Frederick S. Perls - Ego, Hunger, and Aggression - A Revision of Freud's Theory and Method-G. Allen and Unwin LTD (1947)
Frederick S. Perls - Ego, Hunger, and Aggression - A Revision of Freud's Theory and Method-G. Allen and Unwin LTD (1947)
Frederick S. Perls - Ego, Hunger, and Aggression - A Revision of Freud's Theory and Method-G. Allen and Unwin LTD (1947)
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EGO, HUNGER AND
AGGRESSION
EGO, HUNGER AND
AGGRESSION
A Revision of
Freud’s Theory and Method
by
F. S. PERLS
M.D.
Capt., S.A.M.C.
London
To the Memory
of
MAX WERTHEIMER
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early yet to say what the results will be; but it looks as though something
will come of it. I therefore hope that I shall, in the not too distant
future, be able to shed some light on this mysterious disease.
For the time being, therefore, I present this book as a contribution to
organismic (psycho-somatic) medicine. A step has been taken towards
the ultimate goal—an integrated theory which covers every physical and
psychical phenomenon. Remote as we are from this goal, we know by
now that it does exist and that it can be reached by a synthesis and co¬
operation of all the different schools in existence at present; but such a
synthesis must be preceded by a ruthless purge of all merely hypothetical
ideas; especially of those hypotheses which have become rigid, static
convictions and which, in the minds of some, have become reality rather
than elastic theories, and which have yet to be re- and re-examined.
This manuscript was written in 1941/I942- Many references to acute
political and military situations will be out of date by the time the
book is in the reader’s hands, but still relevant within their particular
context.
F. S. PERLS
134, MILITARY HOSPITAL. SOUTH AFRICA
December 1944
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INTENTION
CHAPTER
1 Differential Thinking 13
2 Psychological Approach 25
3 The Organism and its Balance 31
4 Reality • 38
5 The Answer of the Organism 43
6 Defence 48
7 Good and Bad 32
8 Neurosis g0
9 Organismic Reorganization 72
10 Classical Psycho-Analysis 80
11 Time <j0
12 Past and Future 95
13 Past and Present 99
PART TWO
MENTAL METABOLISM
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PART THREE
CONCENTRATION-THERAPY
CHAPTER PAGE
I The Technique 185
2 Concentration and Neurasthenia 187
3 Concentrating on Eating 192
4 Visualization 200
5 Sense of Actuality 206
6 Internal Silence 212
7 First Person Singular 216
8 Undoing of Retroflections 220
9 Body Concentration 228
IO The Assimilation of Projections 237
ii Undoing of a Negation (Constipation) 247
12 About Being Self-conscious 253
13 The Meaning of Insomnia 258
14 Stammering 262
15 The Anxiety State 266
l6 Dr. Jeltyll and Mr. Hyde 268
PART ONE
,
“Some books are to be tasted others to be swallowed and some few to be
chewed and digested.”—Bacon.
DIFFERENTIAL THINKING
The urge to know all about oneself and one’s fellow-men has prompted
young intellectuals of all times to turn to the great philosophers for
information about the human personality. Some achieved a satisfactory
outlook, but many remained dissatisfied and disappointed. They either
found very little realism in academic philosophy and psychology, or they
felt inferior and stupid, apparently unable to grasp such complicated
philosophical and scientific concepts.
For a long period of my own life I belonged to those who, though
interested, could not derive any benefit from the study of academic
philosophy and psychology, until I came across the writings of Sigmund
Freud, who was then still completely outside academic science, and S.
Friedlaender’s philosophy of “Creative Indifference.”
Freud showed that man has created Philosophy, Culture and Religion
and that, to solve the riddles of our existence, we have to take our bearings
from man and not from any outside agent, as all religions and many
philosophers have maintained. The interdependence of observer and
observed facts, as postulated by present-day science, has been fully
confirmed by Freud’s findings. Consequently his system, too, should not
be considered without including himself as the creator.
There is hardly a sphere of human activity where Freud’s research
was not creative, or at least stimulating. To bring order into the relations
of the many observed facts, he developed a number of theories which
together formed the first system of a genuinely structural psychology.
Since the time when Freud built his system upon the basis of inadequate
material on the one hand, and certain personal complexes on the other,
we have gained so much new scientific insight that we can make the
attempt to reinforce the structure of the psycho-analytical system where
its incompleteness and even faultiness is most obvious:
(a) In the treatment of psychological facts as if they existed isolated
from the organism.
(b) In the use of the linear association-psychology as the basis for a
four-dimensional system.
(c) In the neglect of the phenomenon of differentiation.
could gain the most comprehensive and undistorted view. I believe that
such a viewpoint has been found by S. Friedlaender.
In his book Creative Indifference, Friedlaender brings forward the theory
that every event is related to a zero-point from which a differentiation
into opposites takes place. These opposites show in their specific context
a great affinity to each other. By remaining alert in the centre, we can
acquire a creative ability of seeing both sides of an occurrence and com¬
pleting an incomplete half. By avoiding a one-sided outlook we gain a
much deeper insight into the structure and function of the organism.
We might gain a preliminary orientation from the following example:
Looking at a group of six living beings: an imbecile (i), an average “normal”
citizen (n), an outstanding statesman (s), a tortoise (t), a cat (c) and a
race horse (r), it strikes us immediately that they sort themselves out into
two groups—human beings and animals, and that of the infinite number
of characteristics of living beings each group has a specific quality: (i), (n)
and (s) show varying degrees of intelligence; (t), (c) and (r) varying
degrees of velocity—they “differ” from each other in intelligence or speed.
If we sort them out further we can easily establish an order: n’s I.Q.
(Intelligence Quotient) will be found to be larger than i’s and s’s larger
than n’s, just as c’s speed is greater than that of t, and r’s greater than c’s
(s > n > i; r > c > t).
We can now choose more animals and human beings—each a little
different from the next in the selected characteristics, we can measure the
differences, we can even with the help of the differential calculus fill in
the gaps, but finally we come to a point where the ways of mathematics
and psychology seem to part.
The mathematical language does not know “slow” and “quick,” only
“slower” and “quicker,” but in psychology we operate with terms like
“slow,” “quick,” “stupid,” or “intelligent.” Such terms are conceived
from a “normal” point of view, which is “in”-different to all those events
which do not impress us as being out of the ordinary. We are indifferent
to everything which is “not differentiated” from our subjective point of
view. The interest evoked in us is “naught.”
This “naught” has a two-fold significance, that of a beginning and
that of a centre. In the counting of primitive tribes and children naught is
the beginning of the row, o, i, 2, 3, etc.—in arithmetic it is the *middle
of a plus/minus system, it is a zero-point with two branches stretching
in the plus and minus direction. If we apply the two functions of naught
to our examples, we can either make two rows or two systems. If we
assume that (i) has an I.Q. of 50, (n) of 100, and (s) of 150 we can construct
a row: o, 50, 100, 150. This is an order of increasing intelligence. If,
however, we accept an I.Q. of 100 as normal, then we have a plus/minus
system: —50, o, +50, in which the numbers indicate the degree of
differentiation from the zero (centre)-point.
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★ ★ ★
t(k)
i (b)
l.(c)
Figure :
Let A-B represent the surface of a piece of ground. We take any point
as the zero-point, the point from which differentiation starts.
Figure ib
We have differentiated parts of the ground into a hole (H) and its cor¬
responding mound (M). Differentiation is gradual and proceeds simul¬
taneously (in time) and in exactly the same degree to either side (in space).
Every spadeful of soil produces a deficit in the ground which is heaped
as a surplus upon the hillock (polarization).
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DIFFERENTIAL THINKING
Figure ic
Differentiation is finished. The entire level has been changed into two
opposites, hole and mound.
1 Roget, in his Thesaurus, appreciated how much the world of words exists
in opposites:
“For the purpose of exhibiting with greater distinction the relations between
words expressing opposite and correlative ideas, I have, whenever the subject
admitted of such an arrangement, placed them in two parallel columns on the
same page, so that each group of expression may be readily contrasted with those
which occupy the adjacent column, and constitute their antithesis.”
And further, indicating that the opposites are dictated not by words but by
their context:
“It often happens that the same word has several correlative terms, according
to the different relations in which it is considered. Thus, to the word ‘giving’ are
opposed both ‘receiving’ and ‘taking’: the former correlation having reference to
the persons concerned in the transfer, while the latter relates to the mode of transfer.
‘Old’ has for opposites both ‘new’ and ‘young’ according to its application to things
or living beings. ‘Attack’ and ‘defence’ are correlative terms, as are also ‘attack’
and ‘resistance.’ ‘Resistance’ again has for its correlative ‘submission.’ ‘Truth’ in
the abstract is opposed to ‘error,’ but the opposite to truth communicated is
falsehood,” etc.
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1 Most cosmogenic myths and philosophies try to explain the coming into being
of the universe by assuming a primeval stage of complete non-differentiation.
This pre-different state is the Chinese Wu Gi, which is symbolized by a simple
circle O, and denotes the non-beginning, a conception similar to the Biblical
tahu watvohu (Chaos before the creation).
The Tai Gi by a symbol expresses the progressive differentiation into opposites
and corresponds in its meaning to the Biblical story of Creation.
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DIFFERENTIAL THINKING
1 Roget s remarks to this theme are: “In many cases two ideas which are com¬
pletely opposed to each other admit of an intermediate or neutral idea equi-distant
from both: all these being expressible by corresponding definite terms. Thus in
the following examples the words in the first and third columns, which express
opposite ideas, admit of the intermediate sense with reference to the former:
In other cases the intermediate word is simply the negative of each of two opposite
positions, as for example:
Convexity Flatness Concavity
Desire Indifference Aversion
Sometimes the intermediate word is the proper standard with which each of the
extremes is compared, as in the case of
For here the middle term, sufficiency, is equally opposed, on the one hand, to
insufficiency, and, on the other, to redundance.”
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Identity (he arrived late at the office because he missed the bus);
Purpose (he went to town because he wanted to do some shopping).
It is preferable and productive of excellent results to forgo causal
explanations of events and to restrict oneself to a description of them—
to ask “how?” instead of “why?” Modern science has realized more and
more that all relevant questions can be answered by exact and detailed
description.
Causal explanation, furthermore, applies only to isolated strings of
events. In reality we find over-determination (Freud) or coincidence—
many causes of greater or lesser significance converging into the specific
event.
A man has been killed by a tile falling from the roof of a house—what
is the cause of his death?
There are innumerable causes. The time he passed the dangerous
spot; the storm that loosened the tile; the carelessness of the builder;
the height of the house; the material of the tile; the thickness of the
victim’s skull; the fact that he did not see the falling tile, etc., ad infinitum.
In psycho-analysis (my own field of observation) one is often inclined
to say “Eureka” whenever one believes one has found the “cause”;
subsequently one is bound to be disappointed when the expected change
in the patient’s condition does not take place.
D’Alembert, Mach, Avenarius and others substituted the conception
of function (if “a” changes, “b” changes) for that of causality. Mach
even went so far as to call causality a clumsy conception: “A dose of
cause results in a dose of effect: it is a kind of pharmaceutic Weltan¬
schauung.”
The conception of function covers the coincidences both of an event
and of its prime mover—its dynamic. In this book where I use the word
“energy” I mean an aspect of a function. Energy is immanent in the event.
It is, to use a definition by F. Mauthner, “the relation between cause
and effect,” but should by no means be considered as a force inseparable
from the event and yet in some magic way causing it.
Greek philosophy used the expression ivepyeia (cV epyu>) simply as
meaning action, activity, almost synonymous with -rrpd^L?. Later, however,
it assumed more and more the meaning of a force by which events were
created. The physicist J. P. Joule (1818-89) speaks of energies which
God bestowed upon matter.
This theological conception of energies as something working behind
events, causing them in some inexplicable way, is purely magical. Life
and death, wars and epidemics, lightning and rain, earthquakes and floods
made men assume that these phenomena were produced by “energies,”
“causes,” for instance by “gods.” These god-energies were conceived
according to human pattern. In the Mosaic religion they became simplified
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activity, heat acts as the $ factor. Just as heat loosens up the contact between
molecules, so in sex-life a warming up must take place before the §
comes into play. A person unable to melt, remaining cold (frigid) and
not radiating any warmth (which is the natural means of inducing response
in the partner) will probably replace this essential radiation by alcohol
or bribery (e.g. flattery or presents).
There remains only aggression to be considered. In aggression the
attempts to contact the hostile object are an expression of the §. We
find in literature, for instance, many examples of how people overcome
great difficulties to track down and wreak vengeance on the “villain of
the piece”; and vice versa: The Big Bad Wolf takes great pains to get
hold of Little Red Riding Hood.
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PSYCHOLOGICAL APPROACH
The vertical rows consist of the numbers three, two, one, two, three;
and two, one, nought, one, two; but no one would read the horizontal
rows as “so-one-dier” and “nought-rder.” Whether the sign 1 and 0
indicate letters or numerals is determined by their context, by the gestalt
of which they form a part. The category of the letters and the category
of the numerals overlap each other incidentally, and while the signs are
identical in form, they are different in meaning.
That a spoken word is a gestalt, a unity of sounds, can easily be under¬
stood. Only when this gestalt is not clear—when, for example, we do not
catch the name of a person on the telephone—we ask that the word be
spelt—cut up into single letters. This ruling applies to the printed word
as well. Errors in reading will show a distinct relation between the read
and printed gestalt.
A white object seen against a dark (grey or black) background appears
as white, whereas the same object against a green background may appear
as red, and against a red background as green, etc.
Another instructive example is that of a musical theme. When a melody
is transposed into another key every single note is changed, yet the “whole”
remains the same.
A set of chessmen in their box cannot hold one’s interest for long, as
it consists of 32 independent pieces, but the pieces in the game, their
interdependency and the permanently changing situation, keep the players
fascinated. In the box the chessmen represent the isolationist outlook—
in the chess “field” the “holistic” conception.
Holism (0A0? — whole) is the term coined by Field-Marshal Smuts
(Holism and Evolution, 1926) for an attitude which realizes that the world
consists “per se” not only of atoms, but of structures which have a meaning
different from the sum of their parts. The changing merely of the position
of a single piece in a game of chess might mean all the difference between
winning and losing.
The difference between the isolationist and the holistic outlook is
about the same as between a freckled and a sun-tanned skin.
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Belonging to Examples of
An Actor is a In contrast to the sphere of Pre-difference
1. Stage employee his director Social Order Charlie Chaplin
(1) That Charlie Chaplin is, at the same time, both the chief actor
and the director of his films is known to all. In a penny-gaff the difference
between the director and his employees may not be distinct, but in a
Broadway Theatre the director may not even know some of his actors.
(2) I am referring to the scene of the stage within the stage, where
the actor who plays the role of Hamlet watches a performance.
In any dialogue an oscillation of function takes place: the same person
who, at one moment, is the performer or speaker may, at the next moment,
be the spectator or the listener.
More differentiated still (and showing a certain split of the personality)
is the situation of a person rehearsing in front of a mirror before appearing
in public or before going to meet someone he desires to impress. The
pathological phenomenon of self-consciousness belongs to this sphere. A
differentiation into performer and spectator has occurred: a conflict
exists between being in the limelight and watching the onlookers.
(3) In many theatres (e.g. the Greek, Japanese, Shakespearean) the
actors were exclusively male.
(4) The case of Shakespeare is well known. If he had not succeeded
as an author, he would probably have remained exclusively an actor.
(5) The professional actor is the result of a rather advanced develop¬
ment of the scenic art. We find a convincing example of the state of pre¬
difference in the clowns in A Midsummer-Night's Dream.
(6) A child when playing the role of a lion is a lion, and it may be so
absorbed in its play that it becomes angry if called back to everyday life.
Thus, by having the “field,” the context, we can determine the opposites
and, by having the opposites, we can determine the specific field. This
insight will be of great assistance in the approach to the structure and
behaviour of the organism within its environment.
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establish a unity which never has ceased to be. Body and soul are identical
“in re,” though not “in verbo”; the words “body” and “soul” denote
two aspects of the same thing.
Melancholia, for instance, shows (among others) two symptoms: a
thickening of the bile juices (“melancholia” means black gall) and a deep
sadness. The man who believes in organic foundation will say: “Because
the gall of this person flows thickly, he feels sad.” The psychologist
maintains: “The depressing experiences and mood of the patient thickens
the flow of his gall.” Both symptoms, however, are not linked as cause
and effect—they are two manifestations of one occurrence.
If the coronary artery of a heart is hardened, excitement leads to,
amongst other prominent symptoms, attacks of anxiety. On the other
hand an attack of anxiety on a person with a healthy heart is identical
with certain physiological changes in the function of the heart and breath¬
ing apparatus. An anxiety attack without breathing difficulties, quickening
of the pulse and similar symptoms does not exist.
No emotion, like rage, sadness, shame or disgust occurs without its
physiological as well as psychological components coming into play.
The ease with which fundamental mistakes are made, can be gauged
by a law formulated by the psycho-analyst W. Stekel, who maintains that
a neurotic person experiences sensations instead of emotions, e.g. burning
of the face instead of shame, heart-pounding instead of anxiety. But these
sensations are integral parts of the corresponding emotions. The neurotic
does not experience sensations instead of emotions, but at the expense or
even to the exclusion of the consciousness of the emotional component;
having partly lost the “feel of himself” (the senso-motoric awareness) he
experiences an incomplete situation—a scotoma (blind spot) for the
psychological manifestation of the emotion.
Since in this book we are not so much concerned with a universal
holistic conception, as with a specific organismic one, our approach differs
from that of Smuts. Instead of his matter, life and mind aspects, we are
choosing the aspects of body, soul and mind. To realize—at least in
theory—the identity of body and soul is not very difficult. The issue
becomes somewhat more complicated, if we take the mind into considera¬
tion. Here a differentiation into opposites has taken place. If you are
shivering, certain phenomena in the skin, muscles, etc., occur. Simul¬
taneously with these sensations the mind registers: “I am shivering”;
or thinks of the opposite: “I want to feel warm, I do not want to shiver.”
(This protest, this resistance, is a biological phenomenon, and should not
be confused with the psycho-analytical conception of resistance.) If the
mind always merely accepted the situation, there would be no need of
the mind’s existence at all. The statement “I am shivering” might be of
exhibitionistic or scientific interest, but it would be of no biological
value. If, however, this statement were not a mere statement, but an
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1 ^ interesting expression of the salt instinct is the sign for NaCl which sym¬
bolizes in the writing of an African tribe the importance of, and the greed for it:
From all directions hands are outstretched for the mineral so badly needed.
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MINUS PLUS
Bad Food Tasty dumplings
SURPLUS MINUS
Urine Receptacle
REALITY
scope). We realize the existence of this part of the world best by the
uncanny experience with the Galton whistle which gives a sound above
the range of the human ear. If you blow this whistle the trained dog will
stop in the middle of his run although you yourself do not hear a sound.
This whistle lies just beyond the next circle which includes our—rather
stable—means of perception. Opposed to the stability of the senses is the
instability of our interests (following circle) which affects the great variance
of our observations and contacts. The subjective world is further narrowed
Painter *
/, ///
w Couple of lovers
Thus inserting the specific needs in our scheme we see that in every
case the corn-field represents the plus, the means of gratification for the
different minuses.
Farmer Agronomist
wants to make a living looks for scientific data
Pilot Merchant
Corn-field
needs a landing place wants to make money
Painter -> Couple of lovers
searches for subject . wish to be by themselves
The relationship between the organism’s need and the reality corre¬
sponds to the relationship between body/soul and mind. The image in
the mind disappears (as we have seen), as soon as the need of the organism
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1 If one forgets to post the letter, this may not necessarily be due to a repression
or resistance. It may, rather, be due to the fact that an interest in posting the
letter is not intense enough to produce the figure-background phenomenon.
1 Under pathological conditions we can observe the lack of figure-background
formation in man. This state is known as “de-personalization,” and occurs after
shock and extraordinary emotional stress, after the loss of someone very dear and,
to a lesser degree, during a certain stage of intoxication. The world is then per¬
ceived as something rigid, emotionally dull, and, at the same time, optically clear-
cut. The resemblance to the working of the inanimate photographic lens is obvious.
3 Cathexis (Besetzung), meaning the addition of energy which in some mystical
way is projected or injected into an object of reality or imagination.
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1 Hallucinations occur not only in insanity, but also in normal people who are
in a state of high tension, e.g. hunger or fear.
2 Jaentsch has furnished the proof of the pre-differential state of visualization
and perception. He called this state “eidetic” and has shown that it is usually
present in children, and is retained by a number of people in adult life. These
people can use their eidetic faculties with great success, for instance in examinations.
They simply read in their mind the required passages of the textbook they have
read in reality—perhaps without even understanding its contents. Such a good
“memory” is in itself not necessarily a sign of intelligence. Many people with an
eidetic memory are stupid, although others, like Goethe, found it to be of great
assistance in providing their minds with an enormous number of recollections
when required. Later I shall give some advice as to how to improve this biological
memory.
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V
If the existence of the subjective world depends upon our instincts, how,
on the other hand, can gestalt-psychology maintain that the organism
“answers to” situations? It looks like a reversal of what we have found so
far.
Is the organism the primary factor and is the world created by its
needs? Or is there primarily a world to which the organism responds?
Both views are correct in toto. They are by no means contradictions:
actions and reactions are interwoven.
Before approaching this problem we have to see what is meant by the
words “answer to.” We are accustomed to apply the word “answer” in
the sense of giving a verbal reply to a question. Yet nodding or shaking
of the head are also accepted as answers, though they are not verbal. By
widening this notion we can call “answer” any reaction, any response to
an action. The re-action, the response is a sequence, something secondary
to something that has happened primarily.
The sequence reality-answer, stands in contrast to the simultaneousness
of the instinct /reality situation. The internal hunger-tension and the
appetizing look of food appear and disappear simultaneously, while a
child’s reaction upon the nurse’s demand takes place as a sequence to it.
Again we have to be careful not to presume a causality and not to say that
an answer is determined by a question. The only exceptions would be
those cases in which exactly the same reaction stereotypically follows an
action. In such cases we speak for instance of a “reflex,” thereby indicating
that decisions are without influence upon the sequence action/reaction.
As I have said before, the answer is not confined to words. We may
answer a situation with all kinds of emotions—with anxiety, fear, enthusi¬
asm, disgust, with activity, crying, flight, attack or many other reactions.
Just one illustration taken from everyday life: A number of people
witness a car accident. Most of them will react either with interest (in-
teresse = to be among) or flight, or with either genuine or pretended in¬
difference. The interested people will answer the situation with §. They
will be drawn to the spot of the accident, and being sensibly active, they
will call the ambulance or render assistance; or they may stand around
being curious or making a nuisance of themselves. Others will produce
associations, e.g. how an aunt met with a similar accident; or they will
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deliver sermons about the danger of speed or of driving under the influence
of liquor. The attitude opposite to that of this group is that of avoidance
(•{•)• One person may faint; others may run away maintaining they cannot
stand the sight of blood and mutilated bodies. Others, again, may say
that they must not watch the accident, as they are afraid it might prey
on their minds and cause them to have an accident themselves. Pretended
indifference is the answer of a man who feels groggy, but wants to put up
a brave show, and only in genuine indifference is there no answer, as no
disturbance of the personality has occurred.
The next step to be considered is this: Not only do we select our
world, but we may also be selected by other people as objects of their
interests. They may make demands upon us; our answers may either
be in the affirmative (we may comply with their wishes) or in the negative
(we may be on the defensive, or refuse their demands).
The civilization we have created is full of claims. There are conventions,
laws, engagements, distances to overcome, economic difficulties, and a
whole host of obligations with which we have to comply. They are a
collective reality, and a very powerful reality at that, objective in their
effect, even if not in their sense.
And, as though this were not enough, man has created an additional
world, which for most people is also a reality. This (imaginary) reality is
built up of projections, its chief example being religion.
If we now return to our corn-field example, we can insert the “answer
of the organism” to the situation, and arrive at the following amplification:
Basically, the external cycle is not different from the internal. Here,
too, an instinct (for instance, self-preservation) is the prime mover. In
certain situations I might not notice the fly at all. Then, of course, it would
not act as a disturber and the whole circle need not exist.
This circle leads to the grasping of one of the most important pheno¬
mena, of the fact of organismic self-regulation which, as W. Reich has
pointed out, is very different from the regulation of instincts by morals
or self-control. Moral regulation must lead to the accumulation of un¬
finished situations in our system and to interruption of the organismic
circle. This interruption is achieved by means of muscular contraction
and the production of anaesthesia. A person who has lost the “feel” of
himself, who, for instance, has deadened his palate, cannot feel whether
he is hungry or not. Therefore, he cannot expect his “self-regulation”
(appetite) to function properly, and he will stimulate his palate artificially.
We may contrast such violations of the principle of healthy self-regulation
with normal functions. In sex life, for instance, the production of hor¬
mones by the glands leads to an organismic surplus, the increased sexual
tension creates an image, or selects in reality an object suitable for gratifi¬
cation of its needs for a restoration of the organismic balance.
It is somewhat more difficult to realize the principle of self-regulation
if we come to less manifest functions; but, being a general principle, it
applies to every system, every organ, tissue, and to every single cell.
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The principle governing our relations with the outer world is the
same as the intra-organismic principle of striving for equilibrium. We
call the achievement of being in harmony with the outer world adjustment.
This adjustment may range from primitive biological functions to far-
reaching changes in the world by a single individual.
Generally, the capacity for adjustment is very limited. We can adjust
ourselves within a few minutes to the temperature of the water when
taking a cool or warm bath, but the difference between the temperature
of the body and the water must not go beyond certain limits, otherwise
the result would be injurious—would result in bums or shock. Some
people, however, have trained their capacity for adjustment so far as to
be able to jump into ice-cold water, or even to walk on glowing embers.
