Personal Development Week 1-2
Personal Development Week 1-2
Personal Development Week 1-2
LEARNING OUTCOMES:
1. Define personal development and personality development.
2. Compare and contrast personal development from personality development.
3. Discuss the areas of personal development.
4. Explain personal development of an adolescent.
DEFINITION OF TERMS
Personal development and personality development are overlapping and interweaving concepts.
In order to fully distinguish one term from the other, the following must be clearly defined.
Examples:
I would like to share my personal opinions.
Most of what I have are for personal effects.
I would like to spend my personal holidays abroad.
Examples:
We need people with pleasing personality.
People at the workplace have different personalities.
Oprah Winfrey is a well-known personality.
c. Development refers to the systematic use of scientific knowledge to meet specific objectives;
it is an act, process or result of developing or a process of social transformation that is based
on complex, cultural and environmental factors and their interactions.
Now that we have defined the terms personal, personality, and development, we can now
distinguish between personal development and personality development. Let’s discuss their differences
and their relation to us humans.
Personal development is the general development of body, attitude, identity, behavior, lifestyle,
and thought processes where one can develop the self or the areas that need to be reworked to become
suitable to the world. Personality development is a process of consciously pursuing personal growth and
development through diverse activities. Personal development is also a method of helping an individual
polish his/her existing personality trait.
Personality development is the systematic development of the organized pattern of thoughts,
feelings, behaviors and attitudes that makes a person unique or distinct from others. It occurs through the
continuous interaction of disposition, character, and environment.
Identifying which areas and skills you must develop is the key to effective personal development.
The following is a high-level list of areas of personal development. Each area is equally important to the
improvement of your life as an adolescent.
1. Health
This area is about your body. Health, as defined by the World Health Organization in
1948 (a definition that is still use today), is a state of complete physical, mental and social
well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.
You can improve your life by having a good healthy body. In order to develop good
physical health, you must have a healthy diet, exercise regularly, get enough sleep and rest,
and consistently take care of your body.
2. Finance
To live a comfortable life, maintain a family, or just follow your dreams it is fundamental
that you have enough money or good financial capacity. For this reason, it is important to
manage your finances until you reach financial independence.
Being a student with no source of income, you can begin developing your financial
independence by building a series of passive income systems that generate money every
month for your needs. This kind of system is usually difficult to develop at first, but after it
has been done, its rewards are high.
3. Sociability
Sociability is the tendency or quality of liking to meet and be in the company of other
people. Some people think that you must be born with this ability if you want to build
genuine relationships. In reality this is not true and social skills are just like any other skill:
you can learn and practice them. Being honest and genuine toward others is essential in
developing your sociability.
4. Spiritually
Modern spirituality may be misunderstood by the majority of us. Spirituality does not
mean going to the church or praying a lot of times. Spirituality means the quality of being
concerned with the human spirit as opposed to material or physical things. It involves the
development of the deepest values and meanings by which you will live. Developing
spirituality means to improve one’s own being by learning how to control your emotions,
exercising self-discipline, and making decisions that are not contrary to the values you have
chosen to live by.
5. Habits
A habit is a recurrent, often unconscious, pattern of behavior that is acquired through
frequent repetition. It is also an action done on a regular basis like drinking coffee or tea after
dinner or buying the same brand of soap, shampoo or toothpaste. Working hard, journal
writing, reading good books and magazines, doing regular exercise, or meditation are
examples of good habits while alcoholism, drug addiction, lethargy, procrastination, telling
lies, dishonesty, stealing, or deceiving others, and escapism are examples of bad habits.
Personal development plays an important role during the adolescence period. It is the period
when adolescents undergo significant changes in all areas of development. Adolescence is divided into
three stages: early, middle, and late adolescence. Individuals who are at age 10-13 are in their early
adolescence; those who are at age 14-16 are in their middle adolescence, and those who are at age 17-20
are in their late adolescence stage. At present, the world’s adolescent or youth population is at 1.8 billion
which constitutes 18% of the total global population (UN, 2015).
LEARNING OUTCOMES:
1. Explain the meaning of self.
2. Understand themselves better.
3. Define and understand personality.
4. Identify the varied ways of assessing personality.
WHAT IS “SELF”?
