thousands of Jews in a day. You young Jewish boy, whose life was tragi- Dara Horn argues the same, that we
see, they were killing an infestation, not people. cally cut short. Everybody agreed that must find a new model of observance
It may be extreme to compare Farrakhan to Hitler. But, you it was a tragedy. Rabbis spoke, his par- without blinders and self-blame. She
see, he did it himself. During a radio interview, Farrakhan ents eulogized him, and the accord was Soli Foger suggests that we embrace our role as
acknowledged the fact that “[T]he Jews don’t like Farrakhan, clear: God wanted his gift back! No one partners with God and demand more
so they call me Hitler.” Instead of rebuffing the comparison, he was angry at God. No one argued with equanimity from Him. It seems reason-
embraced it. “That’s a good name,” he said, “Hitler was a very Him and no one blamed God for a cruel and unusual able, but the only issue I have with this is that our cur-
great man.” He then reinforced it. Hitler “raised Germany up act. The consensus was one of acceptance, repeat- rent model works. Jews still observe and have faith in
from nothing,” he explained, adding that “in a sense, you could ing some version of the line “We cannot understand a just God, as I saw in the funeral I recently attended.
say there’s a similarity in that we are raising our people up from God’s plan.” Jewish practice is still prevalent and growing, more
nothing.” He’s also used the Holocaust as a metaphor to describe than two millennia after Eicha.
what awaited the Jews in hell. My late friend Christopher Hitch- So why argue with success? If we change one thing,
ens personally heard Farrakhan punctuate a tirade against Jews who says that we can guarantee that Judaism will still
with this: “And don’t you forget, when it’s God who puts you in being here 100 years from now?
the ovens, it’s forever!” We all want We all wish for a better, more just world, and
The only question that remains is this: how could leading polit- we often have perfect ideas about how to achieve
ical figures like Bill Clinton have agreed to legitimize such geno- accountability and it. But what if our elders, the wise old rabbis, the
cidal hate by recently appearing on the same stage as Farrakhan? symmetry in our founders of our tradition, knew something we
Farrakhan still has influence. He still stands before packed don’t know? It is very possible that within what
venues delivering speeches that routinely draw millions of views relationship, but we consider to be a flawed attitude of self-blame
on YouTube. Just days before his termites slur, he announced maybe God is beyond and passivity lies the model for preserving our tra-
the release of a new music album made in collaboration with dition for the past two millennia?
some of the most powerful men in music, including Stevie such a relationship. We all want accountability and symmetry in
Wonder, Rick Ross, Snoop Dogg, and Common. At least seven our relationship, but maybe God is beyond such a
members of Congress — including Maxine Waters, Barbara Lee, I recently heard the author Dara Horn deliver a relationship. How would the parents of the young
Danny Davis, Andre Carson, Gregory Meeks, Al Green, and most lecture for Eli Talks about what she calls “The Eicha boy who died be better served in being angry with
famously, DNC whip Keith Ellison, have all sat down for per- Problem,” arguing that Jews relish blaming themselves God? Maybe having faith and being observant
sonal meetings with Farrakhan while representing the American for everything. Her model was the book of Eicha — depend on acceptance, patience, some degree of
people in Congress. Farrakhan even attended a 2005 meeting of “Lamentation” — which we read on the fast day of retrospection, and willing self-sacrifice? It seems
the Black Congressional Caucus. And, at that meeting, former Tisha B’Av. Eicha commemorates the destruction of that Judaism is the practice of such qualities.
President Barack Obama even smiled for a photograph with Far- our Temple. “Why do we blame ourselves for the The only question still remains — why is Noah
rakhan just three years before he occupied the most powerful Temple’s destruction?” she asks. Why not blame the judged differently?
seat in the United States. hatred of Babylonians, their weaponry, or their lead- I guess I will have to keep asking. Let’s see what
American Jews need to draw a line. er’s megalomania?” She argues with the premise that the next year will bring. Maybe a new illumination
Jewish communities across the United States must respond. we deserve punishment. Then she brings up the book is waiting just around the corner.
We must announce boycotts of musical artists who legitimize of Job, who argues with God over his tribulations. Yet
Farrakhan’s hate. We must campaign against political figures the book of Job is hardly read, and sages claim that Soli Foger, who is an architect, grew up in Israel. He
who meet with Farrakhan and grant him legitimacy. We must Job didn’t really exist. In other words — the model of and his wife, the educator Dr. Tani Foger, have lived in
call upon our brothers in the Congressional Black Caucus to dis- arguing with God is not part of our Jewish tradition, Englewood for 27 years. They have four sons and four
sociate themselves from him completely. and our credo as Jews remains one of acceptance and grandchildren.
I can’t say that any of these efforts will succeed individually,
but taken together they will finally send the unmistakable mes-
sage that genocidal rhetoric against the Jewish community is The opinions expressed here are those of the authors, not necessarily those of the newspaper’s editors,
abhorrent and will never be tolerated. publishers, or other staffers. We welcome letters to the editor. Send them to [email protected].
Never again must mean exactly that: Never again.
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mmigration courts have always had longer the case. On October 1, 2018, a new job Association and the National Association of Immigration
a structural problem. That’s because performance policy for immigration judges Judges as the “death knell for judicial independence.”
they are organized under the Depart- went into effect. The new quota system, pro- The American Immigration Lawyers Association has
ment of Justice and headed by the mulgated by Attorney General Jeff Sessions, called for the creation of a more independent immigra-
attorney general under the executive branch. requires that immigration judges adjudicate tion court system under Article I of the Constitution.