If we focus our eyes for a few minutes on some bright colour, the
brightness of the colour will disappear. Bright red, for instance, will
become dullish red approaching grey. If, then, we look against an indiffer¬
ent background, we will notice the complementary colour, in this case
green, appearing in front of our eyes. This green is the complementary
activity of the organism towards adjustment; it is the minus to the plus red.
Often we may not need to adjust ourselves to our environment, but
may be able to adjust the environment to our needs and wishes. Air-
conditioning or central heating are examples to be contrasted with ac¬
climatization.
We call the adjustment of our environment to our needs an alloplastic
(modelling the other) behaviour, the self-adjustment an autoplastic
behaviour. The alloplastic activity of a bird changes its environment by
building nests or migrating into a warmer climate; the alloplastic character
in man produces an urge to organize, to take command, or to invent
and discover things. The counterpart, the autoplastic character, is exem¬
plified by the chameleon, and, in human beings, by the power of adapta¬
tion and pliability.
Alloplastic and autoplastic behaviour is tragically interwoven in man-
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DEFENCE
contact with the enemy. Originally the point of contact and observation
was the skin, that biological boundary between the organism and the
world. Later the outposts of defence, on the watch for the approach of
the enemy, stretched themselves further and further afield. Instead of
waiting for epidermic contact, ears, eyes and nose and, lately, technical
instruments (periscope, radio-locator, etc.) signal the danger, and the
organism goes on the defensive and applies its means of resistance.
The organism lives essentially centrifugally, actively. Every defence
involves a tremendous amount of activity sometimes including extensive
preparations.
The means of defence are of mechanic or dynamic nature. The mechani¬
cal defences are frozen, petrified, accumulated activities like shells or
concrete fortifications: the dynamic means of defence are of a motoric
(e.g. flight) and secretoric (octopus ink, snake poison) or of sensoric
(scouting) nature. Thus the defender is as active as the aggressor, the
organismic tendency of living centrifugally being maintained, as in nearly
every other function.
Reflexes (in phylogenetics) and conditioned reflexes (in ontogenetics)
are the outcome of previous conscious activity. They are a time and
concentration saving device. As the organization of a personality functions
according to the figure-background principle, the mind, being unable to
deal with several tasks at once, is free to attend to the most important
one, whilst the lower (the reflex) centres—being well trained—don’t
need to be looked after. This automatism leads to the still widespread
notion that the recipient nerves are different in their direction from those
of the motoric and secretoric nerves. To regard only the motoric and
secretoric nerves as centrifugal is an inheritance from the mechanical
age which assumed that, for instance, the rays of light travelled actively
through the wires of the optic nerves and stimulated the organism to some
reaction. This theory is still the basis of neurological teaching. It assumes
that one part of the nervous system is afferent and the other efferent,
and that both are part of a reflex “arc” (figure i). Another conception
sees in them two prongs of a fork (figure 2).
The British Admiralty did not perceive in a passive way, in the sense
of the reflex arc, the whereabouts of the Bismarck. It sent out the eyes of
the Fleet, the reconnaissance planes.
Wireless sets are installed to pick up wireless messages. We buy news¬
papers to learn what happens in the world and we select and read what
interests us.
As soon as we regard the use of the senses as an activity similar to the
use of feelers by an insect, and not as a passivity, as something that happens
to us, we realize that the new conception has a wider scope than the old
one, and does away with auxiliary theories. If a worm crawled because
its sensoric nerves were stimulated by contact with the ground, it would
not stop until completely exhausted, as it would have to crawl on and on,
forced by the automatic impulses the motoric nerves receive from the
sensoric ones. To reconcile theory and observation the scientist has to
install additional nerves which inhibit the reflex arc, providing the worm
with a free will to inhibit. By assuming that the organism lives centri-
fugally we eliminate this contradiction. The worm crawls by its sensoric
and motoric activities in a biological “field” towards the “end gains” of
its instincts.
When walking through a forest at night we change hearing into listen¬
ing; we sharpen our eyes and turn them in all directions as advance
guards against possible danger. The sensoric activity in striving to gratify
our needs is the same as that occurring in defence. A hungry child does
not just see a bread-roll in the baker’s shop. It looks, it stares at it. The
sight of the bread does not evoke as a reflex the child’s hunger. On the
contrary, the hunger produces the effect of both being on the look-out
for food and of moving towards it. A well-fed fashionable lady does not
even see the same bread-roll, it does not exist, it is not a “figure” for her.
The fact that the Ego concentrates only on one thing at a time shows
one great disadvantage: the organism can be taken by surprise—can be
caught unawares.1
A compensation of this disadvantage is the use of an armour (shells,
etc., in lower animals, character-armour in human beings, houses and
fortresses in society). Even the most fortified castle, however, cannot be
hermetically sealed: it must have doors and other openings—elastic com¬
munications with the world.
To guard such openings the human mind has developed a censor, a
1 When telling a joke we make use of this weakness in our organization by keeping
the attention fixed in one direction and jumping at the listener unexpectedly from
another, thus producing a slight shock. We feel lost, stupid, if we don’t see the
point, but once the meaning of the joke is seen, the holistic balance is restored.
This restoration occurs in a similar way with an “anti” shock. The solution jumps
into consciousness with an experience of surprise, accompanied by exclamations
like “Oh, gee!” “Got it,” etc. If the joke is stale, or the solution anticipated, we
are uninterested or bored.
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DEFENCE
5i
VII
I more and more aspects of the mother come into realization and thus into
existence for the child.
Two situations may now arise: the mother either meets the requirements
of the child, or else she does not. In the first case (e.g. breast feeding)
the child becomes satisfied. It feels “good” and the image of the mother
(confined to the feeling, smelling and seeing of the breast) disappears
into the background until the returning hunger renews it (organismic
self-regulation).
The second situation, opposed to the former in every respect, arises
when the needs of the child are not fulfilled. The child suffers a frustration,
EGO, HUNGER AND AGGRESSION
the tension of the urge increases, and the organism produces energies,
the “means” to achieve the “end”: satisfaction. The child becomes very
agitated, starts crying or flies into a rage. If this intensified activity leads
to ultimate satisfaction there is no harm done to the child: on the contrary,
it will have developed some energy and means of expression. If, however,
the frustration persists beyond the suspense which the child is able to
endure, it feels very “bad.” The image of the mother, as far as the child
conceives it, does not completely recede into the background, but becomes
isolated, impregnated (not with libido, but) with anger, and subject to
memory. The child has suffered a trauma, which will recur every time a
real frustration occurs.
Thus the child (and the human organism in general) experiences two
opposite reactions, according to the gratification or the frustration of its
requirements. It feels “good” if satisfied, “bad” if frustrated.
Yet somehow our theory does not completely fit the facts: if an instinct
is gratified we find that the desired object disappears into oblivion. We
take the good things in life for granted. The greatest luxury, once it has
become a matter of course (and so long as it is not experienced as the
gratification of a real need) does not contribute to our happiness. On the
other hand, the ungratified child experiences a trauma: the desired object
becomes a “thing” subject to memory.
Against the two facts, however, stands another—the fact that we also
remember good things.
Let us consider the details of the following scheme:
Temporary
Gratification frustration Frustration
Satisfaction Immediate Postponed Overdue
Memory Nil Pleasant Unpleasant
Influence on personality Inertia Work Trauma
Pleasure I pain principle Pleasure “Reality” Pain
Reaction Indifferent Good Bad
For the explanation of this scheme, let us consider oxygen hunger.1
1 I have intentionally refrained from applying here the example of the breast¬
fed baby. Firstly, it is too early to discuss the supposed libidinal kathexis here:
secondly, the satisfied happy suckling, as we see it, is a product of our civilization.
The young animal sucks whenever it wants to, and with primitive peoples it is
the habit of the mother to carry the baby around and to suckle it as often as it
wants food. (Weinland observed a female kangaroo, cub in pouch, which was
still being suckled by its mother.) In our civilization, however, we institute meals,
and, if possible, even timed meals, for breast-feeding. Thus when the child gets
his breast-meal he attains a two-fold gratification: he regains contact with the
mother (the conscious gratification, i.e. the hanging-on-bite) and achieves the
postponed gratification of his hunger (second column). Therefore, the question
to be decided is whether the baby’s happiness is of natural or of social origin (due
to the termination of the temporary frustration).
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Ordinarily we take our breathing for granted. We are not aware of it and
are indifferent to it. Let us assume that we are in a room with a number
of people and that the air gradually becomes stuffy, but so imperceptibly
that the stuffiness does not transgress the threshold of our consciousness,
and our organism has no difficulty in adjusting itself. If, after a while,
we go into the open, we immediately notice the difference and feel how
good the air is. Returning to the room we become aware of its stuffiness.
After that we will be able to recall and compare the experiences of the
pure and the polluted air (pleasure-pain principle).
The traumatic effect of repressions or frustrations in childhood led
people to the premature conclusion that a child should not suffer de¬
privations during its upbringing. Children reared in conformity with this
conclusion are, however, not less nervous. They show typical signs of a
neurotic character, are unable to stand frustrations, and are so spoilt
that even a slight delay in gratification produces a trauma. If they do not
immediately get what they want they use the technique of crying which
they have mastered to perfection. Such children very easily feel bad, and
regard their mother (as will be shown presently) as the “bad” mother—
the witch.
From this we learn that a child should be brought up on the lines of
what Freud calls the “reality principle,” the principle which says “yes”
to the gratification, but demands that the child be able to endure the
suspense of postponement.1 It should be prepared to do some work in
exchange for the gratification, and this should be something more than
a mumbled “thank you.”
Immediate gratification does not produce a memory. The “good”
mother is not experienced as such if she meets all the child’s demands
immediately, but only if she does so after a delay, after suspense. The
good mother, represented in fairy tales by the good fairy, always fulfils
extraordinary wishes.
If I have put the pleasure principle into the first column I have done
so because theoretically it belongs there: but in the normal course of
immediate gratification (without conscious tension) this pleasure will be
so slight as to pass almost unnoticed.
As to the social aspect of the pleasure-pain principle, it may well be
that people of the privileged classes experience less pain than those of
the working classes: but as their life can be compared with that of a spoilt
child (fulfilment of their genuine needs is easily granted) and they do not
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Having rectified our first observation about feeling “good” and “bad”
(according to gratification and frustration) we must see how it is that
we so seldom experience the feeling of “good” or “bad” as reactions.
What makes a child say “Mother is bad” instead of “I feel bad”? In order
to understand this we have to consider the process of projection, which
plays a large part in our mental make-up, and the importance of which
cannot be over-estimated.
In a cinema, we have a white screen in front of us: at the rear is a
machine called the projector, through which strips of celluloid, called
films, run. We seldom see these films and when we are enjoying a per¬
formance we certainly do not think of those strips of celluloid. What we
see and enjoy is the projected film—the picture which is projected on the
screen. The same thing happens when a child or an adult projects. The
child, unable to distinguish between its reactions and their originator,
does not experience the feeling of good or bad itself: it rather experiences
the mother as being good or bad. With this projection two phenomena
come into existence: ambivalence and ethics.
We have seen that all extreme behaviour, good or bad, can and will
be remembered. Whenever the mother impresses the child strongly with
“good” or “bad” deeds, the child remembers them. They don’t remain
as isolated entities in the child’s memory but will form comprehensive
wholes, according to their affinities. Instead of a chaotic mass of memories,
the child gets two “groups” of memories: pictures of the good mother
on the one hand, and of the bad mother on the other. These two groups
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will crystalize into images: the good mother (the fairy) and the bad
mother (the witch). When the good mother emerges into the foreground
the witch will recede completely into the background, and vice versa.
Sometimes both mothers are present, and the child is thrown into a
conflict by its ambivalent feelings. Being unable to endure this conflict
and to accept the mother as she is, it will be torn between love and hate,
and will be thrown into utter confusion (like Buridan’s donkey or Professor
Pavlov’s double-conditioned dog).
Ambivalent attitudes are, of course, not confined to the child. Nobody
can get beyond them, except in certain spheres and at certain times where
rational aspects have replaced the emotional ones. The psycho-analytical
idea of a post-ambivalent stage is an unattainable ideal, which, even in
the strictly objective world of science, can only be achieved to a certain
degree. Often enough scientists of high standing have become abusive
when their beloved theories are doubted. Objectivity is an abstraction
which can be faintly guessed by working from a great number of opinions,
calculations and deductions, but you and I, as human beings, are not
beyond good and bad” (Nietzsche) be it that we moralize or judge
from utilitarian or aesthetic points of view.
You probably can recall a person of whom you were very fond, but
after some disappointment he became abhorrent and nothing he did
found favour in your eyes. The Nazis even turn this attitude into a prin¬
ciple. They call it the friend-foe theory, maintaining that they may declare
anybody friend or foe at will, depending merely on the needs of a political
situation.
Right and wrong, good and bad, confront us thus with the same problems
as did reality. Just as most people consider the world as something abso¬
lute, so also do they regard morals. Even people who realize that the
conception of morality is a relative one (that what is “right” in one country
may be “wrong” in another) exhibit moralistic standards as soon as their
own interests are involved. The motor-car driver, intolerant of pedestrians,
will curse motorists when he himself turns pedestrian.
A child’s judgment of its mother—as we have seen—depends upon the
fulfilment or frustration of its wishes. This ambivalent attitude exists just
as much in the parents. If a child fulfils their wish (if it is obedient) and
does not even protest against senseless demands, the parents are satisfied,
and the child is regarded as “good.” If the child frustrates the parents’
wishes (even in cases where it is evidently incapable of understanding,
far less of fulfilling, what is asked of it, and cannot conceivably be held
responsible for its actions or reactions) it is frequently called “naughty”
or “bad.”
A teacher will classify his pupils as “good” or “bad” according to their
ability to fulfil his wishes as regards learning, attentiveness or sitting still;
or, if the teacher is interested in sport, he may prefer pupils who share
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What have we found so far? Good or bad, right or wrong, these are
judgments made by individuals or collective institutions, according to
the fulfilment or frustration regarding their demands. They mostly lose
their personal character and, whatever their social origin might have been,
they have become principles and standards of behaviour.
“An organism answers a situation.” Man in general has forgotten that
good and bad were originally emotional reactions, and is inclined to accept
good and bad as facts. The result of this is that once some person or group
is called good or bad, emotional answers are roused (love and hate,
f and cheers and condemnation. Love for the Fiihrer and hatred of
the enemy at hand: submission to one’s own and disgust with strange
gods). Whenever we meet “good” or “bad” we feel the whole scale of
emotional reactions, from indignation to vindictiveness, from silent
appreciation to the bestowal of high honours.
Calling persons or things “good” or “bad” has more than a descriptive
significance—it contains dynamic interference. “You are a bad boy” is
mostly charged with anger, even hostility. It demands a change and
threatens unpleasant consequences, but the emotional content of “You
are a good boy” is praise, pride and promise.
As the intensity of reactions varies, different amounts of f and $ come
into play. That our reactions towards the good things and persons are f,
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NEUROSIS
matic. “The world has gone insane,” E. Jones once remarked to me,
“but, thank Heaven, there are remissions.” Unfortunately these remissions
are like the return of a pendulum gathering force for new progress—for
the Twentieth Century’s swing.
The infectious nature of neurosis is based upon a complicated psycho¬
logical process, in which feelings of guilt and fear of being an outcast ft:)
play a part, as well as the wish to establish contact (§), even if it be a
pseudo-contact. The drug addict induces others to indulge in the same
habit. Religious sects send missionaries to convert heathens, and the
political idealist will try to convince everybody, by any means, that his
particular outlook is the only “right” one. Und willst Du nicht mein Bruder
sein, dann schlag ich Dir den Schaedel ein. (If you refuse to be my pal, I
shall be forced to crack your skull.)
A simple example of the spread of neurotic infection was given in a
London weekly: the members of a certain heathen tribe practised sexual
intercourse before marriage.1 Missionaries interfered, declaring this to be
a sin. The observer describes how these harmless and frank people
became shy, avoided the missionaries and became Ears and hypocrites.
We may assume that later they not only avoided the missionary but also
the community, and in the end concealed their sexual needs even from
themselves.
If a whole town turns out chanting magic words, making magic gestures
and bringing offerings to supernatural beings, in the expectation that this
will ingratiate the gods and help to break a drought, and they all have
faith in the efficacy of this procedure, none will realize the stupidity of
this behaviour, the insanity of such collective neurosis. But if an individual
awakens and regains his senses, he will come into conflict with his environ¬
ment and become isolated from family and friends, a figure outstanding
against the background of the community, an object of hostility and perse-
1 Perhaps the most important of our moral institutions is marriage. Without
any question there are many advantages in this institution, but weighing up the
beneficial and the detrimental aspects it remains a moot question which side of
the scale is the heavier. Were the genuine attraction in the marriage situation so
great, it would be unintelligible why the Roman Catholic Church regards it as
necessary to make divorce impossible. If somebody likes a place, high walls are
not necessary to keep him there.
We find happy marriages exceptional, laudable examples held up to mankind.
Then there are a number of tolerably “good” marriages, which are matters of
convenience and habit. Few marriages are openly unhappy, but many partners
live a marriage full of repressed unhappiness, which finds its outlet in irritability,
tendency to domineer each other, etc.; in short, they live in the most intimate
hostility. Unfaithfulness, separation, divorce are (mostly unsuccessful) attempts to
return to health. The primitive method of having intercourse before marriage
until a satisfactory partner has been found by spontaneous contact (in contrast to
moral obligations or monetary advantages) gives a much better chance for a con¬
tinuation of this contact, eventually under the name of marriage. Under these
circumstances the people and not the institution are in the foreground.
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when every crack of a twig, every rustle of the leaves seems to herald an
approaching enemy, will realize the unnecessary sufferings imposed upon
us by such unreal—imaginary—dangers.
The biological avoidance of dangerous contacts is often of importance
to self-preservation, and also to the preservation of things with which
we identify ourselves, which lie within our Ego-boundaries (Part II) and
are therefore of value to us. Anything threatening to impair the whole
or parts of the personality is felt as a danger, as something hostile which
has to be annihilated, either by destruction or by avoidance.
A great variety of actions intended to avoid unwanted contacts can be
observed, the main ones being protection and flight. In war we find:
active defence (personal resistance) and active flight (running away);
partial defence (digging in, camouflage) and partial flight (strategic
retreat according to plan); mechanical resistance (steel helmets, fortifica¬
tions) and mechanical flight (vehicles). Artificial fog in flight as well as
in attack is produced to deprive the enemy of visual contact. To leave
fighting rearguards behind while retreating is a combination of flight and
defence. Fundamentally, two trains of development in warfare (and this
applies likewise to commercial competition, political intrigue, criminology,
character formation, and neurosis) stand out clearly. The combination of
attack and defence (e.g. the guns and armour-plate of the tank); and the
answer to new weapons of attack with adequate defences.
Animals avoid dangers with the help of their skin and its derivates
(shells, horns, senses, etc.); they resort to flight by the muscular system
(running and flying away); they have at their disposal camouflage (mimicry)
and other means of fooling the enemy’s eyes. By pretending to be dead
(playing possum) the immobilized animal aims at being overlooked.
The octopus applies the fog technique for escape, the rat slips into its
dug-out, etc. With the more complicated development of the human
organism the means of avoidance, too, become more differentiated. In
the legal sphere the task of the defence is often more complicated than that
of the aggressor—the crown prosecutor—who himself is the defender of
the law, which in turn defends society against criminals who might have
defended themselves against starvation. In psycho-analysis expressions
like defensive neurosis and phobia show that Freud attempted to classify
the neurosis according to the means of avoidance. But this attempt was
not carried through, as is seen from the use of expressions like “obsessional
neurosis” or “hysteria.”
Anna Freud has demonstrated the defensive dynamics of the conscious
personality—The Ego and its defence mechanism—as a general law. Defence
indeed covers a large proportion of avoidance.
The disadvantage of “avoidance” is the impairment of the holistic
function. By avoidance, our spheres of actions and our intelligence dis¬
integrate. Every contact, be it hostile or friendly, will increase our spheres,
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(a) Subtraction:
(1) Scotoma.
(2) Selectivity.
(3) Inhibition.
(4) Repression.
(5) Flight.
(b) Addition:
(6) Over-compensation.
(7) Armour.
(8) Obsessions.
(9) Permanent projection.
(10) Hallucinations.
(11) Complaints.
(12) Intellectualism.
(13) Mal-co-ordination.
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(c) Changes:
(14) Dis-placement.
(15) Sublimation.
(16) Many character features.
(17) Symptoms.
(18) Feelings of guilt and anxiety.
(19) Projection.
(20) Fixation.
(21) Indecisiveness.
(22) Retroflection.
(a) Subtraction.
(1) 1 he simplest means of annihilation is the Scotoma (blind spot,
black-out of perceptions). This is one of those conjuring tricks (mentioned
before) employed in situations where a real annihilation is impossible. By
pretending not to hear or see, the source of unpleasantness seems to dis¬
appear. Children often cover their eyes or ears with their hands, displaying
the origin of the ostrich policy and hypocrisy which may characterize
many later actions. Compensation of a scotoma is found in Korsakow’s
disease, where a gap in memory is filled with imaginary happenings.
(2) Selectivity is a means of avoiding an objective point of view,
w here it is dictated by organismic needs, selectivity belongs to the un¬
alterable biological basis of our existence, but its arbitrary application
leads to half truths which are more dangerous than lies. It is applied in
propaganda and politeness, war news and rumours, wishful thinking and
hypochondria, and reaches its peak in the mentality of the hysterical
and paranoic character.
One has the impression that from Bergson’s concept of the Unconscious,
Freud selected the past, the causality, whilst Adler accentuated the future,
the purposefulness.
(3) In Inhibition some expression which should get outside the intra-
orgamsmic field is retained-is inhibited but not exhibited. By avoiding
e.g. crying, the demand of society for self-control is obeyed. The dis¬
advantage is that this often leads to hysterical symptoms. Inhibited
expression might appear as self-consciousness.
(4) Psycho-analysis has proved over and over again that Repressions
mean the avoidance of awareness. In the long run nothing is gained by
transporting an impulse from the conscious to the unconscious field.
(5) Flight is one of the best known of all avoidances—but nobody
can run away from himself. The escapist gains nothing as he carries with
him all his unfinished problems. The flight into illness and into the ffiture
at least as far as day-dreams are concerned—has been unmasked by
psycho-analysis, but its opposite—flight from the present into the past
and mto causes has actually been supported by Freudism.
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(b) Addition.
(6) The most widely known addition is Over-compensation (Adler).
The unpleasant feeling of inferiority must be avoided. A wall of opposites
to specific inferiorities is built around the vulnerable spot, the result being
a multitude of protective measures, even if entirely superfluous. The
masculine protest—the wish for a penis—has to safeguard such attitudes
which many women unnecessarily regard as weaknesses (S. Rado).
(7) The Armour (Reich) shows a similar structure. A number of
muscular contractions, resulting in mal-co-ordination and awkwardness,
are produced to avoid the expression of unwanted “vegetative energies”
(by this Reich apparently means all functions except the motoric ones).
(8) In the Obsessional Neurosis the avoidance of contact with forbidden
objects (e.g. dirt) and the avoidance of certain wishes (e.g. aggressive
tendencies) create a mental neoplasma of ceremonies and “making
sure” actions. The development of large parts of the personality is arrested.
(9) That Permanent Projections like the creation of gods are an
addition is obvious to anybody who does not turn this fact upside down
—who believes that these gods have created man. But even with the
believer, religion remains an “as if” fiction, a fact which can be realized
by comparing a pious person with a psychotic suffering from religious
delusions, who experiences God as a personal reality. Religion tends to
prevent the growing up of mankind, tends to keep believers in an infantile
state. “We are all children of one father—God!”
(10) Hallucinations are additional activities, covering up and thereby
avoiding, the perception of reality. A woman carrying a piece of wood
and addressing it as her child avoids the realization of her baby’s death.
(11) The grouser has added a wailing wall to his existence. He prefers
indulging in complaints to taking action.
(12) Intellectualism is a mental hypertrophy, and by no means identical
with intelligence, a fact which many people dislike admitting. It is an
attitude designed to avoid being deeply moved.
(13) According to F. M. Alexander many of our actions are accompanied
by a tremendous amount of superfluous activities, this excess being the
outcome of avoidance of “sensory appreciation” and appearing as Mal-
co-ordination.
(c) In this group plus and minus functions are either mixed, or simple
changes take place.
(14) In Displacement we avoid the contact with the original object by
directing our attention to a less objectionable one. It is not that the re¬
placement of a father-figure by an uncle happens to Mr. X, but Mr. X
purposely diverts his interest from the father to the uncle.
(15) Sublimation resembles displacement in that it substitutes one
action for another—for a more objectionable one. It is the original direct
action that has to be avoided. It seems problematical whether we are
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an^ Scbubert are said to have owed their artistic achievements to sex-
frustration and sublimation. Goethe, however, was very creative, even much more
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ORGANISMIC REORGANIZATION
synthesis analysis
body
The opposites, psyche and body, have been dealt with as differentia¬
tions of the organism. Regarding analysis, Freud maintains that a synthesis
is not necessary—that the libido, once set free, will find its own way of
sublimation. Nevertheless, psycho-analytical circles do speak of re¬
education and re-conditioning. Realizing, for instance, that the phobic
attitude (the tendency to avoid the facing of conflicts, instincts, feelings
of guilt, and so on) is an essential part of every neurosis, Freud prescribes
as antidote: contact with the feared tilings. He persuades a person suffering
from agoraphobia to attempt—after a certain amount of analysis—to
cross a street. Here he is aware that mere talking is insufficient. I doubt,
however, whether Freud was fully aware of the fact that interpretations
are also part of active psycho-analysis, as the patient is brought face to
face with that part of himself which he tries to avoid. This active behaviour
of holding a mental mirror in front of the patient aims at a synthesis,
integration—recontacting the isolated parts of his personality. }
Both analysis and synthesis tend to bring order into the patients
personality, to make his organism function with a minimum of effort.
