The Unified Path To Freedom
The Unified Path To Freedom
The Unified Path To Freedom
It is important to remember that the Buddhist path unifies in ethics, meditation and discerning
wisdom: sīla, samādhi, and pañña. Sīla, or ethics, includes virtue, integrity, intentions, attitudes and
inclinations of the mind that are skilful – and it excludes ones that are unskilful. Samādhi is the
deepening stillness that we experience in meditation; it is a focus that is steady and firm. Pañña is
wisdom, or discernment: the action of clearly understanding things in line with suffering and the
cessation of suffering.
So Buddhist wisdom is something you do. It’s about applying the mind to find out how stress or
suffering is caused, how the roots of it are laid down, and how suffering continues if these roots are
not looked into. Even if the stress is not agonizing, and the suffering is just manageable discontent,
we can either lay down the foundation to continue in the future suffering, refrain from doing that, or
clear the premises and habits that trigger unskilful mental action. Sometimes clearing takes work: it
isn't always comfortable working with dullness or resistance, or holding back the craving mind. So
we have to recognize that the intention to clear is for our welfare; then we acknowledge and bear
with unpleasant feelings – if that’s what it takes to release ourselves from unskilful reactions. What
becomes clear with discernment is that filling up, holding on, or trying to be something in the future
is stressful. Bear this in mind as it helps us establish a template for how to live and what to do in our
What we do, how we act, and what intentions we carry out: this has results on our lives and the
lives of others. Whatever we incline towards, whatever we think or do and how we act has effects.
This is the principle of cause and effect, or kamma. It includes obvious external ethics, such as the
way we physically act in the world, the way we speak to other people; and also it concerns attitudes
we have towards our own bodies and minds. Doing something with a joyful intention has a joyful
effect, doing something with a negative or restless intention has a negative or agitated effect. This
principle of kamma extends to the most refined levels and subtle forms of activity that occur in
firmness. We can shift our attention to these subtle forms of activity, or to refraining from their
opposites: ill-will, rigidity and pressure, and dithering. In general then, this principle of cause and
effect, of inclining one’s intentions and inclinations, is a foundation you can always rely on. It is a
What am I doing?
We start by looking at whether what we are doing is skilful or unskilful – trying not to overlook
anything. How do we get up in the morning? How do we attend to our duties and requisites?
Basically, this is what monastic life is about. It brings forth a lot of attention to things like robes,
food and shelter, and to how we relate with monks, nuns, and lay people. All this is included as
practice. Full attention is expected. It’s not just about looking nice or being polite. We train in this
way because the way we act and incline our minds affects ourselves and others. Commitment to this
understanding helps us to gradually work our way out of greed, hatred and delusion.
Delusion is most difficult because we can’t really see it. That is why one of our main trainings is to
continually deepen and strengthen the power and quality of attention and intention. In this way we
can penetrate into the places in the mind that are often misted over, and where blind habits,
casualness, impulsiveness, or recklessness take over. We start becoming more attentive to what is
happening. Nothing is inconsequential. It’s all worth attending to. We can do this, it’s really good to
know that we can do it, and it has good effects on the mind.
Seeing the stress and suffering from a mind that is craving or restless can be uncomfortable. Still,
pausing, widening attention and being with what is happening is a simpler process than getting into
a panic, analysing yourself, or trying to manipulate it. It’s even more straightforward just to be with
what is arising when we use this monastic way of life, as it emphasizes that refinement of attention
and it cuts off some of the alternatives. When we can’t act on the distracting mind, we have to
observe craving or restlessness, and really see the stress and suffering they cause. Then you don’t
want to follow them. And to bear with this process, not adding more complexities or emotional
reactions to it – just that much has good results. Moods and energies change, the mind comes out
clearer, and we see that things can move along in a good way.
We get a clear sense of sīla, samādhi and paññā when we get what we are doing in our lives down
to the very specific, finite, here-and-now perspective. We know what we are doing; we can
contemplate it and check the results out for ourselves. From this we start to see the bigger picture of
how what we do affects our lives. So we incline towards actions that are skilful, virtuous, and
generous; good kamma that gives us a sense of satisfaction, or leaves no regret, and that leads the
mind to stillness and reflection. It doesn't mean life is going to be all pure and trouble-free, but we
are beginning to notice more clearly the grudges, worries, anxieties, impatience, etc. for what they
are. We are developing the Path. At the end of the day we feel clearer and stronger in ourselves
because of developing skilful kamma. The mind isn't in doubt or speculation or drifting. We know
what we are doing and how we are being. This begins to form us; it becomes who we are.