Have you heard the maxim “Know Thyself”? This has been attributed to Socrates, but it did not
actually originate from him. There is even an inscription of it on the frontispiece of the Temple of
Delphi. We often hear it, but can we say what is exactly mean by it?
This maxim denotes that you as a human being must examine your inner self and live according
to your beliefs and values. Knowing thyself means being aware of your strengths and weaknesses,
dreams and passions, and fears and failures. It means that you have to discover your quirks, peculiarities,
and positive and negative traits and understand them.
To put it simply, the term “self” refers to a person’s essential being, including one’s typical
character or behavior, which distinguishes the individual form others. It refers to attributes and abilities
that are not physical and that make a person unique.
If you want to improve your self-awareness and develop your potential, here are some steps that
you may follow.
DETERMINANTS OF PERSONALITY
In chapter 1, we defined personality as the set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts and motives that
identifies an individual. When you talk about “self” you are referring to your personality.
There are three major factors that influence personality development: biological factors, cultural
determinants of personality, and family influences on personality development.
(Biological traits are the foremost parameter which reflects various factors of one’s personality.
Being the essential determinant of personality, it incorporates a majority of other factors as well
which bring out the various insights about an individual. Some important constituents under the
physical determinants of personality are:
Hereditary: The features that can be determined from the time of conception are
generally put under hereditary. Sex, physical stature, temperament, muscle composition,
facial features, height etc are the characteristics that one usually inherits from parents.
Thus, through the hereditary approach, it is evident that the genes located in
chromosomes are the ultimate explanation of personality.
(Just as we are born with biological determinants, cultural determinants of personality are the ones which we grow
up with. The ritual and norms in the family, the early conditioning, the way we are raised up, the social group in
which we hang out are the factors which have an impactful emphasis on our personality formation. Each culture
trains and expects its members to behave and breathe in a way that is acceptable by society. Hence, factors like
aggression, independence, cooperation and competition are major cultural contributors to personality
determination. Thus, it is quite evident to filter out the individuals brought up in the western part of the world from
the citizens of our country as the cultures we have been brought up are poles apart. )
The most significant out of the different determinants of personality is that of familial. The
environment at home blended with the direct influence of the parents are the major
contributors to the traits that build our personality. A critical impact is driven by the family
especially in the early and naive age. For example, a child brought up in a violent household will
be quite different and emotionally and socially timid and cold as compared to a child reared in a
warm, adjusting and healthy environment.
Let us understand the importance of parents and family as crucial determinants of personality
with the help of the American-Australian Psychologist Walter Mischel’s theory:
Identification can be done by observing the similarity of the behaviour like feelings and
attitude between the child and their parents.
Identification can be viewed as the child’s desire and aspiration to be like their parents.
It can be looked as the method through which the child actually takes on the attributes
of the personality from their parents.
(THEREFORE, WE CAN BE INFER THAT THE TRAITS WE ACQUIRE AND THE PERSONALITY
WE DEVELOP DEPEND, ON THE WHOLE AND IN GENERAL, ON THE INTERACTION OF
BIOLOGICAL, CULTURAL, SOCIAL, AND ENVIRONMENTAL FACTORS PRESENT IN THE
FAMILY AND SOCIETY.)
Personality is affected by both nature and nurture. Nature refers to heredity or genetic make-up,
while nurture refers to environment. Personality is developed through the combined influences of
heredity, environmental factors, and cultural backgrounds. Thus, personality type can be determined by
many factors.
Psychology has identified factors that determine different personality traits. They are known as
the Big Five Factors. They are used to study and measure individual differences in personality. The Big
Five Factors are:
1. Openness – the appreciation for a variety of experiences;
2. Conscientiousness – planning ahead rather than being spontaneous;
3. Extraversion – being sociable, energetic and talkative;
4. Agreeableness – being kind, sympathetic and happy to help; and
5. Neuroticism – inclination to worry, be vulnerable, or temperamental.
The Big Five make up every individual’s personality; thus, there’s a little of each component in
every person. A person might have a bit of openness, a lot of conscientiousness, an average amount of
extraversion, plenty of agreeableness, and almost no neuroticism at all. Or someone could be
disagreeable, neurotic, introverted, conscientious, and hardly open at all. Let’s discuss what each trait
encompasses.