We may call this process reconditioning or reorganization. Thus polarizing
the word psycho-analysis we arrive at a somewhat clumsy term: Orgamsmic
reorganization of the individual. If we accept these conclusions we have
to broaden the basic rule of psycho-analysis. This rule is in brief, ihe
patient shall say everything that enters his mind, even if he feels embar¬
rassment or other refractory emotions, and he shall suppress nothing
whatsoever.” Complementing this rule we have to add, firstly, that he is
expected to communicate everything he feels in his body. The patient
will, of his own accord, mention any strong physical symptoms, such as
headaches, palpitations, etc., but he will neglect whatever is less obtrusive,
such as a slight itch, restlessness and all the subtler expressions of the
body language, the importance of which has been pointed out by W.
Reich and G. Groddeck. A simple method of covering the whole orgams-
mic situation is to ask the patient to convey to the analyst whatever he
experiences mentally, emotionally and physically.
The second change which I propose to the basic rule concerns suppres¬
sion of embarrassment. A patient, eager to comply with the analyst s
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1 In the case of the effort syndrome and other cardio-vascular weaknesses the
Heart does not adequately compensate for the increasing metabolism which takes
place in excitement and increased muscular activity. This inadequacy becomes
particularly conspicuous if the thyroid balance is disturbed—it lies, as I have
mentioned before, between the excitability of a Basedowic thyreotoxic and the
dullness of a myxoedemic type. Any physician will confirm two facts: firstly the
ease with which a Basedowic gets anxiety attacks, and the relative immunity 0f
e myxoe emic type against them; secondly, that the former has an increased,
the latter a decreased basic metabolic rate.
Metabolism is a chemical process taking place within our organism and producing
™ivTv t0 our existence, e.g. heat. In this respect the organism behaves
exactly like a combustion appliance. A stove, in order to bum and to produce
fKeat’ quires two lands of fuel—oxygen and components of carbon. We generally
think of the latter only (the coal or wood), and forget about the other fuel (the air),
which is available without cost. A stove cannot bum if it has not sufficient solid
tuel or if it lacks the necessary quantity of air. The burning up of substances in
the human body takes place in the tissues. The carbon fuel is our food, which has
•ef“, by a complicated process of assimilation—to be considered later in
detail. The oxygen is brought to the tissues by the red blood corpuscles.
• ^Clte.ment, *s 1.dendcaI with increased metabolism, increased combustion,
increased need for liquid fuel and oxygen. To comply with this increased demand,
IcLKl UP more oxygen to the tissues. The pump-the heart-must
accelerate and the blood vessels must enlarge to cope with the fuller blood-stream
as it is physiologically impossible for the single blood-corpuscles to carry more
k Srlfaterdemand for oxygen must be met by the lungs through intensi-
each^breathcfr both) elt^Cr ^ m°re rapid breathmg or by increasing the volume of
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set, I found the excitement too much to bear, and I walked about like a
caged lion, unable to sit or stand still. I would often walk away from the
tennis courts and return when I thought the set was over and the results
decided. I was completely tense, contracting every possible muscle (more
especially those in the chest) with the result that I became short-winded
even before five or six points had been played. This feeling eventually
became so acute, owing to the continued suppression, that I did all in
my power to force my small tennis club to desist from playing in these
matches, and even resorted to all kinds of subterfuges to attain this object.
This trait has unfortunately now followed me on the golf course and I
cannot, of course, obtain any relief by walking away, with the result that
I contract the chest muscles so severely that I eventually find difficulty
in hitting the ball correctly. On some occasions I contracted the chest
so much that a pulse started beating in my throat and increased to such
an extent that it almost choked me. On one occasion I had to pass a small
examination, consisting of a written paper in the morning, and oral in
the afternoon. The day before the examination I experienced the usual
sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach accompanied by a feeling of
excitement, but to try and describe the way I felt between the morning
and afternoon is almost impossible. My chest felt constricted so that I
could scarcely breathe, I would not stand or sit and was pacing the building
like a lunatic, and when I was eventually called in by the examiner I
was practically speechless and shaking life a leaf. I experienced the same
emotions and sensations at a race course: having won the first leg of a
double ticket I found I could not even bear to watch the second leg of
the double and walked away to return after the race. I could relate many
more experiences of a similar nature; whenever I have a feeling of antici¬
pation, excitement or anxiety I feel that terrific pressure in my chest, I
cannot give expression to the emotion and eventually I succeed in depres¬
sing myself, and find that I have lost all courage to face any situation
in which any of these three emotions are present.”
On the phenomenon of anxiety I intended to demonstrate the great
changes in theory and practice which were the consequences of apparently
small alterations of the basic rule of Freud’s theory. But they also involve
a switching over from the technique of “free associations” to a “con¬
centration therapy” which has been inaugurated by W. Reich, and which
I am trying to develop systematically. The ultimate aim of the new
technique is to cut down the time of the neurosis-treatment and to build
a basis for the approach to certain psychoses.
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Our attitude towards the good and bad things of life goes—as we have
seen—hand-in-hand with reactions in opposites. Strictly speaking, these
reactions are not reactions but concurrences, “good” corresponding to
love, liking, pride and pleasure, and “bad” to hatred, disgust, shame
and pain; they are variations of the § and £ respectively, and play their
part in the fulfilment or frustration of every wish, of every instinct.
There is no doubt that the expressions of the sex instinct are very
powerful, and that f and, to a lesser degree, $ participate in its function.
But love, liking, pride and pleasure, are they all expressions of the sex
instinct, as Freud’s libido-theory maintains?
In the course of my observations I found that the hunger instinct and
Ego-functions played a much greater part in nearly every psycho-analysis
than I was led to expect. Whenever I tried to learn something about the
hunger instinct from psycho-analytical literature I found the analysis of
hunger was always mixed up with one or another libidinal aspect. Serious
attempts were made to approach the problem of Ego-functions, but
Freud had assigned to the Ego the part of a second fiddle, with the Un¬
conscious in the lead. I could not get away from the impression that in
psycho-analysis the Ego was an inconvenience and, unfortunately, one
which persisted in making itself felt, scientifically and practically, in every
existence.1
Finally I reached a point where the libido-theory—in spite of being a
valuable aid in acquiring knowledge of pathological characters of the
oral, anal, narcissistic and melancholic type—became more of a handicap
than an assistance. I then decided to view the organism without libidinal
spectacles and I experienced one of the most exciting periods in my life,
receiving, as it were, a shock and a surprise. The new outlook exceeded
all my expectations. I found I had overcome a mental stagnation and
achieved new insight. I began to see contradictions and limitations in
Freud’s outlook which for twenty years had been hidden from me by the
magnificence and daring of his concepts.
1 The other day, an eminent analyst compared the Unconscious with an elephant
and the Ego with a little baby trying to lead the elephant. What an isolationist
conception! What a disappointment to the ambition to be omnipotent! What a
split in the personality!
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Freud says that many a young man in our society cannot desire, where
he loves, and cannot love, where he desires. This looks like a split of the
libido into animalistic and spiritual love. If love were the outcome of the
flooding of our organism with sex hormones, this sublimated spiritual
love would disappear as the physical urge vanishes. Yet it does
not. Affection remains or even increases, particularly after a perfect
orgasm.
The proximity of the emotion called love to the sex instinct made
Freud commit his fundamental mistake. The child which loves its mother
for all the satisfaction it gets from her, will turn to her—to the one who
provides food, shelter and warmth—for the gratification of his first
conscious sexual desires (usually between the fourth and sixth year).
We now see how important it is to take the term “sex instinct” as a
mere abstraction. If an instinct is not a definite reality, Freud was at
liberty to include as many organismic functions in his concept of the
sex instinct as he required for his theory. We have to examine how many
of such organismic functions (called partial instincts) should be included
in the bundle of “sex instincts,” and how many should come under a
different heading. Freud erroneously interprets love during the period
preceding this sexual development (the so-called pre-Oedipus stage) as
being also of a sexual nature. He finds a way out of the ensuing complica¬
tions by calling the pre-sexual love pre-genital, maintaining that the body
openings, the oral and the anal zones, harbour the pre-stages of genital
energy.
These openings, the oral and anal zones, are indeed of great importance,
not in the development of sexual energy, but in the development of the
Ego. They lend themselves readily to sexualization, though originally they
have no “libidinal kathexis.”
In his observations of a case of hysteria, Freud realized that a connection
between this illness and sex starvation existed, and on the basis of this
case he developed his method for treating hysteria and later other neuroses.
Every analyst knows that results in these cases are often excellent and
lasting, if the patient takes up a healthy sex life.
The general opinion among analysts is that hysteria has largely dis¬
appeared from their clientele, because the Unconscious has been warned
and has regressed to a more complicated neurosis. This, as a rule, is not
the case. We rather have to look for an explanation in the social develop¬
ment: Sexual taboos in our time have been relaxed, and women have
achieved a greater economical and, through this, a greater sexual freedom.
The knowledge of Freud’s findings has spread, and “marriage” is more
readily advised by the general practitioner in obvious cases of sex starva¬
tion. On the other hand I have had the experience, and so have other
psycho-therapists, of cases of hysteria which are very refractory. These
cases, particularly of juveniles with so-called “moral insanity, show, in
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(1) The differentiation already starts in the foetus, with the develop¬
ment of the alimentary and uro-genital system respectively.
(2) The analysis of the hunger instinct isolated from any libidinal
kathexis is hardly considered by psycho-analysis. All conceptions
connected with the functions of the alimentary channel like intro-
jections, cannibalism, and defaecation are always tinged with a
sexual by-taste.
(3) The normal assimilation is overlooked, and perverted conceptions,
like pleasure of retention, or inhibition of oral development (e.g.
cannibalism) are called normal. In reality retention is painful,
and relief pleasant. Retention can provide a pleasure of secondary
nature, such as proof of one’s will-power or obstinacy.
(4) The libido theory is a biological conception, but certain social
aspects are mixed up with it. The anal zone has definitely received
its neurotic importance as a result of civilization.
(5) Freud inflates the term “libido” to such an extent, that it sometimes
stands for something like Bergson’s 6lan vital or for the psychological
exponent of the sex-urge to which connotation its use is restricted
in this book. Sometimes it means gratification or pleasure, and it
also can jump on to the object of love (cathexis), but without the
corresponding hormones.
The more one tries to get to the bottom of the meaning of “libi¬
do, the more one gets confused. Sometimes libido is a prime
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the manifest ego instincts and object instincts: Namely (a) Eros, the
instinct which strives for ever closer union, and (b) the instinct for
destruction which leads towards the dissolution of what is living. In
psycho-analysis the manifestation of the force of Eros is given the
name ‘libido’ . . .”
Let us try to see some of the contradictions which are involved in the
above theory and in other aspects of psycho-analysis.
(1) According to Freud the Ego is the most superficial portion of the
“Id,” but the instincts belong to the deepest layers of the organism.
Thus how can an Ego have instincts?
(2) “Ego instincts which are directed towards self-preservation.”
Self-preservation is granted by the hunger instinct and by defence.
In both items destruction plays a great part but not as an instinct
only in the service of hunger and defence. In Freud’s theory des¬
truction is opposed to the object instincts, but destruction without
an “object to destroy” cannot exist.
(3) The arrangement in the above quotation hints that Ego instincts
correspond to Eros, and object instincts to destruction. Freud
probably meant it the other way round.
(4) f and | are, as mentioned before, universal occurrences. Eros in
Freud’s terminology is applied as a general term, but the instinct
for destruction is intentionally restricted to living beings. This
instinct in other places is called death instinct. (A refutation of
this Thanatos theory will be found in another part of this book.)
(5) I have to emphasize over and over again that the important hunger
instinct is not even mentioned. Without considering the hunger
instinct the question of destruction and aggression can as little be
solved as our social and economical problems.
(6) I confess that I am old-fashioned enough to look upon the problems
of instincts from the point of view of survival. To me the sex
instinct is the representative of species-preservation, whilst the
hunger instinct and the instinct for defence stand for self-preserva¬
tion.
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TIME
in this case, the image exists merely in extension, the time component
being split off as impatience. In this way time awareness, or the sense of
time, enters the human life and psychology.
Einstein is of the opinion that the time sense is a matter of experience.
The small child has not yet developed it. The awakening of a suckling
occurs when the hunger tension has become so high as to interrupt sleep.
This is not due to any sense of time: on the contrary, the hunger helps
to create such a sense. Although we do not know of any organic equivalents
of the time sense, its existence has to be assumed, if not by anything
else than by the accuracy with which some people can tell the correct
time.
The longer the delay of wish gratification, the greater the impatience,
when the concentration remains on the object of gratification. The im¬
patient person wants the immediate, timeless joining of his vision with
reality. If you wait for a tram, the idea “tram” might slide into the back¬
ground and you might entertain yourself by thinking, observing, reading
or whatever pastime is at hand until the tram arrives. If, however, the
tram remains a figure in your mind, then §[ appears as impatience, you
feel like running to meet the tram. “If the mountain does not come to
Mohammed, Mohammed must go to the mountain.” If you suppress the
tendency to run towards the tram (and this self-control has become, with
most of us, automatic and unconscious) you become restless, annoyed;
if you are too inhibited to let off steam by swearing and becoming “ner¬
vous,” and if you repress this impatience, you will probably transform it
into anxiety, headache or some other symptom.
Someone was asked to explain Einstein’s theory of relativity. He
answered: “When you spend an hour with your girl, the time flies; an
hour seems like a minute; but when you happen to sit on a hot stove,
time crawls, seconds seem like hours.” This does not conform to the
psychological reality. In an hour of love, if the contact is perfect, the time
factor does not enter the picture at all. Should the girl, however, become
a nuisance, should contact with her be lost and boredom set in, then
you might start counting the minutes until you can get rid of her. The
time factor will also be experienced, if time is limited, when you want to
cram as much as possible into the minutes at your disposal.
There are, however, exceptions to the rule. The repressed memories in
our Unconscious are, according to Freud, timeless. This means that they
are not subject to change as long as they remain in a system isolated from
the rest of the personality. They are like sardines in a tin which apparently
remain for ever six weeks old or whatever their age was, when they were
caught. As long as they are isolated from the rest of the world very little
change takes place until (by being eaten up or oxydized) they return to
the world metabolism.
The time centre of ourselves as conscious human time-space events is
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the present. There is no other reality than the present. Our desire to
retain more of the past or to anticipate the future might completely
overgrow this sense of reality. Although we can isolate the present from
the past (causes) and from the future (purpose), any giving up of the
present as the centre of balance—as the lever of our life—must lead to an
unbalanced personality. It does not matter if you sway over to the right
(over-conscientiousness) or to the left (impulsiveness), if you over-balance
forward (future) or backwards (past), you can lose your balance in any
direction.
This applies to everything, and, of course, to the psycho-analytical
treatment as well. Here the only existing reality is the analytical interview.
Whatever we experience there, we experience in the present. This must
be the basis for every attempt at “organismic reorganization.” When we
remember, we remember at that very second and to certain purposes;
when we think of the future we anticipate things to come, but we do so
at the present moment and from various causes. Predilection for either
historical or futuristic thinking always destroys contact with reality.
Lack of contact with the present, lack of the actual “feel” of ourselves,
leads to flight either into the past (historical thinking) or into the future
(anticipatory thinking). Both “Epimetheus” Freud and “Prometheus”
Adler, co-operating with the neurotic’s desire to dig into the past or to
safeguard the future, have missed the Archimedic point of readjustment.
By giving up the present as a permanent referent the advantage of going
back to the past in order to profit from our experiences and mistakes,
changes into its opposite: it becomes detrimental to development. We
become sentimental or acquire the habit of blaming parents or circum¬
stances (resentment); often the past becomes a “consummation devoutly
to be wished for.” In short, we develop a retrospective character. The
prospective character, in contrast, loses himself in the future. His im¬
patience leads him to phantastic anticipations which—in contrast to
planning—are eating up his interest in the present, his contact with
reality.
Freud has the correct intuition in his belief that contact with the
present is essential. He demands free-floating attention, which means
awareness of all experiences; but what happens is that slowly but surely
patient and analyst become conditioned to two things; firstly, to the
technique of free associations, of the flight of ideas and, secondly, to a
state in which analyst and patient form,, as it were, a company fishing for
memories, the free-floating attention floating away. Open-mindedness is
in practice narrowed down to the almost exclusive interest in the past
and the libido.
Freud is not exact about time. When he says the dream stands with
one leg in the present, with the other in the past, he includes the past
few days into the present. But what happened even only a minute ago is
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past, not present. The difference between Freud’s conception and mine
may seem irrelevant, yet actually it is not merely a matter of pedantry,
but a principle involving practical applications. A fraction of a second
might mean the difference between life and death, as we have seen in
Chapter I, in the coincidence of the falling stone killing a man.
The disregard of the present necessitated the introduction of “trans¬
ference.” If we do not leave room for the spontaneous and creative
attitude of the patient, then we have either to search for explanations in
the past (to assume that he transfers every bit of his behaviour from remote
times to the analytical situation) or, following up Adler’s teleological
thinking, we have to restrict ourselves to finding out what purposes,
what arrangements the patient has in mind, what plans he has up his
sleeve.
By no means do I deny that everything has its origin in the past and
tends to further development, but what I want to bring home is, that
past and future take their bearings continuously from the present and
have to be related to it. Without the reference to the present they become
meaningless. Consider such a concrete thing as a house built years ago,
originating in the past and having a purpose, namely to be lived in.
What happens to the house if one is satisfied with the historical fact alone
of its having been built? Without being cared for, the house would fall
into ruin, subjected, as it would be, to the influence of wind and weather,
to dry and wet rot, and other decaying influences which, though small
and sometimes invisible, have an accumulative effect.
* * *
By applying our ideas of the present we can improve our memory and
powers of observation. We speak of memories coming into our mind:
our Ego is more or less passive towards them. But if we go back into a
situation, imagining that we are really on the spot, and then describe in
detail what we see or do, using the present tense, we shall greatly improve
our capacity for remembering. Exercises on these lines will comprise the
last part of this book.
The futuristic thinking, which in Adler’s psychology stands in the
foreground, is in Freud’s conception relegated to secondary importance
(e.g. secondary gain from illness). He stuck to causes, although in the
Psycho-Pathology of Everyday Life he has brought many examples to
show that forgetting and memories have tendencies and not only causes.
On the one hand the memories determine the neurotic’s life, and on the
other he remembers or forgets for certain purposes. An old soldier might
remember deeds he can boast about—he might even invent memories
for the purpose of boasting.
Our manner of thinking is determined by our biological organization.
The mouth is in front of us and the anus at the back. These facts have
something to do with what we are going to eat or to meet, and also of what
we are leaving behind or what we pass. Hunger certainly has some con¬
nection with the future, and the passing of the stool with the past.
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Although we do not know much more about time than that it is one of the
four dimensions of our existence, we are able to define the present. The
present is the ever-moving zero-point of the opposites past and future.
A properly balanced personality takes into account past and future without
abandoning the zero-point of the present, without seeing past or future as
realities. All of us look both backward and forward, but a person who is
unable to face an unpleasant present and fives mainly in the past or future,
wrapped up in historic or futuristic thinking, is not adapted to reality.
Thus reality—in addition to the figure-background-formation, as shown
previously—gets a new aspect provided by the sense of actuality.
Day-dreaming is one of the few occupations which are generally recog¬
nized as flight from the zero-point of the present into the future, and in
such a case it is customary to refer to this as escape from reality. On the
other hand, there are people who come to the analyst, only too willing
to comply with the popular idea of psycho-analysis—namely to unearth
all possible infantile memories or traumata. With a retrospective character
the analyst can waste years in following up this wild-goose chase. Being
convinced that digging up the past is a panacea for neurosis he merely
collaborates with the patient’s resistance of facing the present.
The constant delving into the past has a further disadvantage, in that
it neglects to take into account the opposite, the future, thereby missing
the point in a whole group of neuroses. Let us consider a typical case of
anticipatory neurosis: A man, on going to bed, worries about how he will
sleep; in the morning he is full of resolutions as to the work he is going
do in his office. On his arrival there he will not carry out his resolutions,
but will prepare all the material he intends conveying to the analyst,
although he will not bring forward this material in the analysis. When the
time comes for him to use the facts he has prepared, his mind occupies
itself instead with his expectation of having supper with his girl friend,
but during the meal he will tell the girl all about the work he has to attend
to before going to bed, and so on and on. This example is not an exaggera¬
tion, for there are quite a number of people always a few steps or miles
ahead of the present. They never collect the fruits of their efforts, as
their plans never make contact with the present—with reality.
What is the use of making a man, haunted by unconscious fear of
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exists in habits. We know that the older a person grows or the less elastic
his outlook on life is, the more impossible any change of habits becomes.
When we condemn certain habits and call them vices we imply that a
change is desirable. In most cases, however, they have become part of
the personality to such a degree that all conscious efforts fail to change
them and that all efforts are confined to ridiculous resolutions which
bribe the conscience for the moment without influencing the issue.
Principles are no less obstinate. They are substitutes for an independent
outlook. The owner would be lost in the ocean of events if he were not
able to orientate himself by these fixed bearings. Usually he is even proud
of them and does not regard them as weaknesses, but as a source of
strength. He hangs on to them because of the insufficiency of his own
independent judgment.
The dynamic of habits is not homogeneous. Some are dictated by
economy of energy and are “conditioned” reflexes. Habits are often
fixations or have originally been fixations. They are kept alive by fear
but might be changed into “conditioned” reflexes. This insight involves
that a mere analysis of habits is as insufficient for “breaking” them as
are resolutions.
The structure of the “compulsion of repetition” proper is quite different
from that of habits and principles. We have previously chosen the example
of a man who becomes disappointed again and again in his friends. We
would hardly call this a habit or a principle. But what then is this
compulsory repetition? To answer this question we have to make a
detour.
K. Lewin carried out the following memory experiments: A number
of people were given some problems to solve. They were not told that it
was a memory test but were under the impression that an intelligence
test was being carried out. The next day they were asked to write down
the problems they remembered, and, strangely enough, the unsolved
problems were far better remembered than those which had been solved.
The libido-theory would lead us to expect the opposite, namely that
narcissistic gratification would make people remember their successes.
Or did they all have Adler’s inferiority complexes and did they only
remember the unsolved tasks as a warning to do better next time? Both
explanations are unsatisfactory.
The word “solution” indicates that a puzzling situation disappears, is
dissolved. With regard to the actions of the obsessional neurotic it has
been realized that the obsessions have to be repeated until their task is
finished. When a death wish is dissolved, psycho-analytically or otherwise,
interest in the performing of the obsessional rites (the “undoing” of
the death wish) will recede into the background and later disappear from
the mind.
If a kitten tries to climb a tree and fails, it repeats its attempts over
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and over again until it succeeds. If a teacher finds mistakes in the pupil’s
work he makes him re-do it, not for the sake of repeating mistakes, but
to train him in the proper solution. Then the situation is completed.
Teacher and pupil lose all interest in it, just as we do after having solved
a cross-word puzzle.
Repeating an action to the point of mastery is the essence of development.
A mechanical repetition without perfection as its aim is contrary to
organic fife, contrary to “creative holism” (Smuts). The interest is held
only as long as the task in hand is unfinished. Once it is completed the
interest disappears till a new task creates interest again. There is no
savings bank from which the organism (as the libido theory suggests) can
draw the required amount of interest.
Compulsory repetitions, too, are by no means automatic. On the
contrary, they are vigorous attempts at solving relevant problems of fife.
The need for a friend is, in itself, a very healthy expression of the desire
for human contact. The permanently disappointed man is wrong only
in so far as he looks for this ideal friend over and over again. He might
deny the unpleasant reality in day-dreams or even in hallucinations; he
might try to become this ideal himself or to mould his friends to it, but
he cannot come to a fulfilment of his desires. He does not see that he
makes a fundamental mistake: he looks for the cause of his failure in the
wrong direction—outside instead of inside himself. He looks upon his
friends as the causes of his disappointment, not realizing that his own
expectations are responsible. The more idealistic his expectations are, the
less they conform to reality, the more difficult the contact problem will
become. This problem will not be solved and the compulsion of repetition
will not cease before he has adjusted his expectations of the impossible
to the possibilities of reality.
The compulsion of repetition is thus nothing mechanical, nothing dead,
but is very much alive. I fail to see how one can deduce from this a mystical
death instinct. This is the one instance where Freud left the solid ground
of science and wandered off into regions of mysticism, as did Jung with
his special development of the libido theory and his conception of the
Collective Unconscious.
It is not for me to find out what made Freud invent this death instinct.
Perhaps illness or approaching old age made him wish for the existence
of such a death instinct which could be discharged in the form of aggres¬
sion. If this theory were correct, anyone sufficiently aggressive would
have the secret of prolonging fife. Dictators would live ad infinitum.
Freud alternatively uses the terms “nirvana” and “death instinct.”
While nothing could justify the conception of the death instinct, the
nirvana instinct might find some justification. One must protest against
the word instinct and apply rather the word tendency. Every need disturbs
the equilibrium of the organism. The instinct indicates the direction in
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which the balance is upset—as Freud has realized with regard to the
sex instinct.
