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When Will You Consider If Your Love To Others Is Real

This document discusses signs that can indicate whether a person's love for others is real. Some signs mentioned are: 1) Your love is real when you would not intentionally hurt the other person or cause them pain. While unintentionally hurting them is possible, you do not want to hurt them. 2) Your love is real when you naturally want the best for the other person and care about their needs and future success, like parents who work abroad to support their children's education. 3) Your love is real when you are patient with the other person, like in long-distance relationships, and you can wait for them without seeking other relationships. Trust is also a sign of real love, when

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When Will You Consider If Your Love To Others Is Real

This document discusses signs that can indicate whether a person's love for others is real. Some signs mentioned are: 1) Your love is real when you would not intentionally hurt the other person or cause them pain. While unintentionally hurting them is possible, you do not want to hurt them. 2) Your love is real when you naturally want the best for the other person and care about their needs and future success, like parents who work abroad to support their children's education. 3) Your love is real when you are patient with the other person, like in long-distance relationships, and you can wait for them without seeking other relationships. Trust is also a sign of real love, when

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“WHEN WILL YOU CONSIDER IF YOUR LOVE TO OTHERS IS REAL”

APALES, ANGELICA B.
NOVEMBER 19, 2019
We as human being we have the freedom of expression. We are free to express ourselves
to others. For example, expressing love towards your family, friends, partners or even in animals.
It is totally a fulfilling feeling. loving the person we just met, because we can be romantically
attracted to strangers, with your friends or colleagues where you are always with, loving the person
you think that you have similarities, people who are like us. Like similarities in hobbies,
experience, attitudes, similar in shared activities, etc. But we have so many thoughts that if our
love for them is real. We have thoughts of liking someone if we now loving them, that am I really
do love with him or her or is it still in the liking.

We can consider that our love to others are real when you would not intentionally hurt
them. Real love means that you would not do anything for them to get hurt, to cause then such
pain, you will not make them suffer. Yes, sometimes we can’t deny the fact that we cant escape
from hurting them through our actions or words we are giving or showing to them but at least it is
not intentional, it is part of love, love and pain always go together.

Your Love is real when you are naturally want what is the best for them. For example, a
mother who loves her children. She can do everything what is the best for her children. An OFW
parents are good example because they chose to work abroad to make some pennies to sustain her
children's needs, for them to finish schools because parents thinks of that it is the best for them,
when they graduate they will have a better life in the future. Parents always thinks of their children
not to experience what they are experiencing now. Your love is real when you cared for them,
caring involves the satisfaction of another person’s needs as significant as the satisfaction of your
own. Parents wants the best for their children because they care, they cared for them to have a
good and better life in the future just like what my mother did, she allows me to study there in
Ozamiz even though it would be a very long distance from home for me to study and graduate my
dream profession because she knows that it is for my sake, that this is the best for me. It is because
she loves me, her love for me is real. She wants to give me a better life by allowing me to study
here.

Being Patient. Patience is a virtue that your love to a person is real. For example, a guy
courting a girl. As a guy, your love is real when you are patient. Your love is real when you can
wait for a long time until you can have her. Your love is real when you are not going to seek for
another because you can not wait for long. Your love is real when you stay and extends your
patience to win her. In another view, the long distance relationship tests your relationship. A lot of
relationship don’t go lasts because of the long distance for a reason of the other partner is far away
because of studies, because of they move or lately, a lot of relationship is in online relationship.
Your love is real when you can wait for the two of you reunite again, if you can stay by his or her
side no matter what happens, no matter the time hinders your relationship. Long distance tests your
relationship if it will grow or not. As I have learned in the understanding the self, distance can
increase the liking but it also can decrease the liking to a person because you don’t have the
bondage with each other, you don’t have self disclosure that could lead you to the both of you
become known to each other more and more. Because of distance it leads to misunderstandings
and loss of patience to the relationship you are both sharing. Patience: It doesn't matter how long
it takes for them to understand something, you enjoy spending the time teaching or learning from
them.

TRUST, it is a big word and once it was broken, it cannot easily to give again. It is when
we become more accepting of people with whom we have established a sense of connection. Your
love is real when you are trusting them. You do not have any doubts. You are comfortable to make
risks and failures, fear of failure melts away because you trust them that they will still stay by your
side no matter what happens. It is real love when you are not worrying about them leaving. It is
real love when you trust them endlessly. Your love is real when you don’t question your love to
your partner, when you don’t question his love to you. You don't desire other people. Yes, you
might find some of them attractive, but no part of you wants them. You see something and instead
of thinking how happy it makes you, you think about how happy it would make them. You feel
more at home with them than you've ever felt in your entire life.

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