Understanding The Self
Understanding The Self
Understanding The Self
Nature differs from Nurture, since in Nature, a person develops his/her characteristics biologically
(something that has developed starting from the birth of the child), while in Nurture, a person develops
his/her characteristics through the external factors, such as the environment and the society (family,
friends, relatives, etc.).
Identity, also, differs from Self, as what the readings say, Identities are “qualities, characteristics, beliefs,
opinions, etc., that make a person unique from others.” These is what is distinguishable by others, or
what they perceive to us through our actions. Self, on the other had, is the “person of himself/herself,”
meaning, it is what the others didn’t see in you, because this is personal character; this is what makes up
a person.
There are 4 different dimensionalities of self, namely social factor, environmental factor, hereditary
factor, and person-volition factor. Social factors are the factors in the development of a person which
includes all the person around us, like our family members, relatives, friends, teachers or professors, and
even strangers, that might create an impression to you or affects your actions and thoughts in life.
Environmental factors are the factors in the development of a person that includes the environmental
structure, events, and such, which might give an impact on how a person could grow in all the aspects of
his/her life. Hereditary factors are the factors in the development of the person that includes biological
changes and events, such as growth in height, puberty (growing of pubic hair, deeper voices for male,
broadening of hips and start of menstruation for female, etc.) that usually affects the physical
characteristics of a person. Lastly, the Person-volition factors are the inclination of a person creates a
social construct which sets him apart to others.
Socrates believed that the real self is not the physical body,
but rather the psyche, or the soul.
Plato, a student of Socrates, also studied and explained
thoroughly what is the true essence of self, which is then founded by
his mentor. Plato suggested that the “self is fundamentally an
intellectual entity whose nature exists independent from physical
world.”
Furthermore, Aristotle, student of Plato, explained
thoroughly how we could see the essence of self. Aristotle suggested
that the ideal is subsumed in the phenomena. Aristotle called the ideal
as essence, and the phenomena as the matter. He emphasized that
these 2 co-exist, and is dependent with one another.
Two lens of Philosophy of Self in Greek Times:
Rationalism – explains self from the standpoint of what
is ideal and true, and what not is rooted with senses.
Empiricism – according to it, there is no such thing as
innate knowledge; all knowledge are derived from experience –
through five senses or what is perceived by our brain.
Towards Modern Philosophy
St. Augustine incoporated the views of Plato to his religious
philosophy.
John Locke, David Hume, and Immanuel Kant were empiricists
philosophers.
Rène Descartes was a dominant rational philosopher during the
Middle Ages
Contemporary philosophers have incorporated science to their
theories in the light of the technological advancements that they have
been exposed to.
Majority of contemporary philosopher were empiricists:
Gilbert Ryle, Patricia Churchland, and Maurice Merleau-
Ponty have incorporated biological and neuroscience in their
philosophies.
Section 3: What Science says about the Self
Natural and social sciences encompass a number of disciplines that have deliberated on and explained
the concet and nature of the self.
Biological/Physiological Sciences
Neurophilosophy (attributed to Paul and Patricia Churchland) is concerned with the association of the
brain and the mind.
Psychoneuroimmunology describes the shaping of the self as similar to how the human immune system
functions.
Social Sciences
Psychology defined as the study of human behavior, sees the self as a theoretical construct.
Psychoanalysis (proposed by Sigmund Freud) focuses on the “unconscious” as a core element of the self.
Behaviorism maintains that the study of behavior should be made from an observable and measurable
perspective.
Social Cognitive Theory considers behavior as a function of the environment and internal attributes.
Humanistic Perspective draws its assumptions from the observed criticisms of psychoanalysis and
behaviorism. It believes that every individual has the ability to reach self-actualization and
transcendence, and that each person is inherently good or possesses something that is good.
Sociology is the study of the collective behavior of people within the society and focuses on social
problems encountered by individuals.
Anthropology is the study of human beings and their ancestors through time and space and in relation
to physical character, environmental and social relations, and culture.