Goethe had a theory similar to Freud’s, but to him not libido, but
destruction, symbolized by Mephistopheles, appeared as the disturber of
man’s “love for unconditional peace.” But this peace is neither uncon¬
ditional nor lasting. Gratification will restore the organismic peace and
balance until—soon enough—another instinct will make its demands.
To mistake the “instinct” for the tendency towards equilibrium is like
mistaking the goods which are being weighed on a pair of scales for the
scales themselves. We might call this inherent urge to come to rest through
gratification of an instinct, “striving for nirvana.”
The postulation of the nirvana “instinct” may also have been the
outcome of wishful thinking. Those short periods in which the scales of
our organism have regained their balance are the moments of peace and
happiness, only too soon to be disturbed by new demands and urges.
Often we would like to isolate this restful feeling from its place in the
instinct-gratification cycle and make it last longer. I understand that
Hindus in their disapproval of the body and its sufferings, in their attempts
to kill all desires, declared the state of nirvana to be the ultimate aim of
our existence. If the striving for nirvana is an instinct, I am at a loss to
see why they have put such an amount of energy and training into achiev¬
ing their aim, since an instinct takes care of itself and does not require
any conscious effort.
A great deal more could be said about the so-called death instinct.1
The insight into its true nature could have been gained long ago, had not
Freud’s pupils, fascinated by his greatness, swallowed everything he said
as a religion—much as I myself did in former years.
(5) This swallowing of mental material brings us to another form of
the past-present relations: the large class of traumatic and introjected
memories.
A simple example is the stupid pupil with the excellent memory, who
learns whole passages by heart and can repeat them easily on the examina¬
tion papers, but is at a loss to explain the meaning of what he has written.
He has taken in the material without assimilating it. Common to this
class of memories which more than anything else has attracted the interest
of Freud is the fact that they all lie in a kind of mental stomach. Three
things can happen: either one vomits this material up (like a reporter),
or defaecates it undigested (projection), or suffers from mental indigestion,
MENTAL METABOLISM
HUNGER INSTINCT
If we cut through the three dimensions of a cube of one inch (Figs. I and
II), we are left with eight cubes instead of one; the volume remains the
same, but the surface area is doubled (Fig. III). Fig. I shows a surface
of six square inches; Fig. Ill shows eight cubes, each having six sides
measuring half an inch: 8 X 6 x | X | = 12 square inches. Having thus
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doubled the surface of the original cube, we can continue the subdivision,
thereby increasing the surface.
The advantage of a large surface is its quick and thorough reaction to
physical and chemical influences. A tablet of aspirin dissolves more
quickly when crushed. A piece of meat, put into a mild acid, requires
a long time to dissolve, for the acid attacks the surface only, leaving the
inside untouched. If it is minced and spread, however, all the substance
will dissolve in the same time as was necessary to penetrate the surface
in the first instance.
This $ plays the major part in the process of food consumption. The
§[, however, is not to be ignored, as it is present in the approach to food
(appetite), in tasting and in certain synthetic chemical reactions within
our organism. These functions are relatively insignificant in the foetus,
but in the post-natal individual they play an ever increasing role.
In the first stage we find the embryo, which is like any other tissue
of the mother; it gets all the food it requires via the placenta and umbilical
cord—the liquified and chemically prepared meal as well as the necessary
amount of oxygen. In the early stages both these foods are delivered to
the tissues without any effort whatsoever on the part of the foetus, while
later the embryo’s heart takes part in the distribution. With birth, the
umbilical cord ceases to function, the life-line between mother and child
is cut, and, in order to keep alive, the newly-born child is faced with tasks
which—simple to us—may be difficult for the little organism. It has to
provide its own oxygen, that is, to start breathing, and it has to incorporate
food. Breaking up solid structures, as shown in the beginning of this
chapter, is not yet required, but the molecules of the proteins, etc., of
the milk have to be chemically reduced and broken up into simpler
substances. There is, however, one conscious active part which the
suckling has to perform: the hanging-on bite.
In the next phase, the baby’s front teeth erupt, and the first means of
attacking solid food appear. These front teeth act as scissors, involving
also the use of the jaw muscles, though in our civilization their use is
often replaced by that of the knife, with a resulting impairment of the
teeth and their function. The task of the teeth is to destroy the food’s
gross structure, as shown in Figs. I to III.
The mother’s nipples become a “thing” to bite on. “Cannibalism,” as
this stage is wrongly called in psycho-analysis, comes into play. The
biting of the nipple may be painful to the mother. Not realizing the
biological nature of the child’s biting impulse, or perhaps having a painful
nipple, the mother may become upset and even smack the “naughty”
child. Repeated smacking will condition the child to an inhibition of
biting. Biting becomes identified with hurting and being hurt. The
retribution trauma, however, is not as frequently encountered as the
traumatic frustration through the withdrawal of the breast (premature or
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sudden weaning). The more the activity of biting is inhibited, the less
will such a child develop the ability to tackle an object, if and when the
situation calls for it.
In this case a vicious circle is started. The small child cannot repress1
its impulses, nor can it easily resist such a powerful impulse as that of
biting. In the very small child the ego-functions (and with them the ego-
boundaries) are not yet developed. As far as I can see, it has at its disposal
only the means of projection. The child cannot, at this stage, distinguish
between the internal and external world. The expression “projection”
is, therefore, not quite correct, as it means that something that should be
felt in the internal world is experienced as belonging to the external
field; but for practical purposes we may use the word “projection,”
instead of “pre-differential state of projection.” (See Chapter X of
this Part.)
The more the ability to hurt is inhibited and projected, the more will
the child develop a fear of being hurt; and this fear of retaliation, in turn,
will produce a still greater reluctance to inflict pain. In all such cases an
insufficient use of the front teeth is to be found, together with a general
inability to get a grip on life, to get one’s teeth into a task.
Another outlet for the inhibited aggression is “retroflection,” for which
I have reserved a special chapter.
If dental development stopped after the appearance and use of the
front teeth we would be able to bite a biggish lump into small pieces,
but the digestion of such pieces would strain our chemical apparatus and
require considerable time. The finer a substance is ground, the larger is
the surface it presents to chemical action. The task of the molars is to
destroy the lumps of food; mastication is the last stage in the mechanical
preparation for the forthcoming attack by chemicals, by body juices. The
best preparation for proper digestion is to grind the food into an almost
fluid pulp, mixing it thoroughly with saliva.
Few people realize that the stomach is just a kind of skin, unable to
deal with lumps. Sometimes the organism, in order to compensate for
the lack of chewing, produces an excessive quantity of stomach acid and
pepsin. This adjustment, however, entails the danger of the development
of a gastric or duodenal ulcer.
The different stages in the development of the hunger instinct may be
classified as pre-natal (before birth), pre-dental (suckling), incisor (biting)
and molar (biting and chewing) stages. Before going into the details of
the psychological aspect of these different stages, I should like to dwell
on a theme touched on before—the theme of impatience. Many adults
treat solid food “as if” it were liquid, to be swallowed in gulps. Such
people are always characterized by impatience. They demand the im-
1 Repression is originally based upon the control of the closing muscles of
mouth, anus and urethra.
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anything else for the excessive stupidity we find in the world. Just as
such people have no patience to chew up real food, so they do not take
sufficient time to “chew up” mental food.
As modem times promote hasty eating to a large extent, it is not sur¬
prising to learn that a great astronomer said: “Two things are infinite,
as far as we know—the universe and human stupidity.” To-day we know
that this statement is not quite correct. Einstein has proved that the
universe is limited.
II
RESISTANCES
1 Its disinterested and insensitive attitude towards its own product provides a
perfect preparation for the life of the modern industrial worker, whose output is
treated similarly to the faeces of the child. As soon as it has been produced, it
is removed without arousing any interest. In striking contrast stands the case of
the medieval arusan, who had personal contact with his work and who saw his
products valued by others.
RESISTANCES
appreciate the fact that our attitude towards food has a tremendous
influence upon intelligence, upon the ability to understand things, to
get a grip on life and to put one’s teeth into the tasks on hand.
Anyone not using his teeth will cripple his ability to use his destructive
functions for his own benefit. He will weaken his teeth, and contribute
to their decay. The fact that he does not thoroughly prepare his physical
food for assimilation will have repercussions on his characterological
structure and mental activities. In the worst cases of dental under¬
development people remain, as it were, sucklings throughout life. Although
we seldom encounter anyone who has remained a complete suckling, who
never makes some use of his teeth, we find many people who restrict
their dental activities to soft food which liquifies easily, or to crisp food,
which conveys the feeling that the teeth are being used but which does
not require the investment of any substantial amount of effort.
The suckling at the mother’s breast is a parasite, and persons who
retain this attitude during a life-time remain unrestricted parasites (e.g.
blood-suckers, vamps or gold-diggers). They always expect something for
nothing; they have not attained the balance necessary for the fife of an
adult, the principle of give and take.
As people are not likely to get very far with such a character, they
either cloak it, or pay for it indirectly. These people are recognized by
their exaggerated modesty and lack of back-bone. At table, such an
inhibited parasite is embarrassed with every dish offered to him, but
closer observation will soon reveal the greed behind the modesty. He
snatches sweets when no one is watching, and he will emerge slyly and
very apologetically with ever increasing demands. Give him an inch and
he will take an ell. The smallest favour he does is inflated to a sacrifice,
for which he expects to be rewarded by gratitude and praise. His gifts
are mostly empty promises, clumsy flatteries and servile behaviour.
His opposite is the over-compensated parasite who does not take
food for granted, but lives in a permanent unconscious fear of starvation.
He is often found among public servants, who sacrifice their individuality
and independence in exchange for security. He lies at the breast of the
state, relying on an old age pension, and thereby having his food secured
for the rest of his days. A similar anxiety compels many to accumulate
money, and still more money, in order that the interest (milk) of the
capital (mother) may flow unceasingly.
So much for the characterological side of the picture. The finding of
origins in the past is not identical with a cure for the present. Historical
thinking merely helps to understand the parasitic character. The mere
realization of his under-development (the feel of it, as I call it; or the
transposition from the Unconscious into the Conscious, as Freud calls
it), may make the patient either feel ashamed of, or accept his oral character.
Only by learning how to apply his biting tools, the teeth, will he be
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the other hand, require the world as object. One may choose a substitute
such as stroking a dog instead of a friend, as affection needs some kind of
contact; but, like other emotions, it will not give satisfaction if it is sense¬
lessly discharged.
In the case of sublimated aggression, an object is easily procured:
a problem may be a hard nut to crack, the drill of a bore bites into metal,
the teeth of the saw cut wood. All these are excellent outlets for aggression,
but they will never equal dental aggression, the application of which will
serve several purposes: one rids oneself of irritability and does not punish
oneself by sulking and starving—one develops intelligence, and has a
good conscience, because one has done something “good for one’s
health.”
I have stated that aggression is mainly a function of the hunger instinct.
In principle, aggression can be part of any instinct—take, for example,
the part that aggression plays in the pursuit of the sexual object. The
terms destruction, aggression, hatred, rage and sadism are used in psycho¬
analytical literature almost as synonyms, and one never knows definitely
whether reference is made to an emotion, to a function, or to a perversion.
Though our knowledge is not sufficiently advanced for clear-cut dis¬
tinctions, we should nevertheless try to bring some kind of order into
this terminology.
If the hunger tension becomes high, the organism marshals the forces
at its disposal. The emotional aspect of this state is first experienced as
undifferentiated irritability, then as anger, and finally as rage. Rage is
not identical with aggression but it finds its outlet in aggression, in the
innervation of the motoric system, as the means of conquering the needed
object. After the “kill,” the food itself has to be attacked; the tools, the
teeth, are ever ready, but they require the motoric forces to do the job.
Sadism belongs to the sphere of “sublimated” aggression, and is mostly
found mixed with sexual impulses.
The sublimation of the hunger instinct is, in some ways, easier, and in
some ways more difficult, than that of the sex instinct: easier in that we
always find objects for aggression (all work, especially all manual labour,
sublimates aggression—a non-aggressive blacksmith or wood-cutter is a
paradox). Sublimation is more difficult in so far as dental aggression always
requires an object. Self-sufficiency, as it is sometimes found in connection
with the sex instinct, cannot exist. There are people who live a sex life
without any object in reality, contented with phantasies, masturbation
and nocturnal emissions, but nobody can gratify the hunger instinct
without real objects, without food. Freud gives a convincing illustration
of this fact in the story of the dog and the sausage,1 but again he takes it
* For a considerable time one can make a dog pull a cart, just by dangling a
sausage before his nose; but sometimes one actually has to give the dog something
to eat!
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as proof for the urgency, not of the hunger, but of the sex instinct and the
impossibility of its frustration.
There is not the slightest justification for calling only the sex instinct
an object instinct. Aggression is at least as much object-bound as sex,
and it can in the same way as love (in narcissism or in masturbation)
have the “Self” as object. They both may become “retroflected.”
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from the individual towards the world, changes its direction and is bent
back towards the originator. An example is the narcissist a person who
instead of directing his love outwards to an object falls in love with
himself.1 2
Whenever a verb is used in connection with a reflexive pronoun, we
may look for a retroflection; if a person talks to “himself,” he does so
instead of talking to someone else. If a girl, disappointed by her lover,
kills “herself,” she does so because her wish to kill him is retroflected
by the wall of her conscience. Suicide is a substitute for homicide or
murder.3
W e understand now what Moses achieved by retroflecting the aggression
of his followers. The religious Jew does not blame Jehovah for any
failure or misfortune. He does not tear out His hair, does not belabour
His chest he retroflects his own annoyance, blames himself for every
mishap, tears his own hair, beats his own chest.3
This retroflected aggression was the first step in the development of
our paranoic civilization. The “means whereby” for the “end gain”
of repression came into existence. This repression starts a vicious cycle.
With the help of retroflected aggression, another wave of aggression is
stifled and again retroflected, and so it goes on.
Moses intention was apparently to do away with aggression only as
far as it threatened his authority. In the Christian religion, however, the
process develops further: all instincts must be repressed, and a split
between body and soul is inaugurated; the body as the carrier of the
instincts is despised and condemned as sinful. Sometimes even exercises
are prescribed to deaden the body and its functions.
At the same time another mistake is made. The emotional equivalent
of aggression is hatred. Instead of allowing outlets for aggression the
dogma is introduced that hatred can be compensated, or even replaced,
by love; but in spite of, or perhaps because of, vigorous training in
charity, increased intolerance and aggression result. These effects are not
neutralized by love, but directed against the “body” and against those
who do not believe in the truth of that special branch of religion. This
mistake, this belief that one can neutralize aggression by love and religion
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MENTAL FOOD
taste every word they speak, and if, at the same time, they feel the un¬
destroyed morsels of food—of the real food—going down their throat, is
there a hope of their understanding or assimilating what the “ism” means.
Only those who grind their mental food so thoroughly, that they get
the full value of it, will be able to assimilate and reap the benefit of a
difficult idea or situation. Everyone will gain much more for his knowledge
and intelligence by reading one good book six times than by reading six
good books once. The chewing applies likewise to criticism: if someone
is touchy, and his dental aggression projected, every critical opinion is
experienced as an attack and this often results in inability to stand even
benevolent criticism. When, however, dental aggression is functioning
biologically, one does not shun, one even welcomes, criticism. One cannot
learn much from careless praise, but criticism may contain something
constructive, thus converting even the most mischievous attack into a
benefit. Criticism should be neither refused, nor swallowed, but should
be chewed up carefully and should in every case be taken into consideration.
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V
INTROJECTION
Those to whom I have shown the importance of the analysis of the hunger
instinct the structural similarity of the phases of our food consumption
with our mental absorption of the world—have been surprised that Freud
should have missed this point. Compared with the fact that Freud dis-
co\ered the implications and complications of sexual repression, this is
of minor importance. After the complete analysis of one group of instincts,
the analysis of other groups was bound to follow sooner or later. The
material which Freud had at his disposal for building up his theories was
P°or and faulty (e.g. the association psychology’). Though I consider the
libido theory to be out of date, I am not blind to the fact that it was the
most important step in the development of psycho-pathology, and had
Freud not concentrated on it, psycho-analysis might never have been
bom.
Many people, expecting an integration of their Weltanschauung from
the study of man’s objective and subjective worlds, have tried to make
the body of their philosophy walk on two legs—Marxism and Freudism.
They have tried to build bridges between the two systems, but failed to
see that the economical complications with which Marx was concerned
resulted from the instinct of self-preservation. Although fully realizing
man s basic need for food, clothes and shelter, Marx did not follow up
the implications of the hunger instinct in the same way as Freud did
with the sex impulses—his sphere of research was mainly that of social
relations and only rarely the individual.
Little has been said in communist and socialist literature about sexual
needs and problems about the instinct of race-preservation—compared
with what is written about the feeding problem—starvation, self-preserva¬
tion or reproduction of working power. Freud has sexualized the hunger
instinct, whereas communism passed through a period when sex problems
were looked upon ‘as if” they belonged to the sphere of hunger (glass-
of-w ater-theory), just as many people in our civilization speak of sexual
appetite and thus confound sex instinct and hunger instinct.
The psycho-analysis of Alarxism has as little influence on economic
issues, as the Marxist denotation of psycho-analysis as a product of
bourgeois idealism diminishes the value of Frued’s findings. Declaring the
castration complex to be the mechanism by which the oppressed classes
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Total Introjection
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133
VI
They might take great pains to get hold of something or someone, but
they will relax their efforts as soon as they have achieved this. They try
to stabilize any relationship at the very first phase of contact; thus they
may have hundreds of acquaintances, but none develops into a real
friendship. In their sexual relations only the conquest of the partner
matters, but consequent relationship quickly becomes uninteresting and
they become indifferent. There is a striking discrepancy in the attitude
of such persons before and after marriage. A proverb says, “Women can
make nets but not cages.”
The attitude of such cases towards study and work suffers from similar
difficulties. They know something about everything, but they cannot
appropriate anything which can be achieved only with a specific effort.
Their work is rather uncreative, mechanical (automatic), limited mainly
to routine. In short, their aim is still—like a baby’s—the successful
hanging-on bite, which restores equilibrium and dispenses with the
necessity for further effort (biting).
But in the life of grown-up people the hanging-on attitude can only
very occasionally be completely successful. In most situations one has to
make proper contact—one has to tackle the matter on hand, to “put
one’s teeth into it,” e.g. one has to sustain one’s interest and activity
over a period of time—in order to derive any benefit for one’s own per¬
sonality.
How do people cope with the failure of the hanging-on attitude? How
can they get round the necessity to bite? How can they dispose of the
surplus aggressiveness, which must arise from the dissatisfaction with
the hanging-on relationship (resentment), without incurring the danger
(as they feel it) of causing change and destruction?
If there is a fixation to the infantile hanging-on attitude, we may expect
that the means whereby this attitude is maintained are equally infantile.
The frustrated and dissatisfied infant looks for—and sometimes is even
given—a dummy, something indestructable, to which biting can be applied
without repercussions. The dummy allows for the discharge of a certain
amount of aggressiveness, but, apart from that, it does not produce any
change in the child, that is, it does not feed it. The dummy represents a
serious impediment in the development of the personality, because it
does not actually satisfy the aggressiveness, but deviates it from its bio¬
logical aim, namely the gratification of hunger and the achievement of
the restoration of the individual’s wholeness.
Anything that the baby gets hold of may be used as a dummy—a
pillow, a teddy bear, the cat’s tail (as in Mrs. Minniver), or the baby’s
own thumb. Later on in life, any object might become “dummified” if
only the hanging-on bite is applied to it. In such instances the individual
lives in mortal fear of the dummy developing into the “real thing”
(originally the breast) and that the hanging-on bite might turn into a
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VII
(a) Identification/Alienation
When we attempt to put into practice the conclusions from the previous
parts an apparent contradiction is met: the statement that the healthy
Ego is unsubstantial seems to be at variance with my demand that the
analyst should deal with the Ego rather than with the Unconscious.
This contradiction is removed if we word the demand: the analyst should
make use of the Ego-functions rather than appeal to the Unconscious.
The function of the lungs is mainly the exchange of gases and vapour
between organism and environment. Lungs, gases and vapour are con¬
crete, but the function is abstract—yet real. The Ego, so I maintain, is
similarly a function of the organism. It is not a concrete part of it, but is,
rather, a function which ceases, for instance, during sleep and coma,
and for which no physical equivalent can be found either in the brain
or in any other part of the organism.
In psycho-analytical theory, the conception of the Ego as a substance
is fairly generally accepted. 1 o quote one instance: Sterba interprets the
psycho-analytical cure as a building up of isolated islands of Ego, which,
in the course of time, will consolidate into one solid, reliable unit.
Another analyst, Fedem, likewise assumes the substantiality of the
Ego. For him the Ego consists of that mysterious material called libido.
The libido in addition to being capable of occupying images and erogenetic
zones, of energizing many activities and being the representative of the
object instincts, is now credited with the ability to expand and contract.
At the same time the dualistic concept of libidinal object instincts as
opposed to the Ego instincts is conveniently forgotten. In spite of the
theoretical confusion there is, however, a valuable nucleus in Fedem’s
observation: the fact that his libidinal Ego has changing boundaries.
Once we discard the libido-theory we shall see that the concept of the
Ego-boundaries will assist us considerably in the understanding of the
Ego.
Two of Freud’s statements add to the confusion: (a) the Ego is differ¬
entiated from the Unconscious; (b) the Unconscious contains repressed
wishes. If a wish has been repressed, it must have been strong enough to
have Ego quality (“I” want . . .). The contradiction, however, disappears
as soon as we realize that we have two kinds of Unconscious: the biological
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Unconscious (in the sense of the philosopher Hartmann), and the psycho¬
analytical Unconscious, which consists of previously conscious elements.
We may conclude then: the Ego is differentiated from the biological
Unconscious, but consequently certain Ego aspects have become repressed,
and now constitute the psycho-analytical “Unconscious.” To the observer
the Ego quality of the latter remains obvious, but not to the patient. If,
for example, an obsessional neurotic says: “There is a vague feeling at
the back of my mind that I may experience an impulse through which
some harm might befall my father, whom I dislike thoroughly because of
his unpleasant habits!” he originally means: “I would like to kill that
swine.”
Freud says further about the Ego that it has command over the motoric
system. This statement indicates that the Ego is not identical with the
whole personality. If “I” command the motoric system, “I” must be
different or apart from it: a general commanding an army is a part of,
but apart from the rest of the army.
Yet, if I say: “I am travelling to the city of X,” the Ego stands for the
whole personality. A confusing number of statements without any central
conception! To demonstrate my own conception of the Ego I have first
to add to this confusion, not by piling up more theoretical statements,
but by giving further practical aspects of the Ego.
Below a number of Ego aspects are enumerated in such a way as to
show each aspect against its opposite as background, as we have previously
done with the term “actor.”
Freud uses the two terms Super-Ego and Ego-Ideal almost synonym¬
ously; but, nevertheless, we may differentiate them as conscience and ideals,
and characterize them as follows:
The conscience is aggressive, and expresses itself mainly in words;
the aggression is directed from the conscience to the “Ego,” the tension
between conscience and Ego being experienced as feeling of guilt.
Ideals mainly exist in pictures; the emotion involved is love, its direction
being from the Ego towards the ideal; a tension between Ego and ideal
is felt as inferiority.
The Id represents the instincts, expressing themselves in sensations;
'the tension between Ego and Id is called urge, drive, wish, etc.
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We can now apply this conception in the following example: a little
boy feels the desire to “pinch” some sweets. Also, like many children,
he is obsessed with the ideal of being grown up, but big people, in his
imagination, don’t crave for sweets; so he thinks he should fight his appe¬
tite. In addition his conscience tells him that stealing is a sin. Feeling
these three experiences simultaneously his poor Ego would be caught
between three fires. He, however, does not experience his Ego as a
substance. The healthy child does not think “an ideal is obsessing me;
the hunger is torturing me and my conscience forbids me to steal sweets.”
He experiences: “/ want to be grown-up; I am hungry but / must not
steal sweets.”
From an objective point of view, his conscious experience is determined
by conscience, ideals and Id, but subjectively he is hardly aware of that.
He achieves this subjective integration by the process of identification—
the feeling that something is part of him or that he is part of something
else.
Thus I agree with Freud that the Ego is closely related to identification.
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(b) Boundary
1 A simile might at least hint at this difference. One of the functions of the
kidneys is the excretion of salts. The salts are merely passing through the urogenital
system. Under certain pathological conditions the salts precipitate and form a
solid, foreign body in the organism and interfere with the well-being, and eventually
with the functions, of the kidney.
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considers only the integrative energy of the libido and neglects the simul¬
taneous appearance of
The members of a football club tend to melt together into one unit
(§). Members of a clan are more attached to each other (§) than those of
another clan. Ideologies unite those who believe in them (§). In times
of danger when the security of a country is threatened, the unity of its
citizens is of the utmost importance in its defence.
A sound holism requires mutual identification. The club which does
not identify itself with its members—protecting their interests and
compensating them for their devotion—will disintegrate. The £ which,
in collective group, is added up and found on the outside of its boundaries
returns to the individuals.
Federn does not look at the Ego-boundary from without, where the ^
gathers. Just as the accumulation of positive electricity on one condenser
plate is accompanied by that of its opposite on the other plate, so the
integrative energies within the Ego-boundaries are complemented by
hostility without.
Wherever two holistic structures meet, they themselves are kept together
and separated from each other by more or less pronounced hostility.
Two football clubs show this in a mild form of rivalry towards each other
in general, and in their matches in particular. Between schools wre see
competition; between nations, wars. Family Smith feels superior to Family
Brown, who in turn despises the members of the Smith family. The
Montagues and Capulets are examples of hostile clans; but Romeo and
Juliet break through the boundaries, their desire to join each other being
so much stronger than their family ties.