Both immigration judges and the assistant a certain number of cases each year, and Article I courts are created by Congress, and they enjoy
chief counsels, the so-called prosecutors in that they render those decisions in a certain a significantly higher level of independence, albeit not
immigration court, work for the attorney gen- amount of time, among other requirements. at the level of Article III federal courts. Tax courts and
eral, and they can be fired at any time. In this Mr. Sessions also has directed decisions bankruptcy courts are examples of Article I courts.
sense, the Justice Department is judge, jury, Michael J. in immigration cases that have had the Although Article I judges do not have lifetime tenure,
and executioner in immigration court. Wildes effect of further restricting options for they typically are appointed for 14 or 15 year terms, and
Federal courts, on the other hand, enjoy immigrants in court. For example, his deci- their salaries are controlled by Congress. Article I courts
a significant degree of independence sions have limited the use of administra- operate remarkably similarly to Article III courts, in the
because they are organized under Article III of the Con- tive closure, a remedy that puts removal cases on hold sense that they are adequately staffed and do not face
stitution. Federal judges receive lifetime tenure precisely where another avenue of relief becomes available, such unreasonable docket backlogs.
to avoid influence by threats to their livelihood. This is as marriage to a citizen. Other decisions by Mr. Sessions On the enforcement side, arrests by Immigration and
what is known as our system of checks and balances. have restricted the government’s discretion to terminate Customs Enforcement, the agency that essentially is the
Although they are flawed, immigration courts and the cases, or to grant adjournments to permit immigrants immigration police, are up 30 percent from 2016 to 2017,
Board of Immigration Appeals have worked reasonably to retain counsel. He also has imposed several restric- according to that organization’s internal statistics. Addi-
well in the past, when attorneys general have had less direct tions on asylum seekers. These policy changes have tionally, the arrest of undocumented immigrants who do
influence on the courts’ day-to-day operations. That is no been decried by the American Immigration Lawyers not have criminal convictions is up 146 percent from 2016.
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love books and I love baseball. Always and lots of history), behavioral economics the seventh game of the 1960 World Series on Shmini
have since I was a kid and still do. But (Dan Ariely is my favorite), literary novels, Atzeret (they had a maid who turned on the TV), and
there’s a difference. Sue Grafton, and Faye Kellerman among have my heart broken watching Bill Mazeroski’s home
When I was in elementary school, others. (I’m not into fantasy, so J. K. Rowling run off Ralph Terry clear the Forbes Field fence.
I would gobble up books. The entire Hardy makes the cut only through her pseudony- But things have changed for me with respect to both
Boys series (I was devastated to learn later mously written mystery series.) books and baseball. As for books, I rarely read them
that Franklin W. Dixon was simply a collec- As for baseball, well, as befits some- any longer, if by books and read you mean ink, paper,
tive pseudonym for a group of ghostwriters); one who lived even for a short time in the and eyes. I now mainly listen to audiobooks. This began
the Chip Hilton books by Clair Bee (an actual shadow of Yankee Stadium (760 Grand Con- about 13 years ago, shortly after my father died and I
highly successful college basketball coach Joseph C. course at 156th St. before our family moved began visiting my mother more often in Far Rockaway,
who was forced to resign when some of his Kaplan to Far Rockaway), I’m a lifelong Yankee fan. when I realized I had to do something else in the car
LIU players were implicated in a point-shav- (The fact that my grandparents, and then other than listen to WINS. After two bridges, the FDR,
ing scandal in which he was not involved); my wife’s family, lived at 164th St. and Wal- the Grand Central, the Van Wyck, and Rockaway Boule-
and many other sports books (the only title I can remem- ton Ave., and I often heard world series roars on the vard, I’d heard enough news, ball scores, and weather
ber is the 1951 version of “The Kid Who Batted 1.000,” Yomim Nora’im and Sukkot when spending the holidays to last an entire aveylut period. So when my sister-in-law
which is available on eBay for about $25. No, I’m not buy- with them, sealed the deal.) And I still remember one Andrea suggested I try a book on CD, I did — and I was
ing it. Tempted, but no. Really, no. Really.) Chol HaMoed Pesach as a teenager arriving at Yankee hooked. (The fact that she lent me David McCullough’s
Clearly, my parents believed, wisely, in letting me read Stadium in the bottom of the first with Mantle up, and “1776” didn’t hurt, because I’d been a McCullough fan
what I wanted, in the hope that my reading bug would waiting for his at bat to be over, before my date and I since reading “The Johnstown Flood” and “The Great
continue while my tastes would improve. found our seats, because I just knew he’d hit a home run Bridge” years before.)
As usual, they were right. The Hardy Boys eventually for us. Which he did. Listening directly from CDs in the car (and on a CD
turned into dozens of Landmark Books, mainly biogra- Being a Yankee fan didn’t mean I went only to the Sta- Walkman — an awful bit of personal listening equip-
phies of American presidents and statesmen (unfortu- dium. I often joined my father, a Dodger fan, at Ebbets ment), then changed to uploading CDs onto my com-
nately, few women), European composers, explorers, Field to watch the Duke play center field and hit home puter and downloading the files to my iPod/iPhone. And
inventors, and generals, which I read and reread — and runs almost as well as the Mick. Almost. And we some- once I discovered all by myself how to convert CD files
then reread again. They made an impression; indeed, times went to the Polo Grounds to watch the Say Hey into audiobook format I’m able to listen at double speed
every time I hear the Hallelujah Chorus, I’m reminded of Kid, who, sorry Mickey, really was the best of all. (and thus double the number of books in the same time).
the story in the Landmark biography of Handel of how I remember the World Series throughout the 50s, in Finally — for now — I usually eliminate the computer and
King George II, hearing it for the first time, was so moved which it seemed the Yankees almost always were beat- download audio files directly, via the OverDrive app, to
that he stood — and when the king stands, all stand, as ing the Dodgers (yes, sigh, I know about 1956 and Johnny my iPhone from BCCLS, the New York Public Library
we still do today. (Of course, whether the story is true is Podres), and whose Sunday games I actually could watch and, thanks to my daughter in Canada, the Toronto Pub-
another matter.) since those afternoon games ended before bedtime. As lic Library — all without setting foot in a physical library.