Political Science (PolSci) is concerned with the participation of individuals in establishing a government
and making politicl choices.
Economics describes and analyzes the production, distribution, and consumption of goods and services.
This module tackles two important representations of self: the physical and sexual. The first section
identifies biological and environmental factors that affect the physical self as well as issues and
challenges that individuals face with regard to their physical characteristics. The second section
discusses sexual attributes, characteristics, gender, and responsible sexual behavior.
Section 1: The Physical Self
This section identifies and explains the biological and environmental factors that shape the physical self.
It also delves into socio-cultural issues associated with physical well-being.
Heredity is defined as the transmission of traits from parents to offspring. The traits are made up of
specific information embedded within one’s gene.
Genotype refers to the specific information embedded within one’s genes; not all genotypes translate to
an observed physical characteristic.
Each individual carries 23 pairs of chromosomes, which are threadlike bodies in the nucleus of the cell
and the storage unit of genes. The 23rd pair, also known as sex chromosomes, determines the sex of an
individual.
Within each chromosome is the deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA), which is a nucleic acid that contains the
genetic instructions specifying the biological development of every individual.
Maturation is known as the completion of growth of a genetic character within an organism or the
unfolding of an individual’s inherent traits or potential.
Environmental Conditioning
As you grow up, you are exposed to environmental influences that shape yoir physical self, including
those from your social networks, societal expectations, and cultural practices.
Family, being your first social group, forms a crucial foundation of your development, including that of
your physical self.
As you grow older, you get exposed to a larger social group with new practices and standards. As a
result, you may begin engaging in acts that would make you attractive and acceptable to others.
One aspect of physical beauty is a person’s body type. Contemporary media has portrayed slim bodies
as the ideal body type for women and muscular bodies for men. Thus, adolescents indulge in activities
that would enable them to achieve these ideal body types.
However, some adolescents may resort to unhealthy habits just to achieve the ideal body type. It is
important to remember that physical beauty is only skin-deep; that what matters is feeling good about
oneself and embracing a healthy perception of one’s physical worth.
Healthy eating. Following a healthy diet results in healthy skin, ideal weight, and better stamina.
Embracing a healthy lifestyle. Physical activities such as walking, running, going to the gym, and
engaging in sports also contribute to a healthier body.
Maintaining proper hygiene. Taking care of your body by consistently following a hygiene regimen can
also help you feel good about yourself.
Being confident. Be secure in yourself, embrace a positive outlook toward various situations and
problems, and love and accept who you are.
This section tackles one of the most crucial aspects of human development, the sexual self. It highlights
biological and environmental factors that shape sexual development. Tips on regulating sexual behavior
are also provided.
At birth, the sexual genital (penis for male, vagina for female) is a biological feature that distinguishes
males from females. Moreover, during puberty, observable changes in the human body also known as
secondary sexual characteristics begin.
When physiological changes are trigerred within the adolescent’s reproductive system, he or she is likely
to experience sexual urges, become more sensitive to sexual stimuli, and feel sexual arousal.
Humans are likely to engage in sexual activities to satisfy sexual urges. However, the kind of sexual
activities they engage in may vary.
A person should be aware of his/her sexuality and sexual attributes in order to make responsible
decisions. Adolescents need to realize the importance of having informed choices.
Biological sex is one’s assignment upon birth and is dependent on physical feature. On the other hand,
gender is an identity that is learned and embraced by individual.
Gender roles refer to societal expectations of how men and women should act. Everyone has a basic
idea of gender roles: men are assumed to be strong and dominant while women are perceived to be
submissive and demure.
Sexual identity and gender orientation underlie one’s concept of self. A person expresses his or her
sexuality through individuality; one’s belief and behavioral lifestyle are based on his or her own
perceptions of sexuality.
Sexual intercourse (copulation) is the reproductive act in which the male organ (penis) enters the
female’s reproductive tract (vagina). Adolescents couples who engage in sexual intercourse are usually
overwhelmed by the sensations they feel during the act.