The more hostility threatens from without the greater will be the
integrative function of individuals and groups. In the moment of danger
the organism will marshal all faculties at its disposal; whenever a country'
is attacked this aggression from outside may result in uniting its citizens.
The mother who has just been angry with her child will the next moment
protect it against an extraneous insult.
Love is identification with an object (“mine”); hate alienation from it
(“away from me!”). The wish to be loved is the desire that the object
should identify itself with the subject’s wishes and demands. Intense
mutual love is expressed in terms like, “one heart and one soul,” “hand
in glove,” etc. In sexual intercourse mutual identification is imperative;
“to be one flesh,” reads a passage in the Bible.
The boundary' between two farms is formed by a fence. This fence
indicates the contact between the two farms, but isolates them from each
other at the same time. In nomadic times there were no boundaries,
there was a confluence. With personal ownership there came the division
of land and the creation of friendly or hostile neighbours. If to-day the
farmers joined in a collective group, the confluence would be re-
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established, but the boundaries between the collective farms (cf. the
socialist competition in Russia) would remain. There would also be a
confluence if a farmer coveted his neighbour’s farm and incorporated it
into his own property.
Isolation emphasizes separation, whilst contact emphasizes the approach,
aiming at undoing the isolation either by withdrawing hostility, and
replacing the I and You by We, or by making the whole complex mine
or, by surrender yours.
Does f create t or vice versa? Both assumptions are incorrect. There
is no causal connection between these two functions. Wherever and
whenever a boundary comes into existence, it is felt both as contact and
as isolation. Usually neither contact nor isolation exists, as there is a
confluence but no boundary. This confluence is interfered with by (f[)
and (:}:), libido and aggression, friendship and hostility, sense of familiarity
and of strangeness or whatever one chooses to call the energies forming
the boundary.
A good example of the simultaneity of §| and ^ is embarrassment.
Here one finds simultaneously the tendencies to make contact (exhibition)
and to hide. Its pre-differential stage is shyness. Both possibilities, attach¬
ment as well as separation, are open to the shy child. Shyness is therefore
a normal phase in the child’s development; but making friends with every
Tom, Dick and Harry or shrinking from every contact are unhealthy
extremes if they are permanent attitudes instead of adequate responses.
By exclusively identifying itself with the demands of the environment,
by introjecting ideologies and character features, the Ego loses its elastic
power of identification. As a matter of fact, it practically ceases to function
other than as the executor of a conglomeration of principles and fixed
behaviour. Super-Ego and character have taken its place, in a similar
way as in our time machine-made articles have replaced individual
handicraft.
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money, he knows, would lead to a serious conflict with his father, who
says that stealing is a sin and that one gets punished for it. Identifying
himself with the father’s dictum he must alienate—suppress—his desire.
He must either destroy it by resignation and crying, or throw it out of
his Ego-boundary—by repressing or projecting it. Repression is done by
retroflecting his aggression which originally was directed against the
frustrating father and is now directed against his desire. Projection—by
a different and more complicated process—restores the harmony between
himself and the father but at the cost of destroying his own.
Holism requires internal peace. An internal conflict is opposed to the
very essence of holism. Freud once said that a conflict in the personality
is like two servants quarrelling all day long; how much work can one
expect to get done? If a split exists within the personality (for instance,
between conscience and instincts), the Ego may be either hostile toward
the instinct and friendly towards the conscience (inhibition), or vice
versa (defiance).
How the same act evokes different reactions, evaluations and even
conflicts, and how the varying reactions depend on the mode of identifica¬
tion, may be shown in the following examples of killing:
(i) Someone has shot his neighbour. Society or its representative, the
crown prosecutor who identifies himself with the victim calls it murder
and demands punishment. (2) Someone has shot his opponent in a war.
Society identifies itself with the soldier, the victim this time being outside
the identification boundaries. The soldier might receive a reward. (3) The
same as (1) but here the judge, on learning that our “killer” had been
deeply offended by the neighbour, might sympathize »with the accused.
By identification with both the killer and the killed the judge will be in a
conflict about the accused’s guilt. (4) The same as (2) but the soldier’s
Super-Ego has retained the dogma that killing is a cardinal sin. He will
likewise be in conflict by identification with both his country’s and his
conscience’s demands.
In (3) the judge says, I condemn you,” and “I do not condemn
you.” In (4) the soldier feels, “I must kill,” and “I must not kill.” Such
double identifications are intolerable for the organism. A decision is
required. One of the identifications must cease. In fact, only by under¬
standing the possibility to refuse identifications as undesirable and as
dangerous, and to alienate them, can we grasp the true sense of the Ego
and its development as selector or censor.
Identification with organismic needs is originally effort-free, but
alienation is not. The closer a wish is to organismic needs, the more
difficult becomes alienation when the social situation demands it. Most
of us have experienced how difficult it is to dissociate oneself even from
a morbid curiosity of staring at a deformed person. In spite of all efforts
to turn one s eyes away, one discovers oneself looking again and again
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SENSO-MOTORIC RESISTANCES
When the analyst points out to the patient that he has a resistance or is
in a state of resistance, the patient often feels guilty “as if” he should
not have such unacceptable characteristics. Psycho-analysis concentrates
correctly to a great extent on resistances, but often with the idea that
they are something unwanted—something that can be done away with,
and that should be destroyed wherever they are met with, in order to
develop a healthy character. Reality looks somewhat different. One cannot
destroy resistances; and in any case, they are not an evil, but are rather
valuable energies of our personality—harmful only when wrongly applied.
We cannot do justice to our patients as long as we do not realize the
dialectics of resistance. The dialectical opposite to resistance is assistance.
The same fort which resists the aggressor assists the defender. In this
book we can retain the term “resistance,” as we are essentially the enemies
of the neurosis. In a book on Ethics we would prefer the term “assistance”
for those mechanisms which help us in repressing the condemned character
features. It should, however, be kept in mind that without appreciating
the patient’s outlook on his resistances as assistances we cannot success¬
fully deal with them.
The rigidity of the resisting energies presents the cardinal difficulty.
If a motor-car brake or a water tap is jammed, adequate functioning of
car or water supply is impossible. The analytical situation has the task
of recovering the elasticity of such rigid resistances. It is not that the in¬
ternal resistance disappears and that a negative transference is created. It
is rather that, in addition to the Ego-boundary which lies between the
disturbing internal wish and the conscious personality, another boundary
(between patient and analyst) comes into existence. The analyst is looked
upon as an ally of the forbidden impulse, and is consequently alienated.
The censor, full of mistrust and hostility, is on guard against the disturber,
lest identification with the “strange” ideas of the psycho-analyst should
take place. The organism identifies itself with this hostility and resists
or even attacks the analyst.
The figure-background formation has one serious drawback. The
organism concentrates on one thing at a time. It achieves thus a maximum
of action on one place but a minimum of attention for the rest. Any un¬
foreseen attack thus constitutes a danger. The unexpected—the surprise
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energies towards the outside world, to apply them in accordance with the
demands of the situation, to say “No” when a “No” is required. If one
has to deal with a drunken, incapable person, it is more important to
control, even to get rid of, his molestations, than to control oneself. A
child which always complies with the often idiotic and irresponsible
demands of its parents and resists its own impulses, will cripple its per¬
sonality and become a meek and dishonest character. If, at times, it
manages to resist their demands, if it puts up a fight, it will in later life
be in a better position to stand up for its rights. The actual situation is
the criterion as to whether resistance is useful or not. Obstinacy, a con¬
centrated conscious resistance, has likewise to be judged from the point
of view of its usefulness. Obstinacy about taking good advice is different
from the obstinacy of a determined nation against unprovoked attacks.
If we fully understand two facts, the centrifugal sensoric and motoric
functions, and the phenomenon of retroflection, we get a clear conception
of the somato-neurotic resistances. Of these the motoric resistances,
consisting mainly of increased muscular tension, have been dealt with
extensively by Reich’s armour theory. What I have to add is that these
cramps are in fact retroflected squeezing. They are symptoms of a hanging-
on attitude (hanging-on bite; hanging on to a person or to one’s posses¬
sions, faeces, breath, and so on; cf. Imre Hermann’s analysis of the
clinch reflex).
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making other people feel miserable, and often admit that they mostly
succeed in making others feel awkward, embarrassed and irritable.
The production of the opposite resistance, of de-sensitivization (hypo-
aesthesia and anaesthesia) requires still more research work. Sometimes
hypo-aesthesia is produced by prolonged medium-tensed muscular con¬
tractions, sometimes by concentrating on a “figure” different from that
required by the situation (dummy).
A patient complained of lack of sensations during intercourse. Inquiries
into details of his experiences revealed that during the act he “thought,”
instead of being concentrated on his feelings. Often in his phantasy he
was busy reading a newspaper, a behaviour which analysis revealed to
be a training against over-sensitiveness, against his ejaculatio praecox. By
diverting his attention from his sensations to the newspaper he had
conquered his complaint, but had changed hyper-aesthesia into anaesthe¬
sia, without healthy gratification being possible in either case.
De-sensitivization is often accompanied by a feeling of being wrapped
in cotton wool, or by a mental black-out. Yet, whenever a patient main¬
tained that he felt or thought nothing, I found that the black-out or an¬
aesthesia was not complete, but that it was merely a hypo-aesthesia, a
kind of dimming. Thoughts were present (but rather in the background),
and so were feelings, although they were described as being of a stale or
dull nature.
In a case described by Freud, the patient complained about a permanent
veil, which was tom only during defaecation. I presume this “re-veila-
tion” was identical with his feeling of the contact of the faeces with the
wall of the anus, that is with the exit-contact. The absence of this contact
constitutes an unguarded confluence between personality and world.
This confluence, the absence of the Ego-boundary, is essential for the
development of projections.
Small children shut their eyes tightly if they do not want to look.
This is a plus-function, an activity. It is an additional muscular impulse
preventing their curiosity from becoming effective. It appears that the
veil of Freud’s patient is similarly a cover, an additional function, a kind
of senso-motoric hallucination. By properly describing and analysing
such cover-functions, one can unmask their aim: the avoidance of some
emotional experience. In cases of anal numbness I was given descriptions
such as: “The faeces pass through a rubber tube”; or, “It is as if an air
space exists”; or, “The faeces do not touch the wall.”
Similar descriptions are given in cases of genital frigidity. Here, too,
hallucinated layers are found side by side with the minus functions,
like lack of concentration and of adequate figure-background formation.
Oral frigidity (numbness of taste, lack of appetite) plays a considerable
part in the disturbance of the Ego-development. It prevents the experience
of enjoyment as well as disgust, and it promotes the introjection of food.
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Whilst with the help of the existing analytical literature we were able
to form a clear picture of the origin of introjection, we are still in the
dark about the genesis of projection.
There exists a pre-different stage for which, to my knowledge, no
name has yet been coined. One often observes a baby throwing its doll
out of a pram. The doll stands for the child itself: “I want to be where
the doll is.” This emotional (ex-movere) stage differentiates later into
expression and projection. A healthy mental metabolism requires develop¬
ment in the direction of expression and not projection. The healthy
character expresses his emotions and ideas, the paranoid character projects
them.
The importance of the subject of expression can hardly be over¬
estimated if one bears in mind two facts:
(1) It is incorrect to speak of the repression of instincts. Instincts can
never be repressed—only their expressions can be.
(2) In addition to the inhibited expression of instincts (mainly in action)
every neurosis shows difficulties in expressing the “Self” (mainly
in words). Expression is replaced by play-acting, broadcasting,
hypocrisy, self-consciousness and projecting.
Genuine expression is not deliberately created; it comes “from the
heart,” but it is consciously moulded. Every artist is an inventor, finding
means and ways—sometimes new ways—of expressing himself.
Projection is essentially an unconscious phenomenon. The projecting
person cannot satisfactorily distinguish between the inside and outside
world. He visualizes in the outside world those parts of his own personality
with which he refuses to identify himself. The organism experiences them as
being outside the Ego-boundaries and reacts accordingly with aggression.1
1 Certain complications are left out here for simplification. God, for instance,
is a projection of man’s omnipotence wishes, but by partial identification (“My”
God) the aggression comes into play only against a foreign god or in situations
where “God’s will” is not accepted, as after disappointments.
People often are said to remember God only when they need Him. This is not
a memory, but every time a new projection. When in a difficult situation they feel
helpless and wish for power and magic resources, they project such omnipotence
wishes, and the all-powerful God is re-created.
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ego, hunger and aggression
for projections; they can also take place within the personality. There
are people whose stern conscience cannot be explained merely by intro-
jection. Parents who, according to the introjection-theory, reappear
within the personality as conscience, may in reality be anything but
stem. In one of my cases the parents had been extraordinarily sympathetic,
but had killed their child’s aggression by kindness. This patient suffered
from severe feelings of guilt and intense reproaches from his conscience.
He had projected his aggression—his tendency to reproach—into his
conscience which he subsequently experienced as attacking him. As
soon as he managed to be openly aggressive his conscience lost its grip
on him, and his feelings of guilt disappeared. An over-stern conscience
can be cured only when self reproach changes into object approach.
The Russian “saints” in pre-Soviet literature, by curbing their aggres¬
siveness and renouncing sin increased their feelings of guilt. On the other
hand, a child may have very intolerant parents, but if it keeps up its
fighting spirit and does not project its own aggression into the parents
or into its conscience, it will remain healthy.
Projections can attach themselves to the most unexpected objects and
situations. One of my patients spent most of his time worrying about
his genitals, and how to feel sensations in them. He often imagined that
his penis had disappeared into his stomach, that it was not manly enough,
or that it was weak. Whatever theme cropped up, he always returned to
the subject of his penis. The analysis of his genital and oral difficulties
brought improvement, but no solution. It then struck me that his Ego-
functions were limited to complaining and to rare spells of crying and
annoyance. Where were the remaining features of his personality? They
were projected into his penis. He did not feel that he was running away
from certain situations, but in such cases he had the feeling that his
penis had disappeared into his stomach. He did not feel weak, his genitals
were weak. Instead of attempting to overcome the dullness of his life,
he permanently tried to arouse more sensations in his penis.
Such a case is certainly exceptional. What we see rather frequently,
however, is projection into the past. Instead of expressing an emotion
within the actual situation, the patient produces a memory. Instead of
saying to the analyst, “you are talking a lot of bilge,” he appears to be
indifferent, but remembers suddenly a situation where he attacked a
friend for talking “a lot of bilge.” Such overlooking of projection into the
past helps psycho-analysis on the one hand to maintain the dogma of
the all-important past and, on the other hand, interferes with the clearing
up of the actual conflicts.
Usually the bulk of unwanted material is projected on to the outside
world. Sometimes it is very difficult indeed to discover projections, for
instance in the case of the neurotic’s need for affection, a phenomenon
that has always proved a stumbling block in analytical theory and practice.
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Karen Horney has recognized the important part that this character-
feature plays in the neurotic of our time, and I have already explained
that this need cannot be satisfied, because love, if and when offered, is
not really accepted and assimilated.
Psycho-analysis and individual psychology (Adler) proclaim the dogma
that the neurotic has remained more or less infantile. The need for
affection is certainly present in every child, and the inability to love is
frequently a characteristic of the neurotic; but the ability to love is by
no means reserved for adults. The child hates and loves with an intensity
which grown-ups can only envy. The tragedy of the neurotic is not that
he has never developed love, nor that he has regressed into the state of a
child—it lies in his inhibition to love and still more in his inability to ex¬
press his love. If unaccepted love is followed by disappointment, the
painful experience makes him shrink from yielding to his emotions. It
is as if he had decided, “Let others do the loving; I won’t run such a
risk again.” Every time he arouses love, however, the situation becomes
precarious anew; he feels tempted to answer love with love, but he is
ashamed of being ridiculous and romantic. He feels afraid of being taken
advantage of or having to suffer rebukes. If, in addition to this, he is an
oral character, the need for affection coincides with his general greed.
The neurotic projects the (inhibited) love, and consequently (in his
expectations and phantasies) he conjures up visions of receiving just those
affections which he suppresses in himself. In other words, he does not
suffer from an inability to love, but from an inhibition—from the fear of
loving too much.
Just as the neurotic’s “need for affection” has its anchorage in the
projection, so has the other symptom which classical psycho-analysis
regards as neurotic symptom number one. I am referring to the castration-
complex which is based on the fear that the genitals might be completely
or partially destroyed. To prove the existence of such a complex, every
part of the body is interpreted by the Freudians as penis. Even the
demand of the mother for the child’s stool is explained as a castration.
Psycho-analysis, however, overlooks the decisive fact that with all the
so-called penis-substitutes only one factor remains constant—namely that
of damage: every disciplinary education threatens, and sometimes inflirts
damage, be it to the penis, eyes, buttocks, brain or honour. The neurotic’s
recurring fear of suffering damage cannot be cured by squeezing every
possible penis-symbol into the castration-complex, but rather by undoing
the projections of the neurotic’s aggression—of his unexpressed desire to
threaten and to inflict damage.
A young man with a strong, though unhappy, mother-fixation, admitted
that he shrank from sexual intercourse for fear something might happen
to his penis inside the vagina. His dreams revealed that he was afraid of
a vagina dentata. The female genital was a kind of shark to him, which
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would bite off his penis. This was apparently an unambiguous castration
complex. He was an artist and showed an unusual abhorrence of any
reviews of his work, because of the sharp biting criticism they might
express. He avoided the threats to both his penis and to his narcissism.
Further symptoms brought the solution of his neurosis: he hardly
ever used his front teeth and was afraid of hurting even a fly—two pheno¬
mena mostly found together. Biting and hurting were projected, but
not only into the vagina, so that his fear of being hurt was not confined
to the penis. To consider the penis as the only, or even the primary
object, is in my opinion an arbitrary decision, and mistakes a symptom
for a cause. Even if a neurotic of this type could be convinced that there
is no danger in the vagina, his troubles would not be over, for his castra¬
tion-complex is not the centre of his neurosis; it is but one result of his
projected aggressiveness. He may become sexually potent, but the fear
of damage (e.g. to his prestige) may nevertheless remain and he would
merely search for another screen for his projections. Our patient’s diffident
attitude changed, after he had learned to use his aggression, to put his
teeth into things and to get his share out of life. During the treatment I
heard him express some very sharp criticism.
Projections are, in the strictest sense, hallucinations. The little boy’s
nightmare is such a projective hallucination, which in genuine paranoia
is a central symptom. Where enough sense of reality remains, the hallu¬
cinations are rationalized; we may then speak of a paranoid character.
Typical of it is the looking for “points,” for realities which may serve
as proof to the paranoid that he is not hallucinating. The morbidly jealous
husband, for instance, will lie in wait and try to trap his wife in order to
discover whether she smiles at anyone else; and if this happens, he
interprets her smile in accordance with his preconceived ideas of
jealousy.1
A man was haunted by the fear that one day he would be killed by a
tile falling from a roof. He avoided going near the rows of houses, and by
walking in the street took the increased risk of being run over. He could
not, of course, be convinced that his chances of being killed by a tile
were a million to one. One day he brought a newspaper cutting to me and
triumphantly showed me that a man had been killed by a tile: “You see,
I was right; such things do happen.” He was looking for points and at
last had found one. His fear was dissolved through undoing the projection
of his particular urge to lean out of the window and to throw stones at
those people who had treated him “unjustly.”
Milder cases of paranoid characters show a certain selectivity which
emphasizes some characteristics in a person, and scotomizcs others. The
attacked features correspond to the projections, to the alienated parts of
the paranoid personality. Projections are thus very suitable means of
1 Jealousy is always due to unexpressed, projected wishes.
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Two figures may show, in a simple form, the activity of the alimentary
tract of the organism: Fig. I illustrates the healthy food metabolism;
Fig. II, a pathological phenomenon which resembles metabolism, but is
actually a frustration, and may be called pseudo-metabolism.
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but as projection. It does not disappear from the projector’s world, but
only from his personality.
Under the influence of resistances the healthy state of eating and
defaecating often changes into the pathological conditions of introjection
and projection; with the help of sensoric resistances (hypo-aesthesia), os
and anus become places of confluence instead of regulated communication.
When I first discovered cases in which the patient did not accept, but
projected the material released by psycho-analysis from the Unconscious,
I tried to puzzle out how this material could slip out without Ego-contact
—without the patient becoming aware of this process. I found the solution
in the structural identity of physical and mental processes. In all these
cases there exists an anaesthesia, a frigidity of the anus. Thus the analytical
material, like the faeces, does not (to use Fedem’s terminology) filter
through the Ego-boundaries; or, as I would prefer to express it, the Ego
is non-existent, not functioning. As there is a confluence between organism
and world, it is not noticed that parts of the personality are leaving the
system.
One result of the anaesthesia, which sometimes stretches far up the
rectum, is that the feeling of the urge to defaecate is considerably reduced,
an unsureness which manifests itself mostly in a permanent tightening of
the constricting muscle of the anus and in chronic constipation. The con¬
trol of defaecation is not functioning biologically; the anus is, for safety’s
sake, rigidly locked; the defaecation is a forced one and often piles develop.
The passing of the faeces through the anus is not felt; it takes place
without adequate sensations. Instead of full awareness, mind wandering
—sometimes even a kind of trance—accompanies the defaecation.
In the healthy organism the mental and physical food is assimilated
and transformed into energies, which are applied in activity; they appear
as work and emotions. Indigestible material is discharged and discarded
as waste; it is expressed, but not projected.
In pseudo-metabolism the material taken in is insufficiently assimilated
and passes out of the personality more or less unused, carrying with it
energies from the system. They slip out without having fulfilled their
task in the organism. If the material were only discarded and treated as
waste the harm done to the organism could be retrieved. To a considerable
degree the loss could be compensated for by an increase in the quantity
of food. (An “introjector” is greedy, and a certain amount of the swallowed
food will always find its way into the tissues, in spite of the lack of oral
destruction.) It appears, however, that to the same degree as the powerful
digestive instinct remains ungratified the organism craves to regain its
own substance. In a primitive way, we meet this tendency in the per¬
version of coprophagy and on a higher level in the aggressiveness of the
paranoid against his projections.
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this instance the penis was projected on to the female and a lifelong
search for a woman with a penis started. Here we have a real castration
complex, or, rather, a hallucinatory castration corresponding to the
absence of adequate sensations.
We have previously dealt with another aspect of the castration complex:
namely, that projected aggression creates fear that some part of oneself
(e.g. the penis) might be damaged. There is one complaint, however,
which psycho-analysis also attributes to the castration complex but which
cannot be explained by projected aggression. Many men believe that the
loss of semen makes them weak or insane; others live in constant fear of
losing their money and becoming poor. If an activity is projected, the
Ego experiences itself as being passive; in the case of projected aggression,
it experiences itself as being attacked. The loss of energy, however, is
felt as a function of the own organism and not as the result of an attack.
The person who projects indeed loses energies, instead of applying
and expressing them. The boy in the above example, instead of experien¬
cing his enthusiasm (and with it an intense joy in living), goes to no end
of trouble to induce people to become enthusiastic about his own person.
By projecting his enthusiasm, he loses it; this is the first step in reducing
the personality.
A paranoid patient complained that in spite of very reduced sexual
activities he suffered continuous loss of energy. He had an ejaculatio
praecox. He projected his semen, hardly felt the discharge and experienced
nothing even approaching a genuine orgasm. Instead of a temporary
confluence of his personality with his wife, instead of the oneness which
characterizes sexual intercourse, there was always sexual over-excitement,
but no personal contact.
It is true, in the moment of the orgasm there is a confluence, a oneness
between the man and the woman so that world and individuality cease
to exist. But this confluence is the climax of the rising curve of personal,
skin, and finally, genital contact. The dissolving of the contact/isolation
phenomenon into confluence is experienced as intense satisfaction.1
People with an ejaculatio praecox are characterized by an undeveloped
contact zone and weak Ego-functions. They have as little genital contact
possibilities as their food contact is impaired. As they demand the im¬
mediate effort-free flowing of the milk, so they let their semen flow,
without passing and creating the contact boundary, e.g. without the
experience of satisfaction. Ejaculatio praecox is characteristic of a person
incapable of a concentrated effort. The effort is projected and is expected
to be exerted by someone else instead. Such cases appear either infantile—
dependant on a mother substitute—or as a boss having employees and
servants to do the work for them. Both (sometimes the two attitudes are
found in the same person) are lost if they have to stand on their own feet.
« A well-known example is the sweet reconciliation after a quarrel.
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not blindly introjected any more. When the taste is re-established, the
disgust (aroused by the faecal origin of the projections) will come to the
surface. Without the reappearance of disgust the analysis of any ali¬
mentary or paranoid neurosis is hopeless.
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soon as action has been taken. Among adult “worriers” there are always
people who do not take action themselves but expect others to do it for
them. The obsessional character’s inability to take action subjects him
to continuous worrying; the paranoid’s permanent irritability is due to
unrecognized and unfinished attempts at re-hashing his projections. A
patient of mine, an obsessional-paranoid type with predominant obses¬
sional features, worried for weeks about a tiny stain on his coat. He did
not remove this speck, as he did not want to touch dirt. He felt like nagging
his wife to remove the speck for him, but he suppressed that urge, too,
and went on worrying himself and his wife subvocally. An imperfect
situation indeed, while to finish the situation, to remove the speck, would
have taken him only a few minutes.