Sīla, samādhi, paññā, and kamma pertain to the most intimate and refined details of our minds as
well as through the larger perspectives of what we are doing in our lives. We can ask ourselves,
‘What do I want to become? More restless, frantic, uptight, judgemental, worried, confused,
conceited or more generous, steady, mellow, gentle, kind and clear?’ When we consider what to do
it’s pretty up-close and immediate: What do we want to think about? How do we want to be with
other people? This is the way we practise; and as we do, the close-up picture of moment-to-moment
The Buddhist path is thoroughly and fundamentally relational. The Buddha taught to do things that
are for our welfare, the welfare of others, and that lead to nibbāna. If we can say ‘yes’ to all three of
those, then it’s the right thing to do. The process refers to a relational intelligence: How does this
action work in relationship with me? How does this mind-set work in relationship with other
people? What are my attitudes and perceptions of other people and what do I do with those? The
fundamental relational axis for being with other people is one of kindness, respect, compassion,
Equanimity, or upekkhā, means we trust people to go through their ups and downs; not getting
excited when they have a good day and not getting depressed when they lose it. Equanimity offers
the trust that they can work through whatever is arising. We can also have appreciation, mudita, for
being in the presence of people who are skilful. We start to appreciate how good it is to be with
good-hearted and fine people. These are aspects of our fundamental relational axis. If we’re not
experiencing others in this way, we have to question how we are relating: ‘Am I comparing: You’re
greater or lesser than me? Am I intimidated? Is there attraction or aversion?’ Or more specifically:
‘How does it feel when I complain that “he's slow, she's lazy, he's this, she's that, she’s always in the
way, he’s always telling me what to do, he’s taking over the kitchen, she's always late, she's doing
her own thing!”’ Eventually you think, ‘Wait a minute…What's this doing to my mind? This isn’t
skilful.’
By contemplating perceptions and the effect they have on the mind, we see which ones need to
investigated and released, and which ones need to be developed and strengthened. We start to put it
together, realizing that it is better to be blamed than to be blaming other people. If I have to have
one or the other, it is better to be criticized than to be criticizing someone else. It’s better to be
forgiving rather than expect people to forgive me. It’s better to appreciate others than expect to be
appreciated. Just look at the results: when other people appreciate me, that's fine. But if I’m wanting
that, or continuously asking for it, or needing it – it leads to suffering. I don’t like being blamed, but
there is not much I can do about that. I can however avoid blaming, criticizing, or being negative to
other people. So we start to piece it together. First sīla, then samādhi: stay focused on ethics and see
how that gives us a firm ground; then with that kind of samādhi, see how that supports pañña,
discernment: knowing the different ways the mind can go, and which are the skilful paths that lead
What is my relationship?
Meditation is the place where we can investigate the whole topic of perceptions, feelings, forms,
bodies. We can start by first exploring: ‘How am I in a body?’ When meditating, sometimes the
body can feel unbalanced or twisted, or a smooth flow with knots in it or tensions, or it can feel like
there are holes in it where there is no feeling at all. It can feel fiery and jangly. We begin to practise
how to be with that; how to calm it, steady it, soothe it, and bring balance to the body. Basic
samādhi practice is knowing how to bring ourselves into our bodies, how to sit and walk, how to
feel comfortable and settled in a body. You begin to recognize on a subtle level that the way you
attend to your body begins to form it. You experience a sense of the body becoming something quite
something like a sphere; like a soft, radiant ball. Visually it doesn’t look like that! But then, do I
want to take my cues from visual perceptions or from direct bodily experience? If we focus on what
bodies look like and the perceptions that arise from that, nothing much good comes from it. There is
comparing, contrasting, attraction, aversion, self-consciousness, vanity, etc. When we start to relate
to the direct bodily experience, we see that this is where we can develop sīla – because we are
developing pure attitudes toward the body. Samādhi – we are stilling the body; making it more
comfortable and steady. And paññā – we are beginning to recognize the tensions in the body and
how to release them through breathing. Also, we begin to see how our attitudes affect us. If we are
either too tense and pressured, or too lax, it doesn’t feel right. If we are either not persistent enough
or too dogged – it doesn't feel right. We know we are on the right track when our minds, or our
mental approach, becomes malleable, pliable, workable, upright, and skilful. Through working on
the body and mind at the same time, we can develop these skills and qualities.
Paññā begins to recognize the relational aspect of our experience. Consciousness is normally
conscious of some kind of form: visual, tactile, auditory, olfactory – any of the senses. There is a
particular formed object that arises that we are conscious of. The relationship between
consciousness and form gives us a sense of being ‘with’ that form. From that, there arises a
particular quality of feeling and a perception that interprets the experience. Then ‘activities’,
sankhāra, arise: interest, disinterest, attraction, aversion, worry, speculation, restlessness; or skilful
activities like steadiness, investigation, calming, entering and handling the perceptions, forms, and
feelings that arise. These five aggregates: form, feeling, perception, activities and consciousness are
As awareness arises with a form, some kind of feeling and perception occurs, like, ‘Oh, this feels
rough, or warm, or smooth, or interesting, or open, fearful, blurred.’ Then come the activities: you
can zone-out, attend, try to hold on to it, try to work with it, etc. The most useful activities are the
ones that handle experience such as investigation: ‘What's this about? Where is this happening? Is
there a way of holding this experience that would make it feel more still and comfortable, more
agreeable? How do I sit comfortably with the perception of this person or this experience? What
kind of activity is required to make this more calm and steady? Maybe I need to be a little more
spacious, or patient – or why don't I be a bit more generous, or firm, still, calm, steady?’ In this way,
we are developing skilful activities around the perceptions, feelings, and forms that arise. This
process is intensely relational because, as we are always working with the five aggregates, we are
always with something. Furthermore, yhe process is causative because how we are in this
relationship gives rise to results that we then experience. If we are relating in the right way, the
There is an energetic movement that underlies an experience. It could be a dull, heavy, congested
sense, or a flaring-up, busy sense; an agitated sense or one of flowing or calm. There is an energy to
any of this. First there’s a perception which gives an impression or felt meaning – like feeling under
pressure or feeling agitated. Then some kind of reaction occurs; and around this responsive energy a
sense of self, a subtle form, emerges. This sense of self is constructed out of these five aggregates.
