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Sex… Education?
I first realized that there was something wrong with sex education when I drove my
cousin to a convenience store to buy a pregnancy test. Crying and dry heaving with her mascara
smudging around her eyes, she told me she was late and that she and her boyfriend hadn’t been
using protection. She did not have her license yet and was too embarrassed to go herself, so I
paid for it while she hung back. Ten minutes later, I was standing in line at a Taco Bell while she
was in the bathroom. I had already sat down and started eating when she came out of the
restroom and walked to the table I was sitting at. She sat down, let out a heavy sigh of relief, and
said, “We’re good”. Since the emotionally jarring part of the night was over, I felt free to lecture
her. I asked her, using some choice words, what she thought she was doing; why had she not
practiced safe sex? She gave me a worn-out shrug and explained that she did not think it was
likely that she would actually get pregnant; she thought it would “probably be fine”. I learned
about the holes in this thought process when I was fourteen, but she had not grown up in
The next time I realized there was something wrong was when a friend of mine tipped me
off that my brother’s ex-girlfriend had syphilis. The next time I saw him, I let him know what I
heard. He looked at me and scoffed and said that even though she was a cheater, she would have
told him if that was something he needed to be concerned about. I told him who I heard it from
because this friend happened to be a credible source. His eyes got wide and stared at me for
about thirty seconds. By then, it was pretty obvious to me that he hadn’t thought to protect
himself from STIs. I told him to go get himself checked. His relief was as palpable as my
cousin’s had been a few weeks later when he told me that he was fine.
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The third time I realized there was something wrong with sex education, I was laying in
bed, watching Youtube videos on my phone, my eyes drooping as I fought off sleep in favor of
the media being presented to me. I was looking through the recommended section when an
interesting title caught my eye—“Kids Meet a Teen Mom”. I clicked on the video and was
greeted with a funny opening scene and some upbeat music. The mom revealed her name
name—Maddie—and then her age. Fifteen. She had conceived and given birth when she was
fourteen years old. According to her, most of her friends had also been having sex at the time,
but she was the one who ended up with a baby. When asked if she used protection, she said she
did not because they do not really teach about protection in Texas, instead focusing only on
abstinence. I was enraged on her behalf. How could the system fail her like this? How could they
just teach abstinence, knowing that it would not work 100% of the time and that the teens who
did not abstain would not know how to protect themselves? If this is the standard for Texas, and
for many other states as I have discovered through my research, exactly how many teens have
suffered due to this shoddy sex ed? Watching this video inspired me to investigate the question:
How does sexual education that primarily focuses on abstinence contribute to STI, teen
It is no secret that sex education is a very necessary tool to slow down unhealthy
behaviors and the consequences young people face from these behaviors. After all, something
must be done about the fact that, compared to other industrialized countries, the United States
has had some of the highest teen pregnancy and STI rates in recent years (Kendall 10). However,
abstinence-only sex education often seems like an urban legend to many people in states like
California. Here, the California Healthy Youth Act of 2016 requires middle and high schools to
teach medically accurate, comprehensive sex education (Torlakson), which the California
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Education Code defines as “education regarding human development and sexuality, including
51931”). However, there is no federal legislation similar to this; states make their own laws
regarding sex education. While there is no federal legislation requiring or preventing sex
education, nor any specifying what the curriculum needs to include, the federal government has
been funding abstinence-only until marriage programs since the Reagan administration when the
Adolescent Family Life Act was passed and has continued to do so since, especially during the
Bush administration (“A History”). President Reagan allotted approximately $32 million dollars
to abstinence-only sex education and, despite Clinton’s attempts to cut funding to AFLA (Saul),
this number only increased during his administration to about $216 million dollars (“Dedicated
Federal”). According to the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States,
“Between 1996 and federal Fiscal Year (FY) 2018, Congress has funneled over $2.1 billion in
taxpayer dollars into abstinence-only-until-marriage programs, and that funding continues today”
(“A History”). Around $1.1 billion of that $2.1 billion was during the Bush administration
(“Dedicated Federal”). Today, only eighteen states and the District of Columbia require schools
to teach about contraception if sex education is provided (“Sex and HIV Education”). This leaves
the rest of the states free to provide abstinence-only sex ed programs, and those programs receive
funding from the government to this day, meaning abstinence-only education hasn’t gone away;
not by a long shot. But what effects do these programs have? Many people, especially religious
Americans, insist that abstinence-only programs exist to prevent teenagers from having sex,
which, in theory, reduces teen pregnancy and STI rates, while many other people insist that
teenagers will have sex no matter what and depriving them of comprehensive education leaves
them with no knowledge of how to protect themselves. However long the debate lasts, years and