Eventually, my reading habit turned to classics (I actu- for weekday games, someone would always bring a tran- Now I listen when reading is impossible or difficult like
ally read Dickens for fun one summer in camp) and all sistor radio to school, and the good teachers allowed exercising, driving, walking around town, or shopping.
(yeah, all) the books of Agatha Christie, James Hilton breaks every 15 minutes to get the score; the really good But I still like print. In fact, I still love print. While I
(especially loved “Lost Horizon”), Isaac Asimov (science teachers allowed a kid to sit quietly in the back with the have great appreciation for the Times of Israel for carry-
fiction), William Goldman (remember Zock in “The Tem- radio at his ear so we could get immediate important ing these columns, I doubt I’d write like I do if I couldn’t
ple of Gold,” Gary?), and Donald Westlake, of whom I was updates, like Don Larsen’s final strikeout of Dale Mitch- first touch the newsprint and hold the issue of the Jewish
particularly fond. In later years I turned to history (lots ell. And I remember at whose house I was able to watch Standard in my hands before adding it to the collection
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more cases through an already backlogged court system is creating
pressures that undoubtedly will erode immigrants’ due process rights. eaders of the left-wing on his Facebook page on March 8,
Free and independent immigration courts are crucial to the admin- American Jewish group J 2015, concerning Dalal Mughrabi,
istration of fair and equitable decisions for immigrants. The Four- Street last week embraced who murdered Gail Rubin, the
teenth Amendment admonishes us not to “deny to any person within a Palestinian terrorist niece of U.S. Senator Abraham
its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.” That means non- who was responsible for blowing up Ribicoff (D-Connecticut), and 37
citizens who are present in the United States. They cannot vote, so we Israelis and Americans in downtown Israelis in a 1978 attack:
the citizens must advocate on their behalf. Jerusalem. “In the Palestinian memory there
This administration has pushed the independence of our institu- According to the official Pal- are women before whom it is impos-
tions to its limits. Most of them so far have proven resilient. However, estinian Authority news agency sible not to stand in honor and admi-
because immigration courts are housed entirely under the executive “Wafa,” J Street president Jeremy Stephen M. ration. For March 8 (International
branch, it is becoming increasingly clear that immigration judges must Ben-Ami and a small group of his Flatow Women’s Day), thousands of bless-
be divorced from the attorney general if they are to continue to render colleagues visited the Ramallah ings for the soul of heroic female Mar-
fair and impartial decisions without being rushed, and without the headquarters of the PA, and met tyr (Shahida) Dalal Mughrabi, and to
threat of termination looming over the heads of immigration judges. with Palestinian leaders. It was a all of the Palestinian female Martyrs,
warm encounter, with the two sides lavishing as well as the female prisoners, the mothers of the
Michael J. Wildes, a Democratic former mayor of Englewood, will be on praise on one another. prisoners and Martyrs, the wounded women, the
the ballot for that position in November. A former federal prosecutor, Wafa reported that the Palestinian side con- working women, and all women of Palestine who
he is the managing partner of Wildes and Weinberg, PC, specializing in sisted of PA chairman Mahmoud Abbas and five stand firm and deal with the hardships and difficul-
immigration law. other senior Palestinian officials. One was PA ties of life alongside the men.”
Minister of Civil Affairs (and Fatah Central Com- Even before the Jerusalem court ruling, the
mittee member) Hussein al-Sheikh. American government was aware of Al-Sheikh’s
Don’t recognize the name? Allow me to terrorist background. Several years ago, a sched-
refresh your memory. uled meeting between Al-Sheikh and U.S. diplo-
Thursday, March 21, 2002, was a pleasant
early spring morning in Jerusalem. King George
Street, in the heart of the city, was packed
with shoppers. Suddenly, a Palestinian suicide
bomber struck. The explosion left three people The passage of time
in my living room. As for those books that I can’t get as audiobooks, dead, and more than 100 wounded. One of the
well, that’s one more thing Shabbat and yom tov are for. fatalities was Tzippi Shemesh, who was five has not diminished
Baseball also has changed. Instead of starters having 20-plus complete months pregnant with twins. Al-Sheikh’s
games a season, a “quality start” is six innings; instead of having a relief Among the wounded were a number of Ameri-
pitcher for when the starter gets in trouble, pitchers include middle cans. The force of the explosion hurled U.S. cit- affection for those
relief, set up, left handed specialists, closers, and a new invention (oy!) izen Alan Bauer 20 feet. Two screws that were who murder Israelis
— openers; instead of hit and runs, stolen bases, and sacrifice bunts, we packed into the bomb ripped clear through his
have too many games seemingly consisting mainly of strike outs and left arm. His 7-year-old son, Jonathan, suffered and Americans.
home runs; instead of articles about what happened at a game, the NYT severe shrapnel wounds and fell into a coma.
compares spin rates on curve balls; instead of reserving defensive shifts Jonathan subsequently underwent many opera-
for hitters like Ted Williams, they’re now used for those batting .238. tions to remove nails and screws from his head, mats at the American consulate in Jerusalem was
It’s not that I’m anti-sabermetrics (though $10 to the person who including one that was lodged in his brain. Need- canceled when U.S. officials realized Al-Sheikh’s
can explain to me so I really understand how WAR is computed and less to say, he was left with permanent injuries. connection to the bombing.
what it actually means). But the unrelenting reliance on statistics The Al Aqsa Martyrs Brigade, which is the mili- Yet there were the leaders of J Street last week,
makes the game feel overly mechanical at times, rather than a lovely tary arm of Abbas’s Fatah movement, openly in Ramallah, shaking hands, embracing, and
way to enjoy a lazy, long, sunny Sunday summer afternoon. claimed responsibility for the bombing. In fact, heaping praise on Al-Sheikh and his comrades.
