1 Notes - Yashodhara-Theri
1 Notes - Yashodhara-Theri
1 Notes - Yashodhara-Theri
We must first aspire and strive hard to bring our aspiration to fruition.
Yasodhara is a very good role model for all of us. “Make your aspiration before
an arahant, it will come to fruition” We have this saying in Myanmar...
Prince Siddhartha was sixteen when His parents decided that it was a
suitable time for Him to marry. As was the custom at that time, a
great celebration was held and princesses from all over the country
were brought in procession for the Prince to choose from. None of
them attracted His attention. The Prince treated them with gifts but
refused them all. The procession was almost finished when
Yashodhara came rushing in, to inquire if there were any gifts left for
her. The Prince then arose from His throne, and taking the pearl
necklace that adorned His person, gently placed it around her neck.
Prince Siddhartha chose His cousin, Yashodhara, to be His bride.
In fact, her dying words reflected this devotion. She referred to the
fact that she had been the wife of no other but Him during the entire
period and had helped Him to achieve in 100,000 world cycles and
four infinite periods what other Buddhas take eight and sixteen
infinite periods to achieve.
When the Buddha visited the palace in Kapilavatthu for the first time,
all but Princess Yashodhara came to pay homage to Him. She held
back, thinking, "Certainly if there is any virtue in me, the Noble Lord
Himself will come to my presence." After the meal the Buddha,
accompanied by His two male chief disciples, entered her chamber
and sat down on the seat prepared for Him. He then said, "Let the
The Buddha acknowledged this devotion by saying that it was not only
in this birth that she had been devoted to him. He then dispensed the
Candakinnara Jataka, where Yashodhara had given her life to save
His by jumping in front of a hunter’s arrow.
Princess Yasodhara came to pay her reverence to the Buddha. Yasodhara thought, "Certainly if there is
any virtue in me, the Noble Lord Himself will come to my presence. Then will I reverence Him as much
as I like".
Yashodhara gave up the household life and entered the order of nuns
at the same time as Maha Pajapati Gotami. She attained Arahantship
and was declared the chief disciple among the nuns who attained
supernormal powers (Maha Abhiaaa) to recall infinite eras of the
past.
Only four of the Buddha’s disciples had such powers. In general, the
Buddha’s disciples could only recall up to 100,000 world cycles.
Yashodhara, the Buddha’s two chief male disciples and the Elder
Bakkula, however, had supernormal powers and could recall
incalculable eras. The nun Yashodhara passed away at the age of 78,
prior to the Lord Buddha.
She went on: “I desire to die finally having put away this corpse.
O Sorrow-ender, permit me”. The Buddha cheered her with Dharma
and didn’t try to dissuade this grand old lady with false comfort,
Yasodhara later came for the same purpose: to take her leave of
the Buddha. Addressing Him respectfully, she said she was seventy
eight years old. The Buddha replied, “Yes, I know, and I’m eighty”.
She told Him she would die that night. But her tone was more
selfreliant than that of Mahaprajapati. She didn’t ask His permission
to die nor did she go to Him as her refuge. Instead, she said: “me
saranam atthano” (“I am my own refuge”).
She came to thank Him because it was He who had shown her
the way and given her the power. She had found what was in her
mind, and which could be found only there.
1. Kinnaras - The Kinnaras are the musicians of Vaisravana, also known as Kuvera
(God of Wealth), with men’s bodies & horses’ heads. They are the same as the
Kentauros (Centaurs) of Greek mythology - in fact the words Kinnaras and
Kentauros have the same Indo-European origin. They are called the ‘doubtful
(mythical) spirits’ and ‘human but not human’. The males have horns & play on
lutes, and the females sing & dance. They rank below Gandharvas - the music of the
Kinnaras is like popular ('pop') music compared to the classical, heavenly music of
the Gandharvas. The Kinnaras are first of all entertainers.