The emotion corresponding to unfinishable situations is resentment,
the understanding of which is not possible before the significance of the
hanging-on attitude has been grasped. The hanger-on cannot let go,
resign and turn to a more promising occupation or person. At the same
time, he cannot successfully deal with the one on which he has his fixation:
by intensifying the “hanging-on bite” he tries to get more and more
out of an already exhausted relationship, thus not getting any more
satisfaction, but exhausting himself and increasing his resentment. This
in turn promotes an even stronger hanging-on attitude, and so on ad
infinitum in an ever increasing vicious circle.
He does not want to realize the uselessness of his endeavours as, on
the other hand, he cannot recognize his potentialities of turning to new
fields of occupation (dental impotence). The “resenter” projects his
dental potency into the fixation object and endows it in this way with
indomitable power to which the “resenter” himself has to submit. Through
the projection he has lost his own power of meeting it adequately. He
can neither refuse nor accept what the fixation object does or says. Though
he cannot accept, he will find himself harping on what has been said;
“nagging,” but not chewing and digesting it. Would the “resenter”
assimilate the situation, he would have to let go, to give up the fixation
object, to finish the situation by going through the emotional upheaval
of the mourning labour in order to achieve the emotional zero point of
resignation and freedom.
The need of the organism to finish emotional situations is best demon¬
strated by comparison with the processes of excretion. One can retain
urine for quite a few hours, but one cannot urinate for longer than a
minute. The holding-in of emotions leads to an emotional poisoning,
just as retention of urine causes uraemia. People are poisoned with bitter¬
ness against the whole world if they fail to discharge their fury against a
particular object.
Again I have to give warning against the idea that emotions are
mysterious energies. They are always connected with somatic occurrences
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to such an extent indeed that often the unfinished emotion and unfinished
action are hardly differentiated. Likewise, the term “katharsis” or
“emotional discharge” is an expression to be used temporarily till we
know more about the functions involved in this process.
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EMOTIONAL RESISTANCES
suicide wish. The decreased awareness resulting from the numbness can
only increase the patient’s chances of getting killed, if he forces the
crossing. If we leave his fear principally intact and make him realize at
first that he is not afraid of the street itself but of the vehicles, and if we
allow him his exaggerated fear of the vehicles, we have already built a
bridge to normality. Later we will probably find behind his fear of being
killed the wish to kill somebody else, and we may find that wish to be so
strong that his fear is apparently justified.
One of the most interesting neuroses is what one might call a “para¬
doxical neurosis,” the outcome of a resistance against the resistance.
Thus, with repressed shame we get an impudent (pudere = being
ashamed) cheeky (cheeks not blushing) character. Repression of disgust
does not lead to the restoration of appetite but to greediness and stuffing.
Certain perversions owe their paradoxical aspect to an endeavour to
master emotional resistances. The masochist, although consciously
seeking pain, is a person afraid of pain, and in spite of all his training he
will never be able to stand more than a certain amount of it. The exhibi¬
tionist is permanently busy with suppressing his shame. The voyeur
(peeping Tom) has an unconscious aversion to seeing what he feels an
urge to look at.
One of Freud’s definitions of neurosis is that it is a repressed per¬
version. Just the opposite is the case. A perversion is a neurosis because
and as long as its content remains an unfinished situation. The voyeur
does not accept what he sees and he has to repeat his peeping again and
again. Once he is convinced that what he sees is correct his curiosity is
gratified and thus nullified.
Common to all these cases is the fact that the suppression of the emo¬
tional resistances absorbs most of the subject’s energy and interest in
life. Their endeavours in the long run are as exhausting and useless as
the attempt to keep a ball under water by permanently counteracting its
tendency to rise. Shame, disgust, embarrassment and fear must be allowed
to break surface, to become conscious.
The awareness of, and the ability to endure, unwanted emotions are
the conditio sine qua non for a successful cure; these emotions will be
discharged once they have become Ego-functions. This process, and not
the process of remembering, forms the via regia to health.
The ability to stand unpleasant emotions is required not only from
the patient but even more from the therapist. The psycho-analytical
method still suffers from the personal difficulty of its founder: Freud’s
inability to stand his own feeling of embarrassment. In personal contact—
as I have experienced myself and heard from others—he suppressed his
embarrassment by impoliteness, even downright rudeness. In analysis—
as he himself admitted—being under the patient’s eye made him feel
uncomfortable and embarrassed; he avoided the unpleasant tension by
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PART THREE
CONCENTRATION THERAPY
I
THE TECHNIQUE
you have “wrong” habits, it will be much more difficult to rectify this
state of affairs than to acquire new habits. I can recommend the books
of F. M. Alexander to those who want to realize how strong an acquired
habit, or, as we could call it, a fixed “gestalt,” can become. The acquisition
of a new technique, even without considering the undoing of wrong
attitudes, is by no means easy. You have only to remember how long,
for instance, it took to acquire the technique of writing, how painfully
every letter had to be produced and reproduced over and over again,
how long it was before you succeeded in combining these letters into
words, until you were able to write fluently. Only when you look upon
the acquisition of the new technique, which I want to demonstrate, with
the full awareness of the difficulties looming ahead, shall I be able to
assist you in acquiring the alphabet of “feeling” yourself.
I use the term “alphabet” intentionally, as it is not necessary to adhere
to the sequence as set out in the following chapters. You might pick and
choose according to your inclination and taste—at least in the beginning.
Once, however, you start to feel some benefit and once you begin to gain
confidence in this method, undertake the process of reconditioning as
far as possible in the order presented.
Our technique is not an intellectual procedure, though we cannot
completely disregard the intellect. It resembles the Yoga technique
though its aim is completely different. In Yoga the deadening of the
organism for the sake of developing other faculties plays a prominent
part, whereas our aim is to waken the organism to a fuller life.
By assuming that we are “Time-Space events” within the changing
fields of our existence, I am also in accordance with the present trend of
science. Just as Einstein achieved a new scientific insight by taking the
human self into account, so we can gain new psychological insight by
realizing the relativity of human behaviour, of “right” and “wrong,” of
“good” and bad”; by replacing these terms by “familiar” and “strange”;
and, finally, by operating with the Ego-functions “identification” and
“alienation.” Every bit of Ego-consciousness, far from making us more
selfish (as popular conception assumes), will make us more understanding
and more objective.
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Before we begin with our technical ABC we have to introduce one more
theoretical aspect. It has long been realized that the essential element
in every progress, in every success, is concentration. You may have all
the talents, all the facilities in the world, but without concentration
these are valueless. (Schiller: Genius is concentration, Genie ist Fleiss.)
It has further been realized that concentration has something to do
with interest and attention, the three conceptions often being used as
synonyms. Do these expressions reveal anything? Interest means to be
in a situation; concentration means to get right into the centre (nucleus,
essence) of a situation; and attention means that a tension is directed
towards an object. There are no magic roots in these expressions. They
are simple descriptions of a state, an action and a direction. Common
to all three terms is the fact that they are different expressions of the
figure-background phenomenon. The healthy figure should be strong
and relatively stationary, neither jumpy, as in the case of association
mentality (neurasthenia, many psychoses, scatterbrains), nor rigid (ob¬
sessions, perversions, fixed ideas). These deviations from the healthy
zero-point have lately been successfully studied by Experimental Psy¬
chology. It has been found that a normal perseveration index exists, and
that too high or too low perseveration figures are indicative of mental
disturbances.
For nearly everybody concentration has still a magic reference, best
expressed by Freud’s idea of libidinal cathexis. Concentration is not a
movable substance, but a function. It is a mere Ego-function in the case
of negative artificial concentration. It is a function of the Unconscious
in fixations or in “Imago” concentration. The harmonious function of
both Ego and Unconscious is the basis for the “positive,” biologically
correct concentration.
While the unconscious concentration, the domain of classical psycho¬
analysis, need not be dealt with in this chapter, we have to draw the
critical attention to the “popular,” the one-sided outlook on concentration.
Most people mean by concentration a deliberate effort. Actually this is
the “negative,” inadvisable type of concentration.
The perfect concentration is an harmonious process of conscious and
unconscious co-operation. Concentration in the popular sense is a pure
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utter impotence; he felt like howling from despair. The solution of his
difficulty was found in the decrease of the number of problems he had
to tackle, to finish as many as possible during the day, and to dispose
of all unfinished problems before going to bed. After having learned that
the crux of his trouble was simply due to unfinished situations, he learned
to confine his work problems to office hours, not to start a fresh task
before he had finished the task at hand, and to play in his leisure hours.
By drawing this balance he not only worked better, but regained his
enjoyment of fife.
The second case is still simpler. A boy, working for his matric, com¬
plained that he could not concentrate on his studies. All kinds of day¬
dreams interfered and distracted his attention. He adopted my advice to
separate his day-dreams from his studies. As soon as a day-dream appeared
he allowed himself ten minutes or so for day-dreaming and then returned
to his work. In the beginning even this was not easy. He was so used to
the internal conflict that no sooner had he started day-dreaming, than
sentences and pictures of his text-books intruded. He then followed up
this material till a day-dream reappeared. By not resisting either call he
learned to sort out the two spheres and was soon in the position to cope
with his studies without effort.
Positive concentration complies with the laws of holism in every respect.
Not only are all functions put to one purpose—in negative concentration
only a part is put to its purpose—but we are also capable of concentrating
fully only on those objects which mean the completion of an incomplete
whole.
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The exercises in this chapter are the quintessence of this book. Give
this chapter preference to every other exercise, especially if you feel like
sneering at me for harping too much on the subject of correct eating. I
do so because it is of vital importance in achieving an intelligent har¬
monious personality. It is the “means whereby” of the removal of the
bottle-neck of mental inhibitions. If you find yourself belittling the
importance of the chapters on the hunger instinct and especially if you
feel like skipping them, you can take this as an indication that you have
dental inhibitions and deep-seated neurotic attitudes.
Let me once more explain in brief the fundamental difference between
the pre-dental and dental stages. The suckling is actively concentrated
on one action only—the hanging-on bite. This hanging-on bite means
the creation of a vacuum which is similar to that of a rubber cap when
pressed against a window. There is no need to hold it there as long as
the suction action continues. After the preliminary hanging-on bite the
conscious activity of the baby ceases. The suckling, to keep up the vacuum
continues with unconscious, subcortical movements. During this time
the baby becomes more and more drowsy until, finally, it falls asleep.'
We interpret the “smile” of the just-fed baby as an expression of
happiness, but it is merely complete relaxation, the collapse of the
hanging-on bite motoric.
From this picture we must draw two conclusions. Firstly, the suckling’s
feeding rhythm with its decreasing tension shows a curve completely
different from the curve of sexual gratification with its increasing tension
and sharp decline—a fact which provides one more proof against the
libido-theory.
The second conclusion, which interests us more in this connection,
is the fact that the suckling needs only a short spell of concentration
while the adult, in his need for coping with solid food, has to concentrate
during the entire eating process. The proper assimilation of solid food
requires the continuous and conscious concentration on the destruction,
the taste and the “feel” of the permanently changing ingested material.
It is no use attempting to correct one’s eating until this fundamental
difference is completely understood. This should not be difficult as at
some time you must have seen a greedy, impatient eater behaving like a
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suckling displaying real interest in the food only before the meal; as soon
as he sits down at the table, his behaviour shows the characteristics of
the hanging-on bite; he concentrates only on the first taste and bites;
then, like the suckling, he falls into a state of trance, at least as far as the
eating process is concerned, his interest being invested in thinking, day¬
dreaming, talking or reading. The solid food goes down his throat “as if”
it were a drink, and his inability to bring about a change in the structure
and taste of his food (just as in drinking no change in structure or taste
takes place) becomes reflected in his basic attitude towards life. He is
afraid, or incapable of bringing about changes in himself or his environ¬
ment, even when desirable. He cannot say “No” as he is afraid bene¬
volence might change into antagonism. He sticks to worn out customs in
preference to replacing them with better institutions, and he is afraid of
the risk which a change-over, even in a proposition with better prospects,
might involve.
He will never gain independence, the confluence with his environ¬
ment1 being as desirable to him as the confluence with its mother is to
the drinking suckling. The feeling of individuality which demands the
awareness of separating boundaries has not been achieved. Or else, an
artificial wall, represented by the tightening of the mouth, the refusal to
have any contact with the world at all, has been built, leading to loneli¬
ness, lack of interest and contact, misanthropy and boredom. Both
phenomena, the complete confluence (lack of individuality) and complete
resistance against the confluence (pretence of an individuality) can be
found as extremes in the symptoms of automatism and negativism in
dementia praecox.2 In the first phase, the patient follows automatically
every command given, and in the latter does just the opposite to what
he has been told. In less extreme cases we find over-obedience and
defiance.
What methods have we at our disposal to sail through the Scylla of
confluence and the Charybdis of seclusion? How can we achieve that
change which makes such substance of the outside world as we require
our own, without becoming Nazi-like destructionists ? How do we set
out to achieve the transition from the pre-dental to the dental stage?
The answer seems simple: we have to use our teeth. Fletcher has
given the prescription to chew every morsel thirty or forty times. But
Fletcher’s method is obsessional, and a person without obsessional in¬
clinations cannot stand such monotonous counting and will soon drop
it, whilst an obsessional character will welcome it, without deriving much
benefit from it. It would provide him with another dummy, another
excuse to concentrate on a meaningless action. His interest would be
invested in a continuation of his queer behaviour and not in the biological
function required to bring about the liquifaction and other changes of
solid food. Could you imagine a ruminating cow counting every one of
her jaw movements and deciding that thirty chews is the exact number
required to finish each mouthful?
No. We have to set about it in a different way, and the beginning will
be most difficult. We have to keep our mind on the eating; we have to
be fully aware of the fact that we are eating. This sounds simple, perhaps
even silly. You think, of course, that you are aware of your eating. But
are you? Or do you read, talk, day-dream or worry while eating? How
often is your mind full of anxiety that you might miss the bus, or be
late for work or for a theatre appointment? How often do you, while
eating, speculate on the outcome of affairs that you have to attend to?
How often do you swallow the newspaper with your meals ?
Once you have decided to become aware of your eating, you will begin
to make astounding discoveries. At first it will be extremely difficult to
keep your mind fully on the process of eating, even for a short time.
Within a few seconds you will probably find that your mind has wandered
away, and you are anywhere but at the table, consuming food. Do not
force yourself to concentrate, but call yourself back each time you notice
that you are slipping away from the concentration, and slowly you will
learn to concentrate for ten or twenty seconds and then up to a minute
or even longer.
Whilst you are prolonging the duration of your ability to concentrate,
start to develop another attitude—that of being satisfied with pure
observation without premature interference. After what you have already
learned I feel sure you will be impatient to improve your biting and
chewing, but such a premature interference will disturb and spoil a
sound development. It will serve no other purpose than to hide from
yourself the basic reluctance to chew. Not until you have fully felt the
gulping down of undestroyed bits and pieces, not before you realize
that you are drinking solid food instead of eating it, should you set out
to remedy it, otherwise it would mean senseless blind obedience, and not
insight into one of the most important biological processes.
Without fully realizing the familiar, but “wrong,” attitude—in this
case greed and impatience—you cannot prevent it from returning as
soon as your mind slips away. You have to make the impatience conscious,
then change impatience into annoyance, after that into dental aggression,
and finally to consolidate it as interest in the working through of every
task—in a patient but energetic chewing up of your physical and mental
food.
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aggressive nature which must come out in one way or another, as pro¬
jection or as moralizing or as killing with kindness.
What, if you come to think of it, has mankind gained by repressing
the individual biological aggressiveness? Look at the ingenious means of
destruction and the amount of suffering in the present war. Is that not
proof enough of the fact that just through the vicious circle of pseudo¬
metabolism aggressiveness has developed to the present paranoic stage of
wholesale destruction?
The more we allow ourselves to expend cruelty and lust for destruction
in the biologically correct place—that is, the teeth—the less danger will
there be of aggression finding its outlet as a character feature. Those
pathological fears we might harbour, too, will greatly diminish; for, the
more the aggression is invested in biting and chewing, the less aggression
will be left for projection. The result will inevitably be a decrease in the
number of fears (phobias).
A person who has aggressiveness at his disposal must not be confused
with the man who is permanently irritable, who grumbles and grouses
day in and day out, and who at the same time is incapable of tackling
and finishing his problems. Permanent irritability is one more example
of an incomplete situation, of half-hearted and wrongly applied aggression.
Such a man is a “nagger” and not a “biter.” Related to the latter is the
“confluence” type. With these types one always finds the gap between
the front teeth. Such a person either walks about with his mouth half open
or, as over-compensation, tightly clenched. He is specially afraid of being
an individual or, alternatively, he is concentrated on proving to himself
and the world that he is an individual, that he has an opinion of his own,
even if it is only one which is permanently in opposition to everything.
I knew a man who, out of opposition to his bourgeois family, became a
Communist. He then joined a part}’ which, though Communist in prin¬
ciple, was in opposition to the accepted Communist doctrines. He soon
found faults with this party too, and became a fascist. “Mary, Mary,
quite contrary.”
For those who find fault with their individuality, there is an exercise
improving the contact zone (Fedem’s Ego-boundary). Let the teeth of the
upper and lower jaw just lightly touch each other. Neither contract the
jaw muscles hard, nor relax so much that the lower jaw drops; there should
be neither hyper- nor hypo-tonus in the muscles concerned. In the
beginning you might feel a slight, or even a marked, trembling (chattering
of the teeth as in cold weather or in fear). In that case change the un¬
conscious tremor to conscious small, quick biting movements, and then
try' again.
Once you have started to recondition your mode of eating, there is a
little exercise which is of special value in curing impatience and muddled
thinking. Train yourself to interrupt the continuous flow of food. Many
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people push new food into the mouth before they have cleared and liquified
the previous mouthful. This attitude is another symptom of treating
solid food as a liquid. If you exaggerate the healthy attitude, if you learn
to keep your mouth empty between the bites for a few seconds, you
will soon find yourself capable of finishing all the big and small items of
your life; your mental stomach—your brain—will be in much better
order. Hence, much of your messy and incoherent thinking will disappear
and you will find no difficulty in clarifying your ideas and concepts.
This applies not only to your thinking, but to your general activities as
well. If you belong to those who start on a new job before finishing the
one at hand, if you frequently find yourself landing in a mess, then the
above exercise is exactly what you need.
If you have succeeded in putting the foregoing exercises into practice
you will have achieved a great deal. You will have found that you have
often come across resistances, such as excuses, listlessness, lack of time,
and so on, but with some determination and perseverance, these exercises
he within the orbit of everyone’s possibilities. A much greater resistance
is bound to be encountered when we approach the exercises dealing with
disgust. These, however, should not be attempted before the previous
exercises have become more or less automatic.
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you did before. (If the exercises are correctly carried out the whole
process should now be effortless.) Very few people are aware of their oral
frigidity. Not only has the real gourmet, lingering over and enjoying
every course of his dinner, become a rarity, but our general attitude
towards the consumption of food has become more and more barbarous.
The numbness of the palate is over-compensated by all kinds of stimulating
spices, and by all kinds of perverted behaviour. One patient of mine
could not enjoy soup unless it was burning hot, because otherwise the
taste seemed insipid to her.
The sound sense of the animal which will not touch food which is
too hot or too cold has been completely lost by many people. This attitude
is displayed not only towards food but towards other spheres of pleasure
as well, leading to degeneration all along the line. In the dance hall the
music must be hot, the partner exciting, when gambling the stakes must
be high, and in the sartorial world everything not in the latest style is
completely worthless. In these circles, where the language used consists
of strings of superlatives, the state of intelligence is correspondingly low.
We find all kinds of stimulants in different classes of society, and these
stimulants, to retain their effect, have to be administered in increasing
doses. There is the habit of drinking, for example, common to all classes.
The drunkard never uses his teeth and palate properly. If he did—if
he were a real “biteling”—he would not need to take to the bottle. To
cure a drunkard it is necessary to undo the retroflection of self-destruction
and bring the pleasure of destruction back to the teeth.
In severe cases of oral frigidity the food exists only as long as it is on
the plate. Once it is in the mouth it is not felt, much less tasted. This is,
of course, an extreme case of introjection. Such behaviour goes hand-in-
hand with heavy drinking, intense use of spices, and stuffing oneself
without ever reaching real satisfaction; periods of irresistible greed
alternate with rigid food discipline. The picture is completed on the
mental side by a perpetual greed for affection, power, success and thrills,
which, however, never yield any genuine pleasure or satisfaction.
Although it is easy to make people understand the importance of
analysing anxiety, fear or embarrassment, it is an arduous task to drive
home the significance of realizing and analysing the powerful emotion
(or sensation) of disgust. To obtain a clear picture we have to distinguish
not less than four layers involved in its development. The basic layer
is the healthy, natural, undistorted appetite with all its tensions and
gratifications which might be interfered with in two ways: an original
and intense appetite may be condemned for being directed tow’ards
poofy things, or the child is supposed to ingest things against which
its organism protests violently. This protest, the disgust, provides the
second layer. Once the disgust has developed, objections against it are
raised by many parents. Disgust and vomiting are regarded as naughtiness
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and the child who dares to bring up its spinach or castor oil is threatened
with punishment. Thus the third layer, the oral frigidity, is established
in order to avoid disgust, vomiting and the threatened punishment.
Afterwards, to get some kind of pseudo taste from the food, the numbness
is covered by a fourth layer, the layer of artificial stimulation.
The crux of the analysis of disgust is the same as that of embarrass¬
ment. Generally, either disgust dominates the situation, in which case
you refuse to approach the object of disgust, or else the determination to
incorporate something which would normally evoke disgust gives the
ruling: you repress the disgust, and numb your taste and smell. The
task at hand is to stand disgust, not to repress it and, at the same time,
not to shrink from the object of disgust, not to avoid contact with persons,
foods, smells or other things which are revolting to you. To achieve the
analysis of oral frigidity, you must learn to become fully aware of the
experience of disgust, even if it means vomiting or going through great
unpleasantness. But do not attempt the unearthing and cure of disgust,
before you can fully concentrate on your ordinary meals. Even if the
disgust is only half discharged, if you feel it as a sudden spell of coughing
or as a bilious sensation, it will help tremendously in overcoming an
indifference towards food and the world in general. Whatever your
inclinations towards your environment may be, you will always find
them identical with the degree of your appetite or disgust. Those who
can be disgusted with people and their actions are certainly more alive
than those who accept anything with a dull and bored mental palate.
As the physical and mental intake obey the same laws, your attitude
towards mental food will change with your progress of the preceding
exercises. Psychological examinations of patients with stomach diseases
as well as my general psycho-analytical observations have proved this
over and over again. Approach mental food from the point of view of
assimilation. Distinguish between sloppy, sweetish literature and solid
material that can contribute to the growth of your personality. But do
not overlook the danger that “highbrow” literature will be nothing but
an unnecessary burden if it is merely introjected—if it remains a foreign
body in your system. One sentence properly chewed and assimilated is
of greater value than a whole book which is merely introjected. If you
want to improve your mentality, settle down to the study of semantics,
the best antidote against the frigidity of the mental palate. Learn to as¬
similate the nucleus of words—the sense, the meaning of your language.
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VISUALIZATION
If a pair of scales is off balance, you have, in order to restore the balance,
to add weight to the lighter scale. This is what I try to do with this book.
Often I might appear to be just as one-sided as the theories which I
criticize. I have, however, endeavoured to keep the complete organismic
structure in mind and to throw my weight into the neglected scale. I
consider the analysis of the hunger instinct as a step-child of psycho¬
analysis without underestimating the importance of the analysis of the
sex instinct. I stress the importance of the active behaviour of our sense-
mind as counterweight to the mechanistic passive concept. In reality
there is never such a thing as an individual or an environment. They
both form an inseparable unit in which, for instance, stimulus and readi¬
ness or ability to be stimulated cannot be separated. The rays of light
do exist—but there must be an organismic situation (interest) for which
they can exist.
Although everybody will be willing to realize that our organism is
very active in the consumption and assimilation of our food, the cor¬
responding activity of our senses is less readily recognized. We are so
used to thinking in terms of the reflex arc theory, we take so much for
granted that some outside stimulus makes our organism react in a kind of
mechanical way that it requires an effort to realize that perception is an
activity, and not a mere passive attitude. Neither does food flow into our
system of its free will, nor do the acoustic waves of a symphony concert.
In the latter case we have to go through a good deal of activity in order
to bring our organism into the desired acoustic field. We have to get
tickets, take ourselves to the concert hall, and during the performance
itself our activity goes on unceasingly. Do not imagine that the hundreds
of people in the audience conceive the same music; they do not even
perceive the same sounds. A passage which means chaos to one listener
is a clear “gestalt” to another. The bassoon which one attentive listener
discovers beside the double bass, does not even strike the ears of the
untrained person. How much of the acoustic waves you will take in,
depends on many factors: on your musical approach, on your emotional
identification, training, and, most of all, on your power of concentration.
If you are tired, if the listening involves too much strain or if for
other reasons the orchestra cannot hold your interest, your mind slips
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away, loses contact with the performance. If you find yourself in that
state, if you notice that the music has completely ceased to be figure and
that you have not the slightest idea what has been played, then you will
become convinced of two things: of the importance of the figure-back¬
ground phenomenon and its connection with concentration, and of the
amount of activity involved in the use of your senses.
We are assisted in our delusions about the passivity of the senses by
our knowledge of the photographic camera, and we are only too ready
to assume that our organism simply takes pictures and that the rays of
fight impress themselves on the plate while the pictures are storing
themselves away somewhere in the brain. We forget that every photo¬
grapher has to invest a great deal of activity before he manages to take
a single picture. We forget what an amount of labour is condensed into
a single photographic plate and that our organism has to be a continuous
working chemical plant and a continual photographer. We also do not
sufficiently realize that the photographer’s work is determined by his
interest (hobby, livelihood or learning).