Openness to experience refers to being appreciative of varied and new experiences. People who
have a high level of openness to experience often enjoy going out of their comfort zone. They enjoy
adventure and seek new, unconventional, and unfamiliar experiences. They like travelling to new places
and learning different practices and cultures. They are curious, imaginative, and willing to try out new
things.
Conscientiousness is a measure of your tendency to control impulses as well as your
competence, sense of responsibility, orderliness, and drive for achievement. People who are high on
conscientiousness are organized and have a strong sense of duty. They are dependable, self-disciplined
and achievement-focused. To be conscientious is to be principled, responsible, and a and forward
thinker. Conscientious people are not impulsive; they persevere when faced with challenges. Those who
are low in conscientiousness are more spontaneous and freewheeling. They may tend toward
carelessness.
Conscientiousness is a helpful trait to have, as it has been linked to better health and well-being,
higher productivity, and success in school, on the job and life in general.
Extraversion is possibly the most recognizable personality trait. It indicates how outgoing and
social a person is. The more of an extravert someone is, the more sociable that person is. Extraverts are
chatty, friendly, and draw energy from crowds. They enjoy social gatherings and are the life of the party.
Introverts, on the other hand, need plenty of alone time, perhaps because their brains process social
interaction differently. Introversion is often confused with shyness, but the two are not alike. Shyness
implies a fear of social interactions or an inability to function socially. Introverts can be perfectly
charming at parties-- they just prefer solo or small-group activities.
Agreeableness is the tendency to be cooperative and compassionate toward others. It is the
measure of the extent of a person’s warmth and kindness. People who have a high level of agreeableness
are more likely to be warm, friendly, and tactful. They are also helpful, trusting, and compassionate.
They are generally optimistic and get along well with others.
People who have a low level of agreeableness tend to be cold, suspicious of others, and less
likely to cooperate. Being envious, which can lead to people being perceived as not agreeable, was
found to be the most common personality type out of the four studies by a report published in August
2016 in the Journal Science Advances.
Neuroticism refers to the tendency to be prone to psychological stress and to experience
unpleasant emotions easily. It is the degree of emotional stability and impulse control. People who are
high in neuroticism worry frequently and easily slip into anxiety and depression. They tend to find
things to worry about even if everything is going well. They may strive for perfection in their daily
activities and experience stress as a result of events that are beyond their control.
In contrast, people who are low in neuroticism tend to be emotionally stable and consistent. They
find it easier to remain calm and are less affected by stressful events.
PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT
There are other personality tests and evaluations for self-discovery that can help you become
more in tune to yourself and are also fun to do.
One tool that is exceptionally helpful is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). This tool
can help you understand yourself better by determining what drives some of your behaviors. It can also
help you understand and get along better with others.
Sensation and intuition refer to how people prefer to gather information about the world:
through concrete information (sensing) or emotion (intuition).
Thinking and feeling refer to how people make decisions. Thinking types go with logic, while
feeling types follow their hearts.
Extraversion and introversion refer to how people prefer to channel their energy when dealing
with people, whether it is inward (introversion) or outward (extraversion).
The Myers-Briggs system is rounded out with the judging/perception dichotomy, which
describes how people choose to interact with the world. Judging types like decisive action, while
perceiving types prefer open options. The MBTI system further identifies 16 personality types based on
a combination of four of the categories, leading to descriptions such as ISTP, ENFP, ESFJ, etc.
CHAPTER 1: INTRODUCTION
LEARNING OUTCOME(S):
Define personal development and personality development.
Compare and contrast personal development from personality development.
Discuss the areas of personal development.
Explain personal development of an adolescent.
DIRECTIONS: Answer the following in your own words (at least 5 sentences).
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ACTIVITY 2
Turn to the link https://www.essentiallifeskills.net/index.html and read: “Why Quick Fixes
Don’t Work in Personal Development” by Z. Hereford. Write your reaction about what you have
read.
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LEARNING OUTCOME(S):
Explain the meaning of self.
Understand themselves better.
Define and understand personality.
Identify the varied ways of assessing personality.
ACTIVITY 3
On a clean bond paper draw two masks: One representing what you look like on the
outside and the other depicting what you look like on the inside. The outside mask can include
how you think others perceive you.
Compiled/Prepared by:
EDILENE R. CRUZAT
Teacher
GRADE/SECTION: ______________________________________