I can, and do, still enjoy a good game, like the one at the new Sta- it was that bombing which moved the U.S. State On a man directly involved in shedding Israeli
dium my mechutan Ray invited me to, and the one my daughter took Department finally to put the Al Aqsa Martyrs and American blood.
me to at Rogers Centre to watch the Blue Jays, my grandkids’ favorite Brigade on its official list of terrorist groups. If J Street’s leaders knew about Al-Sheikh’s
team — a highlight for me of our last visit to Toronto. The fact that our Members of the Shemesh family filed suit against background before the meeting, and chose to
excellent seats were close enough to the players to almost touch them, the PA, and as a result, details of those who were embrace him anyway, then they have lost the
and were near the kosher hot dogs and fries (something I dreamed involved in the attack became public. Earlier this moral right to be treated as respected members
about as a kid) certainly didn’t hurt. But I go to games more rarely year, the Jerusalem District Court ruled that the of the American Jewish community.
than before, and watch them less on TV. It’s just not as much fun. PA was responsible for the bombing. In its ruling, If J Street’s leaders didn’t know about Al-
So why the difference between books and baseball. Why have I the court cited closed-door testimony provided by Sheikh before the meeting — if they didn’t do
adapted so well to significant changes in one of my loves and not Israeli intelligence officials who named names — the most basic homework to find out just whom
so much to those in the other? I have some guesses about possible including “senior Fatah official Hussein al-Sheikh, they would be hugging — that would be incred-
answers, but understanding the reason is not really what’s important. who met the suicide bomber and two other opera- ibly careless and irresponsible. But they can help
What is important is the realization that I can pick and choose what tives and gave them money and two hand grenades makeup for that horrible mistake by publicly call-
changes I like and can happily adapt to, and which ones I don’t. I’m to carry out the bombing.” ing on the PA to extradite Al-Sheikh to the United
neither bound to the past nor committed to abandoning it for the So Al-Sheikh literally put hand grenades into States for prosecution.
future. I can remember, cherish, and even relive the old while still the hands of the bomber and his assistants, in The ball is in J Street’s court.
learning about, appreciating, and participating in the new. order to murder innocent people, and financed
I can be 71 and feel 15 at the same time. Sometimes. their attack. Which, according to American and Stephen M. Flatow of West Orange is an attorney
Israeli law, makes Al-Sheikh equally guilty of the in Fairfield and the father of Alisa Flatow,
Joseph C. Kaplan, a regular columnist, is a long-time resident of murders and maiming of their victims. who was murdered in an Iranian-sponsored
Teaneck. His work also has appeared in various publications including The passage of time has not diminished Al- Palestinian terrorist attack in 1995. His book,
Sh’ma magazine, the New York Jewish Week, the Baltimore Jewish Sheikh’s affection for those who murder Israelis “A Father’s Story: My Fight for Justice Against
Times, and, as letters to the editor, the New York Times. and Americans. Here’s what Al-Sheikh posted Iranian Terror,” will be published later this year.
ZOA sponsors campus programs during which students visit Judea and Samaria, Jerusalem, In Dr. Tani Foger’s piece on the Supreme Court confir-
I dove into Bob Peckar’s column, “Allies in the fight to the Golan Heights, and the Knesset. Students return to cam- mation hearings (“An embarrassing and cringeworthy but
reclaim college campuses” (September 21), with both pus as well-prepared Zionist leaders. teachable moment”), she points out that there is never a
personal and professional interest. I would like to Alan Jay, Paramus reason to shy away from helping your children understand
applaud Mr. Peckar for bringing this important issue to (Mr. Jay is the executive director of current issues (at a level they are able) and the importance
your readership, but I feel compelled to add one more the ZOA’s Northern New Jersey chapter.) of realizing the applicability of these events as they navigate
very important national program that deserves extra- the world of parties, substance use and sexual behavior.
special attention. It’s important to talk to children So power through your discomfort. Ask your children
The Zionist Organization of America’s Campus program I was encouraged and grateful to see that the October 5 issue what they have heard in the media about certain topics and
(www.campus.zoa.org) is on more than 100 U.S. college of the Jewish Standard addressed the important issues of speak to your child about it at his/her level. The incidence
campuses and is one of the best, most comprehensive mental health and the relevance of using current events as of suicides in our area is alarming. Don’t think your children
opportunities designed to benefit not only students, but a springboard for serious discussions with children. aren’t aware. Ask them what they have heard.
the entire college community. ZOA Campus provides free As Cheryl Rosenberg points out in her op ed, “How to talk Our openness to discussing these types of issues will lead
educational events, speakers, grants for programs, informa- about mental health,” when we clarify our misperceptions to improvement in mental health and empowerment for the
tional booklets, and fact sheets to enable pro-Israel educa- about mental health and truly listen to others without judg- next generation.
