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Hitbodedut & Jewish Meditation: How To

written by Chaim Kramer January 24, 2014

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How? Set aside time each day to meditate in a room or in the fields. While there, speak out whatever is
in your heart, with words of grace and supplication. These words should be in the language you normally
speak, so that you will be able to express yourself as clearly as possible. When you entreat God in the
language you are used to, the words are closer to your heart and will therefore flow more easily (Likutey
Moharan II, 25).

When? The ideal time for hitbodedut is at night, when the world around you is asleep. During the day,
people are busy rushing after all the material and physical pleasures of this world. Although the night
time is the best time, every time is a good time. If you can’t get up in the middle of the night for
hitbodedut, how about trying to find the time to converse with God in the early morning, either before or
after the morning prayers – before you get caught up in the rush of yet another busy day? And if that’s
no good, then really any other time is alright. Whenever…wherever…just remember: the quieter the
better.
The main factor is consistency. Rabbi Avraham Chazan used to say: Hitbodedut which is consistent
(every day) is thousands upon thousands of times greater than hitbodedut that is interrupted. (Rabbi
Eliyahu Chaim Rosen).
Where? Regarding where to practice hitbodedut, Rebbe Nachman taught that it’s best to find a location
which is conducive to meditation and which will allow you to concentrate on your words undisturbed. A
private room is good, a park better, out in the fields or forests still better. In short, the quieter and more
secluded the place is, the more ideal it is for hitbodedut. But what if you can’t go to a park? Or what if
you find that whenever you do go, you find yourself concerned for your safety and cannot concentrate
on the task at hand? Rebbe Nachman said that it is very good to have a special room set aside for Torah
study and prayer. Such a private room, office or study is especially beneficial for secluded meditation
and conversation with God. You can also practice hitbodedut under your talit, or even seclude yourself
with God while in bed under your covers!

What? Rebbe Nachman teaches: It is good to begin your hitbodedut by saying: Today I am starting to
attach myself to You! Start anew every day. If yesterday was good, I hope that today will be even better.
If yesterday wasn’t the way it should have been, well today is a new beginning and it will be good
(Tzaddik 437). The Rebbe himself would start each day by “placing” the day’s activities in God’s hands,
asking that he do everything according to God’s will. “This way,” he would say, “I have no worries. I
rely on God to do as He sees fit” (Rabbi Nachman’s Wisdom 2). Start your day by having hitbodedut
that everything go according to God’s plan, that you act in accordance with His desire. By doing this,
your prayers are automatically focused on God’s drawing you closer to Him.
Rebbe Nachman was once talking to one of his followers about clothing: One must pray for everything.
If your clothes are torn, pray to God to give you new clothes. Although the main thing to pray for is
closeness to God, still, you must pray for all your needs, large and small.

Hitbodedut encompasses the entire spectrum of life: from the simple, daily affairs of man, to the lofty
spiritual heights to which we aspire. When Rebbe Nachman taught that we need to express ourselves in
prayer before God for everything we can think of – he meant everything! Whether we need good health
(and who doesn’t?), success in business and livelihood (and who doesn’t?), help with raising our children
(and who doesn’t?), caring for elderly (or not so elderly) parents, or whatever our hearts’ desires, we
must raise our eyes, hearts and mouths in supplication before God. We must ask Him to make sure that
everything goes alright. If it does, good. If not, pray again. And again. And again. Hitbodedut is not
something we do once and then stop. Hitbodedut is daily.

Certainly, a person must focus his prayers on the ultimate goal – serving God. Pray, plead, beg, ask and
beseech God that He reveal His ways to you, that He show you His mercy, that you merit coming closer
to Him. Pray that you will be able to perform His will, each mitzvah in its own time. Pray to feel the
beauty in Torah, pray to feel the sweetness in the mitzvot. Reb Nachman Chazan once labored tirelessly
to erect Reb Noson’s sukkah. That evening, while sitting in the sukkah, Reb Nachman remarked, “There
is a different feeling of joy and satisfaction when sitting in a sukkah which one has worked very hard to
build.” Reb Noson replied, “That may be, but this you haven’t yet tried. Spend an entire day crying out
to God: Master of the Universe! Let me taste the true taste of sukkah!’ Then see what feelings a person
can experience in the sukkah” (Aveneha Barzel, p. 52 12).

Once you grow accustomed to hitbodedut, you’ll begin to see how it’s possible to pray for everything –
from the most exalted spiritual desires to the most trivial material needs, and everything between. Don’t
be put off by the following scenario which sometimes happens. There are those who, as they develop
their hitbodedut, begin to feel awkward about praying for success in business and the like. “Here I am,”
this person says, “I’m (finally) praying to God, and all I can think about is money?” If it’s not money,
it’s something else material, and it seems to him that this is not what hitbodedut is all about. Feeling
guilty, he begins focusing his prayers exclusively on the spiritual. But, because his heart isn’t fully in it,
his prayers begin to slacken. In time, his hitbodedut might even stop altogether. Regarding this, Reb
Noson once said: Pray to God for a livelihood. Specifically for livelihood. You’ll probably start feeling
embarrassed that you’re asking and pleading so much for the material and you’ll eventually pray for the
spiritual, too (Aveneha Barzel p.49).

Simply and openly. Rebbe Nachman said to Reb Noson: A person should practice hitbodedut in a
simple, straightforward manner, as if he were conversing with a close friend (Tzaddik #439; Kokhavey
Or p.12 #54). Have you ever had a problem which you spoke about to a friend, a true friend? You start
saying something, this leads to something else, and before you know it you’re revealing the innermost
secrets of your heart. The words just seem to flow. This is because you’re close to that friend, and you
see no reason to hold back. Hitbodedut should be the same way:

Like a child. Rebbe Nachman also drew another analogy concerning hitbodedut. In his desire to make it
crystal clear how we are to approach this most important practice, he said that it is very good to pour out
our thoughts before God, like a child pleading before his father. God calls us His children, as is written
(Deuteronomy 14:1), “You are children to God.” Therefore, it is good to express your thoughts and
troubles to God like a child complaining and pestering his father (Rabbi Nachman’s Wisdom 7).
The thing to remember about hitbodedut is this: Choose whatever topic you feel close to at that time. Put
in whatever feeling you have. Do it daily.

CHAIM KRAMER

Chaim Kramer is largely responsible for introducing Rebbe Nachman’s teachings to today’s generation.
He is a sought-after lecturer on Rebbe Nachman’s teachings by English-speaking congregations around
the world. Chaim has been the director of the Breslov Research Institute since its inception in 1979. BRI
has been the main publishing-house for translations of classic and contemporary Breslov books. More
than 100 titles are currently in print, in English, Hebrew, Russian, Spanish, French, and even Korean.
Chaim himself, is the author of “Through Fire and Water”, “Crossing the Narrow Bridge”, “Anatomy of
the Soul”, “This Land is My Land”, and many more titles, as well as annotating the entire 15 volume
English Edition of Likutei MoHaRan.

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