Blos, P. - 1963 - The Concept of Acting Out in Relation To The Adolescent Process
Blos, P. - 1963 - The Concept of Acting Out in Relation To The Adolescent Process
Blos, P. - 1963 - The Concept of Acting Out in Relation To The Adolescent Process
IN RELATION TO THE
ADOLESCENT PROCESS
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It: follows from the preceding summary that the sense of reality in
the acting-out individual is weak and vague; he easily makes transient
identifications and plays roles. Such facility in changing the self is
often remarkable. Carroll (1951) ascribes this disposition to a rich
fantasy life which exists isolated and by itself, which allows no com-
promise with reality. Adolescents of this type will tell you that their
fantasies are more real than anything in the outer world. They accept,
consequently, the outer world only as far as it gives credence to their
inner reality; they attack it or they turn away from it as soon as the
need gratification it offers ceases to be in immediate and perfect har-
mony with the need tension they experience. This condition is typical
for the adolescent user of drugs.
Let us make more explicit the distinction between the predisposing
factors of acting out and the function of acting out by turning our
attention to the function of acting out as a separate topic. Freud (1905)
originally used the term "acting out" in the case report on the first
adolescent to be analyzed, namely, Dora. In the Postscript to the Dora
case, he referred to her leaving the analysis with these words: "Thus
she acted out an essential part of her recollections and phantasies in-
stead of reproducing them in treatment." In other words, Dora took
her revenge on the man who had deceived and deserted her. We recog-
nize in this acting out the gratification of a hostile, retaliatory wish.
Displacement is the mechanism of defense operative in the acting out
which brought the Dora case to a premature termination.
Again, in 1914, Freud used the term acting out in a paper on tech-
nique, applying it to the analytic situation, especially to transference
and resistance. He said: "We have learnt that the patient repeats in-
stead of remembering, and repeats under the conditions of resistance.
. . . We soon perceive that the transference is itself only a piece of repe-
tition, and that the repetition is a transference of the forgotten past
not only on to the doctor but also on to all the other aspects of the
current situation." These concerns and formulations are intended to
illuminate the analytic situation and they should, therefore, be treated
separately from the acting out as a so-called symptom-or, rather, a
symptom equivalent-which brings many adolescents to our atten-
tion.
Acting out within the therapeutic situation requires constant vigi-
lance and scrutiny as to the extent it can and should be permitted to
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In a broad sense, one can say that the adolescent process proceeds
from a progressive dccathcxis of primary love objects, through a phase
or increased narcissism and autoerotism, to heterosexual object find-
ing. These changes in drive organization are paralleled by shifts in
ego interests and attitudes which attain structural stability during the
period or consolidation at late adolescence. The detachment of psychic
institutions from the parental influence which brought them into be-
ing constitutes a major effort of the adolescent ego; conversely, this
achievement facilitates the definitive formation of the sell'.
The disengagement from the internalized love and hate objects is
accompanied by a profound sense of loss and isolation, by a severe ego
impoverishment which accounts for the adolescent's frantic turn to
the outside world, to sensory stimulation and to activity. The adoles-
cent turns so frantically toward reality because he is in constant danger
of losing it. The protracted process of object displacement opens the
door to repeating essential facets of the past in relation to the current
situation or the immediate environment. As long as these severance
actions last, an astonishing impairment of reality testing-often only
selective-is in evidence. The outside world appears to the adolescent,
at least in certain aspects, like the mirror image of his internal reality,
with its conflicts, threats, and comforts, which is summarily experi-
enced as external. Reality testing, so flagrantly defective during this
process, will be restored only after a turn to nonincestuous love ob-
jects has evolved and after pregenitality has been afforded its place as
forepleasure. This differentiation of drives is accompanied by a hier-
archical rearrangement of ego interests and attitudes.
The proclivity of adolescence to action is one of its most impressive
characteristics. The confluence or several trends is recognizable in
this phenomenon. One is the antithesis of passivity ("being done to")
and activity ("doing to others") which in the early part of adolescence
plays a dominant role when the regressive pull to the active phallic
mother (preoedipal) and the identification with her give the drive
organization or boy and girl its special countenance. Action and mo-
tion are valued as such, not necessarily as goal-directed behavior, but
as means of resisting the regressive pull to the active mother and of
averting the surrender to primal passivity. In this constellation, then,
action assumes the quality or a magic gesture: it averts evil (castra-
tion), it denies passive wishes, and it affirms a delusional control over
12G Pet er Blos
CLINICAL MATERIAL
parent. I have selected clinical material which docs not belong to any
of these categories and which has received only scant attention in the
literature. A paper by Augusta Bannard (1961) marks the exception.