However, if the woman is fertile during the time of intercourse, pregnancy is likely to occur and it lasts
approximately nine months before the birth of the child. Having a child entails a big responsibility and
should not merely be a consequence of an impulsive moment. Physical risks to having an early
pregnancy may impact an adolescent’s development, including miscarriage, emotional stress, and health
risks to both mother and infant.
Aside from pregnancy, another consequence of impulsive and careless sexual intercourse is the risk of
acquring sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs). Among common STDs are:
Syphilis
Gonorrhea
Chlamydia
Genital Warts
The most alarming sexually transmitted disease is the acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS)
caused by the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV). It can be transmitted by contact between broken
skin, wounds, or mucous membranes and HIV-infected blood or blood-contaminated body fluids.
It is important that everyone makes responsible decisions with regard to sexuality and sexual behavior.
Responsible sexual behavior entails the following:
Respect for one’s body. It means taking care of one’s body and avoiding activities that undermine one’s
worth and respect.
Maturity in thoughts and deeds. It refers to being objective, rational, and calm, instead of being swept
by one’s emotion.
Being guided by one’s personal beliefs and core values. Everyone, especially an adolescent, should
always be grounded by his/her personal principles and self-worth.
Being future-oriented. Instead of focusing on the present, a person should always weigh his or her
present actions with possible consequences in the future.
This module focuses on the social aspects of the self. As social beings, individuals interact with others
and relate themselves to other people. Social institutions and environments significantly contribute to
one’s identity and self-development. Among millenial learners, technology and the internet have
significantly influenced their social environments and, consequently, their sense of self. In this module,
the cultural, digital, and economic aspects of one’s life and how they influence a person’s social self will
be put to light. This module aims to provide learners with a deeper understanding of themselves
through a socio-cultural perspective.
This section discusses the social and environmental factors that shape oneself. This included
environmental systems, cultural orientations, and other social factors that play a crucial role to one’s
self.
Human development is largely influenced by membership in crucial social groups that shape various
aspects of the self; from belief systems, values orientation, and behavior.
At the beginning of life, one already belongs to a social group: his/her family. It is the most pervading
influential social group that impacts the self in its entire course of development. The views one holds
about the world, values upheld in making choices ane decisions, and the habits and persistent behavior
one carries have been formed in the context of one’s family and home environment.
Next to family, schools and the general academic environment form a sgnificant part of the social self.
Worldviews expand as one gets exposed to more people in different social learning environment.
Knowledge and social skills gained from mentors, relatives, and peers contribute to how the social self is
harnessed.
Aside from one’s family and school environments, communities also shape one’s social self to a large
extent.
The social seld inevitably changes as one accomodates and eventually assimilates beliefs promoted by
the society as he/she thinks, appreciates, and behaves according to standards set by micro and
macrosystems.
Culture
“Culture is the complex whole which includes knowledge, belief, law, art moral, custom, and other
capabilities and habits acquired by man as a member of society.” (Tylor, 1871)download (1)
To further understand the nature of culture and its influences on oneself, the following models illustrate
how culture functions in relation to one’s social self.
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Individualism-Collectivism Model
markus_hazelphotoAnother model that highlights the impact of culture to the self is the Individualism-
Collectivism model proposed by Hazel Markus and Shinobu Kitayama (1991).
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According to the model, individualism as an orientation focuses on one’s individual attributes and
personal distinctiveness. People who are individualistic are observed to be competitive and self-reliant.
On the other hand, the collectivist orientation values relationships and harmony. People who are
collectivistic prioritize interests to maintain healthy relationships.
I vs. Me
One’s behavior when he or she is alone differs from his or her behavior when he or she is with others.
This is what Herbert Mead (1934) posited in his theory of the social self. He posited that the self is
divided into 2 parts: the I which is known as the unsocialized self, and the Me which is known as the
socialized self.
The I is manifested when one acts naturally for his/her own motivations and not because of others. On
the other hand, the Me is the awareness of how others expect one to behave. This is also known as the
social self.