tion and programming to students, professors, and college ing or categorizing, we are not only helping those close to It is no mistake that these two articles were on page 36. A
administrators. Professional ZOA campus coordinators pro- us, but the community at large. Our high school and college real double chai for the Standard writers.
vide hands-on support, enabling Jewish and other Zionist students are setting good examples for us in organizations Eileen Schneider MSW, ACSW, LCSW, Hillsdale
students to carry out successful pro-Israel programs, and such as NAMI on Campus and Active Minds, which support
to respond effectively to anti-Israel rhetoric and activities. mental health awareness and programming on college cam- Not fair and balanced
Students are invited and encouraged to participate in ZOA’s puses across the country. In your editorial about the cancellation of Lisa Daftari’s talk
Advocacy Mission to Washington, D.C., and its annual gala As a mental health professional, I encourage parents and at Rutgers (October 18), you give as one of the justifications,
dinner. For a select group of students who demonstrate lead- families to be open with their children; to include them in “She does often speak on Fox News, and that in itself is divi-
ership qualities and who commit to continuing on-campus discussions and meetings about school or social issues that sive.” The implication is that speech on CNN or MSNBC is
Israel advocacy and activism, ZOA offers an all-expenses- affect them. There should not be shame in mental health not divisive. It is an editorial, and you are entitled to your
paid student leadership mission to Israel. This is a boots- issues, just as one would not be embarrassed to have a bro- opinion. But fair and balanced you clearly are not.
on-the-ground, education, and advocacy training program, ken ankle. Alan Lewis, Fair Lawn
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wo grimly sobering 300,000 fought with Austria-Hungary. Many thousands of reluctance of his own government to combat such slan-
anniversaries fall in them lost their lives in the process. From outside Europe, ders. “To publicize the exploits of Jewish soldiers, or even
November. more than 200,000 Jews were among the approximately 5 to admit the existence of a considerable Jewish army in
On the 9th and million American service personnel in 1917, when the United the Middle East, rouses hostility in South Africa, the Arab
10th, we will mark the 80th States joined the Allied side. countries and elsewhere,” he wrote during World War II.
anniversary of Kristallnacht — When it came to Jewish civilians, the toll in the eastern “It is easier to ignore the whole subject and allow the man
the orgy of murder and violence half of Europe was particularly brutal, with hundreds of in the street to go on thinking that Jews are exceptionally
that devastated Jewish commu- thousands of Jews deported to the Russian interior or mur- clever at dodging military service.”
nities across Nazi Germany in dered in bloody pogroms. Those ravages led several thou- But the British were far from alone in falling for the
1938. The following day, Novem- Ben Cohen sand Jews to join the ranks of the Bolshevik Revolution and myth that Jews are at their most disloyal in times, like
ber 11, we will mark the centen- even serve in its senior posts, but by the mid-1920s, the rul- wartime, when everyone else is at their most loyal. That
nial of the armistice that ended ing Communist Party was no longer a polyglot underground trope was among the many anti-Semitic fabrications of the
World War I — the most devastating military conflict the organization. It was, in dramatic contrast, a ruling bureau- Nazis, whose dehumanizing propaganda campaigns and
world had so far experienced. cracy undergoing a profound process of Russification. notorious racial laws discriminating against Jews exploded
These two events, occurring exactly 20 years apart, were The experience of World War I left some Jewish commu- in the violence of Kristallnacht. More than 100 Jews were
intimately connected. Some historians argue that the 20th nities feeling more integrated and secure, while others were murdered on the streets of Germany during those hours of
century really began with World War I, which buried the exposed as highly vulnerable, or even decimated out of exis- fire and broken glass, while 30,000 more were deported
geriatric Habsburg and Ottoman empires and set the stage tence. It also made realistic the proposal of a national home to camps whose names — Buchenwald, Sachsenhausen,
for the modern totalitarian systems of communism and for the Jewish people, an end-goal the British government Dachau— now are indelibly associated with the Holocaust.
fascism, directly paving the way for the rise in Germany of regarded “with favor” in its Balfour Declaration of 1917. On These are the basic facts that the forthcoming com-
National Socialism and its unprecedented war on the Jews. November 11, 1918, then, the world’s Jews could see the prom- memorations of these two events will reflect. For Jews,
In all senses you can think of, there was a dramatic trans- ise of redemption on all the political paths — liberal-assimila- these are occasions for profound historical reflection,
formation in the position of Europe’s Jews between the end tionist, revolutionary, Zionist — that were available to them. in a year that already has witnessed the 70th anniver-
of the “Great War,” as it was dubbed, and the Nazi Holo- Hardly any of them believed that mass extermination was sary of the State of Israel’s creation. Both anniversaries
caust that consumed nearly two-thirds of their number. For awaiting them within a generation. To have even suggested are occasions to ponder how the crooked road of Jewish
one thing, the record of Jewish military service in the war such a thing to one of the 7,000 Jews decorated by Germany emancipation, whose benefits these days still far out-
rather gruesomely demonstrated that Jews were also loyal, for his war service probably would have been insulting. weigh the persistence of anti-Semitism, felt for those
grateful citizens of the countries in which they lived. Given But as the polarizing settlement that ended World War who came before us. JNS.ORG
that French-Jewish army officer Alfred Dreyfus had been I finally crumbled with Hitler’s launching of World War
convicted of treason in an anti-Semitic show trial only two II, the old libels against the Jews — that they were trib- Ben Cohen writes a weekly column for JNS on Jewish affairs
decades earlier, that record was even more striking. ally disloyal, that they profited from war both economi- and Middle Eastern politics. His work has been published in
More than 50,000 Jews fought on the British and Com- cally and in terms of political influence — returned with Commentary, the New York Post, Haaretz, the Wall Street
monwealth side, 100,000 fought with the Germans, and a vengeance. The British writer George Orwell noted the Journal, and many other publications.