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years of compiled research has shown that abstinence-only sex education can, if anything at all,
only prevent teenagers from having sex for a short amount of time and is significantly worse than
rates and produces higher rates than comprehensive sexual education. For example, a study
conducted between 2002 and 2005, beginning just four years after the Bush administration began
to grant $50 million in annual support for states who taught abstinence-only sex ed (“A
History”), compared the teen pregnancy rates in five developed countries. In the United States,
for every 1000 girls aged fifteen through nineteen, 72.2 were pregnant, whereas in the
Netherlands, 11.8 were pregnant (Hall and Stanger-Hall). Clearly, there is a significant
difference between the two statistics, but why? To answer that question, a comprehensive review
on the differences in sex education between the British, who had a very similar approach to
sexual education as the United States, and the Dutch was published. The review highlighted
many aspects of Dutch sex ed that were unique and could be contributing to their low pregnancy
rates, but the starkest difference by far was the Dutch approach to contraception; “The Dutch
science texts provide full coverage of methods of contraception, discuss where they can be
obtained and why some are suitable for certain groups of people” (Knijn and Lewis). The
introduction of contraception to the curriculum greatly improved their teen pregnancy rates
because learning about contraception makes one more likely to use them during sex, which
would decrease the likelihood of becoming pregnant or contracting an STI significantly. This is a
clear example of how sex education programs that include information about contraceptives can
improve pregnancy rates. If it has worked in the Netherlands, it then follows that it should
increase contraceptive use in the United States, which would then lead to lower pregnancy and
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STI rates. In fact, there is plenty of evidence to support the effectiveness of comprehensive
sexual education programs in the States. Take, for example, a comparative review between
abstinence-only and comprehensive sex education in different states, which has found that
“States that… covered abstinence along with contraception and condom use... tended to have the
lowest teen pregnancy rates, while states with abstinence-only sex education laws… were
significantly less successful in preventing teen pregnancies” (Alagiri et al.) If the programs that
have been proven to lower teen pregnancy rates could be applied to every state, perhaps that
could substantially improve the nation’s pregnancy and STI problem. Jennifer Lucke, who has
taught sexual education at South High School in Minnesota, has found this to be true from her
own personal experience. Her sex education curriculum has changed over the years to gradually
focus less on abstinence. According to her, the current programs they have in place, which teach
abstinence but do not stress it, have helped to significantly reduce STI and teen pregnancy rates.
Of course, teen pregnancy and STI rates are not all that must be discussed when debating the
Some may argue that there have been several studies that show that abstinence-only
programs can be effective at reducing teen sex rates. While there have been studies that indicate
this, they have not been deemed conclusive and there are other studies that suggest that this
difference may be short term only. Proponents of abstinence-only sex education believe that it is
effective for a reason; there are several studies that, at first glance, seem like convincing
evidence in these programs’ favor. However, when evidence like this was compiled by two
credible reviews, “Neither review found scientific evidence that abstinence-only programs
demonstrate efficacy in delaying `initiation of sexual intercourse’” (Lyon et al.). One such
review commented that the studies could only speak for effects within three years of the
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programs (Kirby). The lack of long-term effects is a recurring issue. This can be seen when
examining an in-depth study into the effectiveness of abstinence-only education, funded by the
U.S. Department for Health and Human Services and the Administration for Children and
Families. Mathematica Policy Research conducted this study by measuring the results of students
who received abstinence-only education and the results of a control group, who received no sex
education in schools or in a program at all. According to the study, when surveyed right after the
program versus in a later follow-up, support for abstinence declined sharply, and “Among youth
in the program group, the decline in support for abstinence was even greater than among control
group youth, leading program impacts on this measure to disappear over time” (Clark et al.).
Students who received abstinence-only sex education generally held more favorable views
towards abstinence when asked right after the study, but three to five years later, they were no
more predisposed towards waiting until marriage than the control group. The study also suggests
that peer pressure might have had a bigger role in the students’ reported attitudes towards sex
than the actual program did (Clark et al.). This could mean that the abstinence-only sex
education didn’t even have a short term effect; students may have said they supported abstinence
without any plans to actually abstain because that is what they felt they were supposed to say.
Overall, existing evidence of positive effects of abstinence-only education is shaky at best and
Even if abstinence-only programs could reduce teen sex rates, which is their goal, no
program could completely eradicate teenage sex and using a program that does not teach about
safe sex leaves the teenagers who do not remain abstinent vulnerable to teen pregnancy or STIs.