These different models present ideas on the process of the self’s social development. Studying these
models helps in understanding oneself and other people. It is not ideal, however, to generalize a certain
culture based on these models.
Section 2: The Socio-Digital Self
This section examines the role of technology and the internet in shapong an individual’s social self, with
emphasis on the use of social media platforma and membership in virtual communities. This section
highlights the crucial role of the internet in forming the self and identity of millenial learners.
Social media is defined as the websites and applications that make it easier to create and share
information, ideas, and interests. It also allows people to create other forms of self-expression via virtual
communities and networks.
Through the use of social media, people may act differently since interaction in social media do not
happen face-to-face and there is no physical presence required. This is called online disembodiment.
With this, people are less likely to display their real “selves” to others, especially to strangers.
Digital Identity
People generally have role identities. These are the characters and roles an individual creates as a
member of a particular social group. Following this definition, “self” is composed of identities ranked by
importance. The greater the commitment of an individual to a particular identity, the greater the
importance of this identity.
In an online environment, one’s role identity is vitally important in order for him/her to project
himself/herself in the said environment. Amidst the technological tools and channels surrounding
individuals and online activities that people engage in, one’s online identity enables him/her to
participate in a virtual society.
However, participation in virtual environments may entail changes that may affect a person’s sense of
self. In some cases, people present themselves differently in online interactions as compared to the
face-to-face interactions they engage in.
When people afopt fake identities, they are likely to engage in behaviors that they would not do in real
life interactions, known as online disinhibition.
There are 2 main categories of behaviors that fall under online disinhibition:
Benign disinhibition. It occurs when people tend to self-disclose more on the internet than they would in
real life or go out of their way to help someone or show kindness.
Toxic disinhibition. People take part of this when they use rude language, bully or threaten others on
online platforms, and go to websites with contents of violence, crime, and pronography.
How can one behave responsibly online? The following are some suggestions:
Be careful witg oversharing, especially confidential information that may be used irresponsibly.
Cognition
People are born with innate capabilities that empower them to
manage themselves in various settings and situations.
Cognition is a crucial part of an individual’s development process
which influences behavior, just as how behavior also impacts it,
assuming bi-directional connection. The way information is taken in and
how it is analyzed and processed is a function of human cognition.
Cognition is defined as the complex array of mental processes
involved in remembering, perceiving, thinking, and how these processes
are employed (Ashcraft & Radvansky, 2010). It is an umbrella term to
cover all high-order thinking processes.
Memory
If cognition covers all higher-order thinking processes within an
individual, a major focus of its study is the function of memory. It is tbe
faculty of the mind through which information is acquired and retained for
later use.
Memory functions in 3 levels:
Sensory memory is the level that allows infomation from
the external environment to be perceived by an individual through
senses, usually in the form of chemical and physical stimuli, often with
focus and intent.
Short-term, working memory is where information is
temporarily stored, where information is simultaneously remembered
and is in a readily-available state, typically from 10 to 15 seconds, up
to one minute. It can store up to 5-9 items, after whic information is
discarded if there is no conscious and deliberate effort to retain it.
When there is a deliberate effort to store information and it
is done consistently and with practice, then this information is
transferred to long-term memory. Information stored in long-term
memory is often permanent and allows for repeated retrievals across
situations.
Intelligence
The term is referred to as an individual’s capacity for
understanding, learning, planning, and problem solving with logic,
creativity, and self-awareness.
It is characterized as the appkication of knowledge to be able to
adjust to the environment.
It is the process of applying knowledge in the proper context
whenever the need arises.
A number of theories have already been presented regarding
intelligence.
Howard Gardner’s theory of Multiple Intelligences
Section 2: Human Learning
This section provides an overview of human learning, the factors that
contribute to the learning process, and how its shapes the individual self.
Learning
If cognition, memory, and intelligence are underlying mechanisms
that allow people to perceive, process, and apply information for daily
adaptation, then learning is a natural consequence of these mechanisms.