The following case material exemplifies adolescent acting out which
. operates in the service of progressive development or, more specific-
ally, in the service of ego synthesis.
and she was a widow. The children, aged six and nine respectively,
accepted the news abou t their father's death without a question, and
they behaved as if it were true. Nobody spoke of the father at home
except to compare Carl's "crooked little mind" with that of his dead
father. Actually, the father had not died. A psychotic condition which
rendered him intractable in prison and which proved to be chronic
made his transfer to a hospital for the criminally insane necessary.
At the time Carl started treatment, his father was an inmate of this
prison hospi tal.
It did not appear strange at all to this boy that he knew no rela-
tions on his father's side, that he did not know the date or cause of his
father's death or the place where he was buried, that he knew neither
the circumstances of his crime nor the reasons for his parents' divorce.
No wonder this boy complained about a strange incapacity to study
history because he was unable to remember dates, names, and places.
In order to dispose of an impenetrable confusion, Carl himself in-
sisted that his father had died shortly after his birth and that he had
never known him. Unconsciously, Carl had obeyed a gestured com-
mand which he remembered in treatment: "One day an uncle of mine
came to the house and tore my father out of every family picture."
The correctness of this memory was later confirmed.
The function of Carl's acting out can be stated as an attempt at
keeping the memory of his father alive, as a vindication of the "good
father," and as an extension of the temporal continuity of the ego into
the dim regions of his early life. The father image was essential as a
hold on reality and as a protection against depressive moods. Further-
more, the sense of reality could be sustained only by denying in action
the mother's imputed unrealness of the child's perceptions and of their
traces embedded in his memory. What Carl remembered about his
early childhood were forbidden memories, especially in relation to
affectionate and positive feelings toward the father. They had become
extinguished as conscious memories by the same stroke of the mother's
wrath and vindictiveness with which she had murdered the father.
Carl's adolescence was fatally threatened by his submission to the ar-
chaic sorceress mother. This meant the abandonment of the father
image with which he had to come to terms at adolescence, positively
and negatively, through identification and counteridentification.
It: was obvious that the dead father had to be unearthed and that
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the past history had to be revived and rectified before the delinquent
aspect of acting out would subside. The proclivity to acting out proved
only partly reversible; however, the employment of this tendency to
bring about the inescapable fate of becoming a criminal was success-
fully averted by therapy. Carl's visit to his father at the prison hospital
was followed by a compassionate concern about him. The boy wanted
to send money to his father in order to ease his life and have him more
respectably dressed. I-Ie conjectured that his father was mute because
he was angry since nobody ever visited him or cared. He realized grad-
ually how much he had missed his father and he became aware of his
behaving to older men as if they were fathers who might take an inter-
est in him. At such times, he became demanding and almost expected
a restitution from the environment for having been denied the right-
ful possession of his own father.
A complicating factor in this case must be mentioned because it
contributed to the acting out, especially the stealing. Carl had an un-
descended testicle. This condition, which had been neglected, was
operatively corrected early in treatment. The operation unfortunately
served only a cosmetic purpose since the testicle had ceased to Iunc-
tion. Carl, who made his own observations on the comparative size
and sensation of his testicles, was informed about the true state of
affairs. Before the clarification of his genital status, Carl's stealing con-
tained a kleptomanic component, namely, a magic attempt at bringing
about genital intactness. Through stealing, then, he symbolically re-
stored his masculinity and, conversely, defended himself against fem-
inine strivings, namely, against homosexuality.
As always in cases wherein a family myth plays a pathogenic role,
the rectification of the myth hardly comes as a surprise to the patient.
So it was also with Carl: the parts of the puzzle which were always
known to him in dissociated bits and pieces were gradually and labori-
ously fitted together into a coherent and meaningful whole. Carl re-
called the "fancy apartment" he lived in when the family was once
rich and he recognized in his desire for expensive living a lingering
memory of those days. When he toppled on the verge of stealing again
because he needed money in order to rent a chauffeur-driven Cadillac
for an evening with his girl friend, he recalled that his father had
actually driven a Cadillac in the company of strange women and girls.
After his parents had separated, his father used to take him out in a
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