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Giving Grace

The Checklist

Pay attention with interest and curiosity to those around you

Become curious about what you can learn from others

Notice judgmental thoughts about others and then let the

thoughts go

Giving up the desire to always be right

Practice being putting your full attention on another person

when in a conversation with them.

Letting go of the way things 'should be' and accepting the

reality of the way things are

Always be looking for the learnings you can take away

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The Girlfriend vs The Wife
Qualities And Behaviors

The Girlfriend
Dresses like a ho, flirtatiously, or in an
Not willing to get her hands dirty for a man. 

attention-grabbing way. Example, bright colors

and trendy/fashion-conscious. Needs to be noticed


In a moment when her man is emotionally

for what she’s wearing. 


unstable (example: mother’s death),

she is non-reactive or offers little or no support. 

Wears a lot of makeup - the makeup is noticeable,

it is not subtle. Eyebrows on fleek. 


Is friends with her ex, or not over her ex,

or has ex issues generally. 

Entertains/encourages/likes/plays up another

man’s advances. May attempt to make me jealous. 


Jokes, and talks about sex openly. 

Is on her phone when we’re together. 


May have a sarcastic sense of humor. 

Easily, or frequently posts and Sends selfies,


Argues, or causes drama. 

sexy pics, and/or sexts. 

Chemistry may be explosive, sex wise,


Has a tendency to complain. 
but there’s something off about the

connection. It’s performative, porny,

May have a tendency to brag. 


lacks intimacy and intensity. It may

be physically good enough, with enough

May negatively judge certain aspects of me or make


connection to keep me in the relationship

it clear that she does not accept me in some ways. 


for a very long time. 

The Wife
Dresses conservatively and modestly. 
Does not joke coarsely about sex, nor talk about

it in front of anyone but him. 

Natural look, makeup is toned way down 

Showing me that you’re Nervous is good; openly

Shuts down, ignores, or is alarmed/freaked out


showing shyness, bashfulness with me

/needs protection from another man’s advances. 


is also good. 

Not on her phone when she’s with him.


Uses sarcasm sparingly, is more likely to

Total focus is on him. 


laugh at my sarcasm than employ it herself.

Infrequent or nonexistent selfies,


Does not argue; does not cause drama.

sexy pics or sexting. (This is highly situational) 


Speaks her heart calmly and in a non

confrontational, submissive tone.

Actively sees the silver lining and the


This is a non negotiable. 

happiness in every situation. Doesn’t complain.

Does not brag. 


Doesn’t have any ex in the picture. 

Is open to all parts and aspects of knowing him.


I feel connected to her in bed. She’s teachable.

Can be trusted with the whole of who he is. 


There’s intimacy. I know she’s mine.

She gives herself to me. She’s my woman.

Doesn’t crack under pressure. Does what needs to be


She lets go. My touch is intense to her.

 done, when it needs to be done. May occasionally


My cock rocks her world. She cannot resist me

whine, need help, be needy, or dependent. 


and is blown away by me. Sex is explosive

because of chemistry. It is closeness, passion. 

Nurtures him through kind words and touch when

he is emotionally unstable. 

Copyright @ 2022 The Art of Wifery. All rights reserved.


The Girlfriend vs The Wife
Qualities And Behaviors

The Girlfriend
Dresses like a ho, flirtatiously, or in an

attention-grabbing way. Example, bright colors

and trendy/fashion-conscious. Needs to be noticed

for what she’s wearing. 

Wears a lot of makeup - the makeup is noticeable,

it is not subtle. Eyebrows on fleek. 

Has a tendency to complain. 

May have a tendency to brag.

Argues, or causes drama. 

The Wife
Dresses conservatively and modestly. 
 

Natural look, makeup is toned way down   

Actively sees the silver lining and the

happiness in every situation. Doesn’t complain.

Does not brag.

Copyright @ 2022 The Art of Wifery. All rights reserved.

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