W
e are living in a health- Along with the joys of weight loss
conscious society. comes the complement of exercise. I
Vegans, vegetarians, happen to enjoy exercise. Well, I enjoy
paleo, keto, are just a walking, so we will call that exercise.
few of the ways people watch what they With the right anti-inflammatory for my
eat and how they eat. You can have fruit, knee, I could walk all day long. It is the
but not every fruit. You can have carbs, best therapy there is, because you can
but they have to be complex carbs. (Does just talk to yourself and solve all of your
that mean they had a diffi- problems. And breathe in
cult childhood if they are the fresh air and appreci-
complex?) ate God’s beauty around
And drink lots of water. you. I also enjoy spin-
Water is the best. Water ning, because the music
all day long. No thank you. is incredible and that class
Water makes me queasy. takes place in a dark room
The other day, I was at a and no one can get scared
kiddish having a hot flash of what I look like from
(it also could have been a behind. Enough said.
panic attack, but we will Banji But this past week I
go with the hot flash) and Ganchrow enjoyed an entirely dif-
I was pouring myself a cup ferent kind of class. My
of Diet Coke. Some woman friend Tiffany has started
looks at me and says, “You know, you working at a new gym, called Juma
really shouldn’t be drinking that. It isn’t Fit. I am sure the name means some-
healthy.” I look back at her, give her my thing about health and body and some-
very best are-you-kidding me smile, thing healthy, but she was offering the
and reply, “Well, if I end up dying first, chance to take a free treadmill class.
I won’t really know who was right, will That piqued my curiosity, because I can
I?” And then I proceeded to enjoy my do the treadmill. The treadmill requires
Across Down
cold cup of chemicals. And my hot flash walking, and I know how to walk! So I
1. Elite group 1. Star of “The Muppets”
2. Run off to the chuppah, maybe stopped flashing. told Tiffany that I would love to be one
6. 1976 Kiss hit
10. Basilica area 3. Actor Ehrenreich of her guinea pigs. I also told her that it
14. Island near Manhattan 4. Sentence or cereal would be great for me to take her class
15. Space measurement 5. Ashdod to Hebron dir. because she would learn how to use
6. Ally: Gaga :: Esther: ___
16. Israeli sandals
17. Pious, radioactive behemoth? 7. Jewish scholar Brown And then I the defibrillator when the big girl in the
back has a heart attack….
20. Olympics blade
21. Toronto media inits.
8. Total brothers that conspired against
Joseph proceeded So I showed up at the Juma gym,
22. Divorce document
23. Wiseman of the “Underworld” fran-
9. Book that predates the siddur
10. Moreno’s Oscar role to enjoy my signed a release — apparently everyone
had to sign one, not just the big girl —
chise
24. Winged “woman” perched on the
11. Bud
12. Costa del ___, Spain
cold cup of and we were ready to work out. I have
resting spot of Noah’s Ark? 13. Airborne guesstimate, for short
18. Words that follow Rent
chemicals. And got to say that it was very enjoyable.
I walked, I ran, I ran faster, I walked
29. “___ Breckinridge” (Vidal novel)
30. “You bet” follower 19. Round number my hot flash again…apparently this is called inter-
31. Chametz that’s permanently in
Jerusalem?
24. Psalm’s relative
25. Go-with to a big question stopped flashing. val training. Who knew? (Probably lots
of people, just not me.) Tiffany did a
32. See 33-Down 26. Setting for settings
27. Ballet bends great job motivating us and keeping us
34. It connects nearly all of the world’s
kohanim 28. “O.K.” from Tom Sawyer When it comes to eating healthy, you focused and I was sweating enough to
35. Nile bird 29. Some Veterans Day honorees, for have to choose what is right for you. warrant drinking the crystal light pink
36. Soulless creature in northern Israel? short What makes you feel best. And if that lemonade that I brought along…still no
40. Ivanovic and Gasteyer 32. Lionize
is eating a peanut butter powder with water. I guess it’s the one thing I have in
41. Loudspeaker, for short 33. Keyboardist for 32-Across
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42. Washingtons?
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44. Blotter letters 36. Ogle to you. There are so many nutritionists something.) And I was very proud of
45. Place on the schedule 37. “___ baruch hu” and health coaches out there to help you myself that I made it through the whole
38. Slate or The Daily Beast, for short
47. Leviathan practicing self-defense? lose weight. What about the poor people class without the need for the defibril-
50. Fed. entitlement org. 39. A Powerpuff Girl, e.g.
44. Lbs. and qts., e.g. who have to gain weight? Kids who don’t lator. And Tiffany was probably happy
53. “___ be an honor”
54. 1988 Anne Spielberg penned hit 45. Practices frugality weigh enough to be on the growth chart. about that too.
55. Bridge 46. Alternative to Duplo People who have been sick and haven’t Now if only I could learn to eat
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49. Regarding
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62. Chicken, e.g. 50. Cricket or Polo, e.g.
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63. Broadcast network
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65. Certain holiday structures, essentially 55. Outer layer plies, I could have you gain 10 pounds Banji Ganchrow of Teaneck is looking
66. Diary segment 56. Start of Clark’s real first name in less than three days. Please, someone, forward to the next time she can take
57. “___ Ran the Zoo” (Dr. Seuss book)
accept my challenge. I will even help you a treadmill class. And maybe she can
The solution to last week’s puzzle is 58. Piece activists?: Abbr.
on page 51. 59. First Lady before Eleanor for free! sneak a real Snickers into it.