From feeling, perception, activities and the form that they take: we get formed into being
something. We become a busy person, an important tall person, a defensive contracted person, a
stupid, squashed person, a lazy withheld person, a wonderful expansive person, a person that needs
to save the world, or a person that can't save himself. One self is bad enough, but within a day we
have multiple ones! There’s a kaleidoscope of them that we can witness: committed, convinced,
doubting, uncertain ... Look at that. At any given moment it can change!
So we develop mindfulness by holding the mind, and we keep a sense of inquiry. With mindfulness,
investigation, and energy we start to get the specific quality of the experience, and this specific and
In this process, the emphasis has to be on the specific quality of experience – being with things
specifically rather then spinning out into generalizations and personal definitions. Slogans can be
useful at a certain place and time: ‘be with the knowing’, ‘trust awareness’, ‘let go.’ But however
good they are, you have to always have to translate any Dhamma-encouragement directly into the
Relationship is the art of opening to the unknown. We don't know what something is because it’s
actually always the first time this experience is occuring. If we knew what it was, there wouldn’t be
a living relationship; we’d just be pre-judging and acting on assumptions. To be accurate is like
handling something rather than labelling it. It’s this kind of inquiry – the getting a feel for what’s
Actually nothing is ever the same from one moment to the next, but our minds blur it into that: ‘Just
another day, another puja... “Namo Tassa” for the nine-hundred and eighty-eighth time!’ You get
this ‘another puja’ despair! ‘I’ve been chanting this thing for the last thirty-five years! Chanting this
same old thing! Couldn't we do something different for once?’ Nope. Eventually, as the mind clears
its reactions and opinions, there is only ‘Namo Tassa’ left. All the overlays of assumptions, the
resistance, and the impatience have been squeezed out of you. There is nothing left but ‘Namo
Tassa’– directly experienced as the clarity of energy, perception, generosity, and the sense of
offering to the Buddha. Why not let it happen? It’s that specific: in this arising, the mind is
rapturous. This doesn’t come through trying to be rapturous, but just because rapture is natural to
the clear mind. Rapture is the quality of a poem rather than just another old statement. It’s keen not
because the thing is so great, but because your mind isn't preoccupied with agendas and
assumptions; with things you’ve got to do, or how you should or shouldn’t feel. But you have to go
through different levels of feelings until they are washed out and all you are left in is that
brightness.
When the mind has cleared a lot of its preoccupations then we can feel subtle and skilful
inclinations more clearly and directly. There is a sense of lifting ourselves, steadying, and holding
ourselves firmly and gently. We become much more effective, because overlays aren’t clogging the
mind. Practice is a purification, a stripping away that allows us to have a lot more immediate say on
how we are going to feel. So in learning the skill of relating to our perceptions, feelings, our bodies,
we are deepening our understanding of cause and effect: how certain activities are conducive to
welfare and the absence of stress, and how certain things and assumptions and compulsions increase
stress. With deepening wisdom, we recognize this, keep it in mind, and know that everything
counts.
The Buddha's offering of Dhamma gives each of us the opportunity to develop true responsibility in
our lives. We are honoured by picking that up. We pick it up and practise, not expecting applause –
but the results are an inner sense of freedom and clarity. This is what we can do in our lives. The
beauty of it is that we can do it on a microcosmic level: working with the body, mind, sitting, and
walking. We can work with it a level up, in terms of how we structure our day, what we do in a day.
We can go a step further to the kind of life we want to live: as a monk or nun, or whatever the
occupation we want to have. We go all the way down from the macrocosm to the microcosm. What
is essential is that we get in touch with the details of how consciousness is building our sensed self.
When we begin to get fully clear about how consciousness builds us, we can see how it is possible
to let consciousness rest, let the awareness rest. Then it is just aware.
So this is what the Buddha offered us and we can do it. We can get hold of and deepen our
understanding of cause and effect, virtue, stillness, concentration, wisdom, relationships. But it’s up
to us. Here and now is the setting – but to investigate and apply these skilful qualities continually in