The senses in man have developed from mere signallers to organs of
the “mental stomach” and of a second and third human world. On the
second plane (the world of imagination) plans and simplifications, in¬
take and assimilation play the decisive part. We have already dealt with
memories as undigested morsels and with hallucinations and the mis¬
taking of the imaginary7 field for the real one. The third plane is the
world of evaluations (M. Scheler). In this chapter we shall be concerned
with the way in which to organize the use of our senses for the greatest
benefit of the whole organism.
The best way to approach this problem is through our ability of visuali¬
zation. Most of our mentality consists of pictures and words. The un¬
conscious has a greater affinity to pictures, the conscious mind to words.
In order to achieve a good harmony between Ego and Unconscious we
should have the greatest possible control over our visualization, a control
which is clearly lacking in day-dreams. Day-dreams are often so much
beyond the influence of conscious control that many people only know
of the fact that they are day-dreaming without having any trace left except
the feeling that they were in a trance, that they were somewhere else.
On the other hand, any conscious effort to visualize things is an im¬
possibility for many people. Every conscious effort to get a picture in
their mind is either frustrated (the mind is a blank) or we encounter a
jumble of meaningless pictures, for instance, before falling asleep.
The greatest difficulty is, of course, encountered by people who
apparently have no visualization at all. This is a symptom of a severe
neurotic disturbance and is outside the scope of self-treatment. Here we
can only hint at the unconscious habit of excluding pictures with the
help of intense contractions of different eye muscles. With the relaxation
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in the existence of a blind spot that you will return to it again and again.
Few unfinished situations exert such a pressure to finish them as do
forgotten names.
Concentration therapy provides a shorter and superior way to “emo¬
tional revival” than either ordinary conversational talk or the technique
of free associations. A man who, for instance, speaks rather disparagingly
of his father when asked to visualize him and to concentrate on the details
of his appearance, might suddenly burst into tears. He will be surprised
by his sudden emotional outburst and amazed that he still has so much
feeling left for the old man. The cathartic value of concentrating on the
image of a person or event to whom or which one has an emotional
relationship is nearly that of hypno- or narco-analysis with the additional
benefit that it strengthens the conscious personality.
A more difficult, but very valuable step in obtaining a four-dimensional
mental fife, a fife re-creating the outside reality, is the training of the
other senses—like hearing, smelling and tasting. To achieve this four¬
dimensional plastic mentality you have to make your imaginary contact
as complete as possible, and by this I mean doing more than just visual¬
izing pictures. If you visualize a landscape you can describe all the details:
the trees, the meadows, the shadows, the grazing cattle, the fragrant
flowers. But you must do more. You must walk in it, climb the trees,
dig the rich brown earth, smell the blossoms, sit on the shadowed grass,
listen to the birds singing, throw stones into the stream, watch the bees
about their busy-ness! Give free range to every possible impulse, chiefly
those which (like tumbling a girl beneath a hedge, or stealing fruit from
the apple orchard, or urinating into the ditch) in reality would cause you
embarrassment, but which occur to you in phantasy.
This senso-motoric approach, especially that of touching, gives you the
proper feel of things and introduces experience of the four dimensions.
It will develop your sense of actuality, and will help to bring about that
eidetic memory (identity of perception and visualization) which in dreams
themselves is always present.
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consulting a doctor, they cannot finish the interview, and find dozens of
reasons and questions to prolong their visit.
The anticipatory character—described in Part One—has somewhat
less difficulty in regaining the sense of actuality. He is apparently more
trained in thinking in terms of time.
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make you have day-dreams about being in love with a famous film star,
whereas in reality you could be quite satisfied with your nice neighbour.
Indulgence in day-dreaming, the expectation, the hope that it might
come true, leads to ever greater disappointments in actual life. These
disappointments will increase the day-dreaming and so start a vicious
circle.
I have shown in the chapter on Organismic Balance that an organismic
minus produces a mental +, but in the case of day-dreaming you produce
a mental + + +. Does it help you to day-dream about a million dollars ?
To pay off the small debts that worry you, you would require much less.
The whims of a film star would probably make you very unhappy, if you
were married to her.
What you can learn from day-dreams is the direction of your needs.
If you w'ant to fly from New York to Montreal (this means nearly due
north) you take your bearings from a magnetic needle which has the
North Pole as its aim. But you do not identify yourself with this goal,
you do not fly to the North Pole itself, you abstract only the direction
from the needle’s behaviour. In the same way take only the direction
from your day-dreams, using them as a help to understand where your
needs he—money or love or whatever it may be. The day-dreams serve
the good purpose to show the aim, the direction of your ambitions, but
with that their usefulness is exhausted. If you invest too much time
and energy in wishful thinking, you achieve a pseudo-happiness for which
you have to pay heavily with disappointments and the weakening of the
Ego-functions. In order to cure such disfunction, you must learn to re¬
organize your energies, to face the unpleasant situations which you imagine
you cannot tolerate, and which you try to overcome by day-dreaming.
Be unhappy about the unpleasantness; and, if experienced and expressed
fully, the unhappiness itself will be of benefit. Then take steps in the
direction indicated by your day-dreams; set about actually building these
‘‘castles in the air” which so intrigue you, but build them on solid ground.
Do not be content with taking non-existing jumps into a non-existent
paradise, but do something to link those dreams with reality. Translate
the “impossible” into the “possible.” If you day-dream about becoming
a famous author, the probability is that you have latent talents in this
direction which should be cultivated. If you imagine yourself a great
lover, you obviously have amorous abilities; unhitch them from the film
star, where they can never be fulfilled, and you will soon find someone
worthy of your attentions. If your day-dreams are of painting or engineer¬
ing or acquiring wealth, do something about it; follow their direction
even though you will have to lower your standard.
One has, however, to differentiate between the day-dream which
pictures the ideal situation and the day-dream which glorifies an ideal.
This form of idealism forms a part of the megalomania-outcast complex,
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and is a very important sign of our paranoic civilization. About the detri¬
mental influence of idealism I shall say a few words in the last chapter
of this book. For the time being understand one point: sense of actuality
means the experience of this very second—not the experience of what
did happen even only one minute ago!
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the art of internal silence, however, you have to practise the “listening”
to your thoughts.
Verbal thinking and speaking have, as previously shown, a pre-
differential state: verbal thinking is a kind of imaginary talking. Similarly
there exists a pre-differential state which differentiates into speaking and
listening and which corresponds on the acoustic level to the eidetic attitude
in the visual sphere. If you can succeed in regaining this speaking/listening
unity, you can tremendously increase the knowledge and awareness of
what and how you think.
As an initial exercise read aloud or recite anything you like, and listen
to your manner of speaking; but you must neither criticize nor change
your speech. The secret of success is the same as in every concentration
exercise: not to make any special effort except that you should become
aware of one specific action. Once you notice in the training situation that
you can hear yourself, listen occasionally to your voice when in company.
After that make an earnest attempt to become aware of your so-called
thinking. This exercise must be carried out at first in solitude. When you
try to listen to your thinking you will in the beginning probably not suc¬
ceed. You will become confused like the famous centipede, and your
internal talking will stop under scrutiny. But as soon as you relax your
attention, your internal “babbling” (called “thinking”) will start again.
Repeat this attempt over and over, especially when your thinking is a
genuine subvocal speaking—when you would use sentences like: “I say
to myself,” or when you prepare to meet somebody and rehearse in your
mind what you are going to say. Persist until you get the “feel” of your
thinking, the identity of listening and talking. When this happens you
will notice two more phenomena. Your thinking will become much more
expressive, and at the same time that part of your thinking which is not
a genuine expression will begin to disintegrate. Your obsessional internal
talking will break up, and you might feel like nearly going insane when
you hear bits and pieces of your incoherent language floating about,
senseless phrases coming into your mind and waiting to be rehashed.
Few actions will develop the sense of actuality to such an extent as will
the listening to your thinking, especially when you experience the re¬
organization of your thinking and the rediscovery of the language as a
tool of meaning and expression.
Such reorganization of thinking is absolutely necessary for people
method for experiencing the unspeakable level, I consider the method set out in
this chapter to be simpler and more practicable than his.
Nobody can read his book without deriving the greatest benefit from it. Later
on I hope to be able to deal extensively with his magnificent approach to the psycho¬
logical” problem. At present I have only to state that my attitude differs con¬
siderably from his wholesale condemnation of identification (see the chapter on
Ego-functions) and that I consider the figure-background concept to be preferable
to the abstraction theory.
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if the Medical Officer is the winner in the battle of wits, does he dare to
say that the patient’s “I” and not his “It” is responsible for his illness.
Only then does he recognize the purpose and not the cause.
In our society it is often very difficult to apply the Ego-language. As¬
suming you have had a late night and do not feel like getting up. You
are late at the office. Will you say to the boss, “I did not want to get up,”
or will you shield behind a tram that did not arrive, a lift which did not
work, a headache which might or might not be present? Just imagine
the upheaval were you to tell him the truth. The situation, however, is
different when you can be truthful, be it with yourself or your friends.
But even if you imagine that you are strictly truthful with yourself, you
still might be mistaken. How often are you annoyed that “the tram just
went off,” instead of admitting that, by dawdling, you missed it?
It is even more difficult to realize that you yourself produce all the
neurotic symptoms, and not a mysterious “It” or “libido”, that—as I have
mentioned before and am going to show in greater detail later on—you
contract your muscles and thus produce your anxiety, frigidity, headaches,
and so on.
The importance of this conception can hardly be over-emphasized.
Without taking full responsibility, without rechanging neurotic symptoms
into conscious Ego-functions, no cure is possible. We might not go to
such extremes as the obsessional character who maintains that “there was
a thought in my brain,” instead of saying, “I thought this and that”—
although very few of us, indeed, are completely free from such manner
of speech. Most people on being tackled about a dream will admit, “I”
dreamt this last night; but when they have killed somebody in their
dream they deny that they themselves imagined the killing, and they
refuse responsibility for their dreams.
Every’ time you do apply the proper Ego-language, you express yourself.
You assist in the development of your personality. Therefore, at first
you must realize if and when you are shrinking from the use of the “I.”
Later translate the “It” language into “I” language, first silently and
eventually aloud. You will readily realize the difference between the two
kinds of speech when you hear somebody saying: “The cup slipped out
of my hand” instead of “7 dropped the cup” “My hand slipped”
instead of “7 gave him a slap,” or “I have such a bad memory” instead
of “7 forgot” or even more truthfully, “7 did not want to remember,
7 did not want to be bothered.” Are you in the habit of blaming Fate,
Circumstances or Illness, etc., for the mistakes you make in fife? Are
you shielding behind an “It” similar to that in Freud’s mocking remark:
“Insecurity and darkness robbed me of my watch”?
If you put “It is raining” and “It occurred to me, that . . .” on the
same plane, your ability to differentiate between inside and outside world
does not look too perfect.
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You will discover a great deal about the motives of avoidance: feelings
of guilt, shame, self-consciousness and embarrassment.
As the most important step translate (as far as that is possible) the “It”
language into the Ego-language. A very valuable help is the expression
“I produce”—leaving, for the time being, in abeyance the way in which
you produce, say, a headache. And last, but not least, apply the Ego-
language. Learn to speak and not only to write “I” with a capital letter.
In trying to do this you will find, in the beginning, a great amount of
difficulty mainly in connection with the just mentioned disagreeable
emotions. Correct Ego-language, e.g. correct identification, is the basis of
self-expression and confidence. How important a part self-expression
plays in the prevention and cure of neurosis, should be known to you
by now.
There is, however, one exception to the rule. Just as metabolism is
fundamentally different from pseudo-metabolism, so the genuine Ego-
language differs from a “Pseudo-Ego-language.” I am referring to those
little overtures with which many people embroider their speech: “I
thought,” “I mean,” “I feel.” These overtures are not expressions, but
avoidances of emotions; they are mostly inhibitions in making contact—
avoidance of the correct use of “You.” “I think you are cross with me”
is emotionally much weaker than “Are you cross with me?”
In these cases not the “I” but the “You” is avoided. The speech is
as much censored and reshaped as in the “It” language. In both cases
freedom from self-consciousness is very dearly bought. It is paid for with
the deterioration of the personality.
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with this phenomenon that we can neglect it in this book, except that we
must draw attention to the great part retroflection plays in producing and
keeping up repressions.
(2) In introjection, the material remains essentially intact, but has
changed from the environmental to the internal field. Passivity becomes
activity. (The nurse hits the child. Child introjects, plays nurse and hits
another child.) The Ego-functions become hypertrophied and pretentious
(“as if” functions).
(3) In projection, the material, completely unchanged, slips from the
internal into the environmental field. Activity becomes passivity. (The
child wants to hit the nurse. Child projects and expects the nurse to hit
him.) The Ego-functions become /rypotrophied and hallucinatory.
(4) In retroflection,: relatively little material is lost and the Ego-
functions remain largely intact; but the Self is substituted for an object
with the purpose of avoiding apparently dangerous contacts.
This loss of contact with the environment often leads to catastrophic
results. The emotional discharge is inadequate, and, if aggression is
retroflected, the expressions and functions of the subdued parts P become
impaired. But the therapy of retroflections is simpler than the therapy
of either repressions or projections, as a mere change of direction is
required and the conflicts leading to retroflection lie partly on the surface.
Furthermore, the process of retroflection is intelligible, whilst in the case
of repression, we have often to be satisfied with the mere fact, without
knowing exactly how repressions occur.* In retroflection, however, we
can always deal with a conscious part (Ego or A) of the personality,
which directs its activities against another part (remaining “Self” or P),
even if the accent lies on P. Even if you intend to teach yourself chemistry
you will at times prefer to be taught.
In the following example of flagellantism—the tendency to beat one¬
self—one can appreciate the importance of the accent being on A or P.3
1 I was tempted to use for this phenomenon the term “introversion,” but this
would lead to confusions with Jung’s character classification. Jung uses the oppo¬
sites “introversion” and “extraversion” to indicate two more or less normal types
Introversion-extraversion are not correct dialectical opposites. The healthy per¬
sonality is normally directed towards the world—is extraverted. The dialectical
deviations from the normal are the melancholic-introverted and the super-extra-
verted paranoid types. No wonder that the term “introvert” has found its way
into medicine and literature, whilst the expression “extravert” has been entirely
neglected as being meaningless, and is not even mentioned in the average en¬
cyclopaedias.
1 We neither know how the “libido” is undertaking its journeys through the
organism nor have we yet the slightest idea how, in the topographical concept, the
transfer from one system into another takes place. As long as these suppositions
have not been demonstrated we have to regard them as speculations and not as
“hard facts.”
3 Freud is not always clear in his appreciation of activity and passivity. The
psycho-analyst asks of the patient that he lie on a couch in a “passive” state and
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(A) A boy liked to play at being a coachman. In his games with his
playmates he was always the driver and enjoyed whipping his friends,
who invariably had to be the horses. When he was on his own he often
continued the game, but had to whip himself, being driver and horse at
the same time.
(P) Another boy, while doing homework, hit his knuckles very hard
whenever he made a mistake. He did this in anticipation of being hit by
the teacher.
Reich and others have interpreted moral masochism as the policy of
the minor evil, of bribery. A great deal of self-imposed suffering has to
be explained this way: “Look, God, I am punishing myself (with fasting
and sacrifices); so you cannot be so cruel as to punish me in addition.”
As the organism is primarily active, the last example already shows
that for the more passive retroflection a certain amount of projection is
required. At least some of the believer’s cruelty and lust to punish must
have been projected on to God.1 In some instances A has been so com¬
pletely projected that only a hint of the original activity remains visible.
In self-pity, for instance, the pity for other people can hardly be traced;
the retroflection in this case means: If nobody is sorry for me, I have to
be sorry for myself.
The example of the suicide wish is very instructive. Here again the
mixture of retroflection and projection shows the over-balancing of
part P. A girl has been deserted by her lover, she considers suicide. The
situation is simple as far as part A is concerned. Her first reaction is: “I
shall kill him because he left me. If I can’t have him nobody else shall.”
(As usual in these cases the aggression does not get into the chewing up
and digesting of the unpleasant event.) But then her aggression turns
into suffering: “I can’t live without him, life is too painful. I want to
escape, die.” The wish to kill has turned into the wish to die.
“Life is painful, fate is cruel.” The aggression which, in the act of
suicide, turns against P is projected; not she, but fate (or the beloved)
is cruel. Furthermore, her condemnation of him is projected into her
allow his thoughts to appear in his conscious mind. The psycho-analyst means,
however, that the patient should lie in a state of indifference, in an inactive—or
impassive—state. If we admit that Freud demands remembering instead of acting,
and becomes very indignant when a patient becomes active, we realize that Freud
unconsciously (in spite of his angry condemnation of active therapy) distributes
the roles in the analytical situation in such a way that the analyst takes the active
and the patient the passive part—another relic of the hypnotical situation.
Expression by activity and acting is emphasized by two branches of psycho¬
analysis : Child-analysis, and the technique of Moreno who treats psycho-neuroses
by urging the patients to write, produce and act their own plays as a means of self-
expression and self-realization.
1 Parallel with Christ’s milder character, his God is mild in contrast to Moses’
and his God’s vindictiveness. The Christian Church, however, makes up for this
negligence of human nature by projecting cruelty into a Devil and a Hell.
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From the practical point of view the most important retroflections are:
hatred directed against the self, narcissism, and self-control. Self-des¬
truction is, of course, the most dangerous of all retroflections. Its minor
brother is the tendency to repress (repression is retroflected oppression").
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she must first of all realize that her puritanical outlook is mainly a “means
whereby” she suppresses both her own pleasure and that of others.
Once she has realized the pleasure she derives from interfering with other
people, she will leave herself alone and will interfere rather with people
who try to prevent her from dancing.
A very interesting example of retroflection, which sheds light on the
inferiority complex, is given by Karen Homey in The Neurotic Personality
of Out Time. A beautiful girl with pathological inferiority feelings, on
entering a ballroom, sees her plain-looking competitor and shrinks from
competing with her, thinking, “How can I, an ugly duckling, dare come
here?” I, personally, do not regard this as a feeling of inferiority but as
one of arrogance concealed behind retroflection. We see the situation in
its proper perspective if we imagine her, instead of talking to herself,
addressing the other girl: “How dare you, you ugly duckling, come
here.” The girl in question is inclined to deprecate people, but retroflects
the sneering on to herself.
This last case is a retroflected reproach. If our beauty would tackle
the plain girl instead of herself, she would make a great step forwards in
the cure of her neurosis. She would change her inferiority complex—her
self-reproach into an object-approach.
Such an approach is often difficult, as it is loaded with self-conscious¬
ness, embarrassment and fear. My advice, therefore, is: the undoing of
such embarrassing retroflections should, at first, be carried out in phantasy
only. Although the discharge cannot be satisfactory, we may achieve
several aims with this exercise: (a) we may change the direction and give
P a chance to come to the surface; (b) we may recognize many danger
signals as mere blinds; (c) we may increase the amount of free aggression
which, in turn, can be applied for assimilation. This temporary setting
free of aggression is a phenomenon for which psycho-analysis uses the
name “transitory symptom.”
Your possibilities of approach and contact will show a decisive improve¬
ment if you undo the retroflection of your “thinking.” “I said to myself,”
What for? If you can say it, you must know it. So what sense is there in
conveying a message to yourself? Such talking to himself is found in
every child; later on when his talking becomes silent, we call it “thinking.”
If you examine your thinking, you will notice that you give yourself
explanations, you broadcast what you experience, you rehearse what
you intend to say in a difficult situation. In your imagination you mean
to explain, broadcast, complain to other people. My advice is to apply
as an exercise the re-direction of all your thinking (first in your phantasy
and then, if possible, in actuality) to a living person. This is a simple and
efficient way to make good contact.
Assuming you are in company racking your brains for something to
say, thinking to yourself, “I must find a theme to start a conversation,”
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then you can simply change the direction of your sentence and order the
company: “You must find a topic to start a conversation.” The contact
is established and the torturing silence broken.
Introspection is another retroflection and is very often found in people
who are interested in psychology. It is the tendency to observe oneself,
to study oneself instead of observing and studying other people, a state
of brooding inactivity, which is in direct conflict with that senso-motoric
awareness mentioned before in this book (and with the cultivation of
which I will deal later). That the undoing of self-observation is not easy
will be gathered from the following example. A patient told me: “Yester¬
day I had more pluck. I answered my wife more energetically than usual,
and when I observed myself I could not find any unpleasant reactions.”
What he had really observed was not himself, but her, because he was
still afraid of his own courage and consequently felt relieved that he saw
no unfavourable reactions in her. People repress their object-observation
and change it into self-observation in the desire to avoid unpleasantness,
embarrassment and fear, not wanting to be taken as impolite and in¬
quisitive.
Introspection is different from hypochrondia in so far as in intro¬
spection the accent is on A while in hypochrondia it is on P. Thus the
hypochondriac’s tendency to make passive contact reveals itself by his
readiness to see a doctor.
Many years ago Stekel had already realized that masturbation is often
a substitute for homosexuality; although the homosexual’s problem is
much more complicated, a great amount of retroflection is certainly
present. A masturbation-fixation has the meaning of playing with one’s
penis because another is not available or else is taboo. The accent can
likewise be either on A or P.
In a situation like the last one, the avoidance of contact is easily appre¬
ciated, but in no case does the retroflection absorb all activity. We are
never so self-centred that we do not interfere with others, although we
might do a great deal of self-interference or self-correction or self-control
or self-education. Sometimes even the self-reproach is so thinly veiled
that we hardly discern anything but the direct reproach. The woman
who complains, “Why must I have such a naughty child?” or “Wrhy
must my husband always be so late?” does not mean to criticize herself,
but the mischievous child or the unpunctual husband.
The most damaging retroflection is the one of destruction and vindic¬
tiveness. The admission that one feels revengeful is so much in conflict
with one’s ideals that a frank, straightforward tendency to retaliate is
seldom encountered. Up to the time of puberty it seems to be more or
less admitted, but most adults display their pleasure in vindictiveness
vicariously by reading crime stories, or following court proceedings, or
indulging in righteousness, or pushing the execution of their revenge on
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BODY CONCENTRATION
1 Here the patient lies on a couch and the psycho-analyst sits behind him like
an invisible God above the clouds, who must not be seen just as the pious Jew
must not form an image of God, or as the Roman Catholic believer must not see
his father-confessor.
How can a patient ever form a contact with reality if the analytical situation is
kept on such a mystical level? The patient has nothing to go by but the analyst’s
voice, and sometimes not even that. I once had an analyst who did not open his
mouth for weeks; to indicate that the session was finished he merely scraped the
floor with his foot. His few remarks during the many months I spent with him
were sometimes ingenious interpretations of my Unconscious, but at that time I
was far from being able to accept them. At other times they were mere projections
which I was likewise incapable of recognizing as such. Only after I had heard,
many years later, that he was suffering from paranoia, the truth struck me forcibly.
I stopped blaming myself for my inability to understand and to appreciate his
remarks and directed the blame on to his inability to make himself understood
and to appreciate my situation.
Change the psycho-analyst from the awe-inspiring image to a human being
on the same level as the patient. Stop interpreting the patient’s fear and protest
as “God transference!” As long as the analyst goes on behaving as a priest with
all the rites of the fixed analytical position and obsessional timing (an interview
must by hook or crook last exactly fifty-five minutes), the patient must correctly
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patient, but I still let him lie on the couch for the purpose of internal
concentration exercises, thus providing adequate situations for both the
external (overcoming of self-consciousness, facing the “enemy”) and
internal concentration.
(3) All balance exercises are useful. Gymnastics as long as they cultivate
body-awareness and not the “he-man” stuff, sport as long as it is not
one-sided and the slave of ambition, develops such holistic feeling. In
walking, feel yourself walking and interrupt the “thinking” as often as
possible. Above all, when you have nothing to do, just be satisfied with
being aware of your body as a whole.
(4) If you cannot feel the whole of your body, let your attention travel
from one part of it to another, chiefly selecting those parts which for you
exist only dimly. But do not yet attempt concentration on the scotomized
parts—on those parts which apparently do not exist in your consciousness
at all. Occasionally, during your daily routine work become “body”
conscious; open a door consciously, yet exactly as you do it always,
without any particular emphasis or change of your usual attitude. Do not
set out to open that door (or whatever conscious movement you want to
perform) in an especially graceful or he-mannish way. This would only
make you self-conscious, not body-conscious. There is a story of a centi¬
pede who was asked which leg he moved first and how he managed to
walk with all his legs at the same time. When he tried to do it deliberately
he got so confused that he could not walk at all. Instead of merely becoming
aware of his movements, he interfered with them.
(5) In executing these exercises one has to remember what has been
said before about “jumping” when observing mental pictures. Jumping
from one part to another does not constitute good contact, although it is
better than forcing your attention on to one single part, by which process
you may succeed merely in squeezing a symptom away. You will experience
this squeezing away as the disappearance of the symptom. If you feel an
unpleasant itch, and it disappears while you are concentrating on it, you
might feel highly satisfied, while in reality it has only been driven under¬
ground and has not vented its voice in the language of the organismic
needs. It will probably come back once you have relaxed the squeezing
grip-
If you are a “jumper,” go from one sensation to another, and each
time be satisfied in extending the contact from a fraction of a second to
several seconds. You will then soon be able to select a symptom at will
and analyse it. Many a symptom—those with minor resistances—will
interest and even fascinate you. The revelation of its sense will come as
a real “eye-opener.” But if the sensation or symptom should disappear
interpret the analyst as a religious object, and no suggestions that this is a trans¬
ference-phenomenon will silence his reactions as a believer or dissenter in the
psycho-analytical religion.