60. Scot’s denial
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Petrella play chamber
Council of Jewish
begins “FedTalk: music by Johannes
Women at Senior Source
Brahms at the Kaplen
Israel,” a series of JCC on the Palisades, at the Shops at Riverside,
discussions focused on current 3 p.m. 411 East Clinton second level, in Riverside
Square Mall, Hackensack,
issues in Israel. Israeli attorney Ave. (201) 408-1465 or
2:30 p.m. Refreshments.
Book signing/ jccotp.org/Thurnauer.
and human rights activist Natsana discussion in (201) 385-4847 or www.
Darshan-Leitner, the founder Ridgewood: Fran ncjwbcs.org.
of Shurat HaDin Israeli Law Hawthorne, author of Tuesday
School open house in
“The Heirs,” a Holocaust OCTOBER 30
Center, will discuss “Bankrupting novel set in New Jersey, Elizabeth: The Jewish Jamie Brenner
Educational Center’s Rav
Terrorism…One Lawsuit at a Time,” leads a discussion and
Teitz Mesivta Academy
signs copies of her book Book event in Paramus:
7:30 p.m. 50 Eisenhower Drive, at Temple Israel and JCC, holds an open house, Jamie Brenner, author of
Paramus. www.jfnnj.org/fedtalks 10 a.m. Breakfast. 475 7 p.m. Refreshments “The Husband Hour,” is
and registration, 6:30.
or (201) 820-3907. COURTESY JFNNJ Grove St. Reservations,
330 Elmora Ave.
the speaker at the Jewish
(201) 444-9320 or Federation of Northern
[email protected]. Rabbi Sariel Malitzky, New Jersey’s Women’s
(908) 355-4850, ext. Philanthropy meeting,
6197, highschool@ 7:30 p.m. Co-sponsored
Friday Saturday theJEC.org, or jechs.org. by sisterhoods of Temple
OCTOBER 26 OCTOBER 27 Beth Sholom of Pascack
Dr. Robert Shapiro Valley in Park Ridge and
Bergen County history: COURTESY RAMAPO Emanuel of the Pascack
Deborah Powell, a Valley in Woodcliff Lake,
past president of the Diaries from Lodz: Dr. with Women of Chai of
Bergen County Historical Robert Shapiro, professor Temple Beth Tikvah in
Concert in Park Ridge: of East European Jewish Wayne. 50 Eisenhower
Society, discusses The free Bergen County
“Little Known History of studies, Holocaust Drive. (201) 820-3906 or
Music Concert series studies, and Yiddish at jfnnj.org/bookandAuthor.
Bergen County: The Tidal at the Wortendyke
Gristmill at New Bridge Brooklyn College of the
Barn Museum, a county City University of New
Landing,” for River Dell
Hadassah at the River
historic site in Park York, discusses “A Tale Dr. Natalia Aleksiun Wednesday
Ridge, concludes with of Two Diaries from the COURTESY RAMAPO OCTOBER 31
Edge Public Library, the 8th annual Bluegrass
11 a.m. Refreshments. Lodz Ghetto” in the
& Cider festival, at Trustees Pavilion (PAV Hidden Eastern
685 Elm Ave. European Jews: Blood drive in Teaneck:
Film in Hoboken: The 1 p.m. Limited seating is 1) at Ramapo College
(201) 261-1663, ext. 4. Holy Name Medical
United Synagogue of available; attendees can in Mahwah, 1:45 p.m. Dr. Natalia Aleksiun,
Center holds a blood
Hoboken’s Film series bring chairs and blankets Sponsored by Ramapo’s associate professor of
drive with New Jersey
shows “Besa — The and a food vendor will be Gross Center for modern Jewish history
Blood Services, a division
Promise,” about Albanian present. The museum is Holocaust and Genocide at the Touro College’s
of New York Blood
Muslims rescuing Jews open to visitors at noon Studies. 505 Ramapo graduate school,
Center, 1:30 -7:30 p.m.
during the Shoah, and during intermission. Valley Road, Mahwah. discusses “Gender and
718 Teaneck Road.
7:30 p.m. 115 Park Ave. (201) 336-7292 or email (201) 684-7409. the Daily Lives of Jews
(800) 933-2566 or www.
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hobokensynagogue.org. nj.us. Eastern Europe during
PHOTOS PROVIDED
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Film festival in Teaneck: montebellojc.org.
The Teaneck International
Shabbat service: Town give a PowerPoint presentation on the
& Village Synagogue history of illustrations of the Tablets of
Film Festival begins its
four-day run. Information, Sunday in Manhattan holds an
ASL-interpreted Shabbat
the Covenant and the Ten Command-
schedules, and tickets, NOVEMBER 4 service, with full readings ments from the Bible through the Middle
(201) 203-1723 or www.
teaneckfilmfestival.org.
from the Torah and Ages, in both Jewish and Christian art. The discussion will include the shapes of the
School open house in haftorah, 10 a.m. Kiddush
Paramus: The Frisch two tablets, the division of the Ten Commandments, the division of the sections (para-
will follow. 334 East
Friday , School holds an open 14th St., between First shot), and the Jewish sources upon which these representations are based. For more
house at the Mordecai and Second avenues. information, call (201) 837-2795.
NOVEMBER 2 and Monique Katz Underwritten by UJA-
Academic Building, Federation of New York’s
9 a.m.-noon. 120 Jewish Community
West Century Road. Deaf Interpreter Fund.
Judith Goldsmith, (212) 677-0368V, www.
(201) 267-9100, tandv.org, or email Bram
[email protected]. at [email protected].
