Stephen Lankton, LCSW, DAHB, FASCH: Compos Sui The Par Excellence Thinking Experiencing
Stephen Lankton, LCSW, DAHB, FASCH: Compos Sui The Par Excellence Thinking Experiencing
Stephen Lankton, LCSW, DAHB, FASCH: Compos Sui The Par Excellence Thinking Experiencing
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We want to move resource-
Following a decision, intention is a retrieval from being just a Little
determination to act in a certain way;
to exercise resolve. Professor (LP) event - to being
It is attention directed to accomplish a an Adult initiated and Adult
goal using free unbound psychic supervised event.
energy.
Then make them into habits
That is, it is attention which is
directed to carrying out a decision.
that can again become
unconscious or LP events.
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Cure = having the required
People use those common neg. mental
experiential resources
practices to “solve” problems all day/every
day available in the context in
People limit experiences as these fail to solve
our problems which they are
Eventually, people develop presuppositions needed…and having the
about their limited talents, and capabilities
mechanisms to create
Life experiences confirm our presuppositions.
them.
People’s lives are primarily self-fulfilling
prophecies due to neg. mental practices.
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Large experience-chunking (pos. or neg.): Chunking positive experience ‘large’
◦ Inhibits the ability to change
Chunking negative experience ‘small’
◦ Creates self-images
◦ Creates philosophies
◦ Creates Life Script decisions Recognize, re-chunk and re-organize
when discovering large negative chunks
Small experience-chunking (pos. or neg.):
◦ Leads easily toward tactics or strategies for change
◦ Leads easily to an ability to control the experiences
◦ Leads easily to an integration of experiences
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Purposefully collect positive experiences
throughout the day and chunk them large.
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1. Identify an approaching task or event.
2. Make a list of the desired resources that seem
to be needed.
3. Have the client visualize an image of their
‘self’ to be used in the exercise.
4. Retrieve each desired resources one at a time
by revivifying memories that contain them.
5. Add each feeling resource to the picture one
at a time (so the image reflects each feeling)
while the client continues to feel them.
6. Make the image ‘supportive’ by adding a
supportive other person to it (optional).
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Become mindful of your breathing – balanced
through both nostrils (okay to deepen)
Retrieve a feeling of pleasure, appreciation,
love, or caring (hold this in awareness)
Become mindful of your heart rhythm
Keep these 3 resources constant in awareness
for 5 to ten minutes.
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Ask the client to imagine a “perfect” future.
Help them to feel how good that future feels.
Help them break down and imagine the steps
they would have had to have taken to get
from the (old) present to the (new) future.
◦ Intimately: With partner/spouse
2021 (this
becomes the ◦ Family: With parents/in-laws/children
“now”) ◦ Socially: Friends and neighbors
2019 (the real ◦ Economically: Employer/marketing/investments
now) ◦ Risks: Home/location/venues
◦ False steps: Set-backs/errors/disappointments
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1. Identify a desired goal 6. Help them break down and imagine the
2. Presuppose the goal has been accomplished steps they would have had to have taken to get
3. Presuppose all additional aspects are intact from the (old) present to the (new) future.
4. Time distort to (imaging being in) the future ◦ Intimately: With partner/spouse
5. Emotionally enjoy the success and other ◦ Family: With parents/in-laws/children
aspects of this imagined future ◦ Socially: Friends and neighbors
6. Help them break down and imagine the ◦ Economically: Employer/marketing/investments
steps they would have had to have taken to ◦ Risks: Home/location/venues
get from the (old) present to the (new) ◦ False steps: Set-backs/errors/disappointments
future. (See next slide). 7. Return to the present time
7. Return to the present time
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I'm proud of you You've learned a lot
You're a great kid I love you
You do wonderful I'll be right here for
things you
You work so hard I won't leave you
It's okay to have your I'll help
feelings Do what you can
You're smart You're
I understand handsome/beautiful
You can do it I like you
You're fun to be with
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Recall an incident that represents a desired
Presuppositions determine punctuated trait. (Ultimately do this for 3 traits).
moments during life’s ups and downs Isolate a single image in that memory that best
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symbolizes it.
Hold your hands and arms in reaching posture.
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Visualize the symbolic image between your
0 hands until you acquire the associated feeling.
>1 Repeat for a few minutes daily until it becomes
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a 1) memory, 2) an available feeling, 3) a part
of the self image
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