Learning is defined as a relatively permanent change in a
person’s knowledge or behavior as a result of experience. This definition
connote 3 things:
1. The change is long-term
2. The source of change comes from within the external
structures of memory or knowledge of the individual.
3. The change is attributed to the personal experiences of the
learner in his/her environment.
People learn in many ways, and several theories and models
have been forwarded to understand and explain how learning occurs.
One such theory is the social cognitive theory which emphasizes the
value of the social environment in one’s learning process that is built on
observational learning. Based on this theory, there are 4 stages in
obsrvational learning:
1. When an individual focuses on information that he/she
perceives to be interesting and useful (Attention),
2. Stores and gives a mental representation of the information
(Retention),
3. Recalls and rehearses the information given (Motor
Reproduction), and
4. Repeats the entire process constantly and consistently
(Motivation), then learning happens.
Learning happens even beyond the classroom; it happens in daily
situations. According to the social cognitive theory, there is an interaction
of personal (cognition, personality, motivational,
orientation), environmental (family, schools and other settings, peers and
social relationships), and behavioral factors (feedback and
consequence) that accounts for behavioral change.
The notion of learning is underlined by notions of self-efficacy and
human agency. Self-efficacy is defined as the extent to which people
believe that they can confidently learn and master a particular skill.
Human Emotions
Emotional Intelligence
Self-awareness
Self-management
Social awareness
Relationship management
Self-perception
Self-expression
Interpersonal
Decision-making
Stress management
Rumination
Distraction
Acceptance
Problem solving
Behavioral avoidance
Experential avoidance
Expressive suppression
Reappraisal
Mindfulness
Worry
Spirituality
The concept of the “whole person” is usually associated to the idea of human
beings as having physical ans psychological aspects. However, there is third
aspect of being human that is as important as the 2 precedents: the spiritual
aspect.
There are several definitions that have been formulated regarding spirituality.
Myers and his colleagues (2000), spirituality is the “personal and private
beliefs that transcend the material aspects of life and give a deep sense of
wholeness, connectedness, and openness to the infinite.”
Spirituality talks about meaning and purpose that go beyond the physical
realities of life. Going through development, people are inevitably programmed
to make realizations about life, and those insights are not always about
observable phenomena or environmental experiences.
Spirituality talks about the sacred and transcendent. It is a general belief that
in this vast universe, there is a force higher than the self.
However, people are not born with innate spirituality. It is something acquired
as a result of various personal, social, and environmental factors present
throughout one’s lifetime. In this regard, spirituality is related to religiosity,
which is often used interchangeably with the former. There are, however,
distinct differences between the 2.
However, as one grows older, he/she begins to form questions that are rooted
in religious orientations, slowly making realizations and insights until his/her
search for meaning and transcendence goes beyond his/her religious
orientation.
In religiosity, beliefs and practices are within religious groups, and religious
commitment, conservatism, and skepticism are manifested. Spiritual attributes
include the need for spiritual quest, ecumenical worldviews, compassion,
service, and inner peace.
A person can possess spirituality even his/she doed not subscribe to any
religion. Spiritual models are present everywhere. They function for
respondents as exemplars or spiritual qualities, such as compassion, self-
control, or faith. Thus, q person can be spiritual without being religious.
What does spirituality bring to one’s life? For many people, the search for
sacredness and transcendence can bring positive consequences to life. A
spiritual person finds contentment and serenity in his/her life circumstances.
Through spirituality, questions such as “am I a good person?” and “how can I
live my life to the fullest?” are answered. Most importantly, spirituality allows
one to become resilient amidst challenges and roadblocks that occur in daily
life.
How is spirituality enhanced? The best way of enhancing spiritualith lies within
the self. Constant reflection and meditation of life choices and decisions,
developing emphaty and compassion toward other people, and having faith in
a higher being can enhance spiritual intelligence. It is not about finding
meaning in life, but rather, how meaning is applied to life.