Register at www.frisch.
org/openhouse.
Saturday
NOVEMBER 10
Dr. Martin Dean Ramaz School open
COURTESY RAMAPO house: The Upper School
of Ramaz holds an open
Babi Yar massacre: Dr. house at the Morris & Ida
Martin Dean, historical
consultant at Babi Yar
Newman Educational
Center, 7:45 p.m. B
Holocaust Memorial
Center, discusses “Babi
60 E. 78th St. Shara
Lipson, (212) 774-8093, a
Yar and the Holocaust in [email protected]. T
Ukraine” in the Alumni Register at www.ramaz.
Lounges (SC158) at Book brunch: The United org/openhouse. A
Ramapo College in Synagogue of Hoboken t
Mahwah, 1:45 p.m. hosts a book brunch t
Sponsored by Ramapo’s
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about “The Strange
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Holocaust and Genocide with author Dawn
Studies. 505 Ramapo
Valley Road, Mahwah.
Raffel, 10:30 a.m. Learn Friday Golem PHOTO PROVIDED E
how Dr. Martin Arthur
NOVEMBER 2 7
(201) 684-7409. Couney — born Michael
Cohn in Poland in 1869 Klezmer-rock group in Flemington 2
Shabbat in Closter: — saved thousands of West Orange e
Temple Beth El offers a premature American Shabbaton: Modern The klezmer-rock group Golem per- mix to create a contemporary klezmer o
guest artist Shabbat with Orthodox singles, 30-45,
New York Philharmonic
infants by putting them forms at Stangl Stage in Flemington on sound that gets people dancing wherever
in incubators in Coney are welcome to “Singles
violinist/TBE congregant Fall-Back,” featuring Saturday, November 3, at 8 p.m. the group performs.
Island sideshows and
Yulia Ziskel and pianist hiring skilled nurses Shabbat.com founder, Traditional klezmer combines ideas For tickets, google Golem Flemington
James Rensink. Mini- to care for them. Rabbi Benzion Klatzko. from traditional Romanian and gypsy Jewish Community Center. The evening
concert, 6:30 p.m., Kabbalat Shabbat
followed by wine, fruit,
Brunch. 115 Park Ave. music with the vocal ornamentations is sponsored by the Flemington Jewish
(201) 659-4000. services in Smilowitz
and cheese at a “Pre- Beit Midrash for singles used by cantors in Jewish liturgical sing- Community Center and the Shimon and
Neg” at 7, and the service only, followed by dinner ing, and later from American jazz. Golem Sara Birnbaum JCC.
led by Rabbi David and program; Shabbat has thrown hard-driving rock into the
in Wayne
JSDD fundraising art exhibition Mahjong lessons started at
Temple Beth Tikvah in Wayne.
The Jewish Service for the Developmen- 760 Northfield Ave., West Orange. Pro-
For more information, email
tally Disabled, a not-for-profit social ser- ceeds will benefit those served by JSDD.
[email protected] or go to
vice provider, hosts “Doorways To Infi- A kosher cocktail reception will run from
www.templebethtikvahnj.org.
nite Possibility,” a fundraising gala and 6 to 8:30 p.m. For more information, call
art exhibit, opening on Sunday, Novem- (973) 272-7148.
ber 4, at the JCC Gaelen Gallery East,
Mahjong student
Paula Rindner shows
her winning hand.
Bobby and Rudy Kaplan will host a fund- Aryeh Simmonds, the hospital’s NICU
raiser at their Teaneck home on Wednes- chief, is the guest speaker. For more
day, October 31, at 7:30 p.m., to benefit information, email Judy.Rapfogel@
Laniado Hospital in Netanya, Israel. Dr. gmail.com.
Dr. Ruth is coming to Tenafly
Ruth Westheimer, better to Palestine, trained and
Brunch, lecture, known simply as Dr. Ruth, will
be at the Kaplen JCC on the
served as a Haganah sniper,
was wounded in an explo-
and museum trip Palisades in Tenafly on Sun- sion, and eventually came
The Dor L’Dor group at Congregation day, November 4, at 5 p.m., to to the United States, where
Ahavath Torah in Englewood offers a discuss her life and the lessons she worked as a maid before
talk by artist and curator Sheryl Intra- she’s learned. becoming a college professor,
tor Urman, brunch, and a trip (includ- Dr. Ruth, who is known for author, and celebrity.
ing transportation) to the Metropolitan speaking frankly about inti- Her new book, “Roller-
Museum of Art in Manhattan to see the mate matters, has enjoyed an Coaster Grandma,” is an auto-
Eugène Delacroix exhibit on November illustrious career as a late-night Dr. Ruth biography for a 8- to 12-year-
7. The day begins with lunch at the shul, radio, television, and pop cul- Westheimer olds that describes the ups
240 Broad Ave., at 10:30 a.m. For res- ture celebrity whose humor and downs of her 90-year-
ervations, call Eileen at (201) 569-4560 and warmth entertained and educated journey, using a trip to an amusement park
r or email [email protected]. thousands of viewers and listeners since with her grandchildren as its backdrop.
r Sheryl Intrator Urman the 1980s. Born to German Jewish parents, Books will be for sale and she will sign
she was sent to Switzerland on a Kinder- them. Dr. Ruth’s talk is co-sponsored with
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trast with the low-ceiling, windowless space now used for classrooms,” Mr. Altman said. “Our present building was
prayers, a space that barely can seat the entire student not built for the latest and greatest ways we want to edu-
body. The back wall of the synagogue can open up to allow cate our students. We realized something had to be done
the expanded area to seat 700 people. to make our space more collaborative.”
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