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without development, without having revealed its sense, you might recall
it either by working on it from memory, or, still better, by attending to
the means whereby it is repressed—to the muscular contractions.
(6) Once you can keep your mind for some time on one place, you may
start with the attempt to realize the muscular concentrations involved in
the “negative” concentration. The hanging-on “bite” is the pattern from
which all the repressing contractions are formed. The hanging-on “atti¬
tude” is the exhausting negative concentration in a nutshell. It is the basis
for awkwardness, mal-co-ordination and many unpleasant neurotic
symptoms. You cannot achieve any natural contact by forcing yourself
to concentrate. Your ability to direct your attention must be very feeble
indeed if you have to play the corpse, hardly daring to move a muscle,
or if you have to be constantly on the alert waiting to jump at anybody’s
throat who may willingly or unwillingly disturb your so-called concen¬
tration. How exhausting it must be for you to achieve anything in life if
the basis of achievement, the concentration, is so artificial and expensive.
I have elsewhere denoted “fascination” as the highest form of concen¬
tration. Up till now, however, you had to deal with so many resistances
that you could hardly expect to be fascinated. This will come after constant
repetition has made you realize how to change unpleasant sensations into
pleasant ones. Therefore, once you have learned the feel of your muscular
contractions, try to get them under your control for the purpose of releasing
the repressed organismic functions and increasing your motoric agility.
Once you have reached that point you will gain confidence in these
exercises. You will then feel the first waves of fascination. Your activity
and memory as well as your ability to get a quick grasp of situations will
improve steadily and this will accumulate until you have achieved a good
“feel of yourself.” All these exercises will then become obsolete.
(7) To get your over-tense muscles under control you have to change
spasms into Ego-functions. These contractions can appear anywhere.
They can appear as writer’s cramp in your arm and hand or as stammering
in your speech. In anxiety-fits you find your chest muscles becoming
stiff; in sexual inhibitions the small of the back becomes rigid. Disturb¬
ances of contact will appear as tightness in the muscles of the jaw and the
arms.
Begin with concentration on the eye muscles, as we have already
started with them in the chapter on visualization. There is no need to
know the muscles involved, let alone their Latin names. When originally
these muscles became contracted and nervy, you did something with
them without knowing their anatomy and names. Once upon a time,
before it became a habit, “you” contracted every one of the now cramped
muscles intentionally; when you wanted to chase away some sensation,
emotion or picture out of consciousness, you retroflected your motoric
functions as a means of squeezing away what you did not want to feel.
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You did this with a deliberate effort well known to you, an effort similar
to your muscular activity when you have to keep down, for instance, an
urge to urinate.
It is difficult to determine how far the influence of conscious Ego-
control reaches. In the course of evolution, many of the lower centres of
the organism have become autonomous and beyond the reach of conscious
control.1 The system of striped muscles, however, is within the range of
conscious control. It is, for instance, being used for the purpose of re¬
pressing. To undo repressions you have to re-establish conscious com¬
mand of your motoric system.
Wherever you encounter over-tenseness, cramps, spasms, contractions
in your system, proceed in the following manner:
(a) Get the proper “feel.” Do not attempt any dissolving before you
can keep your mind for at least ten to fifteen seconds on the spot.
(b) Watch for the slightest development, like an increase or a decrease
in tension, numbness or itching. Very promising is the appearance
of a slight flutter or tremor or an “electric” sensation. Every change
indicates that contact is made between conscious and unconscious
instances.
(c) Be satisfied at first to describe the contraction in the “It” language,
like: “There is a tension round my right eye,” or “the eyeballs are
very restless.”
(d) Make an attempt to change the contractions into “Ego-functions,”
but without additional activity. Feel that “you” are knitting the
forehead muscles or straining the eyes, or whatever is being done
by you. If you are not successful, turn to exercise (e).
(e) If you have to avoid the responsibility for “your” contractions of
the muscles, the change-over from the “It” to the “Ego”-fimction
will be difficult. In this case it is helpful to take refuge in auto¬
suggestion. Repeat a sentence like this: “Although I do not feel I
am contracting the muscles I know that subconsciously I am doing
it. Therefore I imagine or I believe I am doing it.” This auto¬
suggestion might be helpful as you tell yourself—in contrast to
Coue’s method2—the truth, the reality.
(J) Take over the control: relax and tighten up, by a fraction (!) of an
inch, the muscle in question.
(,g) Find out the purpose of your contracting. Find out what you are
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After the first step of realizing the existence of projections and the
second one of recognizing them as belonging to your own personality,
you have to assimilate them. This assimilation is the very cure for all
paranoic tendencies. If you merely introject the “project,” you only
increase the danger of becoming a paranoic. Therefore you must get to
the nucleus—to the sense of every projection. If you feel persecuted by
a policeman and you merely introject him, you then imagine you are a
cop or you want to become one. A proper assimilation, on the other
hand, will show that you want to watch or punish a certain person. If
you maintain that you are a bear you will be certified as insane, but it is
quite a different matter, if you express the sense of this identification and
say that you are as hungry as a bear. Someone projected the wish to bully
his wife and dreamt that he was being chased by a bull.
The first step might be an interesting intellectual pastime—namely,
to accept that under certain conditions you would like to be a burglar
or a policeman; but the actual re-identification with the persecutor
might be difficult. The resistance which introduced the projection will
be encountered as soon as you try to think out all the consequences of
being the bogey yourself. It is not easy to admit, when you have frightening
dreams, that you find a fiendish delight in frightening other people, or
that you are a poisonous snake or a man-eater.
The dream drawings on the following pages are very instructive. The
dreamer had a severe psycho-neurosis. He had religious ideals of being
mild, unselfish. He was unable to hit back when attacked. His aggression
was largely projected. The result: an anxiety neurosis, exemplified by the
nightmare of the first picture. The aggressor—the train—is not even
visible. In the second picture we find the solution: consciously he identifies
himself with the victim. He suffers all the tortures which the other man
(symbolizing his own projected aggressiveness) inflicts upon him. Actually
he had a very strong, though repressed, sadistic streak in him.
The difficulty in undoing religious projections lies in the embarrassment
to own up to certain omnipotence ideas, as, for instance, Heine has
expressed it:
“And if I were the Mighty God
and sitting in the sky . . .”
We do not often imagine we are God, but there are very few who do
not occasionally say: “If I were a dictator then . . .”
In people and certainly in every neurotic there is one character difficulty
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NIGHTMARE
projected love. If you are afraid to express “I hate you,” you will soon
imagine yourself being hated by the world, and likewise if you are too
shy to say “I love you,” you will find yourself expecting love from the
world. The difference is, of course, that we would prefer to be persecuted
by love rather than by hate. To change the narcissistic attitude into one
of object relationship is not as difficult as in the case of the projected
aggression. At least we are spared the working through of ideological
resistances, as love is the religious favourite number one.
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To put into practice what we have just learned we had best turn to
our day-dreams. Assuming that you see yourself admired for your skill
in sports, or decorated for some heroic deed, or spoiled and mothered
by the girl of your choice, make an earnest attempt to reverse the situation
TORTURE
and look for instances where you could allow yourself to admire a sports¬
man, become enthusiastic about a hero, or spoil and mother someone else.
Not only will you develop a more active and adult attitude by undoing
these projections, but you will also achieve that position in which you can
finish situations and restore the organismic balance which is and remains
disturbed by affection which tends to overflow but cannot find an outlet.
Projected affection, as pointed out previously, produces the insatiable
greed for affection.
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For the normal healthy defaecation, only three activities are essential:
to go to the lavatory, to relax the sphincter and to feel the defaecation
itself. Anything beyond these functions is unnecessary, pathological,
and produces a great amount of complications and difficulties. Keep
these three points in mind and learn to understand and to master them.
Contrast the three healthy functions with the pathological procedure!
The main condition for a healthy defaecation is that you must limit
yourself to the mere task of going to the place of defaecation, but only
in the service of a defaecation urge and not in order to overcome your
constipation. No conscious effort is required to go to the lavatory if you
suffer from diarrhoea. On the contrary, your effort will then be directed
to keeping the stool back until you are on the seat. The urge drives you
to the proper place. How different is the attitude of the constipated!
They don’t feel any urge, but go to the lavatory driven by commands.
Realize that constipation is an unconscious reluctance to part with the
faeces, and you have already won half the battle. Actually most people
find this very difficult to accept. But if you “suffer” from constipation,
a real cure is impossible without your taking the responsibility that you
retain, that you don’t let go.
In order to prove that I am wrong, you will tell me that you do every¬
thing possible not to be constipated, that you would not dream of keeping
anything back, because this is detrimental to your health. All this, however,
is justification, over-compensation in the service of the Super-Ego,
dictated by duty, conscience, or what is supposed to be “good for your
health, as your grandma and laxative manufacturers assure you. It
would trouble your conscience if you would consciously allow yourself
to be constipated. In spite of all your assurances the fact remains that in
constipation you simply do not feel and therefore do not obey the urge,
but follow introjected ideas about constipation.
Pluck up courage and wait for the urge to come. K. Landauer told me
once of somebody who was constipated for four weeks. This, of course,
is an extreme case, which I only mention to show that the danger of
constipation is very much exaggerated in our time. What we want to
achieve is self-regulation. One of the best points which W. Reich ever
made is his demand that the regulation of our sex fife by morality should
be replaced by the rhythm of self-regulation. The sexual urge must dis¬
appear not by repression, but by gratification, till the renewed tension
demands our attention again. In the same way “you” must not regulate
your bowels. What is required is their self-regulation.
In the chapter on Body Concentration we were mainly interested in
the muscular contractions. Contraction of the muscles is a repressing
factor, we hold down, keep back such sensations, feelings or emotions,
which we do not want to release. The basis of all “keeping back” is the
withholding of the excretions, as the result of the training in cleanliness.
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closing muscle, the sphincter, M the internal skin, the mucous membrane
of the rectum.
In Figure I the sphincter is relaxed and the faeces are passing out
without any undue resistance. In the next picture the sphincter is per¬
manently contracted (constipation) and in Figure III the faeces arc forced
out against the contracted sphincter. The internal membrane is pushed
out with them. The result must be piles or even a prolapse of the rectum.
Proper concentration exercises, which aim at controlling contraction and
relaxation, are the only means to bring about an improvement of “psycho-
genetic” piles. By attending to the following exercises, a number of cases
have greatly improved, or have at least prevented a further deterioration,
but the exercise is meant for every case of constipation, not only those
who have already developed piles.
The first thing you have to remedy, whilst sitting on the seat, is avoid¬
ance of awareness of the defaecation activity, for instance reading or mind
wandering or futuristic thinking. You must concentrate on what is going
on at that very moment. Any looking ahead like “I want to get it over
quickly”—“how long will it be to-day?”—“what amount am I going to
produce?”—any anticipation of any kind whatsoever should be realized
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as such, and you should return to what you actually experience in your
senso-motoric system. Realize that you are pressing or squeezing, and
try to omit both. See what happens if you don’t squeeze. Probably nothing
—but a remarkable insight might dawn on you: the fact that you are just
playing the fool, that you are pretending, that you just sit on the lavatory
seat without any real urge or intention to defaecate.
In this case you had better get up and wait till a real genuine urge
occurs. If you do not want to do this, concentrate on the resistance: find
out how you produce the constipation, how you contract the sphincter
muscle and how, by these means, you keep the content of your bowels
back. Learn to feel the resisting muscle and to contract it deliberately. You
will soon get tired and you will relax the sphincter muscle and dissolve
the constipation in a natural manner. Try to isolate the tense muscle from
its surroundings; a haphazard deliberate contraction of the whole bottom
region does not establish conscious anal control. Once you have learned to
isolate and to control the sphincter consciously, you can contract or relax
it at will.
Should you, however, have developed a scotoma for the defaecation-
sensations, then the above exercise will be difficult. The undoing of the
scotoma and the relaxation exercises will more or less overlap each other.
In our discussions on Body Concentration we were mainly interested in
the kinaesthetic sense, in the feel of the muscles, and we have rather
neglected the possibility of complete anaesthesia. We w’ere interested in
what was actually there and not in the lack of it. The next step in our
exercises, therefore, must be to find the blind spots, the gaps, the places
which wre avoid in the feel of ourselves. Again take stock of the whole of
your body, and observe which parts you jump over or you do not feel.
Can you feel, for instance, the expression on your face? What sensations
have you in your mouth? How much of your pelvis region do you feel?
Are you aware of the existence of your genitals? Of your anus?
You avoid all these “feels” because you do not want to feel. Find out
what you want to avoid and how you manage to avoid the real feel. Do
you let your attention wander too quickly? Do you imagine sensations
like cotton wool or being frozen? Do you notice, once you try to hold
your attention to a spot, that you run away into thinking, day-dreaming,
sleeping or deprecation (“that’s all bunk”), or do you remember suddenly
another urgent duty? Unmask all these tricks as means of avoiding the
contact of your “Ego” with other parts of yourself.1
' This concentration method is, with or without the help of an analyst, the very
way to cure sexual frigidity. There is no case of sexual dissatisfaction with sufficient
awareness of genital contact. In every case the attention is consumed by either
some kind of fear, or thinking, or experimenting. This, in my opinion, is the actual
basis of the castration complex. The castration memories are pure rationalizations.
One can bring the feel of the penis into existence without digging up one single
castration threat. The basis for this sexual frigidity is a negation: the genital
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The anal sensations are much less intense than the genital ones. Al¬
though their disfunction does not create very conspicuous symptoms, it
is yet responsible for a number of neurotic disturbances. The anal numb¬
ness is part of a vicious circle. The training in cleanliness, or lack of
courage to go to the lavatory whenever you feel like it, induces you to
avoid the feel of the urge. The decreased feel increases the danger of being
surprised by the urge, chiefly in the state of excitement, therefore one
completely locks the bowels by rigid control. In some cases the numbness
is so complete that people have completely forgotten how an urge to
defaecate feels. They invariably show signs of a paranoid character,
although the anal link of the paranoic mechanism is more centred in the
numbness during the defaecation process than in the lacking defaecation
urge.
One condition for the cure of the paranoid nucleus is the proper feel
of the defaecation process, of the contact between faeces and anus. Failing
the proper contact, a pathological confluence—an inability to discriminate
between inside and outside—will result. With the assistance of this new
insight, cases which looked hopeless made an excellent recovery and
achieved a cure of their disintegrated personality. I doubt whether this
could have been achieved otherwise. In any case, their analysis took a
considerably shorter time. In our concentration exercises, therefore, I
stress the utmost importance of the anal concentration, which is not
easy, as the numbness in many a person has attained such a degree that
they do not feel anything at all in that region.
Once you have realized that you feel nothing, try again and again to
penetrate the veil, the numbness, the cotton wool feeling, or whatever
resistance you have created between your “mind” and “body.” Once
you manage to make menial contact, you proceed as in the other concen¬
tration exercises: watch for development and mainly for sensations like
itches or heat, which want to come to the surface, and against which
you will find yourself contracting again.
Next comes the most important point, namely, to feel the functioning
of the defaecation, to feel the passing out of the faeces and their contact
with the passage. Once this feel is established, the vicious circle of the
paranoid metabolism is interrupted, the recognition of projections facili¬
tated and this pathological place of confluence is fenced and censored.
The following speculation might also be of assistance: the anal numb¬
ness resembles the oral frigidity. Generally speaking, the numbness in
defaecation corresponds to the disgust. Thus, whenever you find something
to be wrong with the process of defaecation, make an attempt to get hold
of the parallel phenomenon in the oral sphere. My investigations point
orgasmic sensation was at one time so strong that it became intolerable. Add to
this a shyness in making the corresponding noises and movements, and you can
easily realize the result: an urge to avoid those strong feelings.
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It has been more and more realized that the very unpleasant phenomenon
“insomnia” cannot be cured by drugs, relaxation, silence, dark curtains
or the counting of sheep. Admittedly in the single incident these “remedies”
frequently induce a kind of unconsciousness resembling sleep, yet contrary
to the purpose of sleep: to give rest and freshness. Occasional nights of
sleeplessness should not be called insomnia and should under no condition
be treated as a neurotic symptom. I would like the term “Insomnia”
reserved for a state, where the majority of nights are considerably disturbed,
and “Chronic Insomnia” where for a lengthy period rarely a night is slept
through. Only real insomnia should be remedied. As all the above-
mentioned prescriptions are never able to cure insomnia, I propose to
approach the question of insomnia from a different angle altogether.
If the organism is invaded by bacteriae, you will find their enemies,
the leucocytes, in the blood increased; if somebody has incorporated too
much alcohol, he might vomit. Would you regard the increased leucocytes
or the vomiting as phenomena of illness and would you try to suppress
them? You rather would, I am sure, look for the meaning, which in both
cases is unambiguously: organismic self-defence. Insomnia in most cases
is not an illness, but a sympton of a long-range health policy of the
organism in the service of holism. All dopes, be they medicine or a night¬
cap or reading before falling asleep, are means of suppression, contrary
to the needs of the organism.
A statement to the effect that sleeplessness is not a pathological but a
curative symptom, arouses in most people the same bewilderment which
we experienced once upon a time, when we learnt that the earth but not
the sun is moving. Before, however, I am in a position to prove that my
apparently paradoxical statement is correct, I have to say a few words
about rest. You will agree with me that the aim of sleep is rest, and that
drugs produce a paralysis rather than rest. The search for a drug which
leaves the patient without headaches and dizziness is a clear indication of
this. The striving for rest is but one expression of the often mentioned
general tendency of our organism to restore its balance by eliminating a
disturbing influence, or by concluding an unfinished situation. How long
are you interested in a cross-word puzzle? Exactly up to that moment
when you have finished the problem and the solved puzzle becomes an
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yet the realization of this fact helps considerably even in the case of
insoluble problems. Then there is always the possibility that the situation
may be finished by resigning oneself to the inevitable—to the fact that
nothing can be done about it.
The other day I read the definition that insomnia is sleeplessness plus
worries. This is correct for the obsessional character, but insomnia affects
other types as well. It occurs very frequently in neurasthenia. You all
know that worries keep you awake and that a worrier seldom obtains
restful sleep. This is no small wonder, as the worrier is characterized by
his general inability to finish situations, to take action.
It is a mistaken idea to assume that closing one’s eyes induces sleep.
Just the opposite is the case. Shutting the eyes does not induce sleep, but
sleep induces the closing of the eyes. This is sometimes so intense during
a boring lecture, especially on a hot day or late in the evening, that it is
hardly possible to keep one’s eyes open. People who complain about
insomnia will then often be the first to fall asleep.
The dream is a compromise between sleep and the incomplete situation.
One finds, for instance, that a person who wets his bed, always completes
his urge to urinate by the dream of being in a lavatory. In this case, at
least, I am convinced you will not defend sleep at any price. On the con¬
trary, the obstacle in the cure of bed-wetting is the child’s reluctance to
interrupt its sleep. With a bit more insomnia, much suffering could be
spared for both parents and child.
XIV
STAMMERING
All people stammer. Of course, few will realize this, and often enough
the stammering will be so slight as to pass unnoticed. Even the gushing
society lady who spills her meaningless words and phrases all over the
show, drowning one in a powerful stream of trivialities—even she might
sometimes become stunned, flabbergasted, lost for an expression and might
then begin to stutter. You all know the speaker who hesitates, searching
for an expression, and fills the gaps of time with his “Er—er,” or by
stammering.
Stammering is another variation of the theme: inadequate self-expres¬
sion. We find occasional stammering through embarrassment and self-
consciousness. The same person wrho spoke fluently to you a few minutes
ago in an animated conversation will stammer piteously when called upon
to make a public speech. Therefore what will be said about the chronic
stammerer will apply, to a lesser degree, to all those whose speech is
impeded only in certain situations.
The chronic stammerer is characterized by his impatience, undeveloped
sense of time and by his inhibited aggression. His words do not flow in
a properly timed sequence; he has his mind and mouth crowded with a
heap of words all waiting to come out at once. This is the exact counterfeit
of his greediness, of his desire to swallow everything at once. In every
stammerer one finds, as the remainder of this greediness, a tendency to
inhale whilst speaking, thus betraying his inclination to swallow again
even his owm words. The stammerer will always use his teeth insuffi¬
ciently; his aggression, deprived of its natural function, will search for
queer outlets. Often the stammerer can produce a difficult word after
he had a short outburst of violent aggression. He might, for instance,
hit one hand hard with the other or violently grind his teeth, or stamp
with his foot. This sort of aggression has the same brand of impatience
which is the main characteristic of his stammering. The picture changes
completely, however, when he flies into a violent temper. As soon as he
is ready to give vent to his aggression, he suddenly finds he has the means
at his disposal, and he shouts and swears fluently without a trace of
stammering.
There is another condition where he can, likewise, be free of stammering:
when his language does not express any emotion, or when the motor
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(i) Inhale and exhale without any interference or action but be aware
and distinguish between intake and outlet. There must be no strain
or exaggeration. Simply lie down and concentrate on the “feel”
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would first empty the basin completely of its dirty contents. Exactly the
same fastidiousness should apply to breathing.
In the state of excitement or anxiety the oxygen metabolism is in¬
creased, therefore the residual air (the not exhaled rest) contains more
C02 (carbon dioxide) than normally. This bad air has first to be eliminated
before the (oxygen containing) fresh air can make sufficient contact with
the alveolae of the lungs. Increased inhalation therefore is useless. The
conclusion is evident: exhale first as thoroughly as possible. The following
inhaling will come without an effort; it will be the deeply welcomed relief
for which you were longing.
A frequent complication of anxiety is the projection of both the chest’s
narrowness and the organism’s oxygen-hunger. This complication is
called “claustrophobia.” The oxygen hunger is experienced as desire for
open air, the armour of the chest as the inability to remain in confined
spaces. One of my patients, an air mechanic, whenever he got excited
could not even stay in an aeroplane hangar, although there could be no
lack of oxygen supply.
Orthodox psycho-analysis interprets confined spaces as symbols of the
womb or vagina. Such an interpretation is correct in certain cases, but
contributes little to the cure of claustrophobia. There one has:
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The adult, to secure his sustenance, has to deal with innumerable “means
whereby,” of which the earning of his livelihood is but one.
In most cases the “endgain” and the “means whereby” it is obtained,
have been welded into one psycho-physical unit. As long as this unit is
working satisfactorily, the organism does not experience the need for
revising a process which feels familiar or “right.” But such satisfactory
working can be deceptive; I have given many examples of this. If you
cannot fall asleep, your means whereby to induce sleep are drugs or the
determination to sleep, whilst actually the insomnia itself is a “means
whereby” for the “endgain”: conclusion of unfinished situations.
We realize that a house cannot be built without the material required;
we understand that the organism in its striving for gratification develops
the instruments whereby the satisfaction can be achieved; in all these
cases we accept easily that the “means whereby” and the “endgain” are
parts of one whole. But to this rule there is at least one exception where
the “means whereby” are either neglected or applied in an anti-biological
manner: idealism, which is an attitude apparently concentrated entirely
on the endgain. I say apparently, because as soon as one examines more
closely the individual cases of idealism, one finds the ideals themselves
to be the means whereby the need for affection, appreciation and admira¬
tion is being gratified. Even if the bearer of high ideals maintains that he
is striving for perfection for its own sake, he is usually mistaken; he wants
to be in God’s good books, or he gratifies his vanity by picturing himself
as perfect.
He is incapable of accepting himself as he is, because he has lost the
“feel of himself” and with that the drive for biological endgains. Having
lost the awareness of his biological being he must invent a “meaning of
life” to justify his existence. These invented aims, called ideals uncon¬
nected with his biological reality—float in the air, and any endeavour to
realize them will leave him with a feeling of inferiority, impotency and
even despair. Those biological aims which either are not yet or cannot
be repressed are, at the same time, experienced as interfering with his
ideals and are fought to the point of exhaustion. Result: nervous break¬
downs and impulsive explosions.
Parents, by upholding impossible standards of behaviour, turn the fife
of their children into hell. They make the fundamental mistake of striving
for perfection instead of for development. With their idealistic, ambitious
attitude they achieve the opposite of their intentions; they arrest the
development, spread confusion and promote inferiority feelings.
There is a famous book which shows the catastrophic results of idealism
clearly enough, if you only understand it correctly: the story of Dr. Jekyll
and Mr. Hyde. Dr. Jekyll represents an ideal, not a human being. He is
an unselfish benefactor of mankind, loyal in spite of frustrations, and
chaste in the face of strong instincts. To materialize his ideal he uses the
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Index of Names
Abraham, K., 85, 129 Jones, E., 62
,
Adler, A., 67, 73, 75, 92, 94 10I> l6°, Joule, J. P., 21
Jung, C. G., 27, 72, 102, 218, 221
169
Alexander, F. M., 47, 67, ioo, 112, 125,
151, 180, 181, 186, 230, 269, 270 Kant, I., 14
Avenarius, 21 Koehler, W., 26, 27
Korsakow, 66
Bacon, W., 12 Korzybski, 212
Benedikt, Th., 75
Bergson, H., 66,67, 84,86,212,251,281 Landauer, K., 69, 81, 248
Bonaparte, M., 85 Leibniz, 32
Busch, W., 235 Leverrier, 86
Lewin, K., 101
Chaplin, Ch., 29, 121
Churchill, W., 214 Mach, E., 21
Coue, 234, 260 Marcuse, F., 49
Cronin, 171 Marx, K., 14, 128, 136
Mauthner, F., 21
D’Alembert, 21 Moreno, 222
Dante, 68 Moses, 119, 120
Deutsch, H., 130, 143
Doyle, Conan, 32 Nietzsche, F., 57
Nordinger, S., 20
Eddington, A. I., 20
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Hegel, 14 Sterba, 138
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Heisenberg, 20 Ternus, 32
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