This section discusses the natural affinity people have with nature and similar
constructs, the factors that contribute to such connections, how these relations
to nature are manifested, and how they can be enhanced in the context of
one’s spirituality.
The spiritual self is not only tied in one’s connection with a higher being and
other people; it is also related to how people relates to nature.
Affinity with nature can be defined as the ties that bind people and nature
together. It can also mean nature connectedness, defined as the extent to
which individuals include nature as part of their identity. If people feel that they
are one with nature, then destroying it can mean self-destruction and vice
versa.
While it is fairly obvious that both concepts focus on the connection of man to
nature, their distinction lies on the nature of the connection they are referring
to.
Affinity with nature highlights the emotional connection with nature, anchored
on positive affective experiences and authentic love for nature.
Just like other aspects of self, these are brought about by experiences with
nature and observations about the environment.
Locations are also account for tge environmental values and attitudes an
individual has; individuals living in rural areas are more likely to be mindful of
the environment, compared to urban residents.
How are connections with nature established and improved?
It is not enough that one simply conforms to what society says about taking
care of the environment. Developing an open mind and adopting a
philosophical perspective that advocates for environmental protection and
sustainability is important.
While not all people are meant for being active environmental advocates,
incremental behaviors toward protecting the environment cam go a long way.
In taking care of nature, an individual also takes care of himself/herself, thus
contributing to optimal, healthy development.
Human beings are naturally inclined to assess their life, reflect on tbe choicee
they have made, evaluate tge consequences of such choicee, and learn
lessons from various experiences.
Well-being and life satisfaction are interchangeably used but there is a thin
line that distinguishes one from the other.
Life satisfaction is also intrinsic but in this case, it is the general attitude
towards life. When well-being and life satisfaction are present, happiness
naturally flow.
Life satisfaction can refer to the desire to change one’s life, satisfaction with
the past, satisfaction with the future, and significany other’s views of one’s life
(Diener, et al., 1999). It is also associated with quality of life.
How well-being and life satisfaction achieved? Research has cited many
factors that influence how they can be achieved.
Personal factors such as personality (such as openness to experience and
extraversion), cognition, physical health, and vigor have been associated with
well-being and life satisfaction.
What are the characteristics of people who have a high level of well-being and
life satisfaction? Literature has posited a variety of qualitues associtee to such
individuals:
Self-direction and productivity. Making surr their golas and behaviors are
aligned to their core values and conscious beliefs of themselves.
This module discusses the facets of the self other than the commonly known
ones which are the biological, social, mental, emotional, and spiritual. It
particularly covers two of the emerging facets of the self rooted personal
development: the political and the digital self. This module intends to make
students understand and appreciate their responsibilities as citizens of the
country and of global and virtual communities.
Section 1: The Political Self: Developing Active Citizenship
As Aristotle stated, “man is, by nature, a political animal.” This is because man
is a social being and that people naturally drawn to various political
involvements in order to satisfy their social needs.
The political is also personal. One’s personal choices reflect his/her personal
politics; both are indistinguishable.
Politics goes hand in hand with the society. Politics pervades the structure of
society, and thus influences inhabitants in their beliefs, ethics, and behavior.
However, the political self is not only shaped by one’s political affiliation or
beliefs. One’s sense of accountability should be manifested in promoting
certain advocacies through healthy political engagement. This is aligned with
the concept of active citizenship.
Active Citizenship
The most important goal of active citizenship is to instill change and influence
societt at large.
For the younger generation, active citizenship can contribute to their social
develoment. Engaging in such activities can also enhance effiacy and
competence of the younger generation, as they are considered to be the
“future leaders” of the society. The participation of the youth in nation-building
activities enhances their value orientation and fosters integrity, compassion,
and the sense of justice, which are crucial to the holistic development of a
citizen of a nation.
This module discusses how an individual is able to forsee the future on the
basis of experiences and present behavior. Using the Possible Selves theory
and Time Perspectives theory as backdrops, this module explores future
possibilities open and how one can himself or herself to changes in the present
to embrace that future.