Regardless of how heavily abstinence until marriage is pushed, it is inevitable that some, if not
many, will still have sex before marriage. Sex before marriage has been a common occurrence
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for a very long time. In fact, according to LB Finer, “Among cohorts of women turning 15
between 1964 and 1993, at least 91% had had premarital sex by age 30. Among those turning 15
between 1954 and 1963, 82% had had premarital sex by age 30, and 88% had done so by age 44”
(Finer). Even during the Reagan administration when the government was heavily championing
abstinence, a lot of women had premarital sex. Abstinence-only programs seek to reduce teen
sex, since eliminating it is impossible. Even if abstinence-only programs could cut teen sex rates
in half, which they cannot, there would still be a lot of people having premarital sex. It is
important for those people, often teenagers, to have sex responsibly in order to minimize their
risks. Abstinence-only programs, however, fail at equipping student with the knowledge to make
informed choices. The Mathematica Policy Research study found that “Youth in the program
group were significantly less likely to report that condoms usually prevent STDs than those in
the control group” (Clark et al.). In fact, many students in the program group reported that
condoms were never effective in preventing STIs, which is medically inaccurate—condoms are
actually proven to reduce the risk of contracting an STI (“Condoms”). While the program did not
teach them that condoms were ineffective, it avoided mentioning condoms at all and taught them
that abstinence was the only certain way to avoid pregnancy and STIs which, while not untrue,
when paired with the lack of introduction to other forms of contraception, can make other
methods of contraception seem futile. This is harmful to those who will not abstain because
when they do have sex they will not be predisposed to using a condom. Why use one if it does
not work? That this mindset exists is supported by a comparative study between comprehensive
and abstinence-only sex education, which demonstrated that the students who were only taught
abstinence “had reduced favorable attitudes toward condom use, and were more likely to have
unprotected sex than the comparison group. Findings suggest that adolescents who receive
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abstinence-only education are at greater risk of engaging in unprotected sex” (Girard, et al.).
Providing the teenagers that will have sex with information about contraceptives is done by using
comprehensive curriculum. Kerry Ginsberg, a teacher at Las Lomas who is responsible for
teaching a unit on sex education, describes her curriculum as one that focuses less on abstinence
and more on “students feeling empowered to make informed choices so that if they do choose to
have sex, that they have the actual practical knowledge about how to protect themselves from
STIs and from pregnancy, and that also they have the awareness of the risks.” When asked if she
felt she had been successful in teaching these things, her response was an enthusiastic yes.
Many people have a lot of different assumptions about how opposing kinds of sexual
education programs work. However, my findings have shown patterns that defy several of these
assumptions. Abstinence-only sex education programs have only short-term impacts on teen sex
rates, if any at all, and have no impact on STI or teen pregnancy rates when compared to the
abstinence-only programs fall behind in terms of improvement to STI and teen pregnancy rates.
Abstinence-only sex education teaches students that waiting until marriage is the only acceptable
and healthy way to live, which is impractical in a real-life setting. It is unreasonable to expect
every single teen taught abstinence-only to abstain until marriage, and the teenagers who do not
still deserve to be given the tools to make informed decision. This is why the federal government
should fund and why state governments should mandate comprehensive sexual education
programs. For maximum effect, these comprehensive programs should include medically
accurate information about contraceptives, as well as how to access them like the Netherlands
teach. These programs do not need to exclude abstinence; it is, after all, the most effective
contraceptive and a healthy way for teenagers to live. Many sex education programs that are
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relatively successful in preventing STIs and teen pregnancy mention or even stress abstinence.
Take Ginsberg’s curriculum, which teaches that abstinence is “the only 100% effective method
of avoiding pregnancy and the only 100% effective method of avoiding STIs” without pushing it
on students the way abstinence-only programs do. Another example is Lucke’s curriculum,
which devotes a whole day to discussing abstinence in great detail, as well as mentioning it
throughout the class. In addition to programs that merely mention abstinence, there are several
programs that put a great emphasis on abstinence while still including contraceptives in their
comprehensive] approaches lies a vast (and expanding) range of programs that are often
25). This shows that there are ways to successfully encourage abstinence in youth without
depriving teenagers of information that could prevent pregnancy or STIs. The United States must
take steps towards finding the best way to reduce teen sex rates while protecting those who do
partake from pregnancy or STIs. One thing is certain; the state of sexual education in this
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